What if the way you open a listing appointment is actually the most important part of the whole pitch? Real estate leader Andrew Undem (The SURE Group at Berkshire Hathaway) joins Stay Paid to share how he’s closed over $1B in sales and why it all...
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Andrew Undom
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Josh Dyke
Welcome to Stay Paid, your number one sales and marketing podcast, on a mission to help you close more deals, keep more clients, and build the life of freedom you're working for. But that can only happen if you're willing to take action today. My name is Josh Dyke, Chief marketing Officer here at Reminder Media, and as always, I'm joined by Luke Acre, president of Reminder Media. I know this company's name.
Luke Acre
Yeah, you've only been a part of it since the garage, so you better know it.
Josh Dyke
And from the Acre Brothers Realty Team, as always, founder and team lead, Steven Akree and director of sales, Cody Smith. Our guest today is Andrew Undom. Andrew is the co owner and managing partner of the shore Group at ReMax Sales. With a strategic edge in negotiation, sales and leadership, Andrew has helped lead over 500 million in residential real estate sales. Andrew, welcome to Stay Paid.
Andrew Undom
Hey, thanks for having me. You must have read that bio from 2014. We're at. I was going to say now.
Luke Acre
I was like, he's with Berkshire Hathaway. I don't.
Josh Dyke
Did you submit a bio?
Andrew Undom
Yeah. No.
Josh Dyke
I mean, this is your way website, brother.
Andrew Undom
Hey, if I. If I've been doing this this long and only sold 500 million, I'd quit. Yeah. Hey. Yeah.
Josh Dyke
All right, give us your updated bio.
Andrew Undom
All right. It's all good, man. It's all good. Happy to be here. Love Reminder Media. I know we have some mutual friends and Alan Dalton and. And Shiron and others. So happy to share and appreciate the invite.
Luke Acre
Yeah, man. Super excited to have you on. You've been crushing it lately with the content. So really excited to get into everything that's going on. I want to come out of the gate, though, just throwing you the question that's on everybody's mind, which is AI and are you implementing AI in your business right now? Are you seeing it already helping you, or is it one of those buzzwords that hasn't reached your desk yet and is not an implementation?
Andrew Undom
If it's a buzzword for somebody, they're on their way out. Okay.
Luke Acre
Amen to that.
Andrew Undom
Yep. I'll never forget the day I discovered Chat. GPT was the day it actually came out because Gary V. Said, I just saw something. And it reminds me when I saw Google the first time when I started Wine Library. So I'm a Gary Vee disciple and he said, go here right now, OpenAI.com and start playing with this. So I've been using it quite a bit. I mean, I guess what, a year and a half now? Two years, whatever. It's been and it is kind of freaky the speed at which it can do some of these incredible things. If you're up to speed on what, you know, Google, it feels like every week they're releasing all these new futures. And if you go to, you know, Google AI and the labs and what they can do with video, but you know, it's easy to go down that rabbit hole and get freaked out like, oh my God, this can literally replace everybody. I mean it can create movie. Like I like the pause.
Josh Dyke
We all had to pause it.
Luke Acre
Yeah, because it's like it probably will replace everybody.
Andrew Undom
It'S going to replace. I mean, you know, it can now that it can actually think and the Agentix stuff can perform tasks. It's very impressive. But what I've kind of settled into recently is all the technology that we are using which all the agents that watch your show have, you know, their CRMs and they're maybe they're on Google Workplace. It's kind of getting baked into everything. So people are using it even if they don't think they're using it. You're kind of using it like Follow Up Boss and FUB and Inside Real Estate with Boomtown or Bold Trail. It's in all the technology already natively. So I'm very excited about. It's going to make people extremely efficient. But the effectiveness is up to the user in how they prompt it, how they use it.
Luke Acre
Yeah, it's how good you are at prompts. Are you using it? Because I want to get into like your listing presentation. Are you using AI to write listing descriptions? That seems to be a common one that people are doing. Have you used it to analyze your like listing presentation? I was at speaking at an event in Cherry Hill and I guess in Philly too. And Drew Thompson with Rio was speaking there and he was sharing how he has AI basically analyze his listing presentation. Because Chat GPT has a video feature where you can have it watch your listing presentation and give you a critique. Have you done any of that?
Andrew Undom
I haven't had a critique me because, you know, I'm not trying to impress the AI. I'm trying to impress the person I'm sitting across from. So you don't want to get too well.
Luke Acre
I think it's meant to coach you, you know, I mean, I guess you could impress it, but I think it's. He said to have it be like Simon Cowell, you know, from the old American Idol.
