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So Money Episode 1820 Estate Planning Made simple how to Create a Will, a Trust and Peace of Mind. You're listening to so Money with award winning money guru Farnoosh Torabi. Each day get a 30 minute dose of financial inspiration from the world' top business minds, authors, influencers and from Farnoosh yourselves. Looking for ways to save on gas.
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Heather Zach
A will at its face is intended to say, at the time that I pass away, here's how I want my assets distributed, here's who I want getting my home, here's who I want getting my bank accounts, my brokerage accounts, my jewelry, jewelry collection, etc. The big difference between a will and most trusts is that a will really has no force or effect until you pass away.
Farnoosh Torabi
Hey so Money listeners. Welcome back to the show. I'm Farnoosh Tarabi. We have a special episode today pulled straight from inside the so Money members club. If you've ever been curious about what goes on in the club, well, hopefully this episode gives you a flavor. This month in the so Many Members club, I hosted a live workshop all about estate planning. This is a topic that many of our members requested. And so we delivered. And we delivered by bringing in an expert to guide us, Heather Zach, an attorney and financial planner who leads high net worth strategy at Commonwealth Financial Network. Now this conversation that you're about to hear is the kind of deep, practical workshop that I host every month in the members club. Sometimes with guests like Heather, and always with a chance for you to ask your questions directly to me. And our guest, in fact, just this morning, I had a monthly office hour. I do this every month as well. It's a smaller, more intimate meetup where I offer more hands on, one on one guidance. Today we talked about five to nine plans. People are worried about their retirement accounts. One member even had a question on behalf of her adult kids. And so my advice was bring your kids into the club. One ticket gets you all in. Now, with regards to this workshop, today's show, estate planning is one of those financial topics that too many people delay. We avoid it. We assume it doesn't matter for us because we're not wealthy or rich or like, what does it even matter? But listen, whether you're married or not, whether you have a lot of money or not have kids, don't have kids, have a house, property, or if you're just starting to build wealth, this conversation is really important. You're going to want to go back and listen to it. I've already listened to it three times. Trust me, it's invaluable information. I even have a will. But there are still things that I learned during this episode that I need to go back and accomplish. Our guest, Heather Zach, she's going to help demystify all of these essentials. We're going to cover wills, trusts, how to choose the right people to manage your estate, how to avoid common mistakes that can cost your loved ones time, money and stress in your absence. And if you ever wondered whether those create your estate plan in an hour, online sites are legit. We're going to get into that as well. Here's Heather Zach. Heather Zach, welcome to Sew Much Money.
Heather Zach
It's thrilling to be here. So thank you.
Farnoosh Torabi
Tell us a little bit about your background and what brought you to specialize in estate planning and wealth management.
Heather Zach
Yeah, happy to. So I am an attorney by training, but I actually went to law school while working in finance. While I was in my undergrad, I worked in finance, worked for broker dealers. And as I was going along, I really figured out that to deepen my career, I needed some additional education and decided to go for law school. Made it really easy on myself. And while I was in law school, I took a mandatory wills and trust class and absolutely fell in love with estate planning. I found it not only very interesting, but it's so personal. It's something that absolutely everyone needs. And so I was able to translate my passion for estate planning into the world of finance. I now work for Commonwealth Financial Network. We're a national broker dealer, ria. I head up our high net worth strategy, but really focus on financial planning and estate planning for clients of all levels of wealth. But estate planning is the biggest topic I think that clients and advisors want to hear about. So it's an exciting topic for me.
Farnoosh Torabi
Thank you. And we, a lot of the people in our community listening in the club were women. Women with families of all different shapes and size sizes. What kinds of concerns or questions do you typically field from women when it comes to estate planning? I know more and more of us are breadwinners in our household, so a lot of this is falling on our laps.
Heather Zach
Yes. Yeah. I think by the nature of being women, we are practical thinkers. We know that there are are real concerns to the fact that we are likely to outlive in the case of male partners, our partners. And so a lot of times when I'm talking to women, the number one concern is, am I okay? Is my family okay? Meaning is my family going to be protected in the event that there's a spouse that comes into the picture that has some nefarious beliefs or what have you, and am I going to be able to be comfortable if I am incapacitated at any point in time? So it's really just ensuring that longevity and the ability to live a happy and comfortable life and make sure that their families can do the same.
Farnoosh Torabi
Yeah. Let's get into the basics, at least for now, and we can get into more specific detail questions from the audience. But just to get started, if you are that person who is concerned coming to you with these questions of will I be okay? What's your answer to that? What's the next, what are the next two, three, four, five steps?
