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Amy Robach
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Lunchbox
Anyway?
Amy Robach
We are on it every day, all day.
Howie Mandel
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Amy Robach
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Bobby Bones
And I'm Terry Dubrow.
Amy Robach
And we're gonna keep this between us.
Lunchbox
Not really.
Bobby Bones
The TMZ guy walks up to me, goes, terry, what do you think about Bradley Cooper?
Eddie
They asked him and they said he's not had any plastic surgery.
Bobby Bones
But I mean, what's the latest rumor? I'm gay, right? Is that the latest rumor?
Amy Robach
Yes.
Howie Mandel
First of all, if I were gay,
Bobby Bones
I would be gay.
Amy Robach
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Lunchbox
Here we go.
Bobby Bones
Come on, Bobby Bones.
Amy Robach
Transmitting across America. This is the Bobby Bone Show.
Lunchbox
Let's go.
Bobby Bones
Welcome to Thursday's show, Morning Studio. Morning, Bones. The list of things that you have. This if you're addicted to your phone. All right, everybody, here we go. I'm not addicted to my phone, so. But I will answer these honestly. I do love my phone, though, but I'm not addicted to it. Number one, you reach for your phone before you fully wake up. Anybody do that?
Amy Robach
No.
Bobby Bones
No, really, I have.
Amy Robach
That's a boundary that I set.
Bobby Bones
Ah, good for you.
Eddie
I don't even think about my phone.
Amy Robach
Wow.
Bobby Bones
Good for you, huh? Yeah, I do. Well, yeah. My alarm goes off my phone, though. Does that count?
Amy Robach
Yeah, I think. Do you open it up and scrolling?
Bobby Bones
No, not always.
Amy Robach
Okay.
Bobby Bones
I do grab it when the alarm goes off, and I check it to see what time it is. That kind of stuff.
Amy Robach
Right? It's different.
Bobby Bones
Okay. I can actually go and fully feed the dogs before I even check my phone.
Eddie
Wow.
Bobby Bones
Yeah.
Eddie
Are you being honest?
Bobby Bones
Oh, yeah.
Amy Robach
He just said before. I'm going to be honest.
Eddie
Okay.
Bobby Bones
You feel a mild panic when you can't find your phone. Yeah, of course. Because I just lost my computer that's been in my pocket.
Amy Robach
There's so much on there. Like, it's not because I. Oh, gosh, I need to scroll, but if I'm trying to leave my house, I need it for maps. I don't know how to get anywhere.
Bobby Bones
Good. Okay, we're all there. Next one. You check it even when there's nothing new.
Amy Robach
Yeah, I do that.
Bobby Bones
Me too. And mostly it's just because I want to see what's up in the news. It's my number one news source. Twitter. I don't really check Instagram unless I like him. Purposeful. I don't know. Instagram's not, like, my last one.
Amy Robach
Oh, that's my first one.
Bobby Bones
If I want to be entertained, I go to TikTok first. Like, if I got some time to sit and actually, like, be entertained. TikTok. If I'm just checking the news to see what's up. Twitter, Instagram's last. H you.
Eddie
I don't really check my phone unless it buzzes.
Amy Robach
Oh, Eddie, come on. You don't ever scroll on.
Eddie
I mean, if I'm in the bathroom.
Amy Robach
I mean, Eddie was.
Bobby Bones
Toilets.
Eddie
All.
Bobby Bones
All bets are off for his toilet.
Amy Robach
Okay. You know, he scrolls like tik tok on the plane.
Bobby Bones
I. I'll do that for entertainment.
Eddie
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Okay, next up. You use it to avoid even brief moments of discomfort. If you're, like, waiting in line, sitting alone, riding in an elevator, feeling awkward.
Amy Robach
Yes.
Bobby Bones
I can put it up to my ear and act like I'm talking to someone. If I don't want to talk to someone, does that count? Or is. Am I just using that as, like, camouflage?
Amy Robach
I mean, this is like a decoy.
Eddie
You acted like you're on a phone call.
Bobby Bones
I've probably done more fake phone calls in the past five years than real phone calls.
Amy Robach
Well, that's for sure.
Eddie
That's messed up, man, because you don't
Amy Robach
like real phone calls.
Bobby Bones
I don't like real phone calls. I don't mind facetimes. So it's not a lack of connection. It's on just speaking without visual. I. I never know when someone wants to get off the phone with me.
Eddie
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And I never know if they know I want to get off the phone with them.
Amy Robach
We know.
Bobby Bones
And if. If we're on FaceTime, I can tell. I can tell if they're done with me, they can tell if I'm done with them. So, yeah, I don't think that counts then, because I just use that to avoid conversations with people in real life. Oh, hey. What's up, Mike? Oh, nothing. As soon as that person.
Amy Robach
Did you say Mike or mate?
Bobby Bones
Mike. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Cheryl Strayed
Good.
Bobby Bones
You check your phone while someone's talking to you. I don't do that at all. No.
Eddie
That's rude.
Bobby Bones
Well, if it's somebody that. It's like Eddie and I get a message, I don't mind. I talk to Eddie all day, every day. Like, if my wife, for the most part, unless it's trivial, I don't.
Amy Robach
That's because she would murder you.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, that's true. That's true. But I've learned. But I think it's broken me from that in general.
Amy Robach
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
It's made me realize that just me looking at my phone can be rude. If I'm having a conversation with somebody. Yeah. She would murder me. She has murdered me a couple times for that. And I'm back. You feel the urge to document instead of experience.
