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When we close our eyes at night, we expect rest, safety, the comfort of slipping into dreams. But what happens when those dreams bleed into reality? What if in the vulnerable space between sleep and waking, something else is waiting? Something ancient, patient, and watching from the shadows right at the edge of your bed. Welcome to Sightings, the series that takes you inside the world's most mysterious supernatural events. Each episode brings you a thrilling story that puts you at the center of the action, followed by a discussion that dives into the accounts that inspired the story and our takes on them. I'm McLeod.
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Okay, I've never used this voice memo app on my phone, but the little wavy forms are moving, so looks good. Cool. I feel like I'm doing like a dating profile. Hi, I'm Marcus. I'm 32, a musician, recently single, new to the city, poor as dirt. And yeah, I just sunk about everything I had into the deposit in first month's rent on this apartment. A real catch. I don't usually talk to my phone at. Oh gosh, what is it? 3:47am but something weird happened just now and I don't know if it's a medical thing or a sleep thing or a screwed up dream thing or what, but my buddy Jake said that he had some issues a while back kind of like this, and he kept voice memos to track patterns or to process or whatever. And yeah, I. I definitely need to process. So I Woke up maybe 10 minutes ago, just boom, wide awake. But the thing was, I couldn't move, like, at all. Not a finger, not a toe, Nothing except my eyes. And I'm lying there and my room has these big old windows and the moon's almost full, so I mean, I could see everything perfectly. But again, I couldn't move, which was weird. So as I'm lying there trying to will my body to do something, I got this. I don't know, I got this overwhelming feeling I was being watched. It's hard to describe, I guess you could say it was like this pressure in the air or something. But a definite feeling that I was very much not alone. And I mean, I tried to rationalize it. Maybe I was just dreaming or something. But then there was this sound and it. Well, it was this shuffling sound, almost soft, light fabric dragging on the floor, maybe like somebody in some bunny slippers creeping around my room. And my eyes were mo. They were still the only things that I could move. But I mean, there was nothing there. Nothing I could see anyway. But then. And this is where it all gets really messed up. I caught something in my peripheral vision. It was by the doorway to the bedroom. Like a super dark shadow, I think. But when I moved my eyes to look at it, there was just an empty door. Kind of like floaters in your eyes. You try and look at them, but they just keep dancing away as you try to catch them. That feeling, though, it wasn't just fear. I mean, I've been scared before, but this was like dread. Pure dread. Like it had been injected straight into my veins. And then all of a sudden, there it was. I could move again. I sat up gasping and I ran to the door. Checked the apartment. Nothing. Everything was locked. Everything was fine. But I still have that feeling. And yeah, I know it doesn't make any sense. Maybe it was just sleep paralysis. I've heard of that. I guess. Jake mentioned it once. He heard about it on some podcast. He said it's where your body's still in sleep mode, but your brain wakes up and you hallucinate. It's never happened to me before, but I guess there's a first time for everything. Hopefully the last. I don't know, maybe just stress from the move or sleeping alone after years with someone next to me. That's right, ladies. I'm a sad sack who just got dumped. I bet that's it. It's. Wait, there's something. There it is. That's shuffling. I don't know.
Brian Sigley
Nothing.
