S26 Ep3: Hit Him with a Trifecta

Summary

Podcast Summary: Something Was Wrong

Season 26, Episode 3: "Hit Him with a Trifecta"
Release Date: June 24, 2026
Host: Broken Cycle Media

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Episode Overview

This gripping episode follows Marie, a survivor whose stalker—shockingly, her former pastor—broke into her home two nights in a row. Through chilling police audio, Marie’s first-hand account, and reactions from her family, the episode exposes the manipulation and betrayal she endured, the legal process she faced, and the troubling role that church leadership and even some "advocates" played in her journey to safety. The episode emphasizes the difficulty of seeking justice for stalking and abuse, especially when the perpetrator is held in high esteem within a religious community.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Break-In and Immediate Response

• Marie’s Realization and 911 Call (02:16)
  Her best friend Claire recalls, “She just sat on my bed for hours remembering all the stuff that she had never put together before. How he has been essentially stalking her and she didn't even really realize it…her phone dings again. And so we literally watched him live, breaking into her home for a second night in a row.”

• Police Investigation and Confrontation (03:01–13:16)
  The officers present overwhelming evidence to Sergio Guardia (pastor/accused), including video footage of him inside Marie’s home.

  • Officer: "Sergio, this is a video of you inside Marie's kitchen. Boom. That's you with your phone light on, looking right at the camera. And then you go back downstairs. This was last night. So this is the second night in a row that you've gone over to Marie's house, entered without permission." (11:06)
  • When pressed, Sergio repeatedly denies entering the house until the evidence is irrefutable, then goes silent.

• Charges & Protective Order (13:16–25:48)

  • Officers refer to charging Sergio with a “trifecta” (stalking, breaking and entering, and trespass).
  • Marie is granted an emergency protective order after the arrest, which brings some relief but also lasting trauma for her and her daughter, who immediately moves her belongings out of the basement where the accused had entered.
    Marie: “My daughter…immediately went straight to the basement where her bedroom was and started bringing everything up…It really impacted her a lot.” (27:54)

2. The Legal Process and Its Challenges

• Bond Hearing & What Victims Face (31:45–33:15)
  Marie describes her anxiety: "I was not aware that I could attend the bond hearing…Those days he was in jail, I was able to sleep…He was given $5,000 bond. He would be released. I just didn't feel safe at all for the protective order."

• Family Response (33:18–35:51)
  Her brother Brendan shares, “Her first concern was for her children…with stalking, it doesn't go away. Stalkers only escalate…The hardest part is just having the sense that you're not safe, that your family's not safe.” (34:00)
  Brendan is not surprised by the church’s response: “It has a lot of influence and a lot of sway. So it was very disappointing for the leadership to respond in the way that they did.”

3. The Church’s Response & Victim Silencing

• Interaction with Executive Pastor (35:51–40:07)
  Disturbed by the church’s reaction, Marie recounts a call with Executive Pastor Matt Wilmington:
  • “Sergio's a dear, dear friend of his. And that he was so sad. This was another repeated statement. And he said that phrase… ‘we're all capable of evil. Even you are capable of evil.’…He really wanted me to know that Sergio did the right thing and he resigned.”
  • Marie reflects, “Looking back…he was taking the attention and placing it back on him when I'm actually the victim…reframing the narrative… I felt so unheard. I was very angry, even more scared.”
  • Marie also discovers church leaders attended Sergio’s bond hearing to show support for him, not for her.

4. Community and Advocate Support—Or Its Absence

• Seeking Support and Misdirection (40:07–53:43)
  Marie is contacted by advocates—some with performative or controlling intentions. She describes feeling manipulated and unsupported by those who claimed to help:
  • “She started that group…I could tell that Lindsay was in charge. She seemed to influence everything…the opinions, conversation…her advocacy was performative…”
  • Even within supposed support groups, Marie finds herself marginalized and her safety concerns dismissed.

5. Court Hearings & Ongoing Impact

• Legal System Realities (46:30–51:10)
  The prosecutor and advocates repeatedly minimize what happened:

  • “He said it was creepy. And that didn't sit well with me because it's creepy, but it's actually criminal and it's dangerous. It felt very minimizing.”
  • Marie faces skepticism in court, even with video evidence, and must fight for an extended protective order for herself and her children.

• Trauma and Isolation (51:15–54:26)
  Claire describes Marie’s ongoing trauma:

  • “She was afraid to go home. Her daughter was afraid to sleep in her own room. To have that stripped away from you…over someone who is supposed to be a supporting, guiding leader…It's despicable…She's even still at a point where every single person that she meets, she has to second guess…She's been living in such a sense of survival mode…”

• Community Response: Support and Victim Blaming

  • Claire details the harsh community divide: "It was either doing whatever they could to come alongside her…and then also the people who were immediately blaming her, calling her a liar, saying they were having an affair, which absolutely could not be further from the truth." (54:35)

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On the burden of truth and accountability
  Officer McLeod: “Truth is truth, right? And the truth comes out regardless…The only way to release that burden is to start telling the truth.” (12:03–12:29)

• Marie on the double standard and gaslighting by church leadership
  “Looking back…he was taking the attention and placing it back on him when I’m actually the victim… I felt so unheard. I was very angry, even more scared. And I said, what the actual hell is going on in that church?” (39:00–39:15)

• The minimization by the legal system
  Marie: “He said it was creepy. And that didn’t sit well with me because it's creepy, but it’s actually criminal and it’s dangerous. It felt very minimizing.” (49:15)

• Claire on the betrayal by spiritual leaders
  “You’re supposed to be able to trust your pastors…to just have all of that sense of safety be stripped away from you…it's despicable.” (51:15)

• On victim-blaming in the community:
  “They were immediately blaming her, calling her a liar, saying that they were having an affair, which absolutely could not be further from the truth.” (54:35)

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Timestamps for Important Segments

