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Agusto Papa
What's up guys? Welcome to the Agusto Papa podcast. The go to spot for everything. Musica Mexicana. We're proud Mexican Americans who live and breathe this music. We started this podcast to share and discuss our views of musica Mexicana. Whether you like to vibe to Peso Pluma, los alegres del Barranco are El Camacho or Pur Ivan Cornejo. When you get in your feels, then this podcast is for you. Well, actually Peso was supposed to be on Chinito's album. The song with Drake was supposed to be with Peso. Listen to Agusto PA on the iHeartRadio Apple, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.
Cody Jinx
I always had to be so good. No one could ignore me. Carve my path with data and drive. But some people only see who I am on paper.
Mark Lombardo
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Cody Jinx
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Jake Hofer
I'm Jake Hofer and this is Back 40, a limited series show on wire to Hunt, part of Meat Eaters Podcast Network. Each episode I'll be asking eight whitetail hunting pros a focused, thought provoking question about hunting and land management. How do I hunt the best part of the farm with less than ideal access?
Cody Jinx
Should you? That's what the real question is. Stand without good access is not a good stand.
Jake Hofer
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Cody Jinx
I went and did a show in Alabama for 7,000 people. The next night, nobody knew it was me. When I walked out on stage, it was the weirdest thing I can ever remember happening in my life because I was already messed up. I just thought, oh my God, what am I doing? Who am I? Like, who is this character?
Bobby Bones
Welcome to episode 528 with Cody Jinx. He's a native of Haltam City in Fort Worth, Texas. And he still lives in Texas, right?
Cody Jinx
Yep.
Bobby Bones
So when he comes around, he's just like coming up to do all the Nashville stuff and heading back home.
Cody Jinx
Knocks it all out.
Bobby Bones
That's kind of the dream, like if this is not your home, that you don't have to like move somewhere because a lot of people, they have to. We had to move here and I like it here now, but it's Kind of the dream to be Texan and stay in Texas. I mean, Parker McCollum just moved back to Texas. Living back there, would you do that? Like, with Arkansas, you just come here.
Cody Jinx
Like once a month.
Bobby Bones
I don't need to come here, though, once a month. I don't think just stay there. I think this now is home. But I would move to Fayetteville probably.
Cody Jinx
When did it feel like home to you?
Bobby Bones
Because it just started to feel like home to me in, like, the last one or two years. Yesterday. Yeah, yesterday it did. For the first time. I was like, dang, this feels like home. Probably whenever Caitlin moved here because then I had a reason to, like, look forward to coming home. Otherwise, it was just like a nice house in a city that I was at sometimes. But, yeah, that's the dream. I like Cody Jinx a lot. If you see him, you could be intimidated by him. Covered in tattoos, got the beard. I mean, did play in thrash metal bands. What's the difference in thrash? And like, heavy thrash is like a lot faster. The drums are like, oh, I do know the drums. Thing about Cody, though, he's made his own path. He's kind of killing it. And we spent an hour talking about that. He has a new album out that is called In My Blood. Just came out on Friday. He is on his Hippies and Cowboys tour that kicked off at the end of May. And you can go and watch him. He's also doing two headlining shows at the Chelsea at the Cosmo in Vegas, December 12th and 13th. Here he is, Cody Jinx. Cody, good to see you.
Cody Jinx
Likewise. Thank you. Thank you so much for. For having me and hosting.
Bobby Bones
Do you feel like people. And I'm going to ask. Because my answer to you is yes, and I feel like the answer to me is yes. But do you feel like people get the wrong impression of you before they meet you?
Cody Jinx
Yes, because I. Because we.
Bobby Bones
You've done the show before and I found you quite delightful, which is not what I thought I would think about having you.
Cody Jinx
Can I say. Can I say ditto?
Bobby Bones
You can say whatever you want.
Cody Jinx
I actually, after the first time we spoke, I've left going. I was like, oh, man, I like that guy.
Bobby Bones
Same. And it's not that I didn't expect. I didn't expect you to like me and. Because I didn't expect you to like me because you're Cody freaking Jinx and you got a big beard and it's like you're independent f everything. And I'm like, that kind of dude doesn't know my story. So he's going to think he doesn't like me, so I don't like him. That's how I felt before the first time I met you and you left. And I remember telling everybody, like, that's my new best friend. Like, I love that dude. So that's my takeaway from the last time.
Cody Jinx
I agree. No, I appreciate that. No, I did. I liked you. And, and, and, And. God, and this is so bad, man. And I'm just being completely honest in this business, so oftentimes it's. It's not that you want to, like. I'm not even going to want to like that person or dislike that person or. Or whatever. But you. You're like, oh, I was surprised again. I've been doing this 25 years and it's like, oh, yeah, no, he was cool. Okay, good, good. Awesome.
Bobby Bones
It's cool to me when a preconceived notion that gets very conceived because I'm jaded a bit by the industry good and bad ways. You meet so many people. And there's a reason cliches are cliche for the most part, because things in this world that you think of one way usually end up being that way. Usually, not always. And no, I found you to be really cerebral. I found you to be quite generous and kind with your time. And you just don't look like you'd be. It's the tattoos and the, the biker beard and your story.
Cody Jinx
You know, it's. It's funny that you say that, and I. I do get that quite a bit, but my daughter is a teenager, and recently, within the last few months, you know, she said, I've been. I've been home. We just started our tour, but I've been home a great deal of time. And she's been in dance competition season, and she thought that I was not enjoying going to these dance competitions because I stand there like that. Yeah, just.
Bobby Bones
Just straight.
Cody Jinx
Yeah. Yeah. And that's. That's just. That's just me. Yeah. So whenever this guy is just standing there like this and she goes, dad, you look mad and pissed off all the time. And, And. And I think that the other young ladies she dances with, they're used to me now, but. And their parents are as well. But I guess it just looks like I'm always pissed off. And she goes, you just look mad all the time. And I was like, casey, Casey. I was just talking to my sister Casey. I was like, meredith, you know how long it's taken me to look like this and how Much of my life I've been, you know, beat up. And so, you know, I kind of have a. And like you said, being in this business, you have kind of a. You get jaded in good ways and in bad ways. And that's, it's so, it's, it's funny that you say that because I just had that conversation with my almost 16 year old daughter. It's like I'm, I may look like that or you know, this, but I was like, but I'm watching you do your solo and I'm trying not to tear up. I was like, did you just need to hear me say that? Like, does that help? And yes, it did actually. So, So I was like, I'm not talking to people because I'm enjoying watching you perform. You know, it's beautiful and I love it. And I've been gone on the road for a lot of my kids lives, so the baseball games and the ballet recitals, the parents are all nice, they're all great people. The kids are great. You know, it just after a while they realize, oh, you can go talk to him. And it may take halfway through the season or whatever because I don't talk. I don't just sit down and talk to people, dude. Same, you know, if, if, if somebody walks up and says something, I love an intelligent. If you walk up and want to talk about fishing or hey, what do you walk up and ask me what book I'm reading, bro? Like, I'll be like, let's go, let's talk. You know. But yeah, it's, it's. I don't seem approachable oftentimes, but I enjoy a great conversation. I'm far better one on one than I am in social scenarios. I'm very socially awkward.
Bobby Bones
Awkward, same. Weird. Because we both have jobs that are. The job itself is that of an extreme extrovert. The job on the stage. I would find that people at times would send me a DM going hey, I saw you so and so and you just weren't that nice. Now I have never not been nice to anybody that appreciates what I do. If it's write books, if it's dope, podcast, if it's Tuesday. I've never ever, ever not been nice. And I'd be like, well, where was I? And they would say. And I said, why did I talk to anybody there? Like they didn't come up. But I think I have like deep down in my guts the feeling that nobody really wants me around anyway. So I don't bother anybody. I'm a wallflower. I could see how someone would see me and go, oh, but they didn't talk to me like, say hi, but.
Cody Jinx
Go back to what you said right before that. I assume deep down nobody wants me there anyway. I, I. Part of my job as an entertainer, as, as the jester, is I've, I've earned my way through life entertaining.
Bobby Bones
Well, the jester part of me too. I'm, I have great confidence in that part of me when I'm there to do that. Specifically when I'm to be a normal human. I feel like I have three arms and four eyeballs.
Cody Jinx
Me too.
Bobby Bones
And so, and because of that, I don't go. I, I'm just not, I won't say not friendly, but I'm, I'm not bothersome. It's what it feels like to me. Like, I'm not going to, I'm not going to bother anybody. So people will go like, man, what a dick. I'm like, no, no, just say something.
