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Hey, guys. Welcome back to Storytime with Kayla Jade. I'm so happy you're here today. We're going to do a little bit of a Q and A, something different. I got you guys to put in a bunch of questions in my question box and I'm so. I haven't, like, looked at a single one. I've just gone and screenshot a bunch, so I'm keen to see them. My client booked them. Get ready with. Oh, my God, you guys. Let's do a Pack my bag. Oh, my God. There's so. There's actually so many. I don't know if we're going to get through all these, but we can try. Okay, so I think I know who this one is from. Someone said, meet me in the bathroom at Exotica. So when I was in Miami, I. I don't know if you guys know Flesh Mechanic. He's like a content creator. He's super beloved by everyone. Me and my friend, like, we were just obsessed with him. And we went up to him, like, we just. We hadn't talked to him. We went up to him. We were just like, do you want to just, like, fuck in the bathrooms here at Exoticca? And he was like, sure, why not? So we all had a threesome in the bathroom at Exotic. It was great. And then we got kicked out. So that was a pretty wild experience. It was pretty wild. Your favorite thing about New Zealand. Oh, this is a cute one. I would have to say the people, like, it took me a while to fall in love with New Zealand again just from growing up there. Just, like, I don't know, because I moved over to Australia when I was, like, fresh 18 or 19. So it took me a while to be happy, kind of, like be content coming back home. Because I would just constantly think about, you know, things of the past or, like, you know, dumb things that I said to people or whatever. So it took me a while to, like, be happy going back home. And now that it's had some time, that time's passed and, like, I've done my healing. Like, I just love New Zealand. Like, I love it so much. I love the people there. I love just how nice and kind and, like, grounded people are there. So, yeah, it made me, like, have a newfound, like, love for New Zealand coming over here. Someone said, can I be a lawyer? I do sort of already have a lawyer, but you can be my lawyer. How to make sure you're safe with STDs and STIs. Every time I do it, I want to run to the docs. So fun fact, like, I've never had. I've never gotten an STD from, like, being in the full service sex work industry. I only got an std when I was shooting lots of content for OnlyFans. Because I guess when you see clients, like, everything is covered. Like, you know, you wear condoms, but. Whereas when you're making, like, content porn, like, a lot of the time they don't want you to wear protection because that's not as, like, sexy. Right? So, yeah, when I. I think I got. I think it was chlamydia I got. I won't say from who. I don't even know who it was from really. But yeah, that was. That was fun. But that's okay. Shit happens, you know? But yeah, how do I make sure I stay safe? Like, especially when I'm shooting a lot, when I'm seeing a lot of clients, I'll make sure I get tested like, every, like, three weeks. When I was shooting, like, a lot of content, it was every two weeks. Cause obviously it's like, unprotected. So I think just. Yeah, making sure you're getting regular testing and being protected and being as safe as possible, making sure, like, your partners are getting tested as well. I think that's. Yeah, the best way to protect yourself. New round of Dread. Oh, my God. I don't. I don't think I could do that again. So when I was in America, I shot with this guy called Dread. His name's Dread, and they call him that for a reason. Like, he's got a big ass. Shalom. It's probably like, I would say like, as long as, like a cucumber, you know, like, not those, like, little Lebanese cucumbers, like the big, like, long cucumbers. And like, super thick as well. Like wine bottle. Wine bottle thickness, like, girth's thickness. And then. Yeah, it's got like the curve to it and the length, which is. Which is brutal. And like, it's so funny. Like, it. It's just like, how. How can something like that get hard? Like, how does he not faint from all the blood just going straight to his cock? Like, is. Yeah, I was surprised he didn't. Like, he didn't faint in front of me, but yeah, I feel like it doesn't like that are that big, though. I feel like they don't fully get, like, as hard as, like, you know, a smaller cock would. I don't know. They just. They seem to, like, stay down when they're hard because I've got so much weight. Whereas a lot of cocks will, like, ping up. I did that anal as well. That was. That was. I don't know who that girl was, but I could not do that now. But, hey, it made me a lot of money. So it was a good time and dread. He's a. He's a lovely guy. It was a very good experience. So, okay. Obviously I still got a lot of, a lot of, a lot of guys on my Instagram because there's a lot of sexual questions. Where my girls at? Where my girls at? What makes sex enjoyable for you in your personal life? I go through phases of liking sex. Like, I feel like I could go, like a long time without, like, seeing someone in my personal life. Like, having, like, I don't know, I just, like, I enjoy. I enjoy the time that I have with myself and then I'll see my clients and then if I have a really good client, like, that's a