How Aria Luxe Life Is Transforming Intimacy, Connection, and Relationship Wellness with Dr. Amy and Roy Clark

Summary

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Podcast Summary: How Aria Luxe Life Is Transforming Intimacy, Connection, and Relationship Wellness

Podcast: The Amazing Authorities Podcast
Host: Mitch Carson
Guests: Dr. Amy and Roy Clark
Date: December 3, 2025

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Episode Overview

This engaging episode features Dr. Amy and Roy Clark, the married founders of Aria Luxe Life. Host Mitch Carson delves into their unique journey from therapist-client connection to business partners, exploring how their luxury personal lubricant and intimacy model are changing conversations (and realities) around marital connection, sex, and relationship wellness. The Clarks share their insights as therapists, business coaches, and authors, discussing their “Four Intimacies” framework and how their product is about so much more than physical intimacy.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Clarks’ Unconventional Origin Story

• How They Met:
  • Dr. Amy, a therapist in Naples, FL, originally met Roy through counseling his son. Roy offered to help her grow her new practice as a business coach ([01:10]).
  • Their business collaboration turned into a personal relationship:

    "I thought she was... 30 years old and, you know, didn't need to think about anything there... And now the rest is history." – Roy ([01:36])

2. Diverse Backgrounds & Shared Mission

• Dr. Amy: Doctorate in Christian counseling ([02:20])
• Roy: Business coach & former pastor ([02:54])
• Both now focus on couples and relationship coaching, blending their distinct professional experiences.

3. The Aria Luxe Life Product—More than Lubricant

• Product Introduction:
  • The Clarks present their premium, luxury personal lubricant, packaged in a bottle designed to look beautiful on a nightstand ([03:27]).
  • Each product box comes with a "conversation card" guiding couples through the Four Intimacies: verbal, emotional, physical, and spiritual ([03:27]).

“We wanted to create something that people could keep on their nightstand that would remind them of how beautiful their intimate life could be.” – Roy ([03:27])

4. The Four Intimacies Framework

In Relationships:

• Verbal: Getting on the same page
• Emotional: Unlocks connection
• Physical: Follows emotional connection
• Spiritual: Pursuing something bigger together ([03:27])

Roy draws parallels between intimacy in relationships and connection in business, substituting “behavioral” for “physical” in work settings.

In Practice:

• Dr. Amy observes, “Women are always telling me, ‘I just want to feel adored... But he only talks to me five minutes before he wants sex.’”
  • The product and the framework encourage couples to connect emotionally before physical intimacy ([04:43]).

5. The Product’s Purpose and Reception

• Intentionality:

  • The high-end design makes it a “visual love note” to prompt intentionality around intimacy ([08:43]).

• Market Reach:

  • Global sales—five countries and counting, including the US, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, and Prague ([06:16]). Roy jokes, “We're a hit in Prague.” – ([06:16])

• Positioning:

  • The Clarks position it as the "Rolls Royce of lubricants," with premium pricing and experience ([14:45]).

6. Addressing Taboos and Myths

• Tackling misconceptions: lubricant isn’t just for menopausal women—it enhances pleasure and connection for all ages ([08:43]).

• Making it normal to talk about:
  Dr. Amy recounts sharing her profession at a party and the common discomfort or surprise:

  “‘I own a lubricant company.’ Second fastest way to drive people away!” – Dr. Amy ([12:23])

• Lubricant as an indulgence, not a medical aid:

  “Do you want to get a massage with massage oil or without?... You can still get a massage without, but it feels a lot better sliding.” – Dr. Amy ([13:20])

7. Deeper Relationship Guidance

• The Clark’s book, Unlocking the Love You Desire, walks couples through these frameworks in detail ([26:45]). Available on Amazon, Kindle, and Audible—with a quirky cameo from their daughter at the end ([27:09]).

8. Inclusivity, Diversity, and Endorsements

• While coming from a Christian background, the Clarks emphasize openness:
  • “We have our beliefs... but we're not closed off to the way other people live...” – Dr. Amy ([19:59])
  • All relationship types and orientations welcomed, as shown during their outreach to adult stores and various communities ([22:09]).

9. Celebrity Endorsements & Marketing

• Discussion of potential endorsements from adult stars to broaden the appeal ([18:21]-[20:59])
  • Roy: “It's for everybody.” ([19:59])
  • Mitch suggests a celebrity endorsement could “open the floodgates”—and Roy welcomes both Britney Andrews and (jokingly) Jordan Peterson ([19:55]-[20:59]).