Amy Robach
I think I had that maybe early on, years ago, but I've learned, like, just take the video on your phone, save it for later, post it later. Like, it doesn't have to be posted in real time.
Eddie
Document, though. That's just videoing.
Bobby Bones
Yes. I feel like my relationship with this is.
Amy Robach
But for memories.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. But I. I realize watching other people document crap because they're posting on their stories.
Amy Robach
Documenting. Are we talking about people will do
Bobby Bones
a whole song at a concert?
Amy Robach
No, not that.
Bobby Bones
No. What I'll document is a very short sliver of it and then I'll put it.
Lunchbox
Put it away?
Amy Robach
Yes.
Bobby Bones
Because I know now I have the understanding that I'm never going to watch it back. Pictures are different. A couple and then put it away. But I'm good at. I want to have this. But then I'm good at putting it away. But I will record a little bit of everything, but not a lot of anything.
Amy Robach
Reasonable documentation.
Bobby Bones
You reach for your phone when your mind starts to wander. Yeah, duh. Who doesn't? The phone's awesome.
Amy Robach
Not always. No.
Lunchbox
Oh yeah.
Amy Robach
Like to avoid. Because you don't wanna.
Bobby Bones
No, I'd like to put my, my wandering notes into my phone. My notes app, I got like nine notes apps going at once and I got all my thoughts in there.
Amy Robach
Oh, that's different. See, I heard that as some people because they want, they don't want to have to wander and think about certain things so they avoid it. So they go to get distracted by their phone.
Bobby Bones
Any lowland thought boredom, uncertainty, mild stress poison prompts an auto automatic check. The phone fills the gap before you've even decided whether you want the distraction or not.
Amy Robach
That's why you gotta go. Raw dog boredom is what it's called. Raw dog boredom.
Bobby Bones
I get raw dog boredom in the shower and it benefits me greatly.
Eddie
You don't take your phone in the shower?
Bobby Bones
No, Just checking. Okay, if that's on the list, I definitely don't have it. If there's a game on, I'll. I can't see.
Amy Robach
But even in the shower you're still doing a task. That's not wrong.
Bobby Bones
No, I just sit there under the water. Oh, I just sit under the water, let my mind wander. It's the only place I have real freedom.
Amy Robach
Well, then that counts. Okay. Sorry, my bad. I thought you were like lathering up.
Bobby Bones
Well, you can do that though. But that's not something to take.
Amy Robach
No, but the point of raw dog boredom is you're supposed to literally sit and do nothing.
Bobby Bones
I have my raw dog boredom in the shower.
Amy Robach
Okay.
Bobby Bones
Huh.
Amy Robach
And now we know you sit under the running water for.
Bobby Bones
No, not sit. Stand.
Amy Robach
I thought you just said sit.
Bobby Bones
Maybe I was Pictures Sit in the shower floor.
Amy Robach
I, I, I'm probably crying.
Eddie
That's gross.
Amy Robach
The shower floor is clean.
Bobby Bones
You struggle to finish tasks without checking it. And you check your phone during any lull. I'm probably guilty of checking my phone.
Lunchbox
At L's.
Amy Robach
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
You feel restless when you don't have it. No, I'm actually okay. I think mine is. And I've been to places where I don't have my phone at all. I've been to places for a week where they take your phone from you like a mental health checkaway. It's just the first few hours that it feels weird, then it actually feels awesome. I don't feel like I'm addicted to my phone. I know you guys say I am. I think I only had three or four of these. I love my phone. There's a difference. I love being with it. Makes me feel so good.
Amy Robach
Right. But you could be without it. That's sort of like with alcohol. Some people love alcohol and they could quite literally go, never touch it again if they don't want to. Whereas other people that have a true addiction, they can't do that. And so I think some people can't get. They are addicted to their phone and it would cause, like, visceral reactions to not have it.
Bobby Bones
Are you addicted to your phone?
Amy Robach
No.
Bobby Bones
Are you addicted to your phone?
Eddie
No chance.
Bobby Bones
Do you think I'm addicted to my phone?
Eddie
Yes.
Amy Robach
Based on the definition we just gave, though. You're not.
Bobby Bones
I just use it a lot. I utilize it a lot. Okay, There's a question to be had. Hello, Bobby Bones. Our son is 5 and my husband's already comfortable letting him stay overnight at his pre K friends houses. I, on the other hand, am really struggling with the idea. I don't feel like our son yet has the awareness or communication skills to fully understand tricky situations. My husband thinks I'm being overly cautious. Is there an appropriate age for sleepovers? Or is it more about the kid in the situation? Signed, a mom who wants to do the right thing. I'll gladly pass this over to you guys. Amy.
Amy Robach
Yeah. So for me, five is going to be too young. It is tricky. I think it depends on the maturity of the children. But five, you haven't even hit that point yet. Do they have a cell phone yet? Maybe I want my kids to be able to call me at any point in time. And I think the more we learn about the world, it's just everybody's house is not as safe as our own. It's just not. And yeah, I think my kids, I'm gonna want them to be able to contact me. And a five year old, they don't have a cell phone.
Bobby Bones
Is too young.
Eddie
Yes, Eddie, five is way too young. I'm with Amy on that. I think, man, I Struggle sometimes, you know, when my 18 year old, he wants to spend the night. Like, why do you want to spend the night at somebody's house? It doesn't matter though. I'm like, what? What are you going to do there that you like? Why do you want to spend the night?
Amy Robach
It's fun to have sleepover.
