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Hi, everybody. Suzio here. Now, what is the goal of money? The goal of money is for you to be secure. And there is no better way for you to be secure than having an emergency savings account. It is essential for your financial foundation. So all of you should be participating in the ultimate opportunity savings account at Alliant Credit Union. Go to myalliant.com to find out more. And be secure. September 11, 2025. Welcome, everybody, to the Women in Money podcast.
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And everyone smart enough to listen today.
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Is KT and ask Susie anything. And so for those of you who want to write in and ask a question, and if K KT chooses it, it will be on the podcast. Please send Those questions to asksusepodcastmail.com September 11, 24 years ago today, KT we.
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Never, ever, ever will forget, nor will.
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Anybody else ever forget. So to all of us who will never forget, we always send blessings, prayers and hope for all. All right. Anything else you want to say there?
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No, I think that's good, Susie.
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That's good. All right, sweetheart, so what do you got?
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Okay.
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Did you have a good anniversary with you?
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I did, yeah. We had our wedding anniversary, not our meeting anniversary.
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I actually like celebrating KT the meeting anniversary, the 25 years ago, because 15 just doesn't sound like long enough. And I remember, I just tell you this, I remember when I first met you, I always thought, please let me get to double digits.
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You did.
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I did. Let me get to double digits. Then we got to 10 years and it was like, yeah. Then at 15 years we got married. Then here we are about 25 years from when we were.
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What are we going to do to celebrate that?
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Our 25th.
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That.
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Yeah, probably nothing. All right, go on.
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Okay, here's my first question. Susie, I love listening to your show in part heart, because even when I think the topic doesn't apply to me, I find that I gain so much from it. Anyway, I've got a question about a problem that's a good problem, but it's causing great anxiety and indecision. Okay, remember those two words, everybody. Anxiety, indecision. Now, here's the question. My father recently died and left me with $1.2 million.
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Yeah, that can cause anxiety, believe it.
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Or not, in mostly non taxable funds. This never and not expected. My wife and I are 76 and 67 respectively, with two adult children adopted who each have disabilities. Before this inheritance, we planned to downsize and sell the house and move into a condo that would cost no more than about half a million dollars. This price Range in Minneapolis area would limit us slightly. There are some amazing options in the 700 to 850 range that we did not consider. I'm wondering if at this point we can afford the more expensive condo options. The HOA fees are similar to the less expensive option. But I'm extremely anxious about somehow losing what seems like a huge amount of money that was just plopped in our laps. We have no debt, but I worry that now I suddenly have this unexpected inheritance. I'm feeling like I don't want to spend any of it. Scares me to consider a more expensive downsized condo.
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What was the word? It does matter.
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Scares me. Ready. Which would not really be downsizing at all because it might cost close to what we would sell our house for. On the one hand, I think we should go ahead and buy the nicer condo and we would still be no worse off than we were before this sudden influx of money.
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But the question is, on the other hand, right? Should she keep. What should she do? Essentially, that's what she wants.
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What should she do?
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Which hand should she look at? Here's the answer to this dilemma. I've always told all of you the following. When do you buy what you need versus what you can afford? When you can afford more than what you need. Because the key to creating more and more wealth, to making more money out of your money, is not to buy what you can afford, but to buy what you need. And in this case, what's sad about this is that with Sharon, what's happening here is they were fine. They were going to downsize. Everything was perfect until they got this $1.2 million unexpectedly. And now she's full of anxiety, scared. She's scared she doesn't know what to do. Well, I'll tell you what to do. It's not, oh, now you have this extra money so you can buy something more. No, you're going to continue according to plan. You're going to continue to buy the one in the $500,000 arena. That's what you wanted. And you're just going to either save this money and invest this money, give some away to charity. I don't know what you're going to do with it, but you're not going to spend a gift and have it create an intense situation for you where you have anxiety and you are scared. Remember, what is the goal of money? It is for you to be secure. You were secure before you got this money. Now you don't know what to do. Well, I'll tell you what. Not to do. Don't buy more just because you can afford it. Buy what you need versus what you can afford, no matter how wealthy you get. And believe it or not, everybody, that is still to this day exactly how KT and I live our lives. All right, KT next.
