SYSK TRENDING - How to Become More Resilient

Summary

Podcast Summary: Something You Should Know

Episode: SYSK TRENDING – How to Become More Resilient
Host: Mike Carruthers
Guest: Akash Karia, Communication Expert & Author
Air Date: April 7, 2026

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Overview

This episode delves into the concept of resilience—what it truly means, why it matters, and how anyone can learn and strengthen this vital skill. Host Mike Carruthers interviews Akash Karia, a communication expert and author of "7 Things Resilient People Do Differently," who shares practical, science-backed strategies for building resilience and bouncing back stronger from life’s setbacks.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Defining Resilience

• Akash’s View:
  • “Resilience to me is about your ability to bounce back but to bounce back stronger than you were before…how do you use the adversity that you encounter in your life and then come back a better person as a result of it?” (03:12)

2. Is Resilience Innate or Learned?

• Some people seem naturally resilient, but research increasingly shows resilience is a skill you can train—like a muscle.
• Akash:
  • “Resilience to me is a muscle. You're born with it, but then you can also train it, you can develop it…” (04:06)

3. Building Resilience: Micro-Challenges

• You don’t have to be “toughened up” or endure ongoing hardship.
• The key is to continually push just slightly beyond your comfort zone—take on manageable challenges that stretch your abilities without overwhelming you.
• Analogy:
  • Training at the gym: Add a small weight or extra rep, not an overwhelming increase (05:11).

4. Physical Habits: Emotion Comes from Motion

• Citing Tony Robbins: “Your emotions come from motion. Emotion comes from motion.”
• Physiology affects psychology. How you sit or stand can influence how you feel.
• Quick tactic: Change your posture, breathe deeply, get moving to shift emotional state.
• Akash:
  • “Once you change your body, it changes how you feel. So that's one of the habits in order to become more resilient.” (08:55)
• Physical exercise is shown to be as effective as medication in improving mood for some people.

5. Mental Habits: Focus & Locus of Control

• Key difference-maker: Where do you focus your attention?
• Internal locus of control = focusing on what you can change, not outside circumstances.
• Akash:
  • “People who have an internal locus of control … are happier, more satisfied, and are more successful.” (11:33)
• When feeling powerless, ask: Am I focusing on what I can influence? Reframe your mental energy accordingly.

Illustrative Example (COVID-19):

• When COVID hit, Akash’s public speaking business vanished. He initially felt helpless, but shifted focus from what he couldn’t control to what he could—building a virtual presence and working on his business foundations.
• Akash:
  • “This year has ended up being one of the most productive years of my life simply because I changed my focus.” (14:38)

6. Accepting Negative Emotions

• Common myth: Resilient people aren’t affected by hardship.
• Reality: They allow themselves to feel, process, and then transition from negative states.
• Akash:
  • “What is important is not that you ignore [negative emotions] or that you try and avoid it. What is important is that you accept it and then gradually transition away from it.” (18:24)
  • “If you try and avoid something, what happens is that, ironically, it comes back stronger.” (19:27)

7. Gratitude Practice: The ‘Three Good Things’ Exercise

• Citing research by Martin Seligman (University of Pennsylvania):
  • Every night, write down three things you’re grateful for—large or small.
  • Practicing gratitude increases happiness, satisfaction, and emotional resilience.
  • Akash:
    • “Most of us have these things in our life that we can be grateful for. And yet how often do we take the time to actually be grateful for them?” (21:56)
  • There’s even an app called “Three Good Things” to make it easy (>22:30).