Eddie
Yeah, he says the same thing. I'm like, dude, you can come home at one in the morning if you want. But like, you're not spending the night there. I don't like sleepovers. So to me, definitely five is way out.
Bobby Bones
I think you lost our credibility though, when you said 18 seems.
Amy Robach
Yeah. I was like, oh man.
Eddie
Okay.
Amy Robach
Eddie's on the same page as me. Five is way too young, Lunchbox.
Lunchbox
Five is fine. Five is when I started doing sleepovers. I was in kindergarten at 5 years old. That's when you start making friends. You get to explore the world, have time at your friend's house. It can be a little scary for the parents, but you have to learn to trust your kids and let them go. Experience the things you experienced. You did the same thing, Amy. Oh, houses aren't safe. You guys sound like old people. It's so embarrassing to hear you.
Amy Robach
No, I don't. I sound like.
Lunchbox
No, you sound like an old person.
Bobby Bones
Jerry. Jerry.
Amy Robach
Also, it's crazy to know the family so well. Like you need to know that family so well because Lunchbox, it's not worried that, like my kid's gonna make an unsafe decision. I don't trust the other people in the house.
Lunchbox
Oh my gosh. You sound like an old person.
Eddie
That's what I got a question. What happened to Lunchbox when his five year old went to somebody's house?
Lunchbox
He was. He. He walked home.
Bobby Bones
How far?
Lunchbox
Two point something miles.
Eddie
All by himself.
Bobby Bones
But he did make it home.
Lunchbox
That's what I'm saying.
Bobby Bones
Like, he didn't have the awareness to get home. I know it's not safe. But he did have the awareness when put in a situation to understand what to do.
Lunchbox
Right. He decided he was ready to go. He packed his bags and he said, how do I get home? He walked back to his school and then walked to our house. Genius.
Amy Robach
I mean, you did. It is.
Eddie
You lucked out, right?
Lunchbox
No, no, I didn't luck out. It's because I let my kid go out and do things. Like I let him ride his bike and so he knows how to get around. If I just kept a coat over him and didn't let him leave the house, he would have never known how to do it.
Amy Robach
I mean, I don't think we're sheltering our kids by not letting them spend the night over at someone's house when we know nothing good happens when it's after midnight.
Bobby Bones
No. You guys are now inserting other sayings.
Lunchbox
Scary.
Amy Robach
Well, it can be scary at night at somebody else's house.
Lunchbox
Did you never have a sleepover at someone's house? It was so fun.
Amy Robach
I did. I lunchbox. I think sleepovers are okay at five. I think five is too young. I'm not comfortable with five. But maybe when they're a little bit older. And even when they're older, it's still.
Eddie
Still scary.
Amy Robach
Still scary.
Bobby Bones
It is 18.
Eddie
18, man.
Bobby Bones
It's still scary. So I think you can hear by this is that every parent is different depending on the kid and the parenting style.
Amy Robach
It is difficult when it's your. You're parenting with someone and you both don't. You're not on the same page. Which is her situation.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, I think.
Amy Robach
Or his. Whatever.
Bobby Bones
If you're parenting on in different situations, you go with the one that's the more conservative because if something bad happens and you didn't agree on it. I know, I know. Thank you for the email, though. You're.
Amy Robach
You're not alone.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. You're not alone in feeling like this. All right, there you go. Close it up.
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Cheryl Strayed
Had the pleasure of taking my daughter to our very first Daddy daughter dance and I just wanted to say it was awesome to make those memories with her. It's something that I'll never forget and I hope that she'll never forget. And to lunchbox, you just keep making out with your dad buddy.
Eddie
What you do.
Bobby Bones
Dang, I I know I was going to say that at the end. So two things. One Lunchbox thinks that dad daughter dances are creepy. I've now it's like when you get a red car and you notice all the red cars around you. Since he's brought that up, I've Started to see people on my Instagram stories taking their daughters to dad daughter dances. And I will say this. It does not look creepy at all.
Eddie
Oh, it doesn't?
Bobby Bones
None. It never looked creepy because I never thought of that. But he made such a big deal about it. Now I see it. And so I saw Eric Decker taking his daughter to a daddy daughter dance. And also because Eric Decker is also NFL player and he's, like, awesome. It just. There's nothing creepy about it. It looked sweet. Yeah, if that's the word you would use. But, man, you talk about some feedback. We got some engagement on that one. But you still think it's.
Lunchbox
It's very creepy. It's very awkward. It shouldn't happen. We need to do away with it, and I don't. If you consider a peck on the lips making out, then I'm with your dad now.
Bobby Bones
Dad daughter with you and your dad, you're talking.
Lunchbox
Well, either way, if he's. I mean, if that means if he gives his daughter a kiss, he's making out with his daughter. Right.
Bobby Bones
He didn't say he did, though. But you kiss your dad on the mouth.
Lunchbox
I do, but that's not making out. Making out is when you insert tongue.
Eddie
I mean, and that's never happened.
Lunchbox
Never.
Bobby Bones
If you guys kiss on the mouth at a restaurant, you haven't seen your dad in a couple months. You meet at a restaurant when you. And you kiss on the mouth, do people look at you weird?
Lunchbox
I have no idea.
Bobby Bones
You can't tell because you're looking deep in his eyes as you kiss.
Lunchbox
Oh, I've never looked at what other people are looking at. I'm not really worried, but have you
Amy Robach
done it in the. In public or just at home?