bonus. But usually if I'm like, if I'm away for work or something, if I'm on holiday, I'll get some holiday dick and that'll just be like, back, back to back to back. And then I'll be fine for like a few months and then I'll get horny again and find someone else. But that's pretty much how I do it. What's something unexpected that you've learned from the sex work industry? This is very interesting. Something unexpected. I feel like it's made me be able to read people so well. Like, any person that I meet, like, mainly I'm talking male. Like, any male that I meet, I just, like, I just can read them and know exactly who they are by just having, like, a quick conversation with them, which is something that I couldn't do before. So I guess you just like meeting so many new people, you develop certain little superpowers and that's one of them. What do your parents think of your job? Are they supportive or judgmental? My parents are supportive, but it wasn't always like that. It was a little bit of a rocky start. So, like, when I first started in the industry, like, I was like, posting and, like, I didn't tell them straight away that I was doing it. They kind of like, heard from the grapevine. And I think mum was more just like, concerned about, like, safety. Like, she was sort of thinking, like, what I was doing was like, you know, because I originally started with OnlyFans. So, like, I don't know, she just had this idea in it, in her head of, like, sex work. And I think, like, Sex work has just like growing so much since then. So yeah, I had to like, once I explained to her, like, this is what I do and like, you know, it's not as scary as it seems. And then like she, because she's from New Zealand, but she like came here and like, you know, saw that I was living a good life. And yeah, she was supportive after that. Like, she saw that I was happy doing it. So she was, she was happy with that. My dad was always supportive from the start. Randomly, my dad and my brother, they were always like, you do you, you do you. They just sort of wanted to like, know what was happening. Like I remember my dad calling me being like, okay, like I've heard that, like your mom's freaking out, like, what's going on? Just tell me. And then I told him, he was like, okay, like, that's fine, like as long as you're happy, like it's all good. But yeah, I did have family members, like not like it. Like I did have one family member, he's like a 40 year old man, like go into my, go into my only fans and like screenshot all my content and send it around to the rest of my family. So that was fun. We don't talk anymore. So I think that's just, that's just the reality of getting into sex work. You really find like people's true colors, like their true colors come out when you start sex work. Because yeah, there's just like, yeah, some people are not going to be happy with it. They're not going to like it, but that's okay. You know, you pick and choose, like if they're going to support you, like if you're happy, like they should support you regardless. I have so many questions asking, would you have more kids in the future? Like there is like a million. So like the first time I saw it, I was like, oh, I'm just gonna ignore that. But I've had so many different people ask that, so I guess I'll answer it. No, I'm not gonna have any more kids. I love my two babies that I have. I love them to death. And I would be so scared that having another child would take away their attention. You know what I mean? I just, I just love focusing on them. Like they're both perfect. They're exactly what I wanted. So why would I, I would just be so worried that like I'd have another one and it would just like change things. So yeah, I'm super happy. And like, you know, they're both from the Same dad? Like, I can't imagine. Like, yeah, I just. I'm all about the kids at the moment. Like, I just don't. I don't want to, like, introduce someone to them or, like, you know, start, like, another family or anything. That's just, like, not for me right now. So, yeah, just focusing on the two kids. Yeah. Like, their dad's, like, super supportive, and we have, like, a good relationship together. Like, it just works, you know, the co parenting. So who knows? Maybe you'll meet him one day. I don't know. Maybe I'll bring him on the podcast if he's willing to come on, but. Yeah. What's your exercise regime? I'm super lazy. I'll admit it. I go to the gym, like, twice a week, but that's because my PT forces me to go. But, like, it's only been recently that I've been sort of, like, just so busy with work, and I haven't been putting my health first, which I know is not good. And, like, I start to feel it. Like, my mental health, everything starts to go. So, like, the past two weeks, I've been going to the gym, like, like, four times a week. And, like, I felt so much better. And then I've been, like, going on hikes with friends and family. So, yeah, it's been nice just to, like, move my body more. I definitely notice when, like, I haven't been working out, especially with clients. Like, I just get so unfit. Especially ones that just want me to, like, jump on top for, like, an hour. It's just, like, that's not gonna happen. I'm sorry, I'm too unfit. So, yeah, I'm getting back in the gym. We're getting healthy. We love it. Someone said, can you show us your