Andrew Undom
Hey, look, the AI, you know, it's a good idea. I mean, everything helps if you're trying to sharpen your sword and get as good as you possibly can. But at the end of the day, what I always say on this listing, presentation thing is one is you are the presentation. You personally, how you look, how you act, how you talk. It doesn't even matter as much what you say, but how you say it, because they don't have to believe what you're saying. They have to believe you believe what you're saying. Yeah, that stuff that I'm not sure the AI is gonna be able to coach you too much on is your own conviction and certainty. But I'm sure it can based on tonality, and that'll keep getting better too. But no, of course you use it for listing descriptions. Of course you use it for any written content. We're all not the best writers, okay? I'm not a novelist, but I do have good ideas and I can convey them verbally pretty well. So we all know communication is not the written word. The words you say are only 7%, you know, 55% body language, 30, whatever it is, 37 tonality. And the words are only this much. So unless you think AI can turn you into a world class actor, because that's what you are, you are performing. This is a performative job. You're gonna have to work on yourself a little bit. But Alan wrote a whole book on this, Luke. His whole book is how agents can use AI in their day to day stuff. With their listing presentation, with their pr, with their buyers, how to analyze the data, which we know it's really good at. So I have been flirting around with some of that stuff. Uh, it changes so fast.
Luke Acre
You.
Andrew Undom
You can't get into one system. This is how I do it now, because guess what? In August, it's going to be so much better. And it's not the strongest of species that survive. It's those most willing to adapt. So I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna say this is how you have to do it now, because it's gonna change. And I'm looking forward to adapting and rolling with it. Yeah.
Luke Acre
Yeah.
Steven Akree
It's so good. It's right on point. And we, we just went over in our sales meeting. I think that's what you're gonna bring up. Adam, who's super into AI just had AI virtually staged the whole house. And you would not believe how good it is. I mean, it is better than our photographer stages. It's better. It's the best looking one that I've seen yet. And I've done it before, and it doesn't look that great. Like, we've paid for it. I don't know what update they did, but it. It looks incredible. So the speed in which you can use the tools that are there are going to be incredible. But then it comes down to, yeah, your confidence and how you convey things.
Andrew Undom
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Cody Smith
Yeah, and another thing you do too is like, if you want something to look renovated. So another guy took a picture of this, like, lawn that was overgrown. Like, no vision took a picture of it and said, hey, let me clean this up. Put this here. And it made it look perfect.
Andrew Undom
Perfect.
Cody Smith
And it looked real. And that it's been a huge plus to just give. Give vision to what's not there. And there's. I mean, there's huge platforms that you pay for that to happen. And with this, you can just do a chat, tv, GPT on your own. I also want to speak to what you said about confidence. You literally said that yesterday after a listing appointment. What is the difference between maybe a newbie or a veteran and the difference in the conversation? The conversation is actually not different for the most part, but it's how you're conveying that message is the huge game changer with confidence and believing in what you're saying is the game changer in that. So it's like, man, what do I.
Luke Acre
Need to do to get better as.
Cody Smith
Far as information goes? Probably not much. There might be a system in that.
Steven Akree
But I was just gonna say, yeah, just like we just tell them all the time. It's like, stop over educ. All you need to do is like, here's what we need to do. Here's the next step. But everyone wants to explain it so much. But the confidence piece is pretty much all that matters to getting things signed and getting things to the market. Here's what.
Luke Acre
What's your. What's your thoughts on that, Andrew, of like, how you would open up? How do you display? Like, it's great to hear. You got to be confident. But, like, how do you display that confident or confidence to the actual seller? How do you kind of prep and frame up your listing presentation to make sure you're coming across the right way?
Andrew Undom
Well, it comes down to it's either you know what you're talking about or you don't. And people have a good BS meter. Okay. So if you know the right path sequentially and what steps need to happen and you can articulate that very clearly to a seller, they feel certain if you feel certain, they feel certain if you're wishy Washy. They're wishy washy. And you know, I love what I believe. That was Cody, which is less is more. You don't. You talk yourself out of a sale. You don't answer unasked questions. Okay, that's sales 101.
Cody Smith
That's really good.
Andrew Undom
Yeah, so good. It's called Sell today, Educate Tomorrow. You give people exactly what they want. And the game is you don't pretend like you know what they want, which is why you can have these beautiful listing presentations. And Sharon and I went over this thing, and this is how you open it, and this is how you start it, and this is how you flow through it and how you set the frame. And there's an element called show flow, demo. You have to show flow or demo through each one of these kind of compelling components of value as you move through that. Doesn't quite matter if the person you're talking to doesn't care. That's why you can't really quite do it with AI Because AI cares about everything. But the homeowner might not. So the real key is it's not being a good closer. It's being a good opener to your point, Luke, because how you open anything, whoever sets the frame wins the game. Okay? The only way to properly open any interaction, any conversation, is to figure out what that homeowner wants to talk about, then embed things into their agenda that they give you permission for that you want to talk about. Okay? That's called setting the agenda. So when you set the agenda, if I was talking to Cody, I'd say, hey, Cody, thanks so much for allowing me to come out today. What types of things would you like to go over in order to make the best use of your time? And, you know, people always, yeah, we're thinking about selling the house. We want to know what it's worth, what you think we should get done. What do you think price might be? Blah, blah, blah. It doesn't matter what they say, because you're. We're going to give you what you want, right? I don't care what my little book says, what my presentation says, what your little pamphlet that you want to make sure you go over.
Cody Smith
The book guide isn't the answer.
