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Hello everybody. Welcome to our Team Tuesday. This week we have with us Mukhtar Kadiri. Hey, Mukhtar. Welcome back.
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Thank you, thank you for having me.
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So Tuesday is Team Tuesday, of course, here on the podcast. But before we dive into the team story, share with us, what's the book that most inspired you in your career as a Scrum Master?
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Yeah, so for me, in my project management career, I would say because I sort of stumbled into project management, I didn't really start by reading, right. So I started by just, I didn't, I was leading projects before I knew, you know, I was managing projects. So a lot of my knowledge came from hands on practical experience and just learning from mistakes. But then when I studied for the pmp, a lot of things that I knew became crystallized for me.
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Right.
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You know, like, you know, there were frameworks and methodologies, you know, associated with things that I sort of knew. So that was really helpful. Like, so I think I took my PMP maybe after seven years, you know, of leading projects. So prepare for the PMP was, was very helpful. And the book that really helped me then was the retail book, right? But later on I started to read more, you know, about Project manager. And one that really stands out to me is the HBR Harvard Business Review Project Management Handbook by Antonio Nieto. So why I really like that book is that I think a lot of project management books, like, I can read them and it's almost like I'm not really learning anything new. But this, I really like that there was substance to it, you know, so I really like that. And I really liked the breadth and also it also gave maybe different ways of just handling some common challenges in the project management world. So that would be my recommendation.
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Absolutely. And we'll put the link to all of those in the show, notes for people to go and check them out. Thank you for sharing that, Mukhtar. And of course now we turn our attention to the teams and how sometimes they become their own worst enemies. So we want you to tell us the story of a team, the context, so that we know what kind of project are they participating in, how big is the team, and then what? Walk us through how maybe some patterns or behaviors developed over time and became self destructive for the team.
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Yeah, so one project that comes to mind now was this particular project. We were working on cutting edge technology. This was in the software healthcare space. And you know, I don't want to share, you know, because of confidential reason, but basically this was, it was going to be like implementing a new technology in, in the software space. And this was in, in healthcare. So basically this team was moving along on this project, but they couldn't quite hit any of their milestones. It just felt like there was just a lot of chaos. So this team had a product manager, engineering team and the head of engineering, like, you know, like an architect, you know, leading the engineering, the engineering team. So, you know, this was supposed to be a team that was, I guess self sustaining but they couldn't quite hit their muscles. So they brought me in, I was a technical project manager then and they brought me in like, what's going. Just help us figure things out and just drive us to where we need to get to. So, you know, like I mentioned before, one of the first things is just meeting people one on one is the different stakeholders understanding like what's really going on, where do we want to be, what is the problem? And this one was particularly difficult because there was a lot of finger pointing, like you know, product pointing fingers or engineering, engineering, you know, and then, you know, or the product manager doesn't really know what they're doing, the engineering doesn't, you know. So anyway, met all these people and then started to formulate a plan for us to move forward.
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Right.
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But this was still early on, I wasn't quite sure because like sometimes it's just a lot of chaos. One of the first things that you just want to do is just have some structure. Okay, let's meet every week. That's progress. We're not even talking about the plan yet, but let's just have rituals, you know. But then in one meeting the head of engineering just burst out like he, he started yelling in a meeting like he was frustrated. And like I, it was, it was a bit shocking because like this was happening not, not in a one on one setting but in public, right. And then I was like, okay, this is probably one of the main reasons, you know. So I ended up speaking to him one on one and like, you know, what's, what's going on? And I up finding out that he was very frustrated that a lot of the team was depending on him because he is like, you know, you have these people in, in, in companies that they're very smart and a lot of things like their bottlenecks, a lot of things just depend on them, right? So this was just one project. He had other things, you know, that he was also. So he was just frustrated that the team was not, was too reliant on him and he ended up coming out in that way. So you know, I, in a one on one, I was like, okay, your name is on this project. Yelling is not going to help, right. So he ended up like leveling with me and sort of seeing that this is not the best way forward. Now long story short, he ended up trying to change his approach and everything and with that with him just really just trying to not lose it in, in the meeting like that just started to improve team morale, right? So in addition with now adding structure and people just feel like okay, we have this low hanging fruit, let's try and get there. And then that result in, in, in in momentum. And then, you know, so, so just that little thing like that was able to create momentum where it's like okay, I could take a step back and the team was now self sufficient. Now what I really learned from there is a lot of times the problem is not necessarily technical. So this was a cutting edge. Technology was complex, but the problem was really a human problem. People just felt like, all right, it's either I don't trust this person or I don't understand why this person is yelling at me and all of that. So just figuring out the problem, the human dynamics and the human problem that just sort of removed the obstacles and just make the project flow, if that makes sense.