Heather Zach
Sure. So I think everyone needs to have an estate plan. And an estate plan, I think traditionally a lot of us would think of as a will, which is an absolutely crucial document. But I would say equally as crucial are going to be powers of attorney. Go see an attorney and have a discussion. It's worth the time and the expense to make sure that you have powers of attorney for your financial life, that someone can step in and act on your behalf if you are incapacitated to access all of the financial stuff that you've got and the same thing for healthcare. So if you have a health event, is there someone that is going to be able to make decisions and ensure that you're getting the proper care? A will is absolutely necessary to really understand how you want to have assets distributed when you pass away. But the other big document that I think almost everyone could benefit from is A simple revocable trust. And I'm happy to get into the differences between those two things. A will, at its face, is intended to say, at the time that I pass away, here's how I want my assets distributed. Here's who I want getting my home, here's who I want getting my bank accounts, my brokerage accounts, my jewelry collection, et cetera. The big difference between a will and most trusts is that a will really has no force or effect until you pass away. A trust, on the other hand, is something that can be put into place during your lifetime. So there's a whole bunch of different variations on trusts, but the most common that we would think about are revocable and irrevocable. And a revocable trust that you establish during your lifetime is. Is what we call a disregarded entity. So it is really just a wrapper that you can put around your assets while you still have complete control of those assets. To be able to dictate at the time that I become incapacitated, here's what I want to happen with my money. At the time that I pass, here's what I want to happen with my money. The biggest difference between the will and the trust is because that trust is an enforceable legal document. While you're living, you avoid probate. And probate is something I'm sure folks out there have experienced with their loved ones. It is not a fun process. You have to go to court, you have to do a filing of all of the assets in a decedent's estate. It can take months to years in some cases to fully go through the probate process. And it's very public. With a trust, you're able to bypass probate for anything that you put in that trust wrapper during your lifetime. So it's a really nice way to ensure kind of continuity and ease for your family when you pass.
Farnoosh Torabi
So just to summarize this part, a will is important, as you mentioned, it's how you're going to distribute your assets. It has no force or effect until you pass away There the trust. And there's revocable and irrevocable. And you've talked about so far is the revocable trust this you put in place during your lifetime. It's a, what you call a disregarded entity, like a wrapper that you can put around your assets. If you don't have this and you do have a will, but you don't have the revocable trust, you may face what's called probate. In the event that you are incapacitated. Incapacitated or die.
Heather Zach
Yeah. So essentially, probate is the process of, of controlling and distributing assets for a person that has passed away. Probate exists whether you have a will or you don't. If you don't have a will, it just means that the state government decides who gets your assets. So that's why everybody needs a will. But the probate process really is intended to involve the court so that they have oversight into the distribution of your assets after you pass away, whether they're following the terms of your will or the terms of state law. The trust, on the other hand, anything that goes into that trust wrapper during life avoids probate. So when we think about that revocable trust, that is something that you could put your home in. You could title your bank accounts, your brokerage accounts, you could title some of your specialty assets into your trust, your jewelry, etc. And that way those assets, when you pass away, don't have to go through the probate process. Now, I will say what typically happens is you're going to have a will and a trust and they work together. So that will is intended to say, if there's anything I missed retitling during my life and I didn't put it in my trust, that will is going to be the catch all. And usually it's going to pour assets, assets into your trust at death. This happens a lot with like your vehicles. You're not usually going to put your vehicle in the title of your trust. So that's going to go through the probate process. If you have personal assets inside your home, you may or may not pass that through your trust. So it's going to be that catch all for anything that doesn't get retitled during life.
Farnoosh Torabi
We hear a lot on social media, like it's so important to leave your home in your trust is, is and it isn't.
Heather Zach
And that is unfortunately the answer with a lot of estate planning. So putting a home in a revocable trust means that you're again, avoiding that probate process at death. It also can provide a measure of privacy. So if you don't want public deeds that show who the owner of a piece of real estate is, if you have a trust that owns that property, that's all that, that anyone would be able to see in the public record. Now, a lot of folks, folks don't go through the process of putting their home into a trust. Usually if you've got a married couple, it's going to be in a joint ownership. So If I pass away first, my spouse gets that, that home without the probate process coming into play as a best practice, sure. Yes, it is great to put your home in a revocable trust to control that distribution after the final death of the deed owners. But it is a process. You have to actually register a deed. So it's something that some folks tend to forget about after they execute a trust. But if you've got a trust, yeah, it's great to put your home in it.
Farnoosh Torabi
And the other thing I've heard about it is that there might be some different tax implications. Can you talk a little bit about that?