8. Habit Formation: Implementation Intentions (If-Then Planning)

• Motivation alone is insufficient for behavior change.
• Key Study:
  • Control and motivation groups: Only 39% maintained an exercise habit over months.
  • “If-then” group (created specific “if X, then Y” plans): 91% adherence!
• Strategy:
  • “If it is X [trigger], then I will Y [desired action].”
  • Practical examples:
    • “If I’m feeling sad, then I’ll remind myself to change my physiology.”
    • “If it’s 9pm and I’ve just put the kids to bed, then I’ll write down three things I’m grateful for.”
  • Akash:
    • “If then is one of the most studied phenomena in psychology.” (26:16)

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Resilience as Growth:
  • “It’s not just about getting back to where you were prior to the adversity. It is more about how do you use the adversity … and then come back a better person as a result of it.” – Akash Karia (03:17)
• On Comfort Zone Expansion:
  • “Take on tasks or take on adversity that is just a little past that circle of comfort. … That just stretches your comfort zones and allows you to build that muscle again.” – Akash Karia (05:32)
• On The Power of Focus:
  • “Once you make that shift in terms of your focus, you’ll find that you get a completely new answer because your focus has shifted.” – Akash Karia (12:36)
• On Allowing Sadness:
  • “All of these emotions … are necessary to help you become more resilient.” – Akash Karia (18:23)
  • “When you try and avoid something, what happens is that, ironically, it comes back stronger.” – Akash Karia (19:27)

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Timestamps for Key Segments

• 03:12 — What is resilience?
• 04:06 — Can resilience be developed?
• 05:11 — How to build resilience: Micro-challenges explained
• 07:51 — Physiology and emotions: “Emotion comes from motion”
• 11:06 — Mental habits and locus of control
• 13:24 — Akash’s COVID-19 business pivot example
• 18:24 — The role of negative emotions in resilience
• 20:33 — The ‘Three Good Things’ gratitude exercise
• 23:07 — Habit change: If-then implementation intentions and the 91% study

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Actionable Strategies

• Move your body to shift your emotions—stand tall, deep breaths, get active.
• Reframe your focus to things within your control—practice an internal locus of control.
• Accept negative emotions but avoid dwelling—acknowledge, process, then redirect.
• Practice nightly gratitude—write down three good things each evening.
• Implement If-Then planning to solidify habits: “If X happens, then I will Y.”

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Final Thoughts

Resilience isn’t about being bulletproof—it’s about learning, adapting, and growing stronger through adversity. Even small, intentional practices can help anyone reinforce their resilience muscle.

Book Mentioned:

• “7 Things Resilient People Do Differently” by Akash Karia

For more:
Find links to Akash’s work in the show notes.

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Summary by AI; original ideas, quotes, and advice credited to Mike Carruthers and Akash Karia, “Something You Should Know,” episode aired April 7, 2026.

Transcript

[A]

Setbacks seem to be everywhere right now. Losing a job, losing someone you care about, or just getting knocked down by everyday life. And yet some people bounce back quickly while others struggle to recover. So what's the difference? Resilience. Resilience isn't just something you're born with. It's a skill. And if that's true, it means you can actually get better at handling stress, adapting to change, and coming back strong. Stronger. That's why today's Sysk trending topic is how to become more resilient. Joining me is communication expert and author Akash Korea, who has spent years studying what highly resilient people do differently. He shares simple, practical strategies you can start using right away. So how do you become more resilient? We'll find out right after this. Here's a question for anyone with a dog or cat. Have you ever bought a flea treatment, used it exactly the way the instructions say? And the fleas? Well, they didn't really care. Well, you're not imagining it. Over time, fleas actually build up a resistance to those over the counter treatments. Frontline advantage Seresto. They work for a while and then they don't. And Meanwhile you've spent 150, $200, maybe more, and your dog or cat still scratches. Well, here's what most people don't know. The stuff your vet prescribes Bravecto, Simparica, Nexcard they hit differently. Prescription strength is a completely different class of treatment, but getting it usually means you make an appointment, you sit in the waiting room, and then you get a bill that makes you wince. Which is where Dutch comes in. Dutch is an online vet service that connects you with a real licensed vet. No waiting room, no office visit fee. They can prescribe the same prescription strength flea and tick meds your vet would and get them delivered right to your door. So if your pet is still scratching and you've tried everything the pet store has to offer, it's time to stop guessing and go prescription and support us. And use code SYSK and you'll get $40 off your [e-mail] d u t c h.com dutch.com. Have you ever wished you were more resilient? That you could bounce back from those tougher events in life and not let them beat you down? I think a lot of us wish we were a little tougher that way. And as it turns out, you can be, according to Akash Korea. Akash has really studied this. He is a keynote speaker and writer and one of the books he's written is called 7 Things Resilient People do Differently. Hi Akash, welcome.