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So that highlights one of the, one of my favorite let's call it project phrases. It's not only project, it's pretty much all kinds of large systems or large organizations phrase. And it goes like this. No matter how much how it may look at first, it's always a people problem. And your story is a great Reminder then when teams fail, whether they don't deliver or they just implode, self destruct, disappear, disband, that can also happen. It's always because of people. It's not because of technology. And sometimes it's because they can't even talk about what is the problem, right? Like this person, this story you just shared is a person that got driven to a point of so much frustration that they just had to explode because they, they were not, they had not been able to this point to express the fact that hey, this is too much on me. I can't take this team. Help me out, right? Like figure out how to take more ownership, how to unload some of this load that you're putting on my back. Right. And these days when you, when you work with teams, how do you try to kind of surface this? But it's called them forbidden topics, right? Like topics we can't talk about even if it's only implicitly so.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah. So that's why I'm a huge fan of one on one. So one of the things that I do when I start my project is that I have regular recurring one on one meetings. It could be 15 minutes every week like with, you know, and it varies in terms of frequency. With some people it's twice a week. With some people it's every week and some people it's every two weeks with. I try to do this with as many people as possible, you know, while still protecting my time and all of that. Because the one on ones, so many things. So not only do you get like, you know, for many topics, like you mentioned, things left unsaid in meetings, but it's also an avenue, it's like a venting like a lot of the pent up things that people can't say they get to release. It's like a pressure valve. Your one on one is a pressure valve that releases all so that it doesn't come and people don't explode in the meetings because like that sometimes can be irreparable.
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Right.
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You know, because you're going to affect the team overall. And once the group feels a certain way like that's, that's an uphill battle to reverse as opposed to dealing with things in a one on one. So for me one on ones are like, I swear by one on one.
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So yeah, it's almost like an early warning system. Right, right, right, right, right.
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And not only that, you also build trust. So it's not just, okay, let me just, let me just see what the status is. But because also another thing that I know we PMS face is resistance from like engineering and product. Like, you know, what value are you bringing?
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Yeah, this is all process bureaucracy.
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Exactly. Yeah. You know, like I just, I just want to do my job. I don't want to get any more meetings. But so one on ones really help with building like, you know, building that relationship. Because you can't, I mean, in a meeting, the more they see you. In a group meeting, the more they see you. Yes. The more that will become familiar and the more you will start like building a relationship with them. But with one on ones it's like you're accelerating that process. Right. So yeah, I really.
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One on one is a very, very useful approach to navigating all kinds of issues. So great recommendation.
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Podcast: Scrum Master Toolbox Podcast
Host: Vasco Duarte
Guest: Mukhtar Kadiri (Technical Project Manager, Scrum Master)
Episode Title: When the Smartest Person on the Team Becomes the Biggest Bottleneck — And Explodes in a Meeting
Release Date: May 12, 2026
Theme:
This episode dives into the dynamics of high-performing but dysfunctional Agile teams, specifically exploring what happens when a team’s “smartest” member becomes a bottleneck and how leadership and effective communication can shift destructive patterns into productive momentum. Mukhtar Kadiri shares a real-world story from his experience in the healthcare software industry, discussing human factors, team structure, the value of one-on-ones, and how trust is built (or broken) within Agile teams.
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Insight:
| Timestamp | Speaker | Quote/Insight | |-----------|---------|---------------| | 03:02 | Mukhtar | “HBR Project Management Handbook…gave different ways of just handling some common challenges.” | | 05:21 | Mukhtar | “The head of engineering just burst out. He started yelling in a meeting… it was a bit shocking.” | | 07:13 | Mukhtar | “The problem was really a human problem… figuring out the human dynamics just sort of removed the obstacles.” | | 07:40 | Vasco | “No matter how much how it may look at first, it’s always a people problem.” | | 09:44 | Mukhtar | “Your one-on-one is a pressure valve that releases all so it doesn’t come and people don’t explode in the meetings.” | | 10:40 | Mukhtar | “One-on-ones really help with building that relationship…you’re accelerating that process.” |
This episode is a powerful reminder that successful agile teams rely first and foremost on honest, empathetic communication—because every technical problem is, at its core, a people problem.