Andrew Undom
That's not the answer. The answer is you go in there with a piece of paper and you write that down. Okay, so we're gonna go over that, go over that, go over that. Hey, a lot of times, that's historical precedent. A lot of times people also want to go over what we do uniquely to get it sold. How do we maximize exposure? You know, what we charge and how we maximize your equity? Is it okay if we touch on those? Of course they say yes. Yeah, I just embedded that into your agenda. Okay, cool, cool, cool. Now, here's a couple things I'm going to want to talk about. Any specific critical dependencies on timing, how you're planning on making your decision, and who all is going to be involved in this process from your side. So I'm just going to have to ask you a couple questions on that, if that's cool. Awesome. Typically, this takes half an hour, 45 minutes. Always control the time. This is still the opening, right? This happens quick. Hey, at the end of this meeting, one or two things are going to happen. We might decide it's not a good fit. So if at any point in time you're not feeling it, totally have permission to just. Let's just hit pause, okay? Because I'm just here to serve you. But conversely and more commonly, we're going to take the next logical step in the process. Does that sound okay? You closed them right there. Yeah. At the end of this, we're either not doing or we're doing.
Luke Acre
Okay, so good.
Andrew Undom
So there's no close. You open. You open like that. Now you're in my world. I'm in control. But you feel good about it because you set the agenda. I'm going to make sure I give you whatever you want. And then from there, you can go into it and, you know, you have all these cool lines and things you want to pull out, but you don't have to pull them out unless they're needed. That's why, like, Sharon's black book, which I actually have right here, that I kind of customized on my own. Same thing with the buyer presentation. Same thing with the seller. Same thing. We do property management. The same way you introduce your lender. If you're trying to control that piece, it's all the same. But the key is you have to be unconsciously competent at where you want this to go. Beginning with the end in mind, before you get sucked into. Oh, my God, do they like me? If I say this, should I say this now? No. I got to make sure I talk about all the reasons our team has sold a thousand houses this year. No one cares. Once you can finally understand that the people don't care about you, they care about them. They just want to like you.
Cody Smith
What would you answer to the question that people are like? Well, should you know their personality first before you meet with them? So you know where to take the conversation. What do you think of that?
Andrew Undom
Oh, my God. You got to get Alan to talk about this. He. He will. He will go on a diet on disc. Yeah. Okay. We call this. This was in our book, the Forever Agent Proclamations. Can't find it. We talked about that. Off air. Disc testing, yes. Disc guessing, no. So unless you have had your clients take a disc test and you have all that data ahead of time, maybe you can identify if they're more of an I or they're an S or a C, whatever, but you don't know. But people are going around the whole industry and the whole sales training world thinking, hey, because the guy shook his hand like this, he's a D. Talk to him like that. This is nonsense. You didn't give him a disc test, so stop acting like it. So that's where I am on that now. It's real. It's totally a real thing. But I don't think realtors have miraculously found the ability. I went to a class at the Holiday Inn and now I know how to magically guess everyone's personality because of the way they wrote one email. It's like, give me a break, bro. Yeah.
Cody Smith
No, it's being the. Everything you're saying is like just being confident and knowing the reason you can be confident is because you know the situation that's coming. So you even intro with her, you're going to get a bunch of questions. Right. But then you control that throughout it and then you can answer them along the way. I love that.
Luke Acre
I'm curious because I think where most agents are fearful. Right. Is objections. It's the same for any sale. You're the salesman. Is all these trying to prep and prepare and is fearful of the objection. How do you handle objections within the actual listing agreement?
Andrew Undom
Well, if you do it right and you set the agenda properly and you open properly, you're not going to get many objections. Especially if you can go through a sequential order of this is how we're going to attack this game plan on a timeline. And you, you kind of hit all the. The marks like, here's how we prep. Here's how we're going to market it. Here's how we're going to use coming soon. Here's how we're going to do our buyer profile, demographic targeting. Here's what we're doing on video. Here's how we take pictures. Here's our philosophy on negotiating once offers come in. Here's how we handle the transaction once it's pending. You know, Closing, post. Close. If you really understand how you do that, you're not going to get many objections. And when you do get them, here's the best objection handler of all time. Because, you know, when they object, they're not objecting to you. They're stopping themselves a little bit because they're not clear on. They're not seeing. There's still some opacity. There's still some mystification for them on the process. So whenever you get an objection, when I get them, I just say, I don't feel any pressure. Why would I feel pressure? I'm not buying or selling anything. I got a free roll on this thing. Yeah, what do I care? So when they have an objection, I simply just say this. How do you want to handle that? And I'm genuinely curious, because people will solve their own problems about a thousand times better and faster than you'll try to solve them. And people will defend what they help build. They'll fight you all day, but they're not going to fight themselves. So, you know, you guys should be paying me for this.
Luke Acre
Hey, man, he is getting paid for coaching now. So this is free coaching, ladies and gentlemen, you know, Right.
Andrew Undom
Yeah. Not really. Well, with someone, when someone inquires and they're actually interested, you know, we have engaged some people on that, but I find most people aren't interested. Right. They think there's a magic pill. They can say, oh, yeah, if I get this, I'll just be awesome. I can give you this book and tell you exactly what to say. You'll still suck unless you really, really get into it. Right? Yeah.