[B]

Thanks Mike. Great to be on here.

[A]

So what is resilience? How do you define it? How do you look at it? What is it to you?

[B]

Resilience to me is about your ability to bounce back but to bounce back stronger than you were before. So it's not just about getting back to where you were prior to the adversity. It is more about how do you use the adversity that you encounter in your life and then come back a better person as a result of it. How do you become more resourceful? How do you become more mentally, physically, emotionally stronger as a result of whatever challenge you went through? So that to me is resilience, bouncing back stronger than you were.

[A]

And where do you think it comes from? It does seem to me anyway that there are some people who just seem to have more of that water off a duck's back. Nothing bothers them. Whereas other people just get so sunk in problems that they can't shake it off. Where do you think it comes from?

[B]

There are some people who are naturally more resilient than others who sort of have the attitudes that allow them to bounce back quicker. They have that perseverance, they have that grit, as Angela Duckworth calls it. But what the research is showing us nowadays is that it's almost like a muscle that you can train. So everyone has different densities of muscle, different sizes of muscles. But if you go to the gym and you put in the work and you train it, that muscle grows, becomes stronger, becomes bigger. Similarly, resilience to me is a muscle. You're born with it, but then you can also train it, you can develop it, that then makes you able to deal with life's adversities in a much more capable manner. So to me it's something that can absolutely be trained.

[A]

But I think people think that in order to become more resilient you have to toughen up, that you have to get beat up a lot and that the more you get beat up, the less each punch hurts because you're getting beat up a lot. And I'd really rather not get beaten up a lot.

[B]

I don't think anyone wants to get beaten up and I don't think that is the goal of resilience. And no one goes out thinking, I'm going to get beaten up so that I can become more resilient. But what we try and do in order to build our resilience is take on mic challenges. So imagine for a second that you have A circle of comfort all around you. So imagine the circle of comfort. Those are the things that you are able to do naturally. Those are within your talents. Those are within your comfort zones. In order to become more resilient, what we want to do is to take on tasks or take on adversity that is just a little past that circle of comfort. So you're not pushing yourself so far that you're killing yourself, but you're going a step further. That just stretches your comfort zones and allows you to build that muscle again. It's like going to the gym. When you go to the gym, if you're able to generally lift seven kilos for 10 reps, this time around, you might try seven and a half kilos, that micro challenge for 10 reps. So a little bit of extra weight, an extra repetition, is how you build the resilience muscle without killing yourself.

[A]

Okay, so that makes sense. You take little steps outside your comfort zone. That way, if you fail, you don't get beaten up so bad. But even still, those little disappointments can still take a toll on you. So how do you keep trying and failing and keep going?

[B]

There's several habits that allow someone to be more resilient. There's certain emotional habits that you can tap into in order to be more resilient. There's certain physical habits that you can tap into, and there's certain mental habits that you can tap into. So we'll start with a physical habit as an example. So I learned this from Tony Robbins, and one of the things that he talks about is that your emotions come from motion. Emotion comes from motion. What does that mean? It means that the way that you move your body determines how you feel. So, Mike, if you'll play along with me for a second, I want you to go ahead and sit the way that you were sitting. If you're feeling sad or depressed, how would you sit right now? Just take on that posture for a second. And everyone else who's listening, just try and go ahead and do that right now.

[A]

All right?

[B]

So, Mike, are your shoulders back or are they slumped?

[A]

Oh, they're slumped, yeah. They're slumped, yeah.

