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Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
What's genuine and authentic will always work for you. And if you're trying to be something else, if you're trying to be viral, it's just not going to work. You just have to say what you want to say and not just say something to say something.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Hey, guys. Welcome to the Bobbycast. We're going to be talking with Averiana, who is a great songwriter, great artist, but I stumbled across one of her tiktoks where she's playing an Ozzy Osbourne song and it kind of blew my mind. So we'll talk to her. Growing up in Arizona, she's gonna bring her favorite records and songwriting and how hard it is to be super vulnerable. So here it is. Me, the Bobby cast from Nashville, Tennessee with Averana Avery. It's nice to meet you.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
It's nice to meet you.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I did something with you to get you up here that I haven't ever done. I saw one TikTok video and just commented and was like, you have to come. I went back looking before you came in to look at your TikTok just to see if there was anything that I want to talk about. I never realized that you took that message and responded to it.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
And responded, yeah, I did that.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
You doing Ozzy Osbourne. No more tears. It's so cool.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Thank you.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Did you expect. And maybe you did, but I'm not sure the reaction you got from it. Did you get a massive reaction from doing that song?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I really did. It's been a big. It's been a popular topic of conversation.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Why, why did you do that song? How did you know that song? How did you know to do that song?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I just did. I don't know. I love Ozzy Osbourne. I, I grew up on Ozzy Osbourne in the car with my dad. He's a, he's like a drive fast, listen to some rock music type of guy. And so we would like, whenever we went hunting or on like a back roads drive, he was like always just ripping it and, and playing rock music. So I don't know, it was just. I just wanted to do it one day. I remember we were touring in Europe and I Said we should cover no more tears after it's just raining. Because that's ironic. I have a song called It's Just Raining that's like. It's delusional. It's like, I'm not crying, it's just raining. And then singing no more tears after that, it would just be funny. And everyone laughed at me except for my guitar player. Everyone was like, oh, like, you could never cover that song. And then I did. And people either love it or they hate it. So it's been like a war between.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
People hate it.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I don't know. Some people are like, this is awesome. Majority of people are like, this is awesome. But I think I'm getting like my first hate comments that I've ever got in my life.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
You know why that's good? Because. Well, and that means you're also. There are so many people. And once you get to the point of so many people seeing something, you're just gonna get negative.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right?
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
It doesn't matter how good it is.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
It's just funny too. Cause no one really. Like, you didn't expect it? No one really expects it from me because I'm like a 5 foot 4 blonde girl that sings songs about her exes.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
You know, a couple things. The juxtaposition of. Yeah, yes, you. A 5 foot 4 blonde girl that sings about. I wasn't going to say it like that. That. And then also even like what you're wearing because you're like cool and feminine.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah, just girl.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And then you have an electric guitar. And I saw people questioning if you were even playing the song.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Because they didn't think that you were playing the song that you were playing.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I think it would be more impressive if I wasn't playing because that would be harder to like, fake. Like, it would really genuinely be harder. But no, I sat down and it's not. It's really not a hard song to play. It's just like open D. So you
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
put out the song, the live version. Was that. When did that. When did that become a plan? Did it get so big where you're like, I have to put it out now?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah, it was just.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Everybody asked for it.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Everyone was talking about it. Everyone. Since the first video, everyone was begging for me to release, like, release a version of it, like, let alone a live version of it. So we just recorded it one day and it was really fun because my band, we have this joke because I am very. I love butterflies. And it's like all over my branding and just my life. I've always Loved them and, like, the symbolism of them. And so I was telling him a story about my. My sister and I when we shared a room. We didn't have AC in our house. And so in the summer, we'd open our window and the moths would come in, and we would kill the moths with our flip flops. Anyways, long story short, I told my band that they thought it was funny, and then they named themselves the Moth Guts. And so the Moth Guts got a feature on the song, and they were really excited about it to, like, have all of their moments and their solos and stuff.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Do you feel like you have to play at every show now?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah. I mean, it's my favorite part of the show. I know people are excited to, like, hear my songs, and I'm excited to play my songs, and they're all very emotional, and it's a. It's a really cathartic experience. I've never really felt anything like it with this specific album. So no More Tears is kind of like a moment to, I don't know, kind of get away from that, but also rage at the same time, which is fun.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Something else that I enjoyed was you are a whistling. You're proficient at whistling. Now, did you get good at whistling before you started performing, or did you think, man, I could add this to the arsenal if I learned to whistle right?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
No, I've just always whistled. My grandpa also taught me to whistle around the same time. He taught me to play the guitar or the first chord on the guitar, but I just whistle everywhere I go. It's probably annoying to most people. I'm sure my team gets sick of me, but I'm just always whistling.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
It's hard to whistle, though, in a microphone because Different. Yeah, because the air could blow into the microphone. Can you whistle? Could you whistle now?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah. Okay.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Can you give me a little.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Okay. I can't laugh. Okay, wait. I'm getting nervous, Bobby. Okay.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Is the key not to blow right into the microphone?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah, just go like this. Like, on stage. I'll be like, Can like, vibrato with it too. It's better when I'm just, like, cleaning something. My house or, like, doing a chore.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
It sounds great on stage.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Thanks.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I'm not a very good whistler.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Oh, thank you.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
There's a lot of wind that comes out. A lot of wind. Very little whistle.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
You say you didn't have an air conditioner in your house.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Growing up in Arizona.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
In Arizona.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Why didn't you have an air conditioner in your house growing up in Arizona,
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I don't know because I lived in Flagstaff, so we have winters and snow and, like, a ski resort and stuff. So it did get cold in the winter, so we didn't really need one in the summer. It was blazing hot, but that's what windows are for. And we had, like, a house fan, you know.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I didn't know there were parts of Arizona that had seasons.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Like my completely uneducated view. And I've been to, obviously, Phoenix and Scottsdale and Tempe.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And I've never been to a place where it wasn't 110 degrees.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Most people don't really know that seasons exist in Arizona because they've only ever been to, like, the Phoenix area, which is, like, my least favorite part of Arizona. But Flagstaff's like, we have a mountain and we're 45 minutes from Sedona. The stars are amazing because, fun fact, they found Pluto there. They, like, discovered it there. So there's a bunch of rules about light pollution. So it was a really beautiful place to grow up. It's a big part of, like, who I am, I think.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