Heather Zach
Yes. So that really gets into the revocable versus irrevocable.
Farnoosh Torabi
Okay, which is my next question. Differentiating. Perfect.
Heather Zach
So the revocable trust, as I mentioned, it is a disregarded entity. So if I own assets in my revocable trust, and I'm alive, I own them just the same as I would if I owned them outright. I can take assets out of that trust. I can put assets in the trust, I can sell the assets, I can do whatever I want. And I'm not filing a separate tax return for my trust. So really, it again is just that wrapper to ensure that there's control over the assets. An irrevocable trust, on the other hand, is one where you can think of it as a lockbox. So I am putting something in that trust and I can't take it out. So I have made a gift into that trust and I may be able to, based on the language of my trust, get income that comes to me out of that trust. But I can't, for example, put a bank account. I can't title a bank account into my irrevocable trust and then say, you know what, never mind, I'm going to just take all of that money back and I'm going to control that myself. With an irrevocable trust, it is its own separate entity. It has its own tax ID number. It has to file tax returns. And the really tricky thing when we're talking taxes with irrevocable trusts is irrevocable trusts have the same tax brackets that we do as individuals, but you hit that top 37% tax bracket real quick. So it's somewhere around, I think, 13 or $14,000 in total income this year that you would hit that max bracket. So irrevocable trusts are often really used for some other planning need. They have a lot of value, but they get a lot trickier. And usually we're talking about someone with A greater level of wealth, or in some cases, we're talking about planning for Medicaid. So needing to access Medicaid benefits as you age, irrevocable trust can be used to protect assets from being counted for Medicaid purposes.
Farnoosh Torabi
I see. Okay. And so it's not as frequent as we would say, revocable trusts, correct.
Heather Zach
Yeah. For most individuals, a revocable trust is going to be all that you need.
Farnoosh Torabi
Yeah. Who is best to help someone do this if not a human? We know there's so many websites too that tout their services. Create your estate plan in 40 minutes. I would assume that there's a market for all of these. But you coming from the financial services industry, like you have a POV on this, that is clear. But. But for someone who's looking to save money on this process, because it can be anywhere from a few hundred to thousands and thousands of dollars, what is realistic?
Heather Zach
It's a tough question. I'm obviously biased and not because I think everybody needs to be an attorney and see an attorney and pay that money. It's more so about the quality of the output. If you are using something like a Rocket Lawyer or a Legal Zoom, you can end up with a completely fine legal document. The basis for their document is absolutely fantastic, rooted in state law. The trouble with those services, and I put this rather bluntly, is it's garbage in, garbage out. So they ask very pointed questions like do you want a trust? Do you want to put this asset in your trust? Rather than when you go to an attorney, they're more going to talk about your situation and then tell you, okay, based on what you've told me, I think we should do X, Y and Z. So for someone that is not trained, going through a Rocket Lawyer or a Legal Zoom can lead to some messy documents. I personally, I've had friends utilize Rocket Lawyer and Legal Zoom and in almost every single case, I tell them to just send the docs over to me and I'll take a look at them. They're a mess. And that's because you just don't know how to answer the questions in the way that the software is trying to get you to answer them. There are middle ground alternatives. If you are working with a financial advisor. A lot of financial advisors these days have access to software that can help to create an estate plan. Wealth.com is one that we use at Commonwealth that is much more similar to the attorney experience in that you're going to be asked these qualitative questions and then the software comes back to say, okay, here's the type of estate plan that you need and then you have a financial advisor involved that also is somewhat well versed to very well versed in estate planning. And they can be that second set of eyes. Vanilla trust and will. These are all tools out there. I tend to think those are a step above the rocket lawyer and the legal zoom just because they've been crafted a little bit differently. But I guess my bottom line is it is better to have something than nothing. So if the barrier to entry is cost, go for a rocket lawyer, go for a legal zoom. You're at least going to have something in place. Just be very comfortable asking questions. Call their support line and ask them what is this question trying to get at? Because you want to make sure that you're putting in the best information possible.
Farnoosh Torabi
Thanks. That's and I paid 2,000 dol for my most recent estate plan. It wasn't the first time I did it and that's my next question is how often should you revisit your plan? What are the life events that would trigger revisiting or visiting for the first time? Your will, your trust, all that. Yeah.