Cody Smith
And, Steven, you just went to a mastermind where people were, you know, talking about lead sources that they weren't using. Like, it's kind of similar to that.
Andrew Undom
Yeah.
Steven Akree
I think, like, every objection is just, for the most part, you just got to understand it's all surface level. It's always saying something else besides, like. Like someone says, what do you charge? They're not talking about what you charge. They're talking about making the most money, you know, in their pocket. And so you got to know where the true objection, you know, comes from. So, like, you always say, like, always affirm what they're saying and stay in agreement and say a great question. But then you direct them right back to, hey, this is about making you the most money in your pocket. So just like I always tell people, just get off the objection. Because the objection isn't real in their mind. It always alludes to something else. Interest rate is not about Interest rate. It's about them getting a deal or their payment being where they need it to be. And so you just like, you take that objection and then you go, you affirm what they're saying and then go right back in.
Andrew Undom
When they ask you a question. Objections normally come in the form of questions or questioning something you said. You always ask them a question back to get more clarity on it like it is initially, it is surface level, but you can dive deep on it. Yep. What do you charge? You say, you say I like to do. It's called the start Stop. You start answering it. Well, typically, you know, when the seller, when we engage in. Hey, just curious, before I came over, you guys were probably already talking about that. What'd that conversation sound like?
Luke Acre
So you really want to get them talking. What if, like, what if they build a straw man argument? Like, isn't the danger there that they voice something that's not really true, but now because they voiced it, it's given truth? And just like you said, people are going to defend what they've built. So isn't there a risk there when you get them talking to solve their own problem that they have, they voice something that's not really true. How do you run into that?
Andrew Undom
Or something silly that you know is not true, which happens all the time. Yeah, well, there's estimates at this or Redfin will do for that or whatever the case may be, of course. But then you just gotta, you gotta dive a little deeper. Whoever's asking the questions is in control. So if someone's putting you on your back feet, you don't know how to handle that. Because you know the thing that the precursor to this is you have to be totally comfortable with yourself. And this is not even a sales. This is just a life thing. If you're not comfortable with yourself, you'll never be able to make someone else comfortable. Okay, this is the first step to buying a report. If I'm not comfortable, you're not comfortable. You all know that guy or girl you meet at a party, they're just awkward. Get away, Steven. Hey, Cody and Steven are very. That's why you guys sell a ton of real estate. Because you guys are just comfortable. You know what you're doing and you're good. But if someone makes this straw man argument, you just have to ask, say, hey, I'm curious, did you guys come up with that or did you hear that somewhere? Like, where is that coming from? And you just get, oh, well. And then you. It's so easy to dispel if you're just.
Luke Acre
Yeah. You're almost making them defend their position, but in a non threatening, very questioning, curious tone.
Andrew Undom
Well, you know the. A famous person, Christopher Hitchens. I don't know if you know this guy, but he said something so good. He's more of like a. He like attacks religion and talk about arguments like which God is real kind of thing. He always says that which can be submitted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence. So if you're just going to say some dumb shit. Well, I don't have to defend that. Yeah. All right. But since we're trying to stay in rapport and we're trying to accomplish a common goal, maximize the seller's equity, get the buyer what they want. You just have to. Yeah. Who came up with that?
Steven Akree
I love that.
Andrew Undom
Yeah. And you're just curious because Sales is a Broadway play put on by a psychiatrist. Okay. We're just trying. All we want to do is get to the truth extremely quickly. Yeah. That's what the best agents do. I want the truth. I'm going to get to the truth. And we're either going to move forward or we're not. And either way is good with me. And you'll be able to identify people who are not logical, reasonable, rational thinkers very quickly. Oftentimes you can still help them, but sometimes you go, geez, do I even want to engage? God, what happens when we try to put this thing under contract and they start saying, well, I thought it was business days, not weekdays or the property inspections. Notice they didn't say this, right? You're like some people. You don't have. You don't have to deal with everybody. Okay. But most people are good. Yeah. We all know that most. These people are just fine. It's the agents who mess up the deals. It's not the consumers. It's never the consumers. The reason deals don't get done is because of the agents. The reason deals fall out of contract is because of the agents. The buyer wants to buy, the seller wants to sell. And it's an extreme lack of communication and clarity delivered from the agent to their client that causes the problems. Because we don't get to talk to the other party. We. We have to play this stupid game of telephone. I'm representing the seller. I have to run all my communication through a buyer's agent, which I don't have that much control over, who then talks to the buyer who's actually making the decision. So what every good agent's job is is your ability to coach the other agent on how to talk to their clients. And that's really where the magic is.
Luke Acre
That's interesting.
Andrew Undom
You don't hear that clients, yeah, I hope you know how to talk to your clients. But can you control, can you influence the outcome of a decision on the other side based on how you're communicating with, with the other party?