• 02:16 – Marie and Claire realize the extent of the stalking/break-in
• 03:01–13:16 – Sergio Guardia’s police interrogation
• 13:21 – Officers decide to “hit him with the trifecta” of charges
• 25:50–27:54 – Aftermath for Marie and her daughter
• 31:45–33:15 – Marie discusses the bond hearing and feelings of safety
• 33:18 – Brendan (Marie’s brother) gives insight on family reaction
• 35:51 – Marie recounts her interaction with church leadership
• 39:30–40:07 – News coverage and the spread of Marie’s story
• 40:07–44:30 – Marie’s experience with ill-intentioned advocacy
• 46:30–49:15 – The court process and systemic minimization
• 51:15 – Claire reflects on Marie’s trauma
• 54:35 – Community’s split response: support vs. victim blaming

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Episode Tone & Final Thoughts

The tone of this episode is raw, tense, and unflinchingly honest, featuring real audio from police and heartfelt narration from Marie and her loved ones. The narrative underscores the isolation, disbelief, and systemic obstacles victims of stalking and abuse often face, especially when their abuser is a trusted authority figure. The complex aftermath of such betrayals—emotional, legal, and communal—is explored, revealing both the inadequacies of support systems and the small but fierce circles that help survivors endure.

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Next Episode Preview

Marie prepares for trial. Sergio chooses a judge trial, not a jury, and the next court date is pushed to March 2025. The episode ends with the church’s ambiguous counsel and the question of institutional accountability hanging in the air.

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For further resources and support, please see the episode notes.

Transcript

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[Claire (Marie’s Best Friend)]

I remember she just sat on my bed for hours remembering all of the stuff that she had never put together before. How he has been essentially stalking her and she didn't even really realize it. Later that night we were in my living room watching a movie and her phone dings again. And so we literally watched him live, breaking into her home for a second night in a row.

[Marie (Victim)]

I get a phone call Shortly after that 911 call from an investigator who ended up being the investigator for this case. He asked a lot of questions who this man was, what the relationship was. I said he was my pastor.

[Officer McLeod]

That's you right there. Same glasses and everything.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

You're wearing the same clothes, going right

[Neighbor]

in the back door.

[Claire (Marie’s Best Friend)]

Did you used to live there?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

No.

[Marie (Victim)]

You know her? Like why help us help you? Like why are you going in here?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

That's not me.

[Officer McLeod]

That is you.

[Marie (Victim)]

We didn't just randomly come over to your house.

[Officer McLeod]

This is you walking down the street wearing the exact same outfit that you're wearing right now, just with a jacket on.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

In the same van?

[Officer McLeod]

In the same van. It's gonna zoom in here in a second.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

We have your own camera last night doing it, too.

[Officer McLeod]

And there's a camera in the house that has your face in it. Just take a seat right there on the hood of my car? Yep, right there. No. You don't have any weapons or anything on you?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

No, I don't carry with. Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

Are you okay if I pat you down and make sure you don't have any weapons?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

I'm gonna just check back here mostly where your hands are.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

Make sure you don't have any knives, anything that's gonna hurt. This is the cell phone?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Yeah. Okay. What's your name again?

[Officer McLeod]

Officer McLeod. Do you know Marie?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

I know Marie.

[Officer McLeod]

Okay, how do you know her?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

She from church?

[Officer McLeod]

From church. Are you a pastor? Okay, what church do you go to?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Thomas Row.

[Officer McLeod]

Thomas Row. Okay, so she goes there with you?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

No, she used to go there.

[Officer McLeod]

Okay. Do y', all, like, conversate? Do you guys text or keep up on social media? Nothing like that.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Nothing like that.

[Officer McLeod]

But you know where she lives?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

I know. No.

[Officer McLeod]

No.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

How long have you known Marie?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

I don't know. Ten years, maybe.

[Officer McLeod]

Ten years.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

Does your wife know Marie?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Yes.

[Officer McLeod]

Yeah. So you guys all go to church together?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

No, she doesn't go to my church anymore.

[Officer McLeod]

Okay.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

I knew when she went to church.

[Officer McLeod]

Okay, but she doesn't go anymore?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

No.

[Officer McLeod]

Okay. Okay.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

But what I. Am I. Am I being detained?

[Officer McLeod]

Yeah. So you're detained right now? Yeah. Why are you being detained? Because we have a video of you breaking into a house.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

You're going into a. You're going into a house that you don't have permission to be in. Unless that's not the case. Did Marie give you permission to go in the house?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

I didn't go in the house.

[Officer McLeod]

Okay. So I have. I have a video. The one that I just showed you.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Yeah.

[Officer McLeod]

And then we're waiting on more videos of you inside the house. Like video cameras of your face in the house.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

So obviously everything's recorded.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Right.

[Officer McLeod]

And then we have videos of you in the house. This video is not going to look good. Because I'm asking you, I'm giving you the chance to say, hey, yes, I just went in the house. Here's the reason I went in the house. Right.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay. And what difference makes? When I have an attorney, I'll know that.

[Officer McLeod]

What do you mean?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

You said you Said I had a right to an attorney.

[Officer McLeod]

Yeah, you can have an attorney whenever you want me.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

Yeah, you have the right to an attorney whenever. Those are the rights that he, that he read you. Right. So you don't. If you don't want to, you don't have to talk to me. We're just giving the opportunity to talk to us about what a situation is.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Talking to you. I'm talking with an attorney. That's what I'm asking. You

[Officer McLeod]

know, an attorney is going to sit there and, and talk for you.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

Whereas right now we're just. We're just talking. You're not under arrest right now. Right now you're just a tank.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

Do you know, do you know the difference between those two?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

No.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

So right now you're detained, you're in handcuffs, right?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Yes.

[Officer McLeod]

Depending on how the scenario goes,

[Police Partner/Investigator]

we

[Officer McLeod]

could take the handcuffs off and you could go home. All right. If you're under arrest, there is no other option.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Right.

[Officer McLeod]

If I say you're under arrest for X, Y and Z, you're going to jail, right?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Yeah.

[Officer McLeod]

I'm going to put you in my patrol car and we're going to go down to the jail. You're getting charged with whatever you're being charged with.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Right.