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That's for sure. Sometimes I say to Susie, let's spend a little money. She said, why? And I can never answer. All right, so next is from Linda. She said, Hi, Susie and KT. I'm 74 years old and have been listening to your podcast for almost two years now. I'm a retired teacher and my net income is about $4,500 a month through my pension program and a little bit of Social Security. We love teachers, don't we, Susie?
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We always have, always will.
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My question is, should I try investing in the stock? Hmm. My goal is to save enough money in case I need more money for long term care in another 10 years or so. At my age, long term care insurance is too expensive, so I think I'd be better off saving 74.
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All right, so she's talking about 84 now. Go on.
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Yeah.
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All right.
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She said, at my age, long term care insurance is too expensive. So I think I'd be better off saving than pouring that money into an insurance policy. I own my home. It may not be paid off in my lifetime. I do have approximately 175,000 equity in my home and I owe about $150,000 more. Also, my interest rate is only 2.75%. Should I try putting $1,000 in the Vanguard Vu now just to get familiar with it or just stay with CDs?
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Let me see that.
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Go with the vous, Go with the vu, Go with the vous. Let her try it.
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Is that what you would tell her?
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Yeah.
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So this is your quizzy. You would say, because she's fine, she has good income and all. She has about four. I'm reading this now. She has about 48,000 in CDs and checking. All right, she is 74. And you would say, take that thousand extra dollars and see what you can do with it. In vain.
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With the vu, you would, would you? Yeah. Why not?
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Because I'm going to show you how a great financial advisor. I'm very serious, which I am, would look at this problem here and tell her how to solve it. You know, it's funny, everybody. I look at all of your money like it's a chess game. If I make one move, how does that affect everything else? And what is the smartest move that I can make so that you can have Checkmate. You can always win, no matter what. So here, my dear Linda, is what I want you to think about.
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You say, wait, you have to just. I just want to say something. So there's nothing wrong with Vous, it's just not right for Linda at this time.
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Well, it wouldn't be necessarily wrong for Linda, but there's a better way. Okay, okay, there's an better way.
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Let's hear it.
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First of all, she says she has $175,000 of equity in her home and she owes still about 150,000. And she has a 2.75% interest rate. That means she bought it a few years ago. And she still her mortgage payments with that KT are probably about 612 right around there dollars a month. Okay, great. What if. Because obviously she has a 30 year mortgage.
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Yeah, right.
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It's obvious that that's what she has. All right, so listen to me closely, Linda. You have a $612 a month mortgage, but you still probably owe about 27 years on this mortgage. And you're already 74 years of age. So you're probably never going to have it paid off in your lifetime. All right? However, what if you were to take that thousand dollars and put it towards your mortgage so that rather than $612 a month, you're now paying $1,612 a month towards this mortgage? Do you know if you did that, you would own this house outright in seven years and about four months? Do you like that, kt?
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I love that.
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All right, so I love that. Now you have a home that's worth 325,000, maybe 350,000 at that time or more that you could either sell, do a reverse mortgage on, but you now have also lowered your expenses by $1,600 a month because you were able to pay it for a mortgage. Now you don't have that anymore. Now what would happen if you took that thousand dollars and you invested it, let's say in Voo? Now, even though I know Voo has averaged about 15% or over the past five years or so, let's just be conservative where it averages about 10%, because that's on average what it should make. So what that would mean is that in 7.4 years, at about a 10% average annual rate of return, you would have $124,000, but you would still owe 180, $18,000 on your mortgage. Now I have a law of money. Invest in the known versus the unknown. If you put $1,000 a month into the house, we know in 7.4 years you're going to get rid of $150,000 and own your home outright. We actually don't know what's going to happen in the stock market. We don't know that. We could say that $1,000 over the next 7.4 years is going to make 10%. It could lose 10%. We have no idea. Therefore, what you are going to do is you're going to invest in yourself, in your security and the known versus the unknown and you are going to put that extra thousand dollars towards the principal payment of, of your mortgage. And that's exactly what you are going to do with it. You are not going to invest it. There you go, kt.
