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A
Hey, guys. Welcome back to story time with Kayla Jade. I have a very special guest here with me, someone who has, like, I've known since I've got into the industry and who is just blowing up online. A very dear friend of mine. You may know him as Girth Master. He's not only big online, big personality, big size of everything. So we're gonna get into some tea with him. My client booked them. Get ready. Oh, my God. You guys do a pack my bag. Why, hello there.
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B
Well, hello, welcome.
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A
Welcome to my. My podcast.
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B
I love. We have the audience to just, like, stare at, like, I know. Here and there.
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A
I know. It's so weird, like, us sitting in a professional setting. Like, usually we're just, like, at a bar, like, talking 10 cocktails down. Yeah. Literally.
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B
I hope no one can hear in right now. How crazy that we're here with a podcast now. Like, you have a podcast. Never thought.
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A
Just to think where we started to where we are today, like, because both of us started, like, pretty new.
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B
Should we talk on where we started?
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A
Yeah, like, I remember, like, when I knew you, you were, like, in a schema still.
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B
Yeah. I never showed my face.
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A
You didn't show. You were faceless.
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B
Yeah. And I wanted to avoid the whole, like, ski mask thing. Cause to me, like, ski mask something about it. So I just cropped my face off. So we met. You'd never seen my face.
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A
No, I haven't.
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B
Probably helped me a fair bit, if we're being honest.
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A
I mean, like, yeah, that was a lot of trust that I put into you.
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B
Absolutely. Yeah. And that was so much fun. I rem. Remember I still had my office job at the time.
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A
Yes.
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B
And I had, like, a work from home day. So I'd, like, gone to the hotel we shot at, worked till, like, 5pm on my laptop, and then, like, set up the hotel room to shoot.
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A
I remember. And, like, no one at your office knew, like, who you were yet because you didn't have your face out.
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B
Yeah. The people in the office, like, the ladies would chat like, oh, I'm sick of this job. I'm gonna sell feet pics. And I'm sitting there, like, making a living off onlyfans. Like, if you all knew how hard it was.
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A
Oh, man.
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B
So, yeah, then, yeah, you came around that first time.
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A
Yeah, the first time. Like, the first time we met, we fucked pretty much. Yeah.
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B
Like, within, like, an hour of meeting.
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A
Within an hour. You know, we did our usual, like, hey, how are you? Like, these are my boundaries. Everything like that. And then got straight into Filming.
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B
I remember when you messaged, I'd, like, seen your page, and I'm like, just an impossibly hot Gold coast girl. Like, no chance. And then you DM me one day, like, or maybe I DM'd you. Like, hey, would you be interested in shooting? And then, yeah, it was like you turned the corner, and I was just like, jesus Christ, she's real.
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A
I just remember, like, being so fascinated by your name. Like, just the Girth Master. Like, just. I don't know. Like, where did that even come from?
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B
It was meant to last two weeks, and I was thinking of, was this.
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A
Something you had in, like, high school?
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B
Like, no, no. But it sounds like a Call of Duty lobby.
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A
It does, yeah.
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B
It was meant to last two weeks. And I was thinking of, like, the Kitchenaid mixmaster at the time, because it was just, like, on my brain for three weeks.
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A
That makes sense. Like, Mixmast 3000 or something.
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B
And then, like, literally, I thought I had two weeks in hotel quarantine. I thought I'd delete my page after I left, and then I just kept it and kept posting little pictures here and there. And the amount of times I thought of changing my name, but now I'm so glad I kept it.
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A
Oh, man. It's iconic. Like, I feel like it's the best. Like, everyone has the same reaction when they first hear your name. Like, who is this Girth Master? How big is this?
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B
The amount of media attention I've gotten off that. Just the name alone.
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A
Oh, it's literally such an icon.
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B
I've heard, like, big names in the industry that I've shot with, and they're like, yeah, I heard the name Girth Master. So I, like, their first thought is like, I got to check this guy out. And they see, and they're like, oh, my God, I got to shoot with this guy.
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A
Like, I feel like if it wasn't for your name and, of course, your cock, like, you wouldn't be where you are today.
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B
Like, my name helps so much.
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A
Your name was just. Yeah. Incredible. But, yeah, we did our scene, which was amazing. I think we. Did we shoot two in one day or.
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B
No, we didn't shoot two.
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A
We may have did two.
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B
Well, you can leave that in if you want. We can tell that story, because that's pretty funny.
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A
Yeah. Was that the same night?
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B
Yeah, because we, like, we'd shot, and I was like, oh, my God. Like, this is amazing.
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A
Yeah.
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B
And then you mentioned that Sexpo was on that night.
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A
Yeah, because I was literally going, yeah, recipe Sexpo. I Was literally going there after, and I was like, oh, do you want to come?
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B
Yeah. And I was. I had no plans to go because I didn't show my face. So I'm like, why would I go when no one knows who I am?
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A
And we were such little guys then. Like, we didn't know anyone. No one knew us. We were just walking around sex mode together.
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B
And, yeah, I went along, like, met a few faces in the industry. And, like, I was nervous too. First, if I'd met anybody else, like, besides shooting in the industry.
