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Sex, Love & Money with Rebecca Antonucci
Hosted by Rebecca Antonucci · EN
Welcome to Your Life, and Welcome to Sex, Love & Money 💋
The Podcast for the woman who knows she’s meant for more, the woman who is done settling in love, intimacy and finances, and in who she allows herself to be.
This is your invitation to step into your next chapter, to own your woman, to embody your power and start living a life that feels truly meaningful and aligned.
No more settling for vanilla sex, no more choosing the almost good enough guy, no more staying in a career that doesn’t fulfil, no more looking at your bank balance and seeing only lack and limitation, no more sacrificing your dreams, and not giving a voice to your true desires, no more surface-level anything.
It’s our time for it all; all the pleasure, all the aliveness, all the fulfilment, all the abundance.
All of the Sex, Love & Money, that we all deserve.
Let’s Fucking Go.
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#198: Women Can't Teach Men How To Be Men (Kari & Jeddy Azuma)
May 2401:17:56Tap to summarizeYou've been told it happens when you least expect it.You've been told to do the work, heal your wounds, live your life, and he'll appear. And you've done all of that. And you're still waiting. And the ticking of that clock is getting louder.This episode isn't going to tell you to stop wanting it. It's going to show you what it actually takes to build it, and why so many people are struggling to get there.Jeddy and Kari Azuma have been married for 13 years. They met when she was 31 and ready, and he was 25 and looked like a pirate fresh off Burning Man. She took the risk anyway, not because he had the kingdom built, but because she could see the man he was becoming. That bet paid off in ways neither of them could have planned.In this episode, we get into all of it. Whether a woman can get a man ready for relationship. Why the entitlement women bring to dating is actually coming from protection, not selfishness. Why dating apps, pornography and ChatGPT breakup texts are quietly destroying our ability to actually relate. And what it means to play the long game when everything in modern culture is telling you to tap out.What we cover:Does a man need to build his kingdom before he's ready for love?Why your dating standards might be protecting you from the very thing you wantThe real reason good relationships are getting harder to find and keepHow to highlight a gap in your man without becoming his motherWhy holding the tension, not tapping out, is the actual skillTimestamps:00:00: Does a man need to build his kingdom before he's ready for love?13:03: Why women's entitlement in dating is really just protection in disguise21:05: The moment Kari realised she'd been showing up to love with a checklist27:29: Playing the long game: the season they almost lost each other33:58: Dating apps, pornography and ChatGPT breakup texts, what they're doing to us50:28: It happens when you least expect it, but what does that mean when you're ready now?Find Jeddy: @jeddyazuma on InstagramFind Kari: @kariazuma on InstagramConnect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci (http://www.instagram.com/rebecca.antonucci)Apply to work with us in Breakthrough School by booking your introductory call here. (https://calendly.com/annakrystyna/bridge-clarity-call-clone)
Transcribe →#197: Mitchell Vickridge: You Will Never Escape Pain and Pleasure
May 1701:35:02Tap to summarizeYou know that feeling when something goes wrong and your reaction is so extreme it scares even you?When you can't sleep, can't switch off, and every tool in your kit isn't touching it, and a voice in your head is telling you it's all their fault?It's not. And this episode is going to show you exactly why.Mitchell Vickridge is a clinical facilitator and one of the most grounding people I've ever sat across from. He specialises in pride and shame: two states most of us are oscillating between all day long without even knowing it. He spent three and a half hours helping me go from a state of extreme anger when my Austin podcast set did not go to plan, to actually understanding why what happened, happened. This episode is a window into that process.We get into the hidden order underneath your hardest moments, why the people who trigger you the most are actually your greatest teachers, and the one question that will dissolve almost any resentment you're holding right now. We also talk about why you keep chasing the same fantasy in love and money, and why the universe keeps withholding exactly what you want most.If you've been stuck in a loop you can't get out of, this is the episode that might finally break it.What we coverWhy your most extreme reactions are always about you, not themThe hidden order: how to find the gift in what hurt you mostWhy you're attracted to who you're attracted to (and what it's really about)How past pleasure is quietly sabotaging your love life right nowWhy the universe keeps withholding exactly what you wantTIMESTAMPS00:00: Why your biggest emotional reactions are always pointing back at you01:38: What pride and shame actually are, and why you're oscillating between them all day13:31: The hidden order: why the person who hurt you was actually your teacher19:33: The fantasy problem: why chasing what you want keeps pushing it away30:41: Past pleasure informs future fantasy, how old relationships wreck new ones43:37: How to actually value money in a way that sticksFind Mitch: @mitchellvickridge on Instagram. Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci (http://www.instagram.com/rebecca.antonucci)Apply to work with us in Breakthrough School by booking your introductory call here. (https://calendly.com/annakrystyna/bridge-clarity-call-clone)
Transcribe →#196: Vanilla Sex
May 1001:15:54Tap to summarizeYou've had great sex that left you feeling nothing.You've had a man who did everything right, and woken up emptier than before. You told yourself it was him. You moved on. You tried again. Same result, different man.It was never him. And it was never the act of intimacy. It was the absence of everything that needed to come first.Vanilla sex has nothing to do with what's happening in the bedroom. It's sex without roots. Sex without time. Sex without knowing someone, and being known back. And if you've been cycling through men wondering why nothing ever feels like enough, this episode is going to name something you've felt but never quite had the words for.I recorded this 48 hours after a real epiphany hit me mid-dating: live, unfiltered, and straight from Bali. I tell you the full story of the man I've been dating, the padel court where it started, the wine cellar date, the comedy show, the cup of tea that wasn't just a cup of tea, and the moment I caught myself about to do the exact thing I tell every woman not to do.Because the truth is: if you're using sex to try to feel something, no man will ever be able to give you what you're actually looking for. Time and time again you will be setting you and him up to fail. And the sooner we name that, the sooner everything changes.Raw, real, and recorded live in Bali two days after the epiphany hit. You're welcome.WHAT WE GET INTO— What vanilla sex actually is, and why it has nothing to do with the bedroom— Why the f*ck and chuck cycle is grief in disguise, not cruelty— The Healthy Man Starter Pack: how to tell if it's real or just an act— Why making him wait isn't about games, it's about you finding out the truth— The Bali dating story unfolding right now, live revelations and completely unfilteredTIMESTAMPS00:00: What vanilla sex actually is, and what it has nothing to do with01:20: Sex without roots: why connection can't be rushed into being07:25: The f*ck and chuck cycle isn't cruelty, it's grief22:17: The Healthy Man Starter Pack, how to know if it's real or an act29:36: Why dating too fast is setting you up to feel nothing54:05: Why no man will ever be able to give you what you're actually looking forConnect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci (http://www.instagram.com/rebecca.antonucci)Apply to work with us in Breakthrough School by booking your introductory call here. (https://calendly.com/annakrystyna/bridge-clarity-call-clone)
Transcribe →#172: How To Heal Heartbreak Through Your Nervous System with Salim Najjar
Nov 23Tap to summarizeWhat if heartbreak isn’t psychological, but physiological?Salim Najjar, engineer, HRV expert and creator of the A.R.T. of the Heart framework, explains how breakups imprint on your fascia, your breath, and your nervous system, and why intellectual insight won’t save you if your body is still bracing for impact.Expect to learn what heartbreak does to your stress response, why jealousy feels like inflammation, how HRV can reveal emotional patterns you can’t see, what actually regulates a dysregulated nervous system, what bankruptcy taught Salim about identity and freedom, how to train emotional resilience like an athlete, why sensitivity is a strength rather than a liability, and why presence (not money) is the real currency of a good life.Timestamps00:00 — Is heartbreak required for a full life?04:51 — The A.R.T. of the Heart08:26 — HRV, burnout and emotional data14:40 — Training resilience like an athlete18:43 — The accident, injury and slowing down21:21 — Letting go, bankruptcy and rebuilding33:33 — Choosing to rise after collapse37:53 — Tools for jealousy and anxiety41:09 — Sensitivity, masculinity and depth53:21 — Money, energy and living richer with lessConnect with Salim:Instagram: @thathrvguyDiscover your HRV Archetype and receive a Free HRV Guide tailored to you: https://thathrvguy.com/Connect with Me:Want to work with me? Click this link to book a connection call with my Head Coach and we’ll make it happen.Want to connect with me on socials? Say hi over on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci
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