In this episode of Shot At Love, host Kerry Brett sits down with author Neil Rogers to explore how the lessons learned behind a bar can transform the way we approach dating, relationships, and connection. Neil shares how decades in the hospitality world taught him that dating, like bartending, is ultimately a people business. From the power of first impressions and the importance of showing up prepared, to listening more than you speak and treating others with respect, this conversation breaks down why the smallest actions often make the biggest impact. Together, Kerry and Neil discuss how transferable skills like punctuality, kindness, reading the room, and meeting people where they are can dramatically improve dating experiences. They explore why being “right” is overrated, why connection without agenda builds trust, and how compassion and authenticity create real attraction. The episode also takes a deeper look at modern dating challenges including loneliness, ghosting, and d...