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A
Thank you so much, Hideaway, for sponsoring this episode of Storytime with Kayla Jade. You can get 10% off if you use my code. Storytime. On their website, they have perfumes, lubes, mousses, and so much more. So much good smelling products. I love it. I love something smelling good. Thank you, Hideaway. You'll find the link to their website in the show notes. I was thinking about the club. What night was that?
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B
Oh, that.
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A
What? When was that?
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B
Everyone's going home. Me and you wanted to keep the night going.
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A
Yeah, when is the party animals? We just want to keep going, have fun.
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B
We wanted to dance. We went into retros. And I'm like.
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A
And I love retros.
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B
Like, yeah, we might get banned after talking about this. And I was trying to, like, politely, like, push through to the dance floor. Like, I'm tall. I'm trying to just, like, get a little space.
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A
This is some acid right now.
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B
You got no patience for that. You literally just. You grabbed my arms, turned around so you're facing the middle of the crowd and like, threw yourself into it to get in the middle of the dance floor. Yeah, and then just went for gold straight up. Shoved your hand.
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A
I literally shoved my hand down his pants. And I was jerking off in the middle of this club.
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B
And then to add to that, you pulled your hand out of my pants, licked the whole thing, and then shoved it back in.
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A
Like, needs a bit of lube in there. Wasn't I gonna, like, start going down? You're like, whoa, yeah, we gotta get out of here. You gotta get kicked out of here.
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B
There's a perfectly good alleyway somewhere. We can do this.
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A
Yeah, it was. It was a vibe. And we've been friends ever since. And, yeah, ever since that, like, I feel like we became so close. And now, like, I see you as like a brother almost. And I'm like, I don't even know I could make a video with you now. I've said that. It's just like, I love you, you know?
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B
People. I feel like I have, like, sisters in the industry.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Good friends.
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A
Yeah.
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B
And I say that to people, and they're like, didn't you have sex with them? And I'm like, well, feel like you.
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A
Just get to a point where you're like. You just start rooting for them. And, you know, like, we share our wins together. We share our losses.
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B
Like, yeah.
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A
If there's any, like, drama going down, like, with recently, the kid thing, like, you're first being like, are you okay? Like, what's going on?
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B
Like, yeah, 100%. And it's so good having someone to just, like, in. We're in each other's corners, and we're just like, anything going on, we just.
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A
Like, have each other's back.
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B
What should I do? What do you think of this? What's your take on it?
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A
And I feel like that's so important to have that, because this industry can be, like, really, like, cutthroat can just, like, take you in, chew you up and spit you out. So. Yeah. It's so important to have those people in your corner.
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B
Yeah. It's been really good.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Yeah. You're like a sister in the least incestuous way.
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A
I know. Whenever I say to someone, like, oh, he's like a brother to me. And then I'm like, I should probably stop saying that because that sounds a bit weird. And then they see our videos, and you're like, what?
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B
And the comment sections are always like, I ship you to. You should date.
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A
And then I think we have, like, what, six or seven videos together?
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B
God, yeah. We have, like, at least.
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A
Well, we had those, like, back when we first. Because there's, like, there wasn't really many people in the industry. Hey. So, like, when you find someone good, you're like, hell, yeah. Let's just make a bunch of videos.
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B
Yeah. We have four movies and, like, three live streams together.
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A
The lives that I made you do.
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B
The popping balloons and everything. That was fun.
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A
I used to play, like, really fun games on my only fans. And, like, I would do live shows where I'd, like, pop a balloon and, like, you know, we would do something or, like, they would win, like, a video or something like that. So, yeah, I made Girth come on and do that with me. But they went off.
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B
They were a lot of fun. Yeah.
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A
And you weren't even showing your face back then, so it was like, we had to be so careful not to, like, because it's literally live, so anyone could, like, screenshot it or something.
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B
Logistical nightmare. Trying to, like, keep My head angled out of two cameras, but we made it work somehow.
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A
Oh, my God, those are the days. But I'm so glad to see, like, where we have come now because, like, we started. We, like, we both started with zero followers.
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B
Yeah. Literally, like, we didn't have a social media following when we started. We started out doing porn, essentially.
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A
Yeah.
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B
And built it up to where it is.
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A
So. Yeah. Who have you shot with? Who, like, who are the big names that you shot with?
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B
Yeah.
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A
My feel like your catalog is insane.
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B
I've been lucky enough. I've been in it for, like, three years now. I've shot with every big name that I wanted to shoot with. Really?
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A
Yeah.
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B
My number one.
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A
Got your bucket list. You ticked everyone off.
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B
Yeah. I could, like, retire happy right now. Like, my number one was Angela White. She's Australian. She's like.
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A
And I knew you were. But, like, you wanted that since the get go.
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B
I remember that first time we met. First night we met at Sexpo, I was talking about, like, I'd love to shoot with Angela White one day, two and a half years later.
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A
I just, like, I knew because, like, you were such a good guy and you were, like, so respectful about boundaries, everything. Like, I knew you were gonna go far because there's not many males in the industry that are like that.
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B
You know, this is the best job in the world.