10. Real-World Impact & Testimonials

• First in-person sale story: Even those outside their traditional demographic immediately recognized the value in fostering connection ([21:57]).
• Shared listener testimonials and conversations around perceived value:
  • “I valued you so much I bought the Rolls Royce of lubricants.” – Mitch ([14:54])
  • Having the best is a gesture of care, not just practicality.

11. Gender Differences, Communication, and Practical Advice

• Roy admits: “I'm working for sex on Friday. It's Wednesday and I'm planning out... because I want to make love on Friday.” ([23:33])

• Emotional security, not just physical safety, is key for women ([23:33]).

  “Guys are like, security, like I'm not going to hurt you or I lock the front door. It's like, no, we're talking about emotional security.” – Dr. Amy ([23:33])

• Practical “intimacy cards” as prompts for real conversation—e.g., “What’s something I say that makes you feel loved and adored?” ([17:06])

12. Humor and Relatable Moments

• Bottled lubricant designed to avoid awkward interruptions:

  • “It pumps.” – Roy ([15:21])
  • “You just want more sex.”
    “No, baby. I want to ask you these questions and connect with you.” ([16:49])

• Light teasing about teens and embarrassment:

  • “If you listen to the very end (of the audiobook), you’re going to hear something that sounds like this. Oh, yeah.” – Roy ([27:19])

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Building Connection:

  "Each [intimacy] unlocks the next one. Verbal unlocks emotional, emotional unlocks physical." – Roy Clark ([03:27])

• On Product Philosophy:

  “It’s the most expensive lubricant on the market, but it’s a gift, and it’s worth it.” – Dr. Amy Clark ([14:45]) “It’s more than lubricant... It’s the experience.” – Roy Clark ([14:53])

• On Value:

  “I valued you so much that I bought the Rolls Royce of lubricants.” – Mitch Carson ([14:54])

• On Emotional Labor in Relationships:

  “Vacuum the carpet. That’s what the wives would say. Take something off my plate for me so I have some more energy for you.” – Dr. Amy Clark ([25:51])

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Timestamps of Key Segments

• [01:10] – How Dr. Amy and Roy met and started working together
• [03:27] – Introduction to Aria Luxe Life and Four Intimacies model
• [04:43] – The intentional design: conversation cards and gift boxing
• [08:43] – Addressing intimacy issues, myths about lubricant usage
• [14:45] – Product value, premium positioning, and customer experience
• [17:06] – Example from intimacy conversation cards
• [18:21] - [20:59] – Celebrity endorsements and expanding the market
• [21:57] – First sale story in adult store, inclusivity message
• [23:33] – Gender differences, emotional connection, communication techniques
• [26:45] – Book availability and family moments in the audiobook
• [27:19] – Humorous ending and embarrassing their daughter on Audible

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Conclusion

Dr. Amy and Roy Clark combine expertise, humor, and lived experience to address physical and emotional intimacy in relationships. Their luxury product, conversation tools, and inclusive framework offer couples a roadmap to deeper connection—not just better sex, but a stronger, more resilient partnership.
Their core message: approachable, intentional intimacy is available to everyone—and with the right tools and mindset, relationship wellness can truly be luxurious.

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Transcript

[Mitch Carson]

Welcome to the Amazing Authorities podcast where game changers, visionaries and category leaders share how they built their brands, platforms and global influence. Your host is Mitch Carson, international speaker, media strategist, and creator of the Instant Authority system. If you're ready to learn from those who've done it and want to become the go to expert in your space, you're in the right place.

Today's guests are going to throw you for a loop. We've had a little bit of conversation before. Yes, they're smiling. We've got Dr. Amy and Roy Clark here today. And you see, let's just jump right in because this is so interesting and different. What we would call atypical from the guests that I've had on yesterday, we'll have on later today, but let's go ahead and introduced. They're a married couple and they met through an interesting method. And I'll start because ladies first with Dr. Amy.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

So how we met is what?

[Mitch Carson]

Yes.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Okay. So I have a private practice in Naples, Florida where I work with marriages and families and individuals. And I met Roy because I was counseling his son and I had just opened my practice and he was a very established business coach and he offered to help me grow my business as I was helping his son. And yeah, the rest is history.

