Confronting a Union Organizer

Summary

So True with Caleb Hearon

Episode: Confronting a Union Organizer
Date: October 2, 2025
Host: Caleb Hearon
Guest: Denise Brown (union organizer, activist, Kansas City native)

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Main Theme

This episode centers around Denise Brown’s inspiring life journey—from her early years in Kansas City, her time on the East Coast, embracing a Rasta lifestyle, and deep involvement with tenant organizing through KC Tenants. Denise shares stories of resilience, adaption, community work, and intergenerational friendship, and explores the power of collective action against housing injustice.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

Denise’s Early Life, Kansas City Roots, and AT&T Days

• Background: Denise grew up in Kansas City, Missouri, left for about 11 years in the ‘70s and ‘80s living in New Jersey, working for AT&T.
• Meeting Her Husband and Moving East:
  • Worked night shifts, met her husband Larry at Penn Valley.
  • “He said, so you come in here to get a husband? I said, I'm getting Larry.” (04:46)
  • Secretly married in Dallas while delivering dogs to cousins for convenience with AT&T’s spouse employment policy.
• Adjustment to East Coast Life:
  • Big lifestyle shift; Somerset, NJ, contrasted with city living. Denise struggled with rural elements (“...it was a cow in the middle of the road. And I'm like, okay, what do I do with this cow in the middle of the road?” (09:03)).
  • Embraced the vibrant, multicultural energy of New York City.
  • Loved free festivals, Broadway plays (“Dream Girls” with the original cast: “Jennifer Holiday... she’s the one that, at the end, just tore the house down” (11:55)).

Life Changes: Divorce and Reinvention

• Growing Apart:
  • Denise and her husband grew apart after promotions. “We grew apart. His values and our values weren’t coinciding...” (14:18).
  • Substance abuse (husband using cocaine) became decisive: “He started snorting coke, and that became more important than our marriage.” (14:33)
  • Tried marriage counseling: “The counselor just said, I don’t think it’s going to work. And I was like, I already knew that.” (15:53)
• New Jersey, Post-Divorce:
  • Moved to Orange, NJ, on her own; ultimately returned to Kansas City to care for a cousin with Alzheimer’s.

Returning to Kansas City: Culture Shock and Identity

• Initial Struggles:
  • “It was horrible... I had gotten used to that east coast life... Kansas City was slow for me.” (18:05)
  • Re-entering with dreadlocks and a Rasta outlook made her stand out: “Some people didn’t want to associate with me because I had locks.” (19:18)
  • “It fits my lifestyle.” (19:16)
• Rasta Lifestyle Explained:
  • Embracing a “natural way of living,” combining influences from Christianity and Islam thanks to her diverse home life.
  • “It’s easy for me to accept differences and not judge people and not try to convert people. Just accept people for who they are.” (22:05)
• Family Background & Acceptance:
  • Raised Methodist, mom was Catholic, cousin was Muslim. Used religious banter to her advantage growing up (“I’d be like, ‘can I go to this party at so-and-so’s house?’ She said, ‘yeah, go get on out of my [hair],’” (23:53)).

Community Media & Music: KKFI and Lady D

• Involvement with KKFI:
  • Volunteered at local community radio KKFI 90.1 FM (blues show), became board member and treasurer.
  • Hosted show as “Lady D” with a teenager named Nathan, playing classic blues artists like Denise LaSalle, Bobby Blue Bland, Coco Taylor.
  • Vividly recalls Kansas City’s Grand Emporium music scene: “Oh, it was live, yeah... all types of music genres came in.” (30:54)
  • Reflects on not being able to get into bluegrass despite trying.

Organizing & KC Tenants: Finding the Cause

• Entry into Organizing:
  • Witnessed and worried about gentrification (“...pretty soon, we're not gonna even be able to live in the city.” (32:27))
  • Attended Midtown tenant teach-ins, discovered KC Tenants, found community: “They were down there in city hall raising hell. Okay? I want to be a part of this.” (33:00)
• Challenges Today:
  • “It is hard for you to afford housing anywhere... outside developers are coming in and what they're doing is building luxury apartments...” (37:19)
  • Current action: tenant strike at Boleyn Towers, Raytown, MO.

Power, Loss, and Hope in Organizing

• Most Powerful Moment:
  • Protest for $1200 affordable rent at City Hall: “We showed up in numbers. We did not win, but it was so powerful. One of our comrades got arrested... it made me feel empowering.” (39:04)
  • Importance of collective presence at city hall: “We do put fear in them when we go down there to show up, to hold them accountable.” (40:17)
• KC Tenants’ Unique Approach:
  • Breaking stereotypes of division: “We don't judge people. We accept people for who they are. And we embrace everyone that comes into KC tenants.” (41:22)
  • Handles questions about pronouns and political diversity with humor and frankness: “Because I'm addicted to dick. Okay. Recognize.” (43:13)

Clarifying Political Priorities

• Uniting Around Shared Interests:
  • “The in group is, do you think that everyone deserves safe, affordable, fair housing? And the out group is, do you think that's not true and it's okay to exploit your neighbors?” (44:42)
  • “That is 100% true.” (44:43)

Intergenerational Friendships, Positivity, and Hope

• So True Moment:
  • “Older people having a friendship and a good relationship with younger people and younger people having friendships and good relationships with older people.” (48:54)
  • KC Tenants as a site for intergenerational connection.
• On Living a Good Life:
  • Peace, positivity, self-love: “I always try to stay in peace. I meditate, and I do not hold a lot of negativity...you can't help but be happy because negativity is what brings you down.” (51:56)
  • “God don't make junk, and he made you.” (52:54)
• On Hope and Organizing:
  • “Organizing changes things. It brings hope and it also brings prosperity... every change that has been made has been made by the little people, grassroots people.” (57:19)

Memorable Quotes & Moments

• On adapting to rural NJ:

  “I can remember going home one day and it was a cow in the middle of the road. And I'm like, okay, what do I do with this cow in the middle of the road?” (09:03)

• On difference between now and the ‘80s:

  “Then it was easy. Apartments were affordable. If you wanted things, it was affordable.” (26:09)

• On what unites KC Tenants:

  “We don't judge people. We accept people for who they are. And we embrace everyone that comes into Casey tenants.” (41:22)

• On embracing her pronouns:

  “Because I'm addicted to dick. Okay. Recognize.” (43:13)

• On hope in political action:

  “I believe we will win. And that's really our mindset whenever we go into something...” (55:41)

• Advice to those feeling hopeless:

  “Organizing changes things. It brings hope... every big movement... has been made by the little people, grassroots people.” (57:19)

• On self-love:

  “God don't make junk. And he made you. And from that point on, it was like, okay, okay, okay, I got that.” (52:54)

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Timestamps for Important Segments