Cody Jinx
Isn't that funny? I'm the same way. And people are like, I think people are. It's, it's offputting to people because they assume, yeah, what a dick. And like, and I've been in scenarios where, man, I don't remember anybody saying anything to me at all. Because I've, like you said a while ago, I've never, I've never not been. If somebody is not being mean to me. I've never not been nice intentionally to somebody just for the sake of not being nice or we all have our days and things of that nature. But like, dude, I don't say mean things to people.
Bobby Bones
I actually appreciate when people appreciate what I do, right? Because it's, that's what I work so hard to do.
Cody Jinx
I am the first one to. If you walk, I love any. It never bothers me with people. Airports, wherever, when I'm eating.
Bobby Bones
Oh, no, I don't want it. I don't want that.
Cody Jinx
I don't want it. But I never say anything mean.
Bobby Bones
I may, okay, fair enough.
Cody Jinx
I may say, hey, man, man, I'm trying to have a meal with my family. I'd love, I'd love to. Give me, give me 30 minutes, dude. You know, let me have, I'll do that and, and I'll go over and what, interrupt his meal later.
Bobby Bones
But you know, that's a general rule too. I'll share with people that, hey, if somebody's creating something, they like to be appreciated for the creation. However, the two times that I would not go up to a celebrity if they're in public is when they're eating or with their kids.
Cody Jinx
Kids.
Bobby Bones
Those are. Those are universally the two that I say don't do it.
Cody Jinx
Me neither. Me neither. Not everybody can control themselves, and I think that you've probably run into that, too. People, like. Kind of. They just kind of like. And they just gravitate to you, and all of a sudden they're there and they're. And then they're having a moment where they're saying, I don't want to be that person. I didn't mean to be the fangirl. And, you know, and it's like, well, you know, and it's. And it's happening. And. And. And, you know, okay. And you listen to them and they thank you for what you do. And you thank them and have a good day.
Bobby Bones
And I don't want this to come off. And I. I think both of us are coming from the same place. Like, I couldn't appreciate more when someone relates, enjoys, is entertained by something. I do. And we don't have kids yet, but I do eat. And it's like, nobody wants to have somebody come over the top of them and, like, spitting their food.
Cody Jinx
But.
Bobby Bones
But we do appreciate when someone comes up. I've never. I'll say it this way. I've never met somebody who creates, who doesn't appreciate somebody coming up to them and saying, hey, I appreciate what you do. Like, every single person I know that does music or comedy or any kind of art, they like it when people come up and say, hey, I'm a fan. The only two times I would say not to do that is food and kids.
Cody Jinx
Yeah. And the people. Like you said, the people that create, even if they're maybe. Because oftentimes, you know, people will walk up and they may get nothing more from me than a handshake and a thank you very much. I really appreciate that. But I'm saying that because. Thank you very much, because I really appreciate it. It may be all I have to say about it, but I love to hear that. And even if you just get a thanks, man. Like, no, that's like our guitar player Chris from Waxahachie.
Bobby Bones
Oh, that's where Mike's from.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
You tell him you're from Wax Hatchet.
Cody Jinx
Yeah, we were just talking about that. And. And. And then to Fort Worth. Fort Worth, I came. My hometown, Fort Worth. But our guitar player Chris, he's one of those guys. People. Obviously, he doesn't say anything. He's been with us years and years, and we've had like, four conversations, and he's one of those guys that. He's like, thanks, man. And that's. He's. He loves it. You just made his whole day, but all you get is, thanks, man. You know, he's up there talking with his guitar, so that's value. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Especially if Mike doesn't talk.
Cody Jinx
Yeah. Not a whole lot. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
I mean, doesn't talk.
Cody Jinx
Yeah. Well, it still waters, man.
Bobby Bones
I'm not sure why he doesn't talk.
Cody Jinx
Because he's a brilliant guy, but, yeah, smart dude.
Bobby Bones
To, like, pull on him to be like, hey, man. Yeah, so he won.
Cody Jinx
Those are the best kind of people, though. I found, like, my wife is. Is. Is like that. Not. I mean, you know, it's. It's. I. I've been captivated by her because there's so much more going on than I know. And so that's why I still want to be around her, is because, like, I'm still. I'm still trying to solve that. That thing, because she's. She's very much that kind of character. Are you. Are. Are you a Capricorn? Cancer. You're cancer. Okay. Yeah, man.
Bobby Bones
I don't know what any of that means.
Cody Jinx
You know, I don't either. I don't, but I know my wife's a Capricorn, so I was just throwing darts there. Got it. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Bobby Bones
So no mention of music. What are three things that you are super interested in? And you love no music. Nothing. Nothing can be even music adjacent.
Cody Jinx
Yeah, no, no, I got. I got that. Hunting and fishing. Fishing first, you know, but I. I'll categorize those as. As the same thing. The hunting and fishing. That would. Well, that would be the. The. The second thing. Family has been a super huge focus for me the last couple years. I've really spent time and. And focus and. And effort and trying to be a better husband and father. Hunting and fishing after that. And I think thirdly, you know, I'm taking better care of myself mentally and spiritually and physically as well. That's become a big focus for me. I spent a lot of my life in a haze, and so I'm able to. To take care of. I have more bandwidth now, and so I'm able to. To take care of everything better, including myself. And so I think my family and taking care of myself, being. Getting out into nature, you know, getting a rod in a reel, and, you know, that's. That's. That's a really spiritual thing for me. And outdoors people get that.
Bobby Bones
What is your favorite kind of Fishing.
Cody Jinx
I grew up bass fishing. I grew up in a john boat on stock tanks. And I remember my dad got his first bass boat. We got a 79 skeeter whenever I was 15 and an old trihole tri hole skeeter. And that's when we started fishing big water. Got into striper fishing and that all everything spawned from bass fishing though. But I. I fish all the time still. Still. If I'm at home, I'll fish at least twice a week. But I'll fish for everything I usually I love. Well, I was just cat. I was catfishing with my buddy before I got here, before I left on this trip. And then I was fishing with my. I was crappie fishing with my dad. And so I plan on doing some bass fishing when I get home.
Bobby Bones
My stepdad was a striper guide.
Cody Jinx
Oh gosh. Yeah, man.
Bobby Bones
To me the best. And I spent all my kid life in the woods or on the water. I know you're watching this and judging me by my nice cardigan that I wear now, but I'm just a redneck from Arkansas. My stepdad though was a striper guide. After he worked at the mill. So on the weekends, in the evenings, he was a striper guide. And then when he retired, he continued to be a striper guide. To me that is the most fun because those are the biggest. Before my mom died and we still have it. I think she's got a 42 pound.
Cody Jinx
Striper that's a huge.
Bobby Bones
It's huge. And he. And it's bigger than any that my stepdad had caught. And he has like seven or eight that are. That he had mounted just for business purposes that were like in the 30s.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
My mom had a 42 pound striper.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
So striper fishing was my favorite. Now when you would get the hybrid.
Cody Jinx
I don't know anybody that's ever caught a 42. I know guides that don't have.
Bobby Bones
I mean I know a guide, my stepdad who doesn't have a 40.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
My mom freaking caught it before she died. My. And so we do a bunch of hybrid. Did you ever catch shad?
Cody Jinx
You know. No, we used them but we would pay for a guy to give us the shad.
Bobby Bones
So I had to because we would catch our own shad and then just throw in the net.
Cody Jinx
Yep.
Bobby Bones
And keep in liable. They only stayed alive for 12 hours.
Cody Jinx
Sure.
Bobby Bones
So there. But. So you'd see them flicker on the top. And I'd have to drive the boat sometimes before school to catch the shad. It's hardcore it's hardcore. Especially when you're like 12 and he's on the front of the boat with the net. The throw net that you. It's hard to throw because that's a spread. Perfectly sink down. You pull it back up, it catches the shad. He's going to use those throughout the day and. But when you're 12. How many times I dumped in the water.
Cody Jinx
You know what's funny that you say that is because I'm just having my dad being in the front of the boat on the front flipping deck, saying, all right, boy, back up just a little bit and. And him hey. You know. Because I just.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, exactly. You're like, there was no moderation for us.
Cody Jinx
No.
Bobby Bones
That young in a boat.
Cody Jinx
It's funny, I just had that. That minute, that mental image that.
