Podcast Summary: "Something Was Wrong" – Episode: WCN Presents: [Amy] S19 Updates

Released on January 9, 2025 by Broken Cycle Media | Wondery

Introduction

In this poignant update episode of "Something Was Wrong," listener Amy revisits her harrowing journey from Season 19, where she detailed her experiences as a stalking survivor. Hosted by Tiffany Reiss, the episode delves deep into Amy's ongoing battle with the legal system, her advocacy efforts, and the emotional toll of her ordeal. This summary encapsulates the key discussions, insights, and conclusions shared by Amy and Tiffany, complete with notable quotes and timestamps for reference.

Recap of Season 19

Tiffany Reiss begins by summarizing Amy’s Season 19, highlighting Amy’s relentless fight against her stalker, Morrison. Over five episodes aired from January to February 2024, Amy recounted the extensive stalking and cyber-stalking she endured, the legal battles she faced, and her ultimate success in securing Morrison's imprisonment.

Tiffany Reiss [01:45]:

"In the five episodes, Amy's tenacity and resiliency became resoundingly clear as she and her loved ones recounted all they faced amidst years of stalking and cyber stalking."

Amy’s Current Legal Situation

Amy provides a detailed update on Morrison’s parole process, which has become a focal point of her ongoing struggle. Despite Morrison being incarcerated since November 2021, Amy expresses her anxiety as his parole hearings approach, noting that his release could reopen old wounds.

Amy [03:57]:

"The parole hearings the first one was May of 23. The second one just happened this previous May. Per usual, quite eye opening."

Amy describes Morrison’s unsettling behavior during parole hearings, including his references to historical figures and his desire to return to Colorado—a state where Amy resides and fears his potential return.

Amy [17:31]:

"He said a lot of scary, crazy things yet again in this last parole hearing."

Connecting with Other Victims

One of Amy’s primary motivations for sharing her story was to uncover and connect with other victims of Morrison. Her efforts have led to the identification of additional victims, although responses have been mixed.

Amy [09:57]:

"What's been fascinating with uncovering and connecting with other victims is realizing that this is a large web from a distance standpoint."

She discusses the complexities of identifying victims through vast case files and the emotional challenges of reaching out, often encountering non-responsiveness due to the trauma involved.

Advocacy and Legislative Efforts

Amy has expanded her role from survivor to advocate, actively working on legislative changes to better protect victims of stalking and cyber-stalking. She recounts her experience testifying before the Colorado legislature, which led to the passage of a bill addressing online misconduct and deep fakes.

Amy [33:52]:

"Another thing I think needs to occur is just like there's a sex offender list that's a national kind of database of sex offenders. Why do we not have a national stalking database?"

A supportive Tiffany highlights the significance of Amy’s advocacy work, emphasizing its impact on federal and state legislation.

Tiffany Reiss [35:35]:

"This kind of legislation is what we hope for at a federal level and we want to see in all 50 states and internationally."

Emotional Journey and Healing

Amy openly discusses the emotional strain of her journey, including feelings of guilt, embarrassment, and the perpetual state of vigilance she must maintain. She acknowledges the importance of therapy and her support system, particularly her parents, in navigating her healing process.

Amy [38:58]:

"I couldn't agree more. I think I've been saying no a lot more... I need downtime and enjoying the little things again."

Amy reflects on the concept of "live grieving," expressing the ongoing nature of her healing and the necessity of allowing herself to feel and process her emotions.

Amy [39:47]:

"Live grieving, I have not heard that term and that is so relevant to me right now."

Future Plans and Continuing the Fight

Looking ahead, Amy remains steadfast in her mission to advocate for victims and push for stronger laws against stalking. She plans to continue her advocacy efforts, aiming to create a national stalking database and enhance inter-jurisdictional cooperation to prevent stalkers from evading accountability.

Amy [35:35]:

"I just want to know the right avenue and where to begin and who are the representatives that I need to be talking to who would support that."

Tiffany commends Amy’s resilience and dedication, reinforcing the importance of her role in driving meaningful change.

Tiffany Reiss [38:16]:

"You're so amazing. I just love that you're taking the power back in a lot of ways... This is needed, gets us one step closer."

Conclusion

The episode concludes with heartfelt affirmations of Amy’s strength and the community's support. Tiffany emphasizes the ongoing nature of Amy’s journey and the collective effort required to enact systemic change for stalking survivors.

Amy [42:00]:

"I appreciate that. I'm so glad to hear other stalking survivors have chosen to come forward because we need so many more to come forward for real change to be had."

Tiffany Reiss [42:13]:

"Thank you so much for listening to today's episode... Thank you again for listening."

Key Takeaways

• Ongoing Legal Battle: Morrison’s impending parole hearings keep Amy in a state of heightened alert, fearing potential re-victimization.
• Connecting with Victims: Amy's efforts have identified additional victims, though outreach responses remain challenging.
• Advocacy Success: Amy’s testimony contributed to significant legislative changes in Colorado, aiming to address and prevent stalking and cyber-stalking.
• Emotional Resilience: Despite ongoing trauma, Amy emphasizes the importance of self-care, therapy, and a strong support system in her healing journey.
• Future Goals: Amy is committed to expanding her advocacy, seeking nationwide legislative reforms to better protect and support stalking survivors.

Notable Quotes

• Amy on Parole Hearings:

  "The parole hearings the first one was May of 23. The second one just happened this previous May. Per usual, quite eye opening." [03:57]

• Amy on Advocacy:

  "Why do we not have a national stalking database?" [35:35]

• Tiffany on Amy’s Efforts:

  "This kind of legislation is what we hope for at a federal level and we want to see in all 50 states and internationally." [35:35]

• Amy on Healing:

  "Live grieving, I have not heard that term and that is so relevant to me right now." [39:47]

This episode of "Something Was Wrong" serves as a compelling continuation of Amy's story, shedding light on the enduring challenges faced by stalking survivors and the critical importance of advocacy and legislative action in fostering a safer environment for all.