[Roy Clark]

That's right. So she said, you know, we built a relationship. She's, she actually wrapped up the counseling with my son. And I said, well, you know, I'd love to continue helping grow your business. I thought she was, you know, 30 years old and, you know, didn't need to think about anything there. And then she said, well, you know, we should work together. And I thought, you crazy, we're never getting work done. But by the way, how old are you? And she told me her age and I was like, oh my, there's an option here. Okay, so let's take a look at that. And now the rest is history.

[Mitch Carson]

Now the rest is history. And I want to press on and then we'll move from it. But Dr. Amy, what is your PhD in?

[Dr. Amy Clark]

It's a doctorate in Christian counseling.

[Mitch Carson]

Okay. And, and all right, so the two of you, and you're also a business coach, Roy. So the two of you counsel others, you teach others and guide them, your coaches with, with large, different types. I mean, that's the core of it. Yet right in between you, we've got this Christian counseling PhD, we've got very clean cut, conservative looking business coach on the other side of this. Former pastor.

[Roy Clark]

Former pastor.

[Mitch Carson]

You're a pastor?

[Roy Clark]

Oh my gosh former pastor, 10 years.

[Mitch Carson]

Even becoming more interesting. All right, between the two of you, and I'm sure you've never heard of this, this Ken and Barbie couple. How many times have you heard that? This week. And in between the two of you is this large crystal bottle. Looks like a gigantic bottle of cologne or perfume or UDA toilet. But not now. Here's where we're going to shock the viewers. Tell us what it is and the. And its origins.

[Roy Clark]

Right, so this is our luxury personal lubricant. So we focus on marriage and family. Right. We work with couples all around the world, and the primary issue that we deal with is intimacy. But it's not just sex. We wrote a book called the Four Intimacies, which are verbal, emotional, physical, and spiritual. And we believe that each one unlocks the next one. Now, for business people, it's somewhat the same, except it's verbal, emotional, and behavioral, and then spiritual, which would also be vision. So think pursuing something that's bigger than yourself, but each one unlocks the next one. So verbal getting on the same page. That's what intimacy is, is getting on the same page. Verbal unlocks emotional, Emotional unlocks physical. Well, we wanted to create something that people could keep on their nightstand that would remind them of how beautiful their intimate life could be. But then in each box, we also have a conversation card. And that conversation card walks people through the four intimacies.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

So it comes in a gift box. And the idea is to be very intentional. Women are always telling me, I just want to feel adored. I want to feel cherished. But he only talks to me five minutes before he wants sex. And so we wanted to create a product that would actually have the couple sit down, take the time, connect emotionally, and then lead to some wonderful, wonderful physical intimacy.

[Mitch Carson]

And this assists in that intimacy?

[Roy Clark]

Absolutely. Yeah. It's a premium silicone lubricant. It lasts longer than anything else on the market that we've tested and tried. And we tested it and tried a lot. It's beautiful. It's my favorite part.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Right.

[Roy Clark]

So we're coming up with new product every day. No, I'm just kidding.

[Mitch Carson]

And how long have you had this company?

[Roy Clark]

So we launched about. So the product came stateside in February, and we launched about a year before that. It took about a year to kind of put everything together to design the bottle, the packaging, come up with the branding, the lubricant itself, and. Yeah. And so late February, early March, we launched.

[Mitch Carson]

And how are sales going?

[Roy Clark]

Good, Real good. A lot of repeat customers. We're Global. Right. Which only means that we've sold in Canada and Australia and New Zealand.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

And Prague.

[Roy Clark]

And Prague. Yeah, we're a hit in Prague.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Yeah.

[Mitch Carson]

That's five countries according to Mike.

[Roy Clark]

Exactly. Exactly. So, yeah, it's been good.

[Mitch Carson]

Instruction manual.

[Roy Clark]

No, you have to call for that. You know, you call us, you need.

[Mitch Carson]

That kind of help.

[Roy Clark]

And you should be setting up an appointment with Dr. Amy and I.

[Mitch Carson]

Okay, well, I just didn't know if there was a video tutorial of how to apply it and use all the these.

[Roy Clark]

There's plenty of videos out there. I'm not sure.

[Mitch Carson]

And where can people find this? I would imagine you mail it. So it's E commerce. And there's a website for it.