McLeod Andrews
I didn't see anything. Just this whole building settling, I guess. I hope this is stupid. Just a one time thing. I just need to sleep, that's all. Okay, so it wasn't a one time thing. It's. Sorry. Just need to catch my breath. It's 4:17am A couple nights since my last voice memo. And it happened again tonight. Same thing. Woke up paralyzed with that same feeling of being watched. But this time, when I heard that shuffling and I heard it, I know I did try to really listen instead of. Look, it wasn't footsteps. It Wasn't. Mice were settling. Honestly, it was like I was like nothing I could possibly identify with something else. And I was lying there, trying to will my body to move again when I saw that same shadow out of the corner of my eye. But this time, this time when I looked to the doorway, there was something there. A figure. Tall. Standing right in my doorway. Like, had to be like 7ft tall, 8ft tall. I don't know. And it was dark. Not like shadows are dark. This was darker than that. Like the shape of a person made out of nothing. And even though I couldn't make anything out other than the just pure black, I knew it was watching me. Didn't see any eyes, but I just knew. I felt it watching me. And I tried to scream. I tried so hard to scream, to move, to do anything. But I had to just lay there while this thing stood there watching. And then it took one big step forward toward my bed. And then, thank the ever loving whatever, it just vanished. And like snapping out of a trance, I could suddenly move again. And I sat up so fast I almost fell out of bed. I've been trying to find a way to explain this. I know sleep paralysis can cause hallucinations. I looked it up. But who? Boy, this felt so real. And that thing, that shadow thing, it was so clear, like, so defined. Not like a dream at all. I've had dreams all my life. This was not that. I don't know, maybe I should just start sleeping with the lights on. Or maybe I should find somewhere else to stay. But I just moved here. I have no friends, no money. Holler at me, girls. Shit. Oh, I'm being ridiculous. There's nothing in my apartment. Or, shit, what if there is? What up? It's your boy Marcus. It's still happening. Three more nights now. Same thing every time I wake up. Paralyzed. But that figure. It's getting closer. First night after my last memo, I woke up and it was at the foot of my bed. Just standing there. That same crazy, impossible darkness. Same feeling of dread. The second night, it was beside the bed, halfway between the head and foot. And I could smell was something so strange, like dust or opening a room that's been closed for decades. And tonight it was right next to me. Like, right there. Right by my head, looming over me. And even though I was right next to it, I still couldn't make out any details at all. Not one. And then it leaned closer to me, like it was examining me or like it wanted to whisper something in my ear. And I felt this pressure on My chest, like real physical pressure, like something, it just sat on me. And I felt this weird, like, low frequency hum that rattled through me and made my teeth ache. And I just. I couldn't breathe. And I seriously thought I was going to die. And then just all of a sudden, it stopped. The thing vanished. I could move again, and I gasped for air like I'd been drowning. So, yeah, great. New life in the city. Oh. I set up my recording mics to see if I could catch any sounds in the night, but nothing. None of that shuffling that I hear or footsteps or anything. Just silence or, I mean, you know, normal city sounds. And then my panicked breathing. When I wake up, I know how this will sound to anybody who ever listens to this. Hopefully no one ever. But I found others online who have been experiencing something similar. Mostly Reddit people. But I mean it when I say their stories line up almost exactly with mine. Shadow figure getting closer. Except most of them say they can see the shape of a hat on the thing's head. I don't know, it's weirdly spooky. A hat. Such a weird detail. That must be why they all took to calling it the Hat Man. I don't. I don't think mine has a hat, though. I mean, I hope mine doesn't. I don't know why that makes it so much scarier, because, I mean, these people who have had these encounters, they start. They start off confused and scared, just like me, but then they get more desperate, fragmented, and then. And then they just stop posting. Like, like they vanished or died or. I don't know. Oh, what the hell? That sounded like it came from under my bed, but nope, I'm not looking. I'm not looking. I'm not freaking looking. I'm counting to three and then I'm running and I don't know if I'm ever coming back and I don't care. So. 1, 2, 3. Bye, limu emu and Doug. Here we have the Limu Emu in its natural habitat, helping people customize their car insurance and save hundreds with Liberty Mutual. Fascinating. It's accompanied by his natural ally, Doug.