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A
That's why there's, like, so little males in the industry, because they all fuck it up.
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B
And it's so either that and it's.
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A
It's. It very well. It's like a performance thing, you know, so you have to be able to perform right.
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B
The performance aspect is, like, crucial for men. Like, it's maybe a controversial take. I've heard it, like, a lot, though. The men have, like, the more difficult job in terms of, like, the shooting of the video because they have, like. There's the pressure on both the performers, but the guy has the pressure, and he has to get it up, keep it up, and be able to pop.
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A
Yeah.
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And in, like, mainstream studio shoots, if they don't pop, they don't, like, no pop, no pay. So there's a lot of pressure on.
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A
Like, I know that.
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B
That's. That's the point. Like, the guy getting his dick hard is where the rubber meets the road in a shoot. And if that doesn't happen, doesn't matter. The promotion that goes into it, the hair, the makeup, everything. That's, like, the sticking point. Like, the females have a hard job, too. Don't get me wrong. Like, the performance they have to put in doing a lot of the work and everything. It's hard on both people. But that tends to be. I think that's the big reason why. A big reason why there's not as many guys in the industry. Because, like, any female really can shoot content. There's a market for a lot of different types of women. For guys, you've got to be at least average sized dick. And that rules out half the population. You need to be able to get it up, keep it up, pop when you want, under pressure, in front of people, cameras, whatever. In front of insanely attractive women, which is not easy for a lot of people. Yeah, so there's so many things that rule out such a huge population of the guys. And what's left is, you know, guys with big dicks, they also need to be able to navigate running their own business and interpersonal relationships and everything like that.
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A
So much pressure on a guy. And that's why when, like, I will have a lot of DMs messaging me, like, from guys being like, how do I start an Onlyville? Like, how do I get into the industry? And I'm like, I like, you just have no idea what actually goes into it. Like, you have to really be passionate about it and not just want to do it to fuck, like a bunch of girls, you know what I mean?
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B
The amount of times, like, there's a new guy in the industry, I'm like, keeping half an eye on him. And they'll shoot with a girl I know. So I ask her, like, oh, how did the shoot go? And they're like, we got like four minutes of footage. The rest was like, dark or out of focus or like bad angles. Just view of his butt. I'm like, your job is to get good footage of the person you're shooting with.
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A
Dude, I've shot with guys before, and they will literally just get their whole body, like, fucking me. And like, you'll see like their ass and everything on the camera. It's like the viewer doesn't want to see. Like, I mean, obviously there's like a market for that, but for my market, like, they don't want to see that. They want to see me.
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B
Different strokes are different, folks. But if you can see both of my butt cheeks in my shot, it's not the angle that I want. That's one of my rules. Like, if I look at the camera, like the screen on the camera, and I can see both butt cheeks, I change the camera angle.
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A
No, we don't need to see that hairy asshole Sticking out.
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B
Unless that's the focus.
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A
That's true.
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B
It's been a time or two.
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A
Yeah. Do you get a lot of guys on your page too?
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B
Yeah.
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A
So, like, majority guys. Right.
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B
My demographics changed so much since I started because when I started I was making, like, I didn't show my face, so it was a lot of POV focus on the dick Male gave porn, I guess.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Because I just wasn't showing my face. Then I did the face reveal, got more comfortable. I got a lot of good. Got a lot of good feedback, which is really nice.
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A
I remember that was huge. Like, such a big thing.
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B
So cool with Kazumi and Dread in the picture and just like. But yeah, so I got a lot of good feedback on, like, my appearance, I guess, which boosted the confidence a lot. And then as I started marketing more, using TikTok and Instagram and showing my face, the female followers really came in. And now I'd say it's probably changed from 90% men to a majority women, maybe 60% followers.
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A
I'm probably the same now since, like the TikTok.
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B
Yeah. And like, a lot of women have.
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A
Come to my page.
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B
The style of content that I make is much more like. I don't know, like, not like it's a gender neutral gaze, I guess.
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A
Yeah.
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B
The action and focus is still on the genitals, but, like my face and their faces in the background more and things like that.
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A
Totally. And I think you're just such a positive person. Like, they can see it through your TikToks, like, how intellectual you are. And, like, it really resonates with a lot of people. Like, a lot of women love it.
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B
It's been such a fun journey and developing a style of content because when you start you're looking at the people you're familiar with, like, Dread. And for me, it was Dread and Mike Adriano. People like that. I was like, almost emulating their style a bit. And then as time's gone on, I've.
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A
Kind of come into my own and.
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B
Get camera angles that I like that work for me, that my audience likes that I get good feedback on from the people I'm shooting with and roll with that.
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A
Yeah. I feel like every big name, like, has their own style. Like, Dread is very unique and you're very unique as well.
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B
Yeah, you kind of need that to distinguish yourself.
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A
Feel like your plants as well. Make it like, it's so good. Goes from TikTok to like, your videos, like, with your plants in the background.
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B
Speaking of Dread, you. You climb that mountain.
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A
I Did climb that mountain. I still don't know how I did that.