Bobby Bones
So we did a bunch. And then hybrids were fun because white bass striper. They fight hard even not as big.
Cody Jinx
Absolutely.
Bobby Bones
The white bass kind of sucked a lot of. Lot of bass fishing, which is the, you know, black bass depending on large mouth.
Cody Jinx
Large mouth. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
But we lived near a ramp and when the trout truck would drive by and I went to school, I graduated in 98. So in probably like 96, we'd see the trout truck drive by that would stock and our school was just like, yeah, we understand. Just leave whenever you see it drive by.
Cody Jinx
You used to skip school to go fishing.
Bobby Bones
Not skip. It wasn't skip. The school would know. The school would go, oh, you guys saw the trout truck just get in your car and go. So we would go. And as soon as they would dump.
Cody Jinx
It's the best.
Bobby Bones
Just ripping them, just getting them. Yep. So that. And then the best eating was. Was crappie for sure.
Cody Jinx
Absolutely. Crappy is the best.
Bobby Bones
It's the best eating.
Cody Jinx
Absolutely crappie is the best for eating fish. The trout in Texas. See, you guys were a little. You guys could get more. They would. The trout would stay longer after they were dumped. Probably because yalls waters were a little.
Bobby Bones
Cooler than ours because very cold. Were the. Because right by the dam.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Yeah.
Cody Jinx
Whenever they drop in the. I guess the DFW experiences, they'll stay alive for a little while and they'll drop them in the wintertime or the fall. But we used to go up to the White. My dad and I used to go to the White river up in Arkansas and that's where we'd go trout fishing up there. And so yeah, there's. It was good trout fishing up there.
Bobby Bones
So I never did this as a kid, but. Did you ever fly Fish?
Cody Jinx
No, no. My dad got into it after I was out of the house, and he, he said that he loved a brim fish.
Bobby Bones
We called him perch.
Cody Jinx
Perch. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
We called perch jerking.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
We'd go do some purch jerking.
Cody Jinx
Yeah. And he learned, he taught himself how to fly fish. And I have never learned it, and I know. And to me, the people that do it and have dedicated their self to the art of, of it. Have you done, do you.
Bobby Bones
No, no. I, I, I. Johnny Morris, bass pro shop owner, invited us to come up to his property once, and he, he let us go in what he calls his, his honey hole.
Cody Jinx
And.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, and it was with, with fly rods.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And didn't know how to do it. We were still yanking them out like crazy, but that's my only experience. But I didn't grow up around that. I wondered if you did, though, like, first of all, Zebco as a kid.
Cody Jinx
Yeah. 33.
Jake Hofer
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And then it just, you know, slowly elevated itself. But I never, I don't think I had, I would have the patience or the. Because I feel like fly fishing is almost like you were talking about. It's almost a meditation of sorts because you have to focus on the fly, putting, creating the fly, using the fly. So all of that, I think the.
Cody Jinx
Whole process is beautiful. I would. It's kind of like I tried playing golf, and I'm no good at it, but I tried it and I gained an appreciation for it that I didn't have before. I might like fly fishing, but I love all the, the, the process of it, like you said, preparing the flies. And then I think that fly fishermen are going out there and working on just their technique and having the mental thing going on there. I think that's probably as much, I'm guessing as much to do with it as anything. I don't know. I could be wrong, but I just, I think it's a, it's a focus thing. It's a standing there and making sure your swing is correct. It's, you know, doing your scales on a guitar.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Cody Jinx
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He never thought he was going to get caught. And I just looked at my computer screen, I was just like, ah, gotcha.
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Bobby Bones
So what happened at Chappaquiddick? Well, it really depends on who you talk to. There are many versions of what happened.
Mark Lombardo
In 1970 when a young Ted Kennedy.
Bobby Bones
Drove a car into a pond and.
Cody Jinx
Left a woman behind to drown.
Bobby Bones
There's a famous headline, I think in.
Cody Jinx
The New York Daily News.
Bobby Bones
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Cody Jinx
And in a strange way, right, that sort of tells you the story really became about Ted's political future, Ted's political hopes.
Bobby Bones
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Cody Jinx
And we're on the Bobby cast.
Bobby Bones
When you talk about reading books, what kind of books do you like to read?
Cody Jinx
I read a little bit of everything right now. I went back and I'm Reading. My buddy Tennessee Jet gave me east of Eden, probably.
Bobby Bones
You have a buddy named Tennessee Jet?
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
What's Tennessee Jet do? Because he sounds like he's making moonshine.
Cody Jinx
He's a songwriter buddy.
Bobby Bones
Okay. All right.
Cody Jinx
Yeah. And. And he might be making moonshine, I don't know. But he gave me a copy of east of Eden years ago and I'm finally getting through it and I think I found the most horrible villain I've ever read about in any book in east of Eden. Her name is Kathy. She's like the most vile thing I have ever read about. I'm reading that one right now.
Bobby Bones
Is that true?
Cody Jinx
The story?
Bobby Bones
Fiction is a fiction.
Cody Jinx
It's a fiction story. Yes. It's a Steinbeck book and it's a classic. I'm revisiting. So I do fun stuff. My wife and I read a whole bunch, both of us, and, and so she's usually. She reads a bunch of different stuff than I do, but we kind of trade back and forth and I've usually got a physical book going and an audible book going. I don't listen to as much radio anymore. Listen to my, my stories, my programs.
Bobby Bones
The problem with audible and reading. I try to do this same book. Reading it and listening to it, I.
Cody Jinx
Just simultaneously or differently.
Bobby Bones
Well, at different times. So in my car I would try to listen to the book and then if I was back home, I'd read it. The problem is I wish they would tell you page turn and audible, what page number it was on because then I can't find it in the book. And if I do two books and once again my story's mixed up.
Cody Jinx
I had, I've had that problem. I was reading a book recently and there was a part in the book that I flagged on audible and then I had the physical copy of the book and it took me forever to find it because I was going to like circle it or.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, that's. I, I just like, would use, like to use that time to continue.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Chasing the story, which I'm totally into. Or if it's a non fiction book. But I can't do. I can't do two books because my stories mix up in my head. And then if I try to do one listening and one re. But the same book, I can't ever catch up. I can't find the spot. Other bigger problems in the world, but not many. That's. That's like top three problems in the world. Probably ranked third. Hunger, you know, war.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And, and three, matching my audible to my book and your stories cross. Yes, exactly.
Cody Jinx
I'll feel you, man. No, it's. It's. It's a. It's a. It's a good problem to have in it.
Bobby Bones
What kind of teenager were you?
Cody Jinx
I was probably weird.
Bobby Bones
Weird or problematic or both.
Cody Jinx
Yeah. I walked right up to the edge of going to now. I mean, I went to jail once for stealing street signs. And it was dumb. I was 16 with some of my buddies. But I. I was mischievous. I wasn't bad. I was mischievous and it was anything for a laugh. Everything was a good time. So it was. It was. I was quiet at home, and I'm still quiet at home. But when I was. Because my dad was very, very strict. Dad was a hard dude when we were home when I was a kid. So it was kind of like, what kind of mood's dad? And everybody else was really quiet. So my mouth got me into a lot of trouble at school because everything that I wasn't able to do and I was like, what's cool? And I got in trouble for, you know, I skipped class a lot, but the teachers loved me. So it was kind of like Mr. Jinx. Go back to wherever you're supposed to be and quit disrupting my class. It was that kind of thing. It was. I played sports. I was. I was a below average athlete, but I played sports all through high school. I worked from the time I was a freshman all the way through high school. And so if I wasn't working or playing sports, I was at home playing guitar. I didn't go to parties. I wasn't a part of that group.
Bobby Bones
Where'd you get the guitar?
Cody Jinx
I picked my dad's up when I was 15.
Bobby Bones
Where'd he get the guitar?
Cody Jinx
My dad bought a 1981 Takamini right after he and my mom had me. And it was a lawsuit. Takamini. It was One of the EL349s. It. The name looked like the Martin name. And you'll hear people talk about the lawsuit, talk meanings, and that's those. So dad bought one of those and I grew up around it, but didn't pick it up until I was 15 and then I wouldn't put it down. And so When I was 16, mom and Dad bought me a Fender Stratocaster Squire series and we were off to the races.
Bobby Bones
Because your dad was, as you described him either quiet. I don't know if he was unpredictable.
Cody Jinx
My dad was unpredictable. We found out what bipolar was in 1994.
Bobby Bones
So prior to that he was just unpredictable.