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Rules and restrictions apply. Testing, testing. One, two, three. Hello, ladies and gentlemen. It's 3:33am and I'm in my car, just sitting in the dark in some convenience store parking lot. And I. God, I don't even. I don't even know how many days it's been. Three, four times. All just mushed together, blurred, you know what I mean? Like when you've just been up for so dang, dang, dang, dang long. I've been awake this whole time. I think, oh, my eyes are burning and they're crusty and. Oh, right. What happened? I left the apartment that night last time I talked to this, my phone and you, whoever, and I just drove around the city until the sun came up. And then I drove some more and as the sun started going down again, I thought about a hotel, but I can't. I've got like $47 in my checking account until my next gig Friday, if I can even play. I mean, my hands keep shaking. So I went back to the apartment. I mean, and I went back because where else am I gonna go? But I didn't let myself sleep. So I've just been pounding coffee and energy drinks and I started watching Friends from the very, very beginning. And I'm on season eight now, so that' three days, right? Four. Yeah, four. Whoa. Point is, Rachel is pregnant now and everything else is blurring. But I was awake, dammit, I was awake. And I know I was awake because it happened again. And I wasn't even sleeping. I was on the couch, lights on, TV going. And I saw it. Movement in the kitchen, just this shape. My old friend standing there between the fridge and counter, standing there, watching me. And I tried to get up and run, but I couldn't move. I mean, I couldn't move even though I was awake. And. Yeah, so I guess this wasn't sleep paralysis because I was awake and Ross was saying something about dinosaurs and I knew I was there, but my body just stopped, like it had been switched off. And then the thing stepped out of the kitchen all slow and stuff. And this time with the lights on, I could see its outline better. Like the shape of it, you know? And there was definitely this ridge around the head, like. Like a brim. Yeah. A hat. He was wearing a hat. And it made it so much worse. I'm serious. Why the hat? Why does it make it so much worse? I've been awake too long and. Yeah, so this thing, he just kept moving until it was right next to the couch, right next to me. And I could smell that stupid same dust smell, but like, worse. Like rotten or old sweat, just gross, gross, gross. And then it reached out and its arm was so long, like impossible. And it pointed at me. And all that dread I've been feeling, that wasn't just a feeling anymore. It was like a message, like a warning. And even though it wasn't in words, I knew what it was saying. And it was saying, buddy, this is going to get worse. And then it was gone. And I could suddenly move again. And I ran. I ran right to my car. And I've been here since. Afraid to go back, afraid to even close my eyes. Because, you know, what if. I mean, what if it can find me? What if running doesn't matter? I. Oh, God. I just keep thinking about those Reddit posts. The people who just stopped posting, stopped everything. Maybe.
Brian Sigley
Shit.
McLeod Andrews
My phone's starting to run low on battery and I would go home and charge it, but I can't. And the dude in the convenience store doesn't have the right dongle or whatever to fit my phone, so. Well, I'm not going back. Maybe I'll just sleep in the car, just for a few hours, just until the sun comes up. Because I should not drive like this. Oh, my God. What if it doesn't matter? What if daylight doesn't mean anything to it? What if it's already too late? It's. God, I don't even know what time it is. I don't think it matters. My phone says 3:55am but time isn't. Whatever, it's not working right anymore. I'm in a motel bathroom. Starlight inn off Route 9 or 72. I don't know, I don't care. But, yeah, I caved. The room's $42 a night. Which means I have not a lot left. But after my last recording, I sat in the parking lot until security knocked on my window. And even though I know I was awake, I didn't see them coming. So I drove to another lot, then another. But the exhaustion, it was just. Let's just say I wasn't in tip top shape. So I came here, went to an atm, pulled it all, figuring a terrible motel bed was better than my car. So, so wrong. I must have passed out the second I hit the mattress. Slept for what, hours? It was light when I went down, but it's dark now, so of course I woke up to find it standing over me. Not across the room or at the foot of my bed, but right there. Right over me. Its face, or. I don't know, that void where a face should be, was literally inches from mine. It was so close, I could feel the cold radiating off of it like an open freezer. But this time, I wasn't paralyzed. I don't know why. Maybe its powers were stronger in the apartment. But whatever the reason, I rolled sideways, fell off the bed and ran like hell towards the nearest door. And I knew the thing was following me faster than I'd seen it move before. But I made it through the door and slammed it shut. And I realized I hadn't gone through the main door. I'd gone through a bathroom door. Stupid bathroom. And I was stuck. And I am stuck. And bang. It was pounding in the door, rattling the handle. Bang. Just bang, bang, bang. Too many to count. Like it was trying to break through until nothing. That was 20 minutes ago. Maybe. Maybe 30. But I can still hear it out there, that shuffling sound. I hear you. It's moving around the room and just touching all my stuff, I guess. And there's something else now. Whispers like it brought a buddy along, but I can't make out the words. Maybe it's just. Maybe it's just the sound my brain makes. I don't know. My phone was luckily in my pocket when I ran, but its battery is at 4% and I've got no signal. These walls must be concrete. Or whatever's out there doesn't want me to call for help. That's crazy, isn't it? I sound crazy and I know it. Maybe I am crazy. I don't know. But I just need some help right now. I know what I saw. I just need proof. Yeah, proof. Otherwise, I'm just an insane dude laying in the bathtub talking to his phone at 4 in the morning. So I've been on video. Because if I can record this thing, then I know it's not in my head. So I need a plan. A plan. The plan. Okay. Okay. I'm.