• [01:21] Guest introduction: Denise Brown, meeting through KC Tenants
• [02:02] Denise’s Kansas City & New Jersey background
• [04:46] “Getting Larry” – how Denise met and married her (now ex-) husband
• [08:01] Culture and festivals in ‘70s & ‘80s New York
• [11:31] Favorite Broadway play: Dream Girls, original cast
• [13:01] Advice for young people moving to new places
• [14:33] Divorce and its circumstances (drug use, marriage counseling)
• [18:05] Returning to KC—struggling to adjust to slower pace and different mindset
• [19:16] “It fits my lifestyle...” – Returning to KC with dreadlocks, Rasta influence
• [22:05] On acceptance due to interfaith upbringing
• [27:07] Denise joins KKFI community radio, hosts blues show as “Lady D”
• [34:00] Discovering and joining KC Tenants: “...I kind of like these people. They down there in city hall raising hell...”
• [37:19] Why tenant organizing is important today
• [39:04] Most powerful organizing moment: protest for affordable rent at City Hall
• [41:22] How KC Tenants unites people across differences
• [43:13] Denise on pronouns (humorous moment)
• [46:05] Conditions in KC housing; tenant strike at Boleyn Towers
• [48:54] "So true" to Denise: intergenerational friendships
• [51:56] On positivity, peace, and loving oneself
• [55:41] “We will win” — tenant union’s mindset
• [57:19] Advice for those lacking hope: “Organizing changes things.”
• [58:39] Trivia game segment

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Tone

• Warm, anecdotal, deeply personal, and often humorous.
• Denise is candid, wise, and unfiltered; Caleb is supportive and energetic.
• Both speakers frequently interject support and laughter.

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In Summary

Denise Brown’s story is quintessentially American: movement for work, self-discovery, struggle, and community. Her time in union organizing shows how local action can spark genuine hope, bring people together across generations and backgrounds, and defend the fundamental human need for housing. “So true” is, for Denise, about connection and community—values she’s embodied through decades of living, adapting, and fighting for justice.

(For more: KC Tenants is fighting gentrification, advocating for affordable housing, and you can get involved wherever you are. And yes—Lady D is always taking new friends.)

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[A]

Yeah, Denise.

[B]

Sup, Caleb.

[A]

What's up? I'm so excited to have you here.

[B]

And I'm excited to be here Midtown.

[A]

Denise Brown, you are one of my favorite people that I have met in the last couple of years. We met through Casey Tennants and Casey tenants has done so many cool things in my life, but allowing me to meet people like you has been the best part. I'm so excited to be talking with you.

[B]

Oh, that is so sweet. And I feel so honored and I feel the same way.

[A]

Oh, thank you, Denise. Tell everybody. So this is my podcast. So true. Tell the listeners a little bit about yourself. Where are you from? What are you up to? What's your life like?

[B]

Okay. My name is Denise Brown and I am originally from Kansas City. I grew up here in Kansas City, Missouri and I did leave the area for about 11 and a half years.

[A]

Where'd you go?

[B]

Lived out east.

[A]

Out east?

[B]

Oh, yeah, New Jersey.

[A]

You were in Jersey?

[B]

Yes.

[A]

I don't think I remembered this.

[B]

Yes, I was in Jersey and hung out in New York. Probably could say I probably lived in New York too. As much as I was in New York.

[A]

Yeah. What? So when was this? When did you go to Jersey?

[B]

In the mid 70s. Mid 70s and I stayed there to late 80s.

[A]

So what. What took you from Kansas City to New York in the 70s?

[B]

Job. I was. I was working with AT&T and at the time my husband got a job and since we Both worked for AT&T, they do the traveling spouse thing. So they found me a Job there. So that's how I ended up in Jersey.

[A]

Wow. So, okay, backing up a little bit. I'm very interested in that. You born and raised in Kansas City. And then when do you meet your husband?

[B]

I met him early 70s. Going to Penn Valley.

[A]

Going to Penn Valley.

[B]

And plus we Both work for AT&T.

[A]

Yeah. And that's how you met. Nice. And then how, how did you guys meet? Is it a cute story?

[B]

Yeah, it is. Well, I'll tell you what. Okay. We both were working for AT&T and we were working a night shift, okay. And I had a girlfriend named Ginger. And she says, now you know why white girls go to college, right? I was like, no, to get husbands. I was like, really? I said, okay, then we're gonna enroll in Penn Valley next semester.

[A]

Wait, is Ginger a white girl? Uh huh.

[B]

She said, okay. And she said, huh? I said, yeah, I'm gonna do what you do. I'm gonna go get Larry. Okay? He's going to Penn Valley, so I'm going to go to Penn Valley. And so.

[A]

So she comes to you and says, white girls go to college to get husbands. And you go, absolutely. We're gonna be enrolling in Penn Valley.

[B]

Right. Well, we were having a conversation and can't remember, somehow the conversation went towards the reason why at that point in time in the 70s. Okay, why a lot of white girls went to college. Their parents sent them to college to.

[A]

Get husbands, to get their Mrs. Degree, Right? Yeah, to get that ring.

[B]

And so I was like, really? She's like, yeah. I said, and it works, right? She said, well, yeah. I was like, okay. And because AT&T reimbursed us for classes. I said, but then let's go and enroll in Penn Valley. So she said, okay. So we both enrolled in Penn Valley. He said, so you come in here to get a husband? I said, I'm getting Larry.

[A]

So you knew him already at that time?

[B]

Because all three of us worked for AT&T.

[A]

Okay, so you knew he was going to school there, right?

[B]

We knew he was going to Penn Valley, yeah. So then that's the reason why I told her, oh, we going to Penn Valley. We can make an enroll in Penn Valley. So.

[A]

And so go get Larry. So what was, what, how did you, how did you strike things up with Larry? How did it turn into dating?

[B]

Well, we hung out. It was Ginger, him, and we had another friend, Elliot, and we all just hung out together. And then things just connected. Yeah.

[A]

Yeah, Things just happened.

[B]

Things just happened.

[A]

And so you guys started dating and then you Both worked for AT&T in Kansas City for, I'm assuming, a number of years, A while. And at what point?

[B]

How.

[A]

Okay, so this. I'm curious about this. How long into dating were you guys? Like, maybe we should get married. Maybe we should actually do this.

[B]

Oh, you want that story?

[A]

Yeah, I do. Unless you don't want to tell it to me.

[B]

No. Okay. We did live together, right? Okay. What happened was we had dogs. He bought me a shepherd, and he had a shepherd, and they made it. So we had cousins in Dallas, and we used to go there a whole lot. So we went to take our dogs to Dallas, one for each cousin while we were down there. I said, why don't we just get married? And he said, okay.

[A]

So you're just on a trip, and you're like, hey, let's get married.