[B]

Is your chest collapsed or is it up straight and back collapsed? How are you breathing? Are you breathing deep from your belly or is it more shallow breathing?

[A]

Very shallow.

[B]

And so there's a whole physiology around when we become sad, when we become depressed that leads us to feel that way. So our emotions are not something that just come out of nowhere. Our emotions are something that we create through our physiology and through our Focus now. If you wanted to change how you feel, one really cool tactic is just change the way that you move your body. Stand up straight, hold your shoulders back, breathe deep from your belly. Flood your body with oxygen, flood your bloodstream with oxygen, and that creates a chain reaction that makes you feel better. This is one of the reasons that people love physical exercise. Research has found that when people are depressed, physical exercise can help people feel significantly better. As much as if they they were taking a pill. Physical exercise is equivalent in some cases in terms of the improvement in mood as taking a pill. That's because once you change your body, it changes how you feel. So that's one of the habits in order to become more resilient. When you're feeling in a certain state, ask yourself, what emotion am I creating through how I'm moving my body? How am I standing? How am I sitting? How am I breathing? And becoming aware of your physiology is one of the best things that you can do in order to manipulate your emotions and your resilience to be where you want to be.

[A]

Well, it's interesting because I think most people think. I think. I've always thought that when you sit that way, when your shoulders are hunched, your chest is collapsed, and you're kind of drooping, that that's the result of feeling sad. It's not the cause of feeling sad. And what you're saying is that it sort of is that if you change that, it will bring you up.

[B]

So think about a time when you had a great workout. Maybe you love running, maybe you love yoga, maybe you love lifting weights, or maybe you love hiking. Whatever it is, imagine the mood that you were in before you engaged in the activity. And then now imagine going and putting yourself through this strenuous workout where you're actually using energy to perform that workout. How do you feel at the end? You've used energy and yet you feel more energetic. Why is that? It's because you've moved your body in a certain way that changes your emotions. So yes, your emotions do cause your physiology to be in a certain way, but it also works the other way around. When you change your physiology, your emotions then change naturally because your physiology has changed. So I'd say that that's one of the coolest links that you can use, the link between physiology and. And your emotions.

[A]

It also seems just from my experience, that, so if I do a workout and I'm like, really exhausted, I can think, oh, my God, I'm just. I'm so beat up. I'm so exhausted. Or I can change my thinking that, oh my God, this feels great. And just that small change in the way I'm thinking about what I just did helps.

[B]

Absolutely. And so now we go on into the mental habits. There are certain mental habits that can make you more resilient and that can make you happier. So one of those mental habits is what are you focusing on? Where is your energy flowing in terms of what you're thinking about? Are you focusing on the things that are within your control, or are you focusing on the things that are outside your control? In psychology, they call this locus of control. That is, do you believe that your circumstances are the result of what you can do? Do you feel that you have the power to change them? Or do you feel that stuff around you? Your life is a result of outside circumstances. And research shows us that people who have an internal locus of control, that is, they focus on the things that they can control in their life. They feel that they have the ability to change their environment and their surroundings through the actions that they take, are happier, are more satisfied, and are more successful. And so one really cool shift is to think of when you're feeling in an unempowered state, when you're feeling in a disempowered state, ask yourself, where is my focus right now? Am I focusing on external activities that is not within my control? And if so, how can I change that focus to the stuff that I can control? What can I do in this given situation to make my life a little bit better? And again, that is easier said than done. But once you make that shift in terms of your focus, you'll find that you get a completely new answer because your focus has shifted. Your focus has shifted to something that you can control. And therefore that gives you a completely new response.

[A]

And everybody who hears you say that knows exactly what you mean, because we've all had times where, I don't know, we just bump into it or it accidentally happens, have that mental focus and everything, you know, the world opens up, it's. And then there are times when your focus is, as you say, on external things you have nothing to control, you can't control. And it just, it's so debilitating.