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B
That was wild because I spoke to you immediately after you did it on the phone, and you were like. It was like an ultra marathon runner that had just finished the race. You were like, oh, my God, it was amazing. I don't know how I did it. I did 40 minutes of anal with Dread. Like. Like, you couldn't even breathe. And then the next day, I spoke to you again on the phone and you had just been, like, through a boxing match. You were like, oh, my God, I can't even. Adrenaline had gone, like, it's so sore.
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A
For those who don't know, Dread is. He has a very large member, like, girthmaster.
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B
I'd say it's like, if not as thick as mine, maybe a little thicker and longer.
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A
There must be some. Some difference, though, because I could do anal with him and I couldn't do anal.
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B
You maybe. It was also a mental thing. Like, Dread loves doing a lot of anal and a lot of girls only do anal with Dread, so he's kind of known for that.
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A
Sort of new in there and, like, just being in a different environment. I was like, right, yeah.
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B
And also he does it so often, he's like a pro at giving it, so he knows how to throw it down anally. Whereas for me, I've done anal like, five times. And every time I'm relying on the girl to guide me because, like. Like, I know what I'm doing now, but it's also, like, I'm not confident enough exploring the back door with my piece to just throw it in and take control, like.
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A
Because some girls actually prefer anal with UA than, like.
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B
Yeah, a couple of girls, like, the real anal size queens, love doing it. They prefer anal to vaginal.
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A
I just couldn't believe. I remember you telling me about, like, was it Joanna angel where she, like, couldn't fit it in her pussy and she was like, oh, fuck it, I'll get it in my ass. And then she just felt the whole thing.
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B
I couldn't. I could not believe it. I was shooting with Joanna Angel. Huge name. And I was like. I was nervous as hell. And she's on top trying to put it in. And then, yeah, literally just like, oh, it's not going in there. And then just guided it in and sat on it with her butt.
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A
This is just like a muscle. Hey. So it stretches in a way. But I definitely couldn't do that.
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B
Yeah. I mean, I'm. Vaginas are great. I love vaginas. That's my preference. If someone wants anal, I'll give it, but I'm not. I've never pushed for it. Yeah.
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A
How does it feel? Like, like, have you ever had someone, like, deep throat you or like.
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B
I've had a couple of people get close.
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A
Really?
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B
No one's ever got the whole thing. Two girls that got closest are Mae Hashira and Harley King.
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A
Wow.
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B
I remember May Hashira. She's lovely. Insanely hot. And we're sitting there chatting on the couch before the shoot, just, like, making small talk, getting comfortable with each other. And I said something, and she laughed really hard, threw her head back, and I saw, like, she had really wide teeth. And I was just like, hello.
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A
Interesting.
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B
I stand a chance getting deeper into here. And she got so much of it down. Like, I reckon there was. Wow, maybe an inch left.
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A
Is she knowing through deep threading or she was like, I'm just gonna wing it?
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B
I mean, she's. I guess she must be known for it. Like, she's talented at it.
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A
That's crazy.
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B
Yeah.
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A
So I guess that's probably one of the downsides of having a big dick. Like, you don't really get the experience of deep throat.
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B
Like, cue the Casey Chambers music here. Like, oh, I'll never be deep throated. Having a big dick is so hard.
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A
The little violins, like, world's smallest violin. For me right now, like, I feel like. I feel like any guy would want to. Would want a big cock.
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B
It's a very small price to pay for having a giant dick.
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A
It's amazing how, like, even we go out in public, and I feel like everyone just respects you so hard because of your clothes. Oh, yeah. Yeah, for sure.
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B
Like, I was saying this to Ari the other day. I was like, I love that. Like, we were out, like, me, you and Kayla were walking around the middle of Brisbane.
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A
Yeah.
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B
And everybody that saw us was so happy and excited.
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A
So, like, nice and respectful.
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B
I love that so much.
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A
I love, like, fans coming up to me. Like, it's so fun to be, like, oh, my God, like, you actually follow you, like, my content. Like, that's amazing.
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B
The peace of mind that comes with knowing that, like, everyone that sees me is, like, happy to see me.
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A
Yeah.
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B
There's no. I haven't.
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A
There's no negative thing that neither of.
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B
Us did anything that people are going to judge us for. And.
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A
No.
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B
Unless they have their own personal issues, but that's their problem.
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A
Yeah. There's people that rely on sort of, like, controversy or drama for their content. And so if that was me, I Would struggle hard being out in public and just knowing people, like, you know, know that about me.
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B
And, yeah, like, I'll be at a dinner, and I'll see, like, a table of people turn around and look at me all together and, like, whisper to each other. And I know that, like, they're probably saying good things. Whereas if I was, like, controversial, I'd be stressed. Yeah, I'm already stressed. Like, oh, my God, what if they don't like me?
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A
But I know if they had a.
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B
Justified reason to not like me, that'd be even worse.
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A
Everyone's been so nice, like, super grateful. When I first met you, I remember one of the things, like, one of the first things that you told me was that you wanted to buy a house for your mom, and now you've done it.
- [18:44]
B
Yeah, I've been manifesting that since I was, like, 15 or younger. Yeah.
