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Hey, guys. Welcome back to story time with Kayla Jade. I am here again with girthmaster for our part two episode. We're gonna get into some more juice and stories, so I'm so excited. My client booked the most. Get ready with. Oh, my God. You guys still pack my bag. See, I've almost finished my cocktail.
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B
It's a pretty good cocktail.
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A
It's not bad. And it's good for the, you know, the juices, everything.
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B
Coochie lover cocktail for a coochie lover.
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A
Pineapple makes everything taste sweet, and cranberry.
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B
Makes everything come out. So you did the big kid reveal the other day, told the Internet you have children.
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A
Yeah. That was crazy.
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B
Yeah. How do you feel after that? It must be such a load off your chest.
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A
I feel like. Yeah, it really is, like, such a big load on my chest.
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B
It's a secret to keep, but it's not like a damaging secret. It's just like something you've held in and held you back.
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A
I'd say it never was a secret either. Like, I just never. There was never a right time to be like, by the way, I have kids when all I talk about is everything to do with, like, sex, work, and my job.
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B
That's not relevant to your content at all.
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A
It wasn't relevant. And also, like, just their safety is number one priority for me. So I'm like, if I'm going to start talking about my kids on there, that's going to have people asking questions. And that's exactly what happened, you know, Like, I saw the online forums of people literally asking for photos of my children and stuff, which is insane to me.
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B
But I will say I've seen, like, an overwhelming response of, like, respect for you revealing it. And, like, respect you even more for doing everything you've been doing while also being a mother to two kids.
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A
Yeah. It's like, because of them. Like, the other reason why, like, I work so hard. Like, if it wasn't for them, I probably wouldn't have made the amount that I did or had the, like, drive to, like, the ambition. You know what I mean?
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B
I've always noticed that about you. Like, you have such a drive. And it definitely has to come from you being a mother. Like, you're, like, the fierce protector of your children.
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A
Yeah.
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B
And I just. The motivation it gives you, because I remember you telling me you used to be a pt. Like, when we first met, your job before, that was a pt, and that was a grind.
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That was a grind.
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B
And I just noticed, like, so many things I've seen You do and decisions you've made and everything. Like with your kids interest as a first priority and like always protecting them, making decisions based around them. Just like the fierce mama lion I am.
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A
I'm very protective. So it's. It was a scary thing talking about it. I was also worried, like, what. How the public would perceive me now that they know that, you know, I'm a mother as well. Like, I just, I always fear of the judgment, I think, because I've had past sort of like issues with that. And so it's just. But just seeing the amount of support that I had from everyone on there was just like, so overwhelming. I was like, holy heck. Like, I like, it just felt so good to talk about it and say it from my view rather than what like people have said on the Internet.
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B
Yeah. And just like, yeah, you're in control of the narrative. When you don't tell anybody these things, you have the fear of the unknown. Like, how is going to be perceived? What do people think of me? But now, you know, and also anybody that is going to judge you for having kids isn't somebody that you need to worry about the opinion of.
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A
Exactly.
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B
Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
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A
So do you think you'll ever have kids?
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B
You know, right now it's not the right time of life and I'm not with somebody that I want to have kids with. So I'm sticking with my vasectomy.
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A
But yeah, I was going to say, how's the healing from all the vasectomy? Like, everything.
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B
Vasectomy was so easy.
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A
Literally never had any scares or anything.
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B
No. And the peace of mind I get, I leave it in and it's just like, I've been with people that have had pregnancy scares and they tell me about it and I'm like, months later I'll realize, like, damn, that could have been mine.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Never crossed my mind, thanks to the vasectomy.
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A
Is it because it's like reversible?
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B
Hey, generally, yeah, it's. I asked the doctor before I got the procedure done and he said he's never had a reversal fail. But there's a lot of factors involved. You know, the type of vasectomy you get, how long it's been since you had it. But you still make like my body still makes sperm. Just the tube that connects the sperm to the dick is kind of.
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A
Yeah.
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So like, worst case, I can do ivf. They can extract my sperm, plant the egg.
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A
It'd be crazy to think about, like, you know, when you're at the point where you're like, okay, I'm going to reverse my vasectomy, like, we'll still be talking. Then I'll be like, what?