Cody Jinx
Yeah. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
My mom was bipolar, too, and an addict.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
So definitely similar vibe where everything was kind of on our backs because we didn't. We. We didn't trust it enough to be on hers.
Cody Jinx
Yes.
Bobby Bones
If he's playing guitar and then you start playing guitar, was a bit of you playing guitar to. I won't say be like. But to show him, hey, like, pay attention to me. I'm doing what you like to do.
Cody Jinx
No, because I. I remember him. I remember him being. I'd be like, hey, dad, check this out. And he always had so much on his mind, you know, And I just. It was kind of like, yeah, that's. That's cool. You know, And I. And it wasn't that I wanted him to be proud of me for it. Now, after I got older and I was. Started making a living in the bars and dad really softened up, you know, dad will tell you, you know, he's living both of our dreams. You know, dad wanted to do this. That's what dad wanted to do, you know, didn't work out in his life for that, and it did for me. And so, yeah, you know, I kind of feel like I carried the torch. That seed was planted, but it wasn't ever. He expected that. Whatever me and my sister did, mom and dad supported it, you know, it wasn't. Didn't have to be music. It. He loves it.
Bobby Bones
He's still alive.
Cody Jinx
He is. Yeah, he is. Mom and dad, fortunately, are both still around. Wow. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Did you feel like playing the guitar later on brought you guys closer? Did it give you a conduit to actually talk and, like, open up at all?
Cody Jinx
Fishing was our first and. And really one of our only conduits when I was a kid. That's really why I loved fishing with my dad, because that's. We didn't really talk, and that was the funny thing. We would sit in the boat for hours and hours and hours and talk a little bit. And dad. Dad and I always had a. Had a good relationship. Have always had a good relationship. We've always been able to talk despite him being a. He's a very loving man in spite of being very difficult and very hard and not understanding what mental illness is. And like I said, until the 90s. And the guitar has really. I wrote a song on the new record, you know, and I'm talking kind of about that type of thing about dad used to sing the Cats in the Cradles when I was a kid, and now we're living that. And so I make mention of that, and now I'M on the road working and. And providing for a family and. And have been for a long, long time and. And trying to. To balance, you know. Son, when you coming home? Soon. You know, Dad, I don't know when. So, you know, we're kind of living that, you know, they're getting older and so it's. It's why I don't tour quite as much anymore. My children are getting older, my. Our parents are getting older, and our band, most of our band is all in this hell, man. Hot Rod, our steel player, he just jumped back on the road. He just lost his mom. So our band is entering that phase of our life, you know, so it's. That's a. Kind of. A. Kind of a weird place to be. But to answer your question, dad just. He loves what I do. He still loves it.
Bobby Bones
To just expand on that for those listening. So Cat Stevens had Cats in the Cradle and the Silver Spoon. The little. The whole song is really about the dad being gone, doing his thing, and the kids, like, where. Yeah, like I don't get to see. You know, it's that vibe.
Cody Jinx
Yes.
Bobby Bones
And you say you live in that now, but I feel like you're from what I've learned from you. Like you're trying not to live that as much now.
Cody Jinx
Yeah, we had to. We hit the brakes, man. We really did. I had to. For my mental health. You know, I know that the band is enjoying spending time with their family, their families, respectively, and it's. It's important. We. We stayed gone for a very, very long time.
Bobby Bones
Well, when you say stay gone, because here, even if I'm touring, stand up, I'm doing maybe Thursday night, but Friday night, Saturday night, I'm back Sunday, I got a feeling that ain't what you're doing. It wasn't what you were doing. No.
Cody Jinx
For, man, for 13 years, from 07 to 2020, when Covid hit, I was gone nine to 10 months a year.
Bobby Bones
Gone, gone.
Cody Jinx
I would come home. I would be gone three to four weeks. Come home for one or come home for two. On a long one. Be gone three to four weeks. Come home for one or two weeks. So, yeah, it worked out to where. You know, some of those years we were playing over 200 shows a year or I was acoustic in full band and there wasn't coming home for weeks at a time. Yeah, this is.
Bobby Bones
This may seem like an odd question, and it might be stupid, but did it ever feel less comfortable to be at home?
Cody Jinx
Yeah, that's why I stayed gone a lot. That's why I drank so much. And, and that's why me and my kids are making up for not making up, but are spending more time together now. Because I didn't talk to my kids a lot because it was too painful whenever I was on the road, you know, so when they were young, you know, it was just, you know, dad, dad was gone and sometimes you didn't hear from him for days at a time. And I was just on the road and sad and drunk and playing shows and, and covet hit. And that was a forced reality check. And so they got to know like the real me at home 247 for over a year and started making some changes during that time, you know, I was like, man, I have just been a real.
Bobby Bones
You can say it. You say what?
Cody Jinx
Yeah, yeah, you know, and, and I still am, but, you know, it's, it's. It's gotten better. So the focuses have changed. Like I said while ago, it's. It's been, you know, family, family has, has. I, man, I, I did a lot of damage. I did a lot of damage. And so we're, we're working on it. And the kids are working on it too, because they've had to get used to two different guys. Because I like how everybody perceived me to be for all those years. I was that guy at home too. Like it. That wasn't an act, man. I was a.
Bobby Bones
What was the goal just at.
Cody Jinx
I was mad at the world, dude. I just. What was the goal of Punish the World? I don't know.
Bobby Bones
Let's do 25 year old Cody. What's. What was the life goal?
Cody Jinx
Sing about how pissed I was. Sing about how effed up everything was, you know, I mean.
Bobby Bones
In your perfect scenario, where was the apex of your career? What was the biggest. What was the goal there? Did you want to do play on Top of the Moon? Just stadiums? Did you want to make a living?
Cody Jinx
Just make a living, really? I never, I never wanted to be a. Whatever kind of band, stadium band. I wanted to. It was more important to me to go out as an artist. That was like, oh God, that hurt. Like as an artist artist, as somebody that. It was like you look at somebody that maybe you wouldn't have had. I don't know. Well, you wouldn't have had any. You wouldn't have had Metallica or anybody else without Sabbath, you know, it like, you might not have had Shania Twain without Reba. Shania, you know, blew the doors off everybody. You wouldn't have had, you know, maybe George Strait without Merle or Lefty Frizzell, and. And look what George has done. So being an artist, like. But those artists still have their favorites. And. And knowing that I made a mark was more important to me than the size of where I played.
Bobby Bones
Did you ever not. Did you ever. When did you start writing songs that you felt were more personal in music than you actually would ever share with anybody in real life?
Cody Jinx
My junior year, I was. Was really when I think I started writing. Well, I had been dabbling in writing since I had been, like, 7 years old. And I remember writing metal songs when I was 13, 14, 15 years old. And some of them were good. Most of them were really horrible, I would imagine. But I think really when I was probably 16, 17, 18, I. I started kind of. And I gained the confidence from a teacher that I had. I was telling this story yesterday about a teacher that I had my junior year. My English teacher. She, you know, she was the first person to ever tell me, you're a great writer. And I was like, huh. Well, thank. Thanks. I don't. I don't even know how to take that. You know, I've never been great at anything. I've been pretty good at some stuff, you know, but I don't know. Maybe I can do this. I don't know. Who knows? The Bobby cast. We'll be right back.
H
The summer of 1993 was one of the best of my life. I'm journalist Jeff Perlman, and this is Rick Jervis.
I
We were interns at the Nashville Tennessean. But the most unforgettable part, our roommate, Reggie Payne from Oakland, sports editor and.
H
Aspiring rapper and his stage name, Sexy Sweat. In 2020, I had a simple idea. Let's find Reggie.
I
We searched everywhere, but Reggie was gone. In February 2020, Reggie was having a diabetic episode. His mom called 911. Police cuffed him face down. He slipped into a coma and died.
Cody Jinx
I'm like, thanking you, but then I see my son's not moving.
H
No headlines, no outrage, just silence.
I
So we started digging and uncovered city officials bent on protecting their own.
H
Listen to finding Sexy Sweat on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Cody Jinx
A foot washed up. A shoe with some bones in it. They had no idea who it was. Most everything was burned up pretty good from the fire.
Bobby Bones
That not a whole lot was salvageable.