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How is that? That's the way you're Susie Orman. I'm not.
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Pretty good. I can pull numbers like that out of you. Very, very.
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You always could. Okay, my next question is from a man. I love these from Randy. He said hi Susie and kt. Thanks for taking my question. I'm one of the guys from Ohio that is smart enough to listen.
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There's a. For all of you men out there, that's all you have to say. I'm one of the men smart enough to listen and I have a feeling.
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Ms. Travel, I will always pick it, always put you on top of the list. My question concerns maximizing my HSA contribution as I approach age 70. I'm a June baby. He's like you, Susie.
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Hello, little Gemini.
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Yeah, little Gemini baby. I'm a June baby. I'm a June baby. And trying to maximize my annual contribution in my 70th year before I draw SS SSA checks and still avoid a federal 6 month look back penalty.
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Yes.
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Does it make any sense for me in my 70th year to make a January HSA contribution and then delay SSA checks by a month? I appreciate your feedback. This is way out of my league.
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Do you even know what we're talking about?
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No, I do not. Way out of my league. Randy.
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Randy has a health savings account which is attached to a high deductible health insurance plan and he's allowed to put money in every single year up to a max. And he can take that money and invest it in the HSA mutual funds that they offer and once he turns 65 or older he can use that money for any qualified medical expense that he may have and he doesn't pay taxes on it when he takes it out and it was a tax deduction when he put it in. So big deal if you ask me. When you file for Social Security, you're Automatically, once you're 65 or older, you're automatically enrolled in Medicare Part A. But it's retroactive for up to six months. So that retroactive Medicare coverage makes HSA contributions for those months ineligible. And if they're ineligible and Randy was to put money in during that period, he could face tax penalties if he contributed during that period. So I know this sounds complicated, but in essence he's saying can he postpone it for a month? Because if Randy's birthday, his 70th birthday is in June, Social Security. Now listen to this, everybody. Social Security is going to consider him to have reached age 70 in May. They use the month before your birth month, Randy. So if you file to start benefits in May, Medicare Part A would be retroactive back to November of the prior year, which wipes out HSA eligibility for contributions to that point. Here's the bottom line, sweetheart, is it worth it? I just don't think it is worth for you to contribute one month extra of an HSA contribution and give up one month of Social Security income. I just can't see it making sense. So therefore don't do it. Don't do it. Don't do it.
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So this is my next question. Susie, I have a Roth Quizzy. This is from Liz. Liz is 58 years old. She has a $90,000 IRA from previous employment. She would like to gradually convert that to a Roth. I understand the five year timeline. So she's asking if she starts to convert with a small amount. When she converts more money. Does the five year rule kick in for each conversion? Does it start a new timeline for every conversion? She has conflicting information.
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You should see KT's little play.
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I think that the five year rule, the big number is 59 and a half and that's when the penalty goes away.
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Oh my God, I'm gonna die.
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Wait, no, I know my stuff. So I think that's all you need to worry about.
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No, it's not all you need to worry about, Liz. There is a lot of conflicting information out there and the answer has a lot to do with do you already have a Roth that met the five year rule or do you not? The age, all kinds of things. So therefore, this Sunday, in honor of you, Ms. Travis, I'm going to give a Susie school once again on this particular topic.
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And I'm joining her. I'm going to join you. I'm going to help Everybody. Cause I wait till they hear how much I learned about Roth.
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Katit, they don't care what you've learned about Roth. They care about what they need to learn about Roth.
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I'll be there, everybody. I'll be there Sunday.
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You are not going to be in my Susie school with me.
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I'm going to be there.
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All right. Anyway, so that's what we're going to do. So Liz, make sure you tune in because I think my answer's going to surprise a lot of you because you're really getting it wrong. All right, go on KT.
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Okay, next question is from Judy. Judy said, I'm 64 year old single woman who has been retired three years, thanks partly to your advice. Thank you, Susie.