cats? Oh, should I show them? Shall we show them? Okay, I'll see if I can find them. One second. This is Zucy. He is. He is almost 2 years old, and he is my gentle giant. He's such a lovely sweetheart. Like, he'll just. He's got so much personality, he'll just, like, come up and, like, come in the covers with me in bed and, like, sleep with me all night. He knows, like, commands. Like, if I tell him to go inside, like, because I'll take them outside for, like, I've got, like, a little patch of grass that I'll take them out to, and he'll just go out there, and then I'm right, Zeusy, it's time to come inside. He just walks on in. Like, he's so chill. Such a chill cat, aren't you? You're my baby. You're my baby. He eats me out of house and home. Honestly, the amount I spend on cat food is just ridiculous. So this is Zeusy, my big fluffy giant. I've got, like, little nicknames for my cats. Like, every cat has about like five to 10 nicknames. It just depends on my mood. Like, I go through cycles. Like, at the moment he's called Zucina, but, like, you gotta say, like, Susina. Like, Susina. Like, you gotta say it in like an accent. And that's the way he loves it. Hey. Okay, I'll get Blue. Sorry. And this is Blue. She probably won't stay here too long because she can be a bit grumpy. I did just wake her up, but she's got so much personality as well. Like, she's really the boss of the three cats. So there's two boys and she's the girl. She's the boss. She, like, is the top dog. Yeah, she's like. She's the sweetest thing. She'll literally follow me around the house all day. She'll like everything I do when I'm doing, like, washing, cooking. She'll follow me around and then. And then she comes up and snuggles with me at night as well. I can't wait to get a bigger house and just get more cats and chickens and. Yeah, just have a big farmhouse full of animals. Okay, I'll get Marmalade. He is my newest kitty and this is Marmalade. Well, we call him Marmee. He is actually the most feral out of them all. We call him. His nickname is Merv because he makes these. I don't know if you guys have seen that, like, Merv Cat on Instagram, but, like, he makes the same noisesm and like, he's just so feral. Like, the other kids are so chill, but he'll just like, they'll be like, eating his. Eating their food and he'll come up to them and just like. Just like run up to them, whack them and then run away and just like, not explain himself. He just does weird shit like that all the time. And yeah, those are my kitties. I love them so much. Someone just commented being like, boob pics. Nice. Nice. Do you feel that your profession has impacted your sex life views slash views outside of your job? Yeah, I think it definitely has affected the way that I see people and the way I see especially men. I feel like it would be really hard for me to like, trust another man. Like to get into like a relationship with another guy. Have you ever caught feelings for a client? Filming partners? So yeah, like I've definitely had little crushes on like I've had one client where I had a crush on him. Still kind of have a crush on him. I feel like he'll just never get out of my minds. Filming partners as well? Like yes, there was a couple that I've had. Oh mainly just one I think that I had like a little crush on but like we were sort of seeing each other for a bit but it didn't like eventuate like he was, he was living in the States and I was from Australia so it would have never gone further. But whenever like I have like a little fling with someone or whatever, I just get to the point where I'm like, okay, this is nice but like where's it going to go? Because I don't want a relationship. I know they probably don't want a relationship. So it kind of just like either I stop talking or like they stop talking basically. What would you be doing if you weren't doing sex work? I honestly would have no idea because I struggle to like stay consistent in a lot of jobs. Like, especially if I like, I'm neurodivergent. Like I just, I, if I get bored of something I like have to move on to the next thing, you know what I mean? So that's why I like this job because there's just like so many different pathways. Like you know, like I can do sex work for a bit or if like I'm not feeling that I can like, you know, focus on only fans or like if I'm not feeling that like maybe I could do, try to do something with social media. Like there's just so many avenues for me which like has really helped me. It's honestly been the only thing that I've ever been consistent at. So I mean it's telling something, it's working for me somehow. What's one thing you didn't expect to like so much when you first started in the industry? I guess like when I first started I was sort of, I don't know, worried that I wouldn't get along with the people in the industry. But like I've literally made like my closest best friends from this industry. I've met so many like lovely like minded people. Like sex workers, I swear are just like the nicest people a lot of the time. Like they're the most like kind, caring, genuine people. So yeah, I really thrived and found my girls through Sex work, which is crazy. I didn't think that that would happen. But, yeah, it's been a great surprise. I've got, like, cat hair, like, stuck to my face now. It's like, you know when you have your makeup on and