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We live in an incredibly busy world. The pace of life is often frantic. Our minds are always busy and we're always doing something. So with that in mind, I'd like you just to take a moment to think. When did you last take any time to do nothing? Just 10 minutes undisturbed. And when I say nothing, I do mean nothing. So that's no emailing, texting, no Internet, no tv, no chatting, no eating, no reading, not even sitting there reminiscing about the past or planning for the future, simply doing nothing. I see a lot of very blank faces. My thinking is it'll probably have to go a long way back. And this is an extraordinary thing, right? We're talking about our mind. The mind, our most valuable and precious resource through which we experience every single moment of our life. The mind that we rely upon to be happy, content, emotionally stable as individuals, and at the same time to be kind and thoughtful and considerate in our relationships with others. This is the same mind that we depend upon to be focused, creative, spontaneous, and to perform at our very best in everything that we do. And yet we don't take any time out to look after it. In fact, we spend more time looking after our cars, our clothes and our hair. Then we okay, maybe not her hair, but you see where I'm going. The result, of course, is that we get stressed. The mind whizzes away like a washing machine going round and round. Lots of difficult, confusing emotions, and we don't really kind of know how to deal with that. And the sad fact is that we are so distracted that we're no longer present in the world in which we live. We miss out on the things that are most important to Us. And the crazy thing is that everybody just assumes, well, that's the way life is. So we just kind of got to get on with it. That's really not how it has to be. So I was about 11 when I went along to my first meditation class. And trust me, it had all the stereotypes that you can imagine sitting cross legged on the floor. The incense, the herbal tea, the vegetarians, the whole deal. But my mom was going and I was intrigued, so I went along with her. I'd also seen a few kung fu movies, and secretly I kind of thought I might be able to learn how to fly. But I was very young at the time. Now, as I was there, I guess, like a lot of people, I assumed that it was just an aspirin for the mind. You get stressed, you do some meditation. Hadn't really thought that it could be sort of preventative in nature until I was about 20, when a number of things happened in my life in quite a few quick succession, really serious things, which just flipped my life upside down. And all of a sudden I was inundated with thoughts, inundated with difficult emotions that I didn't know how to cope with. Every time I sort of pushed one down, another one would just sort of pop back up again. It was a really very stressful time. I guess we all deal with stress in different ways. Some people will bury themselves in work, grateful for the distraction. Others will turn to their friends, their family, looking for support. Some people hit the bottle, start taking medication. My own way of dealing with it was to become a monk. So I quit my degree, I headed off to the Himalayas, I became a monk and I started studying meditation. People often ask me what I learned from that time. Well, obviously it changed things. Let's face it, becoming a celibate monk is going to change a number of things. But it was more than that, you know, it taught me. It gave me a greater appreciation and understanding for the present moment. By that I mean not being lost in thought, not being distracted, not being overwhelmed by difficult emotions, but instead learning how to be in the here and now, how to be mindful, how to be present. I think the present moment is so underrated, it sounds so ordinary. And yet we spend so little time in the present moment that it's anything but ordinary. There was a research paper that came out of Harvard just recently that said on average, our minds are lost in thought almost 47% of the time. 47%. At the same time, this sort of constant mind wandering is also a direct cause of unhappiness now, we're not here for that long anyway, but to spend almost half of our life lost in thought and potentially quite unhappy. Don't know. It kind of seems tragic, actually, especially when there's something we can do about it. When there's a positive, practical, achievable, scientifically proven technique which allows our mind to be more healthy, to be more mindful and less distracted. And the beauty of it is that even though it kind of need only take about 10 minutes a day, it impacts our entire life. But we need to know how to do it. We need an exercise, we need a framework to learn how to be more mindful. That's essentially what meditation is. It's familiarizing ourselves with the present moment, but we also need to know how to approach it in the right way to get the best from it. And that's what these are for. In case you've been wondering.

A (9:15)

Hey, it's Elise jumping in quickly. Throughout the talk, Andy has actually been holding three red juggling balls. At this point in the talk, he starts to juggle with them occasionally while speaking, to visually demonstrate different emotions one may experience.

B (9:30)

Because most people assume that meditation is all about sort of stopping thoughts, getting rid of emotions, somehow controlling the mind. But actually it's quite different from that. It's more about sort of stepping back, sort of seeing the thought clearly, witnessing it coming and going, emotions coming and going without judgment, but with a relaxed, focused mind. So, for example, right now, if I focus too much on the balls, then there's no way that I can relax and talk to you at the same time. Equally, if I relax too much talking to you, then. Then there's no way I can focus on the balls. I'm going to drop them. Now. In life and in meditation, there'll be times when the focus becomes a little bit too intense and life starts to feel a bit like this. It's a very uncomfortable way to live life when we get this tight and stressed. At other times, we might take our foot off the gas a little bit too much and things just become a bit like this. Of course, in meditation, we can end up falling asleep, so we're looking for a balance of focused relaxation where we can allow thoughts to come and go without all the usual involvement. Now, what usually happens when we're learning to be mindful is that we get distracted by a thought. Let's say this is an anxious thought, so everything's going fine, and then we see the anxious thought and it's like, oh, didn't realize I was worried about that. You go back to it, repeat it. Oh, I am worried. Oh, I really am worried. Wow. There's so much anxiety. And before we know it, right, we're anxious about feeling anxious. This is crazy. We do this all the time, even on an everyday kind of level. If you think about the last time, I don't know, you had a wobbly tooth. You know it's wobbly and you know that it hurts. But what do you do every 20, 30 seconds? Oh, yeah, it does hurt. And we reinforce the storyline, right? And we just keep telling ourselves, and we do it all the time. And it's only in learning to watch the mind in this way that we can start to let go of those storylines and patterns of mind. But when you sit down and you watch the mind in this way, you might see many different patterns. You might find a mind that's really sort of restless. And the whole time, you know, don't be surprised if you feel a bit agitated in your body when you sit down to do nothing and your mind feels like that, you might find a mind that's very sort of dull and boring and it's just almost mechanical. It just sort of seems as if you're just getting up, going to work, eat, sleep, get up. Or it might just be that one little nagging thought that just goes round and round and round. Your mind, whatever it is, meditation offers the opportunity, the potential to step back and to get a different perspective, to see that things aren't always as they appear. We can't change every little thing that happens to us in life, but we can change the way that we experience it. That's the potential of meditation, of mindfulness. You don't have to burn any incense and you definitely don't have to sit on the floor. All you need to do is to take 10 minutes out a day to step back, to familiarize yourself with the present moment so that you get to experience a greater sense of focus, calm and clarity in your life. Thank you very much.

A (13:06)

That was Andy Puddicombe at TED Salon London in 2012. This talk was originally posted in January of 2013. If you're curious about Ted's curation, find out more@ted.com curationguidelines and that's it for today. TED Talks Daily is part of the TED Audio Collective. This episode was produced and edited by our team, Martha Estefanos, Oliver Friedman, Brian Greene, Lucy Little and Tanzika Sangmarnivang. This episode was mixed by Lucy Little. Additional support from Emma Tobner and Daniela Ballaraizo. I'M Elise Hunter. I'll be back tomorrow with a fresh idea for your feet. Thanks for listening.

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