3 habits to practice curiosity — and escape your phone | Nayeema Raza

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TED Talks Daily

Episode: 3 habits to practice curiosity — and escape your phone | Nayeema Raza
Date: March 12, 2026
Host: Elise Hu
Guest/Speaker: Nayeema Raza

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Overview

This episode features journalist and podcast host Nayeema Raza, who explores how digital devices hijack our attention and sense of connection in daily life. Rather than framing technology as the enemy, Raza argues for reclaiming human habits—specifically, curiosity, presence, and open questioning—as antidotes to digital distraction. She shares practical advice drawn from personal experience and her work, offering listeners tools to restore meaningful connections with themselves and others, both for the current generation and the next.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

The Paradox of Modern Connection (04:42–06:14)

• Raza contrasts digital versus real-life interactions by recounting a conversation with 11-year-olds Sophie and Dylan. Sophie observes that FaceTime or playing online makes her feel "more like with them..." than being together in real life, because everyone tends to be on their phones when physically present.
• Raza underscores this as a modern paradox:

  “When we are together physically, we are each alone on our phones. But when we're in our phones, that's when we can be together.”

• The phenomenon is not exclusive to children—it affects everyone, including Raza herself.

The ‘Mundane’ Tech Apocalypse (06:28–06:36)

• Raza challenges the cinematic notion of a “tech apocalypse,” suggesting that the real threat is the ordinary ways technology erodes our attention, agency, and relationships:

  "It is sexy to think that the tech apocalypse is Arnold Schwarzenegger and the Terminator, but it could be so much more mundane than that. Just us driven in circles, held hostage by dropdown menus… with gadgets disintermediating us from each other, from our own bodies and from our curiosities."

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Three Old Habits to Reclaim Human Connection (07:33–08:44)

• Raza presents three actionable habits to “reconnect with what matters”:

  1. Pause: Take just one second before reaching for your phone. Research shows it helps your brain function better.
     • “Studies show waiting that long before taking action lets your brain work better.” (07:38)
  2. Wonder: Resist the instant urge to Google. Let curiosity float instead of drowning in information.
     • “Watch a movie without googling who that actor is… You can float in your own curiosity instead of drown in information.” (08:15)
  3. Ask Out Loud: Have real conversations again, ask questions—even “dumb” ones—rather than looking everything up.
     • “Have that fight at a dinner party instead of playing footsie with your phone. Ask something to someone you thought you couldn't learn from or someone you think you know everything about. Because the dumbest thing we can be is know-it-alls.” (08:24)

• Raza reflects on losing her father and realizing that, at life’s critical moments, old habits—pausing, wondering, asking—matter more than data and devices.

Generational Shifts and Tech Awareness (15:10–16:09)

• Raza notes that children are aware of the risks of tech, sometimes more so than adults, and predicts a societal re-evaluation of screens similar to attitudes toward cigarettes.

  "They seem more knowledgeable than us about the risks of it..."
  "Fast forward 20 years... we're going to look at these screens, these screens, the way we looked at cigarettes." (15:26)

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Inquiry as a Mode for Connection (16:41–19:54)

• Raza describes her interview technique with both adults and children: not imposing views, but asking open questions to invite deeper reflection. Genuine inquiry helps people realize their own perspectives and connections.
• She relates this to her journalism approach, criticizing “opinion journalism” and the loss of trust in media. She advocates for a return to curiosity-driven, question-based reporting.

Curiosity, Trust, and Connection (20:04–21:14)

• Curiosity fosters both learning and trust: when people are in a “curiosity mindset,” they not only learn more but build better connections.

  “The act of curiosity and… being willing to be wrong or to not know… creates, like, a physical space that I feel… we can learn together.” (20:04)

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The Value—and Vulnerability—of Dumb Questions (12:53, 21:31–23:06)

• Raza explains her podcast’s ethos (“Smart Girl Dumb Questions”):

  “Inviting curiosity... suspending certainty... you change the other, you change yourself, and you change the space between you.” (20:23)

• Notable anecdote: Geoffrey Hinton, “the godfather of AI,” admits he “[doesn’t] really understand what his life’s work has been, how the brain really works.” (22:40)
• Celebrating the humility and playfulness in admitting not-knowing, Raza says:

  “We really lose [the space of not knowing] as adults. Not because we're not curious ...but because we simply stop noticing. Because there is a more expedient way to know something, and because it appears strong to know something.” (23:06)

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Looking to the Future: Tech and Humanity (23:50–24:54)

• Raza’s next big question:

  “Do you think that the future of humanity is cyborg?” (23:50)

• She’s fascinated by questions of transhumanism, AI integration with human life, and the potential generational shift toward “Homo machinist.”