Luke Acre
Let's go deeper on that because I don't hear that very often on podcast or thought leadership that's out there, which is how to influence the other real estate agent. So like as you guys think about that, what are some tips you would give to a new agent of how you would talk to the other agent? Is there a style like where you, I hate to say it this way, but it's just for sake of the conversation, like, hey, between you and I like framing up and trying to build rapport with them. It's like, hey, let's cut the flop off and let's cut the negotiations. Just you and I want to get this deal done. Is there that? Because you also have this fiduciary duty of representing your seller. So there's kind of this gray area that happens there.
Andrew Undom
Yeah, I think.
Luke Acre
What's your thoughts on that?
Steven Akree
I would just say from the very get go, it starts with being in control of your client because most agents, the problem they run into is they're controlled by their client and they're not clearly communicating to their client what they need to do. And so they're being soft and the client's telling them, well, let's do this, let's go back for a $10,000 repair request. And you know deep down it's never going to happen. But you're not willing to communicate that to them because you want it to be easy. And so then you're going to the other agent going, I don't believe it. I don't believe we should ask for 10,000, but we're asking for 10,000. So it's like it starts with your belief on what you should do, communicating that clearly to your client and then coming back with a response that's reasonable because you believe it. So that would be the first thing I would say.
Andrew Undom
Well, Stephen, it's spot on. It's who's leading the ship here. People want to be led. That's the thing you got to wrap your head around. Your job is to lead the situation. People will never follow somebody unless they feel like they can learn from them. And they're actually, they, you know, they have the credibility and the ability to get to the finish line to accomplish the goal. So 100% there. And what people do is. And this drives me nuts. You see, people say, the agent. I'll be the agent. Like, hey, Steven. So they're asking for home inspector, you know, has all these issues. What do you think? What do you want to do? They give their power away. They. These agents literally ask their client what they. What should they do? It's like going to the dentist and saying, hey, my tooth jacked up. Really painful. And the dentist goes, all right, what do you want to do? You wanna. You wanna. You want me to pull. Like. You want me to pull the molar or like, you tell me, what do you think we should do? What are we doing, guys?
Cody Smith
Right?
Andrew Undom
That's step one. But let's assume we get past that and you're actually in control of your side. But you do have to influence the other side, which was. Was what Luke was going for there. If the other agent is good. And you kind of know this, right? You can see the production, you can see the numbers. Most markets, all real estate's local. So you run into the same players, like 90 of the real estate sold by 10% of the agents. So you kind of know who you're dealing with. And if you're dealing with someone new and you want to. It's all goes. Comes back. If you want better answers, you have to ask better questions. So say, hey, we're going to come to you. We're going to ask for $10,000 towards a credit here. Now, Stephen, how are you going to present that to your seller? And they'll say, well, I'm going to tell them this is ridiculous. Okay, but see that. That could be an issue. Let's. Let's. We want to make sure everything's cordial. The buyers want the property. The reason they're asking for the 10 is this. Let's role play a little bit. I want to. You convey to the seller what we're asking for in the kind of manner and tone of the spirit. The last thing I want to happen, and I know it's happened in the past, again using historical precedent. I know this has happened before. Not saying it's the case here, but what's happened before is we make a request and people get bent out of shape, and then everyone's fighting, and then this whole thing gets a little. We don't want that. We're on the. See, what's funny is we're actually cooperating. See, the houses are competing. The clients might be competing, but you and I are. We're supposed to cooperate. So let's stay on the same team here. It's stuff like that.
Luke Acre
Yeah.
Andrew Undom
It's so good that that's like some black belt Jedi mind trick stuff. Right. But people are lazy. You get 10 deals going on, you just start punting. We call them punters. You're like, you just punted away. Pray to God it works. Not my agent. I.
Cody Smith
Well, I love that. Yeah. It's.
Luke Acre
Yeah.
Cody Smith
Coaching by, like telling them, hey, the motive behind it, the reason behind it. It's educating more than just say, hey, this is a $10,000 credit. It's saying, hey, we have. We're doing $2,000 credit because of these major things that we're looking at. You know, I always often say, like, hey, we're not going for anything minor. I know it's 10,000, but they're major issues and, you know, they're really concerned about it. And this is the reason why we did it. You know, what are your thoughts on that? Like, what do you think about that? Yeah, that makes sense. Yeah. I could see why you want that. Yeah. And it would make sense to your seller, too.
Luke Acre
Right.
Andrew Undom
Right. Yeah. Ask them how they're going to talk to their client about it. How do you plan on presenting this to your client? And it goes the other side, too. So the seller. And then I come back and say, hey, we're not going to give you the 10k. So you go back to the buyer's agent, say, hey, the seller's not going to give the 10k. Totally understand where you're coming from. Now, when you deliver that back to the buyer, how do you plan on presenting that to them? Because I don't want them to be upset. But, you know, we had three offers and we took yours because you waived the appraisal. But the sellers are in a position, you know, you got to understand they have. We have backup off offers or whatever the case is. So we're not trying to jerk you around, but this is just where we're at. Talk to me a little bit about how you think the buyers are going to feel about that. Let's role play. And you're just helping. You're there to help because you want to be the person that the cooperating agent likes doing deals with. We don't fight. It's like three ninjas. You never fight unless you know you can win. We don't know what's going to happen with this. We're playing telephone. You know, Andrew, I feel like you can light up the eyes.