then you, like, kiss a cat and, like, it just gets stuck to it. Do you ever swallow milk after sucking on a cot? So obviously, like, they mean, do you ever swallow calm? Not with clients. Like, that's something that I don't do. I don't have that their semen come anywhere near my face or my mouth. Mainly for, like, hygiene reasons and to keep me safe. But also, I just don't like calm. I just think it's really gross. And it's very, like, weird coming from a sex worker and, like, someone who's in porn. But I just, like, I'm very. I'm a little bit of a germaphobe, so, like, anything, like, a lot of spit or, like, I would always struggle, like, if I was filming content and, like, you know. So there's like, a thing that you do with, like. It's called, like, a spit. Like, cum swap. Oh. So basically, like, the guy, like, comes in a girl's mouth and then she's got it in her mouth and then she'll, like, spit it into your mouth. So I was like, I cannot. It's so gross. It's so gross. But it looks very hot. So that's why we do it. But, yeah, it's. It's not my favorite thing to do. Please talk about sponges you use when you're working on your period. So, yeah, so there's these sponges. Like, I just get them from. Everyone asks me where I always get them from, so I get them from the sex shop. But I think you can buy them, like, online and they're way cheaper. So, yeah, they're like these little sponges that you just, like, put up you, like when you have your period. So it's good for when you're having sex, so you can still have sex. I wouldn't say they're good for, like, when you're, like, super heavy on your period. Like, it. You can have some leakage, but, like, if you're like day three or whatever and it's just like, mild, then. Then they work really well. But, like, I definitely have used it on, like, when I'm super heavy. You just gotta, like, change it more regularly. They're really good, but they're, like, really hard to get out. Like, sometimes I've had to have, like, you know, Like a partner or, like, someone, like, who I'm seeing just to, like, dig up there and like, get it out. Because I physically, like, cannot get it out. Like, I've just, like, got my whole arm up there trying to twist it around. Like, it gets stuck. So it's. It's not ideal, but, like, for work and for like, filming stuff, like, I would use them. But yeah, that. And those things are nasty. Like, they will. They will get really gross. Like, I remember this one time. I remember this one time I was in, like, Melbourne or something, and I was doing, like, a tour. So I was seeing, like, clients, like, back to back, and. And like, my dumb ass. Because I'm so unorganized. I forgot to pack sponges even though I was on my period. I think I had, like, one sponge and, like, I used it for a client and then I took it out and washed it and then, like, put it back in for another client. It was so gross. So gross. Probably going to get like, I don't know. Yeah, that's. That's nasty. That's nasty shit. But you got to do what you got to do, you know? Like, I was desperate. Someone asked, how old are my kids? I'm not going to answer that. Why. Why do you need to know that, James? Why do you need to know that? Do you know what's weird? Like, do you know what's funny actually, what's interesting to me that ever since I, you know, the people, like, were outing me and like, you know, saying that I was a mom, and then it, like that video that I did on TikTok, like, blew up about me being mum. Like, I've just had the, like, biggest only fans month from people finding out that I was a mom. Like, I guess people are, like, really into milfs. I don't know. But, like, I was like, oh, my, like, page is doing really well. I was like, what's. What's going on? And like, yeah, the only thing I can put it to is the whole mum thing. Coming out as a mum. When do you think you'll retire? Honestly, I have no idea. As long as I'm still happy seeing clients, still happy doing this work, then I won't retire. Like, if people are still paying, like, you know, I'm gonna do it. If they're not paying, then it's probably time to exit. But yeah, like, my brain changes so much. Like, I could be so happy with something, and then next month I'm like, nah, I don't want to do it anymore. So it just totally depends. But at the moment I'm enjoying it and I'm just trying to save as much money as I can for the future so that when I'm like, actually, fuck this, I'm gonna do something else, then I have that, like, safety net to go on. But I think, like, I'll always, like, even if I stop sex work, like, I'll always somehow like, stay in, like some sort of social media. Whether it's like helping other girls out or, you know, doing my own thing, who knows what the future will hold? Like, so much has changed in the last three years, so I cannot imagine, like, what it's going to be in another three years. Someone said, what are you looking forward to in the future? So the last few weeks I've been looking at a bunch of houses, a bunch of country houses, because I really want to move on to a farm with a lot of land and get some chickens and some animals. So I'm hoping to have that by the end of this year. So that's something that I'm really looking forward to and something that I've been working on. Yeah, I just really want to have some space and be a little bit out of the city. So