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You're kicking it with four Things with Amy Brown.
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Happy Thursday. Four Things. Bam. Amy here. And I'm gonna throw a question out there for y'all because I went to the Write youe Story workshop that Ali Fallon and Donald Miller put on and a few listeners were there. There was probably about 40 people total and this room was full of laughter, joy, courage, strength. I saw it all. But then as people stories started to come out, you realized, wow, there's some unimaginable stories here and people are carrying these heavy burdens and I, I just wasn't in awe of them and the journey that they've been on. And so my question for you is, are you going through something hard right now? Like, are you feeling confused by it all? Like you've just been thrown out into the middle of the ocean all alone, wondering if you're ever going to find your way back to shore? Because I did some processing this weekend and that's what it has felt like for me the last couple of years. I have had to call in the Coast Guard, and that's what I've been doing with all the work and the therapy and all the things. Like, those were my people that came to me in the middle of the ocean and have been slowly helping me find my way back. And this podcast is a community that is here for each other. And meeting listeners of the podcast at the Write youe Story workshop helped show me that. That we're together in this. We're not alone. Again, I especially feel this when I get to meet y'all face to face and when I read your emails that you send in. So today's episode is from our community. All things are emails from listeners that are currently in hard times or have made it to the other side. So, yep, these are stories from someone just like you that listens to this podcast. And I just know that it will be an encouragement to all of you in some way, shape or form. But before I get into the emails, I want to share something from Annie F. Downs. She's a friend of the podcast. She's come on multiple times, and she put up a sermon. I don't even know when it's from, but I only recently heard it, so it might be old. But she was talking about how feelings should ride, not drive. And she was making the point that when we are grieving or going through something hard, that we can allow our grief to ride alongside our joy. So just because we are grieving doesn't mean that there isn't any room for joy. And just because we are joyful doesn't mean that all of our grief is gone. They can ride side by side. And I just love that so much because that's what I was feeling in that room, those 40 people, some of those stories that I was hearing, some of the stories I hear from you when I think about my own life and things riding side by side, I just. I just love it so much. Feelings should ride, not drive. And it's when we put them in the driver's seat that they get control of the whole situation. And we really need them to ride side by side. So thank you, Annie F. Downs, for that. And now we'll get into the emails. All right, we're starting off with an email that's gonna offer hope. Cause I feel like that's a good place to start. It is from Colette, and here's what she had to say. Amy, thank you for the fabulous interview with Jen Hatmaker. This episode really spoke to me. In 2016, my children went off to college. And after 25 years of marriage, I got divorced. Like Jen, I fell into the depths of the ocean. It was so dark, I couldn't tell which way led to the surface. I had to sell my home and move. I remember lying on the floor with half packed boxes, sobbing. I didn't have any friends I was completely alone. It was the darkest time in my life. It took me three years to grieve. In this time I rediscovered who I was. I am so happy I went through all of that darkness. I packed a house and drove a large U haul all by myself. I learned how strong and capable I am in my healing. I took a dance class. I remembered how I loved to dance. I discovered I loved to travel. I made friends and grew closer to my children. I am enjoying the sunshine and the woman I am today. I thank God for helping me along the dark path and for leading me to the new path that I am on. He was my lighthouse. Jen is now a lighthouse for others going through a divorce. I hope anyone going through a dark time knows that better days are ahead and to look for the lighthouses around them. Let your light shine so others can see their way out of the dark. Timber Hawkeye, your friend Colette so Colette, thank you so much for sharing this email. And like I said, this first note, this first story is to be of encouragement that Colette was out in the ocean. She said she was in the depths of the ocean. It was so dark she couldn't tell which way led to the surface. But she eventually found her way out and I love that she's encouraging us to look for the lighthouses. Thanks for sharing your story Colette. This next story Note Email I feel like this is definitely a story because it shares so much and I am so thankful for all that Kristen put in here and and I replied back to her and said are you sure if I share all of this with everybody? And she replied back, I am okay with you reading as much or as little that you think is helpful on the podcast and you can use my name. No problem with that. So thank you Kristen for sharing this story and I'm just going to go ahead and get into the note she sent me now.
