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Joe
First part is to remember that every entrepreneur are like idea perpetual motion machines, right? Constant idea, idea, idea, idea. When you're the second in command or a leadership team member. And so we have to teach our coos this skill is the COO needs to say to you, I love that idea. Let me ask you a few questions so I understand it even more. Let's just go for a quick walk around the building. Let me ask you five or six questions so I understand your idea, which for you would be great. It's kind of like a verbal walking impact filter. I take the impact filter the next level, though.
Cameron Herold
Welcome to the Second in Command podcast, produced by the COO alliance and brought to you by its founder, Cameron Herold. In the second in command podcast, we talk to top COOs who share the insights, strategies and tactics that made them the chief behind the chief. And now here's your host, Cameron Herald.
Joe
For many entrepreneurs, delegating and letting go is a massive challenge, especially for CEOs who are idea perpetual motion machines. I'll explain how COOs can manage these ideas by asking clarifying questions and evaluating ROI. The key, I believe, is ensuring CEOs have clear written roles to avoid seagull management. I'll highlight the inherent communication differences between CEOs and COOs often seen in Colby profiles and suggest using tools like ChatGPT for communication shortcuts. I strongly recommend specialized coaching for both roles to build stronger, more effective partnerships.
Russ
First the comment and then a question. So first comment. Absolutely, poach. I've been doing it for years and Joe can confirm this. I frequently say, let me be the asshole. You don't feel like doing it. That's my job. If you have all created an amazing company, an amazing organization, and invested time and effort into your people, I won't be able to steal them. So that's your job to do so. That was number one. My question first, Joe, you had said something where it was like, oh, I, I don't know whether or not I can let this go or how do I do that? That's my question for you. How do we get people like Joe who are thinking at a thousand miles a minute, who have all of these things and opportunities and how do we get them to cross that line and let go?
Joe
Okay, great, great question. So there's two parts to that. The first part is to remember that every entrepreneur are like idea perpetual motion machines, right? Constant idea, idea, idea, idea. When you're the second in command or a leadership team member. And so we have to teach our cos this Skill is the COO needs to say to you, I love that idea. Let me ask you a few questions so I understand it even more. Let's just go for a quick walk around the building. Let me ask you five or six questions so I understand your idea, which for you would be great. It's kind of like a verbal walking impact filter. I take the impact filter, the next level, though, I ask the ROI of it. How much people do we have to have involved in this? What's the ROI of that? How much money are we going to invest, or are you willing to invest? What's the ROI involved? How much time will this impact? What's the ROI involved in that? And then do we green light, yellow light, or red light the idea? So based on what I now know, do you want me to start it, meaning put it in the plan and bump something else, or should we park it and revisit next month or next quarter and decide if you can go into the plan? Or based on now, what we've now covered, can we kill it? Is it now red? So the starting point with stuff is to understand what they're really looking for. I like always telling them, I love your idea. The next part is, once I understand your ideas, I say, do you want to manage the idea or do you want me to manage it for you? They're always going to say, I want you to manage it for me. Great. So let me take it over. And it's making sure that they have clear roles and responsibilities. The problem for most entrepreneurs is they don't have a clear set of roles and responsibilities in writing. They don't have a clear set of projects that they're accountable for this quarter in this month. So what happens is they do seagull management, they swoop in, they shit all over everybody, and they fly away and they don't recognize that they're doing it. But if we can get the CEO, Joe or anybody else to commit to, here's my core projects for the quarter and for the month. Here's my core metrics. They won't have time to be managing all these random ideas, so they'll still have them. You'll save them, you'll trap them, and then they'll get back to the stuff they need to focus on. They won't want to be managing all the things because they know it'll bump their own projects. That's great. Thank you, Russ. Yeah, throw him a mic, please. If you want more leadership tips and systems from me, they're free at YouTube. Amronherald and that's H E R O L D.
Unknown
I want this to be a commercial. But Cameron did exactly that. They teach. So my COO has been with her.
Joe
Group about five, five years out.
Unknown
Five years. So transformed her, gave her a lot of skills like how to manage as crazy people in room. Um. Cause we're just out there. So they do talk about how do you manage or how do you, how do you work with your owner? Like he's like, what do they do? And so. And then just exactly that. I used to go to conferences doing this network. Come back, we've got 30 ideas. Here we go. Sit down. And what are we going to implement? She's just going to say, okay, I'm going to write them down, we're going to go through them, talk them over. What does this look like? Implement park stop or what are we doing with these?