[Roy Clark]

E commerce. Aria A R I A Lux, L U X elife.com. aria, Lux Life.

[Mitch Carson]

Aria. I spelled that once.

[Roy Clark]

Aria A R I A Lux, L U X E. Life L I F e. Aria life.com.

[Mitch Carson]

All right, so then there's the Aria Hotel for reference in Las Vegas.

[Roy Clark]

Exactly.

[Mitch Carson]

Yeah, I know that because I lived in Las Vegas for five years.

[Roy Clark]

Oh, very cool. Did you like it?

[Mitch Carson]

I. You know what, I'm from la. Originally. I lived. I moved there because of the pandemic. As I mentioned earlier, I spent my time overseas. I had left the US in 2010, was living in. In Bangkok and then had to return because State department issued a repatriation notice or recommend go get vaccinated. So I went back. I decided I'm not going to go back and pay California taxes. And the only contact I had was Las Vegas to get in a hotel that was one hotel was open for people and I had to repatriate. I had no car, no current license and it was a welcoming city. And I had only been there as a tourist slash speaker going to events to the Strip. So living outside of the Strip was eye opening. And I have nothing but positive comments about Las Vegas.

[Roy Clark]

Beautiful people. Beautiful people.

[Mitch Carson]

And it's. And it's a transient city. Unique, special, and a great place to advertise that type of product, by the way. Hint, hint. And worthy of media. Hint, hint, hint. I think that's a talking point. Now in your book, how does that integrate or how does that connect to this particular product?

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Well, so working with couples every week we hear the same stories. Like we just forget to schedule time for intimacy. We don't think about it. I don't know, it's not long enough. It doesn't feel good enough. And so when you. A lot of people aren't not educated about Lubricant they think it's for women that are in menopause that need it. And it's really about extended pleasure. And it's an indulgence. It leaves your skin feeling so silky and you touch longer with it. And then we designed the bottle so that it could sit out on your nightstand. So when you see it every day, it's that visual love note, and it reminds you to schedule time for intimacy.

[Mitch Carson]

And.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

And then we work with a lot of people that have kids and they're like, oh, my gosh, I forgot to put the lube away. And my son asked me what beaver butter was. Or, you know, just like, yeah.

[Mitch Carson]

Yeah. Their parents are still fornicating. Oh, my God. I have a question for you, and this is a curiosity question, and I think it might be one of your FAQs for the product. If a woman is not lubed down there, this answers that need, correct?

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Absolutely.

[Mitch Carson]

Is it because she is not excited about her partner or. There are other factors.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

There's a lot of factors, so. Like perimenopause and menopause. That's just part of that time period in our life where your body's stuck, stops making the natural lubrication. And then sometimes, yeah, it's an emotional disconnect. So if a woman, A woman needs to feel safe and safe and secure in order to climax. And so that's usually done through good conversation and connecting emotionally, which is two of the main topics that we talk about in our book. So.

[Mitch Carson]

So in the book it covers that because there is a. A curiosity of where, okay, I was married before. I'm going to go ahead and just share a person. I don't care at this point. I'm 65. I'm open. Well, who's going to, you know, I'm not going to get tarred and feathered. I live overseas. But I just remember I was married one time. I'm. I'm not married anymore. And my then wife, who's now my ex wife, was going through that change where she was a little bit older than me. So it was a. A time where she had to undergo a lot of these supplements in order to fill that up. And it seemed like overnight that changed where the natural lubrication stopped. Yeah. And I thought, okay, maybe she's just not attracting me because I'm not as physically fit as I was when I met her. Or was it because of that physical change that she was going through?

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Yeah, it was probably primarily the physical change, but it's something that people don't Talk about. And so it would be very easy for the husband to sit there and think, oh gosh, like get in their own head of, is she not attracted to me? And then pull away. And then the wife. I mean, women literally are like, I'm losing my mind, my body is broken. I don't know what's going on. It starts happening so fast and there is help for it. So any women listening, I highly recommend getting your hormones checked and getting those back in balance and you feel human again. And so even though I am doing hormone replacement therapy, I still choose to use the lubricant just because it. We make love often. And so just with that frequency, it just keeps everything from hurting. And so. And it just, it feels better. Like I was at this dinner party and this one woman, she was so funny. She comes over, she was just appalled when she asked what I do. And usually I say therapist. And everybody runs like, it's the fastest way to like get away from people at a party. Just tell them you're a therapist. And then so I was like, oh, I'm not gonna say that this time. I'm gonna say that I own a lubricant company. Second fastest way to like drive people away. And so she says to me, she's 80 years old. She goes, I don't need lubricant. And I was like, it's not a.