[Officer McLeod]

Whereas right now we're just having a conversation.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

You're not under arrest.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

I understand that at this point, you're not going to jail.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay, thank you.

[Officer McLeod]

So we're just talking about the events and why it happened. So from our perspective, we have video, we have somebody saying that you drive a white man.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

I do. I do drive a white man.

[Officer McLeod]

And then you entering the house. So what we're trying to figure out, and that's what my partner was elaborating on, was we're trying to figure out why you went in the house. We already know you went in the house. We're just trying to figure out why.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

Did you go in there? Because there's, like he was saying there's. There's different crimes depending on the reason behind you, why you were going in the house. Right. So if you went in there to steal something, that's very different than if you went in there to assault somebody.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Right.

[Officer McLeod]

So those are two very different charges, two very different scenarios.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Yes.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Right.

[Officer McLeod]

So we already know the players, we already know what happened. We're trying to figure out why it happened.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

So that's. We're trying to give you the opportunity to tell us why, because you're the only person that knows, and we don't I understand.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Thank you so much.

[Officer McLeod]

Yep. How long have you been a pastor at TRBC?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

15 years.

[Officer McLeod]

15. What role are you in there?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

I work with Hispanics.

[Officer McLeod]

With Hispanics. It's awesome. You guys still have church in Page Chapel? Yeah. So if you weren't coming from,

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

where

[Officer McLeod]

were you coming from?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

There's a missionary house, and White.

[Officer McLeod]

And where.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

White Street.

[Officer McLeod]

Where is that from here?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

It's a. It's close.

[Officer McLeod]

So what kind of. What do they do there?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

It's a missionary house.

[Officer McLeod]

So it's just. Are there missionaries in it right now?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

No, not right now. We host missionaries here. We were hosting a missionary that left today.

[Officer McLeod]

Okay, so you just. What were you doing over there?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Cleaning the house.

[Officer McLeod]

Cleaning the house.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay. Okay. And I can prove that. I can go in. Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

Do they have cameras or anything at that house?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

I don't know. Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

But I. I have the key to that house. Yeah.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

Makes sense. You want to hang tight with him for a second?

[Police Partner/Investigator]

So this is.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

You record?

[Officer McLeod]

Yeah, this is Sergio. He's a. He's one of the Hispanic pastors at trbc and obviously. But I told you. Last scene where they're talking to wife. He pulled up as we were pulling up.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Yeah, because I heard you guys were out with them outside pretty quick.

[Officer McLeod]

So what's his story? What's he saying? So he's saying he was never in the house. He didn't go to that house. He's saying he does know who Marie is, and he's saying that he was over on White street cleaning a missionary house that he has a key for and all that kind of stuff.

[Marie (Victim)]

So I asked her, the wife, like, what was he doing, like, you know, last night?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Like, where.

[Marie (Victim)]

She's like, oh, since he. He helps missionary families find housing. So she said that, oh, somewhere near Thomas Road. Like, he took these people and put them in.

[Narrator/Interviewer]

In the house.

[Marie (Victim)]

Like, this is where you're staying. I'm like, so he obviously wasn't home. So obviously it wasn't like she was

[Claire (Marie’s Best Friend)]

like, oh, no, he was home with me.

[Marie (Victim)]

Like, he clearly was.

[Officer McLeod]

Sergio, this is a video of you inside Marie's kitchen. Boom. That's you with your phone light on, looking right at the camera. And then you go back downstairs. This was last night. So this is the second night in a row that you've gone over to Marie's house, entered without permission. So here's your chance. Why are you going in there to steal stuff? Are you going in there to take personal items? Or, like, what's the deal? Nothing.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Nothing, sir.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Officer McLeod]

We said you're a pastor, so I won't lecture you on. On what the word says because you already know what it says. Truth is truth, Right?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Correct.

[Officer McLeod]

And the truth comes out regardless.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Right.

[Officer McLeod]

What else does it say about truth?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Tell the truth.

[Officer McLeod]

Says it'll set you free. Right. Clearly, you've got a burden. Clearly you've got something you've been hiding. And the only way to get out of it, the only way to release that burden is to start telling the truth. That's really what it comes down to.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

I understand.

[Officer McLeod]

Like what my partner said. When we got here, we already knew the answer. We didn't just pick this house out at random. Right. We were coming here to talk to you. Coming here to find you.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Yeah.

[Officer McLeod]

That's a piece that you got to make between you and God, right?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Correct.

[Officer McLeod]

So do that what you will. If you don't want to talk to me about it, that's fine. But obviously I've got a bit. I've got all the evidence I need.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Right.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

I understand.

[Officer McLeod]

So that is what it is. Okay. So if at any point you decide you want to tell me the truth, you let this officer know. He'll come get me. Okay.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

I think. I think the classification for the stalking on there. Yeah, I think you're right. I think we hit him with the trifecta.

[Officer McLeod]

I showed him that video.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Yeah.

[Officer McLeod]

I said, you don't have anything to say. I said. And then I lectured him on how the truth sets you free. And he said, I understand, but he doesn't want to say anything.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

I'm gonna make another run. More time.

[Claire (Marie’s Best Friend)]

Yeah.

[Officer McLeod]

You want to show.

[Marie (Victim)]

I'd show her here.

[Neighbor]

Give her the.

[Officer McLeod]

Yeah, I'll go over that.

[Marie (Victim)]

Yeah, give her the foreign.

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[Police Partner/Investigator]

So this is the video from last night.

[Officer McLeod]

This is in Marie's kitchen. This is a video camera from her kitchen.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

You see that? The motion captures him and the reason he's paying attention to it is it's a motion activated camera. So he sees the movement and then freaks out and then heads back out.

[Marie (Victim)]

So it happened at that time?

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Yeah, this was, this was yesterday and a little after 11 o'. Clock. So I know you're concerned about the other angles, but that is without question. Okay, so.

[Officer McLeod]

And can I see the other one with the car?