Brian Sigley
I'm.
McLeod Andrews
I'm gonna open the door, I'm gonna point my camera at whatever's out there, and then I'm just gonna run. And depending on what the camera gets, determines what. What. What. What happens next. I don't know. Whoa, wait. The whisper stopped. It's. Is that a bad thing? Okay, I'm getting up. Here's the doorknob. Oh, God.
Brian Sigley
Oh, God.
McLeod Andrews
It's right there. It's looking right at.
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Welcome back to Sightings, everybody.
Brian Sigley
Have you not slept?
McLeod Andrews
I am exhausted, Brian. Just the idea of this has terrified me and exhausted me. I don't even know where to begin. There's so much because this is a thing, sleep entities, sleep paralysis, that I think most of us are probably aware of or have heard something about this before. And I know there's, like, ancient examples of demons who haunt people's sleep, but also just. I think a lot of us have probably experienced something in the vein of this. All of us sleep, all of us dream, all of us have questioned whether we're fully awake and kind of awoken into a dream. I know, I've had an experience only once of sleep paralysis.
Brian Sigley
Did anything happen during it?
McLeod Andrews
No, I was just. I was like on a road trip. I was in middle school. I think I was like 13 or something. And we were on a road trip and stopped at a rest stop for, I don't know, to rest. And I did. I could hear everybody returning to the car and I knew that it was time to wake up and, like, I could hear everybody, but I just couldn't move. I couldn't do it. I couldn't, like, I couldn't control my body. Like, I just.
Brian Sigley
And I'm sure that's terrifying.
McLeod Andrews
Yeah, yeah, it wasn't great. How about you? Have you. Have you ever had a sleep paralysis experience?
Brian Sigley
I've not had sleep paralysis, but I did wake up one night and there was something sitting at the foot of my bed.
McLeod Andrews
Oh, wow. But you could move. What did you do?
Brian Sigley
I freaked out and tried to scream and I couldn't really scream. And then, you know, I think I looked away and I looked back and it wasn't there anymore. So it might have been like a residual dream kind of scape happening. Right. But it was definitely a little bit traumatizing. And I, you know, I had a nightlight for a while.
McLeod Andrews
Yeah, I don't blame you. Oh, so this. Is this a real account or is it based on somebody's specific account?
Brian Sigley
No, I kind of amalgamated a whole bunch of different accounts of people who have experienced sleep paralysis, experienced the hat man, which we're going to talk about, and also experienced just other sleep entities, because there's a whole crowd of them out there, basically, who allegedly appear when you're asleep.
McLeod Andrews
Yeah.
Brian Sigley
And, you know, I really wanted to make it really visceral and raw for this particular story.
McLeod Andrews
Well, you definitely accomplished that.
Brian Sigley
So, yeah, as you mentioned already, like, sleep paralysis and these sleep entities in general are not a new thing. It's very real. And it was first written about, at least that we've discovered in the 10th century in Persia. And then again, it was the next mention of it that we found is in 1664 by this Dutch physician who. He didn't call it sleep paralysis. That didn't become a thing until like the 20th century. But he called it incubus.
McLeod Andrews
Okay.
Brian Sigley
Which I guess means the nightmare, not.
McLeod Andrews
The band, which is not the band.