Heather Zach
So great question and a pretty common one. I think a lot of practitioners say every five to 10 years you should review your estate plan. And I would agree with that. I think the bigger factor you touched on what are those life events that mean I should take a look at my estate plan? Getting married is a huge one. Having a child, a dramatic change in your net worth if you move from one state to another. This is a really frequent question. So I'm from Massachusetts. If I moved to New York, my Massachusetts estate plan is still completely valid in the state of New York. However, Massachusetts has a $2 million estate tax exemption on a state level. New York has a different scale, but it's much higher. So if I have significant wealth, my documents might not make sense anymore. There's also some little nuances in things like your financial and health care powers of attorney that can vary from state to state. So if you move, it's always a good idea to just take a quick look at the estate plan. You know, marriage, birth, death. Those are the other big three though for sure.
Farnoosh Torabi
Marriage, birth, death. You mentioned earlier identifying your power of attorney there. There's also your execut. They're the person who will delegate and administer the wishes of your will. Who do you identify as these people? Like in your experience, what are the mistakes let's just say people may make in selecting, designating these folks and also Health healthcare proxy too, which may not all be the same person.
Heather Zach
Right? Yeah, yeah. They can differ. Often they're the same. The. It's a tricky thing if you think about it. You are putting this person in a position of great power but also great responsibility. So it's somewhat of a burden. And that's my experience talking with a lot of folks that have acted as an administrator for an estate, an executor, or a healthcare or financial power of attorney. It's a bit of a burden. It's something that you have to navigate. You're going to generally need to engage other professionals, but it also needs to be someone that you trust. Trust implicitly. The biggest mistakes I've seen are probably folks that are putting a single child, so they have multiple children. They're putting a single child in that role of executor, healthcare agent, financial agent, or trustee of their trust. And it can really make some contentious feelings within the family. I've seen in a few cases where siblings have, has ceased to have a relationship because of a disagreement over how mom or dad's estate is handled or how distributions are made from a trust. It's important to walk that line between we want to maybe put one of our children in this place of responsibility, but make sure that the rest of the children are on board with that and that there's some sort of consensus and understanding. I think the biggest thing for me, and this goes through the entire estate planning process is, is to be open and have honest, frank conversations with your family about your wishes. If you are naming one child to be the executor, but the entire family knows why that's being done and what your wishes are, that's going to save a lot of headache later. I will say, however, one of the easiest ways to avoid that mess is by naming an independent fiduciary. So there are companies out there that act as corporate trustees or executors. There's obviously, obviously a cost associated with that. But at a certain level of wealth, I think it, it makes sense to bring in that neutral third party that is just interpreting the four corners of these documents. Now, that can't be done. Typically for a financial or healthcare power of attorney, that's going to need to be a family member or trusted friend, but that can certainly avoid a lot of the conflict. In addition, some attorneys will act in that role. If you want that neutral third party party.
Farnoosh Torabi
I'm sure some of us are listening, going, okay, I get all of this. My parents don't talk about money. They're very tight lipped when it comes to their. A lot of things, let alone this is like very. Feels very taboo. How can I help them help me understand what their wishes are so we can get ahead of some of this sticky stuff that may come up in their. In the event that one parent or both pass on and we don't have surprises. Are there scripts you recommend? Is there a like an anecdote you can share where things got ironed out ahead of time and it was thanks to a little bit of conversation?
Heather Zach
Yeah, I guess I would have the opposite anecdote.
Farnoosh Torabi
That's fine too.
Heather Zach
Yes. And I think having this conversation with your parents, it is incredibly uncomfortable, especially for these older generations. Talking about money, as you said, is so taboo. But sitting them down and expl. This is something I am going to have to deal with. Especially if they have put you in the position of being that executor, that trustee. And I don't want to mess it up and I don't want to cause conflict in the family. So I just. You don't need to tell me how much. You don't need to tell me who is getting what necessarily. But we need to have a frank conversation about what your overall wishes are and why you want me in this role or why you want someone else in this role. I think I have seen this play out a number of times. One of the most challenging. It was a husband and wife who. The wife actually passed away very young and they had a young child. And the husband and wife knew what their expectations were for how they wanted their son to be raised, the type of life they wanted him to live. But mom had named her sister as the fiduciary. So the administrator of her estate, the trustee of her trusts and sister had a very different view of how the money should be handled after mom passed away. And now dad and sister are in a battle over money and there's a young child that is put in the middle of this. It just can be so messy and so painful. And I think the number one thing that our parents are concerned about is are we going to be okay? Okay. After they go, are we going to be okay? Is the family going to be okay? So approaching them from that place of love and wanting to really make sure that the family unit stays together after they pass, I think is a great way tug on those heartstrings a little bit.
Farnoosh Torabi
Yeah, that was an interesting choice to make the sister the fiduciary as opposed to your spouse.