[Police Partner/Investigator]

So this video is not as good.

[Officer McLeod]

You pause it, you can see the van, the back of your van, or what we assume is your van right there. Can I talk to him?

[Marie (Victim)]

Yeah, that's. Oh, what's gonna happen now?

[Police Partner/Investigator]

So he's likely going to be placed under arrest for breaking and entering with intent to commit a misdemeanor and stalking. Because this is the second night that it's happened because that happened yesterday and tonight.

[Officer McLeod]

So this is two nights in a row that he's done this.

[Marie (Victim)]

So this happened tonight in the other video.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

That video happened last night?

[Officer McLeod]

Last night? Yes, the one where it's him inside the house. Like inside?

[Police Partner/Investigator]

She called the police last night and then when she saw him on the video, we get there and then he was gone. But I think this is. That's part of the reason he left so quickly is because he realized that there was a video camera inside the residence and he exits back down. I'm not sure why that he did the same thing tonight. That. That part is what we're trying to figure out.

[Marie (Victim)]

What he said.

[Officer McLeod]

He did not. He didn't go back. He didn't go upstairs tonight. He just entered the basement this evening. So it's possible, obviously, he saw the camera the night before and then quickly exits. So he goes back in tonight and he just doesn't go to the second level because there's no video he's captured. He's captured coming in the back door to the basement, but he's not captured upstairs in the house.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

So that's the. One of the. One of the concerns that, like I said, I have is that it appears that there's some history that. With this female from some years back. And we. We fear that he may have been there to hurt her or something of that nature or that if he wasn't there to hurt her, that there's some sort of interest in her because they have not had contact in a very long time. Like a very long time. He says they used to go to the church together, and then something happened that made her very uncomfortable, and so she stopped and she decided not to press charges. She says that this has happened years ago, or she went. She got home sometime during the day unexpectedly and found him in her living room on her laptop. I think it probably should have been done and documented years ago. If I. If you speak with him, what I would ask you is that you keep the conversation in English so that way you can understand. Can you do that?

[Officer McLeod]

Oh, so I have to talk in

[Marie (Victim)]

front of you guys?

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Yes, we. He's in our custody. The only way that you're gonna get that is it. Is you talking, is if you speak in front of us.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

If.

[Neighbor]

That.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

If you're uncomfortable doing that, then that is fine then. But we. If you speak to him at all, it has to be in our presence because I want.

[Marie (Victim)]

If I speak what.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

If you speak to him at all, it has to be in our presence

[Officer McLeod]

because he's in custody right now.

[Marie (Victim)]

And what's the next step?

[Police Partner/Investigator]

He's going to be placed under arrest, and then he'll stand trial. Whether or not he gets out on that or not is up to the. Up to the judge and the magistrate. He may sit in jail until trial, or he may be released on a bond and to somebody else's custody.

[Marie (Victim)]

This is crazy, what you're saying.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

I know, I know. I can't imagine. Like, it makes a whole lot of sense. I'm still trying to grab or wrap my mind around why somebody who has a wonderful family at home, a good reputation in the community, and something like that. If there was not video evidence, most people would not believe it. Right? Like, if we didn't have it on video, I would. I would. I wouldn't expect you to believe me.

[Neighbor]

Oh, my gosh.

[Officer McLeod]

This is crazy, guys.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Yes, I know. I. I can't imagine how you're feeling right now.

[Officer McLeod]

We're both. We're both. Like he said, if there was not video evidence, and you told me that Sergio went and entered someone's house and then left, I would.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

It would.

[Officer McLeod]

I would be shocked as well.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Right.

[Officer McLeod]

But obviously, you saw the videos, and, you know, we have. We have a job that we have to do based on the videos.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Right?

[Officer McLeod]

So I understand it's shocking, but we. We have things that we have to do because of the laws and because of, obviously, an escalation. Right. He continues. This is the second night in a row that he's gone to this residence and. And entered the residence. So it's. It's concerning if you.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Do you. Do you even know who we're talking about when you. When we. I know Marie.

[Officer McLeod]

Okay?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Okay.

[Marie (Victim)]

But I don't know that she was living there. We are not in contact.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

She said that the last time this happened, not yesterday, but some odd years ago when this occurred. She said that she didn't tell him where she lived, and that that also concerned her, that she had moved and she hadn't really told anybody, and it happened then, and this was some years ago, and she said this is just as surprising to her because she wasn't expecting it either because it's been so long since they've had contact.

[Officer McLeod]

All right, Sergio, at this. This time, you are under arrest.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Okay?

[Officer McLeod]

Remember how I called you earlier? It's the difference between the thing and me and the rest of it.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

We're gonna.

[Officer McLeod]

We're gonna go down to the jail. I can't explain all that while we're in the car.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Okay?

[Officer McLeod]

You're gonna go in the back of my patrol car.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

All right?

[Officer McLeod]

Watch your head. Sitting down, sir. Oh, I know it's not comfortable. Slide forward just a little more.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

All right, perfect.

[Officer McLeod]

Let me buckle you in, and then

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

we'll get you going.

[Officer McLeod]

There should be, like, grooves in that back to kind of put your arms in to make it as comfortable as possible. If you can Try and get your arms in them. I don't know. Yeah, they're double locked. Here, spin a little bit. Try and get your elbows where this hand is. Try and get your elbow in there. All right, well, just hang tight for a minute. It won't take long to get you anyway. We would specifically ask that he's not obviously allowed anywhere near that residence and to have no contact with her of any sort.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

You will do a good counselor, too.

[Officer McLeod]

You said what?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

You will be a great counselor, too.

[Officer McLeod]

Thank you. I appreciate that, really. Yeah, well, I wear many hats in this job. Counselor is one of them. But who knows? Maybe a career change one day.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Or chaplain.

[Officer McLeod]

Or chaplain, maybe. Who knows?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

What's your name again?

[Officer McLeod]

Officer McLeod.

[Claire (Marie’s Best Friend)]

Thank you.

[Officer McLeod]

Yeah.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

For everything, of course.