Brian Sigley
Yes. But moving to the modern day, you know, modern day science, you know, when they first realized this was kind of a thing, they thought it might be the side effect of narcolepsy.
McLeod Andrews
Right.
Brian Sigley
But studies suggest that some 30% of people suffer from sleep paralysis at least once during their lives.
McLeod Andrews
I'm in that. I'm in that, I guess.
Brian Sigley
Yeah, yeah. I'm not, but I. I'm in the other percent that experiences an entity sleeping, sitting on their bed. Yeah, but. But scientifically, I guess, or sleep wise, what's happening is this. So during sleep, we go through a bunch of different stages, and one of those is REM sleep, which is rapid eye movement sleep. And that's the sleep where our brain is most active in producing dreams, basically. And during that time, our body naturally paralyzes itself so that we don't act out what's happening in our dreams, basically. But every once in a while, people can wake up and even though they're conscious, their body just didn't get the memo and they get stuck in this paralysis mode, basically. Alternately, I guess you can kind of wake up and be halfway between sleep and waking and have these wild hallucinations.
McLeod Andrews
Sure.
Brian Sigley
Which might explain what we're dealing with here. It might not. We'll see. But this is where it gets really weird. So we've established that this happens to a lot of people, but for at least a handful of them, they see shadowy figures while they're frozen in bed. And usually these figures take on, no matter the culture, no matter the time period, they take on the same basic gist. They're usually pitch black, shadowy, almost kind of fuzzy. You can't make out the details on them. And a number of people who encounter these things also recall the same kind of smell, which is like this dusty, sweaty odor. And this experience of seeing this thing either in the corner of their vision, or it's moving closer to them, or it's sitting at the foot of their bed, or it's looming right over them. This goes on until they're able to move their body in some way, and then all of it suddenly vanishes. So whatever this thing is, it seems to be global, it seems to be ancient, and it has a whole lot of names.
McLeod Andrews
When did the fedora come into play?
Brian Sigley
We'll get there. That's a distinctly modern phenomena. But. But heading back, way back in time, we've got ancient stories of the Succubus and the Incubus. Those are nocturnal spirits that do things to men and women that we won't go into on this show. Oh, sure, because we're a family podcast. But the old Norse spoke of a demon called the Mara, which was said to ride on people's chests in the night and cause bad dreams. And interestingly the Mara is half of the old German word nachtmar, which means nightmare. In other kind of more Middle Eastern cultures, it's a jinn.
McLeod Andrews
Right.
Brian Sigley
There's also a relatively more modern famous one from Newfoundland, Canada, which is called the Old Hag. It attacks people in their sleep, and it tries to smother them, usually by, like, people experiencing this intense pressure on their chest. They can't breathe, or they can feel hands, like, clasping around their necks.
McLeod Andrews
Yikes.
Brian Sigley
And then, of course, we have the more modern accounts, like the Hat man, which you just asked about. And if one hatman isn't scary enough, oftentimes it is flanked by two shadow companions.
McLeod Andrews
Oh, good. Oh, good.
Brian Sigley
Yeah. So the Hat man himself is a pretty modern entity. It seems like he kind of popped up in the 2000s, kind of. So whether or not that's kind of Internet lore, we might know. But it is interesting to note that the Djinn that I mentioned is often described as wearing a hat.
McLeod Andrews
Oh.
Brian Sigley
And apparently, if you can eventually move and snatch the hat away from him, you win a reward.
McLeod Andrews
Oh, I like the game show aspect of this horrifying tale. That's much nicer. I like this version.
Brian Sigley
They make it fun. Yes. Yes, let's. So I guess the point is, like, these things are everywhere in human history, and generally speaking, they have a lot of similarities. Kind of dark, shadowy figures, generally, like, sitting on your chest, a feeling of dread suffocating you. Things like that. Which, for me, raises a pretty big question, which is, like, we have all these people isolated from one another in various points in history who all kind of have the same basic story or experience. What do you make of that?
McLeod Andrews
Well, I suppose one possible thing that comes to mind is if it's so universal and multiple cultures have variations on this, it's possible that indicates it's a just natural, biological human phenomenon that gets described in different. Through the lens of different cultures.
