Carly scrolls LinkedIn and sees a friend announcing new funding and a tenth hire. The comments are exploding. Carly feels a pang of envy, then realizes something odd. She doesn't actually want any of it.

That contradiction is the heart of this episode. Joe and Carly dig into why solopreneurs still feel the pull of a scoreboard they deliberately walked away from, and what to do about it.

In this episode

Why wanting recognition doesn't mean you made the wrong choice
Joe's literal nightmare about a conference table full of new hires
The difference between "rank me highly" pride and "I did good work" pride
Why nobody celebrates a casserole, a swim lesson, or an empty grocery store
The question that settles it, would you trade freedom back for recognition
Joe's thought experiment borrowed from a friend who quit smoking cold turkey
Your challenge, write your own definition of recognition

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