[Officer McLeod]

That I told you about. Next piece of papers that she's gonna give me is that emergency protective order. But that's gonna say if she grants it, which I think she will, it's gonna say you can have no contact. That means you can't.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

I don't want any contact.

[Officer McLeod]

Yeah, can't have any contact. You can't go near. You can't go to her house. You can't go talk to her mom so that she can go talk to her. There's no contact of any kind. You can't write a letter and send it to her. Nothing. If you do, you'll be rearrested for violating a protective order.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

So.

[Officer McLeod]

And I'll explain. You'll get a copy of that as well, and I'll explain it to you line by line.

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

I haven't had any contact with her briefly.

[Officer McLeod]

She told. She told me that y' all hadn't had any contact for a long, long time.

[Police Partner/Investigator]

Thank you, ma'.

[Neighbor]

Am. The breaking and entering cards, I've also fall under that as a end of purview. It is hereby ordered that the request has been granted and the order that the respondent files observe the following conditions. You shall not commit any acts of violence, force or threat or criminal offense resulting in injury to person and. Crawford, you understand that you are in order to protect the safety of the alleged victim and their family or household members. You shall have no contact of any kind. No contact means no contact. No direct, no indirect, no Snapchat, no Facebook, no Instagram, no snail mail, no leaving notes, no threat, direct or indirect eye contact with her, no following her, no smoke signals, nothing. No contact means no contact. In addition to that, there's no exceptions to any kind of contact. You cannot have third party contact. You cannot leave messages for her through Other people, message other people on the behalf or for the purpose of contacting her. You cannot mention or follow the petitioner on any social media, and you cannot physically follow the petitioner either. I understand you're barred from the physical presence of the alleged victim. Physical presence is 100ft from a person to place where they live and their employment. So if she works at Walmart, you can go to Walmart. If she is at home or not at home, you cannot return to the property over on. Understand that as Krager ordered, that you shall not access any information referencing the petitioner's residence or place of employment and you are trespassed from the property. Understand? If you go back to that property, not only are you looking in violation of the protective order, I am formally trespassing you from a property. This is your notice. You're not to go back to on that property that she owns. Do I make myself clear?

[Sergio Guardia (Pastor/Accused)]

Yes.

[Marie (Victim)]

After they searched the house, this investigator called me again and let me know that Sergio was not in my home. And they secured the home. I said, I don't even want to go in my house. If they didn't find him, where is he? The investigator calls me back, back 30 minutes to an hour after our initial conversation on speakerphone with his partner, with him, and they have more questions for me. They asked me again, why do I think he would be in my house. I told them, like, I don't know. And they were like, how did he know where you live? And I'm like, I have no idea. I'm talking to them, and I'm actually processing out loud because then I'm remembering things, putting things together. So that's when I told them. There was one time where maybe just months after moving in, he was just driving by. I would say maybe an hour after that, the investigator calls me again and lets me know that they arrested Sergio. The investigator, he was like, it's been a long night. But actually, it had only been two hours since my 911 call. To me, I'm like, that was fast. I think the investigator said, there's a lot that's happened since we last talked. The investigator explained that they went to his house, they confronted him. Sergio denied it. Then they showed the video. And when he was shown the video of him in my house, he stopped denying it. But then he stopped talking. And so then he was arrested. The investigator gave me the most basic information, which is very professional. I completely understand. And then when I watched the body cam footage, my jaw dropped. The investigator had told me the night of his arrest that he went ahead and got me an emergency protective order. So when I had come back home from out of state the very next day, which was my birthday, I went to the police station, picked up the protective order, then went to the court and requested to have it extended and then had to wait a couple hours for it to be presented before the judge and had to explain to the judge I wanted the protective order. So that was my birthday. My daughter, as soon as we got back after this had all happened, she immediately went straight to the basement where her bedroom was and started bringing everything up from the basement. We had an extra bedroom upstairs, so she moved into that and it really impacted her a lot.

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[Officer McLeod]

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[Marie (Victim)]

It feels good to Geico. The next day I saw my neighbor across the street outside in her yard. And anytime we're outside in the yard, we say hi to each other. Sometimes I walk over there and we start talking. She called me over to her yard and I came over and she told me that she saw all the police police at my house. So I let her know what had happened and she said that she saw that a car had parked. She explained she was up with her husband watching tv and where the TV is, there's a window right by it facing my property. She said a man just started walking up the driveway. It was 11:30 at night on a Friday night and he just seemed out of place. She noticed where he parked his car, which was right at an intersection, right by stop sign. She knew that the house directly next to me had been sold, but the family that purchased it hadn't moved in yet. No one had been living there. And watches as Sergio walks up the sidewalk, goes to the house next to mine, through the driveway into the backyard, and then she said she called non emergency police because she just felt that that was suspicious. She told me that he wasn't there very long. Then she saw him coming from my backyard to my driveway and walking down my driveway. He then walks down the sidewalk, but in opposite direction of his vehicle. Once he gets one house down, he turns around and starts walking the other Direction toward his vehicle. And she said he was walking as slow as he can walk with no cure in the world. And she also noted that he was dressed nice. She noted how white his sneakers were. She's watching from inside of her house. And because it was so suspicious, she decided to get a flashlight, go outside, and she started shining it in his direction, basically to communicate to him, like, somebody sees you. She said he looks over at her, sees her, and just keeps walking very slowly to his car. It was so interesting because the night before, I told my other neighbor what had happened and asked for her ring camera footage if she had any of him. She sent it to me, and I watched her ring camera footage of him going down my driveway, then down the sidewalk. He was definitely not in any rush to get away, and I thought that was weird. It was almost like this is just normal.

[Narrator/Interviewer]

I assume that the bond hearing was pretty quickly afterwards.