Brian Sigley
Yes.
McLeod Andrews
That, like, for one, it's a succubus. For one, it's a hag. For one, it's a hat Man. But it all kind of gets pushed through specific cultural lenses that, like, reinforce the experience.
Brian Sigley
Yeah. Valid. Or to play devil's advocate here, please.
McLeod Andrews
It is the season.
Brian Sigley
Oh, yes. There is an entity that is global, is. You know, it's like Santa, but for your dreams.
McLeod Andrews
Yeah. And the reason it manifests differently across cultures is that there's some core of this entity that is beyond our sort of sensory ability to understand.
Brian Sigley
I'm inclined to side with your version of this, which is that there's some biological process. I mean, everyone sleeps. Everyone has nightmares. Everyone has weird sleep experiences. And I think it's kind of natural that in the dark, you see dark, shadowy things.
McLeod Andrews
Especially our minds are incredibly powerful at storytelling, like, at filling in the gaps. When something is wrong, your brain just starts filling in the gaps, saying, like, okay, there must be a cause for the fact that you can't move. And then it, you know, paints a picture.
Brian Sigley
But chew on this for a moment, if you will.
McLeod Andrews
Sure.
Brian Sigley
So in the 1980s, there was this community of Southeast Asian refugees here in America. There was a bunch of healthy men who just started dying in their sleep. And doctors had no idea what was going on, could find no common denominator among these people. What they did find was that there was a disproportionate number of them that had some kind of syndrome that caused abnormal heart rhythms.
McLeod Andrews
Okay.
Brian Sigley
But still, it had no explanation for why dozens and dozens and dozens of these men were just dying at night for no apparent reason. But there was this one UCLA researcher who heard about this and is like, I want to get to the bottom of this. She started talking to the surviving ref refugees, and all she heard were stories about an entity that was apparently killing the men, which was something called a dachau, which apparently in Hmong means night spirit. And ultimately, the CDC determined that 117 men died in the night during this one or two year period in the 1980s from completely unexplained causes.
McLeod Andrews
Supernatural explanations aside, that's terrifying.
Brian Sigley
It is indeed. But. But let's come back to our supernatural explanations here, and our hat men and our old hags and things like that. Is there.
McLeod Andrews
I mean, I would love to hear a more kind of in depth, nuanced theory.
Brian Sigley
I don't have any real supernatural ones that are like, this is what people posit. It is. Other than it is the hat man or it is the old hag or something like that. But there are some kind of cultural things that I think could be explaining what some of this. How some of this might have taken hold, at least in a modern sense. So remember how I said that the hat man is kind of a modern phenomenon? It kind of first popped up in the late 2000s. So is this a modern Internet phenomena? I'm not sure. But it is worth noting that even though there have been reports of shadow entities and sleep paralysis and these kind of creepy bumps in the night forever and ever, basically, it really kind of blew up, at least on the Internet, in starting in 2001, when there was a Show on the radio called coast to coast am, which was hosted by Art Bell, which explored everything from Bigfoot to aliens to things like that. And they started doing a whole bunch of episodes about shadow people in 2001 and asked people to submit their drawings of what these things look like. And I think based on all of that, it kind of took hold in public consciousness in a way that it hadn't quite as much before. And did that give birth to the Hat Man? I don't know. But the one thing about the Hat man that gives me pause is, like I mentioned earlier, that old Middle Eastern lore about it having a hat and stealing it, you know, is kind of compelling to me. But I think there is one kind of shadow looming over this whole lore.
McLeod Andrews
I really like what you're doing right now.
Brian Sigley
The words just pour forth from me. But that shadow is the movie series, Nightmare on Elm Street.
McLeod Andrews
I see the connections.
Brian Sigley
Yeah. So, you know, that is a movie series about Freddy Krueger.
McLeod Andrews
It's pretty scary.
Brian Sigley
I honestly, I have to admit, I don't think I've ever seen any of these movies.
McLeod Andrews
Yeah, exactly.
