This week, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen are joined by special guest BurbNBougie to break down internalized misogyny and how it shapes women’s perceptions of themselves and each other. But first, in our opening Tea Time segment, the hosts dive into the latest headlines, including Elon Musk’s reported feud with Trump, the rise of Deep Seek AI, and a new bill proposing a third term for Trump.

In the main discussion, the hosts unpack the pervasive issue of “pick-me” behavior and its impact on women’s relationships, self worth, and cultural expectations. They explore societal conditioning, the role of women as resources in relationships, and the effects of parenting on gender dynamics. The conversation also highlights how women can work toward dismantling these harmful narratives.

Finally, in our mailbag segment, we discuss how to advocate for yourself in the medical system, an update from a past listener, and navigating casual dating without centering men.

🎧 This episode challenges deep seated societal norms and encourages women to embrace solidarity, self worth, and empowerment.

🎙️ Topics Discussed:

The roots of internalized misogyny and “pick-me” culture
How society conditions women to see each other as competition
Women as resources in relationships and the impact of gendered expectations
Parenting’s role in shaping boys’ attitudes toward women
Cultural perceptions of red lipstick and self-expression
The importance of women supporting each other instead of competing
Listener questions on medical advocacy, breakups, and dating without centering men

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:

📚 This Week’s Recommendation:

Phyllis Chesler - Author
- Women and Madness
- Woman’s Inhumanity to Woman

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🕰️ Chapters:

00:00 – Introduction and Tea Time!
05:03 – Elon denied office space in the White House
10:08 – Deep Seek AI
12:46 – Welcome BurbNBougie!
18:03 – Understanding Internalized Misogyny
34:03 – Cultural Reflections and Personal Experiences
35:28 – Red Lipstick and Cultural Perceptions
39:18 – Women as Resources in Relationships
41:42 – The Pick-Me Mentality and Internalized Misogyny
46:40 – Reforming the Pick-Me Perspective
51:54 – Experiences of Women in Male-Dominated Spaces
58:08 – The Impact of Parenting on Gender Dynamics
01:10:32 – Raising Respectful Men
01:15:15 – Mailbag: Poll Results
01:17:40 – Mailbag: Medical Trauma and Advocacy
01:24:46 – Mailbag: Breakup and Empowerment
01:26:50 – Mailbag: Casual Sex and Self-Discovery

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound and is executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth. For advertising opportunities or business inquiries, email us at info@sirensound.co

Internalized Misogyny feat. BurbNBougie