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Yeah baby.
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She said, I have a quick question about AI. I want to dabble with some of the money I can risk and I wanted to know what ETFs and or stocks you suggest that I can start with for my AI investment. Thanks for everything. And she said hello to kt. So Judy, this is the first time I read this where people have money to risk. That doesn't sit well with Susie.
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Oh, it absolutely kt, what did you hear me do the other day on the phone? I said this is risk money. Buy this. You absolutely.
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Not with my money.
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No. You don't like risk?
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Not with your money. I never risk.
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But everybody, I don't care if you have money to risk. I want you to have money to risk. Why wouldn't I want them?
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So answer her question. What does she do? What does she invest in with AI?
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What you didn't tell me is how much money you have to risk. Therefore, the number one ETF that I would be telling you to buy if you're really interested in artificial intelligence is the ETF with the letters smh. So that's what I would tell you to buy. That's what I've been telling everybody to buy for a long time right now because it actually has all of the AI stocks and the stocks in that category. Obviously my favorite AI stocks are Microsoft, Nvidia, amd and I can go on and on like that. However, I think the best way to start to dabble would be with smh. And by the way, Apple. You gotta be invested in Apple. All right kt, next question.
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I'm invested in Apple, everybody.
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You've been invested in Apple for a long, long time. Since I've known you.
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I got lots of apples. Okay, ready? Next question is from Betty. Hi Susan. Kt, my brother in law recently passed and left my sister in law a million dollar life insurance benefit.
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Love that.
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After making a budget, she'll be short $3,300 a month. Her CPA and financial advisor recommend she takes out a 518,000 lump sum immediate annuity that will provide the income for life and if she dies ready for this, it'll pay her beneficiaries for up to 10 from starting the annuity. She's 73 years old, in good health, does not own a home. The million dollars is all she has. The advisor said there's no fees, surrender charges and everything is built in, whatever that means. She also wants to take out a life insurance policy with a long term care benefit for $150,000. That would provide $370,000 in long term care for up to four years. The Commission on Investments is about 1 05%, which sounds reasonable to me. I'm nervous for her to spend half of what she has in a lump sum to provide only $3,300 in income. But I know my sister in law would also feel secured with guarantee income. Betty wants to know, Susie, what do you think? Can I tell everyone what your face looks like?
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Yeah, you can. Like always.
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All right. So soon.
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I'll tell you what upsets me.
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These CPAs and financial advisors.
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Well, how old is Betty? How old is.
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She's in good health. She's 73.
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Yeah, yeah.
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And she's in good health. She doesn't own a home.
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Here's the scoop, everybody. I think this is horrific advice. Horrific advice. When somebody says there's no fees, there's no commissions, there's no anything in it.
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And it's built in.
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And it's built in. Well, why the hell would they want to do it then? Who's paying them to do that? They get 1.05% for other investment advice they're going to give this person, but they don't make any money on this. Are you kidding me? They're probably going to get on an immediate annuity. Could be anywhere from 25,000 to 30 or 40,000. They're going to get a lot of money if she does this. That's number one. Number two, just let me explain to everybody how this annuity works. It's what's known as a 10 year certain annuity. So KT, she's the same age as.
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You, she's 73 and she's in good health. Like me.