Brian Sigley
But to my knowledge, he hunts people in their sleep or in their dreams. But it is worth noting that probably aside from the clawed hands and the face, one of the most distincting features of Freddy Krueger is the fedora that he wears. Oh, so the fedora is the Hat Man. Kind of a translation of modern pop culture in that way.
McLeod Andrews
Freddy Krueger.
Brian Sigley
Yeah. And then, of course, the other explanation is this is a real entity. These people are seeing something real. And fear for your lives, everyone you know.
McLeod Andrews
So, you know, no matter the origins of this, whether it's natural or supernatural, I think I'm really excited to read the comments on this episode because I imagine probably a lot of our listeners have maybe had their own experiences with stuff like this, or at least know people who have had experiences like this. And again, regardless of whether it's a natural phenomenon or a supernatural phenomenon, it's terrifying.
Brian Sigley
Absolutely.
McLeod Andrews
Absolutely horrifying.
Brian Sigley
I hope to never meet the Hat man myself. But as McCloud mentioned, listeners, if you have seen the Hat man, if you have seen the old hag, if you have seen the Mara or any of these other things sitting on your chest, choking you in the night, standing in the corner of your room, please tell us about them, because we would love to hear about that. Hit us up on Instagram, itingspod, or leave us a comment on Spotify. We have a very large flourishing community of commenters on Spotify who Love chatting about this stuff. So please go there, check it out, and let us know what you think or what you've experienced.
McLeod Andrews
All right, without further ado, Brian, where are we going to next in this, our spooky season?
Brian Sigley
Well, we are getting closer and closer to Halloween.
McLeod Andrews
Can I say something real quick about Halloween and why I love it so much and why I think it's one of our best holidays is unlike. Thanksgiving is also great. You gather your family together and you all hang out, you get each other gifts. But like, Halloween is like the one holiday where you go out and you share with strangers, where you go and meet your neighbors and you experience generosity from all your neighbors all around you and you, you know, reciprocate. And that's why I love it. It's one of the most community based holidays that we have in America anyway.
Brian Sigley
That is so endearing and makes my reason that I like Halloween sound horrible.
McLeod Andrews
I like candy.
Brian Sigley
I like candy.
McLeod Andrews
Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait. Brian, what is your. What is your. What is your favorite Halloween candy?
Brian Sigley
Well, this is tough. Cause I was allergic to chocolate and peanuts until I was like 12 or 13 or 14.
McLeod Andrews
Oh, you dear, dear person. I'm so sorry.
Brian Sigley
But I'm not gonna lie. I really do like, like Reese's peanut butter.
McLeod Andrews
They're so good.
Brian Sigley
You know, I like the Reese's Pieces. You know, the ones that were in E.T. they're the best.
McLeod Andrews
Yeah, I always just wished I was having an actual Reese's peanut butter cup, though. I was like, I'd be like, okay, this can get me through the night, but I want my peanut butter cup.
Brian Sigley
That's valid. I do think those are my favorite candy. But yet the reason I love Halloween is it's scary. You know, like, I love the scary movies. I love the, you know, I love those kind of things. I love, you know, that feeling of apprehension that comes with the season.
McLeod Andrews
It makes you feel alive.
Brian Sigley
Absolutely. I think that's what it is. But for next week, we are going to tackle one of the most infamous Halloween stories out there. We're heading to a small town in New York.
McLeod Andrews
Small town, like a sleepy little village.
Brian Sigley
Oh, gosh. You didn't hear that, listeners. We're heading somewhere. It's going to be a cool story with a lot of history that hopefully most of you didn't know. But it's the ultimate Halloween episode. I hope you're super excited because I know I am. But see you next week, same time, same place. Right here on Sight Sightings is hosted by McLeod Andrews and Brian Sigley produced by Brian Sigley, Chase Kinzer and McLeod Andrews written by Brian Sigley music by Mitch Bain mixing and mastering by Pat Kleiter of Sundial Media artwork by Nuno Cernatos. For a list of this episode's sources, check out our website website@sightings podcast.com Sightings is presented by Reverb and Q Code. If you like the show, be sure to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform so you're first to hear new episodes every week. And if you know other Supernatural fans, tell them about us. We'd really appreciate it.
