Something Wrong With The Podcast
Episode: SWWP #2 - Community Building
Host: Julian Delgado
Release Date: January 28, 2025
Introduction and Community Reflection
In the second episode of "Something Wrong With The Podcast," host Julian Delgado delves into the theme of community building, intertwining personal reflections with broader cultural observations. Julian begins by honoring Mac Miller, discussing the impact of his posthumous album, Balloon Arism, and sharing his admiration for Miller's timeless music.
"Any day is a good one when we have a reason to come together and celebrate Mac." (00:00)
Julian emphasizes the profound support he's received since launching the podcast, highlighting how the community has rallied around him, offering professional assistance and constructive feedback. This overwhelming sense of community inspired him to pen a heartfelt letter about the importance of positivity and mutual support.
"Don't let your losses make you calloused. Tap into your community. If you need a hand, don't be afraid to ask. And if you can lend one, let people know you're available." (Approx. 03:30)
Navigating Positivity and Negativity in Social Media
Julian reflects on the duality of online interactions, noting the intoxicating nature of negativity amidst the supportive community. He muses on humanity's fascination with witnessing negative events, pondering why people are drawn to violent or distressing content.
"Why do we slow down when we see a car crash on the highway? Why do we yearn for the knockout punch?" (Approx. 05:00)
He connects this to his personal experience, sharing his vulnerability upon launching the podcast and how the unexpected support helped him emerge from a dark place.
Sports Talk: Kansas City Chiefs and Super Bowl Prospects
Transitioning to lighter topics, Julian delves into the realm of sports, focusing on the Kansas City Chiefs and their consistent Super Bowl appearances.
"It seems at this point there are three guarantees in life, death, taxes, and the Kansas City Chiefs making it to another Super Bowl." (12:18)
He analyzes recent games, highlighting the Chiefs' ability to navigate close matches and the controversial calls that often favor them. Julian predicts a compelling Super Bowl showdown, especially if the Chiefs manage to contain strong running games.
"If Philly can run the ball successfully like they did yesterday, then I will take them because Saquon is unstoppable." (Approx. 15:00)
Halftime Show Insights: SZA's Inclusion
Julian shifts focus to the entertainment industry, discussing SZA joining the Super Bowl halftime show. He praises the collaboration between SZA and Kendrick Lamar, emphasizing their symbiotic relationship and shared success within their label, TDE.
"I think it's beautiful that Kendrick and SZA are going on tour, and I think it's amazing that Kendrick's going to have SZA come out at the Super Bowl." (Approx. 17:30)
Addressing Criticism and Personal Conflicts
The host touches upon recent criticisms he faced in online spaces, particularly regarding his interactions with Joe and the ensuing backlash from other community members like Rory and Maul. Julian expresses his confusion over the intensity of the reactions, reflecting on the nature of misunderstandings in the digital age.
"I spent this morning having my coffee and writing and just thinking about why was this such a big deal?" (Approx. 20:00)
He draws parallels to political figures, underscoring the possibility of maintaining respectful relationships despite differing viewpoints.
"Barack and Trump, they don't agree on shit, if anything at all, but they can still talk." (Approx. 22:00)
Collaboration and Community Support
Julian acknowledges the contribution of the Danish producer trio, Up North, who crafted an original song for the podcast, enhancing the community-driven spirit of the show.
"Shout out to the homies in Denmark. I've got to go to Copenhagen." (Approx. 21:00)
Voicemail Segment: Community Advice and Support
Caller 1: Dealing with a Co-worker's Bad Breath
A caller seeks advice on handling a new coworker with severe halitosis that's affecting workplace interactions. Julian offers humorous yet practical suggestions, emphasizing subtlety and maintaining professionalism.
"Maybe not that song. If he's younger. Let's try Tyler sticky pop that shit." (23:30)
Caller 2: Dating Someone on the Spectrum
A caller questions whether to pursue a relationship with a man exhibiting traits suggestive of being on the autism spectrum. Julian encourages embracing the unique strengths of the individual while addressing the caller's concerns humorously.
"He probably knows when GTA 6 is coming out. He probably knows the new flavor developments Haribou is doing for their gummy bears." (28:15)
Caller 3: Navigating Multiple Relationships on Dating Apps
A caller is torn between two potential romantic interests met through dating apps. Julian advises transparency and maturity, suggesting honest communication to maintain respect for all parties involved.
"Don't ghost her. You're an adult, and so is she." (38:50)
Caller 4: Struggling to Maintain Sobriety
Vicious from Las Vegas shares his struggle with resisting the urge to smoke after a vivid dream involving a celebrity. Julian provides empathetic support, reinforcing the importance of maintaining sobriety and avoiding temptation.
"Don't let Usher break you. Pause. Put on confessions." (32:30)
Caller 5: Conflict Between Girlfriend and Friend
David from the Chicago suburbs faces tension between his girlfriend and a long-time friend. Julian advises balancing personal relationships with existing conflicts, emphasizing fairness and open communication without forcing outdated grudges.
"You're making her make a decision. And then three lines later you say, I don't want to." (45:30)
Caller 6: Managing an Ex-Girlfriend as a Client
Rory, who manages artists, seeks guidance on continuing to manage a former girlfriend who remains a client. Julian supports maintaining professional boundaries, especially since their working relationship has thrived post-breakup.
"Unless there's information you're withholding from me, I don't see why this working relationship should end." (51:20)
Conclusion
Julian wraps up the episode by reiterating the significance of community support and the mutual benefits derived from connecting with others. He expresses gratitude for the listeners' engagement and hints at future discussions, reinforcing the podcast's commitment to addressing cultural issues with humor and heartfelt advice.
"Community is everything to me, and I really mean it." (51:50)
Notable Quotes:
- "Don't let your losses make you calloused. Tap into your community." (Approx. 03:30)
- "If Philly can run the ball successfully like they did yesterday, then I will take them." (Approx. 15:00)
- "Don't ghost her. You're an adult, and so is she." (38:50)
- "Don't let Usher break you." (32:30)
This episode masterfully balances personal anecdotes with cultural commentary, all while fostering a sense of community and offering practical advice to listeners navigating various life challenges. Julian’s blend of humor, empathy, and insightful observations makes "Something Wrong With The Podcast" a compelling listen for those seeking both entertainment and genuine support.