I'm really excited for that. Zeusina. Zeus, what you doing? How do you cope with mental health within the industry? Absolutely love you. Thank you. Thank you so much. Honestly, it's like some weeks are a big struggle for me. I have got a very interesting brain and it likes to play tricks on me sometimes. Some weeks I'll be super happy or some days I'll be super happy and other days I'll just be like, miserable and depressed. And I think as well, like the industry, especially when I was working, like a lot more, like I was seeing a lot more clients, my mental health was not okay. Like, I just, I had to be like, this is not good for you. Like seeing a bunch of guys back to back, it was just messing with me. So, yeah, I had to really step back and only see like one or two clients a week. Like, I'm happy with, but when it's too much, it just, I don't know, it messes with my brain. And yeah, like, some things, you know, social media can be hard sometimes, especially when, you know, people are trying to out me about my kids and things like that. But yeah, it's just like, it's about having a good support network sort of outside of the space. Like, I have my family, I have my friends. I have like a life that is completely disconnected to the sex work and the Social media. Like, and when I see my friends, it's like, you know, we don't talk about that. We just talk about, you know, what's going on. Like, it's, it's chill. It's not all about, like, you know, social media and, like, what's the next hot thing? Like, yeah, it's so much more chill. So I think it's important to have that sort of safety network or something that you love doing a hobby, something to take you out of it. Because, yeah, it can be a very mentally taxing job for sure. Someone said, what is your death row meal? Oh, I'm such a, like, food gal. Like, I just love food, so that would be so hard to choose. But, like, I feel like you can't go wrong with just like a classic big steak and like, either roast potatoes or like some like really good mash and like veggies. Just like a good hearty steak mushroom sauce. Like, I feel like I'd have to do that with like a rhubarb and apple crumble with. With some custard and some ice cream. That's what I would do in coming years. Are you wanting to step away from the industry and focus more on influencing? I mean, I feel like it can go like a bit of both ways. Like, I've had a little bit of taste of like, the influencing sort of stuff with like, like brand deals and things like that. But TikTok in Australia, like, you can't get paid through that. Like, you can get paid through, like, if you use sounds and like, you know, brand deals, but you can't get paid, like, per your views itself, which is unfortunate. You can still get paid on YouTube, but obviously, like, it takes a while to build up that kind of thing. But I think, like, honestly, like, I'm happy. Like, I don't want it to replace, like, my sex work. Like, my sex work. Like, I get paid, like, really well through that. So it would have to match that if I was going to do that. But I like my job, so I'm happy where it's at right now. I'm not like, striving to be an influencer or anything. I could not imagine being that. I don't know. I don't know if people call me that already. I don't know, but I don't feel like that anyway. How. Oh, oh, my God. We got some drama going on back here. Like, how do you co parent? This is like an interesting one. Like, so I can't remember if I touched on this in like the motherhood episode. But like, me and the kid's dad are like super close. We had kids very young, so we were like literally from the start, we were just like, look, if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. We got pregnant within like a few months of knowing each other, which is crazy. But we were just so, like madly in love and like, loved each other so much that we were like, if it doesn't work out, like, it's all good. Like, we would just make it work. And like, from us being so young saying that to now, it's like nothing has changed. Like you, you know. Yes. We're not together and it's slowly like that sort of relationship side has drifted apart over the years. We've still just had that really strong connection and I think as well, because both of us, like, I couldn't have done it without him because honestly, like, it's very rare to find someone like this because I know a lot of like my friends have been through absolute partners and like, just completely useless. So I'm very lucky in that regard. So, like, he literally from the start has always been like, I want to be a stay at home dad. And like, I just love that I've been able to like, create that life for him. Like, yes, he's got a really good like, degree and job and everything. But like, he was like, he stepped back for, you know, the kids and. And then we can just like travel around together like as little family and I can do my thing when I need to and you know, so it's worked out really well. It's working out so far. Hopefully things stay that way. We'll see. Okay. I've only been through like the first 10 of them and there was like literally hundreds, so. But I'm gonna have to leave it at there today. But let me know if you like that because I'll definitely do another one. I love answering your questions. Thank you guys for watching and I'll talk to you soon.