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B
I can see the day where I do have kids. Like, I haven't ruled it out. I'm 31, pretty young. You know, dudes have kids a lot older than that.
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A
You still got so much life to live.
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B
I reckon I'm not in a rush, and I'm glad I'm not going to be in a position where I'm having, like, kids with somebody that I don't see a future with.
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A
Totally.
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B
So one day that may change. I think being a dad would be a lot of fun.
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A
How do you navigate relationships in the industry?
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B
It can be so tricky because I feel like there's two different versions of me. Like, there's. To me, when I shoot with somebody professionally, and that's very much like my motto when I shoot is reciprocate, don't initiate. It can be entirely professional. Everything from the messages, the initial messages, reaching out to the shoot day. It can be as simple as chatting. Like, you and I are now just sitting across the couch and like, all right, should we get to work, make a scene and go home? There's a very professional element to it.
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Totally.
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B
Whereas when I date someone, we go in there for a couple cocktails, little edamame on the table, little flirty hand touch.
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A
It's nice when it's, like, not work. Hey, yeah, it's. You know, there's so much that goes into filming a scene, like, you know, checking STD checks and, like, consent forms. Like, clinical boundaries. Like, all of that surprisingly not sexy Making puts you off, like, the mood. You know what I mean?
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B
Yeah. So then when I date someone, I feel like they, like, if I date someone and then I go to do a shoot, in their mind, they may expect me to be that flirty person that they met, whereas in reality, I'm, like, locked in on work. It can be tricky to navigate, and I understand why people would get jealous and everything like that. But, you know, I don't know, like I said before, until I'm, like, with someone seriously and looking to settle down and everything, I'm just kind of taking it as it comes, you know, if somebody finds my job to be a problem, then I guess we're just not compatible at that time.
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A
Do your dates, like, recognize you or.
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B
Like, know who you are these days?
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A
Yeah, like, you wouldn't be able to hide that. Like.
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B
Yeah, it used to happen every now and then, like, I go on.
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A
You're like, on a hinge on something or you don't even bother with that.
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B
Yeah, yeah, I'm on hinge.
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And because I'm like, your DMs will be packed. Like, you probably don't even need to again.
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B
Like, I could always tell when it's like, a girl out of my league being flirty off the bat. I'm like, she knows who I am. There's no way. Yeah, but I mean, those, like, casual dates are really fun. And, like, I don't mind if they know who I am. Like, if they come across as a fan, then I immediately just, like, I get the ick. Like, I don't want. I don't want a fan asking me 100 industry questions. And, like, what's Kayla really? Like.
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Yeah, yeah, Tell me the real Kayla.
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B
You're here to talk about me? Okay. This is our date.
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A
Yeah. Yeah.
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B
Should I invite Kayla?
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A
Pull me off. I'll be there in a cash.
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B
But, yeah, no, it's. I mean, dating's a lot of fun. Like, I love going on little dates, being cutesy and getting to know people. But it is. It is also nice having, like, you know, a regular person you see and you get intimate and familiar with and learn each other.
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It just makes sense for work. It's like, for me, like, I couldn't imagine rushing into a relationship because I would hate to have someone being like, you know, you can't do this. You can't go and see this. And, like, I wouldn't want to look back and be like, damn, I wish I, you know, took that plane with that celebrity. But I couldn't because my deadbeat boyfriend said it. And then six months later, he freaking cheats on me anyway, so I was like, I should have just gone on that trip. You know what I mean?
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B
The amount of girls in the industry that are, like, gorgeous, rich, famous, that, like, have some piece of shit boyfriend holding him back. I feel for him so much.
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A
Like, me and my, like, girls, we talk about this all the time. I'm like, she's so hot. Like, why is she with this deadbeat loser?
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It's.
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And he's probably taking all her money as well. Like, it doesn't work at all.
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B
Like, 100%. There's an archetype of, like, successful women getting deadbeat dudes.
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A
Why is it.
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B
I've seen it the way not just porn girls, professional women, it's like, they want this little, like, project they can fix.