[B]

And can I give you a good example of this?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Just from my life, when Covid hit, my business is that of a speaker. So I traveled around the world speaking on resilience, on well being, and on habits at conferences around the world. So when Covid hit, that dramatically impacted my business because suddenly all the conferences were shut down. That meant that My source of income, my source of livelihood was completely gone. And so there were some days where I just lay in bed thinking about the state of the world and feeling sad and unhappy about this event that I was unable to control. There's nothing I can do about COVID except for feel sad and bad about it. And then I changed my focus to look, what can I do about this? How can I transition and pivot my business and emerge stronger as a result of this pandemic that is happening? And so I decided that I was going to start out doing virtual programs. I was going to use the time to improve my foundations, my website, my branding, and all the things that go into my business. And once I did that, once I set up these virtual programs, I learned how to do them. I learned to set up the tech. This year has ended up being one of the most productive years of my life simply because I changed my focus. To feeling sad about something that I can't control, to thinking, what can I do from this? And how can I get better as a result of whatever is happening around me?

[A]

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[B]

You know, Mark, that's a great question. And I think one of the things that we get very wrong about resilience is we feel that resilience is about toughness by itself, that a resilient person, a mentally tough person, is someone that doesn't feel sad, doesn't feel unhappy, doesn't feel these emotions that we generally think of as negative. And yet all of these emotions, sadness, unhappiness, anger, frustration, guilt, whatever that may be, all of those emotions are necessary to help you become more resilient. And here's why. When life doesn't go your way, when expectations don't meet your reality, it is very natural to feel disappointed, angry, frustrated. Whatever emotional home you have, whatever you go to on a general basis, that emotion that you generally tap into when things don't go your way. Now what is important is not that you ignore it or that you try and avoid it. What is important is that you accept it and then gradually transition away from it. And I'll do a very quick example for you here, Mike. I want you right now not, not to think of an elephant. All right? Can you do that for me?

[A]

No, I cannot.

[B]

Why? Because that instruction in itself, do not think of an elephant first has to have your brain think of an elephant, and then there's a subconscious part of your brain that say, all right, we're not going to think about this object. And so we're going to keep this object at the forefront of our mind to remember that we don't need to think about it. So when you try and avoid something, what happens is that, ironically, it comes back stronger. So when you're feeling sadness, unhappiness, whatever that emotion is, don't ignore it or don't try and push it down. Instead, what you want to do is you want to accept it, you want to learn from it, you want to recognize that it's an important emotion to have, and then tell yourself, okay, now that I've felt this emotion, how am I going to move into a more empowering state? What can I focus on that will get me a result that I desire? So those emotions are necessary. Accept them, stay with them. But then as soon as you can, move on to a more empowering emotion, because you don't want to stay in that negative emotion.

[A]

What's another habit of resilient people?

[B]

I'll give you another mental habit, and it's called Three Daily Things, if I remember correctly. If you'd like to be happy around your life, there's some research done by the University of Pennsylvania, Martin Seligman. Three Good Things. That's the name of the exercise. And this is a mental habit that's proven to make you happier over the long run. What it is, is, are there things in your life right now that could make you feel joyous, that could make you feel grateful, that could make you feel happy? Yes. Most of us have these things in our life that we can be grateful for. And yet how often do we take the time to actually be grateful for them? A lot of the time our focus is on the things that we don't have. A lot of the time, our focus is on complaining or moaning about things that we don't currently have. And so as a result of that, we end up living in this state where you're constantly unhappy because you're focusing on the things that you don't have. Martin Seligman's Three Good Things exercise is this. Every single night, grab a piece of paper and write down the three things that you're grateful for. Feel the emotion associated with that. And these could be big things. It could be, I'm grateful for my wife or my husband. I'm grateful for the health of my father. I am grateful for the fact that I have a roof over My head. Or they could be very small things. It could be. I'm grateful for the fact that when I handed in my report at work, my colleague said, well done. So think about all the things that could potentially be sources of gratefulness in your life. And then every single night, write those down. There's a really cool app that you can use. I think it's called three Good Things, or I think that's the one, three Good Things. If you download that, it makes building the habit of being grateful much easier. And the research by Martin Seligman shows that people who do this activity over the long run are actually happier, more satisfied, and in more empowered states just because of taking the time to do this 30 second exercise every single night.