Luke Acre
I feel like you were a Therapist. I feel like I need to come talk to you about all my problems. Like, yeah, you're. You're extremely good. Even with the pausing. Like, the pausing is so powerful.
Andrew Undom
Well, Luke, I can. I can. Look, guys, like, we all thought our.
Cody Smith
Jobs are in jeopardy that AI space.
Andrew Undom
So, hey, I can teach you guys so much.
Luke Acre
You probably could, but it's like, you can tell. I hope people watch this on YouTube, because there is even. I mean, like we were saying earlier, there's an art form to even your presentation style, which matters tremendously. And I loved music growing up. Still love music, but play a lot of musical instruments. And one of the most powerful things one of my music teachers taught me growing up is there's as much beauty in the blank space as there is in the notes. And once you come to understand that, you can actually be a great musician because it's about dynamic, right? It's about emotion. It's about feeling, and that translates to communication. And there's. When you get nervous and when you get commission breath, you start not letting pauses happen because. Yeah, exactly.
Andrew Undom
Hey, can we get a couple half notes in here and take a breath?
Luke Acre
All right, man, we're gonna switch gears a little bit here. So, Ryan Sirhant, you've gotten this probably. You know, people say all the time, you're like, the mini Ryan Sirhant, right? He looks like Ryan Sirhan, doesn't he, guys? Sirhant, Sir. Hunt, however you pronounce his name, you just did some content with him, didn't you?
Andrew Undom
Yeah, it's a funny story. I get that all the time. I swear to God, two weeks ago, I was doing an open house. See, I'm still in the trenches.
Luke Acre
That's what I like.
Andrew Undom
Yeah, I'm still doing it. Okay, Because I feel like it's. You have to find things that feel like play to you, but work like others in this game. This is fun to me. That's why I just like it. I like dealing with the problem. Bring me your problems. I like to solve it. This is kind of fun, right? It's. And that's what you got to get to that point. Now it's a grind, and there's budgetary things, and I know everyone's in a different situation, but you got to just have some fun with this business. And it's way more fun to be good than it is to be bad. You know, for lack of a better term, if you're bad at it, you're always stressed out. Deals are falling apart. But anyway, yeah, I was in an Open house last week and this girl comes in and one of my little funny jokes, good rapport, great family, they had a home to sell. They want to buy this big house I was in and I said, I'm surprised you guys don't recognize me from tv. And she goes, oh my God, I thought that was you. What are you doing here? I said, oh, my family's from here, you guys. Yeah, I'm done in New York. I had her going for like a good five minutes. Yeah, your wife's Greek and all this stuff. So I get the Sirhan thing all the time. Then we had this great joke and I locked them up real quick.
Luke Acre
You know, think about, think about closing the deal based up opening with a lie. What type of mind trick is that?
Andrew Undom
Well, you always come clean. You don't let them.
Luke Acre
No, I know, I know. I'm just saying. That's great. That is so good.
Cody Smith
I'm gonna use the Jason Kelsey line next time.
Andrew Undom
Yeah, yeah, Jason Kelsey. There you go. You got that going on. I started getting on TikTok. I have a. One of my buddies, another guy you might want to interview. He was that mortgage guy on TikTok. He ended up with a couple million followers. He's locally Maryland guy. And he goes, you need to get on TikTok. And I was like, I don't really play with TikTok too much, but okay. So I start making the tick tocks. I started copying trending sounds. This is years ago. In the first few I do, I'm getting like 500,000 views. I'm like, oh my God, like right out of the gate, first one, wow, they're still there. I stopped posting on it because people there mean as a guy, I was the class clown. Pretty witty. So I don't look, I. You can talk to me, but I'm gonna talk back. So I ended up engaging in that, which was silly anyway.
Luke Acre
Are you sensitive, Andrew? No, not at all.
Andrew Undom
Hey, this is play. This is play. You can't hurt me. You can't hurt me, hurt my feelings.
Cody Smith
But I'll do my best to hurt you.
Andrew Undom
I get all these comments start flying in and they started being like this, look at this. Make a wish looking fake discount Walmart. Ryan Sirhan's missing two chromosomes. Like just endless amazing talk.
Cody Smith
Yeah, that's really good.
