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Welcome to Balance Black Girl. My name is Les. I am your host and I appreciate you tapping in. So on this podcast, I talk about all the things that we're balancing in life and how they contribute to our well being. Today's episode, I think is a pretty important one because I'm talking about the changes to make to your wellness routine in your 20s versus your 30s. So I first became interested in wellness at 21, and the things that I did at 21 to support my wellness are so drastically different than things that I Now do at 35. Currently 35. At the time that I'm putting out this episode for my wellness, I've had a lot of trial, I've had a lot of error, I've learned a lot of things the hard way. And I want to talk a little bit more about that because I know most of my audience is in our 20s and in our 30s, and I don't think that we talk enough about just the different changes to make to our wellness routines as we age and as we navigate life. And I think sometimes there's a sentiment that, oh, as you get older, everything falls apart. And yes, like our bodies do kind of become a little bit more maybe fragile over time, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. It means that we just have to care for them differently. And I want to talk a little bit more about what that means and what that looks like. And I also think that we get a little rigid and a little too set in our wellness routines. And we think that just because something worked for us for a time, that it has to work for us for forever. And the thing is, our bodies are changing all of the time. Every day we kind of wake up to a new body depending on where you're at in life, where you're at in your cycle. And so we have to be able to ebb and flow to give our bodies what they need during different points. And so I'm going to talk a little bit more about wellness in our 20s and things that I did in wellness in my 20s and then wellness in our 30s and things that I'm doing for wellness in my 30s, some of the similarities and some of the differences, so that no matter old you are, you're going to have something to take away from this episode. So let's get into it. On this podcast, I've talked about my wellness journey 10 Ways to Sunday. I've told the story about how I became interested in wellness in college so that I could get More energy at my internship. And it just became a habit that has stuck for me ever since. So I won't harp into all of that, but as I've gotten older, I have noticed that some of the things that worked for me at those points in my life just don't work for me anymore. And so I want to talk a little bit more about 20s wellness habits and then I want to talk about 30s wellness habits. So we're going to start off with our 20s wellness habits. Now, the thing about our 20s is I think that our 20s are a severely miss marketed decade. When we're in our 20s, there is all of this pressure that that is the pinnacle of adulthood, that that is supposed to be the best decade of our life, that we are supposed to have everything fig out. And if we have not successfully done everything that we intend to do by the time the clock strikes Midnight on our 30th birthday, we are a failure. That is not the truth. The reality of it is your 20s are your first decade of adulthood. Up until you reach your 20s, you are literally a giant child. When you are a teenager up until about the age of like 22, you are a. An overgrown child. And it's not really until 25 when that frontal lobe really develops that you truly start thinking and moving through life like more of an adult. And we gradually become more of an adult over time. But the thing that helps us become more of an adult is our lived experiences, is those challenges that we face is falling on our face is falling on our ass and figuring out how to get back up. So we beat ourselves up for a lot of the mistakes that we make in our twenties, but the mistakes that we make in our twenties are actually crucial to becoming a real adult because that is how you learn and that is how you know not to make the same mistake the next time. Ideally now, if you go around making the same mistake over and over, then sis, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know what we're doing. But your twenties are more so a decade for experimentation, learning what makes you tick and learning how the world works. And that applies to everything from social to relationships to work to your wellness. So when you are in your 20s, I don't necessarily think that you need a super strict, let's say workout and nutrition routine that is incredibly specific. I think your twenties are more so about figuring out how do I navigate wellness as an adult. For most people in their 20s, that is the first time they get a serious job. That is when they're starting to commute, that is when they are starting to live on their own for the first time. That is when they're entering more serious relationships. And so instead of focusing so much on prescriptive fitness or prescriptive nutrition during that time, let's say specifically you're like early to mid-20s when you're experiencing a lot of those firsts. I think what you need to focus on, wellness wise, during that time of your life is like, how do I keep moving? How do I get into a routine of prioritizing my wellness now that I have a new job? Or if I'm entering my first serious relationship? How can I still prioritize my wellness while also factoring in this person? Or how can I still factor in my wellness when I don't necessarily have my friends around me all the time like I maybe did in college or in school? And I'm figuring out this new normal of fitting together a social life and a work life and my wellness life. So I think your 20s, specifically the first half of your 20s, when you are like fresh into adulthood, is more so about making sure that you fit wellness into that puzzle and that you understand how to start kind of dancing with the various aspects of your life. So I don't care as much about what you're doing for movement in your early to mid-20s as I care about you just moving, whatever it is. So not having to be too prescriptive about how many strength days, how many cardio days, how many this, how many that you need to get into the habit of moving your body regularly as an adult and what that means for you from a routine standpoint. When I was in my 20s, this was something that I accidentally did, did really well, which I hadn't necessarily intended on it was I just spent a lot of practice refining my routine to figure out how to make working out specifically fit into my wellness life. So I tried working out at various different times of day. I would try to go after work, I would try to go before work, I would try to do these different things to figure out what worked for my schedule. And I ended up creating a routine where I had a really set night routine to set myself up for the next morning to make it really easy for me to wake up and go to the gym before work. And that was the routine that I followed for most of my 20s when I had really long commutes and just a lot of different factors in my life to tend to. So it wasn't necessarily about what were the workouts I was Doing it was about establishing the practice of moving my body regularly. And I was able to ebb and flow and do different types of workouts and different types of things all throughout my 20s and into my 30s. But what was most important was that I established the habit of doing it. I established the habit of working out regularly. I learned how to manage my time to be able to fit in a workout and a commute and a job and, you know, friends and boyfriends. And it was more so just figuring out that dance of how do I fit all of these things in? So I figured out routines to make those things work for me. So I think Your early to mid-20s are really all about you figuring out your new normal as an adult who prioritizes your wellness and your fitness.
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