So people can't have a lot of lights on because they want people to be able to see the stars.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
So all that. But all, like, you can't have big football lights. Or if you do, they're, like, covered. Like, all of your lighting has to be, like, covered so that it's reflecting down rather than up. It's gorgeous there.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
It's really like high school football.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
The lights.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Well, they still have, like, those big. But they all have to be, like, covered on the top. They can't, like, go up because they
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
want everybody to appreciate the stars.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right. And there's an observatory there, so they have to be able to, like, look around.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
When did you start doing music, like, professionally or just. No, just doing it to where it was more than just something you were tinkering with.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
It was always, like, breathing to me. Whether I was listening or writing or singing. It was just something that I needed to do.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
When did you start writing songs?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I don't know. Probably in, like, third grade.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Really?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah. I remember, like, my first, like, legit, legit song was when I was in seventh grade. I liked this boy and we didn't even. He didn't even know I liked him, I think. And then he started liking another girl. And I wrote a song called Fool's Gold about him. And then I, like, released it when I was a freshman in high school. And he was, like, star of the basketball team, so everyone Called him Fool's Gold throughout all of high school.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Did that ever work out?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
No, no, but we're like, friends and stuff. He's a great guy.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Do you ever perform that one?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
No. I did. I played my hometown, Flagstaff, for the first time this year, and I played it there.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
How do you feel about a song now that you wrote in seventh grade? Can you appreciate what you were doing without judging how good the song is?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I really look back on songs I wrote like, two weeks ago, and I think I cringe every time. It's like looking back at old journal entries, I'm just like, wow, really? But I can also. I'm learning to appreciate things for, like, the time that they served, I guess. But I don't know. I'm changing so fast and, like, evolving so differently and so much. Especially I'm like, I'm only 21, so I feel like every year I'm like a new person.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
So that'll never change.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And it'll also never change that you won't look back and cringe as long as you're growing.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Well, to be cringe is to be
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
free, so, man, I don't feel free when I'm cringing at my stuff. I hate it. I have realized, though, that if I don't cringe at it, then I haven't grown enough from it.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
So if I look back at something on television or a joke I wrote, or I don't really listen to the podcast or radio shows back, but if I do and I'm like, oh, I like that I have that feeling because it lets me know that I feel I'm better than that now and that I've grown from that.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Wow, that's a really good perspective.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I love that I have to find ways to not want to jump off ledges.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And so that's how I've convinced myself not to jump off the ledge, because it means I must feel like I'm way better than that. And I've grown from that. Where do you feel like you are in your career now? Like, if you were to name this season, give it a title this season,
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I would say this is the season of, like, the Roots of the Tree. I feel like the last season that I was in was very. It was lots of connection with strangers and fans, and the Leca Letters was fan inspired. And it wasn't just an album. It was really, like, everywhere in my life. It was just a lot of honesty and vulnerability in connecting with people. This season, I think I'm really, like, putting my Foot down and saying what I want, which I've never really been like that ever in my life. I finally feel like I have a voice and, like, I can have the confidence to, like, I don't know, be who I am and embody, like, my roots really are there.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
The record came out last May, right?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Were there any songs on that record that were so honest and vulnerable that you thought maybe they were too honest and vulnerable?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yes, every single one. Every single one.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
In different ways.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
In different, completely different ways. Because I've always been a vulnerable writer. That's how I cope. That's how lots of songwriters cope with just the experiences that they're having in their lives. But, man, every song off of the last record was not just songs that I felt like I could relate to. Like, I felt I was getting something off of my chest. I had started, like, the Lekka Letters at my shows a couple of years ago because I was singing, you know, narcissist on stage and watching people scream it back to me. And it was really cool because I was like, oh, my gosh, people know. People are knowing my stuff. But at the same time, it was really sad because that was an experience that I wouldn't wish upon my worst enemy. And all these people could relate. And not only relate, but they were, like, sharing their stories with me that were far worse than anything I've ever experienced. And so I invited people to just write down one thing they wanted to let go of the show. And I used to say in interviews that I'd never write about someone else's experiences. And then I was so wrong. And people shared, you know, the whole spectrum of things that they struggle with, that it's crazy when someone's given the opportunity to, like, anonymously share, like, what they'll say. And so I just remember the whole time that I was writing the album and thinking about it and just preparing for it to be released, I was, like, very anxious about it, but at the same time, also very confident in it. And I felt that it was really important to say, even though it was honestly a lot harder on me in my personal life. My personal life took a toll because of it. But it was worth it because it created such a beautiful space for people to, like, connect. So I remember, like, even when we wrote Grave and Danny, don't they just. It just feels very dark and sad. But I don't know. I think it's good to expose those feelings sometimes because people don't really talk about that stuff.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
There are, like, different levels of vulnerability and we'll call it Creation. Because first off, when you're riding with someone, you're vulnerable with that one or two people.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
If it's a three way ride or if it's a co ride. Like you kind of have to pour your guts out in an uncomfortable way.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah. You walk in the room and you're like, so this is everything I'm dealing with right now. Like when we wrote Narcissist, I just opened my journal and I like read
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
my journal and that's so hard to do.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
It's so weird. Especially because I'm still very new to town. But at the time I was like very, very new. And I was in a room with three grown men being like, hey, here's
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
my journal, here's my journal.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
And everyone's always like, oh, like are you okay? And I'm like, I'm great. Because we're like writing about it. So it's just like, that is therapy. It genuinely is. And I know artists say that all the time, but it's like so true.