- [18:47]
A
I'm so proud of you. Like, when you messaged me that, I was like, I'm fucking tearing up. Because I was like, this is so nice. Like, this is something that you've wanted, and now you've, like, achieved it.
- [18:56]
B
Yeah. It's such a surreal feeling. Like, literally, there's this Kanye west song called hey, Mama, and there's a lyric where he's like, you know, and when you're older, you haven't got to work anymore because I'm a buyer. That mansion we couldn't afford. And when I heard that, I was, like, a kid, and I was, like.
- [19:11]
A
Resonated with you, like, one day, because.
- [19:12]
B
We grew up, like, so, Paul, like, Centerlink and everything.
- [19:15]
A
Yeah.
- [19:15]
B
And then it's like, somehow trying to imagine the day would come where I do that. And now it's actually arrived. You know, it's. It's a surreal feeling. And, like, mom loves the house. I get the keys in a couple of weeks.
- [19:26]
A
I'm stoked. Like, I'm so happy for her and happy for you. How was your mom's reaction? Like, was she just, like, what? Like, did you, like. And now, like, did you tell her, like, you're gonna do it, or was it, like, a slow lead up, or were you just, like.
- [19:37]
B
I kind of had to, because originally I wanted to keep it a surprise and, like, buy her a house and one day just be like, guess what, Mom?
- [19:44]
A
Like, yeah. It's not that easy, though, is it?
- [19:46]
B
These keys are yours. Like, here's this giant for sale sign. It's your house.
- [19:49]
A
Yeah.
- [19:50]
B
But I got a lot of publicity about this time last year, and I got in, like, a bunch of Publications, one of which was Rolling Stone. And in the interview, I mentioned buying Mama house and getting in Rolling Stone. Like, it wasn't just like a little, you know, three question interview. It was like they wrote, like a feature article on me, which was really cool. So I was so proud of it. I wanted to show Mum I hadn't told her my username at that point either.
- [20:10]
A
Oh, she didn't know?
- [20:12]
B
No. Like, the family all knew what I did.
- [20:13]
A
I remember, like, in the early days, they knew what you did, but they hadn't seen. You weren't aware of it.
- [20:17]
B
It's one thing to tell your mom you do porn. It's another to say, and my name is Girthmaster. I'm known worldwide as Girthmaster.
- [20:25]
A
Yeah. Like, that's my thing, Mom.
- [20:26]
B
Yeah. By the way, thanks for that.
- [20:29]
A
Yeah, yeah. Is that genetic? Do you have any brothers?
- [20:32]
B
A couple, half brothers. And they like to brag, but they're also married.
- [20:37]
A
I was like. I always thought that. I was like, I wonder if this is like a thing in your family. Like, do you guys discuss.
- [20:44]
B
When I told my half brother, when I told him about it, he's like, one of the first things he said was like, yeah, I could have done that back in the day. Of course.
- [20:52]
A
Imagine if you just, like, created an army of just like the Girth masters, and you guys are like, the kingpins are born. Like, that would be insane.
- [20:59]
B
Well, we all look pretty similar. We're all tall. Really?
- [21:01]
A
Oh, that makes it way more fun.
- [21:03]
B
The crew of us walking around. We'll get some looks. But yeah, so I got in Rolling Stone, and in the. In the interview, I'd mentioned wanting to buy Mom a house. So I was in this dilemma of, like, do I tell Mom I'm in Rolling Stone? Because I'm giving her updates. I'm like, mom, there's this big name. Her name's like, Angela White. I just filmed with her. Let me give her updates while I'm shooting and stuff. You know, I just had a big win in the career. And then I got in Rolling Stone and I was like, I really want to tell mom, but then she's going to find out that I'm planning to surprise her with a house. But. But in the end, I decided to and also had to tell her.
- [21:32]
A
I mean, it's too big a news, you know, I feel like I would not be able to.
- [21:35]
B
Like, getting in Rolling Stone is huge. So I was like, I told her and she loved it and it kind of helped as well because, like, I needed her Input on the house to buy.
- [21:43]
A
Totally. And I feel like with family sometimes they find it like, especially like the older generation, like you say, oh yeah, like I've got so many followers but they don't really understand like how big you are or something. So like you showing like that you're in fucking Rolling Stones, there's like tangible, like easy for them to understand, like, you know.
- [22:01]
B
Yeah.
- [22:02]
A
Doing pretty well.
- [22:03]
B
Yeah. That's like the best thing about getting these like legacy media things. I got Rolling Stone Weekend Australia and a few other big things and some, some other big things coming out that I can't talk about yet. I've told you though, I know, I know something big on the horizon. A little, a little first for the an Australian sex worker. Which is pretty cool.
- [22:18]
A
I am so wrapped for that.
- [22:20]
B
I can't wait for it to come out. I wish I could talk about it here, but stay tuned, stay tuned. But yeah, so it's, it is really good. And even like when I got in the Weekend Australian, I hadn't told my grandma what I did yet. She was the last one to, like everyone else in the family knew. And she's, she's a clever cookie. She knew something was happening. She didn't know what, but she knows that I'm not traveling.
- [22:41]
A
It's always the hardest too.
- [22:42]
B
Yeah. And she lives in a small town where there's like a butcher, a baker, a post office and a grocery store.