Lunchbox
Yeah, like if. I'm. Like if. Let's say we're meeting at a restaurant and we're gonna hit the road and leave. All right, bye. I love you. We're out in front of the restaurant.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. Mouth, Mouth.
Eddie
How long?
Bobby Bones
How long?
Eddie
Oh, okay.
Bobby Bones
Peck question. You never want to go crinkle lips on crinkle lips because you don't want them dry. So you got to, like. Even when you kiss your wife or your husband, you got to make sure they're at least moisturized a little bit. Do you lick your lips before you kiss your dad?
Lunchbox
Nope.
Eddie
Dry lip.
Amy Robach
Is that a thing? Licking the lips?
Bobby Bones
My lips are dry, though, so I don't want to. I don't want to go straight crinkle lips into somebody.
Amy Robach
Okay.
Bobby Bones
Like my wife.
Eddie
So what do you do? You lick before you go in?
Bobby Bones
Yeah. And she always says, why do you do that, weirdo? That's weird.
Amy Robach
Does anybody else do this?
Eddie
No, I don't think so.
Bobby Bones
I don't think you guys are as dehydrated as I am. As generally speaking, I'm just. I'm like, dust. Dust comes out.
Amy Robach
I'm sitting here like, should I say something? Because you were acting like that was a normal.
Bobby Bones
But I'm not doing it, like, on the way in. But if I know I'm about to do it, it's like,
Amy Robach
okay.
Bobby Bones
I just think I'm so.
Amy Robach
You're like a little lizard.
Bobby Bones
Yeah.
Cheryl Strayed
Okay.
Bobby Bones
But you stand by even after all the feedback that dad daughter dances should be no more.
Lunchbox
Yeah, it's creepy.
Bobby Bones
But you think you and your dad kissing on the mouth is cool?
Lunchbox
It's fine.
Bobby Bones
Have you ever kissed? You catch your mom on the lips? Yep. Ever at the same time? Did a triple kiss?
Lunchbox
Nope.
Bobby Bones
Okay.
Cheryl Strayed
Never.
Bobby Bones
Katies do that on mtv.
Lunchbox
Yeah, I've done that before at a bar.
Eddie
Triple kiss?
Lunchbox
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
With two dudes?
Lunchbox
No, a couple chicks.
Bobby Bones
One dude, one chick.
Lunchbox
Nope. Two chicks, one dude.
Bobby Bones
What if it was a really hot chick, but one dude?
Lunchbox
Nope.
Bobby Bones
Okay, Just asking.
Eddie
Was that just peck?
Lunchbox
Nope. That is.
Bobby Bones
How do you do tongue, though, in two mouths?
Lunchbox
I just come in on from the sides, man.
Amy Robach
Oh, my God.
Eddie
It's like a teeth cleaning you're doing.
Bobby Bones
You're going side to side like a windshield wiper.
Lunchbox
Yeah.
Eddie
I don't believe it.
Bobby Bones
I don't believe it either.
Lunchbox
That's great. I don't care if you believe it. I've been there.
Bobby Bones
I've done that.
Amy Robach
How much?
Bobby Bones
All right, thank you for the voicemail. It's time for the good news with Lunchbox.
Howie Mandel
Tell me something good.
Lunchbox
Laurel Bates is a kindergarten teacher and she was tired, tired of the tattling. Jimmy did this, Sally did that. Oh, my gosh. All day, kids lined up at her desk to tattle. She's like, I gotta do something about this. So she got an old school phone, set it up, taught the kids how to use it. And it's a tattletale line. They call the number, leave a voicemail, and they tell them what they got a tattle on so she doesn't have to deal with it.
Eddie
I love that.
Bobby Bones
Why?
Eddie
I mean, I need that for the house.
Bobby Bones
You.
Eddie
You know how many times a day we hear it? Yeah. You did this, he did that. Hey, call the tattletail line. I love that.
Amy Robach
Funny.
Bobby Bones
Oh, Lunchbox was there for a Sally in your life.
Lunchbox
No.
Bobby Bones
You always Go to Sally. When he has to make up names on the spot, it's always Sally. Well, that's one of the kids there. Yeah.
Lunchbox
S for Sally just seems pretty easy. Like it's just a common name. I felt like maybe. Maybe it just pops in my head because it's S and Sally. Jesse Raphael. I don't know. What. I don't know. I don't know why I do. Sally. Sally is easy.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, I guess.
Amy Robach
Yeah.
Eddie
Yeah.
Amy Robach
Sally.
Lunchbox
Yeah. You want to hear some of the
Amy Robach
tattoos by the sea store? Don't.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, go ahead.
Lunchbox
One of them was someone called in to say Evan has two erasers in his pencil pouch. He's only supposed to have one good one.
Bobby Bones
What else?
Lunchbox
Beckham was being bossy and said he's the leader of everyone even though he's not.
Bobby Bones
Any Sally calls?
Lunchbox
No. We got Samantha said scram to Maverick because he won't leave her alone.
Bobby Bones
Got it.
Lunchbox
Those are the titles, man. Those are those ones I saw.
Eddie
So they actually call a place. So I got to set up, like,
Bobby Bones
a line like you think, though, now.
Eddie
Okay, you can do that with an answering service.
Bobby Bones
We don't need a service.
Amy Robach
Usually. You could. You could record it like, hey, this is the tattletale line for the Garcia family.
Bobby Bones
Leave a tattle.
Eddie
All right.
Bobby Bones
There you go. That's what it's all that was. Tell me something good. The game is called this or that. Ready?
