In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign take a hard look at the wildly different dating advice men and women receive and ask one simple question:

Who does it actually benefit?

While men are often encouraged to make more money, build muscle, project confidence, and pursue as many women as possible, women are taught to be softer, prettier, more accommodating, and endlessly patient while waiting for the "right man."

But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign react to a viral TikTok from Semaj in Focus advertising a service that claims to expose cheating partners, laugh at Donald Trump's awkward World Cup appearance, and discuss the arrest of Andrew Tate while sporting perhaps the most absurd outfit imaginable.

Later, they open the mailbag to help a listener whose date suddenly decided she'd have to split the cost of a getaway trip he invited her on after telling her she'd only be "worth paying for" if she proved herself.

🎧 This episode explores why men and women are often taught completely different relationship strategies, how much of that advice serves men's interests rather than women's, and why learning to value yourself is the best dating advice of all.

🎙️ Topics Discussed:

• Why men and women receive completely different dating advice
• Manipulative dating culture and the rise of "alpha male" coaching
• Self-worth, boundaries, and recognizing relationship red flags
• Emotional labor, fairness, and modern relationship expectations
• Why more women are choosing independence over unhealthy relationships
• Vetting partners instead of trying to change them

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"Is He Cheating? LLC" - Semaj in Focus
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8t6mqr1/

'Beyond pathetic': Donald Trump sparks outrage for World Cup appearance
https://sports.yahoo.com/articles/beyond-pathetic-donald-trump-sparks-153733635.html

Andrew and Tristan Tate arrested in Miami on rape and sex trafficking charges
https://www.pbs.org/newshour/world/andrew-and-tristan-tate-arrested-in-miami-on-rape-and-sex-trafficking-charges-heres-what-to-know

📚 This Week's Recommendation:

Obsession
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt37287335/

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🕰️ Episode Chapters:

00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!
03:12 Video React: The Cheating Test
09:25 Trump's Embarrassing World Cup Appearance
14:28 Andrew Tate's Arrest and Outfit
21:28 Are Men and Women Given Different Dating Advice?
26:17 Men: Go to the Gym
29:47 Confidence, Rejection, and Dating Advice
32:15 Sexual Double Standards
40:01 How Dating Advice Objectifies Women
48:49 Why More Women Are Choosing Themselves
52:30 Independence and Self-Worth
01:01:11 Challenging Relationship Myths
01:08:53 Red Flags and Relationship Safety
01:18:18 Mailbag: Should She Go 50/50?
01:31:56 Poll Results

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.

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