- [22:47]
A
Like that's just unheard of.
- [22:49]
B
Yeah. So trying to. Obviously I haven't given her like all the gritty details, but she knows I'm an adult entertainer and that kind of thing because my mom showed her the Weekend Australian article. She called me, she's like, oh, I was so proud of that article. I showed it to grandma, if you don't mind.
- [23:03]
A
You're like, what did grandma say?
- [23:05]
B
It took me like three months to even speak to grandma.
- [23:07]
A
I was like, like I can't look her in the eyes. Genuinely Christmas dinner. Like I'm over there.
- [23:12]
B
I mean she's, she's a lovely woman, open minded. You know, she's a great person. So I knew it wouldn't be a huge issue. It was just more, how do I look at grandma in the eyes after she knows I sling dick on the Internet for a living?
- [23:23]
A
I know. I remember my grandma stumbling across my Twitter.
- [23:29]
B
Oh yeah, you had a whole lot of family drama.
- [23:31]
A
Oh yeah. I mean that's for a different story, but like we could do a whole episode about that. But I remember like my grandma calling me and Being like, oh, like, I saw you on this because I put some crazy stuff back on Twitter.
- [23:44]
B
Yeah.
- [23:45]
A
But she was like, she was just happy that I was making good money.
- [23:50]
B
Twitter's the one place you don't want your family to look like, other than Onlyfans. Obviously. Don't look at Twitter. You can look at Instagram. TikTok's okay. Beyond that, stay off the Internet.
- [24:00]
A
Twitter is. Yeah, Twitter is nasty. Like, I get sick scrolling through Twitter. Like I could because, like, obviously I follow a lot of porn stars and stuff. So my page is this constant set.
- [24:11]
B
Yeah.
- [24:11]
A
And it's just, it's. It's a lot.
- [24:13]
B
Yeah, it's hectic. Toxic as X is now called. It's goon central.
- [24:19]
A
I think I'll just log on. And someone's just like, got their asshole spread. They're like, oh, great. Nice. Good start to the day.
- [24:25]
B
Check the DMs. Like, Jesus Christ. That's why I don't look at DMs.
- [24:30]
A
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- [24:57]
B
Yo, I got one a couple days ago. I got a deal. And this is legitimate. I checked the chick's profile out. It's legit. I got a DM saying, would you ever do Mummy and daughter? We are serious.
- [25:09]
A
Shut the.
- [25:09]
B
I'm like, surely this is fake. Went to the page. It's a real, like local girl. Pretty cute too. But I was like, how old?
- [25:17]
A
Like, like 20. Yeah.
- [25:20]
B
And maybe her mom was. But I told my friend about it and he's like, you should reply and say, which one of you is the mom? Neither of you look a day over 18. I wanted to say that so bad because that would have been the funniest possible reply. But no, I left it.
- [25:35]
A
I'm so they, like, they were serious.
- [25:37]
B
Seemed to be. And it was sent at like 7:00pm, not like a 2:00am drunken chat. It was like 7:18pm do you want to have sex with me and my mom together?
- [25:46]
A
Easy.
- [25:47]
B
I know.
- [25:48]
A
I can't imagine, like sitting with my mom and being like, oh, yeah, should we like get a guy?
- [25:52]
B
How about this?
- [25:53]
A
That's some crazy.
- [25:55]
B
That. That's too comfortable with your parents. Yeah, that's that's like maybe an unpopular opinion. Controversial take, but you shouldn't have sex with your parents and someone else.
- [26:03]
A
Let's. Let's not do anything. Incest.
- [26:04]
B
Let's stay away from incest. I could not believe. I like.
- [26:08]
A
Did you reply to them?
- [26:09]
B
No. God no.
- [26:11]
A
Me, I want to, like, I want to know the tea.
- [26:12]
B
No, I didn't reply. I'll show you the dm. I didn't reply.
- [26:18]
A
Nah, I know you've been or you've always been like super anti. Like, anything like that.
- [26:22]
B
Imagine that. Story time, though. Like, me and my mom.
- [26:25]
A
Oh, my God, that is crazy.
- [26:28]
B
Yeah, People are wild out there. I've heard. But I mean, I get so many crazy DMs and requests and like, have.
- [26:33]
A
You had any, like, celebrity DMs that you can disclose?
- [26:36]
B
Wouldn't you like to know, weather boy?
- [26:39]
A
I mean, I actually know one from when I fucked a celebrity and I. So I was fucking a celebrity and he was watching my content and he. I showed him a video with Girthmaster and he got very interested in Girth Master and he wanted Girthmaster to fuck his wife. I was like, but how hectic was that?
- [27:06]
B
When you told me, I was like.
- [27:08]
A
I was like, he wants you involved.
- [27:10]
B
I had to sit down. I was like. When you told me about the celebrity in the first place, I was like, God damn.
- [27:17]
A
Yeah, God damn. It all moved so quickly as well because I was like, yep, messaged you. And literally a day later, I was like, flown there.
- [27:24]
B
Yeah, what a time. I was so hype as well. I was like, do your homework. What's taken? Share your location.