Heather Zach
So I think what happened there was. This was an older estate plan where sister had been previously named after the that marriage birth. There was no update and unfortunately it just, it ended in disaster. That's another place where I would say to the extent possible for your parents, for yourselves, have someone take a look at your documents. That could be your financial advisor, that could be an attorney, that could be whomever you trust to just be a second set of eyes to say, hey, this does. It doesn't feel like it really lines up with where your life is at right now, but to be able to get ahead of those concerns before something catastrophic happens, it's just again, it's that peace of mind.
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Farnoosh Torabi
Well, sticking with mistakes, what are some other common missteps that you find people make when they're. Whether it's. Besides, of course, not doing this at all. But when they're in it in the beginning and they're establishing their wills and they're identifying the things, what are some of the oversights or missteps that you find are common?
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Heather Zach
So I think it can be a really overwhelming process to sit down and think about what is going to happen and potentially decades in the future with a family that I don't know the full shape of yet. So people tend to get a little bit lost in the sauce early on. So you could spend months and months figuring out how you want every asset to flow. What should happen if this person passes away before you, how are things going to flow for generations to come? And you could have that sort of immobility. You just can't react. You can't move forward in your plan planning. This is an iterative process. It is not a one and done. These should be living documents. Get something done. So that is the first thing. Get something done. Get something in writing and then revisit it as you feel necessary. Again, if you're doing it with these online tools that can be very easy and inexpensive with an attorney, of course, there's a little bit more cost to that, but it's that balance of peace of mind versus cost. The other thing that I would say we see way too often is you go, you get this wonderful estate plan executed. It has all of your wishes. You've got a beautiful will, you've got a beautiful trust. You walk out of the attorney's office with a big old binder that has all of these instructions. You put it in the backseat of your car and that's it. You never do anything with it. You think about particularly the trust. That trust is a lockbox in some ways, but if you put nothing into it, it serves no purpose. So if you are creating A trust. And you never retitle any of your assets into that trust to fund it. That trust is not worth the paper it's written on. So again, think about if I have my revocable trust, my attorney is probably going to send me out with instructions to say, say let's execute a new deed, which that attorney should be doing for you to put the home in the trust. Let's retitle any of your bank and investment accounts into your trust. If you have retirement accounts, we are maybe naming that trust as beneficiary. They're going to give you a whole set of instructions. And if you don't follow through on those funding steps again, that trust has absolutely no, no purpose.
Farnoosh Torabi
And now I'm like, did we do that? I'm in New Jersey and I don't even know if our attorney, if we have a revocable trust, I think we probably do. But it's, I don't remember him giving us a checklist of things to do post meeting.
Heather Zach
That is a good thing to check on after this call.
Farnoosh Torabi
Yeah. Okay. Anybody else have questions? We have a number of people on the workshop with us. Feel free to unmute yourself and share your question. You can also share a question in the chat. But I just want to say, Heather, so far this is, has been so great and reaffirming and I think hopefully calming for those of us like it's, it is a big step, but you've broken it down very nicely and neatly. But I'm sure we have take the baby steps. We have questions. Don't be shy. I'm going to give us a couple seconds if anybody wants to take the floor. Otherwise I'll just fill the air. But I want to give our participants here some an opportunity to ask questions too.
Heather Zach
Hi, good morning. I have a question. What happens?
Farnoosh Torabi
What's the difference between, like, my fidelity.
Heather Zach
If I have someone, a beneficiary versus a trust if I have someone different? Great, great question. If you are naming a beneficiary on an account, the first thing I'll say is that is another way to avoid the probate process. So anything that has a beneficiary designation is going to pass outside of probate. So you're not worrying about that open public process now. Now the other piece of this is if you have a beneficiary designated on an account and then you create a trust, that account is not going to come under the purview of that trust. So the only way that your fidelity account, for example, is going to be held to the terms of your trust is if you actually retitle that account into the name of the trust. If we're talking about a non retirement account, retirement accounts can't be retitled into a trust during life. It would cause a full distribution. But you're maybe naming the trust as beneficiary there. But yeah, really important distinction that if you have accounts that are passing by beneficiary designation, they are not going to be part of that trust. Okay, thank you. Great question.
Farnoosh Torabi
Just to re. Re establish why is a trust important? Because if you have the will and you have your designated beneficiaries and you have a spouse where everything's just going to go to them. I guess this is like maybe if both of you pass on or where does the trust begin? Where the will ends.