Andrew Undom
Being a lookalike Sirhant. And a couple times Sirhan's employees, the Sirhan actual account started saying, oh my God, I thought you were my boss. This sort of thing. And then even Ryan posted about, hey, I Think I found my doppelganger in passing on one of his stories years ago. Well, he ended up coming to Baltimore for a talk. I. I meet him and going back to sales. I said, well, I got it. What do I want when I meet this guy? Because he knows who I am. What does Ryan care about? It's not about me. What would everyone else do? Hey, Ryan, school. We look like each other, and that's that. And you go, hey, yeah, run along, buddy. Because everyone up there is trying to stroke them. So I said, well, Ryan, he was launching Sell It Like Sirhan at the time, and he wanted to get that out. I know that's important to him. So I think I came up with my game plan. I go meet him. Good suit, Sirhan esque suit. Real, real swag. Yeah. Walk up to him, dap him up. What's up, bro? Hey, you're the guy. Looks like me. Awesome. I said, hey, Ryan, I know you're launching, you know, whatever series it was part three of Sell It Like Sirhan. You know, I'm at Berkshire Hathaway Home Services. Home Services of America's got 150,000 agents, most of them over the age of 58. They're not going to see your stuff on social, but we should do a podcast. Let me interview you. And I can disperse that to all the Berkshire agents. It'll crush it with salt. Like Sirhan.
Luke Acre
Yeah.
Andrew Undom
He went, when can you come to New York? I said, whenever you want. Train away. Boom. Then we hit it off.
Luke Acre
And so good, man.
Andrew Undom
And that's kind of how we value.
Luke Acre
How to win friends, influence people. Right there, ladies and gentlemen, that is. That is a golden nugget. Yeah, that's awesome.
Andrew Undom
Yeah. He's a hell of a guy, though. That guy deserves everything he's got. He is a workhorse.
Luke Acre
Yeah, he really is. You can tell. Just even, I mean, following him from his media stuff, you just see that, oh, man, this guy works all the time. But then you actually look at his results and you. This is ridiculous. What do you think of his platform? Have you seen his platform? Like, there's a lot of buzz in the industry about the AI speaking. You know, we were talking about AI earlier in his platform. Have you seen it? Have you used it at all or anything?
Andrew Undom
I've not. I've seen, whatever. What everyone else has seen similar. Ooh, yeah, yeah. Change the way you'll do everything forever. And I do believe a couple things. One is it's not any better than what we all have. I think his platform is Very similar to Reach Out. I don't, I'm not a user of Reach out, but that's kind of what simple is, if you're familiar with that.
Luke Acre
Yep.
Andrew Undom
And then I also think I'm better at sales than him.
Cody Smith
I love that. Yeah, gotta be.
Luke Acre
That's the clip, man. Tag him right in it. Well, look, Ryan, we're gonna have to have you on, man.
Andrew Undom
So that's, that's hard to win that argument. But I'm just in my head I was thinking and his stuff's awesome. It's not like he's got awesome stuff. He's great. But I'm thinking, yeah, not everyone's selling 20 million dollar penthouses. What about the rest of us selling, you know, 3, 4, 5, 600K? You know, I'm selling row homes in Baltimore.
Luke Acre
Well, they got even worse than you, man. They're selling $260,000 houses in Lynchburg, Virginia.
Cody Smith
Sounds nice.
Andrew Undom
Nothing wrong with that. Wrong with that before people so it's dying with the classes, fellas.
Josh Dyke
Well, Ryan, this has been, I mean Andrew, this has been fantastic. I appreciate the fact that we made it 620 episodes and this was the first three ninjas reference. I would like a round of applause for that. That was a fantastic movie, the Three Ninjas.
Andrew Undom
I'm glad you picked that up. Yeah, I appreciate it, Andrew. Thank you watching it now.
Josh Dyke
Thanks for joining us today. Before we close out, let people know how they can connect with you and where you want them to go.
Andrew Undom
You can follow me. I'm easy to find. It's my last name is pretty much everywhere at undom on Instagram. Our team is sure group real estate. We serve Baltimore and happy to do the referrals and if you liked anything you heard, reach out to me. Everybody I've ever asked for help, Sharon Allen, Gino at Berkshire, I was zooming with him yesterday. Anyone I've ever asked for helps always help me and I want to pay that debt of gratitude forward. So if there's anything I can do to help. Happy to. We're all in it together. Appreciate what you guys are doing at Reminder Media. It's great meeting you guys. Cody and Stephen and yeah man.
Josh Dyke
And we'll include a link. I know you, you contribute to BAM a lot. So we'll make sure to include a link in the show notes here.
Andrew Undom
Yep. If you're not on BAM X, I don't know what you're doing. It is a hundred dollars a month and they every day they tell you what's going on in the industry. Every week they say this is what you should post on social. This is how you should post it. This is the reel you need to post. There's hundreds of courses on there and it's 100 bucks a month. So if you're not on Bam X, I don't think you're serious.
Luke Acre
Might as well retire, Ladies and gentlemen, I back that up.
Josh Dyke
We'll include a link here in the show notes on how you can join that. Thank you all so much for listening. You can get those links over staypaidpodcast.com and of course, the show notes wherever you're listening this to. And if you enjoyed this episode, do us a favor, head on over to YouTube, YouTube.com reminder media. Subscribe to reminder Media channel there and give this episode a thumbs up if you want to give get hold of me or Luke. You email us@podcastmindermedia.com and of course you can follow us on Instagram. We are at Stay Paid podcast for this episode of Stay Paid. I'm Josh Dyke.