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Cody Jinx
He never thought he was going to get caught. And I just looked at my computer screen, I was just like, ah, gotcha.
iHeart Podcast
On America's Crime Lab, we'll learn about victims and survivors, and you'll meet the team behind the scenes at othram, the Houston lab that takes us on the most hopeless cases to finally solve the unsolvable. Listen to America's Crime Lab on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Mark Lombardo
What would you do if one bad decision forced you to choose between a maximum security prison or the most brutal boot camp designed to be hell on earth? Unfortunately for Mark Lombardo, this was the choice he faced.
American Lung Association
He said, you are a number, a New York state number, and we own you.
Mark Lombardo
Shock incarceration, also known as boot camps, are short term, highly regimented correctional programs that mimic military basic training. These programs aim to provide a shock of prison life, emphasizing strict discipline, physical training, hard labor, and rehabilitation programs. Mark had 1:1 chance to complete this program and had no idea of the hell awaiting him the next six months.
American Lung Association
The first night was overwhelming and you don't know who's next to you and we didn't know what to expect in the morning. Nobody tells you anything.
Mark Lombardo
Listen to shock incarceration on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Cody Jinx
This is the Bobbycast.
Bobby Bones
Did you. And were you able to use music as a bit of a cape or superhero costume? And it was the truth, but you were able to use that as a way to say it when you wouldn't say it Otherwise?
Cody Jinx
Yeah, absolutely. 100. Because you can say anything through music. Nobody wants to hear your opinions. If you're. If you want to get off politically or on a spiritual thing or whatever, you know, people listen to your songs all day. They do not want to hear you talk about it. When you're a songwriter and that's your job. Yeah, it's. You can say anything you want in a song, you know, so. And I learned that very quick as a guy who.
Bobby Bones
And I'm gonna throw a big blanket over this. Who did it all yourself independently. And I know there's a lot of nuance to that. And you didn't do it. Nobody does it all themselves. But you understand what I'm saying for the sake of that whenever you started to grow, because I know what it's like to Go at it really hard for a long time and have almost no traction. And I. My first, I built my own syndication company with my own money that I didn't have, that I didn't have. And then all of a sudden I'm creating traction and it's like, wow, this guy's kind of an overnight success. And I'm like, you have no idea. Like, I've been killing myself for 15 freaking years. Your story is a bit different, but you did do it yourself.
Cody Jinx
A lot of parallels, though.
Bobby Bones
And when you start catching on, is that weird? Because it. Because you did it a long time and you were. And you were doing wonderfully as compared to what you wanted to do with your life. But there was a time where you started to pierce the consciousness of a casual country music fan.
Cody Jinx
Yeah, did.
Bobby Bones
Was that a weird time?
Cody Jinx
Yeah, and it happened when I was 37.
Bobby Bones
And I feel like you weren't doing anything different too. I think that's what was weird about it.
Cody Jinx
I remember being 37 years old and thinking, I guess I've air quotes made it when I started really gaining traction. And. And then also remember thinking, huh, well, doesn't feel any different to me, you know? And so, yeah, it is. It is weird.
Bobby Bones
Did it feel you had to create the art differently or did you even think, should I create the art?
Cody Jinx
I got depressed. I got depressed, man. I went into a really deep depression from about 37, 38, 39. I was on those 17, 18 and 19. And I was on the road really, really, really hard all three of those years and was not taking care of myself. I was really drinking too much and had imposter syndrome and went through an identity crisis. I remember being on a tour with Jamie Johnson and shaved my beard off. I got really drunk, shaved my beard off because I hadn't seen what I looked like. So what's the best thing to do? Shave your beard off. Piss drunk at 3 o' clock in the morning?
Bobby Bones
Obviously, yeah.
Cody Jinx
And then my wife walked in and I'd been off the road and she's like, what are you doing? I was like, I shaved my beard off. She's like, why? I was like, I want to see what I look like. She goes, what do you think? I go, I don't like it. And I grew my beer. But I went and did a show in Alabama for 7,000 people the next night or two nights later or something like that. Nobody knew it was me. When I walked out on stage, it was the weirdest thing I can ever remember happening in my life because I was already messed up and then I just walked out on stage and nobody knew who I was. It was almost like, like the dream where you don't have pants on. And like that's as close to that real life situate. I just thought, oh my God, what am I doing? Who am I? Like, who is this character that I've created? Like, I don't even know who I am, you know, Like, I've been drunk my entire adult life. I've been on the road continually, you know, and like, I had to start figuring some stuff out. Man, that's so. Yeah, covet, hit, forced time home, man. And really a lot of introspection at that. And then last couple years I hadn't been drinking, so.
Bobby Bones
At all?
Cody Jinx
No, not at all. Oh, wow. No, not nothing, not, not a drop, man. So, you know, just, just taking care, clearing out some bandwidth, you know, trying to grow up. And our parents are getting older. We lost my father in law last August. So, you know, we're, we're focusing on my wife's side of family and my side of the family a little bit more and raising the kids up and just not touring as much.
Bobby Bones
Did you have concerns that if you didn't drink, you wouldn't be the same?
Cody Jinx
Yeah, it was a weird thing because when I was a kid, I remember watching an interview with George Jones and here, and I remember him talking about when he quit drinking, he goes, I didn't think I could walk on stage without it. I had to learn how to do everything over. I took my first sober plane ride when I was 43. I did everything, I did everything over. I had to learn how to walk again, I had to learn how to talk again. I had to learn how to do everything. I had to learn how to write.
Bobby Bones
At the height of your drinking, what were you drinking and how much a day?
Cody Jinx
The height of my drinking, I was drinking a bottle of whiskey and a 12 pack of beer a day. Golly, Every day.
Bobby Bones
Could you still get drunk?
Cody Jinx
Yeah. Oh, yeah. I'd be hammered. Yeah. At what point of the day I'd be hammered by. I'd be hammered by five or six.
Bobby Bones
Were you completely functioning?
Cody Jinx
Yes.
Bobby Bones
Functional.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Did it feel like if you weren't drunk you wouldn't be as functional? Yes, because that was.
Cody Jinx
That's what addicts do, though.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, that's.
Cody Jinx
That, that's the addict thing. That's like, no, I didn't know if I could do without it. And then, you know, it's like, well, doing with it is really starting to screw Things up, dude, you know.
Bobby Bones
Did you have withdrawals when you stopped drinking?
Cody Jinx
Yeah, yeah. Night sweats.
Bobby Bones
And for how long?
Cody Jinx
I had nightmares and I really had really bad sweats for the first week. And then nightmares went on for a couple of weeks and then I started sleeping really well. You'll hear, you'll hear addicts talk about that. Like you'll. Addicts, we like, are you sleeping better? And you'll know when somebody's kind of turned that corner because, you know, that's something that starts happening. Your natural. Your chemicals start to rebalance.
Bobby Bones
My. So I tried my mom in rehab a few times and I don't know, my dad, my biological dad left when I was five, six, and my mom was an addict and from a very small rural town. So it was meth. It was, it was all alcohol, it was weed. It was everything but the meth. That was the big getter.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Then opioids, because they were so easy to get and so cheap to get, so. And then it would turn into mouthwash. Right. It was anything with alcohol. So multiple times I would check my mom in, but she could easily check herself out because it wasn't a hold. And she would constantly check herself out and I would be upset and I wouldn't understand. I really wouldn't understand. And she ended up dying. She was 46 years old. She had me when she was 16. So not the easiest life, obviously. And so. But I remember she died and I remember being so angry at her all the time. And I had some issues happen to me PTSD wise where I got PTSD wise. I got jumped at work. I got pistol whipped at a event once I was doing. Had my house broken into. So all this stuff had happened and the doctor said, hey, I wasn't sleeping at all. And we tried all these things. I'm so scared to be an addict. I'm scared to take anything because of that history with my mom and not knowing my dad. And so I'm, I. I don't like to take medicine, much less take anything that will possibly hook me. Right. I. I feel the addict in me and other things. It doesn't matter what I do. I feel it. So we went for like a year. We experimented with things. And finally he was like, hey, look, you're gonna be. You're getting sick because you're not sleeping. Because I wasn't sleeping at all. And so I took a sleeping pill and I took it for like two or three months, but I found myself tethered to it and I'm hyper aware of it. And I try not to say addicted, because I've seen real addiction, and I don't think I was addicted, but I was. I was very dependent. And I just stopped taking it one day, and I had some minor withdrawals. And, like, my eyes were black. Not physically, but, like, I would open them, and it was still black, and I would sweat, and it was very minor. And I remember going through that small, small withdrawals, and it gave me the greatest understanding, except I had no idea of what my mom went through because hers was a thousand times worse. And it was the only time in my life that I. Or it was the first time that I actually went. I get it.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
I get why she couldn't quit, because, yeah, it had to be hell for her, who was basically addicted to anything and everything.