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Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
So that's the first level. The second level is once you get through that initial what feels like awkwardness to you, but especially writers that have been around a long time, they understand the game. You don't know what they understand. At this point, you're just pouring your guts out, hoping you're not being judged. And in the End you realize nobody's judging because everybody's been through it.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
But so you write the song, you get through that, but now you've recorded it. Either a worktape or a demo.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And so now you gotta play that for people that weren't part of the.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right. Oh, my gosh.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And so now they're hearing for the first time, whatever vulnerability is that you wrote. That also is tough to do.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah. Yeah. I didn't anticipate, like, I didn't anticipate or prepare myself for, like, it was one thing to be vulnerable in the writing room, and then that. That album or those songs turn into, like, kind of a business. And then at the live show, it was like, oh, I'm telling a thousand people that I, like, want to die sometimes. That's weird. It's weird. But not only was I saying that was like, everyone in the room had something, like, had a piece of each song. So it was really. It was special.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And then that final layer of vulnerability is. Yeah. When it gets released to the public. Because then people. And I do this. I'm sure you do this too. We interpret music differently just from hearing it. We probably don't know the whole story unless we hear the artist talk about it.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
So we're associating, however we feel about that body of work to the body of work. And like you said, a lot of people have stories based off of your version of your story.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
When I wrote my first book and even my second book a little bit, there's a lot of really personal stuff in there, and it was extremely cathartic to write it, and it felt vulnerable. But I was just writing. Nothing's gonna hurt me if I'm just writing it down, only I'm reading it. When I gave it to my editor, I kind of felt, oh, am I getting judged? And I was really anxious before it came out. The first book came out because I didn't want people to feel sorry for me.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah. That's a big thing for me too. Really big thing.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I don't want your sympathy. I'm telling you my story. So hopefully you relate or you find a version of your story that you can see in me and understand. You're not alone. That type thing. And what I found was because after I put out my first book, I went and I was touring, doing standup, and I would do meet and greets, and I was. I wouldn't say there was shame, because maybe there was shame that I felt people were judging me more than. Because I had no Shame in what I wrote about, like, my parents dying of drug abuse or what I had been through. There wasn't shame in what I did, but hopefully I could get through how people felt about me. But what I realized was everyone was like, the things that I worried most about, the people were like. I felt that. I appreciate that the most. Like, the things I was most scared of people hearing were the things that resonated the most with people. I was shocked by that. Is that how you feel, too?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I was actually gonna bring that exact thing up is when I felt anxious about a song. I knew that that was important to release because the things that you feel anxious about people knowing about you, the things you're ashamed of, it's also very possible that the person sitting next to you in the same room is ashamed of the exact same thing. And I really realized that with narcissists, but especially vanilla, it's been a really big one. It's about, like, boundaries and. And saying no. It's like a girl. So when I write a song and I'm anxious about it or kind of makes me feel a little scared, I know that that's what I should do. If I don't. If I'm like, oh, this is really cool, and I'm just like, la, la, la. Like, maybe this isn't, like, you know, the most important thing to put on a record.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
How do you do with boundaries?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I used to be terrible. Terrible. I was the girl that was, like a people pleaser. And I identified in it, too, which is really dangerous because I think it's
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
part of your personality.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
It was part of my personality, especially in high school and just all growing up, and I felt like the girl that anyone could, you know, come to if they needed help. Also. Anyone could, you know, someone could run me over with a car, and I'd be like, I'm so sorry, you know? But I also didn't want to be perceived as, like, rude or bossy or anything like that. But now I. I think music has, in doing it as a job, has really forced me to, like, set boundaries. And I think I used to look at boundaries or, like, saying no as being rude or being mean. But now I think it's like the biggest act of love you could do
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
for somebody, you know, and it's incredibly efficient.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
It is efficient. And it's really interesting to see now in my life when I can, I'm able to set boundaries, like, how people react. Because I think sometimes if you set boundaries with people and they're like, they freak out on you. And I think that kind of goes to show who should be in your circle and who you should kind of keep at an arm's length, you know?
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I think that's a great point. The people that respect my boundaries are the people that I understand are with me for the right reasons.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right? Totally. Same big, big, big lesson this past year for me.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Really?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah. So 2025 was a year of growth.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
We're in 26 now, right?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
So you're already full grown now.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Oh, so full grown. No, just kidding. No, it's fun to grow and evolve and learn and all that. So I'm sure this year will be full of just as many lessons.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
But do you ever go downtown to Broadway?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
No.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Did you have your phase where you did that?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
No, I don't like. I don't like, party or drinker.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I don't either. But when I moved here, I went because I thought that's what you did when you moved here.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
You know, I moved here when I was 17, and I just didn't really, like, go out. I mean, I wasn't old enough to go in the bars anyways.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And so you just now are. Right.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I just. Yeah. I'm 21.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Yeah. That's why I was asking, like, do you know when you turn 21, even though you don't, do you go right.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
If I. If I maybe, like, establish that earlier, I mean, I could now.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Yeah.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I mean, I will be the life of the party on a Diet Coke. Don't get me wrong.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
So do you not drink at all? No, I don't have. I don't. I've never had a drink.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right. That's why we're best friends.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Have you had a drink?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
No, no, no. I've tasted alcohol before.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
How's it taste?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah, really bad. It's terrible.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
It's. It smells bad.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
It smells bad. It smells like pee. It tastes like. Not good. I don't know why people like it.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I know that if I drank, I would drink a lot because I would do everything times 100, and I just know I would be like, Pina Colada, boy.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Pina Colada it would be.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I would drink the most Frou Frou fruity drinks. So I would be down two slippery slopes. I'd be drinking like crazy. And also, it would be the fruitiest. You ever see those, like, dancing women that have all the fruit on top of their head. That'd be what all the drinks would look like that I would have.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
That's funny. Yeah. I would need a lot of sugar.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
You moved here at 17?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I did.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Was that. If I'm doing the math, was that around Covid?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
It was right after Covid, so I moved here.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Did you finish high school during COVID
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I did Zoom online for half of my junior year, and then I moved July, the end of July of 2021, and I finished my senior year online.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And you just knew you wanted to move to Nashville?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
No, I didn't. I didn't even know this was a possibility for me. I didn't think I was that good. I always loved music and it was. Music was more of like breathing, like I said. For me, it was a very private thing unless I was singing in church. And when I went viral for singing in the bathtub during COVID And then I got in contact with my managers and I signed a record deal and I moved, like, after I signed a record.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Wait, in that order?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
In that order in within the span of six months. I got in contact with my managers October of 2020, and then we, like, started releasing some music. And then I had like, every now in hindsight, had like every label in town wanting to meet with me, and I met with like, I think we did like 13 Zoom meetings, and then I signed with Warner.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
How do you pick a label when you're only meeting with them over Zoom?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I don't know. I don't know. I just, I. I'm a very spiritual person. Very, like, intuitive. Like, I trust my gut most of the time. And I just felt really good about Warner and they just felt very endearing and like they actually cared about what I had to say, not just kind of like wanting to, you know, sign a viral sensation and let it be what it is. It felt like genuine. So I signed and then I moved and I didn't even know, like, I knew about the Grand Ole Opry, but I didn't really know that Nashville was like the place you go to become, you know, a country music star. I guess I should have known that, but I just didn't really, like, put the pieces together in my head. I didn't even know what I wanted to do with my life. And then I was just like, this feels right. And I moved and I lived in a house by myself for, like, while I was finishing school.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
At 17.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
At 17?