[Marie (Victim)]

Yes, it was just a couple days after I was contacted by the victim's advocate through the Commonwealth Attorney's Office. This victim's advocate told me that the pastor would have a bond hearing. It was going to be, I think, on Wednesday. So he was arrested on Saturday. She said that he would most likely be approved for bond because he didn't have any prior convictions. That's typically what happens if there's no prior legal problems. I was not aware that I could attend the bond hearing. I had no idea that I could give any input in the bond hearing. I just wasn't told. Those days he was in jail, I was able to sleep. He stayed in jail. And then that Wednesday, he was given $5,000 bond. He would be released. I was notified the day after the bond hearing that he was released. I just didn't feel safe at all for the protective order. I had to stand up before the judge to extend it. After that, they made another appointment at the court to extend it again. So it was only extended for two weeks, and then I had to show up to the court again. That kind of surprises me, honestly. I had to go to the court where Sergio would be there. It really doesn't make sense to me. But I was granted the protective order. I think it was for two years at the time.

[Narrator/Interviewer]

When did you first hear about the break in?

[Brendan (Marie’s Brother)]

I heard from Marie pretty soon after. It happens.

[Narrator/Interviewer]

Here's Marie's brother Brendan.

[Brendan (Marie’s Brother)]

Once it became a crime, that's when she contacted the police. I hadn't heard until it happened. She had told my parents, and they told me, or even Gary, our brother, may have told me. While she and had sort of embedded themselves into the Spanish ministry at Thomas Road. I wasn't familiar with any of the pastors or the leadership, and I had only attended the actual Spanish speaking service while visiting her. It may have been then, but, yeah, only once or twice maybe, that I actually had gone to a service. I didn't know who he was, honestly, at all.

[Narrator/Interviewer]

What was her mental state when you had that conversation? If you recall?

[Brendan (Marie’s Brother)]

She was obviously disturbed, distressed. I mean, you kind of wonder not necessarily how that can happen, but what would be going through someone's mind to think that was okay and they had been friendly before. That was deteriorating because he wouldn't stop harassing her. But that, at that time was not known to me. So it was a little more surprising. Her first concern was for her children and obviously for herself as well, because he's stalking her. And with stalking, it doesn't go away. Stalkers only escalate. So with that in mind, it was a little concerning because he was not going to let up, which obviously is the case, because he did not. I think the hardest part is just having the sense that you're not safe, that your family's not safe, that someone could just come in and do whatever they want to them at any time, especially when they had already installed security cameras, which, thankfully was how they discovered it. That fear that there might be something you're not able to stop that can happen to you just because this guy can just get into your house whenever he wants. Concern for her family, herself. What would happen to her kids if something happened to her or, God forbid, they also got hurt.

[Narrator/Interviewer]

Was it surprising for you to find out that your sister's stalker was a pastor or affiliated with the church?

[Brendan (Marie’s Brother)]

I'm not sure if surprises the word disappointment initially, but also, in a sense, I was not surprised. The culture surrounding a mega church like Thomas Road is the church sort of. It has a lot of influence and a lot of sway. So it was very disappointing for the leadership to respond in the way that they did. But I was also not surprised because as it was proven afterward, they're not really going to suffer consequences for it.

[Marie (Victim)]

In December 2023, somebody texted me and told me that the executive pastor, Matt Wilmington, wanted to talk to me, to help me and my kids. So I called him and then he called me back an hour later. I answered and he said, hi, this is Matt Wilmington. I said, okay, hi. And then he didn't say anything else. And I was like, so I was calling because you wanted me to call you. And he said, uh, huh? And it was so awkward. I told him what the police had told me. After I was finished explaining that weekend, there was awkward silence again. And then I just felt a need to talk more. I just told him all the problems I had with Sergio years prior. I finished telling him all of those details. He asked, did you tell police everything that you told me? He was actually pretty repetitive with the things he would say, with the statements he would make. Sergio's a dear, dear friend of his. And that he was so sad. This was another repeated statement. And he said that phrase that Sergio has said so many times, we're all capable of evil. Even you are capable of evil. I started taking notes when I was on the phone call because it was just so disturbing to me. When I shared my concern that there could be other victims, he told me, there are no other victims. And then he told me that he went to the Spanish congregation and let them know that Sergio had to resign. I told Matt Wilmington, well, I'm happy to hear that he was fired. And he immediately corrected me, really wanted me to know that Sergio did the right thing and he resigned. Even if he steps down, he's going to the church every Sunday. He's still seen as a person with authority. He asked me if I've ever gotten counseling or if I go to counseling. I said no, and he told me I need to go to counseling for my past. And then he asked me what church I attend. I told him I wasn't going to a church. Then he told me that I needed to go to a church. Matt Wilmington let me know that Sergio would continue to attend the church because the church is for the broken. He said that he would be doing accountability with Sergio weekly. Not sure what their definition of accountability is. We ended the conversation. It was like an hour phone call. Looking back at the conversation, it felt like he was taking the attention and placing it back on him when I'm actually the victim of these crimes. He was reframing the narrative. When I got off that phone call, I just felt so unheard. I was very angry, even more scared. And I said, what the actual hell is going on in that church? The day after I talked to the executive pastor, Matt Wilmington, on the phone, WSET reported that a pastor had been arrested for stalking and breaking and entering. They shared his name. I contacted WSET and let them know that I was the victim. And I'd like to share more because I was so deeply disturbed by the conversation that I had with the executive pastor. And then they asked if I would do an Interview. And I said yes. The Lynchburg woman who claims a local

[Narrator/Interviewer]

pastor broke into her home and stalked her is sharing her story tonight. Sergio Guardia is charged with breaking and entering and stalking.

[Marie (Victim)]

Gardia was her pastor at TRBC in Espanol Church.

[Narrator/Interviewer]

And she says this pattern of stalking

[Marie (Victim)]

has been going on for around six years. When he broke in on Friday, he could claim that he didn't know that that door was my daughter's bedroom, but he can't claim that. The second night, ABC13 tried to talk to Guardia.

[Narrator/Interviewer]

We called and went to his home, but he had no trespassing signs on his property. He is scheduled to be in court in February.