[B]

Yeah. I was like, we living together and everything. Why don't we just go ahead and get married? He said, okay. So we got married in Dallas when we went to deliver dogs. And I told him, I said, but we're not gonna tell anybody that we're married. And he was like, okay. I said, so I'm gonna stay Brown. Okay. He said, okay. So we go back, like, everything. So when he did get his job offer, my boss said, well, it would really be nice and easier for us to get you a job if you and Larry were married. I said, well, Larry and I are married. She said, I knew it. I knew it. I said, no, you didn't. She said, yeah, when you took them dogs down there, you got married, didn't you?

[A]

I was like, yeah, Read you like a book. Damn.

[B]

I was like, yeah. She said, okay. She said, okay, since that. I said, do you want me to bring the marriage license and I'll prove it to you and everything? She says, no, I'll take your word for it. Yeah. And so I said, but don't tell nobody. So she did. So he had left for his job, and I was still there. They were still trying to find me a job. So finally they did find me a job. So the day that they made the announcement, that's when they added Riley to my name.

[A]

Riley to your name.

[B]

Because his name was Riley. So that's when it became. That's when I became Riley. Other than that, I was just Denise Brown.

[A]

Yeah. Okay, so you guys get secret married, and then you tell the lady at AT T so that you can get the job, and then you move out to Jersey. Now, where were y' all living in Jersey?

[B]

Somerset.

[A]

Somerset. Jersey. And you said you were Going into New York a lot.

[B]

Oh, all chat.

[A]

And what were you doing in. What were you doing? This is the seventies in New York.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

What were y' all doing?

[B]

Well, what was going on in the seventies in New York?

[A]

I know you were giving them hell in there, Denise.

[B]

Well, one thing I will say that I like about the east coast and I like about New York is the culture. Okay. I mean, the partying is good. Everybody knows that. But there are so many museums, there are so many different cultures. And I'll say starting in March, all the way up to October, every weekend there's a festival for some culture there in New York.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And I don't know how it is now, but it was always free.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And it was like a three day event, and I like that. And I always went to those. And I love plays from my mother as a child, taking me to plays here in Kansas City. So I got to go to Broadway plays and did all the cultural things out there. Yeah.

[A]

Was it a. What was that move like for you? I mean, moving from being born and raised in Kansas City to going to New York at that time in your life? Because how old were you at that time?

[B]

I was in my early 20s.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

I mean, just over 21.

[A]

Was that crazy? Was that a big change?

[B]

Jersey was the big change. More so because, okay, I grew up in the city. Well, Somerset was, to me was more like the rural area, which it was. And that was an adjustment for me because I can remember going home one day and it was a cow in the middle of the road. And I'm like, okay, what do I do with this cow in the middle of the road? I said, I guess I gotta wait for it to move, right?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And I'm honking my horn, that cow looking at me, and I'm like, okay. Eventually it moved, you know, because the area where I was living wasn't highly developed. Yeah. And so you had a lot. You had a lot of farmers. And people would land there. They just had put a development boom right in the middle of it. For.

[A]

Was it for the AT&T employees kind of. Was that the idea? Or, like, why was.

[B]

No, I don't. The one thing. When I first moved to Jersey, in certain areas, they didn't develop. And then when they did develop, they only developed for that area. Just like behind us. They hunted behind our property. They didn't develop. All of that property only developed wherever whoever had this one little development that they put. And then. Because if you went down the road, it wasn't nothing but Country. I mean, you. There was a sheep farmer, there was a goat farmer, and you had all that going down the road, but then you come into this little cul de sac, little thing, and that. That was the development. We went there. So that was different.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

You know, because I was used to street lights, and here I am going down roads without street lights, and I had to get used to deer all the time.

[A]

What were you thinking about your life at that? Because I feel like early 20s is a time of, like, really, it's a. It's a time of possibility where you're like, anything could happen. I'm open. I'm making choices. I'm out. I'm getting out into the world. Do you remember being 22, 23 in New Jersey and what you thought your life was going to be, or did you think, like, what did you think about your life at that time?

[B]

At that time, basically, I was working, and I wanted to enjoy life, and I really, really wanted the east coast experience because we both said that our families were older and at any point we might have to move back to Kansas City. And I didn't want to go through if I would or shoulda, coulda. So I did it. And like I said, I did a lot of the plays, all that stuff in New York.

[A]

What was your favorite. Do you remember your favorite play that you saw at that time?

[B]

Dream Girls.

[A]

Dream Girls. Oh, my gosh.

[B]

Was the original cast.

[A]

Now. Okay, so now I don't know if she was in the original cast, but who am I thinking of? Gosh.

[B]

Holiday? No, the one that plays on elementary.

[A]

Abbott elementary.

[B]

Yes. Yes, she.

[A]

Was she in it?

[B]

Yes, she was part of the original cast. Oh, my God.

[A]

Was she amazing in it?

[B]

Gloria Devine was part of the original cast. Whoa. And Jennifer Holiday. Was that. Wasn't that her name? Jennifer Holiday? Yeah, Jennifer Holiday. She's the one that, at the end, just tore the house down. But, yeah, yeah, I saw all the place that I went to. I. I went. Made sure that they were original cast because I saw Gregory Hines and Sophisticated, ladies and gentlemen. I went to see Cats.

[A]

And what'd you think of Cats?

[B]

I thought it was okay. I'm gonna say it was okay.

[A]

It's okay. So, okay, so you move out there. I'm interested in this thing you were saying about when you're saying I don't. I. I want to enjoy life, and I don't want to think coulda, shoulda, woulda, that you want to make the big choices is that. I guess there are a lot of Young people who. There are a lot of people in that phase of life right now who listen to the show, who are in their early 20s, who are making big choices, who maybe just moved to a new place for a new job or whatever. What would you. Do? You have any advice for them? As someone who went through that at that time in your life.

[B]

Experience as much as you can in the new area that you are. That you are in at this point in time in your life, and you will find new experiences, new friends, new ventures, and really, a whole new world open up to you if you're open to do things.

[A]

Yeah, that's really interesting. A whole new world will open up to you if you're just open to it. Yeah. So you were in New York and you were doing that, and you were going to shows, and you're working for AT&T, and then what's. Like, how long you're there for? 11 years. You said 10, 11 years. What's. What's life like during that time in your personal life? Are you. Are you getting new jobs at. At&t? Are you staying in the same job? What's your husband up to?

[B]

Well, we both got promotions while we were there, and we grew apart.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

While we were there.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And end up getting a divorce. Yeah. But that was okay.

[A]

Was it? What do you want to talk about that? What happened there?

[B]

What.

[A]

Well, the divorce. What inspired the divorce? What was it? Was it some big drama or was it just like, oh, this isn't working out anymore?

[B]

Yeah, we just. We grew apart.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

It's one of those things where we totally just grew apart. His values and our values weren't coinciding like they were before. They were going in different directions.

[A]

What were the directions? What. What. What changed in the values necessarily?

[B]

He started. He started snorting coke, and that became more important than our marriage.