[Mitch Carson]

Matter of need, right? Yeah.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

And I was like, that's great. But it's like, do you want to get a massage with massage oil or without? Like, you don't. You can still get a massage without the oil, but it feels a lot better with sliding.

[Mitch Carson]

Yes, yes, yes. Things. Yeah, the hands slide better. That's, that's true. Now what kind of results have people had using your, your product? Well, I mean, I would imagine if you have. Well, the best result, I would say is when someone buys again. The reorder.

[Roy Clark]

Exactly. Yeah.

[Mitch Carson]

That means they're active or they're using it as lubricant for their car.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Right. We don't care.

[Roy Clark]

However you want to use it.

[Mitch Carson]

Those wheel bearings. Yeah, that's it.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

We hear people say, wow, it's great because there's no break in the action. It's right there. I can just grab it. Just easy to use. And then there's not a need for reapplication. So it lasts a long time. And then the woman feels really like special, like, wow, you bought the best for me. It's like your husband going to, ah, CVS and buying this. 799 dollar lube. Or like ours is 69, pun intended. And yeah.

[Roy Clark]

Yeah.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

It's the most expensive lubricant on the market, but it's a gift, and it's worth it.

[Roy Clark]

And it's more than lubricant.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Yeah.

[Roy Clark]

Right.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

It's the experience.

[Mitch Carson]

It's bottled accordingly. But I want to touch on something that just had this light bulb moment. We've. I valued you so much that I bought the Rolls Royce of lubricant. I value so much that I put your diamond ring, even though it's four times the price, it should be in a Tiffany box. I value so much that it has a misting spray. I don't know what to kind of. How does you. How do you dispense it?

[Roy Clark]

It pumps.

[Mitch Carson]

Okay. It's pumped out, as opposed to squeezing it from a tube and slapping it on like you're a hog. Okay. Right.

[Roy Clark]

Exactly.

[Mitch Carson]

Yeah.

[Roy Clark]

The other thing that you can do, you know, Amy said that there's no interruption. Right. So as we're in the midst of foreplay, I can reach over, grab the bottle with one hand. I can pop the. The glass cap off and then pump and throw it on the bed because it doesn't leak. That was the other thing that we wanted to.

[Mitch Carson]

So that's another benefit. It just. Yeah. Instead of this squeeze bottle, which we. We equate with lubricant. Yeah. Just be here, honey, rub this on. I'm coming, I'm coming. I'm ready. Okay. Missile Mike is on his way. You know.

[Roy Clark]

Exactly. Yeah.

[Mitch Carson]

Oh, and this is the. I value you. That in itself will cause a natural flow, and this will augment the effort.

[Roy Clark]

Right.

[Mitch Carson]

My marketing mind is going. I. I started out as a copywriter years ago, so I'm thinking, oh, yeah. Benefit, benefit, benefit. Yeah.

[Roy Clark]

And use your help.

[Mitch Carson]

I value you. I value you. That's why I bought the best.

[Roy Clark]

Yeah.

[Mitch Carson]

This is Rolls Royce. There is no. There's only one Rolls Royce. There's only one Tiffany.

[Roy Clark]

Yeah.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Right.

[Roy Clark]

And then when she opens the box and goes, you just want more sex. Then. Then he says, no, no, no, baby.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

I want to ask you these questions and connect with you.

[Roy Clark]

And then she's like, you want to what? You want to talk? Yeah, baby. So what's the first question?

[Mitch Carson]

Yeah, I want to. I want to hear this.

[Roy Clark]

Yeah.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

What's something that I say that makes you feel loved and adored?

[Mitch Carson]

Okay, that's great. Oh, this is whole. This is an intimacy solution. An intimacy solution? A program. It's a road map to marital success.

[Roy Clark]

Yeah.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Right.

[Mitch Carson]

Intimate divorce. Anti divorce. Anti divorce. Yeah. Yeah. It's the smooth way to save a marriage without abrasion, so.

[Roy Clark]

Exactly. You're on fire. I love it. I love it.