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Were you emancipated?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
No, no. My parents are very supportive of me. I just have three other siblings. They had lives to do and work to do, and I'm self sufficient. So I was just like, I just, I'm very indecisive. Like I said I brought two records. But that was the only decision in my life that I've ever been like, this is the right thing to do and I know it. And I remember telling my mom that. And everyone in my family, like my extended family and our friends and everyone in my town thought that I was crazy and that my parents were crazy for letting me do that. But I think both of my parents and myself just felt a lot of peace, that it was like the right thing.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I don't know what is Nashville like? When you move here and start to see other people who are doing what you're trying to do, it's really cool.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
You would think that it's intimidating and it is at times, but I just feel like the little girl inside of me that wanted to talk to everyone about Patsy Cline, that no one really cared because everyone called me grandma. Growing up, I just loved the classic country. But everyone here has their own, you know, music taste and everyone's really passionate about it and there's so much talent. It was just really like creatively. I was like very, very stimulated and I was just starry eyed at it. I'd never even been to this side of the country, so I didn't know that there was this many trees here. And I remember I was like driving down the road and I was like, one of these days I'm gonna plow down one of these mailboxes and trash cans. Cause the roads are so narrow too. Just a lot of things that I. It was a very big culture shock for me going from Arizona to like Tennessee.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
What do you do at 18, 19 years old here? When you're living by yourself, when you make friends, right? Do you go to songwriter rounds? Like, how do you make your circle?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I. I met a lot of my friends at church, but it was really hard for me because I wasn't going to school or anything. So it wasn't like I had like people my age to socialize with. I was really just writing all the time with people that were, you know, late 20s, 30s, 40s. So all my friends were way older than me because I consider like the people that I write with, my friends and like my brothers too. So I remember I. My first co write was with Ben Williams and Andy Sheridan and they're still like my big brothers to this day. So that was really cool. And yeah, I met people at church and I like went to the grocery store and didn't know what to buy and I was like, bought an avocado and some apples and beef. I still don't really know how to cook because I'm touring now and I don't really need to, but. Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
What's it like to go viral?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Looks fabulous. I'm sure you totally understand, but looks fabulous when you're on the other side of the screen and when you're looking at all the millions of views and likes. And it's really cool because it gave me my career, really did. So I'm really grateful for what it is. But the adrenaline dump after going viral is a big thing, too. That was challenging that I wasn't anticipating.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
What do you mean by that?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
It's interesting to go from music being something that you do for fun to all of the sudden it's your livelihood. And when you go viral, it's instant gratification. It's very stimulating. You are kind of on, like a cloud nine. And then if your next video only gets a thousand views rather than 2 million views, it's like, oh, if this gave me my success, could it also take it away? And that. That thought was something that I struggled with a lot in the beginning, and I. I was very conscious of what I was posting and. And trying to, you know, still be as good as I was when I was mega viral. And. I don't know, you kind of just learn the longer that you do it, that it's just. It all comes in waves. And what's genuine and authentic will always work for you. And if you're trying to be something else, if you're trying to be viral, if you're trying to be, you know, commercial, if you're not, if you're trying to be artsy, if you're not, it's just not going to work. You just have to really go with your gut and say what you want to say and not just say something to say something. You know what I mean?
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Yeah. Not just add to your feed because you feel like you need to add to your feed.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right. Not just. I think that's a very. It works for a lot of people, and a lot of people have found success that way from being consistently posting every single day, like three videos a day. And I had a lot of pressure to do that very early on, and it just. It's just not right. And it's not natural for people to, like, surely no one has something to say three times a day.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
No, I don't. And I have to talk for six hours a day.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I don't either. And I feel very. It sucked the creativity out of me until I realized how to set boundaries
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Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
It's got to be messing with your mind. When you crush, crush. And then you do a video, you think it's probably even better than the ones that crushed. And it doesn't.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And I get in that trap too, where I'll do a couple even thematically. Does great. Does great. Oh, this one's even better. And it does way worse. And then I start to question, do I even know what I'm doing?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
It's so interesting too, because sometimes a song will do really well. Live for me and it'll be a really big, like a really big moment in the show. And then online it won't translate. But I don't know. I just decided that I'm gonna speak when I have something to say and post when I have something to post that is of quality. That's one of my resolutions this year.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Whenever you sang in the bathtub, did that pop the first time?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah. Yeah. It was at like 10 million views, I think.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Wow.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
And I was honestly, I never would have posted my singing on TikTok if it weren't for Covid because I was very conscious of what people thought about me.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And did you sing in public at all?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I did. I Did a talent show one time.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Oh, you're talking one time. So it wasn't something you were doing?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
No, I've never played a show before this. I never played a show. I wasn't gigging. I mean, I was. I sang in church, but I come from a very, you know, traditional, reverent church. It wasn't like, worship band. It was, like, me and a piano. Yeah. Hymns.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Yeah.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
It was very sacred. And so music has always been really sacred to me. So for that to go, you know, from that to this is. It's crazy. It's literally insane for me.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Was it one of those where you posted and then you didn't realize it was so viral and then you look at your phone, or did you have your notifications on to where you could tell? You could, like, feel it?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I've always had my notifications off for social media, but I remember I. I sang say something in the bathtub, and Lady Gaga.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