[A]

Yeah, that can. I mean, that's really. That's a big thing.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Is when someone goes on. On a. You know, gets into a new kind of drug or gets into a new kind of thing, and the other person doesn't want to. I mean, that would definitely affect a marriage. That's crazy. So he. He gets into that stuff, and then you're. I assume you're the one who's like, hey, we need to get a divorce.

[B]

Well, I told him that. Yeah. We had conversations, and I think the breaking point was. And this is really interesting, we started arguing. We never really argued the whole time that we were together. We did not really have arguments. We had disagreements, but we never really like, argued, Argued. And when we got into those arguments, it's like, okay, this is not going to work.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

You know, But I tried to save it. We went through. What is it? Therapy. We went through therapy.

[A]

Oh, did you go to, like, marriage counseling or was it.

[B]

Went to marriage counseling. And I loved the guy because he said, I'm tell you now, I don't try to put him back together. If it's not gonna work, I'm gonna let you know it's not gonna work. It's like, okay, cool. But we went through marriage counseling. He didn't want to, but we did. And after going through it, he says, don't think it. The counselor just said, I don't think it's going to work. And I was like, I already knew that.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Well, I was trying to be a good wife and see if I could save it. It was like, yeah.

[A]

And so at that point, the marriage counselor says, hey, I don't. I think you guys should call it quits. And then you do. And so how far into being in Jersey is that? How many years in Jersey are you at this point?

[B]

Probably about five. About five years. About five years. Okay, five, five and a half years.

[A]

Five, five and a half years. And then what happens then? Do you move out on your own in Jersey because you stay there for a while longer, so you get your own place in Somerset?

[B]

No, I moved to Orange, New Jersey.

[A]

Orange. Okay. And does the ex husband stay in Somerset.

[B]

For a while? Yeah, he did. Yep.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Yeah, he stayed there.

[A]

So how did you wind up in Orange? Did you have friends over there or anything?

[B]

Well, I had somebody to help me move there.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Because I had already told them that when I was leaving. But see, the thing about it in Jersey and it really kind of upset me was in Jersey, they have a law that if you say if you stay separated 18 months, you can automatically. It's automatic divorce, dissolved of marriage.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

And that's what I was trying to do, but he. He wasn't having it that way. So we. We ended up have to get attorneys, you know, and he made more money than me, so, of course, you know, I was like. But we. I got through it. Yeah, cool. I had a lot of support there.

[A]

Yeah. So then you moved to Orange. You're still working for AT&T. And then what eventually inspires you or moves you to come back this way.

[B]

To take care of a cousin that had Alzheimer's?

[A]

Yeah. So you moved back here to take care of your cousin. And at that point, do you get to do you stay with the job at AT&T or do you.

[B]

I vested out at that point in time.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

I could have transferred back and they were going to find me a job here, but I just went on and busted out from AT&T.

[A]

So what's it like coming back to Kansas City at that point?

[B]

It was horrible.

[A]

Really?

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Why?

[B]

I had gotten used to that east coast life.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And Kansas City was slow for me.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

I'm used to going out at 12 o' clock at night and everybody's going home and getting in bed. It was. I didn't realize it was more of an adjustment for me to move back home than it was for me to leave home. Whoa.

[A]

That's really interesting. Yeah. Especially because now you've gotten used to it because now you're, what, you're in your early mid-30s.

[B]

Mm.

[A]

And you come back to Kansas City. Do you still know. Like, do you still have a bunch of people here other than family? Like, are your friends all still here?

[B]

Yeah, I had friends and people here, which made it nice. Yes. But it was really. I really. The mindset here was different.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And that was the thing that really threw me off. I was like, oh, okay. Because see, okay. When I came back, I came back with dreadlocks. Dreadlocks were not a big thing here in Kansas City at the time. So I stood out. And some people didn't want to associate with me because I had locks.

[A]

Really? Oh, my God.

[B]

You know? And then other people wanted to put me in another box, and they were like, well, what made you do that? I was like, you know, that's interesting. It fits my lifestyle. And they was like, what? I said, yeah, it fits my lifestyle.

[A]

What was the. What was their problem with people having dreads? What was the assumption or association?

[B]

Okay, you just gotta understand, in Kansas City. How can I put this? You. You have. At that time, everybody was wearing Jheri curls. I come back to greasy hair. I mean, it was like everybody was wearing Jheri curls. That was the thing here. And locs was not a thing here. You know? And so therefore, they really wasn't accepting the locs, and they didn't understand the loc lifestyle. Because at that time, I was living a Rasta lifestyle.

[A]

Rasta. Okay. And what does that look like?

[B]

That's one where, you know. You want me to get it?

[A]

I do want to know, because I don't know anything about it.

[B]

You know nothing about Rastafarian.

[A]

I mean, I know I've heard things and I see things in, like, media or whatever, but I don't. If you're. If you're asking, like, do I know anything about what your actual experience living a Rasta lifestyle in the 70s and 80s. I got a lot to learn, Denise.

[B]

Okay. Well, it's basically a natural way of living. And at the time when I came back. And still now you don't. Well, I don't eat meat, and a lot of Rastas don't eat meat. Okay. And you are definitely pro African, in a sense. And it's hard for me to explain it to you, but one reason why it was easy for me to get into that lifestyle is because of my arrearing and the way that I look at Rasta. And I might be wrong, but it's a combination of Christianity and Islam, and I grew up in a household with Christianity and Islam.

[A]

Really? Okay, what did that look like? So mom was one, dad was the other. Is that the vibe? What's the.

[B]

My cousin that came back because my father died, and I never knew who my father was. He died when I was a very young child. Okay. So my mom is Catholic, and my cousin, who we lived in the house with, was Muslim, and I was Methodist.

[A]

We got everything going on in this house.

[B]

Tell me about. But see, growing up in a house like that, it allowed me to accept people that are different from me and differences. It's easy for me to accept differences and not judge people and not try to convert people. Just accept people for who they are.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Because if the vibes are right and. And the spirit is right, it doesn't matter what you believe in.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

You can have that good relationship.

[A]

Yeah. I think that's beautiful.

[B]

You know, and I really. That's something. I always say that I wouldn't have changed anything like that. You know, I did use it to my advantage as a mischievous child. How? Because, see, my mother, a lot of times didn't want. She felt that my cousin was pushing Islam on me, which he wasn't. I'm the one that's curious, and I ask a lot of questions. And so if I knew I wanted to go somewhere and my mom was gonna say no, I would get them into a religious argument, and then they might.

[A]

Denise.

[B]

And I'd be like, I'm the only one in this house now. I gotta figure out some ways to get things done. And so I would say, now, buster. You know, in Sunday school, they said this. And I knew he was gonna give me an Islamic take on whatever it was. Sometimes it was the same thing. Every was the wild things I said. Okay. He agreed with me. But then sometimes I knew I'd take something where he wouldn't. And my mother. My mom would hear, she said, now, I done told you, Eugene. Da, da da da da. And then my mom and him would get to going back and forth, and I was like, yo, can I go to this party at so and so's house? She said, yeah, go get on out of my.