[Mitch Carson]

Oh, my God. I live in Thailand. I'm surrounded. I. I happen to live in a city that. This would be an unbelievable testimonial from. I know your market is couples and people of that caliber, but I. Have you ever considered I may be going a little bit off track of having a adult star endorse this?

[Dr. Amy Clark]

We've had a few that absolutely been obsessed with that. Like, oh, my gosh. Like, are you kidding me? Because it just, like, everyone does the double take. They're like, oh, it's perfume. And they were like, no, it's lubricant. And then their mind takes a minute to catch up with that. And so, yeah, we've had a few people.

[Mitch Carson]

I. I have a client in Las Vegas, came to my event on chat GPT. I. I created the very first chat GPT seminar in the world. We had 563 attendees. It was. It was February 6th of 2023 in Las Vegas, the South Point Hotel. One of my attendees, unbeknownst to me, until I saw her stand up and, like, had this wow effect because everything was popping. Everywhere was Brittany Andrews. And. Okay, she is one of the biggest porn stars in the world with a huge. Yeah. And a businesswoman. I'll make the intro if you'd like, because she. She's got a huge amount of followers. A look around, you'll see that she's a smart, smart lady.

[Roy Clark]

Beautiful.

[Mitch Carson]

An alignment there because she's in the category a bit different. Look at how to market this other than couples. But if you get the endorsement from somebody who's got millions and millions of followers, scotter only, etc. Although that may not be in alignment with your. Your religious values. Yeah, it's a business, right?

[Roy Clark]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

No, it's for everybody and.

[Mitch Carson]

Right.

[Roy Clark]

It is for everybody.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Like, we have our beliefs and how, like, we practice with each other and then. But we're not closed off to the way other people live and how they make their living, so they make their choices.

[Mitch Carson]

And, you know, that could be a whole different discussion about morality and what have you, but the reality is we have no control over that. It's one of the oldest professions. And she is somebody who'd be a businesswoman. She's older, she's not a kid. She's about 50, I think, yet beautiful. If you look her up, you'll see that talk a little bit Offline, if you want me to make the introduction. But I think for your. I. I'm. My marketing mind goes there. It's like with that celebrity endorsement, the floodgates could open. Yeah. In a different way. Well, gosh, if Brittany Andrews uses this, then it must be good. Have a celebrity endorsement, I mean. And I don't think it would come from Jordan Peterson. You know, he would.

[Roy Clark]

If you could introduce us, Jordan, that'd be great, too. But, you know, we visited 35 adult stores in three days. Once we received the bottles, we went over to the East Coast, Miami, Fort Lauderdale, 35 stores. And we said, whoever's on the other side of that door, for us, our belief is a child of God, and we're going to value them as much as we would value anybody else. Why wouldn't we? And we went in, and there's this young man, 28 years old. Did not look like Ken and Barbie. Right. Pierced tattoos, blue hair, the whole thing. It was awesome. We love him. And we're talking about the box, and we show him the card, and he looks at us and he says, I think my girlfriend and I could really use that. And I'm in there, you know, I'm selling cases. I'm looking for the manager, and you know, Dr. Amy, she's like, honey, he would like to buy one.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

He wants to buy one.

[Roy Clark]

And I'm like, yeah, okay, well, you know, you can get a case. And she's like, honey, no, no, no, no. He's. And he's almost in tears. He goes, no, I think this would really help. My girlfriend and I, we need to.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Talk, and I want to reconnect with her. And he was like, this is like the perfect way to do that. And so that was our first.

[Roy Clark]

Absolutely.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Our first sale.

[Roy Clark]

You can have a discount. We'll sell it to you wholesale. And, you know, it was just this great reminder that no matter where you come from, no matter who you are, we have a ton of gay friends. We have hetero friends. We've got poly friends. I mean, everybody. This is the same for everyone. We long to communicate with others. We long for others to embrace with us emotionally. We long for physical intimacy. And I think we all know that there is something bigger than us. That's what walks us through that. Yeah.

[Mitch Carson]

Why? Okay, Dr. Amy, I'm going to ask you this question. Will this bridge the gap of time? Because why, when people are intimate and they fornicate, a man typically can reach orgasm quicker. That seems to be the old age, old complaint. Well, he didn't wait, he was no good. Because a couple minutes and he was done, rolled over and that was it. Will this bridge that gap of time? Will that bring women because women are charged emotionally or mentally in some way, will that tighten the difference?