Joe
Cool. Thank you. It's similar to the book. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, Men are not hairy versions of women. We see the world differently, we perceive things differently, we talk things, we communicate differently. The key is to understand how to communicate and collaborate and work together. It's the same with the COO and the CEO. Do you know that almost all of our COOs and we profile both the CEO and COO, almost all of our members have their Colby profile and their first two numbers are the highest. They're like an 8742. So they're a high fact finder or a high follow through, meaning they start projects by asking a lot of questions or by putting a playbook or a, you know, a checklist in place. Most of the CEOs of our members are high quick starts. They're a high third number, like 4393, meaning they start now and plan later. So the key is how do you get them to work together as a team? We figured out a really good hack by the way. We get all of our CEOs and their CEOs to come up with their Colby profile. Then we write it into ChatGPT and we go, okay, I have a CEO whose Colby profile is 4393. I have a COO whose Colby profile is 8742. How should they work together? How do they communicate? Give us the shortcuts. And ChatGPT literally dumps out an incredible one page plan that then you can use for your same page meetings, your one on one meetings, your coaching meetings. And then we also, we work with another genius network member, Dr. Patty Ann. Patty Ann literally coaches CEOs and COOs on building better relationships just on the communication because she works with high powered married couples. This is just a married power like a married relationship. So get that kind of coaching can help you too.
Cameron Herold
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Second in Command: Harnessing The Vision Storm – How To Manage CEOs With Clear Maps
Episode 499 of the "Second in Command" podcast, hosted by Cameron Herold and produced by the COO Alliance, delves into effective strategies for COOs to manage the relentless flow of ideas from CEOs. Released on August 5, 2025, this episode features insightful discussions on role clarity, communication techniques, and leveraging tools to enhance the COO-CEO partnership.
The episode kicks off with Joe addressing a common challenge faced by COOs: managing the incessant stream of ideas from CEOs, who are often described as "idea perpetual motion machines." Entrepreneurs thrive on generating new concepts, which can sometimes overwhelm their second-in-command.
Notable Quote:
Joe (00:00): "Every entrepreneur is like an idea perpetual motion machine, right? Constant idea, idea, idea, idea."
Joe emphasizes the importance of COOs developing the skill to effectively filter and assess these ideas. Instead of outright dismissing them, COOs should engage CEOs by asking clarifying questions to gain a deeper understanding.
Key Strategies:
Notable Quote:
Joe (01:40): "The key... is ensuring CEOs have clear written roles to avoid seagull management."
One of the critical points discussed is the necessity for clearly defined roles and responsibilities between the CEO and COO. Without this clarity, CEOs may inadvertently engage in "seagull management," where they swoop in, disrupt operations, and leave without contributing constructively.
Key Points:
Notable Quote:
Joe (02:29): "They won't have time to be managing all these random ideas, so they'll still have them... and then they'll get back to the stuff they need to focus on."
Russ joins the conversation to highlight the differences in communication styles between CEOs and COOs, often revealed through their Colby profiles. Understanding these differences is pivotal for effective collaboration.
Insights:
Notable Quote:
Joe (05:28): "We get all of our CEOs and their COOs to come up with their Colby profile... How should they work together? How do they communicate? Give us the shortcuts."
The episode underscores the value of specialized coaching in strengthening the CEO-COO relationship. Partnering with experts who understand high-powered relationships can lead to more effective communication and collaboration.
Recommendations:
Notable Quote:
Joe (05:28): "We also work with another genius network member, Dr. Patty Ann... This is just a married powerhouse relationship. So get that kind of coaching can help you too."
The discussion includes real-world examples of how these strategies have been successfully implemented. For instance, a COO recounts transforming her organization over five years by adopting these techniques, leading to enhanced management skills and better handling of CEO ideas.
Key Takeaways:
Notable Quote:
Joe (04:55): "She's just going to say, okay, I'm going to write them down, we're going to go through them, talk them over. What does this look like? Implement, park, stop or what are we doing with these?"
Cameron Herold wraps up the episode by reinforcing the importance of clear communication, role definition, and strategic idea management in the CEO-COO relationship. Listeners are encouraged to implement these strategies to become the effective "chief behind the chief" within their organizations.
Notable Quote:
Cameron Herold (07:05): "If you enjoyed this episode, please be sure to like, share and subscribe to us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and our other podcast streaming platforms."
Key Insights:
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