No, no. Christina Aguilera. Say something.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Great big world. But she sang it with them. Yes.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Got it. Say something. I'm giving up on you. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Got it. Yeah. And I was just very. It was a place. I sang in the bathroom because that was the one place in the house that no one was in. And I have, like, I said, three siblings, and everyone was doing their school, and I was supposed to be doing my school, but I would just, like, mute. I remember it was always during culinary. I'd mute my culinary class on Zoom and just sing in the bathtub. And the acoustics were good in there, and my parents have a luxurious bathtub. And then it went viral, and I didn't want to tell my mom because I was like, surely she'll tell me. I needed to delete TikTok. She didn't even know TikTok was a thing. And so my cousin with. Was living with us at the time. She was going to college at NAU and. And it was at, like, 8 million views, and it had been, like, a couple of days, I think, and. And she was like, tess, I've been trying to go viral on TikTok for months now, and Avery just went viral. Like, this is really huge. This is cool. She's gonna be famous. And my mom was like, those are real people. Like, you guys are so silly. She's like, that's just the Internet. Those aren't, like, real people. And I think she was in denial because she was like, what is happening? And then I just kept posting, and it kept going viral.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And what'd you do?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Second, I Don't know. I think I did a Harry Styles cover. I.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Were you thinking about it a lot on your second one or was it just, let me just pick something.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
No, I. I wasn't even thinking. Like my brain was not business calculated at all, at all. Not an ounce of it in my body. I was just like, this is fun. This song makes me want to cry. Let's sing it.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
You know when that first video popped, were managers or labels in your DMs already? Or was it a couple or few in.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I didn't check my DMs, but it was like a week or two after I was like, oh, like this major record label just DM'd me. They want to meet. And I remember I had just ignored them or kept saying no to people. And I just got one DM from David Fanning and I don't know what it was about it, but I felt like. Like I just felt like I needed to reply. And I replied with like, how much money is this going to cost me? And he was like, nothing. Like, if anyone says it's going to cost you anything, like, run the other way. And then I met with him and. And it just. The rest is history. I can't even. It went so fast. It was just like the blink of an eye.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Did the Parmalee guys put David Fanning onto you?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
They did. They were, they were like scrolling through TikTok with David. I think they were at his house or on the bus maybe, I can't remember. But Matt was like, this girl's really good, you should check her out. And then David DM'd me and then Parmalee. It was full circle. Parmalee had me feature on a song, Forget yout on their album and that was really cool for me because I've been listening to their music since they started.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I think you said a minute ago you were in culinary class on Zoom, but then you said way before that you didn't know how to cook.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I still don't know how to cook. Like I can. I think I could if I needed to, but people always ask me, like, what I eat or what I. What I ate when I first moved here. Like, what did I cook for myself? And I genuinely don't know.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
But weren't you taking a culinary.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right, but.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
But it was also on Zoom.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I would pause it so I could sing.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Oh, how do you pause the Zoom?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I just turn off my camera and the mic and I turn the.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And let them just keep going. And you would just sing. Right, Got it. That makes sense.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
So I guess maybe I should make up for lost time and take a culinary class one of these days.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
No, at this point, you got enough going on, right? You don't have to worry about that. Are you on a. Are you on a bus yet?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I was for this last tour, which was the first.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Game changer, right?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Game changer. It was the first time I talk about that.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Like, not just a bus, but I don't. Unless you've been in it. It's hard to understand how much easier the bus makes life and why people just don't grab buses because they're so expensive.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
People don't comprehend the difference between, like, van touring and bus touring and.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Tell me about van touring.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
So before van touring, I was driving around in my suv, around the country, opening for, like, Josh Turner and Martina McBride and Chase Rice and playing my piano and cueing, like, tracks on my own, which I will never do that again. It was a time. It was like a piano recital for people before they, you know, were singing songs about beer. So it was really funny. But after that, yeah, I had a band for the first time, which was really cool. And when you tour in a van, you. You drive in the morning, you play the show, and right after the show, if you're not. You know, sometimes I would go on stage and sing with the artist I was opening for. But then you drive through the night, too. And depending on the routing, which. My routing was always kind of. Kind of rocky. Remember, there was a show, we drove. We were in New York and had to drive to. I think it was Michigan for a
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
festival, and you guys have to drive,
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
and we had to. I also was like, I know how to pull a trailer. I grew up doing that with horses and everything. And there was only. It was me, my guitar player, and my drummer for a while.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Shifting, shifting.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
And people don't realize it takes a while to, like, find a team. It takes a while to find a band, especially if you don't grow up with people, like, playing music. A lot of. A lot of artists get the luxury of, like, growing up with the people around them and the crews and the band and everything, but I didn't know anybody, so it took me a while to, like, find people that fit. And so, yeah, we ended up driving, like, through the entire night, and we played the show late at night. And then the next show was a festival, so it was at, like, three. I was playing in a tent, and you're exhausted. And I had no. I had no sleep. I didn't sleep. And I got ready in the passenger seat of the van and the mirror was like this big. And I remember that show, my guitar strap like came off while I was playing the rock course. If it's just raining and I like held it up with my leg. I was just holding on for dear life. And it went viral and I was like sleep deprived. And I was like, dang, the day I go viral is the day I had no sleep.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
So when you get a bus, how much does everything change?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Everything with this tour was so fun. You have time to like, I don't know, I was always worried about, you know, parking the trailer or fixing the Trex rig or loading in with the guys and like helping them set up. Just cuz like there was only ever two of them. And so now it's like I had 11 people on the bus and a bus driver. And a bus driver. And he was amazing. He was so awesome.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And you get to sleep in the bus on a bunk.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Sleep in the bus on a bunk. You.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
There's bananas if you want to go over. Yes.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
There's like, you can wake up and walk around or you can sleep until 2 if you want to. Or you can. You know. I always have a really hard time falling asleep after a show because the adrenaline is so high. And so I stay up really late on the bus. Everyone goes to bed and I sit in the room and like journal and I can read my scriptures. Which in a van you're just like sleep deprived and taking shifts, driving and. Yeah. And you smell. And the bus still smells. Don't get me wrong, that's what we have essential oils for.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Depending on how many dudes are in the bus.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yes, Lots of guys. We had four girls in the crew though, so. Which was really fun.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Do girls. This is a question. I don't know if I feel comfortable asking, but as. As a guy, when we would have a bus and there's seven or eight, there's. There are bathroom rules. You don't go on the bus.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Do girls have that rule?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