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On paradoxical connection:

  "When we are together physically, we are each alone on our phones. But when we're in our phones, that's when we can be together."
  — Nayeema Raza (05:29)

• On the subtle tech apocalypse:

  "It is sexy to think that the tech apocalypse is Arnold Schwarzenegger and the Terminator, but it could be so much more mundane than that..."
  — Nayeema Raza (06:29)

• On pausing for presence:

  "Studies show waiting that long before taking action lets your brain work better."
  — Nayeema Raza (07:38)

• On the value of questions:

  “Because the dumbest thing we can be is know-it-alls.”
  — Nayeema Raza (08:24)

• On the essential nature of curiosity:

  “Curiosity is, like, at the heart of that. Not for play, not for show, but you’re genuinely actually curious about something.”
  — Nayeema Raza (20:23)

• On generational change:

  "Fast forward 20 years, we're going to look at these screens the way we looked at cigarettes."
  — Nayeema Raza (15:26)

• On vulnerability among experts:

  “Geoffrey Hinton… said he still doesn’t really understand what his life’s work has been, how the brain really works.”
  — Nayeema Raza (22:40)

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Segment Timestamps

• [04:42] – Raza interview with kids, paradox of digital/physical presence
• [07:33] – Three practical habits: pause, wonder, ask
• [08:44] – Personal story about her father, value of old habits
• [12:53] – Raza on “dumb questions” and her journalistic approach
• [15:10] – Generational awareness, kids vs. adults on tech risks
• [16:41] – Inquiry and conversation as tools for connection and learning
• [20:04] – Curiosity as a pathway to connection and plasticity
• [23:50] – Big future question: “Is humanity becoming cyborg?”
• [25:38] – Raza’s closing invitation: revive dinner table debates and conversation

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Takeaways & Calls to Action

• Embrace Curiosity and Presence: Raza urges listeners to pause, to wonder, and to rediscover the joy of open questions—both to revive personal relationships and to model these habits for younger generations.
• Practice Out-Loud Questions: Don’t fear being the one to ask; vulnerability and not-knowing can spark the richest connections.
• Make Space for Inquiry: Whether at work, home, or among friends, create space for discussion and avoid defaulting to digital distraction.
• Challenge Certainty: True intelligence lies in the willingness to learn, adapt, and be open—not in merely knowing.

“I hope they will feel empowered and I hope they will fight at the dinner table. I hope they will have conversations out loud again and ask the question and get into it in conversation versus on their screen.”
— Nayeema Raza (25:38)

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This episode offers a compelling, human-centered counterpoint to the narrative of technological doom—reminding us that small, intentional habits can reinvigorate curiosity and real connection in an AI-driven world.

Transcript

[Elise Hu]

You're listening to TED Talks Daily where we bring you new ideas to spark your curiosity every day. I'm your host, Elise Hu. Screens have reshaped our lives in such profound ways that some days it feels like online happenings feel more real than real life.

[Naima Raza]

When we are together physically, we are each alone on our phones, but when we're in our phones, that's when we can be together.

[Elise Hu]

That's Naima Raza, journalist, podcast host, and self described Dumb Questions advocate. In today's talk, she questions how social media, digital life and AI tools might be hijacking our lives. But instead of looking at the problem through an anti tech lens, she looks at it with a pro human one.

[Naima Raza]

It is sexy to think that the tech apocalypse is Arnold Schwarzenegger and the Terminator, but it could be so much more mundane than that. I want to make a case for old habits and tell you how I learned them the hard way.

[Elise Hu]

Naima makes the case for the return of three practical habits to reconnect with that actually matter in our lives. Lives both for ourselves and for younger generations. And stick around. Afterwards, I sat down with Naima to go beyond her talk. We dig into why dumb questions are actually quite smart, and why reigniting curiosity, restoring presence, and breaking free from our phones is more important now than ever. That's all coming up right after a short break.