Luke Acre
Guys. I'm Luke Acre. Andrew, thank you, man. You are an assassin. We definitely have to have you back. So really appreciate all the wisdom you shared. Listen, guys. You can listen to stuff like this all day long, but if you don't take action, it will do you no good. The point of this show is that you actually take action on some of the things that you heard. And here's my challenge to you today because I think it's an obvious one that all of you should do, but so few of you will actually do, which is, you know, you heard Cody and Steven and Andrew say it's not really about what you're saying as much as it is about how you're saying it. Your body language and your tone. I challenge you to actually sit down, record your listening presentation, which I believe so few of you have actually done, and watch it. And actually watch your listing presentation and give it to one of the top producers at the office and beg them because they probably will be like Andrew and want to pay it forward to give you some critiques on your listing presentation. Do that. Remember, the difference between top producers and mediocre producers in any business is top producers take action. Take action on that today.
Stay Paid Podcast: How Andrew Undom Built a Billion-Dollar Real Estate Business
Release Date: July 28, 2025
Hosts: Josh Dyke (Chief Marketing Officer, ReminderMedia) and Luke Acre (President, ReminderMedia)
Guest: Andrew Undom (Co-owner and Managing Partner, The Shore Group at ReMax Sales)
In this compelling episode of the Stay Paid Podcast, hosts Josh Dyke and Luke Acre sit down with Andrew Undom, a seasoned real estate mogul who has played a pivotal role in generating over $500 million in residential real estate sales. Andrew shares his journey, insights into leveraging artificial intelligence (AI) in real estate, effective sales strategies, and the importance of personal conviction in business dealings.
Luke Acre kicks off the conversation by inquiring about Andrew’s use of AI in his business operations.
Andrew highlights the rapid advancements in AI and its integration into real estate tools like CRMs and digital marketing platforms. He emphasizes that while AI can enhance efficiency, the effectiveness depends on how users interact with it.
Andrew underscores the importance of human elements—conviction, certainty, and personal performance—which AI cannot fully replicate. He believes that while AI can aid in administrative tasks, the personal touch remains crucial in real estate transactions.
The discussion transitions to listing presentations, where Andrew shares his strategies for standing out and building trust with sellers.
Andrew emphasizes the importance of setting the agenda and controlling the conversation during listing presentations. By focusing on the seller’s needs and presenting a clear, structured plan, agents can minimize objections and establish credibility.
He advises agents to listen actively and address concerns thoughtfully, ensuring that the presentation is more about the seller’s goals rather than just listing features.
A significant portion of the episode delves into handling objections during sales interactions.
Andrew advocates for a curious and non-confrontational approach to objections, encouraging sellers to articulate their concerns fully. This method not only defuses tension but also allows agents to address the root causes effectively.
Steven Akree and Cody Smith add their perspectives, reinforcing the idea that objections often mask deeper concerns. They stress the importance of affirming the client’s feelings and redirecting the conversation to address the underlying issues.
The conversation takes an insightful turn as the hosts explore how agents can influence and collaborate with other agents to close deals more effectively.
Andrew discusses the balance between maintaining fiduciary duties and fostering harmonious relationships with other agents. He emphasizes the value of clear communication and mutual respect to navigate negotiations smoothly.
This approach not only facilitates better deals but also builds a reputable network of industry professionals who respect and prefer working with you.
Andrew shares anecdotes about his experiences with personal branding, particularly his unintended resemblance to real estate influencer Ryan Serhant.
Andrew recounts how leveraging social media platforms like TikTok helped him expand his reach and engage with a broader audience, despite initial challenges and criticism.
He underscores the importance of authentic engagement and consistent branding in establishing a strong online presence, which is increasingly vital in today’s real estate market.
Throughout the episode, Andrew consistently highlights the importance of human connection and personal integrity in building a successful real estate business.
He believes that trust and rapport are foundational to client relationships, and these elements cannot be fully replicated by technology.
Andrew’s philosophy centers on leading conversations with confidence and prioritizing the client’s needs, ensuring that every interaction builds towards mutual success.
As the podcast wraps up, Andrew encourages listeners to take actionable steps and continuously refine their communication skills.
Andrew leaves the audience with a motivational message about the power of adaptation, continuous learning, and maintaining a positive mindset in the face of evolving industry trends.
Andrew Undom [01:52]: “If it's a buzzword for somebody, they're on their way out.”
Andrew Undom [08:30]: “It's either you know what you're talking about or you don't. And people have a good BS meter.”
Andrew Undom [15:02]: “Whenever you get an objection, when I get them, I just say, I don't feel any pressure. Why would I feel pressure?”
Andrew Undom [22:30]: “You have to be the person that the cooperating agent likes doing deals with. We don't fight. We're like three ninjas.”
Luke Acre [37:54]: “Remember, the difference between top producers and mediocre producers in any business is top producers take action. Take action on that today.”
Instagram: @undom
Team: The Shore Group at ReMax Sales, serving Baltimore
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This episode offers invaluable insights into building a billion-dollar real estate business through strategic use of AI, effective communication, and unwavering personal conviction. Whether you're a seasoned agent or just starting, Andrew Undom's experiences provide a roadmap for achieving remarkable success in the competitive real estate landscape.