Heather Zach
Great question. The trust actually I would say steps in before the will. So in a period of incapacity, your trust is going to say while I'm incapacitated, I want my money to be spent in this way. I want this type of care. I want my assets to be protected in this certain way until I either pass away or, or exit that period of incapacity. I think for some folks having a great will and having beneficiary designations, that's going to get you 99.9% of the way there. The trust steps in to add a little bit of extra control. I was mentioning earlier, I'll use this example because this comes up a lot is mom and dad have, have a couple of kids. They, they know that they want their kids to get their assets but they are not so sure that they want their kids spouses to get access to those assets. Now if, if mom and dad name their child outright as a beneficiary on an account when they pass away, that child gets that money and it is theirs to do with as they please. It gets commingled with their other assets that their spouse has access to. If on the other hand mom and dad name retitle that account into their trust, they can say when we pass away, we this money to actually stay in trust and to be used only for the benefit of our child, Their spouse cannot access it. Maybe their children can access it. But if there is a divorce, if there's anything, there's some added protection there that gets into a little bit more complexity because if that trust continues after the original grantors, in this case mom and dad pass away, it becomes irrevocable. And then we get into some of those trickier techniques, tax situations that might be a Little bit more than we want to get into for this conversation. But there's always a balance of control versus maybe the tax efficiency. So if the primary concern is I just want my kids to have access to my assets and they can do with it whatever they want, beneficiary designations are probably going to get you there. If there's any extra control that you want to put in there, the trust is going to come into play. And then again for that period of incapacity as well.
Farnoosh Torabi
Beautiful. Thank you. That was that answered it. We have a question from the audience. How should those who plan to be child free look into estate planning? What types of conversations do dual income, no kids, folks, dinks love it. Need to have to work through this process.
Heather Zach
That is a great question. And as a proud child free woman myself, one that hits close to home. It is in some cases simpler, but it's also a little bit more expansive because for folks that have children, it's pretty clear I want my children to get my assets, their children to get their assets, et cetera, et cetera. For me, I don't have children and don't intend to have children. So who do I want to get my assets when I pass away? I could still let the state government decide if I don't want to have a will or a trust. I personally don't want to do that. So it, it's still very necessary so that you have that peace of mind of knowing, okay, when I pass away, my assets are going to go where I want them to. That could be to other family members, it could be to charity. It's in some ways, again, it's a bigger question for child free folks because there's not that default answer of it's going to go to my kids. So it's still something to really consider carefully if you are concerned about what happens with your asses when you pass. If you're not, then, hey, pretty easy.
Farnoosh Torabi
Yeah. Wow. What are some other interesting trends you're seeing that have has changed the estate planning practice? Whether it's increasing numbers of people who are choosing to be child free, it's more blended families, it's women living longer. I don't know if that's if that changes anything or creates new considerations for clients.
Heather Zach
Definitely. Yeah. And all of the above, we're seeing all of those things. I think for women in particular, again, if you are in a married couple with a man, the expectation is you're probably going to outlive him and that means that there are additional concerns. So you're going to be in control of all of that wealth at some point in time. And some of the estate tax strategies that we would talk about for a married couple, those go away. So you're left with the wealth without any real strategies. So it's again being thoughtful and forward thinking about what do I want to have happen when I am actually controlling this wealth. Similarly, I think we're really seeing a lot of uncertainty when it comes to the legislative picture where taxes are going to go in my line of work. For a lot of folks, estate taxes are not a concern right now at the federal level. EU can pass away with almost $14 million in assets and not pay a penny of federal estate tax. But that is a moving target and states often have lower estate tax threshold. So just to pause here really briefly. The estate tax in general means if you pass away with assets that exceed a certain level, whether in your state or at a federal level, your estate is going to pay taxes before your beneficiaries get any money. So a lot of the conversations that I have been having are around how do we stay flexible in these uncertain times to really ensure that no matter what happens with the tax law, my family is as protected as they can be. We're thinking about things as tax efficiently as possible, but we're not locking ourselves into these really rigid, irrevocable trust structures that we might not need. So that's been a big area of concern. And then another thing that is just by the nature of the world that we live in is your digital life. Yes, not only. I think when we talk digital assets, the first thing that comes to mind is your crypto wallet. Yes, that is an important thing that you want to have contemplated by your estate plan. But it's also your Facebook, your Instagram, your TikTok. What is going to happen with your online presence when you pass away? So that is over the last probably 10 years years, planning for digital assets has become really important. And I think if you don't have a massive crypto wallet, people don't really think about it. But take the example of, let's say you pass away and you have a Dropbox. Let's say that has all of your family photos scanned digitally. The password for that Dropbox requires multifactor authentication. So an email goes to your email account. If you are have passed away and you have not accounted for what happens to your online presence, your executor cannot access that Dropbox. They cannot get into your email, they cannot do any of the, they can't disable your Facebook. So those are things that you want to contemplate in your estate plan, but also look at the direct provider. So go to Facebook. Look at what their. Their. I think they call them, their legacy provisions are. Most of the social media platforms have them, but it's something you want to be aware of. It's. I would not have thought about it when I got into this business, but now it's a huge thing to be concerned about.