[Marie (Victim)]

Right after that interview with wset, a couple people reached out to me. One was a woman that said that she had seen the news. I didn't know her. She found me on Facebook. She had been through the same thing where a pastor had abused her. I trusted her, and I was like, good, I don't have to go through this alone. And then another woman on Facebook that I am friends with but have never interacted with messaged me and told me about an advocate. Lindsay had helped her through her divorce. I was happy to have someone that seemed like a professional advocate. When I looked at her page, I could see that she had an advocacy website. She did coaching and seemed to have a lot of experience and had gone through her own experiences which led her to advocacy. And so I had contacted her and she seemed very supportive. She scheduled a phone call with me. Lindsay told me on that first phone call that her grandfather had been a pastor. The church she grew up in was a cult. This was something that made me trust her because it made me believe that she can relate. Most of the conversation was just me sharing everything that had happened. And right at an hour, she said she had to go. And then she asked me if I'd be available in two weeks. She gave me a date and time. And I was surprised because why do we need to talk again? I went ahead and scheduled with her. I was just thinking, this is her passion. So, okay. She emailed. She asked me if I would like for her to get a support group for me. And I said, of course. She offered to make a Facebook messenger group with all these people. After that, she had consistent contact with me every few months. She would always contact me and schedule a phone call maybe like three weeks, four weeks before any hearing. Our phone calls were limited to exactly one hour. And in the Facebook messenger group, that's a whole nother story. She started that group, I could tell that Lindsay was in charge. She seemed to influence everything, the opinions, conversation. And then when I brought concerns to the group about my safety, no one responded. It's like what my concerns were didn't matter. But then anything that Lindsay had focused on was like what they focused on. I could look back and see that her advocacy was performative, that she had control over the narrative, not only publicly with my story, but also trying to control the narrative that I believed about my situation and what I was going through. She said that there's an organization in Lynchburg that she had recommended and she could link me to this organization that could help. And I said yes. So she sent an email and included me in the email to an organization. And when she sent the email, she sent it to a few people. She included the link to my interview with WSET to highlight the story. And only I think one person responded, and I was never contacted. Then I said, well, maybe what happened to me in this situation isn't a big deal. And that thought crossed my head so suddenly. And then I said, no, this is huge. The victim's advocate had told me she would contact me after the holidays and schedule a time to meet with the prosecutor so we can prepare for the preliminary hearing. The holidays come and go, and then January comes. It was the beginning of February that the preliminary hearing was scheduled for. During this time, even before the preliminary hearing, they told me that Sergio asked for a plea deal. The prosecutor said that the plea deal that they were asking for is that it be reduced to stalking and take away the felonies. And he explained to me that having even one felony on someone's record, they can't get jobs and how felonies impact his life. My response was, he's just now thinking about that he's had time to think about what the legal consequences could be. There were plenty of times that I threatened to call the police. He's had so much time to think about how this could impact him and his income and his family, and that's not something I'm responsible for. The prosecutor also explained that it works out for the victim of the crime because then they don't have to go through the trial. And I just didn't want the plea deal. I was willing to go through all the work of the trial. I think it was around two weeks before the preliminary hearing, I finally contacted the victim's advocate and was like, can I meet with the prosecutors so that I can be prepared? We scheduled a meeting, and it was at that meeting, the prosecutor and the victim's advocate told me that Jonathan Falwell was at the bond hearing and that the executive pastor of Thomas Road Baptist Church, Matt Wilmington, was. Was also there, which really surprised me. I asked the prosecutor, why was Jonathan Falwell at the bond hearing? And his response was something like, oh, just to show his presence. I was told that Sergio's wife was also a witness of character at that bond hearing. She was explaining him as a husband and as a father, how this would negatively impact her if he remained in jail. On top of that, the police officers were there and testified to everything that I had reported to them that night. When the prosecutor told me that the police officers were witnesses, I remember thinking, then, why couldn't I be a witness? I'm the one that reported it. When I met with the prosecutor, another thing that frustrated me was he told me that I'd be surprised how common this is and how often this happens. I said, how often men break into women's houses? And he said, yeah. I said, how common it is for pastors to do this? And he said, yeah. And even the victim's advocate had made a statement like that to me before. The statement just gave me this feeling like this wasn't a big deal and this is just normal. I'm thinking logically, if this is so common, it must be because they know they can get away with it. The only thing he said about the stalking and breaking and entering was he said it was creepy. And that didn't sit well with me because it's creepy, but it's actually criminal and it's dangerous. It felt very minimizing. That's kind of when I recognized that I would really need to make sure that I was diligent in the legal process. I decided I'm not just going to sit back and depend on the prosecutor or the victim's advocate or the legal process. It was a lot of work for me. It was researching more about the legal process, how it works, specifically in a criminal court case, specifically in Virginia, and researching my rights as a victim. I really relied more on my preparation individually than the preparation with the prosecutor. The day of the preliminary hearing, the public is there, and they just call case by case up. The prosecutor let me know that they were able to make Sergio's case the last one on the docket that day. There were several people there in support of Sergio. His wife, his mom that lives in Bolivia, so she must have traveled just for this hearing. His dad, and then I want to say five or six pastors from Thomas Road that I recognized two of them I knew very well. I knew they weren't there to support me. They all sat in the very front row. Not a single one of their wives came. That was weird to me, but also very telling. I trusted these men. And that's when I realized maybe I should have never trusted them. I was already feeling unsafe because of Sergio, and I never believed that he would actually stop then he's getting help and encouragement and people showing up for him, especially from men in these positions of authority. I had to stand in front of them, face the judge, and answer questions from both Sergio's lawyer and the prosecutor. Even though all of those pastors were there, I had no problem testifying and telling the judge everything that I experienced. The defense lawyer would ask me questions, and then the prosecutor asked me questions. The prosecutor showed the video of Sergio inside of my house. There's really no denying the video footage. It's damning. The judge decided that it would go to trial. Then she asked me, why do you need a protective order? Is my life in danger? I was surprised that I was the one that had to answer that. I was also surprised that it's even a question when you have the video evidence and you've confirmed that this needs to go to trial. I told her, yeah, I absolutely need a protective order. I've already testified everything that he's done in the past. And then he broke into my house. And I said, this is over an extended period of time, and this is a pattern of behavior. So she went ahead and extended the protective order, put my kids on it. When I met with the prosecutor, he explained that Sergio might not be convicted or probably wouldn't, Whatever he said. I was so shocked. And then he said, with a conviction, we have to prove intent to harm. And he said, that's hard to prove. And I was like, oh, but I can prove it. He was like, well, he didn't steal anything. And I said that I know of

[Narrator/Interviewer]

your sense of security is what he stole.