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A
What are your thoughts on, like, males that I've worked with, I've worked with some who. Not you, but some who have like relied on penis injections to get hard for scenes.
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B
Yeah, that's a serious thing in the industry.
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A
It's crazy.
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Surprisingly common, dude.
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And it just like them up, like they start from so young and then.
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Yeah. A lot of them don't know the risk factors involved with like, by the.
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Time they're 30, they like can't function at all. Or like they have heart problems. Like. But it's such a big thing in the industry.
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B
Yeah, there's. There's an injection you can get called Trimix, I believe it's called. And yeah, it's an injection you put in your dick, like just into the meat of it, I believe.
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A
Yeah.
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Some people, you can see like they've got the holes around the base of their dick. Yeah. And essentially it makes you rock hard for four hours. And I've heard from girls that it's like they prefer people that don't use it because it makes them like painfully rock hard. Yeah.
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So I trust. I've worked with them before and they are rock solid.
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Yeah.
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And then they uncomfortable, like sometimes they can't get themselves down and they literally have to go to hospital.
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B
Yeah. That's like a second injection. They get to get their dick taken down.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Luckily, I've never had to. I've never seen it. Never had to dabble with it or even consider it.
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A
That would happen more on like, I guess, long day porn sets where you're like, you're shooting say a few scenes like 12 hours a day or whatever. And you just have to be.
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You're doing like promotional pictures and you got to stay hard for 20 minutes while they're getting pictures from every different position and angle like that. And that's, you know, if that's part of the job and that's what you want to do, then that's understandable. You know, you do what you got to do to.
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Oh, totally paycheck.
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But I'm fortunate enough that like all the content I've made to date has just been collaboration. So it's me and the person I'm shooting with. Generally, like no camera person, even just us hanging out, getting a vibe for each other. We can get along really well. And then it just kind of flows and like I, you know, luckily. And I didn't know it was like uncommon at all, but I can. My dick gets up and then we make a scene and it goes well.
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A
And like it's just on your terms. Whereas like you Know, at a porn set and stuff, it would be a lot harder to, like, maintain that hardness.
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B
It could be, like, a few people around, they're getting paid for, you know, paychecks are on. It's your responsibility to get hard. People are there to do lighting and camera work and acting. And all this investment's gone into it. The pressure gets to you. Just having extra people in the room can make it more difficult.
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Yeah.
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Full disclosure, I have used Viagra a couple times.
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A
Oh, yeah.
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Maybe three or four times in total.
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Yeah. How did your body react to that?
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It's strange.
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A
You're such a healthy young chap. Like, you don't need Viagra.
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Well, generally, no. But, like, it's when I'm doing something for the first time, generally. Like my first anal scene.
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A
Yeah.
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Because, like, that's.
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And it's obviously anal's, like, a lot slower, you know.
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Yeah. I've got to stay hard for longer with less friction. You know, it's a lot tighter to get in, so. So it's squeezing my dick so it pushes the blood out of it. Like, it's. And. Cause I haven't done it before. And I was. And I knew I'd be nervous. I was like, I don't want to waste this girl's time and try and push rope for half an hour, like, and make her, you know, like, hey, could you suck my dick for the next 10 minutes to get it up again? Like, that's. It can be part of the joke. It's never expected of the woman to do anything like that. If they do, it's polite. But there's also a limit on that. Like, I'm not gonna sit there.
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Totally. You're not just gonna.
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For 10 minutes getting a soft dick blowjob like that.
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And there's guys that would definitely try and milk that for sure.
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Yeah. Like, and there's some women as well that don't do it. And you have to be prepared in that situation. Like, she may not, you know, be open to fluffing, which is what it's called. Like with, you know, sucking soft dick. Like, she may not be open to that. And that's totally fine. I need to be prepared as a professional for that situation.
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A
Totally.
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So maybe go to a different room, watch porn, do whatever I have to do. But yeah, a couple times I've taken Viagra. It's, you know, or maybe it's like a really big name shoot. And I know I'm going to be nervous for that. There was one, I think.
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Did you take it for Angela. I'm pretty sure you told me. Yeah. You took it for Angela. I was, like, so fair.
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I was so, so nervous. I was.