Amy Robach
Ready.
Bobby Bones
For example, what show premiered first? American Idol or the Voice?
Eddie
American idol.
Bobby Bones
American Idol 2002. The Voice, 2011. Good job. Write your answers down. Okay. Amy versus Eddie in a game of this or that, man, doing it by yourself does not have the same oomph.
Eddie
I know.
Bobby Bones
Which player retired first, Peyton Manning or Tom Brady? This or that?
Amy Robach
I'm in.
Eddie
I'm in.
Bobby Bones
Amy.
Amy Robach
Peyton Manning.
Bobby Bones
Eddie.
Eddie
Peyton Manning.
Bobby Bones
In 2016, it was Peyton Manning and Tom Brady. It was 2022. Good job. Next one. Which show ran longer, Friends or Seinfeld?
Amy Robach
Man. Okay, I'm in.
Bobby Bones
Amy.
Amy Robach
Friends.
Bobby Bones
Eddie.
Eddie
I'm gonna go Seinfeld.
Bobby Bones
Well, I was close. 10 versus 9.
Amy Robach
Oh, then I won. No, no, I know. Friends was 10 years.
Bobby Bones
How do you know that?
Amy Robach
Because I just.
Bobby Bones
You. Friends ran for 10 seasons. No way. Seinfeld ran for nine. Friends did 235 episodes. Seinfeld did 180. Oh, next up. And this or that. Man, it's lonely when nobody yells.
Eddie
You're doing a good job, man.
Amy Robach
Do you want us to yell with you?
Bobby Bones
I don't know.
Eddie
I just don't know when you're doing it.
Bobby Bones
I know every once in a while I go this or that?
Eddie
I. I'll pick up with you at that.
Bobby Bones
Which launched first, Google or Amazon?
Amy Robach
I'm in.
Bobby Bones
Amy?
Amy Robach
Google.
Bobby Bones
Eddie.
Eddie
Amazon.
Bobby Bones
In 1994. Amazon launched. In 1998. Google launched. Yes. Another question in this.
Amy Robach
Oh, my God, it sounds like a masterpiece.
Bobby Bones
Fanta. I give up.
Eddie
We try, man.
Bobby Bones
Which movie won the best picture at the 67th Academy Awards? Forrest Gump or the Shawshank Redemption?
Eddie
Oh, I'm in. Ooh, okay, hold on. I'm in.
Bobby Bones
Amy.
Amy Robach
Shawshank.
Cheryl Strayed
Eddie.
Eddie
I'm going Shawshank or scum?
Amy Robach
Oh, dang. I could have gotten a point.
Bobby Bones
It's tied two to two right here. Which artist has more Grammy wins, Taylor Swift or Beyonce? Which artist has more Grammy wins? Taylor Swift or Beyonce does.
Amy Robach
Beyonce's win does. If Destiny.
Bobby Bones
Which artist has more Grammy wins?
Eddie
I'm in.
Amy Robach
I'm in.
Bobby Bones
Amy.
Amy Robach
Taylor.
Eddie
Eddie. Beyonce.
Bobby Bones
Beyonce has 35. That's a lot. Taylor has 14. Oh, Beyonce holds the record for the most.
Eddie
That's a lot.
Bobby Bones
All right, three more. Who has won more CMA Entertainer of the Year awards? Kenny Chesney or George Strait?
Amy Robach
Oh, my gosh.
Eddie
I know this is tough. I'm in.
Bobby Bones
I know. Eddie's got a one point lead.
Eddie
What's the name of this game?
Amy Robach
This or that? All right, Amy. Any Meanie, Miney. George.
Bobby Bones
Eddie.
Eddie
I went George Straight.
Bobby Bones
George Straight has three wins. 89, 90 and 93. Kenny Chesney has wins in 04, 06 and 07 and 08.
Eddie
Oh, yes.
Bobby Bones
Kenny Chesney has four. George Straight has three.
Eddie
Wow.
Bobby Bones
Which band formed first? Backstreet Boys or NSync? Amy.
Amy Robach
Backstreet Boys.
Cheryl Strayed
Eddie.
Eddie
Backstreet.
Bobby Bones
Correct. I'm not sure how many more I said we were gonna do, but we'll do one more. Amy, you need this. You need him to miss it. Which premiered first, Keeping up with the Kardashians or Jersey Shore?
Amy Robach
I'm in.
Bobby Bones
Amy.
Amy Robach
Jersey Shore.
Bobby Bones
Eddie.
Amy Robach
Yes.
Eddie
I too wrote down Jersey Shore.
Bobby Bones
You just needed her to match.
Eddie
I know. That's it.
Bobby Bones
And you're both wrong.
Amy Robach
Oh, my God.
Bobby Bones
Jersey Sh. 409. Kardashians. 07. But the winner of this or that, I wasn't ready. The winner of this or that is Eddie. All right, this is an interesting voicemail.
Cheryl Strayed
I finally got the promotion that I've been working so hard for for five years, and I had a sit down with the manager and everything was going fantastic. He was telling me everything I wanted to hear until it came to the Salary, I kind of feel like I was lowballed is way a lot less than what I was expecting and what I was hoping for. How would you handle the situation if I wanted to say no? Because it's that far off of a salary that I was hoping for. Love the show. Love to hear your advice.
Bobby Bones
First off, congrats on the promotion. That is awesome. We've been there five years, right? Five years.