- [27:30]
A
Yeah, yeah.
- [27:30]
B
Get a copy of your past. Like, you know, don't let go of your passport.
- [27:33]
A
I was scared because I was like, I'm flying to this random country with people that I don't know. Like, you know, it's a scary situation. But, like, obviously there's reasons why I didn't think so, so I decided to go with it. But, like, yeah, it was, it was a scary thought for sure.
- [27:50]
B
I mean, who knows what's going to happen? To be fair, like, anything could happen in that kind of situation. I mean, I know you. I know you're a strong woman. You can, like, handle situations you get into. For sure. Like, I've seen you handle yourself very well in situations, but I wanted you.
- [28:03]
A
To come so bad though.
- [28:04]
B
I wanted to go. I wanted to go so bad.
- [28:06]
A
I think the second time I saw him, he wanted you there. And I was trying to, like, he was being like, get ghost master here. Get ghost master here.
- [28:14]
B
What was I doing? I think I was overseas.
- [28:16]
A
You had something going on.
- [28:18]
B
Yeah, yeah.
- [28:18]
A
And you literally couldn't, like you had shit going on.
- [28:21]
B
And I was like, that's the worst thing about life being so busy these days. Like, I love life being busy. Like a chaotic, busy life. It's all good, I love it. But.
- [28:29]
A
And it makes it the moment. Things are hard and especially with like those sort of things that like, you get to a point where you're like surrounded by, by like all the celebrity and stuff and like you kind of get to a point where it's like family matters more.
- [28:41]
B
Yeah.
- [28:41]
A
Because I know like in that time you had some like family going on or something. And it's like these like fleeting moments can. Just. They happen all the time.
- [28:49]
B
Yeah.
- [28:49]
A
There'll be another chance and there'll be other chances. But like family is like what matters the most.
- [28:54]
B
Definitely. You got to have, you gotta have to have your priorities right. For sure. It's so important because otherwise like you can get swept up in that, like, you know, like the fancy life and celebrities and all that stuff is so easy to get caught up in. And then you take a step back and you're like, oh shit, I haven't spoken to my family like a week. And like, you know, you feel bad about that.
- [29:13]
A
And I think that's what's so great about you as well. Like you've always stayed like super frugal. Like the money's never got like, to either of our heads really. Like it hasn't changed us.
- [29:23]
B
You can call me tired. I won't hurt my feelings.
- [29:26]
A
You are tied up. You're literally, you're probably the richest man I know and the most tight man I know when it comes to money.
- [29:33]
B
Like, like I, I don't mind spending money on like work related things, but.
- [29:38]
A
It'S a, it's so like investing the money and stuff up and that's like.
- [29:42]
B
Yeah. And who knows how long.
- [29:43]
A
Important thing.
- [29:44]
B
Yeah. This could end tomorrow.
- [29:46]
A
Literally. Only fans could shut down. Amount of times only fans have been like, oh, we're shutting down. Like, yeah, you know, like you've got to have those. Like you just got to be.
- [29:55]
B
Yeah. 100. And like I reached a certain point in my savings where I'm like very, very comfortable now. And I'm like, pressure's definitely off.
- [30:03]
A
Yes.
- [30:03]
B
Which is such a nice feeling.
- [30:04]
A
Me too.
- [30:05]
B
Because I remember even when I was younger, like I had a, I got a ten thousand dollar loan for a car and then you have that hanging over your head forever. And the feeling of financial freedom I had when I paid it off and was like my money's mine again. Whatever I want to do. I can blow overseas for a few months and just relax and not be stressed. That was so amazing. And then I got older, got in some debt again, managed to pay that off. And that feeling of financial freedom is just like that's got to be what I'm most grateful for. The fact that I've just. The lifestyle that I live has let me be completely free and I, I only do things that I genuinely want to do these days.
- [30:38]
A
You're your own boss. Like you're in control.
- [30:40]
B
Such an amazing feeling.
- [30:41]
A
You have time like trying to do everything or nothing. Time to like spend time with the kids and yeah like I wouldn't have that if I was.
- [30:51]
B
You can be a good mom and hang around. And I saw one comment and this guy was like oh my God. This comment got me so mad. Literally. She abandoned her kids so she can travel the world doing.
- [31:02]
A
I'm like little do they know that like when I'm going to the States collabing with people like I take my family everywhere when it's appropriate. Like they come with me. We all go together. I'll take them to Disneyland. I'll do like their dad is literally full time nanny. So he's there looking after them, taking them out. People will see like a snippet of my day or like seeing me going to see a client or something and just think I do it all the time when reality like I probably do that like once a week. Like if I like sometimes I go on trips for sure. But a lot of the time though.
- [31:35]
B
As if you're an absent mum because you make tick tock videos.
- [31:38]
A
Yeah.
- [31:39]
B
What on earth do people think that's crazy and to not know someone at all and just assume that about them and. And then also broadcast your unsolicited opinion on a tick tock video. Like man, unreal people are.
- [31:51]
A
But you just gotta laugh. You just gotta laugh.
- [31:53]
B
You know if you don't laugh, you cry.