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I. I would literally go soft around her. Just be.
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Oh, yeah. I was. What do I do? I didn't even realize. I was just pacing my apartment for, like, half an hour without realizing it. And then I was like, wait, I've been walking for half an hour. What am I doing? I just sit down. And then I took. I took a half of. It was a tiny amount. I think these Viagra pills are, like, 20 milligram. The doctor's ones are like. Like, if you get it prescribed from a doctor in Australia, it'll be 100. These are 20s. And I took a half of one. So, like, a tiny little bit. But I could feel, like your face goes red because the blood pressure. And then I could feel the blood coursing around my head. Nothing in my dick. No, we made.
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Your head's just getting bigger and bigger.
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Yeah, it feels like you could pop your head with the pen. It's like, pressure and also because you're stressed and whatever, it's extra blood flow. And we started shooting the scene and still soft. And I'm starting to panic, and I'm holding the camera, and Angela's coming up, and she's so such a professional. Like, Angela is, like, team captain on the field.
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I know. I've watched many of her videos.
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Yeah. Even behind the scenes, she is just.
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Like, oh, she's so lovely.
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In command in the most polite way. She's the consummate professional on set. Anyway, I don't think she even knows I took Vagra for that. I don't think I told her, but, hi, Angela. But so, yeah, and then she starts, you know, feeling up my leg. Still soft. Takes my pants off. Takes my jorts off. I wore jorts for the Angela White shoot.
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A
Oh, my God. You wore Jordans.
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Oh, my God. What was I thinking?
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And then you were such a baby back then.
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Oh. I was like, yeah, she'll love George. She's Australian.
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Oh, hell, yeah.
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Anyway, she get my pants off. Still complete. Like, it is as soft as if I'm, like, out of a cold shower. And then, bless her, she puts it in her mouth. And I started getting hard. And I could literally feel the blood flowing out of my head. It was like this warm wave of blood flow down from my head to my dick. And I was just like, the relief, the blood flow. I was just like, oh, my God, it's working. Thank God. And then we went and Won the AVN award for collab of the year off that shoot. So I made the right decision. But yeah, it's things like that where I know I'll be nervous. And like, that's my first shoot with Angela White. And then once I've done one, gotten to know her, I know I'll be comfortable.
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You start getting more and more comfortable.
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Yeah. So it's just things I've been nervous about. You know, I did like a four girl reverse gang bang and I was like, I'm gonna be nervous because these girls are stunning. And I'm. Yeah, just a dude.
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Like just a guy.
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Four gorgeous women staring at me, like blinking their eyes. I'm like, oh my God, I'm gonna be nervous of that. So. But yeah, it's. But it's also a matter of knowing your body, staying relatively healthy and active, have your blood flow going well. Know what gets you hard, what doesn't, what to avoid. I've tried to like Pavlovian condition myself as well. Like, you know, like he rings the bell when he fit, when he fed his dogs, and then whenever he rang the bell, his dogs just start drooling because they expected to be fed. I. I'll have a sugar free Red Bull and chew gum before I shoot.
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That's your thing.
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And then that. I'm trying to train my brain. I think it works. Like when my brain gets the Red Bull and gum, it knows like, blood has to start flowing.
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It's action time.
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And I think it works. Maybe it's just like, you know, conditioning.
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Thing, but just like a little ritual that like, you know, even like the same, you know, like probably is. I mean it works.
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But it helps to have rituals. Like a lot of guys in the industry have little rituals they do and you know, listen to the music. That'll get you in the right vibe for the shoot. Things like that. And then as well, just getting comfortable with the person you're shooting with, getting to know them, chatting for a while.
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So it's not just like the most important thing as well. And you know, I feel like, why know with me, like, if I didn't vibe with someone like through message or like however we were talking, then, like, I probably wouldn't shoot with them, like no matter who, if they would like, gave off a icky vibe, I'd be like, I'll pass. It's not for me.
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100. Yeah. And that's so fine. Like it's. That's one of those things as well in the industry. Like anytime anybody doesn't want to shoot, it's like, totally fine. Like, no worries. Like, if they give you a reason they don't want to shoot, great. If not, no worries at all. No drama, like, either they don't want to shoot with you. They had something come up in their personal life and it's just like a. Yeah. If they want to tell you the reason, sure. I'm not a CSR detective. I'm not going to investigate why they canceled. Oh.