You do?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Okay.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I didn't know because you guys aren't gross like us.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Well, girls poop too.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I know, but I didn't know. Guys are just addicted.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Guys are gross. Guys are gross. Luckily my crew hygiene was good. Girls, I would say guys are dirty and girls are messy. And those are two very different, you know, types of clean.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Have you thought about writing that song? Girls poop too.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Girls poop too. I could totally write that song. I know just the people to call.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
That is. I think that's a number one.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Unless you're touring, though. I don't know.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I just think it's a number one. Sometimes I hear. And I'm like, girls poop too. That's a hit.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
If a guy is like, can't stand the fact that girls like poop or have a period, I'm like, I don't know about you.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I don't mind the period.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
But I don't like my wife.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
That's good. Green flag, Bobby.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Yeah. And I'll go, I've never been afraid to buy tampon. No problem with that. I don't like my wife to see me even do poopy stuff.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I don't even. I don't even like to have. It's bathroom talk. I don't. Just generally speaking, I don't like bathroom talk. So it's not about her, right? Cause she's so much. My wife is so free, and she's just like, the body's the body.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
She's just like, I'm gonna tell you if she needs to go.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Yeah. I'm the weird one, right?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
That's okay. That's all right.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I don't. And I even call it bathroom talk. And she's like, you're not eight, right?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Well, you take me as the guy that, like, your car is clean and,
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
like, it's my car if it's dirty. It's a little bit messy. It's never dirty.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right?
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
So if. So if you went right now, there's. There's a bag from aloe in the back that I took all the stuff out, but the bag is still there. And probably like an empty sonic cup
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
and they're put together and that's like,
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
dirty right beside each other.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right? So for me, like, I won't have, like, sticky stuff in my car. Like, there will never be, like, sticky stuff in the dollars. No, no. I like, I will throw food away and stuff. Like, I'm not dirty. But you best bet, like, my whole closet's in the backseat of my car.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
You know, that's kind of a nature of the job, though.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I'm a girl. And I also, yeah, I change my outfit a lot.
Podcast Host (Bobby Bones)
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Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Something that I struggled with whenever things started to work for me was all the money I was expected to be spend on clothes.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Oh my gosh, I could write a novel about this. Seriously. Because I didn't grow up buying clothes and so I've never known like my style was hand me downs and like I've always liked if it looks like it came from my grandma's closet. That's what I like. And so it still translates in my style, especially on stage to this day. But I went from, you know, living off of hand me downs to like all of a sudden I need to buy outfit on stage that makes me look like an artist and makes me look cool, but also something that's comfortable to like move around in. And yeah, I found myself not feeling comfortable with spending money on clothes. It felt like a sin. And now I just am like, if I like it and I know I'm gonna look back at photos or videos of me in it and like it, then I just need to buy it.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I got a step ahead of it because it was so odd for me to buy clothes for red carpets or television. And I got fortunate too. I had certain shows that would give me budgets for clothes and so I'd buy the clothes, but I'd never spend all of it and keep the rest of the money. Greatest scheme ever. The second part was when I was doing a lot of stand up, I wore a uniform. It's because I don't want to buy different clothes. So I wore the same clothes every night, and people thought, wow, look at him. He's really strategic. And what a brand. I just didn't want to buy clothes.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
No. Yeah. That's funny. I do admire, even with me, Taylor Swift. And they. They have, like, an outfit. Like, that's their outfit for the tour. I have yet to. To be there. I'm also indecisive, so I don't know if I could wear one outfit for, like, a whole tour.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Do you get the Megan Maroney comparisons all the time?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah. Which is so fun, especially in the beginning. But it's so funny because we're two completely different, like, completely different lanes.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And so blonde hair. Really? That's it.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
It's the blonde hair. Songs about the Exes.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
It is, but it's the vulnerability and the blonde hair.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I, I. To be compared to Megan, and I've been compared to Taylor Swift and to Stevie Nicks, and I feel like people find a hard time pinpointing who to compare me to. So I've heard a lot of different things.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I feel like Megan Maroney is the best young songwriter that's an artist.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
She's very, very classic songwriter. She embodies a lot of that classic country. And it's very. It's very, like. It is like, poetry. Like, it's gonna rhyme. It's gonna fit. It's gonna be like a system. Yeah. She's really a genius. And she's a marketing genius, too.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Very specific.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Very specific to her. Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Which I think there's a real art to that.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Because you could be so specific and think, well, no one's gonna understand this.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Or you can be very specific and have the confidence to go, someone's gonna find their story and my specificity.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right, Totally.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Which I feel like you do that, too, though, when I say that. I feel like you do that too.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I'm very specific with my songwriting. I also am not, like, married to one sound. I feel like Megan is, like, she has created her sound. I have, like, five different sounds, and I think that's. It's a strength and a downfall for me. Cause I don't really have, like, I wish that I was more calculated than I am, and I wish that I could be like, this is the Sound for this album, it's gonna be this one genre. I'm gonna wear this one color. But I just don't function like that. And I think if I did, I would feel like I was in a jail cell.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I think you'll get there, though. Or I think you'll maybe. I think you'll get to a point that you. You figured out a strategy for you.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
It's funny because it's harder for people to figure out, like, my brand and, like, what my specific sound is and my sound.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
What is your brand?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
If I were to ask you, I am just me. And it's hard to. I think it will take me releasing more music to really establish that and, like, paint my own lane. But it's been very adamant that, like, I should just pick country or pick rock or pick.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
That's old school indie.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
You know what I mean?