[Naima Raza]

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[Naima Raza]

I ask questions for a living to people like Mark Cuban, Neil DeGrasse Tyson, Esther Perel, Bill Nye, these masters of their field. And the most surprising answer I heard this year was from two 11 year olds named Sophie and Dylan. They too are experts in being kids these days. So I asked them, how does time with people on screens feel different than real life?

[Sophie]

It just makes you feel more like with them when you're on FaceTime.

[Naima Raza]

Even more than real life.

[Sophie]

Yeah, because you're like, like doing stuff together. Like playing Roblox together. Because now in days when you're with them, everyone's just on their phones.

[Naima Raza]

Sophie's pointing out a profound paradox when we are together physically, we are each alone on our phones. But when we're in our phones, that's when we can be together. The best way to not be distracted by your device, just get inside of it. Now, these 11 year olds are not talking about some distant, anxious generation. They're talking about each of us. They're definitely talking about me and about a world that's increasingly driven by machines. So I stumbled upon an extreme metaphor for what this could look like. And it's this guy who's locked in a Waymo and it's driving him in circles. So he calls customer service and finds out he's not the only one trapped,

working with the situation of the vehicle. If you have your app pulled up, I need you to tap my trip in the lower left corner of your app.

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[Elise Hu]

You should be able to handle it. Take over the car. You don't need my phone.

[Naima Raza]

I don't have an option.

It is sexy to think that the

tech apocalypse is Arnold Schwarzenegger and the Terminator, but it could be so much more mundane than that. Just us driven in circles, held hostage by dropdown menus, with gadgets disintermediating us from each other, from our own bodies and from our curiosities. Because nowadays, when we have a question, we don't wait and phone a friend, we friend our phones. And that feels so empowering to have all of this knowledge at our fingertips. Yet early research from MIT tells us it's making us lazier and less smart. And it is definitely making us less connected. This is not what our parents and grandparents were sold when they saw this relic of an ad from AT&T which says reach out and touch someone. And yes, for all kinds of reasons, it would not go down well today. But it is oddly prescient because we have never been more connected and more out of touch. Now, I'm not anti tech. I actually cover it as a journalist. I have every gadget under the sun.

And most days I think I'm in

a relationship with my ChatGPT, or as I like to call him, Chat Daddy. I am pro human. And as we progress into an AI world that you've read 471.5 articles about today alone, I want to make a case for old habits, three of them, and tell you how I learned them the hard way. The first is to pause to take just one second when you feel that urge to reach for your digital pacifier. This, by the way, is a second. Studies show waiting that long before taking Action lets your brain work better. The second is to wonder. Watch a movie without googling who that actor is and what else is he

in and how old is he?

Is he single? You can float in your own curiosity instead of drown in information. And the third is to ask a question out loud again. Have that fight at a dinner party instead of playing footsie with your phone. Ask something to someone you thought you couldn't learn from or someone you think you know everything about. Because the dumbest thing we can be is know it alls. A few years ago my father passed

[Elise Hu]

and in the days leading up to

[Naima Raza]

it, I was glued to devices. They had all these answers. The number to his hospice nurse, how often to give them morphine, the signs to look out for his heartbeat. But when he passed on a Sunday, a day before the data and the vitals suggested he would, that's when it hit me. The old habits were what mattered. Those seconds of pause that added up to minutes more, that weird and scary wonder about our own finite lives. And the little questions people asked me, like how can I be there for you? Sophie was onto something. But we're grown ups and we remember when presence and curiosity and connection were possible outside of technology. We have to practice these old habits if we hope to pass them on to a new generation, if we want to teach them how to be together

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Right Chad?

Daddy, thank you.

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[Elise Hu]

Naima, congratulations on your talk.

[Naima Raza]

Thank you so much, Elise. Really appreciate it.

[Elise Hu]

So for folks who don't know, you, tell us just a little bit about yourself.