[A]

And then they're in there, and they're in there fighting while you're off to the party. You are. You are mischievous. That is so funny.

[B]

So I kind of use religion to my advantage.

[A]

Absolutely. So would you say that Rasta is faith?

[B]

It is.

[A]

It is a faith. Okay.

[B]

And I believe it is because we read the Bible. Yeah.

[A]

So you picked that up on the East Coast. You got into that out there.

[B]

Yes, I did.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Yes, I did. And it was interesting because this guy said, you know, you just a commercial roster. I was like, I don't know what that is, but okay. And then we just got to talking about it, and so I really developed the lifestyle because I liked it because, like I said, I didn't really eat meat, and I was really into the natural healing and all of this and that. And so plus, I like reggae, so it was cool.

[A]

Well, that always helps. Were dreads a part of it for you? Was that part of the Rasta thing?

[B]

No, I just decided to grow dreads.

[A]

Different thing.

[B]

But, yeah, that was just different. It was like, okay, what do I want to do with my hair now? So I just cut my hair off one day and then started growing locs.

[A]

Yeah. Interesting. So then you come back here and. Are you renting here when you get back here?

[B]

No, I was in a family home.

[A]

You were in a family home in midtown Kansas City or somewhere else on the east side? On the east side. And so it's a little bit of an adjustment coming back. People are going home when you used to go out, et cetera, et cetera. And what is. What do you think is the big difference between life now and. Because this would have been the early.

[B]

80S, late 80s, late 80s, early 90s.

[A]

What do you think is the biggest difference between life now and life then?

[B]

Whoa. That's a good question, I think, on that one. Wow. Thank you. Life now. In life then. Okay. Now in general, right now, and this is nationwide, it's hard for people to have housing.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

I mean, then it was easy. Apartments were affordable. If you wanted things, it was affordable.

[A]

Really?

[B]

Yeah. I mean, even the housing market was a lot cheaper then than it is.

[A]

Now comparatively still, like even with inflation and all that stuff. It felt like you could work. If you worked full time, you could afford your housing.

[B]

You could afford your housing.

[A]

See, that's so crazy to me because I don't, I've not known a world like that. I don't, I, I've only lived my whole adulthood. It has not felt like that. It's felt like people work full time and they can't even afford where they live.

[B]

That's because of inflation and greed and greed.

[A]

Well, this gets us into. It kind of gets us into to organizing and stuff in Kansas City. So do you, at what point in coming back do you start to get involved in organizing and things like that? Is it, is it during that period of your life or is it later on?

[B]

I didn't get into organizing when I first came back. Yeah, I didn't. When I first came back, I got involved with KKFI and.

[A]

And what is KKFI?

[B]

A community radio station. Yeah, 90.1.

[A]

Yeah. FM, by the way. Yeah.

[B]

And I did a blue show.

[A]

Really? I didn't know this about you.

[B]

Yes, I have an FCC license. Third class FCC license.

[A]

And don't forget a. And don't forget it.

[B]

Don't forget.

[A]

So wait, you come back here and start doing a blue show. How'd you get into that?

[B]

My friend was volunteering at KKFI and so she was like, come on over here with me. So I came over there with her. She does, she did jazz. And so at the time, Tom Davis was the General Manager and KKF5 was really growing at that point in time. And they finally had made it to one hundred and twenty thousand watts. And they had mouth. I don't know if you ever listened to it, but they had so many different shows, all types of shows. Yeah, you know, anything from blues, jazz. They had a bunch of Hispanic shows. They had community forums. They even had. They even had teenagers that did radio shows.

[A]

Oh, wow.

[B]

Yeah, because I trained four of the teenagers that did their radio shows on KKF 5.

[A]

Wow. So you just get involved in that through volunteering. And what are you doing for work at this point in your life?

[B]

Living off of what I had, what I had accomplished because I wasn't working and I was like, I said I was taking care of my cousin. See, he would go with me sometime too, and whatever, and sometimes my mom would be at home, but that was basically it. And then, yeah, because I came, I became a board member on KKFI and I was the treasure.

[A]

Wow. Yeah. So Caretaking, volunteering, and then start doing the board member stuff at kkfi. And your blues show, how did you decide who to play? Just whoever you liked at the time. Who were you playing the most, do you think?

[B]

I played a lot of Denise lasalle? I played a lot of old blues, like Bobby Blue Bland, Coco Taylor, you name it, I was playing them and I did it. It's interesting because I did the show with a young teenager.

[A]

Wow. And at this time, you were in your 30s. So this teenager, this teenager you're working with, were they on air or were they just, like, helping you?

[B]

No, they were on air. We did the show together.

[A]

Oh, wow.

[B]

Nathan was his name. Yeah, we did the show because I was Lady D. Lady D?

[A]

Yeah. Lady D. Lady D. Oh, my gosh. Okay. So do you know where Nathan is now?

[B]

Last time he was in Florida, his mother was the secretary there. And so he was always at the radio station. Plus, he helped train me a lot because he knew so much from being there a whole lot. And just somehow we ended up doing the show together.

[A]

Lady D and Nathan, the Blue Show.

[B]

I can't remember what his name was, but yeah.

[A]

So how long did you do the Blue show on the radio for?

[B]

About 2 and a half years.

[A]

Dang. Heck yeah. Every Wednesday, Every Wednesday.

[B]

Traffic jail, Traffic jam.

[A]

And were you hanging around, like, 18th and vine, going to live music shows here at all during that time or.

[B]

Yeah, the Grand Emporium, which is closed now. That was the spot back in them days.

[A]

Really?

[B]

Oh, they brought all kind of acts here. Yeah.

[A]

What was. What was the vibe at Grand Emporium?

[B]

Oh, it was. It was live. Yeah, it was live, yeah.

[A]

Oh, my God.

[B]

Yeah. Roger. Roger brought a lot of good acts here and all types of music genres came in. Yeah.

[A]

Who was your favorite act that you saw there?

[B]

Ooh, that's a horrible design. I'm gonna say Half Pint.

[A]

Half Pint?

[B]

Uh huh. He was a reggae artist from Jamaica.

[A]

You like your reggae?

[B]

I like reggae, yeah. Yeah. But I'm eclectic in all areas of my life. I like all music. Only one I'm gonna tell you that I don't like. I haven't been able to get into bluegrass.

[A]

Really.

[B]

Oh, you like bluegrass?

[A]

Yeah. We're gonna have a chat. I mean, okay, Bluegrass. Like, I'll. Anytime there's a bluegrass festival or something going on, if I'm free, I'll pop over and listen to someone play the banjo for a while. You don't like that?