- [31:54]
A
It's the way of the Internet. Like there's gonna be like you're putting yourself out there on the Internet. There's always gonna be people that are not gonna like you.
- [32:04]
B
100 and it's one of those things that you just to be putting yourself on the Internet you have to have that confidence in yourself of like people don't need to like me or understand me. I know who I am. I know my values.
- [32:14]
A
As long as you know you have your loved ones that know who you are.
- [32:18]
B
Yeah.
- [32:19]
A
And you know, they're, like, in your corner.
- [32:22]
B
Yeah. I got some really good advice that last year when I went super viral and Rolling Stone and Cardi B and whatever the. Owen Gray reached out to me with a message. It was really, really nice. Like, everyone's being really nice and everyone in the industry was, like, happy for me. But it was stressful being perceived by literally 400 million people in the space of two days. It was a stressful time. And Owen Gray reached out with a message to say, like, hey, man, you're going through in one week. What? Like, the amount of attention that has taken most of us, like, years to go through, only pay attention to what's being said by the people that know you.
- [32:54]
A
Exactly.
- [32:55]
B
And I got that. I was just like, I could breathe again. I was like, oh, that's so true.
- [32:59]
A
It makes so much sense.
- [33:00]
B
The people that know me are all saying good things. To be fair, everybody was saying good things, but it's just the amount of things that people were saying about me and, like, monitoring chats about me and stuff like that. Of course, you shouldn't look yourself up when you're going viral because it's always. It's a cesspool of opinions. But, yeah, you know, when people say nice things, you want to be aware of it. If there's anything bad there, you want to, like, be aware of that, too. It's impossible to not look yourself up in those situations.
- [33:25]
A
Exactly. But it just shows, like, how much of a scale you've grown. Because I feel like the people who aren't really nobody's, like, they're not going to get the hate. It's the people that are big that are going to get, you know, people not liking them and, like, different opinions and, like, because you're just so much more well known.
- [33:42]
B
Yeah. And, like, I know who I am inside. I've got my own intrinsic values. I know what I stand for. So when people say things that I know aren't true, like you. When people are like, she doesn't have custody of her kids.
- [33:52]
A
Yeah.
- [33:53]
B
You know, that's not true. So it's kind of just like, it's. It gets easier to brush off. But it's so important to, like, you haven't got to fight every single battle. It's just knowing yourself, knowing what matters totally. And hopefully being able to disregard the unsolicited opinions.
- [34:06]
A
I mean, but we're still human at the end of the day. And some things are gonna. Like, when I saw those comments, I was like, damn, that hurt.
- [34:11]
B
Yeah.
- [34:12]
A
Even though, like, I know I'm not that person, it just made me so angry thinking that people assumed that about me or like made up those assumptions, you know what I mean? And it would be the same with you. Like, you know, you're a good person, but it just like makes you so angry.
- [34:25]
B
These hot takes. And I love the one when people are like, if I was them, I would have done this. I wouldn't do that. Like, you have no idea what it's like to be in someone's shoes unless you've been there.
- [34:35]
A
Yeah.
- [34:35]
B
Like, and that goes for any circumstance, but especially like in this context we're talking about. It's like you don't understand what it's like to be in that person's possession.
- [34:42]
A
Totally.
- [34:43]
B
So when it comes to, I don't know, people judging us for things we do and say and whatever, and their hot take on us and our personalities, it's like, I'm glad that I made most of my mistakes in life when I was younger. Like I started the industry at 28.
- [34:55]
A
Yeah. You know, I mean, me too. Yeah.
- [34:57]
B
I'd already, like, I'd been to work Christmas parties with open bars and made a fool of myself there. So when I go to like an industry event with an open bar, so I know to limit myself.
- [35:07]
A
Let's not get wasted. For sure.
- [35:08]
B
Yeah. So I'm glad most of my mistakes happened off the Internet. And I feel for the people that are young and like, they don't know any better in life. This is their first time being exposed to anything like this and go off the rails and don't know how to behave.
- [35:19]
A
But especially when, you know, you get like people who are young and then they'll just get like mass amounts of money and they're just like. I mean, I see it in the industry as well, like so much where people just get so much money and then just absolutely blow it on complete.
- [35:33]
B
Yeah. Like the amount of like 18 to 20 year olds that blow up get millions of views, millions of dollars and you see the life they're living and it's not sustainable.
- [35:42]
A
It's just sustainable. And it's scary because that can go at any moment. You know, your tick tock gets banned.
- [35:47]
B
Or like most of the time it does too.
- [35:48]
A
Yeah.
- [35:49]
B
You've got to have something to show for it.
- [35:50]
A
For sure. You've got to.
- [35:51]
B
Which is why I'm tight.
- [35:52]
A
Yeah, yeah. No, it makes sense.
- [35:55]
B
It's hard to complain about too because it is nearly nothing but positives. Like, it's Such a Charmed Life. The complaints are really just minor little things on the whole. It's. I don't know. I wake up every day feeling lucky.
- [36:08]
A
Okay, so I think that's all we have time for today. But there's definitely going to be a part two because there is so much more we need to unpack. So much more in so little time, so can't wait for you to hear that.