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A
Literally, like, at the end of the day, like, you're having sex with someone.
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B
Yeah.
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Like, if they don't want to have sex with you, that's fine.
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B
Even though it's a job, it's still.
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Your bodily autonomy, your 100, your body. Like, your rules. You know, you can cancel any minute. Like, that's up to you.
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Yeah, I've never, I don't think I've ever questioned a cancellation. At least not in the last couple years.
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A
Is there anything, like, about you that the Internet would be surprised to know about that they don't know about you yet? This is a loaded question.
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B
Now don't cancel me for this, but here we go. I went to an all boys private school.
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A
Oh, my God, that would have been dangerous.
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I know there's gonna be people out there that are like, I knew he has that private school vibe.
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Like, I feel like you don't though. Like, I wouldn't have wasn't.
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I wasn't a good student. I'll put it that way.
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Yeah, you hated it.
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I mean, it was a great school. Was great. Great at instilling values and everything in young man. Like, I really value the education I got and, like, the lessons I learned at school.
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Was it toxic there, though? Like, because I know a lot of those, like, all boy schools are, like, pretty toxic.
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Not crazy. Like, I mean, there were a couple troublemakers in the grade for sure, but, like, there wasn't really, like, a school bully and there wasn't like, like, you know, I had my group of lads I hung out with. We. We're little nerds. We called ourselves the Leap boys. Like, we sort of like 1337 the Leap Boys. We're just little geeks and we had a little like, you know, did our thing. Nothing too toxic really.
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You know, I actually went to all girls school.
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No way. I love that.
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How random.
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Yeah, but it was a good school. I actually ran into a couple of, like, recent graduates from the school. Yes, they were big fans. I was out at a bar in BRISBANE and these two, like, I'm 31, they were like 20, maybe. And they were like, is it true you went there? Like, all the boys talk about it. They reckon you went there. And I was like, what?
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Crazy?
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Yeah. Maybe one day I'll give a little address at assembly.
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You should have, like, carved your name somewhere.
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Like, I should go back and do it. They won't let me on the grounds, I'm sure.
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Yeah.
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And, like, there's teachers there that were there when I was there, and the boys asked them about me and stuff.
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Really.
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Which is a funny legacy to have.
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Like, you're, like, a legend at the school.
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I thought the known people from my school would be, like, chemists and scientists and stuff. Turns out it's me.
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It's because that dick.
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Yeah, that big dick, it opens doors.
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A
Are there any, like, lessons you've learned, like, from. Like, if there was something you could tell your younger self, like, what would it be?
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B
I don't know if I would because, like, I've gotten to where I am without any major dramas. Like, before I started the industry, I seemed to have already had, like, an understanding of what I needed to understand. Yeah, I was able to pick up and learn what I needed to learn, like, how to use a camera, how to, you know, conduct myself during collabs and reach out to people, things like that, and set up my own kind of process of shooting, you know, I mean, like, my operating procedures, if you will.
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I feel like, not really much I.
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Needed to know beforehand that I didn't learn. Kind of on the fly.
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A
Yeah. I feel like males, like, in the industry are, like, lucky enough in the fact that they, like, almost get praised for being in this type of work. But, like, women, like, they have the opposite effect. Like. Like, I don't know what it was like with your family. Like, I'm pretty sure you had a pretty good. Like, when you told them about it. They were pretty comfortable.
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Yeah. Good response from them.
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A
Good response from them.
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B
But I was very lucky with that.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Because. Yeah, I spoke about this when Rolling Stone interviewed me. Like, the. Even, like, the headline of the article mentioned, I'm pretty sure. And it was like. Because when I went viral, it was for that street interview I gave in Brisbane. And I mentioned it was like, how much. What do you do and how much do you make? And in the video I mentioned, you know, I've been very lucky that my family loves it, but I know a lot of women in the industry that aren't as lucky or something like that. I mentioned the difference with the way men and women are treated for doing the Work. And so that was kind of a feature as well of the article that was about me going viral. And I got a chance to speak on that with Rolling Stone, which I'm pretty grateful for. And yeah, in the article, I called out Andrew Tate as well. What do you attribute. What do you attribute this to? And I was like, the Andrew Tate type figures online.
