Podcast Summary: "Look Her In The Eye" featuring Jason Ellis The Bonfire with Big Jay Oakerson and Robert Kelly
Release Date: February 14, 2025
Host: SiriusXM
Guest: Jason Ellis

1. Introduction and Welcome

The episode kicks off with Big Jay Oakerson and Robert Kelly warmly welcoming comedian Jason Ellis to The Bonfire. They highlight Jason's active touring schedule, mentioning his upcoming shows in cities like San Diego, San Francisco, Poughkeepsie, Chicago, and more.

Jason Ellis [00:57]: "All you people out there know this guy. He'll be all over the place."

2. Coolness vs. Power

The hosts engage in a lighthearted debate about the difference between being "cool" and "powerful," with Big Jay emphasizing his own coolness despite not having substantial wealth.

Big Jay Oakerson [01:34]: "I don't think I'm very powerful. I think I'm cool. There's a difference these days."

Robert Kelly [02:04]: "If he has the belief of a good woman behind him, then he will. He'll get the powerful, the rich and powerful."

3. Personal Relationships and Anecdotes

Jason shares unconventional and humorous stories about his past relationships, including encounters with family friends and complex romantic situations.

Jason Ellis [02:59]: "I've had six fats. I've had five sexies."

Big Jay Oakerson [05:05]: "I did drugs and alcohol and got sober. Wait, that's not you."

4. Diet, Fitness, and Lifestyle Choices

The conversation shifts to health and wellness. Big Jay discusses his animal-based diet and testosterone replacement therapy, highlighting the positive changes it has brought to his physique and overall health.

Big Jay Oakerson [27:21]: "It's grass fed beef, sweet potato, avocado, eggs. You can't have any processed shit."

Robert and Jason chime in with their own perspectives on maintaining a healthy lifestyle while on the road, sharing tips and personal struggles.

Jason Ellis [30:44]: "It's hard to do a d. I bring it. You bring, like, in Tupperware?"

5. Audience and Fan Dynamics

The hosts reflect on how their relationships with fans have evolved as their popularity has grown. Jason talks about recognizing faces from past shows and the bittersweet nature of these interactions.

Big Jay Oakerson [06:07]: "I wish I had got into comedy earlier, but a lot of people that come to my shows are from when I was rich and successful."

6. Humor and Risqué Storytelling

The trio delves into more adult-themed humor, recounting explicit stories with a mix of shock value and comedy. They navigate through topics involving past sexual escapades and boundary-pushing anecdotes, all delivered with their signature comedic flair.

Jason Ellis [16:00]: "I've had sex with these three sisters. One was my stepmom's best friend."

7. Celebrity Opinions: Madonna Debate

A significant portion of the episode centers around the hosts' critical views of Madonna. Big Jay recounts an interaction where he bluntly expressed his thoughts about her, leading to a humorous yet heated exchange.

Big Jay Oakerson [34:40]: "I said, you're fat. Like, what's up with that."

Jason Ellis [36:23]: "She's doing hgh, dude. She ain't doing peptides."

8. Fitness Challenges and Body Image

Further discussions on physical fitness, body image, and personal transformations take place. The hosts exchange jokes about workouts, diets, and the societal pressures related to body standards.

Robert Kelly [29:36]: "But Jason's here and now. You look like a tiny lady, Jacob."

Big Jay Oakerson [27:21]: "I've been on testosterone for Testosterone replacement for 10 years."

9. Upcoming Shows and Promotions

As the episode nears its conclusion, Big Jay and Robert promote their respective upcoming shows and specials. Jason shares details about his tour dates and encourages listeners to support his work through platforms like YouTube and Patreon.

Robert Kelly [55:11]: "Governor's in Levittown, New York, February 7th and 8th."

Jason Ellis [55:26]: "I'll be in punchup. Robert Kelly YouTube.com Robert KellyCommittee."

10. Closing Remarks and Final Banter

The episode wraps up with more playful ribbing and humorous exchanges between the hosts and Jason. They reflect on their journey in comedy, the influence of late legends like Patrice O'Neal, and the importance of maintaining integrity in their craft.

Robert Kelly [47:32]: "Patrice took all the integrity of comedy with him. Here's what we've also lost."

Big Jay Oakerson [55:30]: "Thank you for starting me in the business."

Notable Quotes with Timestamps

• Jason Ellis [22:20]: "I have sex with random people. I don't do shit."
• Big Jay Oakerson [27:21]: "I've never been bigger, I've never been stronger."
• Robert Kelly [29:36]: "But Jason's here and now. You look like a tiny lady, Jacob."
• Big Jay Oakerson [34:40]: "I said, you're fat. Like, what's up with that."
• Jason Ellis [44:07]: "Look me in the eyes. That's what we're doing."

Conclusion

"Look Her In The Eye" is a rollercoaster of candid conversations, bold humor, and personal storytelling. Jason Ellis brings a fresh perspective to the dynamic duo, engaging in laughs while delving into topics ranging from relationships and diet to celebrity opinions and the evolving landscape of comedy. The episode exemplifies the blunt and unfiltered nature of The Bonfire, offering listeners an entertaining blend of humor and heartfelt discussions.

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