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Episode: MBA2718 - Why I Hate Online Business Gurus

Host: Omar Zenhom
Date: December 19, 2025

Episode Overview

In this candid and timely episode, Omar Zenhom takes aim at the culture of so-called "online business gurus." He deconstructs why the loud, bravado-filled, black-and-white advice dominating the internet is not only unhelpful, but potentially damaging for entrepreneurs seeking genuine progress. Omar contrasts real, nuanced teaching and his own approach, rooted in 20+ years of entrepreneurial and classroom experience, against the performance-based, shallow soundbites saturating social media. The episode offers practical guidelines for any business builder seeking honest, sustainable growth rather than hype.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Problem with Online Gurus

• Attention Economy Drives Extremes
  • Social media algorithms reward polarizing, loud content, leading gurus to shout, exaggerate, and offer absolute stances.
  • “Yelling gets clicks. Extreme takes really win online because it’s what gets people’s attention and attention sells ad dollars…” (02:45)
• Performative Nature of Advice
  • Many prominent figures don’t live as they appear online; Omar has met some and knows “they are putting on an act.” (07:19)
  • “They’re performing. And that’s what a lot of social media is. It’s a performance.” (07:50)

2. The Difference Between a Guru and a Teacher

• Omar’s Background & Approach
  • Omar emphasizes he’s a trained teacher with real classroom experience—10 years as a certified educator.
  • “I am not shouting on YouTube with no training or any kind of teaching experience. …I am somebody online that actually knows how to teach, was trained to become a teacher.” (05:57)
• What He Avoids Doing
  • Doesn’t frame everything as a must or binary.
  • Business isn’t “an extreme sport.” Instead, it’s a marathon. (06:41)
  • “Anyone giving you absolute advice without knowing who you are is not really teaching.” (07:16)

3. Lack of Empathy and Unrealistic Expectations

• Gurus Forget What Starting Out Feels Like
  • Many forget what it’s like to be broke, exhausted, overwhelmed, and starting from scratch.
  • “They say they were broke once, but they don’t actually remember and actually feel the feelings…” (12:00)
• Unreasonable Demands
  • Ridiculous advice like producing "500 pieces of content a week" ignores reality—those with massive teams pass this as if it’s solo work.
  • “When you’re starting out, you’re only one person. So that’s not feasible.” (14:39)

4. Dispelling the “One Hack Away” Myth

• Business Success Takes Time
  • Entrepreneurship is like becoming a doctor—requires years of study and practice, not overnight hacks. (16:29)
  • “The reason why I’m doing this episode is because I’m sick of this culture, because this culture is dangerous.” (15:51)
• Certainty Sells, But Uncertainty is Real
  • Gurus package “certainty” because it’s attention-grabbing, when true business growth is filled with uncertainty and learning as you go.
  • “In the real world, in real business, real information, real knowledge, uncertainty is normal.” (18:45)
  • “Anyone telling you they have the secret or the blueprint… they’re selling you a fantasy. Because there isn’t one.” (19:16)

5. What Actually Works: Practical, Actionable Guidance

• Embrace Fundamentals

  • Psychology, philosophy, finance, sales, and the “art of influence and negotiation” are core skills (21:06).
  • Mentions Robert Greene’s books (48 Laws of Power, Mastery, Laws of Human Nature) as business essentials.

• Ask Better Questions

  • Avoid binary thinking. Instead of "should I start a coaching business?" ask, “What business can I realistically build in the next 12 months, given my time, skills, and resources?” (23:30)
  • Use open-ended “what” and “who” questions to spark broader, more helpful thinking.

• Ignore Extremes, Seek Mechanics

  • Focus on instructions, steps, costs, opportunity costs, and conditions for success.
  • Look for “the steps for me to get to this destination… what are the conditions where this actually is successful?” (25:19)

• Listen to Teachers, Not Performers

  • Teachers “walk you through the steps, the how;” gurus just talk about “what to do” with no implementation guidance. (26:25)

• Focus on Your Life, Not Their Lifestyle

  • Build your business to suit your needs, not to impress the internet or mimic a guru. You live with the consequences, so align with your own values and circumstances. (27:05)

6. Encouragement for Authentic Business Building

• You Don't Have to Be Loud or Extreme
  • “You don’t need to be louder, you don’t need to be more extreme. …You do need, though, to be honest. You need to have a plan, a timeline, and the willingness to go through the real work…” (28:14)
• The Work is Behind the Scenes
  • Real success comes from work “behind closed doors,” not what's projected online.
  • Omar commits to sharing more of that real, unglamorous work in the future.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Social Media Extremes:

  • “Yelling gets clicks. Extreme takes really win online because it’s what gets people’s attention and attention sells ad dollars…” (02:45)

• On His Own Teaching:

  • “I am not shouting on YouTube with no training or any kind of teaching experience. …I am somebody online that actually knows how to teach, was trained to become a teacher.” (05:57)

• On Unrealistic Guru Advice:

  • “Many of these gurus are telling you you gotta produce 500 pieces of content… That is super ridiculous… They have teams of 30, 40, 50 people…” (14:00)

• Real Business Takes Time:

  • “So, say, for example, you want to be a successful doctor… it takes about 10, 12, 15 years… The same goes with entrepreneurship.” (16:38)

• The Fantasy of Shortcuts:

  • “Anyone telling you they have the secret or the blueprint… they’re selling you a fantasy. Because there isn’t one.” (19:16)

• On Smarter Questions:

  • “A better question is, given my time, my skills, my resources and life commitments, what business can I realistically build in the next 12 months?” (23:45)

• Practicality over Hype:

  • “You don’t need to be louder, you don’t need to be more extreme… You do need, though, to be honest. You need to have a plan, a timeline, and the willingness to go through the real work…” (28:14)

• Real Success:

  • “The Internet is full of people pretending that business is a magic trick. But you and I, we build things, we think, we adapt, we grow. We don’t need to shout to be effective.” (29:42)

Important Timestamps

• 01:50–04:00 – Introduction to the problem with online business gurus
• 05:45–07:45 – Omar’s teaching background and approach
• 12:00–15:50 – How “gurus” forget the realities of starting from nothing
• 15:51–19:15 – Dismantling the “one hack away” myth and the value of patience
• 21:06–21:55 – The importance of grasping business fundamentals
• 23:30–25:20 – Asking better, non-binary questions
• 26:25–28:14 – Learning from teachers, not performers; fitting business to your life
• 29:42 – Parting thoughts on authenticity, hard work, and ignoring the noise

Final Takeaways

Omar implores listeners to step off the hype train and into the reality of lasting business success:

• Ignore the “guru” noise and polarization.
• Focus on timeless fundamentals, asking intelligent questions, and building skills.
• Find honest teachers, not flashy performers.
• Build a business and life true to yourself and your circumstances.
• Remember: “We don’t need to shout to be effective. We don’t need to be polarizing to be honest.” (29:42)

For those seeking practical, real-world business lessons, this episode is an antidote to the noise and a call to remain patient, humble, and committed to their own authentic path.