Cody Jinx
Y.
Bobby Bones
And my tiny dependence on sleeping pills and the tiny withdrawal that I had hurt. Hurt me physically so bad that I related to my mom more in that situation because I didn't really have a real relationship with her than any other time while she was alive.
Cody Jinx
Yeah. Wow. Yeah, dude.
Bobby Bones
That's why I ask about that with the withdrawals. If that's. If. If physically, you know, it hurt you after that long of drinking that significantly.
Cody Jinx
Yeah, that's. No, that's incredible. That's. That you. That you. That you felt that.
Bobby Bones
And I'm proud, and I love that I felt it.
Cody Jinx
Even though I was gonna say, man, I'm kind of glad you went through me too. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Because I think it would have just been misplaced anger. Instead, now it's a more of an empathetic understanding.
Cody Jinx
Empathy is the word. Yeah. 100.
Bobby Bones
It's a bit of perspective. And perspective we never get perspective because we want it. No, I mean, that's a tool that we get because we didn't want to have to earn it, but once you have it, it's so valuable. We don't want to have. You only get perspective as crap happens.
Cody Jinx
That's real life stuff, man. That is. That is real stuff. Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor. A foot washed up. A shoe with some bones in it. They had no idea who it was.
American Lung Association
Most everything was burned up pretty good.
Bobby Bones
From the fire that not a whole lot was salvageable.
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Cody Jinx
He never thought he was going to get caught. And I just looked at my computer screen, I was just like, ah, gotcha.
iHeart Podcast
On America's Crime Lab, we'll learn about victims and survivors. And you'll meet the team behind the scenes at othram, the Houston lab that takes on the most hopeless cases to finally solve the unsolvable. Listen to America's Crime Lab on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Mark Lombardo
What would you do if one bad decision forced you to choose between a maximum security prison or the most brutal boot camp designed to be hell on earth? Unfortunately for Mark Lombardo, this was the choice he faced.
American Lung Association
He said, you are a number, a New York state number, and we own you.
Mark Lombardo
Shock incarceration, also known as boot camps, are short term, highly regimented correctional programs that mimic military basic training. These programs aim to provide a shock of prison life, emphasizing strict discipline, physical training, hard labor, and rehabilitation programs. Mark had 1:1 chance to complete this program and had no idea of the hell awaiting him the next six months.
American Lung Association
The first night was overwhelming and you don't know who's next to you and we didn't know what to expect in the morning. Nobody tells you anything.
Mark Lombardo
Listen to shock incarceration on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
H
The summer of 1993 was one of the best of my life. I'm journalist Jeff Pearlman and this is Rick Jervis.
I
We were interns at the Nashville Tennesse Inn. But the most unforgettable part, our roommate, Reggie Payne from Oakland, sports editor and.
H
Aspiring rapper and his stage name, Sexy Sweat. In 2020, I had a simple idea. Let's find Reggie.
I
We searched everywhere, but Reggie was gone. In February 2020, Reggie was having a diabetic episode. His mom called 911. Police cuffed him face down. He slipped into a coma and died.
Cody Jinx
I'm like thanking you, but then I see my son's not moving.
H
No headlines, no outrage, just silence.
I
So we started digging and uncovered city officials bent on protecting their own.
H
Listen to finding sexy Sweat on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Cody Jinx
And we're back on the Bobby cast.
Bobby Bones
You ever talk to artists about that new artist about road?
Cody Jinx
All the time. All the time.
Bobby Bones
Because I want to hear from somebody and I don't.
Cody Jinx
I'll tell you a story.
Bobby Bones
I want it. I don't want to go to a. By the way, if I Talk to somebody about marriage. I want to talk to somebody who's been through some crap. Oh, yeah, like, my wife and I, we went to a therapist. I want to go to somebody who's been married, been through some crap. I don't want. I didn't want to go to a preacher who's never had an issue or a priest who's never been married, because I want to hear how hard it is and what you went through and le. Do artists come to you for the same.
Cody Jinx
Absolutely. Absolutely.
Bobby Bones
Tell me a story.
Cody Jinx
I'll tell you two. I'll. I'll tell you two. Two young guys. That one is Jake Worthington. We played the Grand Ole Opry together a few months ago. And his little baby, Whitley, his little baby girl, Whitley, was. And his wife were in the dressing room, and it meant the world to me the day. And I had my wife and kids with me, and we went to their dressing room and said hi to his family. And he called me soon thereafter. He said, I want you to know how much that meant, you know, to me and to my wife. It can be done in this business, you know, to see you and your grown kids and my wife and I have been together 28 years. And that it can be done. Said, absolutely can be done, buddy. I said, it takes a lot of work, and your wife's going to go through as much as you do, because you're going through it. So remember that. You know, just. Just. And so things like that that happened a few months ago. Played a festival with Bailey Zimmerman the other day, and he's one of those guys that. I met him. I was like. I could not help but like, the guy.
Bobby Bones
Same.
Cody Jinx
And he has a ball of energy. He's 25 years old. He's a young man. And I got to spend about 15 or 20 minutes with him, which was mostly Bailey talking about his. His ride up, his rocket ship up, you know, and. And he's. He's got a really great foundation morally. And that at the end of the conversation, you know, I guess just being one of the older guys now, I was like, dude, you know, I said, you know, he's got faith in the Lord. I said, just keep putting God first, man. I said, do that and stay true to yourself. And I was like, I'm going to be pulling for him, man. You know, because that guy's having everything thrown at him. So, you know, to see somebody on his end of it in that meteoric thing, you know, what a ride, what a case of whiplash you must have from that, you know, I am going to pull for him. I like the guy, you know, put the Lord first. Keep doing that young man. And then you know, Jake on like, hey man, newly married, new kid. It can be done. Yeah. So it's, it's good. I guess I kind of wanted to be one of the guys that could look at the younger guys and say, you know, this might not be the exact right way to do it, but you're trying. You know, I'm trying and I'm glad we get to talk about things like that.
Bobby Bones
Bailey's interesting because Bailey and I have similar backgrounds and when Bailey came to town, you're right, he has been on a rocket at times and wah wah. But can be unfair to the kid because he did. He knew how to sing, but he didn't know how to sing. And I think someone like you would know. You grind it out night after night after night. You learn how to sing regardless of the situation. If you're feeling good, you're feeling bad, if you're sleepy, if you're drunk, if you're had a bad day, your wife's mad, you have to learn how to do it. He's a kid on massive stages, does not know how to sing yet. He knows how to sing, but he doesn't know how to. He didn't know you couldn't run it. You couldn't go running back and forth on like the, the catwalk, whatever that thing is called, and have breath. So. So people have videos of him like sucking and I'm like, dude, you know, the difference is that everybody else, they, they got to come up smaller to bigger.
Cody Jinx
That's the record labels. I don't, you know, I say this all the time and I said it recently. Interview. I don't. Man, the artists are the artists, the record labels are the record labels. That's. I never dog artists man. I never. There's. I don't care if I like your music or not. That's. Things like that are the fault of the record company. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
The people looking out for them for sure.
Cody Jinx
You know, and, and that's something that I tell people a lot. I learned how to play for five people, man. Not 500, not 5,000. I learned how to play in front on a Tuesday night in a smoky ass bar room trying to keep. If you can keep five people interested on a Tuesday night in a podunk bar for four hours, you can keep 50, 000 people interested for 90 minutes. You know, and that's. And what a crash course in learning all that that young man has had.
Bobby Bones
Were you ever resentful that people wanted to talk to you now?
Cody Jinx
Like young artists?
Bobby Bones
No.
Cody Jinx
Like, or, or just anybody.
Bobby Bones
Let's just use me as an example.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Because I wouldn't have known about you had your music not started to come to me through friends.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And they would have known about you had it not started to grow to a place that was larger than what. And excuse the term your cult following was. And so at times I'll get a request to do a big interview or something and I'm like, you only want to talk to me. I'm popping off right now for a specific reason. You didn't want to talk to me when things weren't. And now I have this weird resentment, but I'm like, why am I resentful? Like, I've been working hard to get people to want to. Did you ever have that time where you're like, of course now people want to talk to me. Why they want to talk to me.
