Sleep Magic: Sleep Hypnosis & Meditation for Sleep Podcast

Episode: A Hypnotherapist on... How To Set The Past Down
Host: Jessica Porter
Date: November 10, 2025

Episode Overview

In this episode, hypnotherapist Jessica Porter explores the profound impact of our past experiences on our present state of mind and sleep quality. She addresses the difficulty many people have with letting go of the past, the way these old experiences are carried and relived in body and mind, and offers a gentle approach for beginning to release some of that tension before sleep. The episode aims to help listeners relax, ease anxiety, and move towards restorative rest using guided hypnotherapy techniques.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

The Nature of the Past and Its Power

• The Past as Both Gift and Problem
  • Jessica highlights how the past is both the source of our greatest strengths and our biggest hurdles.
    • “The past seems to be both our greatest gift and our biggest problem, which makes sense. I mean, the past is what makes us who we are.” (00:29)
• Irreversibility of the Past
  • No matter how hard we try, the past cannot be reproduced or relived.
    • “Even whatever we call God or source or the universe couldn’t do it. The past is truly over, irretrievable and unrepeatable.” (01:50)
• Why We Still Suffer
  • The past persists in our bodies and minds as recurring patterns, especially negative or scary experiences.
    • “We replay our childhoods, our high school experiences, our bad bosses or partners. And the negative stuff, the moments when we're scared, tend to get sort of locked in there and play like broken records.” (02:28)

Understanding How We Carry the Past

• Jessica suggests these recurrences are like “vibrational recordings” within us—experiences (especially the unpleasant ones) can be replayed repeatedly through thoughts and emotions.
  • “What exactly is happening when we suffer from the wounds of the past? Well, we are carrying the past in our bodies and minds. They're like vibrational recordings that repeat in us.” (02:11)

Strategies for Letting Go

• Hypnotherapy and Individual Help
  • For especially tenacious issues, individualized therapy may be necessary.
• A Gentle, Nightly Practice
  • The episode offers a softer approach for dealing with less intense, lingering memories. Jessica reassures listeners:
    • “Tonight we're going to soften our relationship with some of those old experiences. The lighter ones, the easier ones, the ones you're ready to work on tonight.” (03:00)
    • “If it's okay with you, you'll release the tension that they carry inside of you. It'll be cool. I promise.” (03:13)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Accepting the End of the Past:
  • “The past is totally over. Like the vast majority of it couldn't happen again even if we did everything in our power to reproduce it.” (01:21)
• Relatability of Struggling to Sleep Because of Racing Thoughts:
  • “I hear from you guys all the time about those nights where your thoughts just won't switch off no matter how tired you are. It's exactly what we work on together here with Sleep Magic.” (05:08)
• Promoting Sleep Rituals and External Resources:
  • Jessica recommends the podcast “Nothing Much Happens” as another sleep aid, underscoring her supportive, community-building approach.
    • “If you'd like another tool in your bedtime kit, it could be worth adding this to your listening routine.” (05:48)

Timestamps for Key Segments

• 00:12 – Opening reflection: The double-edged nature of the past
• 01:21 – The immutable reality: The past is over
• 02:11 – Why our nervous systems relive the past
• 02:28 – How negative experiences replay in us
• 03:00-03:13 – Tonight’s intention: Soften your relationship to manageable past experiences
• 05:08 – Listener validation: The common struggle with “racing thoughts” at bedtime
• 05:48 – Sleep podcast recommendation: “Nothing Much Happens”

Tone & Approach

Jessica’s delivery is warm, reassuring, and grounded in years of clinical experience. She employs gentle humor (“Even a billionaire couldn't do it”) and empathetic validation of common struggles (“I hear from you guys all the time…”). Her approach is non-judgmental and emphasizes gradual, safe self-exploration, making her guidance accessible to listeners at any stage of their healing or sleep journey.

Episode Takeaway

Jessica Porter invites listeners to acknowledge the grip of their past, recognize that it cannot be changed or relived, and to gently use hypnotherapy and mindfulness to begin loosening its influence—especially as they prepare for sleep. Her message is one of encouragement, patience, and self-acceptance on the pathway to deeper rest and emotional freedom.