Omar Zenhom (6:14)

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Switch upfront payment of $45 for 3 month plan equivalent to $15 per month required intro rate first 3 months only, then full price plan options available, taxes and fees extra. See full terms@mintmobile.com now one of the things that I like to do when it comes to somebody with low confidence is to have ground rules. People that lack confidence sometimes will talk negatively about themselves. So I always have a rule that says we don't talk negatively about anybody, including ourselves. So we don't talk about negatively about other people on the team, including ourselves. So if they ever kind of talk negatively, say, hey, we don't do that here. And sometimes they just do it out of habit or they feel bashful or they're embarrassed they screwed up, or maybe they're not really confident about the work they presented. So they preface it by saying, hey, I'm not that great. You can just stomp them. They're like, hey, we don't do that here is either going to be great or we're going to make it great. We're going to make it great. We're going to improve it. We don't talk negatively about anybody on our team. And when it's a rule, it forces them to follow that rule. They're like, okay, I can't do that anymore. This habit that I'm always used to kind of downplaying myself or talking negatively or dissing myself all the time, I can't do it here at this job. I keep getting caught. The point is, is that you got to stay consistent. You got to help them remind themselves not to do that. So anytime you see it, you have to catch it. The other thing is that you need to encourage other people to do the same. So when you're not around, they tell them, too. So when it happens, you can say, hey, guys, what do we do when that happens? Do we allow that? No, we don't allow that. Okay, somebody speak up. Say, hey, that's not allowed. Don't talk negatively by yourself or about anybody on our team. So you're training the rest of the team as well, to police it, right? To make sure that it's enforced. Next, you have an incredible advantage that you are working with them. We spend most of our weekly hours working. Okay, that means you spend more time with them than probably their significant other, their family members, whatever it might be. So regardless of the environment they're living in, maybe they're in a very negative, toxic environment at home. You actually have the advantage because you're spending more time with them. So you can overcome over time what's going on over there. If something like that is happening, they're in a negative situation. I know this for a fact because I've been working for over 23 years of my life, and I've seen all these different kinds of dynamics where people are incredibly happy and confident at work, but not so much at home. And it's because they can be themselves and they can be their best selves, and they're encouraged and they are kind of pumped up at Work. But at home, they either get none of that or they get worse. The opposite of that. But you actually can change a lot of people's habits because you're spending a tremendous amount of time, effort, energy with them every single day. Remember I said that it's good to establish a rule to say, hey, we don't talk negatively about everybody on our team or anybody on our team, including yourself. Well, I also encourage the opposite, where you establish a rule on your team who says, hey, we seek out opportunities to praise each other, to support each other, pump each other up, to give each other recognition. Whether it's your all hands meeting where you encourage your team leaders to give shout outs to their team members and praise them for their great work, or you make it a habit where you say, hey, everybody say something that they recognize. This week. That was amazing that somebody else did. Listen, we only have each other when it comes to our team. We gotta help each other out, we gotta make each other better. And even if it seems a little bit forced, it doesn't matter. It works. Just do it, guys. Right? And it's not hard to find something special, something interesting, something cool, something nice that somebody did in a whole week. For example, my executive assistant, Romina recently did her all hands. I can easily just say, hey, Romina, you did a nice job with the all hands. You did the icebreaker and you took care of some announcements. I think you do a fantastic job with that. We want you to do more of that. This is just a simple example. It takes two seconds and you don't have to do it all. As the business owner, you can easily tell your managers and say, hey, make sure this week you point out something great that somebody else did or encourage your team members to do that with each other. I'm a big believer that people are not just born with confidence. Confidence is built, it's cultivated, it's protected. And you're gonna get people that have different levels of confidence. Your job is to nurture that confidence, to grow it, so that your team members can be the best versions of themselves, so that they can perform their best and get you the results you need in your business. What a great investment. Brad, thanks so much for asking today's Q and A Wednesday's question. If you got a question you want to ask, go ahead and email me over at omar@100mba.net and I'll make sure to answer it right here on Q and A Wednesday. That way I can help you out and help everybody else out that probably has the same question. Or will be faced with that challenge in the future in their business. If you love today's episode, if you love this podcast, the best way to pay me back is to share it. Go ahead and share with your friends on social. Send them over to100nba.net so they can subscribe to the podcast and follow along and join this community of ours, helping you build your business. Before I go, I want to leave you with this. Praise and building confidence can come in different forms, not just in words. A simple thumbs up, a high five, a fist bump, an applause, an emoji, whatever. The point here is, is that every little thing counts. Back when I was managing teachers, as the head of department, when I was in education, I was managing 30 teachers and it was kind of like a running joke that I was like the high five master. I was giving out high five like it was candy on Halloween. And people used to make jokes about it because I love to give people high fives. But guess what? They loved it. They smiled and it helped them. And I had a team that would do anything for me. They would run through a wall for me because I wanted to cultivate that kind of culture of, hey, we're in this together. I got your back. I'm going to praise you, help you. Let's make this happen. Pretty much any conversation, I ended with a high five. All right, let's do this high five. Boom. And maybe that came from my days playing basketball and team sports and all that kind of stuff, but find your thing. You know, it's okay if it's a little bit che cheesy or a little bit offbeat, as long as it's appropriate, right? And people are fine with it. Make it your thing. But the most important thing is to be consistent with it. Thanks so much for listening and I'll check you in Friday's episode. I'll see you then. Take care.