Cody Jinx
Three years ago, you know, I had such a bad attitude for so long. I didn't. Dude, I. I went through like a five year period where I didn't really do any interviews. Like not maybe one or two just because I felt like it there. There's a. A vast, A vast section of my career that there's just no interviews, man. I just didn't do them because I didn't want to. I didn't, I didn't want. I was in a bad mood, I guess. I was always on the road. So anytime off the road, when I was on the road, I didn't want to do interviews because I was just tired of being on the road all the time. And then I'd get off the road and it's like, I don't want to do them at home. I'm at home. So I just, I didn't. I was like, have him come to a show and right about that, you know. But now it's so much more a part of my job because we're touring 35 to 50 dates a year now and that's it. And so I have the bandwidth for it now and the patience for it. And things are better in my own head now. And I do like to. I do enjoy sitting down like this and talking shop and things of that nature as things change, you know, older and I'm, you know, probably a little bit softer of a human. A little more softer of a human than I used to be.
Bobby Bones
You think Covid forced that?
Cody Jinx
Yeah, a lot of it did. It was really weird, as bad as it was, and I would never hope or wish for it again. Like I said, you know, it really started the process where I started to get to know myself and get to know my. My family better and. But here's a funny thing. When Covid hit, we'd been on the road. On the road, on the road, on the road. We panicked like everybody else did, and there was a lot of bands that lost everything. Like, people stopped getting paid, crew stopped getting paid. Honestly, when Covid hit, we got about two months in, and nobody banned crew. Nobody missed a paycheck. We knew we were going to be fine. I didn't realize how much money we had in the bank. I had no, dude, it sounds funny to say this, and it's not like it was $10 million in the bank or whatever. It wasn't, but I had no idea how much money we did have in the bank and that, like, we were fine and nobody missed a paycheck. And then coming out on the other side, it was like, we don't have. Like, we don't have to work as much. We don't have. We work as hard always. We always work hard, but we don't have to work as much. And I might not have learned that lesson as quickly without Covid.
Bobby Bones
Who are your favorite four artists? Mount Rushmore All Time.
Cody Jinx
Answered a similar question to this recently, and I had kind of two answers. If you had to put your. If, like, if we're just looking at the founding fathers, you know, obviously, I think you'd have to put Jimmie Rogers, Hank Williams, Lefty Frizzell, and then just because he's the best that God ever created. Merle Haggard. But I'm just going to say that as country music historian. Cody. My personal favorite. What did I say? I said it would. Oh. Merle Haggard, Johnny Cash, Willie Nelson, and George Straight.
Bobby Bones
Merle Haggard, Johnny Cash, Willie Nelson, George Strait.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Hey, you got two of the Highwaymen there.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
How about if you see that show?
Cody Jinx
Yeah. You know, one of the funniest things ever. I did a show with Kris Kristofferson.
Bobby Bones
No way.
Cody Jinx
Yeah. Six or seven years ago. And we're standing in the green room, and Chris and Lisa, his wife, were so cool and so gracious with their time. And Chris was just in there drinking beer with everybody. And my dad walks up to Kris Kristoff. My mother's. I've never seen my mother swoon. My mother swooned when Kris Kristofferson walked in the door. And my dad walks up to Kris. Kristofferson and goes, hey, Chris, how about you call Willie up? Me and you and Willie get the highway back together. And it's one of the only times in my career I really remember looking over, it goes, oh, shit. And Chris looks over, and I don't know if Chris heard him right or didn't hear him right or whatever, but just was. Just goes.
Bobby Bones
That'S the perfect response to that.
Cody Jinx
Yeah. So I don't even know if he heard him misunderstood because Chris was like half deaf at the time. Anywhere, almost all the way. It was funny.
Bobby Bones
That is funny. That guy. Rhodes scholar. Yeah, veteran. Like, and not just a veteran, but, like legit combat. Yes, yes.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Great actor.
Cody Jinx
Yeah, great.
Bobby Bones
I mean, he wrote me and Bobby McGee.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Aside from other songs. But he didn't really. Doesn't really gets credit for that because Janet Joplin, sure, you know, is the one who made that song famous. Like, he did it. He did it all.
Cody Jinx
Yeah. Sunday Morning coming down.
Bobby Bones
I mean, like, I don't know if there's a more multi dimensional. It was also great looking, too. It's like, just weird that he had everything and not that he didn't earn everything.
Cody Jinx
I'm not joking, man. Like, he was 83 whenever we did a show with him years ago, and, like, the dude looked good then. Yeah, he was. Yeah, he was. He was the whole package. Just brilliant, handsome, funny. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
I didn't know that part of him.
Cody Jinx
You know, like, just.
Bobby Bones
I know any part of him.
Cody Jinx
Quick wit, man. You know, just. Man, just. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Was in a Stars Born, right, Mike?
Cody Jinx
Yeah, the.
Bobby Bones
The sec. That. Not the very, very first one, but the. The second one. Barbara Streisand.
Cody Jinx
Barbara, yeah, that's.
Bobby Bones
He did it all.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
I mean, he was Jennifer Lopez.
Cody Jinx
Yeah. Hey.
Bobby Bones
He walked so she could run. That's what I say.
Cody Jinx
He was. He was. He was awesome. He was awesome. And it was so nice being able to. It was me and him and Ward Davis on that bill and Ward got out and did Bobby McGee with him.
Bobby Bones
That's really cool.
Cody Jinx
That was. That was cool to watch. And I got up and did Sunday Morning coming down with him, and it was just so special, man, being able to do that because he's one of those guys. He's one of the greatest we've ever had. And now people are like, man, you got to play with Kristofferson. Right? And I'm like, as a matter of fact, I did. You know, it's like, get to tell some cool stories.
Bobby Bones
I want to ask about the record. Speaking of you and Ward Davis wrote Monster together.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
I think that's just because a lot of. I'll say a lot. A lot of songs you wrote by yourself, but you and Ward wrote that one together. What about that song stood out?
Cody Jinx
That was the last song we wrote on the record, actually. The band was doing pre production for the record, and Ward came to Colorado where we were holed up working and just stayed with us for about a week. And Ward and I wrote. And we ended up writing that song. And so that song was the last. Last edition, that song. Ward and I both gave up drinking. So for us, that song was talking about addiction. The. The thing about that song, though, is I had. When we wrote that song, I wanted a female to sing it. I thought that that would be a great song for a female to sing. And. And. And maybe the monster. You know, I was thinking kind of a. Maybe a. A woman being done wrong, like a domestic violence kind of thing. Like there's this monster she keeps letting back in. Because so often that's the trend with. With scenarios like that. So I had that picture kind of painted, and Josh, our bass player and producer, he was like, dude, you gotta sing that song. And Ward was like, dude, you gotta sing that song. And so everybody's got a monster, and monsters are real and they're. They're out there, and everybody's is different. And I think that that's what's kind of cool about that song. It's got such a swing and almost disco kind of chorus. It's really weird. It's kind of one of those ones you want to dance to, but the words are really heavy. So it's. It's really strange in that regard. But, yeah, it's kind of a. What's your monster?
Bobby Bones
Lived in Texas for 12, 13 years. Lived in Austin. And so growing up in Arkansas, I wasn't. I didn't know much of the Texas music scene. When you live in Austin, you are quickly baptized into the Texas music scene. And that's where I learned of Ray Wiley Hubbard.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
So you. Him and your Tennessee Jet.
Cody Jinx
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Talk about that song for a second. The others, it was so cool.
Cody Jinx
I was playing a festival in Oklahoma, and Ray was on that festival, and TJ came. TJ and I have written so many songs together.
Bobby Bones
I mean, probably that's what you call Tennessee Jet. TJ.
Cody Jinx
TJ. Yeah. His name's Thomas. Thomas James McFarland. And that's not a secret. I'm not giving anything away.
Bobby Bones
But his Social Security number.