Farnoosh Torabi
Wow. Yeah. I have not done that.
Heather Zach
Yes.
Farnoosh Torabi
Just got me. I was like, wait, I have a very giant Dropbox of 20 years worth of documents. It's something to think about too. If you run a business and you have business partners and you've been. Maybe you have a cloud system that you all share and maybe you have important documents like you're the one who's been holding the LLC documents or what have you. Yeah, that needs to be. I also feel like have a little meeting. This is where we're going to keep everything as we wait for all this stuff to unlock. God forbid something happens to one of us. We can keep the lights on, we can keep the. The website up or whatever it is, because I'm the one who's been doing all of the back end and I don't have not been sharing the past passwords.
Heather Zach
It's so true. And I think to that end it's also we've been talking a lot about full estate plans. Something else very simple that anyone could do is a. I call it a key records inventory. If you Google it, you can download templates anywhere. But it is a physical list where you're going to say, here's where my insurance policies are. Here's where my bank accounts are, here's where my brokerage accounts are. Here's the garage code, here's the password to my whatever online account. Those can all be be put on a physical worksheet and put them in a lockbox that you have with your. Your estate plan or what have you or make sure that someone knows how to access that. That document. That's a step that anyone could take today to just move things forward in helping their family and their loved ones when they pass away.
Farnoosh Torabi
Oh, my God. So key records inventory. I think this is also a great use of AI, like using a chat GPT to say, what do I need to talk to my spouse about my business partners about? Is there a list? Cecile has a question for you. You mentioned marriage as a big life event to, for example, update your plan. Not currently. Cecile does not currently have one of her own. But she will be getting married within the year. Do we have more detail on a suggested timeline for setting up a trust for the first time? Is it like a few months after getting married aid as soon as possible within the first year?
Heather Zach
Yeah, I don't, I wouldn't say that there is a specific timeline. I think first of all getting something in place to seal today for yourself would be great. But it's. If you think about once we've started to really combine finances and maybe we have a home that we are both on the deed to, that's when everything really starts to get intermingled. Intermingled. And that trust planning can, can start to be beneficial. Some folks I, I will see keep the basic will and then beneficiary designations up until they maybe have children or if they're not having children, up until they reach a net worth that they start to feel like oof, things don't really feel great. Just passing by beneficiary designation, then that trust planning can come in. I wouldn't say that there's a prescribed timeline for the trust planning. It's more of situational but, but certainly get at least a will in place.
Farnoosh Torabi
Yeah, we've answered a lot of questions. If you're not legally married. A lot of us, we talked about trends. A lot of us are like no, don't want to get married, but I have a life partner and we're happy. What happens there? Is there an extra step you have to take because you're not technically married? Because there's no past, there's no automatic goes to my spouse.
Heather Zach
Yep. So that is, you kind of hit the nail on the head. Even more important in that case, I would say to have a written estate plan. So if you do not have a written estate plan, meaning you don't have a will and you pass away, you die in a state of what is known as intestacy. And that is when the state comes in and says okay, based on who you are, these are the people getting your assets for every state. If you pass away married and you are intestate, your spouse is going to get either all or a good chunk of your assets. If you have children, your children usually will get some as well. So. So being unmarried, there is no guarantee that your spouse is going to be able to access any of your or your non spouse rather will be able to access any of your assets when you pass away unless you have beneficiary designations. So again, having that will as a catch all for anything that you maybe can't put a beneficiary designation on is going to be huge. And then really it's just having that forethought of if we are not married and therefore we don't have a prenuptial agreement or anything of the. Do I want to contemplate what happened happens if I'm incapacitated for a long period of time and my partner decides to move on? There are things that you want to think about that just because you don't have the legal protections of a marriage, just to make sure that you have that again, control over how your assets are distributed when you are either incapacitated or pass away.
Farnoosh Torabi
Yeah, that's a really important point. Sometimes when people don't get married, but they do combine their lives, share their lives, they'll get a contract, a prenup. They're in lieu of just fighting because really there's no legal entity. That's because you live together for 20 years. This is what. Although that's unique to the United States, other countries, it's not like that. I think in Canada, if you live together and you share a home together and you're not married, there's something like after a certain period of time, becomes shared property.