[B]

You're like, no, I've tried it. I Tried it when I was out east.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

It's like, okay, maybe that I'm older, I can appreciate it, but back then. Oh, no, no, no.

[A]

So, okay, so you don't get involved in. You're working at kkfi. You're not really involved in politics or organizing at the time.

[B]

No.

[A]

What kind of brings you into political life? Or what kind of brings you into organizing?

[B]

Well. Oh. Got me to where I am now.

[A]

Casey Tennants.

[B]

Complaining. Sitting up. Okay. I was sitting up with friends and we were complaining, okay? I'm like, you know what? Pretty soon, we're not gonna even be able to live in the city. Because I was seeing all the gentrification going on, right? And I'm like, they gonna be pricing us out of here now. Where are we gonna go to live? That was my thought. And so I said, you know what? We need to start going to city hall meetings. We need to set up a group, and we need to do this. Need to put a stop to this. I said, because, you know, they using my tax dollars, and I'm not having anything to say. I have no say on how they're using my tax dollars. Well, I saw these tenants, Casey tenants on tv. I remember seeing them when they were doing the homeless thing. I was like, I mean, I looked at it. I said, that's pretty nice. Let it go. But then I was at the bus stop, and I saw this where if you Midtown tenant union was doing their teach ins about gentrification. So I said, I'll go. So I went to the one at the library, and rest is history. I've been with kk. I mean, I've been with Casey tenants ever since, because it was like, okay, this is what I'm looking for. Because when I went in there, they were going against math, okay? Mac wanted to get that $10 million, $10.3 million. And they stopped Mac from getting that. I'm like, I kind of like these people. They down there in city hall raising hell. Okay? I want to be a part of this. Okay?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

But they were speaking up, and they were wanting to hold city hall accountable for our money, and we should have some say so in our money. So, yeah, that's what got me involved with KC tenants.

[A]

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[B]

What?

[A]

Maybe there's a people listening to the episode right now. This episode is coming out on the day of the benefit show that we're doing in Kansas City for the tenant unit to come out Thursday. Maybe there's people listening who don't care about tenant organizing or don't know about tenant organizing. What would you say to somebody who doesn't know about tenant organizing? About why it's important and why, why it's the thing that you've put so much of your life's energy into.

[B]

Tenant organizing is very, very important because of the fact that majority of the people are tenants in this city. And at this point in time, if you are working class or poor, it is hard for you to afford housing anywhere. Yes, anywhere in the United States. And so therefore we need to organize so that we can and get affordable housing. Because at this point in time, outside developers are coming in and what they're doing is building luxury apartments, which means that the average Joe Blow cannot afford. And they're starting at $1,200 for a one bedroom apartment.

[A]

It's madness. People can't, I mean, people can't afford it. It's crazy. Even in a city like Kansas City, which for the longest time was a place that people thought like, oh, that's affordable. I can move over there and I can afford to live. Now even places like here are becoming completely inaccessible to people. True to working people. What is the. You have been so involved in KC tenants. I'm so moved and inspired by your activism and your work with the tenant union and how much you do for this city and for the tenant union. And I'm wondering what, what is the most powerful feeling that you've experienced during your time in the tenant union? Oh, I know it's hard to pick.

[B]

There are so many of them. I guess with me the most powerful one was when we went to City hall for the $1200 affordable rent for that was the most powerful time because we showed up in numbers. We did not win, but it was so powerful. One of our comrades got arrested and it just, I don't know, it made me feel empowering. And it was like, yes, yes. And we shut City hall down a.

[A]

Few times, you know, sometimes.

[B]

And one thing I noticed when we go there, it's kind of like we put a little bit of fear in them because it's like, okay, what are they going to do now? We do put fear in them when we go. When we go down there to show up, to hold them accountable.

[A]

Yeah. I think sometimes the losses can be even more galvanizing than the wins.

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Because it's like you really get people pissed off and you get people. And we should all be pissed off. People who care about working people in this country should be pissed off. And sometimes those losses get people even more involved than they would have been had you won.

[B]

Right.

[A]

Because it gets people to where they should be, which is angry and paying attention.

[B]

Right.

[A]

What do you think of. I know that you had some experience with New York Times reporter asking about, like, oh, what are the older folks in the tenant union make of pronouns? And this kind of stuff. I feel like they're always trying. People hear about the organizing of the tenant union. They hear that we've organized mega Republican Trump people, and we've organized younger people and older people, and that the tenant union has really brought such a diverse coalition of people together to fight for this issue. And I think a lot of outsiders, first instinct is to poke holes and go, well, that can't work. If that worked, we'd already be doing it or whatever.

[B]

What do you.

[A]

What do you think is the secret to KC tenants and the tenant union in general working with so many different types of people? How does it work?

[B]

We don't judge people.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

We accept people for who they are.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And we embrace everyone that comes into Casey tenants.

[A]

Even someone who votes differently than you or somebody who has different pronouns or somebody who. Whatever. And you find that. You find that easy.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And even if they don't use pronouns.

[A]

Yes.

[B]

Okay.

[A]

Yeah. That reporter really tried it with you. There was a reporter that came. You want to tell this story?

[B]

I'm gonna let you tell us.

[A]

One of my. One of my most favorite iconic Denise moments. There are many to choose from. A reporter came and was like. Was asking you what about. Wanted you to. Wanted to ask about the pronouns and how that worked. And if you were upset about people using pronouns in the tenant union and you were saying that. Did you try she they for a second? Did you consider it?

[B]

No, I was using they them or something like that. You know, I was like, using they them, and somebody was like, so they said, so you. Are they them? I said, yeah. Is that a problem? It's like, I wouldn't. I didn't take you for that. I was like, okay, I don't understand what you mean, but I heard Funky Dineva explain pronouns. I said, oh, now I understand what they were saying. So I immediately changed mine to she. Her.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

I said, because I might be missing out on something here if I don't do that. Cause then they gonna. I'm like, oh, they're gonna think that I don't like men. Oh no, no, no, no, no.

[A]

They thought there was people. There were people thinking that because you had a they in the mix that you were maybe were a lesbian, which is not the same thing. But it was confusing to people, right?

[B]

It was confusing to them. And I was like, oh no, I don't want this confusion. I'm a she her. Uh huh. Because I'm addicted to dick. Okay. Recognize.