[Dr. Amy Clark]

I believe so. And like our four intimacies framework is about the conversation. Conversation and connecting emotionally ahead of time. Like Roy jokes and says guys, I'm like working for sex on Friday. Okay. Like it's Wednesday and I'm planning out like I'm treating my wife well today because I want to make love on Friday. He said, you don't do it fun five minutes before you want to make love. It's just nurturing the relationship. And when the wife feel in our book in the physical intimacy chapter, we talk about their security and pleasure. Guys are like, security, like I'm not going to hurt you or I lock the front door. It's like, no, we're talking about emotional security. So as you reconnect with your wife and show that the relationship is important to me as yes, the sex is important too, but you matter to me. Then the wife will unlock sooner and her orgasms will come faster. It's still not going to be two minutes like the guy. But it might not take as long or not happen when she doesn't feel emotionally connected to her husband.

[Mitch Carson]

Okay. And the likelihood goes up by quick pump Paul who then is out in two seconds.

[Roy Clark]

Right.

[Mitch Carson]

Maybe Polly gets in alignment with him faster. I think these are some of the benefits that I'm seeing. Also that that emotional connection that you create with your little intimacy card is right there. Most men, until they learn otherwise and that can be a painful learning curve, just want to hop on and you know, I want to get, get after it. Right?

[Roy Clark]

Yeah.

[Mitch Carson]

Watch Tractor pole. Whatever it is, I, I, we've all seen it all around the world. Everybody's. But this is an age old issue and you solve that. That's great.

[Roy Clark]

Is that having verbal intimacy does requires the conversation that says my love, what would it take for me to pleasure you before sex? What stimulates you? How do we get you to orgasm sooner?

[Mitch Carson]

Great question.

[Roy Clark]

Well, it's not generally through intercourse.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

It's vacuum the carpet. I said vacuum or go do the dish carpet.

[Mitch Carson]

Oh, I love it. You know we don't have carpets in Asia. It's really.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Give the kids a bath. That's like what the wives would say. Like take something off my plate for me so I have some more energy for you.

[Mitch Carson]

Just reminded me of America.

[Roy Clark]

Stimulating folks.

[Mitch Carson]

Yeah, they're not vacuums. Here. Yeah, they don't. They vacuum the hallways in the hotels, but typically everything is stone or routine. Yes, it's a. Oh, it's cleaner. That's good. What, so people can find you again? Aria.

[Roy Clark]

Yeah, Aria. Lux Life.

[Mitch Carson]

All right. And your book, is that available on Amazon? Hold that up.

[Roy Clark]

Okay.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Unlocking the love you desire.

[Mitch Carson]

And how is that available on Kindle and paperback.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

And audible. Roy's radio voice has dictated the book.

[Mitch Carson]

Oh, I get it.

[Roy Clark]

Amy does cameos on there. She does cameos for sure.

[Mitch Carson]

All right, well, that's always nice. Yeah. To include her. Very smart. It's strategic, Roy.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Now, you want to have we embarrass our daughter in the last two seconds in the closing credit. So if you do audible listen to the last few seconds, you got to.

[Roy Clark]

Go all the way to the end. And our daughter didn't think we were going to do this, but if you listen to the very end, you're going to hear something that sounds like this. Oh, yeah.

[Mitch Carson]

Oh, boy, oh, boy.

[Roy Clark]

That'll mess up any teenager.

[Mitch Carson]

Oh, that's. God, that will. That'll set them just like. I didn't hear that. I didn't hear that. I didn't hear that.

[Roy Clark]

You got it.

[Mitch Carson]

You got it. Guys. This has been fun. Thank you so much for your time today all.

[Roy Clark]

Thank you.

[Mitch Carson]

Your success and keep up the Rolls Royce of lubricants going forward. And I want to read about you in Forbes. One day.

[Dr. Amy Clark]

Awesome.

[Roy Clark]

Soon enough, soon enough. Thank you very, very much for your time. Thanks for having us on, Mitch.

[Mitch Carson]

Welcome to the Amazing Authorities podcast, where game changers, visionaries, and category leaders share how they built their brands, platforms, and global influence. Your host is Mitch Carson, international speaker, media strategist, and creator of the Instant Authority system. If you're ready to learn from those who've done it and want to become the Go to expert in your space, you're in the right place.