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
That's old school.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
It is old school. But it's funny because you'd think that that would be old school and especially with the Internet, like, I mean, people listen to all genres and so, yeah, I'm just Arizona girl that likes to sing sad songs.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
What instrument did you play first?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Piano. Yeah, I took lessons when I was younger and I never practiced. And I still can't read music. I would, like, do piano recitals with my sister, and she would get every note perfect and she would practice. She was good. And she doesn't play anymore. But I would just be like, ah, my piano recital. I'd miss a couple notes and just, like, laugh about it and be done. But I quit when I was, I think, in sixth grade. And then I really, like, taught myself after that because I would look up, like, songs that I liked to play, and I would zoom in on people's fingers and then just copy it. But my grandpa, he's like. He hears everything by ear. He's like, he can read music, but he just does everything by ear. And I think that's where I got that from.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
When did you play guitar?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I think I was in sixth grade as well.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Did you ask for a guitar?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah, for Christmas. I did.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Did you take to it immediately?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah, I did. I learned the ukulele and then. And I, like, committed to zooming in on people's fingers on YouTube to learn the guitar.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
A lot of zooming. It sounds.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I'm sure I could have. I'm sure I could. Yes, lots of zooming. I'm sure I could have done an easier way to learn, but I don't know why. In my mind, that was like, the way That I needed to do it.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
So your last record came out in May. I assume you've written a ton of songs.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah, yeah, I have some. Yeah. There's been a lot of different sounds that I've played around with, but I think this year I finally, like, decided a little more specifically on what I want things to sound.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
So you're painting your lane a little bit.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Painting my lane. And I'm also. I feel like I finally have a voice. Not that anyone ever tried to take my voice away or no one ever tried to shut me up, but I just didn't really know how to set the boundaries and say what I wanted. And now I feel like I finally do. Let Go Letters was, like, the first time I ever, like, played with that. Yeah. But now I. I feel like I know what I want to say. And I've got some songs that give me a lot of anxiety and a lot of scared feelings and.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Yeah, I feel like you dancing in all the lanes will help you realize what lane you're supposed to be in.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And also, you can always change lanes.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Right. And I've always loved. Yeah, I've always loved so many different genres of music. And I've appreciated artists of, you know, all decades, and I don't know, there's a piece of me in a lot of different genres. And so, yeah, I guess I just have to, like, tiptoe through them.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
But let's do Mount Rushmore. Favorite artists ever.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Give me Patsy Cline.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Four. Okay. Patsy Cline.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Can I do bands?
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Yeah, sure. Okay.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Pets Klein, Lumineers. My gosh. Probably. I mean, I have to say Taylor Swift. She like.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
You don't have to say that.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I do, though, because she's such a big part of my training.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Well, that would be a reason to say that.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
You don't have.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I think right now, Noah Khan.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And that's four. You can't add any more.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Dang.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Who were you gonna say, though, if there was another head that was being sculpted on the mountain?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Willie Nelson and Kimi Rhodes together singing I Just Drove By.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Man, you went really specific on that one.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah, it was like the first song I ever learned. And that's the go to with my grandpa. He has dementia, so he only remembers certain songs. There's a couple Patsy ones. And that one, though, is like. It's like, shaped me as a person. It's like the core of my being.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
What song do you think you've covered the most?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Probably hymns, probably. Like Amazing Grace. I've sang that one at a couple shows. When I, like, felt like I needed to. Oh, my gosh. I sing Love Stories so much, the fans love it.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Not the him, the Taylor Swift.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
The Taylor Swift? Yeah. Basically different kind of him.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Basically him.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
For the girls or the guys or the gays. Doesn't matter. Yeah, I sang. I think I've sang that one for, like, two years on tour because people love it and I don't know. So I can't find a song that I could cover that does as well as that one. Besides, maybe no More Tears Now. So I'm sure I'll do that one for longer than I did. Love Story.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
What I hope doesn't happen before I get to my last question is that no More Tears hits for you so hard in a way that you get annoyed that you have to play it in two years.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I don't know if I could ever get annoyed with it.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I hope you don't.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I hope. I think. I think I dump a lot of angry feelings into that when I sing it. Like, I really just let it all rip. And I'm not really, like, an angry person because I stuff my angry feelings down. And so I don't know if I'll ever not have.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Well, that doesn't feel healthy, though. Just you.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
It's not.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Okay. Just making sure. You don't think that's healthy.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Don't get me wrong. I know I'm a walking red flag. Like, I'm very aware, so. But I don't know if I'll never, like, enjoy it. It's fun.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Final question. What is your final Death Row meal?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
A steak, side of Mac and cheese. This is so weird, but I love beet salads and peach cobbler.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Not a beet guy.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I've never been a beet girl. I thought they were always gross. My dad always loved them and now I just like them. I don't. They taste like. They do taste like earth a little
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
bit, but that's a good. Yeah. What's a beet taste like? Earth. I think you nailed it.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah. Tastes like earth.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Have you had fried okra?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I have. I didn't have it till I moved here. I didn't know that was a thing.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
What about sweet tea or.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
No, I've. No, I don't drink sweet tea. I've tasted it. Didn't love it. Yeah, I know.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I wouldn't say it's an acquired taste, but it's all I drank. I'm from Arkansas. It's sweet tea.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
No, it's a very natural thing.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Did you ever have Kool Aid?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah. I did. It wasn't like a. I had more Capri Suns than Kool Aid, I think.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Ah, man, you grew up.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
But, yeah, like, grits and okra and cornbread.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Oh, grits.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Grits. I didn't. I didn't. Yeah, very. It was a big culture shock. The food, too. And barbecue is really good out here.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Was it not there?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I mean, there's no barbecue places in Flagstaff. No, but my dad always, like, you know, cooked the meats.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
So what's the goal this year? Give me a goal at the end of the year. You want to say that you.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
At the end of the year, I want to say I really introduced myself for the first time because I've established that, you know, I'm a songwriter and vulnerable songwriter, and I connected a lot with the fans this past year with Let Go Letters and the Meaning of it and touring and just really creating, like, a community. And I think it's time for me to, like, really show people who I am and what I believe in, where I came from, what I think is important enough to say and put on a record. And so this year, I hope by the end of the year, I could say that I really, like, established and planted my roots and, you know, gave a good introduction.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
That's super cool.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah. I'm excited.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Well, I'm glad you came by.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Thank you. So nice to talk to you.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I'm a fan, and I was watching some of your Opry stuff, too. When it happened, I would just see, you know, small. I mean, I'm kind of exposed to everything, so nothing really pops ever, ever, ever. And then when I saw. No more tears. I hope you take this the right way. I was like, oh, that's girl that sang in the bathtub. Wow. That's completely different.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
No, that's okay.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
And then I thought, man, I gotta see what she's about.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
So.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Yeah, I'm rooting for you.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Thank you. Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Really awesome.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Well, I'm rooting for you. Not that you need my.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
I do need it.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
I will cheer you on it.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
No, I need it more than ever.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yeah.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Will you ever hop back in the bathtub and sing again?