[Naima Raza]

What can I tell you? Well, I'm very much my father's daughter. My dad was at the World bank, and so I grew up in all these places around the world. I grew up mostly in Africa and Asia and largely being from places that I was not in. I was what's called a third culture kid. And I think that same kind of curiosity and fascination with the unknown has led me into my career, which is what I do these days, which is journalism, and now independent journalism. I started off as a documentary filmmaker. I landed in journalism at the New York Times in the video section, the opinion video section. And then I ran a show called Sway, which was hosted by the veteran tech journalist Kara Swisher. So cover technology was on air with her for another show, and then kind of left more institutional media about a year ago as I realized that so much of media is distrusted these days. It's really what brought me to this next arc. And now I host the show called Smart Girl Dumb Questions. And the idea is to ask questions, as I recommend doing in the talk.

[Elise Hu]

Why do you call them dumb questions? Because it occurs to me that a lot of the questions that you ask that then become the fruits of conversation or more reporting are not dumb at all. They're just a starting point.

[Naima Raza]

It sounds like, yes, they're a starting point, but I think it's more the ethos of the show. So the title is decidedly provocative, but I felt like it was a memorable title, which is important when you title a show. And it gets to the idea. And the idea is really about suspending certainty and inviting curiosity. And I think that this show does that. And whether I'm asking, you know, Mark Cuban, can billionaires save us? Or Geoffrey Hinton, what even is AI? I mean, that's a good example, because Geoffrey Hinton, who's the godfather of AI, I asked him do you think most people that interview you actually understand what AI is or how it works?

[Elise Hu]

Right, right.

[Naima Raza]

He said no. And I asked him, do you think most people ask you to explain it to them? And he said no.

[Elise Hu]

Huh. So you gave him an opportunity, which

[Naima Raza]

I think is the questions we all have.

[Elise Hu]

Yeah, yeah, absolutely. Onto the talk. You started it with a story of these two 11 year olds who you had on your podcast and asked them, how does time with people on screens feel different than time with people in real life? Why was their answer surprising to you?

[Naima Raza]

I mean, wasn't it surprising to you, Elise? It's shocking that they felt more present with people on screens than in real life. I mean, it was a shocking answer. But then when you think about it, Sophie's explanation is so intelligent. Right. When you're on screens, you're doing stuff together, you're engaged with each other, but nowadays, when you're together in real life, everyone's just on their phones. I thought it was such a crisp cultural commentary by this 11 year old.

[Elise Hu]

Yeah.

[Naima Raza]

And you made me really think about presence and the way that technology has changed presence. And, you know, this isn't just about kids, this is about all of us. I feel that way with my friends too. When I'm on FaceTime, there's no way to be distracted.

[Elise Hu]

That's true. Attention is such a finite resource and people are competing for it constantly and all the apps and industries are competing for hours and it makes. Makes even time in real life, that sort of scarce resource. Do you feel like there is a generational shift of what it means to be connected?

[Naima Raza]

I don't always interview kids, but when I speak to kids, and I have four God kids and, you know, interact with friends kids, and interviewed Sophie and Dylan, what I think is that they're much more cognizant of it. For them, it's the world that they live in. But when adults who are telling them one thing and doing another reveal themselves to be as connected to the technology as they want their kids not to be, I feel like, yeah, sure, there's a generational shift, but they seem more knowledgeable than us about the risks of it. I think it's very possible that fast forward 20 years, we're going to look at these things, these screens, the way we looked at cigarettes. And it might not be 20, it might be 5 to 10. And I say that, you know, not as some uninformed commentary, but just as a journalist who's covered tech power and accountability, that you look at the conversations that are happening right now in Capitol Hill, et cetera, and the lawsuits that are ongoing, there's a real concern about how technology is impacting our lives in a way that we don't fully, I think, understand yet.

[Elise Hu]

Yeah. And then the implications weren't considered when everybody was just getting onto the apps that then addicted us in the first place. Right. So given this larger matrix that we're in, I also host a parenting podcast called Raising Us, which is about how to talk about thorny topics with kids. So how would you approach talking about this larger system, this larger infrastructure that we're talking about that could be harmful with kids? With the teens that you're interviewing, for example?

