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Episode: Are you spending your money wisely? | Wolfgang Schnellbacher

Date: January 26, 2026
Speaker: Wolfgang Schnellbacher (Procurement Expert, BCG)
Location/Talk: TEDCG Dubai, 2025

Overview

In this thought-provoking TED Talk, procurement expert Wolfgang Schnellbacher asks a deceptively simple question: Are you spending your money wisely? Drawing from his extensive experience advising elite corporate buyers at leading multinational companies, Schnellbacher reframes everyday spending as a strategic, high-impact skill accessible to everyone—not just professionals.
He breaks down corporate purchasing techniques into three actionable rules that anyone can use to make smarter, more intentional decisions with their money.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Redefining "Good Buying"

• Opening Challenge: Schnellbacher begins by posing two questions to the audience:
  • "How much money did you spend in your entire life so far?"
  • "Did you spend your money wisely?"
    ([03:17])
  • "If you hesitate now and are not so sure, it likely means you're not a good buyer, frankly, because you have not even defined for yourself what good buying truly is."
• Perspective Shift: The speaker notes that while we make purchases daily, few have actually defined personal standards for "good buying."

2. The Power of Corporate Procurement Skills in Everyday Life

• Professional Inspiration: Drawing parallels from elite procurement teams working with everything from steel to salmon, Schnellbacher assures listeners:
  • "If you learn from their combined knowledge... you will be a good buyer for the rest of your life. And on top, it’s easy. It only boils down to three rules these companies do." ([05:19])

The Three Rules of Wise Spending

Rule 1: Prioritize on What Really Matters

• Beyond Simplicity: It’s not just about prioritizing what matters—it's about what matters for you and your group.
  • "In every company, in almost every household, there's a few players. And even for yourself, you're oftentimes not so sure how to prioritize healthy food versus cheaper prices... more comfortable buying experience versus sustainable products?" ([05:48])
• Personalization Required: Priorities change over life stages—fun in early adulthood, quality for a family, comfort later on.
• Corporate Lesson: Elite buyers align on priorities within teams and make these visible. Individuals should do the same with themselves and their "allies" (family, friends).

Rule 2: Influence Your Allies

• Example—Buying a Car: Schnellbacher details a common pitfall:
  • The voices and enthusiasm of accompanying family members (children climbing into the car, spouse expressing desire) can undermine negotiation strength. ([07:12])
  • "You will for sure not buy it at a good price."
• Alignment is Key: In business, negotiation roles and communications are discussed in advance; the same should happen at home.
• The Inverting Method:
  • Creative group exercise: "What could we do to make this purchase cost us more?"
  • By inverting the problem (listing how to overspend), they uncover hidden saving opportunities.
  • "Once you've listed all these things and then turn it around, then you really come close to what's an optimum." ([09:50])
• Memorable Anecdote: Professional buyers brainstormed outrageous ways to overspend, revealing possibilities for optimization they had overlooked.

Rule 3: Negotiate from Strong Starting Positions

• Preparation Over Aggression: Good negotiation isn’t about being forceful; it’s about having alternatives and not being under time pressure.
  • "People might think strong negotiations have something to do with strong arming somebody, with being mean... The opposite is true." ([10:53])
• Building Alternatives: Identify or create genuine alternatives (different suppliers, different products, or even the choice not to buy).
• Extreme Corporate Example:
  • “In 1519, Hernando Cortes... dismantled and partly sunk his ships just to make a point. We will not go back now.”
    • While an extreme, the lesson is to sometimes remove fallback options to gain negotiation strength.
• Personal Example—Buying a House:
  • A couple had two options; the seller of the preferred house delayed, hoping for more money.
  • The wife booked a notary for the alternative, signaling genuine intent to walk away. The original seller quickly relented and offered them the house.
    • “Only then, when it became serious, the owner of house number one gave in. There was no yelling needed, no bluffing.” ([11:37])

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Self-Awareness:
  • "If you hesitate now... it likely means you're not a good buyer, frankly, because you have not even defined for yourself what good buying truly is." ([03:34])
• On Aligning Priorities:
  • "You don't have to follow a predefined set of rules. It's just for yourself and your loved ones." ([06:42])
• On Negotiation:
  • "The opposite [of strong-arming] is true. It starts way before and it has a lot to do with the alternatives you build." ([10:53])
• On Fun and Creativity:
  • "To me, the inverting method is also a great reminder. Good buying can be fun and good buying can be creative." ([09:54])
• On the Cost of Life:
  • "Whatever you have spent in your life is gone. Whatever you will spend next, think about these three rules and you will spend your money wisely." ([12:33])

Timestamps of Important Segments

• [03:17] – Opening challenge to the audience on total lifetime spending and self-assessment of spending wisdom
• [05:19] – Introduction of corporate procurement lessons for individuals
• [05:48] – Deep dive into prioritization and personal values
• [07:12] – "Influence your allies" and car dealership anecdote
• [08:46] – The "Inverting Method" for creative problem-solving in purchasing
• [10:53] – Redefining strong negotiation and importance of alternatives
• [11:37] – House-buying anecdote illustrating negotiation from strength
• [12:33] – Closing call to apply the three rules to future spending

Conclusion – Final Wisdom

Wolfgang Schnellbacher's talk reframes our everyday spending as a skill—one with the potential to greatly improve our lives if approached thoughtfully. By applying procurement professionals’ three rules—clarifying priorities, influencing allies, and always building negotiation strength—anyone can transform their financial decision-making for the better.

"Whatever you will spend next, think about these three rules and you will spend your money wisely." ([12:33])

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