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Of course. Yeah. If I get a luxurious clawfoot bathtub of my own.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Nice.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Need to probably make some money first, so.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Okay. When you make money and you get an independent bathtub that sits.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Yes, I'll have a clawfoot bathtub. And I will have a big stained glass window.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Oh, you're going now. You do extra? You always go extra. It's like your fifth Mount Rushmore person.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Oh yes, I'm extra. Yes.
Bobby Bones (Interviewer)
Great to talk to you.
Averiana Avery (Guest Artist)
Good to talk to you too.
Podcast Host (Bobby Bones)
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Podcast: The Bobby Bones Show
Host: Bobby Bones
Guest: Avery Anna (Averiana Avery)
Date: March 27, 2026
Episode Theme: An intimate, candid conversation with rising artist Avery Anna about her viral musical breakthroughs, navigating both the perks and downsides of sudden fame, creative vulnerability, and the realities of touring life.
Bobby Bones sits down with viral sensation and singer-songwriter Avery Anna. The episode explores Avery’s rapid rise—from singing in her bathtub during COVID-19 to headlining tours, coping with internet fame and hate, channeling vulnerability into her songwriting, and maintaining authenticity amid industry pressures. The conversation is warm, funny, and honest, blending music industry insight and life wisdom.
Origin of Viral Moment:
Bobby discovered Avery Anna after her Ozzy Osbourne “No More Tears” TikTok cover, which surprised many given her image as a “5 foot 4 blonde girl that sings about her exes.”
Reactions to Going Viral:
Avery unexpectedly faced both massive praise and her first real hate comments after her viral cover.
Impact on Performance:
The popularity of “No More Tears” made it a staple of her live set, offering fans and herself a cathartic, high-energy break during shows.
Writing from Experience:
Avery discusses the power of writing honestly—even when it feels “cringe” or exposes her most personal experiences.
Levels of Vulnerability:
The episode unpacks the compounding vulnerability of sharing personal songs with co-writers, then with an audience, and finally with the world upon release.
Fan Connection via "Let Go Letters":
Avery started inviting fans to anonymously write what they needed to let go of at her shows, influencing her songwriting and deepening her sense of community with her audience.
The Double-Edged Sword of Virality:
Avery details the rush and the anxiety of chasing viral success, especially the emotional letdown when new videos don’t match previous numbers.
Social Media and Creative Boundaries:
Avery voices resistance to performative content creation, opting for quality over relentless daily posting.
Upbringing & Family:
Grew up in Flagstaff, Arizona, a place with four seasons (“most people don't know that seasons exist in Arizona” (09:35)), under the influence of her rock-loving dad.
Early Music & Creative Roots:
Music was an intrinsic part of life; started singing and writing songs as a child, with her first complete song ("Fool’s Gold") in seventh grade.
Relocating Young:
Moved to Nashville at 17 after signing a record deal, finishing high school online, mostly isolated but made friends through church and older co-writers.
Choosing a Label and Staying Grounded:
Picked her label (Warner) through intuition and a sense of care, not just hype.
Touring & Tour Life Evolution:
Started touring driving her own SUV, graduated to van tours, and recently to her first bus tour—described as a “game changer.”
Maintaining Boundaries:
Avery discusses learning to set healthy boundaries, moving from people-pleasing to self-protection.
Style Evolution:
From hand-me-downs to considering “artist clothes” for stage and media:
Comparison to Other Artists:
Avery responds to frequent comparisons to Megan Moroney, Taylor Swift, and Stevie Nicks, noting her resistance to being pinned down to one sound.
Mount Rushmore of Influences:
"Give me Patsy Cline, Lumineers, Taylor Swift, and right now, Noah Kahan." — Avery (62:58)
Most-Covered Song:
Taylor Swift’s “Love Story” and the hymn “Amazing Grace.”
Death Row Meal:
“A steak, side of mac and cheese...beet salad and peach cobbler.” (65:46)
Culture Shocks:
Adjusting to Southern food and customs after moving from Arizona.
Aspirations for 2026:
Avery intends to “really introduce myself for the first time” — showing fans who she is at her core and solidifying her artistic roots.
On Authenticity:
“If you're trying to be viral, it’s just not going to work. You just have to say what you want to say.” — Avery (02:43, 34:30)
On Viral Fame:
“I'm getting like my first hate comments that I've ever got in my life.” — Avery (05:02)
“If this gave me my success, could it also take it away?” — Avery (33:33)
On Boundaries:
“Music has, in doing it as a job, has really forced me to, like, set boundaries.” — Avery (24:55)
On Creative Growth:
“If I don’t cringe at it, then I haven’t grown enough from it.” — Bobby (12:22)
On Touring Life:
“Everything with this tour was so fun...You get to sleep in the bus on a bunk.” — Avery (48:22)
Humorous Moment:
“Girls poop too. I could totally write that song.” — Avery (49:39)
The episode is conversational, sometimes vulnerable and always genuine. There are many moments of laughter, self-reflection, and mutual encouragement, all wrapped in an easy-going, supportive, and occasionally irreverent tone.
This episode offers a compelling mix of “behind the music” insight, mental health reflection, and real talk about the music business. Avery’s honesty and humility shine throughout, making her story of viral success and rapid professional growth resonate far beyond music fans. Both newcomers to Avery Anna and longtime fans will find plenty of substance, heart, and wisdom here.