[Marie (Victim)]

Absolutely. Any intention he has is absolutely not good.

[Narrator/Interviewer]

With all of the details, here's Marie's best friend, Claire.

[Claire (Marie’s Best Friend)]

You're supposed to be able to trust your pastors. She was afraid to go home. Her daughter was afraid to sleep in her own room. To have that stripped away from you over somebody who is supposed to be like this supporting, guiding leader in your life, to just have all of that sense of safety be stripped away from you. I don't want to say it's unforgivable, because that's not a Christian thing for Me to say, but it's despicable. She has been living in such a sense of survival mode that it was, especially for the first couple months, really hard for her to function. It was hard for her to work. It was obviously hard for her to be at home. I personally don't even know how she'd be able to sleep at night because I don't think that I could. She's even still at a point where every single person that she meets, she has to second guess. She just sees through this lens of trauma, basically, that she's been through. It breaks my heart. It's made her world very small. I'm going to get emotional again. It's super sad because Marie is such a shining human that to have to keep such a small circle when she could bless so many people with just, like, who she is as a person, the few friends that she does have, I wish that there was more that we could do for her, but she's doing incredible. For all intents and purposes, switching gears

[Narrator/Interviewer]

to this alleged support group that sort of formed after Sergio's arrest. What, if anything, do you recall Marie sharing with you about that situation?

[Claire (Marie’s Best Friend)]

She told me about these people that were reaching out. Some of them because they had been through something similar, and some of them just because they wanted to come around her and support her. Initially, Marie was like, thank God I have somebody supporting me, because everybody else was saying all of this trash stuff about her. And I know that Marie's two best friends, myself and another person, don't even live in the same state as her. We have young kids. We can't really get away and support her the way that we really want to. She was super thankful to have this shelter of what she thought was safe people. And then throughout the court cases, it came to light that they were not the support that she thought that they were.

[Narrator/Interviewer]

What do you think was the hardest part for you, watching someone that you love go through something like this?

[Claire (Marie’s Best Friend)]

It's definitely that I don't know how to help. It's also that we are a few states away from each other. So, like, not being able to be like, hey, come over for a cup of coffee. We can talk about it. We do talk very frequently. But not being able to protect her, I think is something that's really hard for me because my friends mean a lot to me. Having walked through so much trauma with her, first with her ex husband and now with this Sergio thing, I just want to, like, wrap her in a hug and never let her go. I am so tired of seeing people treat her the way that they have treated her.

[Narrator/Interviewer]

She's lucky to have you. You're lucky to have each other. How did people in the community respond, if at all, from your perspective?

[Claire (Marie’s Best Friend)]

There were like two really loud responses and it was either doing whatever they could to come alongside her and they couldn't believe that this happened. And then also the people who were immediately blaming her, calling her a liar, saying that they were having an affair, which absolutely could not be further from the truth.

[Narrator/Interviewer]

Next time on Something was Wrong.

[Marie (Victim)]

Sergio was able to choose whether he wanted a jury trial or bench trial. So either a jury or judge. He chose a judge, which I thought was weird. I had a feeling that it was going to change. And then, sure enough, the day of the trial, the victim's advocate told me that it was continued to March 2025,

[Officer McLeod]

November of 2023, one of our staff members who served in our Spanish ministry was arrested. Now, in the last year and what, five months or so, I've not spoken about this issue in this room or anywhere. There's a reason for that. I've not spoken about it and no one on our team has spoken about it because it was an ongoing legal case. Let me say a couple things. Mr. Guardia, please stand, sir. This was not a one time exercise of bad judgment. This was conduct that was repeated and it wasn't random.

[Narrator/Interviewer]

Thank you endlessly to every Survivor guest and expert who has contributed to our community. We are eternally grateful for your bravery, energy and time. Something was Wrong is a broken cycle Media production created and produced by Tiffany Reese. Thank you to our incredible team, associate producer Amy B. Chesler, audio engineer Becca High and social media marketing manager Lauren Barkman. Special thanks to Sarah Stewart for our amazing Season 26 artwork, Stephen Wack for AD audio editing and our partners at AudioBoom. If you love Something was wrong and you want to help, support the show and listen ad free, become a community contributor on Apple podcasts or purchase a sticker from our sticker [e-mail] or tell everyone you know like your neighbor, sister, brother, yoga instructor, florist, telemarketer, reiki healer, stylist, trainer, mentor, parents, cousins, aunties, uncs, coaches, librarians, matcha artist, dance instructor, balloon artist, wedding planner, bridesmaids, bank teller, driver, dog groomer, dentist, orthodontist, esthetician, tattoo artist, house cleaner, accountant, tax preparer, insurance agent, mail carrier, crossing guard, barista, beekeeper, notary, public lifeguard, camp counselor, flight attendant, dog walker, pet sitter, pilates instructor, spin instructor, terror aero reader, acupuncturist, landscaper, electrician, plumber contractor, real estate agent, mortgage broker, optometrist, veterinarian, park ranger, farmer's market vendor, Little League coach, PTA president, school librarian, substitute teacher, driving instructor, wedding officiant, travel agent, locksmith, Ferris wheel operator, hot air balloon pilot, llama farmer, falconer, puppeteer, professional mermaid or that one friend who's somehow just in everyone's business? If you know, you know. Thank you so much for listening. Until next time, stay safe. Friends.

[Marie (Victim)]

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