[A]

I'm obsessed. I think the thing that, that you're saying about accepting everybody, I think what it means to me is that like in, in organizing in this way and organizing tenants specifically is that we have a very singular goal in mind. It's. It's fair, affordable, safe housing for everybody. And when we say that, we mean everybody, right? Whether you vote like us, whether you talk like us, whether you look or think or pray like us, whatever that means. The us that we're talking about is such an amalgamation of different types of people that there really is no in group or out group. The in group is, do you think that everyone deserves safe, affordable, fair housing? And the out group is, do you think that that's not true and it's okay to exploit your neighbor, exploit your neighbors? That's the in group, out group. Everything else is immaterial to that. And so to us, what that means, people who organize with the tenant union and allies. I would, you know, I, I don't. I'm not nearly as much of an organizer in presence as you or Tara or any of the, the leaders in the union. I just come around and help out when I can. But what that means to us who believe in this mission and are trying to help with this work or do this work, is that a lot of that stuff is kind of not our business. We're worried about your housing and we're worried about you being treated fairly by your landlord. Does that feel true?

[B]

That is 100% true.

[A]

Yeah, I think it's. I'm really grateful to the tenant union because it has really clarified and centered my political activism. I feel like I hadn't had political hope in years. I hadn't had political hope since pro, when I was like, you know, 11, 12 years old and Obama got elected. The first time, that was the. That was probably the last time I felt like genuine political. Well, Bernie's campaigns. But then the DNC screwed him. They did everything they could to destroy that man's campaigns.

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Which is horrible because I think he would have won in our country. Be in a totally different place right now. But genuine, pure political hope I hadn't had in so long. And I get that from the tenant union that I feel like, oh, this is so clarifying to me that Tara says all the time, like, you get to wake up every day and decide whose team you're on, choose what side you're on. And I like being on the side of the tenant union.

[B]

Oh, yeah. Best team to be on. But see, also another thing that we're. That we look at too with, with our tenant unions is not only a place for everybody to live, but a safe place. Because right now we're dealing with a lot of landlords that are slum lords and they are not keeping the buildings up, but yet they're getting our tax dollars.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Okay. And there's infestation of roaches, rats, ceilings are falling down, there's mold in the buildings, plumbing's messed up. And I can go on and on naming all the problems that tenants are having in these apartments. And tomorrow we are launching a tenant stripe at Boleyn Towers in Raytown, Missouri. And it's because of these conditions. And the landlord does not want to come to the bargaining table with us, do not want to fix what's done. And so the best way that you can get anybody is hit them in their pocket.

[A]

And so these people think they're untouchable.

[B]

They think they are.

[A]

They think that they don't have to listen to, especially because it is. It's classist, it's ageist, it's racist. A lot of these people, the specific reason that they think that they don't have to engage with their tenants is because their tenants are often, almost always low income people, first and foremost, but then also often senior citizens, but then also often immigrants, but then also often people of color. And so these rich companies that take money from the government to subsidize their housing projects, our money that we have given to the government to participate in a society, Right. They take that money, it's given to them to run these buildings, then they don't run the buildings and pocket the money.

[B]

True.

[A]

It is so beyond up and evil what they are doing. And then when the tenants say, hey, things are so bad that we've unionized, we. We need to talk to you. For the owner or the landlord or whatever the title may be, for them to not come to the table is unacceptable.

[B]

It is.

[A]

So the tenant strike, by the time this episode comes out that you're talking about in Raytown, will be launched. A tenant strike will have happened. And a tenant strike, for people who don't know, is a rent strike, is when renters withhold rent in order to force the owner of their building, or the landlord or the property manager, whatever you know, the titles are, to negotiate with them about unsafe and unfair living conditions. And so that's what we'll be in the. In the middle of in. In Raytown by the time this comes out.

[B]

Yes. That is so true.

[A]

Yeah. Speaking of so true, Denise, what is so true to you? Do you have a so true?

[B]

Yeah. Your podcast.

[A]

My podcast is so true to you.

[B]

I do love your podcast, though.

[A]

Thank you.

[B]

What is so true? Oh, I'm gonna tell you what's so true to me. Okay. Is older people having a friendship and a good relationship with younger people and younger people having friendships and good relationships with older people. And that's kind of where I am in my life, because it seems like a lot of my friendships and relationships are with people that are younger than me, and they are really good. And we learn from each other and we grow from each other, because to me, there is no age limit on where you can get help from, especially if it's technology. I'm gonna go to somebody young because I'm a dummy when it comes to technology. But, yeah, because it was interesting. It was this girl. She's probably in her 30s. I'll say early 30s. And she hung out with me and somebody else that is older, like, in her 50s. And after the experience with us, she says, oh, you give me. You girls give me a different perspective on old people. I was like, okay, well, what was your perspective on old people before you hung out with us? That y' all were dull, boring, and just angry with life. I was like, oh, that must have been them people you hung. You. You used to hanging around with, or. No. Oh, no, no, no, no. We're full of life. We enjoy life, and we're not angry about nothing.

[A]

Yeah, I. I completely agree. I think it's so important and special. And you do have so many. I mean, everybody knows. Denise, you got so many. You got so many friends, so many. So many different kinds of people around you. I'm very. I think the. There is, though, a. A problem. I think many younger people would be interested in having Intergenerational friendships. And maybe many older folks would as well, but no one seems to know the place to make it happen. I think the tenant union is a great place to make it happen.

[B]

I was just getting ready to say, I said, casey, tennis will make it happen.

[A]

Yeah. And we're lucky. We have a great tenant union here.

[B]

Yes.

[A]

So many people, when we had tar on, so many people commented and were like, I wish I had this in my city. I wish I had this in my town. And I'm like, well, fortunately for me, someone had already started one in my city. So I got to just kind of come over and hang out and get to know the work. But if you don't have one, you have to start one.

[B]

Well, what I'm going to say on that is we'll probably be coming to your town soon, so look out for us.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

That'S what I'm going to say on that.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Well, you're talking about intergenerational friendships. And I asked you a little bit earlier, like, advice you would give to people in their 20s about moving to a new place or something, but I feel like you're a happy, active person who has a full life. What do you think is the. I don't want to say secret, because secret never feels like the right word, but what do you think is the key to living a happy life or a good life?

[B]

I guess my secret is. Well, I always try to stay in peace. I meditate, and I do not hold a lot. I do not hold a lot of negativity. I try hard to knock negativity out. Okay. And with that, you can't help but be happy because negativity is what brings you down. But positiveness is going to bring you up and it's gonna make you happy. And then you gotta love yourself.

[A]

Yeah. Have you always loved yourself?

[B]

Always have.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Yeah. I think so much time. Arrogant to some people. Okay. Some people say you just arrogant. No, I said, I just love myself.

[A]

Yeah. It was easy for you. It just came natural.

[B]

I guess it did. No. I'm gonna tell you what made me do this.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

In Sunday school, when I was a kid, I had a Sunday school teacher said something, somebody had said something, they were putting themselves down. She said, remember this? I said, oh, God, don't make junk. And he made you. And from that point on, it was like, okay, okay, okay, I got that. God don't make junk. He made you. He don't make junk. And he made you. So therefore, it was like, okay, so therefore, you can't help but put yourself up here. You can put yourself down here if you believe that. Since he don't make junk.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Then I don't know. And part of it, probably my family instilled stuff into believing in yourself, because if you don't believe in yourself, nobody else will. And I didn't really grow up around a lot of negativity, to be honest.