[A]

And isn't that the easiest thing in the world? And yet I think as people listen to you. Yeah. What we think about are the things we don't have, where we aren't able to go, what we aren't able to do, what we wish we could do, rather than what we do have. And most of us have some pretty good things in our lives.

[B]

I talk a lot about building habits, and it's very hard to make a behavior change. It's very hard to take on new habits, new routines. So I want to give you probably my single favorite strategy for building new habits and for becoming more resilient. This is it. I'll start off by telling you the study around this. So this study was conducted on a group of women who wanted to lose weight. In this study, these women who wanted to lose weight were split into three subgroups. The first group was called the control group. These women were told, you said you want to lose weight. You said that you want to exercise. Great. Go out, exercise, and then just report to us how often you exercised. So that was the control group. There were no specific instructions given to them, except for just let us know how often you exercise. There's a second group that's a motivation group. Now, this group was given some readings that talked about the benefits of exercise, about the consequences of not exercising. So what happens in your life when you do exercise? What happens if you don't exercise? Right. So there's this push and pull motivation at the same time. This is the motivation group. Several months later, the researchers track these two groups to see how often they've been exercising, what percentage of the control group. The group that just went out and exercised on their own and reported back how often they exercised, do you think was still working out in the control group? Right, Mike?

[A]

20%.

[B]

Close enough. 39%. Now, let's look at the motivation group. Right? These were the people that were given readings on the benefits and the consequences of exercise. So they felt really motivated about the importance of exercise. What percentage of this group was still working out several months later? Again, it was 39%. 39% of the control group was still working out several months later. 39% of the motivation group was still working out several months later. There was absolutely no difference between the two groups. And that is because motivation is 10 temporary. Motivation doesn't last. Fortunately, there was a third group that I told you about earlier. This third group was called the if then group. Now, what is if then? Very simple. These participants were told to create an if then implementation plan. It's one sentence that goes like this. If it is X, then I will do Y. As an example, if it is Sunday and I've just finished eating lunch, then I'll go for a walk for 30 minutes. Or if I've just finished brushing my teeth first thing in the morning, then I'll do five pushups. So if it is X, X being a certain situation in your life, then I'll do Y. Y being the habit that you want. Right? Very simple. That is the only difference between the control group and the if then group. What percentage of the if then group was still working out several months later? Mike? 91%. 91% of the if then group was still working out several months later, compared to 39% for the control group and 39% for the motivation group. If then is one of the most studied phenomenons in psychology. There's literally 94 independent papers conducted on 8,000 participants that shows the significant benefit of using implementation plans. So how do you use this? Well, coming back to resilience, coming back to gratitude, one really cool thing that you can do is if you want to build your gratitude habit is right now, create an if then plan. Go ahead and create an if then plan for your gratitude habit. If it is 9pm and I've just put the kids to bed, then I'll grab my journal and write down the three things that I'm grateful for. So this is how I like to use if then implementation plans. If I'm feeling sad, then I'll remind myself to go ahead and change my physiology. So that's what I would suggest. My favorite strategy, if then implementation plans. Try it out. There's so much science behind it and I'd love for you to test it out as well.

[A]

Well, as I said at the beginning, I think a lot if not. Most people wish they had more resilience that they could bounce back better. And these are some good strategies to use to try to do that. Akash Kariya has been my guest. The name of his book is seven Things Resilient People Do Differently and you'll find a link to that book in the show notes. Thank you, Akash.

[B]

Well, thank you Mike. I appreciate that.

[A]

If you enjoyed this sysk trending episode about resilience, it's always appreciated if you would pass it along, share it with someone you know and help us grow our audience. I'm Mike Carruthers. Thanks for listening today to something you should know.