[Naima Raza]

Yeah, I mean, I'm not a parent yet, so I feel I couldn't give parenting advice, but I think it's about inquiry more than anything. You know, I think it's much more revelatory when you interview people to ask them about their impacts than try to impose a perspective on them. Right. I used to have this conversation with my former colleague Nick Kristof at the New York Times, where, you know, if you want to talk to someone about something like gun control, don't start with an oppositional point of view. You ask them maybe, what. What is a age that you think would make sense as a restricting age? Because I think 18 feels young. These are all the things you can't do at 18. And you engage in a conversation with shared space. And I think if you ask people, just how do you feel when you've spent an hour in technology and how do you look at it? Because what was revelatory to me, and I think to the parents of those 11 year olds that I interviewed as well, because they wrote this to me after, is they hadn't really experienced their kids in that setting. Like adult interview subjects sharing the same kind of seat that Neil DeGrasse Tyson or the New York City mayor would share, being asked questions in the same way of coming from a place of knowing, I think that that's how I would probably start, is actually a mode of inquiry and then asking them, like, when do they otherwise feel really engaged? And what I found with Sophie and Dylan is it's sports. And I think about it to myself, it's swimming. When I swim, I grew up in Indonesia, I feel this, like, just complete joy of being free. You don't need any accoutrements. You're completely unplugged from the world. And so I think, how do you create that sensation in people? And then I studied economics undergrad, and I'm always Like thinking, how do you create demand instead of just like, push supply, you know?

[Elise Hu]

Yeah. Have you gotten to an answer for that question?

[Naima Raza]

I think it's really just taking that moment of cognizance to pause. I think it's the delight of not knowing something. Like, we have conflated intelligence with knowing things with knowledge. I think intelligence, even the dictionary definition of intelligence, I believe, is much more about the ability to learn and decide and shape your environment. ADAP to it. I think there's even a higher node question which is like, what do you want to learn about? That's curiosity. What are you willing to be open about? And that requires a confidence that I try to get to with a show title and Smart girl. Dumb questions, not certainty. It's the opposite of certainty. It's actually the ability to suspend knowledge to learn something from someone who you think you might not be able to learn from. And I think that is what's really missing. And it kind of brings me back to the arc of my own trajectory in journalism is I think a lot of people, you look at the Gallup trust rankings, which I think are at 28% right now of people who have a great deal or fair amount of trust in media, that's 28%. So three fourths of people do not. And I think that a lot of it is because people are being told what to think, that the asking questions, like the interrogative part of journalism has faded away and kind of been taken over by opinion journalism or hot takes or influencers are telling you what to think. And I think most people are like, I know how to think. I just like you to help me get information, you know, and then what

[Elise Hu]

do you think is the connection between inquiry, being curious, wonder, and rebuilding trust or just maintaining connections with one another?

[Naima Raza]

I think you can't do one without the other. Right. At least, like connections and trust, they go hand in hand in a way. I think the act of curiosity and the act of being willing to be wrong or to not know or to learn creates, like, a physical space that I feel, oh, there's something between us that we can fill. We can learn together.

[Elise Hu]

Right?

[Naima Raza]

And I think curiosity is, like, at the heart of that. Not for play, not for show, but you're genuinely actually curious about something. And by the way, you could say, look, there are certain things. I know the sky is blue, the floor is down, whatever it is, but I guarantee you there is something you can learn from somebody else. And if you ask a person a question, there are two things that happen. I Think one is you disarm that person to want to share something with you. The second is actually there's studies from, I think it was the University of California systems. I think it was a decade ago in 2014. They did some studies where they showed that when you're in a curiosity mindset, you're actually able to learn more and not just learn about the thing you're asking about or curious about, but learn all kinds of adjacencies. So you kind of build that plasticity and retain the ability to learn. And who doesn't want to do that? Right? So I think you change the other, you change yourself, and you change the space between you.

[Elise Hu]

I love that. Why do you think then, if curiosity and asking questions can be so connective and so good, not only on a one to one basis, but just for society as a whole, why do you think we are so afraid to ask or worried about asking dumb questions?

[Naima Raza]

Well, one, I think that we all have like a, you know, Polly Pocket, I'm holding up my phone right now for people listening. You know, I think that we can just ask our. Our phone and, you know, a dinner party game I like to play is like, would you rather have someone see your texts, your emails, or all of your search or chat history? And often people are very worried about their texts and their search and chat history. I would say it's like the, it's really revealing.