[A]

Really.

[B]

I grew up in a very peaceful house. I really, really did. Very. There was not a lot of arguments and stuff like that. Everything was peaceful in my house, and that's kind of how I live. I can't. A whole lot of foolishness and mayhem. I can't deal. I can't deal with that in a home.

[A]

That shows and makes sense. You have a very calming presence about you. It makes sense that, I mean, plenty of people come to a calming presence and had to do a lot of work or whatever, but that doesn't surprise me at all. You have a very. You have a very calming energy about you. I feel very calm when I'm talking to you and hanging out with you.

[B]

Yeah, you have one, too.

[A]

Thank you. I try my. I want to. My favorite thing that you and I got to be a part of that the tenant union has done is.

[B]

We.

[A]

Made a video, you and I, for the stadium, right. That the Chiefs and the Royals, who. We love the team. We love the teams. They were trying to get a downtown stadium built. They wanted the taxpayers to pay for it. They wanted to displace a bunch of our neighbors to do it. Makes no sense. They've got perfectly good stadiums right now. And their whole threat to the voters was, if you don't give us all this money and let us do this, we're gonna leave. And we beat them. The Kansas City tenants organized and beat them and got this thing voted down. And I just, like, that is the most inspiring thing politically, I think I've been involved in, in my adult life. I just thought that was so. I, I, honest to God. And I, I know this probably sounds bad, but when we were fighting that fight and when we were telling everyone about it and making our video and, like, working on that, I kind of, in the back of my head was like, we got a big fight. I don't know. I don't know. I, I, I, I try not to ever sit in that place mentally because that's counterproductive to good organizing. But in the back of my head, I was like, this is a pretty improbable fight that we're having. And I'm so Glad that we're having it. But I was shocked that we won, to be honest.

[B]

Oh, then you must learn this. A saying we have. We always say this. We will win. I believe we will win. I believe we will win. And that's really our mindset. Whenever we go into something, not saying we don't win everything, but that is our mindset. When we go into any campaign or anything, that we go any direct action, we go in with a winning attitude and we go in and we act and we do everything from a winning perspective. And then two, we just come together because there are so many brains and knowledge in KCT that just comes together and we can go here, go there and bring the things together and make it work. Because on that I like the slogan and I think that's the catch. The catchphrase was billionaires are trying to bully us. Because basically that's what they were doing.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And then people like, yeah, they're more billionaires. They are. They're bullying the taxpayers.

[A]

Yeah. You. You're somebody who has a lot of, I feel like hope and a lot of belief. And the thing that I hear so much from people right now, my peers, my friends, people in the know, responses to this show or whatever, people feel really hopeless right now. I think people have. Are struggling to feel political hope, to feel hope in the future, to feel hope in the, you know, the idea that things are going to get better. What, what gives you hope? And what would you say to someone who's struggling with having hope right now?

[B]

Well, only thing I can say is organizing changes things. It brings hope and it also brings prosperity. Because if you really look at this country, every big movement or every, every change that has been made has been made by the little people, grassroots people. So get in, get involved in something organization that is in your self interest. But I would like for you to get involved with KC Tenants. But if KC Tennis is not in your self interest, there are other organizations that can bring you hope in this city. It depends on what. If you're with climate, there's organizations that deal with the climate. There's political organizations, There's a lot of. A lot of organizations. And if you need help in finding one, just contact me at KC Tenants and I will hook you up.

[A]

Get a hold of Denise. Get a hold of Denise. Denise, I have a game for you. A segment. Are you ready for this? I'm playing games.

[B]

Yeah. Remember when you did that with Trick, huh?

[A]

And now it's time to do it with you. You watched it when Trixie did It.

[B]

Oh, I love that. I love that one. And, oh, I can go on on with Joe Show. I tell you how I look at Josh.

[A]

I know you do. Okay, well, now it's your turn, Denise. Forget about all those people. It's the Denise Show. Now, I'm going to read you 15 statements. You're going to tell me as quickly as you can if you think what I just said is true or false. And if you get 10 or more correct, we're going to give you 50 US dollars, big, big prize for this game show. You ready? Okay. The Kansas City Chiefs were originally called the Dallas Texans.

[B]

No.

[A]

It's true.

[B]

Oh, no, they were, and I know that. And I said no.

[A]

J was the last letter to be added to the Alphabet.

[B]

No.

[A]

True. Lightning can't strike the same place twice.

[B]

Yes, it can.

[A]

Yes. So it's false. It can. Clouds are weightless.

[B]

False. False.

[A]

They can weigh over a. A million pounds.

[B]

Oh, I'm dumb.

[A]

Richard. No. Richard Nixon was the 37th president of the United States.

[B]

He could have been. Yeah. True.

[A]

True. Kansas City, Kansas is older than Kansas City, Missouri.

[B]

True.

[A]

False. Karaoke means empty orchestra in Japanese.

[B]

I don't know that. I'm just going to say.

[A]

True. True. The King of hearts is the only king card with king card without a mustache.

[B]

False.

[A]

It's true. The first product to have a barcode was Dr. Pepper.

[B]

I don't know about that. True.

[A]

False. It was Wrigley Gum.

[B]

No.

[A]

There are two credit cards for every person in the United States.

[B]

I don't know about that one. Now two credit cards. Oh, that's true.

[A]

That is true. The pancreas produces white blood cells.

[B]

True.

[A]

False. Insulin.

[B]

No. Insulin.

[A]

When you die, your hair still grows for a couple of months.

[B]

True.

[A]

It's true. Bats are the only mammals that can actually fly.

[B]

True.

[A]

That is true. There are 10 gates barbecue locations in the KC metro area. That's W. Okay, it does say false, but then it says 10, so. Chance messed this question up, so he's getting in trouble, but I believe you that it's false. Snakes are the deadliest animals in the world.

[B]

True.

[A]

False. It's mosquitoes.

[B]

Oh, mosquitoes.

[A]

You got eight. Oh, you got eight. That's really good. Honestly.

[B]

Yeah, but I didn't get $50.

[A]

No, no, no, Denise, you get paid regardless. Just so you know. Just so you know, is there anything else that we didn't get to that you wanted to tell people? Any message you want to leave people with on your so True episode?

[B]

Oh, this is going to be after E Haul, right?

[A]

Yeah. This will come out the day of the show.

[B]

Okay, so everyone come down to heat the the uptown. Everyone come to The Uptown Theater, 38th and Broadway, for the he haul with cake extravaganza.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Trust me, you don't want to miss it. It's one of the best you will ever go to.

[A]

Lady D. Lady D, back on the mic. Thank you so much for being here, Denise.

[B]

We love you for having me.

[A]

Appreciate you. That was a hit gun podcast.