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She's in good health. So if anything were to happen between the day that she buys it and 10 years from now, what's ever left in that 10 year time period? So if in five years from now she's killed in a car crash, her beneficiaries get that $3,300 a month for another five years. Once she lives past 10 years and she dies, her beneficiaries don't get anything. So the first question has to be does she have any beneficiaries that she cares about? Because the truth of the matter is she could get the exact same income right now not touch her principal. She could actually get more income and still have $518,000 to leave to her loved ones. I mean, I want you all to think about this. So it's just not something that she should be doing at this period in time in terms of the long term care. All right, but if I were all of you and I want you to listen to me closely, I do not get a penny for saying this. Never have and never will. If you are interested in buying a long term care insurance policy of any kind, that's fine. But I would not buy it before I consulted with Phyllis Shelton who in my opinion is one of the experts in long term care in the entire United States. She has a whole staff that is so knowledgeable I cannot tell you. If you went to the Women and money community app and you look where all those little boxes are when you first sign on, you will see long term care insurance. Click there and it will tell you how you contact her. Right? I would do that, Betty. I would have your sister in law do this before she purchases anything from these people. The other thing here that I don't like is that you have both a financial advisor and an accountant, a CPA both saying to do this. Now I'd like to know does that CPA get a referral fee for referring it to a financial advisor and therefore they both are going to benefit. I would never ever, ever do business with somebody who gets a referral fee when I use. Like I just said right now with Phyllis Shelton, I don't get a referral fee. There is no way she can benefit me in any possible way. The only thing she can do is help you when you need help and picking out the right solution for you. You don't have to go with her if you don't want, but there's no fees to do so. So there you go, that's my answer. But Betty, I wouldn't touch this annuity with a 10 foot pole. What I would touch however with a 10 foot pole is the podcast on Sunday where all of you are going to learn something you all need to know. I'll be there. Don't you hate that saying, be there, be square? Anyway, that's besides the point. There's only one thing we want you all to remember when it comes to your money. And what is that, Ms. Travis?
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It is people first, then money, then things. And you stay safe and I'll see you Sunday.
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There we go. Bye bye everyone. Everybody we are strong, we are wise we will not apologize we are here we will thrive Together we will rise we're the faith and everything it takes we are strong, we are wise Together we will rise. Hi everybody. Suzy O Here now. If you are looking for a way to start saving to get the most out of your money, I want you to go to myalliant.com that's M Y- A L L I A N T.com and look into opening an Ultimate Opportunity Savings account. Put in at least $100 a month, every single month for 12 consecutive months. Earn 3.10% interest on your money right now and get $100 at the end. Are you kidding me? It's the best deal out there. Start saving right now.
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Podcast: Suze Orman's Women & Money (And Everyone Smart Enough To Listen)
Host: Suze Orman (with KT)
Date: September 11, 2025
Duration: ~30 minutes
In this episode, Suze Orman, joined by her wife KT, tackles real listener questions focused on building true financial security and the deeper principles behind wealth. The key message: building a wealthy life is about wise decision-making, emotional clarity, and sticking to needs over wants—even in the face of sudden windfalls. Suze reinforces that financial security comes not from how much you have, but from smart, grounded choices. The episode is rich with practical advice, especially for those navigating sudden inheritances, retirement decisions, and investment dilemmas.
(02:22 – 06:38)
“The key to creating more and more wealth, to making more money out of your money, is not to buy what you can afford, but to buy what you need.” (04:34 – Suze)
"You were secure before you got this money. Now you don't know what to do. Well, I'll tell you what not to do. Don't buy more just because you can afford it." (05:23 – Suze)
(06:38 – 13:17)
“Invest in the known versus the unknown.” (12:35 – Suze)
(13:17 – 17:10)
“I just can't see it making sense... Don't do it. Don’t do it.” (16:45 – Suze)
(17:10 – 18:56)
“There is a lot of conflicting information out there... my answer's going to surprise a lot of you because you're really getting it wrong.” (18:30 – Suze)
(19:08 – 21:07)
“The number one ETF that I would be telling you to buy if you're really interested in artificial intelligence is the ETF with the letters SMH.” (20:09 – Suze)
(21:15 – 27:39)
“I think this is horrific advice. Horrific advice.” (23:16 – Suze) “I would never ever, ever do business with somebody who gets a referral fee.” (25:24 – Suze)
“There’s only one thing we want you all to remember when it comes to your money. And what is that, Ms. Travis?”
“It is people first, then money, then things. And you stay safe and I'll see you Sunday.” (27:39)
This episode delivers essential reminders for both new and seasoned listeners: Stay aligned with needs over wants, nurture your financial security, and beware of emotional and advisor-driven decision traps. Suze's advice is direct, numbers-driven, and grounded in decades of experience—making this a can’t-miss installment for anyone seeking a wealthy, secure life.