[Elise Hu]

I think if you've ever seen somebody's search history on accident. I remember.

[Naima Raza]

What would you rather?

[Elise Hu]

Oh, I'm really open. I feel like my search history is probably hilarious. So I don't, I don't. I wouldn't feel exposed about that. Probably my text.

Texts.

Probably my texts. Because any of my judgy conversations are probably in there. Let's just.

[Naima Raza]

And your curious conversations are in your chat. Yeah, I mean, I think that technology has shifted our ability to ask questions and to know things and to be quote, unquote experts and to therefore revile experts has become much more practice with this new medium. I also think that we conflate it with a weakness, not knowing. And so what I try to do at the end of every episode of Smart Girl dump questions, I ask my guests what they do not know. And these are extremely smart people, experts in their field. And I asked them what they don't know and they're. They have hilarious answers. Geoffrey Hinton, the godfather of AI, said he still doesn't really understand what his life's work has been, how the brain really works. You know, what a vulnerable answer to share something like that. And because I love that space of not knowing.

[Elise Hu]

Right.

[Naima Raza]

It really is delightful. And I think it's that space for play that we just have in spades as kids, that Sophie and Dylan still have at 11, that we really lose as adults. Not because we're not curious, not because we're not able to be curious, not because we're not intelligent, but because we simply stop noticing. Because there is a more expedient way to know something, and because it appears strong to know something. But everyone thanks the person in the conversation who raises their hand, like, in a meeting and says, like, what does that acronym mean? And you're like, oh, my God, thank God. Because everyone's thinking it. It's a public service. It's like Public Service Journalism 101.

[Elise Hu]

Yeah. Yeah. That's so great. What's the next question that you're excited to explore?

[Naima Raza]

Do you think that the future of humanity is cyborg? And it's a question that I've asked to various of my guests. I think I'm fascinated by this idea of transhumanism. I'm not like, a believer in this necessarily, but I'm very curious about how, you know, the machines, the phones, et cetera, will actually change in form to be integrated with us. What does the future of that look like as we're experimenting with wearables, with lenses, with all kinds of things. And you have people like Alexander Wang, who runs AI at Meta, who says he's waiting to have kids till the neuralink is so far advanced that we can just plug our babies into neuralink and they can digest information at a point at which they're most neuroplastic. There is a school of thought, and it sounds absurd and science fiction, but I think it's not impossible. So that's my great curiosity is, like, what are we, you know, fast forward two generations, you know, are we moving from Homo erectus to Homo machinist or whatever the right term would be?

[Elise Hu]

Yeah, yeah. Well, that's a good one. I still want to know where Jimmy Hoffa's buried.

[Naima Raza]

Oh, that's a good one. You know, I also want to know, like, why some people like spicy food and other people do not.

[Elise Hu]

That's really for sure. Can you learn to like spicy food? People who sort of have never been exposed to it?

Is it acquired?

[Naima Raza]

As a Pakistani who has dated some. Some men from the Midwest, I would say that hard. Hard to acquire, but you can encourage.

[Elise Hu]

Really encourage that behavior. Interesting. Yeah, interesting.

All right.

I've learned so much from you.

Before we let you go.

Real briefly, Naima, what do you hope people will learn, feel and do after listening to this talk and conversation?

[Naima Raza]

Oh, I hope they will feel empowered and I hope they will fight at the dinner table. I hope they will have conversations out loud again and ask the question and get into it in conversation versus on their screen.

[Elise Hu]

Fantastic.

That was Naima Raza at TEDNext 2025 and in conversation with me, Elise Hu. If you're curious about Ted's curation, find out [e-mail] curationguidelines and that's it for today. This episode was produced by Lucy Little, edited by Alejandra Salazar, fact checked by the TED Research team and engineered by Xander Adams. TED Talks Daily is part of the TED Audio Collective. Our team includes Martha Estefanos, Oliver Friedman, Ryan Greene, Lucy Little, Emma Tobner, and Tonsika Sangmarni. Van Additional support from Christopher Faizy Bogan, Daniela Ballaraizo, and Banban Chang. I'm Elise Hu. I'll be back tomorrow with a fresh idea for your feed. Thanks for listening.

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