Cody Jinx
Yeah, his social is. He lives in. He. He Came to see me that day because he was. He lives not far from where that festival was. And. And I was like, man, yeah, of course he's going to get up and do some songs with me. And he knows Ray better than me. I met Ray for the first time 20 plus years ago, but Ray and I hadn't seen each other reconnected since then. And he said, hey, let's go say hi to Ray. So he. He calls Ray up, he's like, hey, I'm over at Jinx and this and that. So we ended up going over to Ray's bus and hanging out with Ray. And Ray is the coolest guy in music, just any genre. Just the coolest, coolest human ever. And he's just such a nice and. And sweet and, and kind and. And generous man. And he said, well, you know, guys, I think maybe we ought to try to write one. And that's all we needed to hear. So TJ just. That day ended and TJ starts a text thread between me, him, and Ray and T. The whole song happened on a text message. TJ goes, hey, guys, what do you think about this? Bam. There's the first verse. Ray fires right back with the second verse. I was like, what do you guys think about this for a chorus? And then TJ goes, oh, what about this for the last verse? So it was tj, Ray, me, tj. And we really didn't change anything. And it happened just like. It was one of the strangest. It just happened, I guess, because it was supposed to and it was too cool not to happen. That's how we wrote that song. We just filmed the video for it two days ago in Chattanooga. And we had all kinds of people out there. We had cowboys and freaks and goths and punks and business people all in the video and just fire breather and people swinging from stunt people swinging from chandeliers. And, you know, it's. It's because it's a song for the fans and, and we're singing for everybody out there. And it's. It's a. It's a. It's a love song to the fans.
Bobby Bones
Hippies and cowboys tour all the way until the end of the year. You're also doing the acoustic shows with War Davis and I mean, for the most part, they can just go to your socials. You got all the dates up there.
Cody Jinx
Yeah, yeah. I mean, it's the easiest thing to say now. Just, it's all on the. All on the socials, man. Everything.
Bobby Bones
Well, I've really enjoyed this. Thanks for Giving me an hour.
Cody Jinx
Thank you for the hour. I appreciate it. And, yeah, a great way to button up the. The trip. I'm. I'm. When do you go home now? From here, from here, from here. I'll. I'll be on an airplane in a couple of hours. And so I'm. I'm about to go to. About to go to the airport and. And head back to the. Head back to the DFW area.
Bobby Bones
Well, listen, I. I really enjoy as a person.
Cody Jinx
Thank you. Likewise, man. I really.
Bobby Bones
I used to be. I'm scared of you still. Maybe like 1% still scared because, you know. You know, you could stab me at any time and I'd be like, yep, I thought so. But other than that, like, I really like hanging out with.
Cody Jinx
Thank you much. I really. Honestly, Bobby, I didn't want to like you.
Bobby Bones
Same, same. I'm glad you said it.
Cody Jinx
I mean, I really did. Yeah, I didn't want. I agree. And now it's kind of like step brothers, you know, it's like now it's like, did we just become friends?
Bobby Bones
Exactly.
Cody Jinx
So, no. Thank you so much for your time and all the best. And I think that our stories probably parallel one another. Probably far more than either one of us realized.
Bobby Bones
That's so funny. So, yeah, you guys go at Cody jinx new album, July 25th, in my blood. Really appreciate the hour. Have a safe trip home. And next time you're in town, let's do it again and talk about how we can't believe we like each other.
Cody Jinx
I know. You know what? We. We might as well, because these keep getting better.
Bobby Bones
So I'll grow the beard, you wear the cardigan.
Cody Jinx
We'll be all, yeah, I. I'm turning over all kinds of leaves, man.
Bobby Bones
All right, there he is. Cody Jinx, everybody.
Cody Jinx
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Podcast Summary: The Bobby Bones Show
Episode: BOBBYCAST: Cody Jinks on Why People Think He’s Mean + The Reason He Quit Drinking + From Playing 200 Shows a Year to Spending More Time with Family + How an Identity Crisis Led To a Big Mistake
Release Date: August 1, 2025
Host: Bobby Bones
Guest: Cody Jinks
Provider: Premiere Networks
In episode 528 of The Bobby Bones Show, host Bobby Bones engages in a candid and heartfelt conversation with acclaimed country artist Cody Jinks. The episode delves deep into Cody's personal struggles, career transformation, and the misconceptions surrounding his personality. Listeners are offered an intimate look into Cody's journey from intensive touring to prioritizing family and sobriety.
Cody Jinks opens up about the preconceived notions people have about him based on his rugged appearance. With tattoos, a beard, and a background in thrash metal bands, many assume he's a stern or unapproachable individual.
Cody Jinks [03:44]: "I went and did a show in Alabama for 7,000 people. The next night, nobody knew it was me. When I walked out on stage, it was the weirdest thing I can ever remember happening in my life because I was already messed up."
Bobby Bones shares his initial apprehensions about Cody but quickly dispels them through their interaction.
Bobby Bones [05:10]: "I found you to be really cerebral. I found you to be quite generous and kind with your time."
Cody acknowledges that his demeanor can be misunderstood, especially by his own daughter, who perceives him as constantly upset due to his appearance.
Cody Jinks [06:12]: "She goes, 'Dad, you look mad all the time.' I was like, 'Casey, Casey.' I was just talking to my sister Casey..."
Cody emphasizes the importance of family in his recent life changes. The demanding nature of touring—playing over 200 shows a year—had strained his relationships, particularly with his children.
Cody Jinks [34:05]: "I was mad at the world. I don't know what the goal was—just how pissed I was."
The conversation touches on how Cody's strict upbringing influenced his personality. His father's unpredictability and struggles with bipolar disorder left a lasting impact, shaping Cody into a quiet and introspective individual at home.
Cody Jinks [30:09]: "We found out what bipolar was in 1994. So prior to that he was just unpredictable."
Both Cody and Bobby share a love for hunting and fishing, reminiscing about their childhood experiences and the bonds these activities forged with their fathers. Cody recounts his fond memories of bass fishing with his dad, highlighting how these moments were some of the few times they communicated.
Cody Jinks [15:46]: "Fishing was our first and really one of our only conduits when I was a kid."
Bobby shares his own experiences, emphasizing the legacy of his stepfather's passion for striper fishing and the deep respect he has for such traditions.
Cody reflects on his extensive touring history and the challenges that came with it. Playing shows night after night took a toll on his mental health and personal life, leading to increased alcohol consumption as a coping mechanism.
Cody Jinks [37:59]: "My goal was to sing about how pissed I was, sing about how effed up everything was."
He discusses the evolution of his songwriting, moving from venting frustration to crafting more personal and introspective songs. A notable mention is his song addressing his relationship with his father, inspired by the classic "Cat's in the Cradle."
A pivotal moment in Cody's life was his decision to quit drinking after years of heavy alcohol use. He candidly shares the challenges of sobriety, including severe withdrawals and the fear of losing functionality without alcohol.
Cody Jinks [47:24]: "I had nightmares and I really had really bad sweats for the first week. And then nightmares went on for a couple of weeks and then I started sleeping really well."
Cody credits the COVID-19 pandemic as a catalyst for his transformation, forcing him to slow down and reassess his priorities.
Cody Jinks [63:49]: "Covid really started the process where I started to get to know myself and get to know my family better."
Cody shares a transformative experience where he shaved off his iconic beard during an identity crisis, leading him to perform without recognition. This incident epitomizes his internal struggle with his public persona and personal identity.
Cody Jinks [44:06]: "I shaved my beard off because I hadn't seen what I looked like. So what's the best thing to do? Shave your beard off."
This moment of vulnerability highlighted the dissonance between how others perceived him and his true self, propelling him toward meaningful personal change.
Initially, both Bobby and Cody had reservations about each other based on appearances. However, their genuine interactions dispelled these misconceptions, leading to a newfound friendship rooted in mutual respect and understanding.
Cody Jinks [73:37]: "I really did. Yeah, I didn't want... I agree. And now it's kind of like step brothers, you know..."
Their conversation underscores the importance of looking beyond surface-level judgments to build authentic relationships.
Cody emphasizes the power of music as a medium to express thoughts and emotions that might be challenging to convey otherwise. Through his songwriting, he finds a safe space to discuss personal and sensitive topics.
Cody Jinks [42:32]: "Because you can say anything through music. Nobody wants to hear your opinions... If you're a songwriter, that's your job."
As the episode wraps up, Cody reflects on his journey and the lessons learned from his struggles. He highlights the importance of empathy, perspective, and prioritizing personal well-being over relentless pursuits of success.
Cody Jinks [51:52]: "Empathy is the word. Yeah. 100."
Bobby Bones and Cody conclude their conversation with mutual gratitude and plans to continue fostering their friendship, celebrating the unexpected bonds formed despite initial impressions.
This episode of The Bobby Bones Show offers a profound exploration of Cody Jinks' personal and professional life. From addressing misconceptions based on appearance to battling addiction and redefining his relationships, Cody's narrative is one of resilience and authenticity. Listeners gain valuable insights into the human side of a country music star, emphasizing the universal struggles of identity, family, and redemption.