Heather Zach
Yeah. And there are a handful of states in the US that that have that as well. It's rare. It used to be more common. It would. It's called a common law marriage. But very few have it. So simply cohabitating doesn't guarantee anything. But you're exactly right. You could have a cohabitation agreement. You can really contract around just about anything. So certainly that's something that you could explore as well, absent a prenup.
Farnoosh Torabi
Yeah. And if you have a life insurance plan, do you have to make any special like requests or rules about the life insurance in your estate plan? This is how I want the life insurance to be used in the event that I pass away way.
Heather Zach
So typically your life insurance is going to have a beneficiary designation that could be your spouse, could be your children, could be whomever. And again, anything that passes by beneficiary designation is going to operate outside of your estate plan. That being said, in some cases, folks will name their trust as their beneficiary so that they have that additional control over. Exactly as you said. How is this money to be spent? There are some other common uses of life insurance in the estate planning process. Usually for folks that are worried about paying estate tax, in some cases, your life insurance will then be held in an irrevocable life insurance trust and the idea between an eyelet is really to provide liquidity to help pay the estate taxes. Again, that's dealing with higher net worth or in states that have a low estate tax threshold.
Farnoosh Torabi
Heather Zach, thank you so much for hanging out with us. I know that you're in the midst of a work trip and you're making time for us. This was invaluable information. I have some time to DOS the digital inventory. Key records inventory.
Heather Zach
Yes, everyone get that key records inventory filled out, put it somewhere safe, tell people where it is.
Farnoosh Torabi
And if we want to work with you or follow up with you, what's the best way?
Heather Zach
Absolutely. I am@hzack z a c k commonwealth.com you can also find me on LinkedIn. I spend a lot of time on there. But yes, happy to speak with anybody and appreciate this. This has been so fun break from the conference.
Farnoosh Torabi
Oh that's nice to hear. Thank you so much and thanks everyone for tuning in. Thanks so much to Heather Zach for joining us. If you'd like to follow up with Heather, I've got her information in our show notes and if you'd like to explore the so many members club, give it a try. Head over to so next month in May, we're going to be talking about 529 plans. A lot of us are concerned given where the market's gone, if we're going to have enough to pay for college. College plus the fact that college is just crazy expensive these days. Thanks again for tuning in and I hope your day is so money.
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Podcast Summary: So Money with Farnoosh Torabi - Episode 1820: Estate Planning Made Simple: How to Create a Will, Trust, and Peace of Mind
Release Date: April 30, 2025
In Episode 1820 of So Money with Farnoosh Torabi, host Farnoosh Torabi delves into the often-overlooked but essential topic of estate planning. Joined by Heather Zach, an attorney and financial planner specializing in high net worth strategies at Commonwealth Financial Network, the episode provides listeners with a comprehensive guide to creating wills, trusts, and achieving peace of mind regarding asset distribution.
Heather Zach begins by distinguishing between wills and trusts, emphasizing their unique roles in estate planning.
Wills: "A will at its face is intended to say, at the time that I pass away, here's how I want my assets distributed..." (00:41)
A will outlines how assets are to be distributed upon death but has no legal force until that point.
Trusts: "A trust, on the other hand, is something that can be put into place during your lifetime..." (05:59)
Trusts can manage assets during one's lifetime and bypass the probate process, offering greater control and privacy.
The conversation transitions to the types of trusts, focusing on revocable and irrevocable trusts.
Revocable Trusts:
Irrevocable Trusts:
Farnoosh Torabi summarizes: "A will is important... it has no force or effect until you pass away. The trust... can prevent probate in the event that you are incapacitated or die." (11:04)
Selecting the right individuals to manage one's estate is critical.
Executor/Trustee:
Power of Attorney & Healthcare Proxy:
Heather highlights frequent pitfalls individuals encounter:
Estate plans should evolve with significant life changes:
Individuals without children face unique estate planning challenges:
Modern estate planning must account for digital possessions:
Heather discusses evolving trends shaping the practice:
Farnoosh Torabi and Heather Zach conclude the episode by emphasizing the importance of initiating and maintaining an estate plan tailored to individual circumstances. Heather encourages listeners to:
Notable Quotes:
Heather Zach's Contact Information:
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This episode serves as a foundational guide for anyone looking to secure their assets and provide for their loved ones through effective estate planning. Whether you're married, child-free, or navigating complex family dynamics, the insights shared by Farnoosh Torabi and Heather Zach offer valuable strategies to create a robust and adaptable estate plan.