This week, Scheana is joined by astrologer, reality TV personality, and fellow cat mom Ally Lewber. The two unpack Ally’s experience filming Netflix’s “Perfect Match” — from the surprising item production confiscated and potential match Jimmy’s “glow-up bangs,” to sharing her most intimate moments on camera and why she's hesitant to consider doing a dating show again.

They also dive into the complicated reality of supporting friends caught in toxic relationship cycles, using the recent SLOMW fallout between Taylor Frankie Paul and Mikayla Matthews as a jumping-off point for a surprisingly raw and emotional conversation about boundaries, enabling, and what actually helps someone leave for good. Ally opens up about why she’s now grateful certain moments from her past relationship played out so publicly, the support system that helped her through it, and her honest reaction to seeing headlines about her ex’s baby news.

Elsewhere, Scheana and Ally debate open relationships vs. throuples, whether they’d rather know WHEN or HOW they die, and why Brock once referred to Ally as a “Scientologist to the stars.” Plus, Scheana is not here for the Bravo blogger slander — in fact, she’s giving them their flowers this week. Tune in to find out why!

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