Eddie
Five.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. They value you, and so hard work's paying off. But if this happens, and let's just say everything is as is and you keep working as is, you're gonna create a resentment inside of you that's gonna be bad for everyone involved, for you, for the company. Like, so you gotta kind of nip that in the bud. If you say no immediately, that's not good. You're only saying no immediately, like, nope, not good. I'm out of here. You're being triggered. You're reacting. You're not responding. Do not react in a situation like this because it is business. If I were you, I would go and say something to the tune of, hey, I'm very excited about this opportunity. I was surprised by the salary. And again, I'm going to say this. Don't make people defensive. That's the number one thing to remember whenever you are in some sort of conflict resolution, when you actually want a resolution. Don't make people defensive, even if you feel like they should be. And based on the added responsibilities that I have and what I've seen the market pay for in this role, I was expecting something closer to. And then you have to give them a number. You can't say higher. You literally have to give them a number. And so they'll have to make a decision based on that. Either they can adjust it and they go, oh, thank you for sharing that. And sometimes businesses won't move unless you tell them you need them to move. Like, why would they? They're not just. They're not doing charity, so they'll move it. They can also say, we can't move it now, but we can give you a timeline to how we can move it. That also is a way out of that path. Or they just truly can't move. And then you have to make a decision, but at least you're not reacting without going through those avenues of having the discussion, letting them know where you are and letting. Giving them an opportunity, if you are so valued to show you you're valued. They're not just going to go, good point, bro. Here's more money. Or they Would have done that initially.
Amy Robach
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
So be professional. Remember, a company doesn't have heart and feelings and emotions. A company's just there to make money. And sometimes we, you know, one of the four agreements. Don't take anything in business personally, even though it could be people you work personally with. If they promoted you, they obviously see your value. But I would go back and I would say that, like, thank you for the promotion and opportunity. I can't wait to prove you right.
Amy Robach
Yeah. Something that helped me in a negotiation a year ago or so is just being open to creative solutions because they weren't the bot the original offer couldn't change. Like, the base price was going to be that price. But we got creative with a few other ways where money could come in and maybe you could get creative and think ahead of what some of those could be and use that. Be like, hey, and I'm open to creative solutions. Like, here's some things I've thought of, like, maybe we could go that route too. And maybe they can, maybe they can't. But in my case, that actually worked. They're like, oh, actually we could pull a percentage from this and you get paid it quarterly or something. And so it's not on every single paycheck. But it's just a way to, at the end of the year, get what you were looking for.
Bobby Bones
And I would encourage you to that very, very, very last, give them an opportunity to figure out ways to get you more money before you have to figure out ways to do more work to get more money. So that's an option. But don't just walk away. Don't walk away now. You may decide you want to, but also don't walk away now anyway until you find another job. Yeah, it's so much easier to find another job if you have a job. And people, for the most part, like to hire people from another job instead of somebody that doesn't have a job. As unfair as that is, because they think, oh, they currently have a job, there's some value with that person.
Amy Robach
Yeah. And something you just said makes me want to clarify because, Bobbi, it's sort of advice you gave me. You go, I don't know.
Bobby Bones
If you don't get me in trouble,
Amy Robach
remember, you're not going to be in trouble at all. But it's not necessarily creative solution doesn't have to be creating more work for you at all. It's like finding different ways where money can come in and you might need to be the one creatively coming up with like, oh, you know, you get what I'm saying? Like, it doesn't have to be more work. It's just how they pay you in a different way. Like, does that make sense? Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Kind of sounds like more work.
Amy Robach
No, it's not more work. I promise I'll tell you off air what you told me.
Eddie
Great. Can't wait.
Amy Robach
I promise you it helped me. It was good advice.
Lunchbox
Yeah. Good luck.
Bobby Bones
We're rooting for you. Don't react. Respond. Generally in life, if we respond, better results. Generally in life, we react. Not good results.
Reed Yarberry
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Generally in life, if we get into conflict and we don't make the person feel defensive, the conflict is resolved much easier because they don't. You're backed into a corner. You're going to react in ways that you don't. You're gonna. You're gonna make them react, and then
Amy Robach
they're gonna be like, this person's exhausting. Just fire them.
Bobby Bones
That true? Good luck. We're rooting for you. And let us know how it goes. How do you feel about the word sure?
Amy Robach
Well, I use the word sure, and I think that I'm saying yes, but I keep seeing people talk about how the word sure really means no. And an example that came to mind for me is when Scuba Steve hits us up about work things. Sometimes I will reply with a yes, and it feels good. Other things, I reply with the sure, and I am saying yes, but I think I really do mean no.
Bobby Bones
My wife will say, why did you just sure me? I think everybody's sure is different. My sure means I'll do it, but it's not my first choice of things to do. It's a yes, but I'm not running into it going, I'm so pumped to do it. Like, will you take out the trash? Sure. Will you move the car from the garage? Sure. Yep. Yep, I'm gonna do it. But it's different than yeah. I feel like yes is a passion, or I'll do it. No problem. Sure is. You should know I'm saying yes, but I wouldn't do it otherwise. That's my sure.
Amy Robach
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
But I do think some people say sure, and it is a no. I think you have to know the person.
Amy Robach
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Define your sure.
Amy Robach
Well, this has got me thinking about my shirs. And really, the. The time I use sure the most is sometimes in correspondence with Steve. And I'm thinking, I feel like I'm just replying yes because it's my job and I need to do it. But I give, I make sure. It's almost like My way of letting
Bobby Bones
him know, you don't want to do it, but you will do it because you feel like it's part of the obligation.