Podcast: Sightings (REVERB | QCODE)
Episode Date: October 13, 2025
Hosts: McLeod Andrews & Brian Sigley
This haunting episode of Sightings delves into the terrifying phenomenon of sleep paralysis and the global folklore surrounding "sleep entities," focusing specifically on the ominous figure known as the "Hat Man." Inspired by real accounts and internet lore, the show blends a chilling dramatized story with a thoughtful, research-driven discussion on the intersection of supernatural myth and neurological reality. Prepare for an in-depth journey from folklore to the science of nightmares—and the unnerving question: Are the shadowy figures we see at night just our brains' creations, or something else entirely?
[04:31–27:22]
“It wasn't just fear... it was like dread. Pure dread. Like it had been injected straight into my veins.” — Marcus ([06:05])
“A number of people who encounter these things also recall the same kind of smell... like this dusty, sweaty odor.” — Brian Sigley ([33:10])
“My phone's at 4%... these walls must be concrete, or whatever's out there doesn't want me to call for help. That's crazy, isn't it? I sound crazy and I know it. Maybe I am crazy. I don't know. But I just need some help right now.” — Marcus ([25:24])
“I’m gonna open the door, I’m gonna point my camera at whatever’s out there, and then I’m just gonna run...” — Marcus ([26:39–27:18])
[28:36–44:17]
“During that time, our body naturally paralyzes itself so that we don't act out what's happening in our dreams. But... people can wake up... their body just didn't get the memo...” — Brian ([31:32])
“If it's so universal and multiple cultures have variations on this, it's possible that indicates it's just a natural, biological human phenomenon that gets described... through the lens of different cultures.” — McLeod ([36:21])
“Honestly, I have to admit, I don't think I've ever seen any of these movies. But... one of the most distincting features of Freddy Krueger is the fedora that he wears. So the fedora is the Hat Man.” — Brian ([40:45])
“Supernatural explanations aside, that's terrifying.” — McLeod ([38:31])
“We have all these people... in various points in history who all kind of have the same basic story or experience. What do you make of that?” — Brian ([35:21])
[42:31–44:17]
McLeod reflects on Halloween as a community holiday, emphasizing its unique role in bringing neighbors together.
“Halloween is like the one holiday where you go out and you share with strangers, where you go and meet your neighbors and you experience generosity from all your neighbors.” — McLeod ([43:03])
The hosts confess their love for Halloween candy, especially Reese’s ([43:34]).
Next Episode Tease: The investigation will turn to a “small town in New York” for the ultimate Halloween story.
“Nothing is scarier than waking up in the middle of the night unable to move and realizing you're not alone in your bedroom.”
— Brian ([02:11])
“That feeling, though, it wasn't just fear... this was like dread. Pure dread. Like it had been injected straight into my veins.”
— Marcus ([06:05])
“First night... the figure was at the foot of my bed... Second night, beside the bed... and tonight it was right next to me... and I felt this pressure on my chest, like real physical pressure...”
— Marcus ([10:47])
“The Hat Man himself is a pretty modern entity... kind of popped up in the 2000s... whether or not that's Internet lore, we might know. But... the Djinn... is often described as wearing a hat.”
— Brian ([34:52–35:10])
“If it’s so universal and multiple cultures have variations on this, it’s possible that indicates it’s just a natural, biological human phenomenon that gets described... through different cultural lenses.”
— McLeod ([36:21])
“But chew on this for a moment... in the 1980s... a bunch of healthy men who just started dying in their sleep... there was a disproportionate number of them that had some kind of syndrome that caused abnormal heart rhythms. But... no explanation for why dozens and dozens... were just dying at night... all she heard were stories about an entity... something called a dachau, which apparently in Hmong means night spirit.”
— Brian ([37:31])
Look forward to Sightings’ “ultimate Halloween episode”—a deep dive into the lore of a “small town in New York” with a mysterious and historic story, perfect for the season.