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A
Oh, yeah.
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B
I called him out on Twitter.
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A
Have you seen that new series, like Adolescence?
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B
No, I haven't yet. I want to watch it.
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A
Watch it.
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B
Yeah, the last few weeks, I've been slammed on that. Yeah. Yeah, it looks really, really good.
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A
Yeah, it's like, good messaging. Like, I feel like it's so important to talk about now. Especially, like, now that those cited, like, the mini Andrew Tate's are becoming, like, bigger. Like, there's so many that have stemmed from him.
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B
I've got a cousin who's like, he's 17, just turned 18, but I was 17. I was chatting to him and he mentioned. He started mentioning Andrew Tate, and I was like, crazy. Straight away, I was like, get that idiot out of your rotation. Like, do not look at Andrew Tate as any kind of role model. This. See my take on, like, Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson and people like that, like, they start, I believe, with, like, this seed of a positive idea. Right? Like, Andrew Tate. Like, I haven't paid that much attention to him, but it's like, he wants to make, like, men men. You know, he wants to encourage young men to become good grown men, young boys to become good men. But then it becomes this thing where it's his business and in the business of social media, engagement is how you make money.
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A
Exactly.
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B
So he's just doing whatever rage bait tactics he can to, you know, incite people. And that's, you know, you get more views for rage bait than you do for positive content. So he's just profiting off inciting young men to become misogynistic and bitter people. And that Jordan Peterson as well, like, he's a similar figure, like, in that similar space. Started out, he's a Harvard psychologist, wrote a book that was really popular. And I, funnily enough, reading that book is what actually made me start doing porn. Because, like, there's good message. A lot of it's like, you've got to factor in the fact that he's a bit of a nerd writing this book. So a lot of it's like, his nerdy, like, opinions. But there's a lot of, like, good messaging in there. And that helped me, like, make the jump to, like, Doing porn full time, which I'm pretty sure he's anti porn, which is kind of funny. But then, you know, his career becomes this like, man giving young men advice. And it becomes the same type of like, doing stuff for engagement. And like just, well, you see it all.
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A
It becomes so toxic with like, you know, some people in the industry, they'll just make rage bait content and they know exactly what they're doing.
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B
Yeah.
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A
And they know it's gonna get the views. Like.
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B
Yeah, it's, it's.
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A
And it does.
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B
Like, you know, I just think the effect of those people on like young men is not good at all.
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A
And it's working because, like, I know, like, I'm pretty sure this is like the first generation where like more younger men are conservative. Much more conservative than.
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B
Yeah, yeah. And it's this like alt right pipeline on the Internet, you know, YouTube, Twitter, whatever it is. It's just this like being fed to you. And it's like the algorithm suggests it without being prompted. And if you linger on that video of like, maybe I'll watch Ben Shapiro debate someone.
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A
Oh yeah.
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B
The next day you're getting like red pill content. And it's like. And you know, kids are impressionable. They don't know they have no media literacy. They just want to absorb whatever they're getting. And that is, it has millions of impressions. So they're like, I'm not the only one. The Internet's such a problem.
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A
People that, you know, I feel like, like everyone now is becoming a lot more like online. You know, more people are like on dating apps and things like that. And if they're like constantly getting. It's like harder to meet people. So if they're constantly getting rejected as well on like dating apps or whatever, they're more likely to be like, okay, well, women are the problem. Like, they have to like, they blame something because they're just like not happy with their lives.
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B
And they get in their little like online silo. And there's like other like, minded people that like.
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A
Yeah, like, oh, 10 years ago, 20.
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B
Years ago, you couldn't find your. Like, if you had these weird thoughts, the people around you in society would help, like, correct you a bit from being a weirdo.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Now you can go in your little echo chamber, talk to people that have the same delusions as you. And it's such a problem.
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A
So you've just bought a house for your mom. What's your next goal? Like, do you have another goal in mind?