Amy Robach
Like, even in the same email, if I'm like, a bullet point of things, like, I'll be like, yes, yes, yes. Sure. Like, why wouldn't I just say yes?
Bobby Bones
That one you don't want to say yes to. But you are saying yes. But you're letting them know you're not saying yes. Yes.
Amy Robach
Right. But if it's truly a yes and it's no difference to Scuba Steve, why don't I just say yes and then no? Yeah, why don't I have yes and no? Like, why do I even have the sure?
Bobby Bones
Passive aggressive vernacular? Eddie, what does sh for you, man?
Eddie
I think that sure is just another way of me saying yes. Like, I get tired of yes, so I just say like, yes.
Bobby Bones
Yep.
Eddie
Yeah, sure.
Bobby Bones
I think tone has a lot to do with if verbally said. Like, ask me if I'll take out the trash.
Eddie
Hey, Bobby, will you take out the trash?
Bobby Bones
Sure.
Eddie
Oh, you don't want to.
Bobby Bones
I don't want to do that. Like, ask me again.
Eddie
Hey, Bobby, you want to take out the trash?
Bobby Bones
Sure. High pitch. Sure is yes and love doing it.
Amy Robach
But see, Eddie saying his sure is a yes. And I'm also saying yes. When I'm saying sure, I'm saying yes.
Bobby Bones
Sure is different. But I think sure is I'll do it. I don't really want.
Eddie
Oh, that's what I was thinking about. Text. Sure.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. Texture
Eddie
is enough. Sure.
Amy Robach
Like, if Bobby ever to say, hey, do you have a minute's talk right now? And you replied back, sure.
Bobby Bones
Like, it's not what I would have chosen to do. But I do have a minute to talk.
Amy Robach
But then I'm gonna receive your shirt and be like, why wouldn't he just say, I know it's a yes, but what I'm saying is, if I really think about it, am I saying sure just to please? So I really should say no?
Bobby Bones
No, I don't think so. You should still say yes if it's a sure. Sure is still yes.
Eddie
Okay, that's a good point. Because every time I've asked you to play golf, you're like, yes. You're never like, sure, yes.
Bobby Bones
Because that's what I really want to do. If you were to ask me something that I thought I should do, and it's a yes. It's a sure. Lunchbox. Are you sure?
Lunchbox
Sure. So that sure is more like, I'll do it. I'm not excited, but it could be. All right.
Eddie
You're the same.
Bobby Bones
Sure, sure.
Amy Robach
But what if we just start seeing if our shirts are a no?
Bobby Bones
It needs to be. So okay. Again, if there's something I don't want to do, though. Hey, would you mind cutting off your toe? Sure. I'm gonna do it, but I don't want to do it.
Eddie
The taking out the trash is perfect because you can't say no to that. Like, if my wife asked me, I'm not gonna be like no.
Bobby Bones
And I'm not gonna be like yes, because I'm not gonna give her the benefit of just thinking I wanted to do it. And I don't mind doing it. I'm gonna give him her sure. Knowing that I really want to do
Amy Robach
this, but I'm gonna next time try out. Just no.
Bobby Bones
But it's not a no. It's not a no. Sure. It's not a no. Sure. It's not enough.
Eddie
You imagine you told your wife no.
Bobby Bones
I can't imagine.
Eddie
Like, my wife sometimes would be like, hey, do you want to take the trash? I'll be like, no.
Bobby Bones
Oh, you know what I say sometimes? I'll say no. I'll say. She'll say, do you want to do that? I don't, but I'll do it. That's nice of you. That's even worse than sure. Yeah, that's even. That's a no. But I know it's better long term to do a yes. The English language is tough. I try to imagine learning the English language from another country. I think we have the hardest language because our words all mean different things. The same word means different things.
Eddie
Then you hit them with lit like fire. Fire.
Lunchbox
Oh, man.
Bobby Bones
It's time for the good news with Amy.
Howie Mandel
Tell me something that.
Amy Robach
Okay, get this. A woman is taking a water aerobics class and the diamond falls out of her ring. This isn't just any old diamond. It's a family heirloom gone forever. Can't find it. Well, in one in a billion coincidence. Her neighbor Coleman was playing water volleyball in that same pool later that day. And he managed to step on the diamond so perfectly that it wedged into the sole of his water shoe. But it gets even better because you're probably thinking that he gets of the water from playing volleyball and finds it.
Eddie
Yeah.
Amy Robach
Oh, no, that's not. When he finds it, Coleman travels to Florida for vacation, puts his water shoes back on at the pool, and then that's when he spots what he thinks is a piece of glass wedged in his shoe. Then he goes to a jeweler to be like, what could this be? Because he's like wait, this looks like it's different than glass. Sure enough, it was a high quality vintage diamond. He posted a photo of it on Facebook where mutual friend connected them and the diamond was returned to her. And he's again Hernandez.
Bobby Bones
If that's just a raw diamond.
Eddie
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
That alone all the other stuff that happened. And then a raw diamond to make it home.
Eddie
And it made it all the way
Bobby Bones
to Florida because he packed it travel
Amy Robach
with the shoes on. But he packed them in his bag and when he put them back on at the pool. But what I'm thinking is if you know you lost it, which maybe she didn't know she lost it when she was playing, doing water aerobics. But like it's a contained pool.
Bobby Bones
Yeah.
Eddie
Did you just like search that whole pool?
Amy Robach
Send divers maybe?
Bobby Bones
I would imagine she didn't know she lost it in the pool.