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B
Yeah, it's so hard, like setting goals for Me, like, in this line of work has been hard because every time I set a goal, I feel like I achieve it way quicker than I expected.
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A
Nice.
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B
So I don't know, my. My ultimate goal really is just winning.
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A
Like, all round, you know, I didn't even need a set goal.
- [24:17]
B
It's hard to win that. Life so often feels. I mean, like, my ultimate goal is just to have, like, intrinsic happiness with my life. Like, where I'm at, what I'm doing, who I know. And I feel like I'm really getting there. Like, I don't know, work on my impulse control. You know, I like to like to feed the demon a little too much and, you know, delay gratification a bit. But I don't know, I think I'd love to get my name further out there. What I've been working on a lot lately is expanding my, like, social media presence and, like, general marketability of my brand. And if you're going really well, you know, getting some mainstream attention, brand deals, things like that. Because ultimately, I don't know how long I want to keep making content for. Yeah, could be two years, could be 10, could be 20 years. But I can. I feel like there could be a day where I'm just kind of over it. I don't want to keep making sex tapes with people every week. I'd rather just take my foot off the gas and use this brand that I've built in, Girth Master to then make, you know, do media appearances or use. Use my branding and my name as, you know, a launching point into a future career of some sort, at least just as something to do, like a hobby, an income stream coming in, you know, get myself to a point where I'm happy doing that, getting myself to a position where I can leave the industry happy and feel like I've achieved everything I've wanted to achieve and more, which, like, I'm not too far off, really.
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A
But I'm gonna say, like, you've, I mean, done it, baby.
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B
Yeah. And if it gets to. We were talking about, like, relationships before. If I feel like the career is getting in the way of a relationship and I really want to be with somebody, then I can be with that person and not worry about, you know, having bills to pay and stuff like that.
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A
I feel like things will just fall into place. Like, you're gonna get so many opportunities come. Like, it's gonna be crazy the amount of things in life changed in, like, the last couple years, you know, like.
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B
Yeah, I'm the luckiest guy in the world.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Like everything falls into place for me, like at my feet. I just got to keep taking opportunities as they come and. Yeah, it's been great.
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A
Yeah. I feel like I've been the same, really. Like I've always, you know, taken every opportunity and it's just always done really well.
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B
Yeah.
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A
Oh, well, thank you so much for coming on the podcast.
- [26:24]
B
Well, thanks for having me.
- [26:25]
A
So nice chatting.
- [26:27]
B
It's always nice catching up.
- [26:28]
A
Yeah, no, we always have a good catch up sesh for sure. Yeah. I can't wait to see what the future holds for you.
- [26:37]
B
Exciting stuff coming. Stuff I can't talk about yet. But coming soon.
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A
Coming soon.
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B
Maybe next episode we'll have a lot more to chat about.
- [26:43]
A
Oh my gosh.
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B
I'd say we will.
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A
Next episode will have to be like the biggest debris. Like there's so much would have changed in that time.
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B
100%. Yeah.
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A
Crazy.
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B
Can't wait.
- [26:52]
A
Well, where can everyone find you? I feel like everyone already knows you. Just in case they don't know you.
- [26:57]
B
I mean, if you Google Girth Master.
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A
I'll pop up just yet.
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B
Google Girth Master, Instagram, Twitter, TikTok. Girthmaster.com.
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A
Yeah, you've got.
- [27:05]
B
There's an extra R on the end of my name everywhere. I don't think I'm Shadowbanned too bad at the moment, so you should be able to find me easily.
- [27:10]
A
And be careful on dating apps because if he starts talking to you, that's probably probably not Ghost Masters. Probably a catfish.
- [27:15]
B
If you think you're talking to me on a dating app, tell me to like, like a picture on your Instagram and I will. Or something. Like I'll. I'll verify it's me if you're concerned.
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A
Verify from the account itself for sure. I feel like if you were going to message someone, you would message from your account. You know, like I got my dating.
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B
App verified with like to prove the pictures are real. So.
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A
So good then. I would love to see that problem. Sure.
- [27:35]
B
Yeah. Well, thank you so much for having me. Much appreciated.
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A
Bye.
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B
Bye, guys.