Amy Robach
Maybe. Yeah. But how crazy.
Bobby Bones
Oh, that's crazy.
Amy Robach
That's crazy.
Bobby Bones
That's a great story. That's what it's all about. That was. Tell me something good. Wake up. Wake up in the morning. It trying to put you through. M's riding this wig's next bit and Bobby's on the mic. So you know what this is? This is the Bobby 90 seconds on the clock. We're going to do the investigative Corny Amy. Ready team? You ready?
Eddie
Ready.
Lunchbox
Ready.
Bobby Bones
Let's get it
Howie Mandel
the morning corny.
Amy Robach
What do you call a laughing labradoodle dog?
Bobby Bones
A laughing labradoodle hybrid.
Eddie
Have have laughing doodle comedian.
Bobby Bones
Labradoodle.
Lunchbox
Labradoodle.
Eddie
That's a labrador and a poodle poodle.
Amy Robach
That's what I have.
Bobby Bones
I don't know what's the joke?
Amy Robach
What do you call a laughing labradoodle?
Bobby Bones
What are words for laughing? Laugh.
Lunchbox
Barking, giggle. Giggle.
Eddie
Haha haha.
Lunchbox
Lol. Te la la. I don't chuckle.
Eddie
Chuck.
Lunchbox
Chucky, Chuck.
Bobby Bones
Chucky Doodle.
Lunchbox
Chuck doodle.
Eddie
Is that it?
Amy Robach
Nope.
Eddie
Oh. Oh. Snicker snickerdoodle.
Amy Robach
Snicker doodle. Yes, that's it. Why is wind power popular?
Bobby Bones
It blows up everywhere it goes. It always blowing up on social media.
Lunchbox
Say that again.
Eddie
Yeah.
Amy Robach
Why is why is wind power popular?
Lunchbox
Blows people away.
Eddie
It blows up. They blow up in popularity. They blow wind power power circles. They go viral.
Bobby Bones
It has fans. It has fans.
Amy Robach
Yeah. What kind of of thief is the strongest burglar?
Bobby Bones
Criminal burglar?
Eddie
Strongest.
Lunchbox
Wait. Strong arm.
Bobby Bones
Wait. The strongest power?
Lunchbox
Carjacking. Jacked.
Bobby Bones
What kind of thief is good?
Eddie
That. That's good.
Amy Robach
Lunchbox Shoplifter.
Eddie
Okay, lift.
Bobby Bones
Oh, that's pretty good. All right. How many we get?
Amy Robach
Got two.
Bobby Bones
We fought hard, though.
Lunchbox
We fought hard.
Bobby Bones
You just have pride in your work. We fought hard on that one.
Amy Robach
Bobby Bone Show.
Bobby Bones
Bonehead glory of the day.
Lunchbox
This story comes to us from New Jersey. A 31 year old man's got tattoos on his arm, neck, one on his face. And some of the neighborhood kids like, man, how'd you get those? He's like, oh, you want me to give you a temporary tattoo? It's really easy. So he sat down, three kids and gave him real tattoos.
Amy Robach
Oh, my gosh.
Eddie
Real tattoos.
Bobby Bones
He thought they were temporary, right? He was just an idiot. Is it right?
Lunchbox
The kids thought they were temporary, but he gave them real tattoos?
Bobby Bones
Really?
Lunchbox
Yeah. He's going to jail for three years.
Amy Robach
So like a.
Bobby Bones
That's crazy how I saw the story. I just assumed maybe it was like that he was also unknowingly giving people tattoos.
Amy Robach
Oh. Like it's magic ink that just like disappears after three days.
Bobby Bones
Because I can't imagine he's the most intelligent guy. Anyway, that sucks for those kids.
Lunchbox
Okay, I'm Lunchbox. That's your Bonehead story of the day.
Eddie
Get your Bobby Bones on.
Amy Robach
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Episode Title: Bobby Admits His Phone Habits + Advice On Getting Low-Balled At Work + Amy And Eddie Play 'This Or That?'
Host: Bobby Bones
Studio Crew: Amy Robach, Eddie, Lunchbox
Air Date: March 19, 2026
This episode of The Bobby Bones Show features an honest discussion of modern phone habits—including Bobby’s own relationship with his device—parental perspectives on the age for kids’ sleepovers, playful banter on the meaning of the word "sure," career advice for listeners negotiating salaries, and a lively pop culture game of "This Or That?" Memorable anecdotes and witty exchanges keep the tone energetic and relatable.
On Phone Use:
“I’ve probably done more fake phone calls in the past five years than real phone calls.”
– Bobby Bones, [05:03]
On Sleepovers:
“Five is way too young...I struggle sometimes when my 18-year-old, he wants to spend the night...like why do you want to spend the night at somebody’s house?”
– Eddie, [11:00]
On Negotiation:
“A company doesn’t have heart and feelings and emotions. A company’s just there to make money.”
– Bobby Bones, [29:41]
On 'Sure':
“Sure is just another way of me saying yes. I get tired of yes, so I just say like, yes, yeah, sure.”
– Eddie, [34:23]
The episode is lively, humorous, and honest, with strong camaraderie among the hosts. The crew isn’t afraid to challenge each other or to lean into playful teasing, but also balances levity with supportive, practical advice for their listeners. The conversational style is inviting and quick-witted, with relatable stories and pop culture references.
This summary captures the main themes, insights, and engaging moments from the March 19, 2026, episode of The Bobby Bones Show, providing a comprehensive catch-up for those who missed it.