
The Book Review is off this week, but please enjoy this episode of the The New York Times podcast "The Interview," in which Gilbert Cruz speaks with the author Isabel Allende about her new novel "My Name is Emilia del Valle."
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Gilbert Cruz
Hello, it's Gilbert Cruz. Today we have something different. Well, somewhat different. It's still me, but I'm speaking to you from another corner of the times. Recently I had the opportunity to stand in for Lulu Garcia Navarro on the show that she co hosts with David Marchese, the Interview. I was lucky enough to speak with Isabel Allende, whose new novel, My Name Is Emilia Del Valle, will be out soon. Let's turn to that conversation now. From the New York Times, this is the Interview. I'm Gilbert Cruz. I'm guest hosting this week, filling in for Lulu. If you don't know me, I'm the editor of the New York Times Book Review and the host of the Book Review podcast. And I'm very happy to be getting getting the chance to talk with author Isabel Allende. At 82, Allende is one of the world's most beloved and best selling Spanish language authors. Her work has been translated into more than 40 languages and 80 million copies of her books have been sold around the world. Allende's newest book is called My Name is Emilia Del Valle and it's about a dark period in Chilean history, the 1891 Chilean Civil War. Like so much of Allende's work, it's a story about women in tough spots who figure out a way through. It's not that far off from Allende's own story. She was raised in chile, but in 1973, when she was 31 and working as a journalist with two small children, her life was upended forever. It was then that a military coup pushed out the democratically elected president, Salvador Allende, who was her cousin. She fled to Venezuela where she wrote her first book, the House of the Spirits, where she which evolved from a letter she had started to her dying grandfather. That book became a runaway bestseller and it remains one of her best known works. She moved to the US in the late 1980s, where she has been writing steadily ever since. Here is my conversation with Isabel Allende.
Isabel Allende
Hola, Gilberto. Hola.
Gilbert Cruz
Un poquito. Please. It is my great shame.
Isabel Allende
I know you should be really embarrassed.
Gilbert Cruz
Whenever I go back to see family in Puerto Rico, they give me the business all the time.
Isabel Allende
So of course, of course.
Gilbert Cruz
I obviously want to talk to you about your new book, about your personal history, and of course about writing and creativity. And I think for you, all of these things intertwine in many of your books and they certainly do in your new novel. This is a book that is set in the 1890s. Your main character heads down to witness the Chilean Civil War. That is happening there. And I'm wondering what was going through your mind when you said, this is the time period, this is the event, and this is what I want my character to see.
Isabel Allende
I'm fascinated with history. Most of my schooling was done abroad, so I studied very little Chilean history. But I have studied it as an adult. I look back all the time to what happened before in order to explain what's happening today in our lives. There are some parallels between what happened in 1891, when the president, Jose Manuel Balmaceda, was challenged by his economic and political enemies of the Conservative Party. The navy went with the opposition, and then they had a civil war. It was brutal, brutal, bloody. It has some parallels with what happened in 1973 in Chile with Salvador Allende. There was no civil war. There was really a brutal military coup, as we know. But both presidents committed suicide in both circumstances. Many Chileans died, so there were some historical parallels. So it was fascinating to explore.
Gilbert Cruz
The main character, Emilia, she shares a last name of several other characters across your body of work, including several in your first book, the House of the Spirits. Why does this name resonate with you? What are you trying to say by sort of threading this name or this family line throughout several of your books?
Isabel Allende
You know, some characters, like some people, never leave you. I wrote the House of the Spirits inspired by my relatives from my grandmother's side, mostly. And they were all lunatics and wonderful, extravagant people. I call them Del Valle, but really their last name is Varros. And so I picked up those characters, some of them, and there were many others there that I didn't have enough pages for them, so they came back in other books. Look, with relatives like mine, you don't need to invent anything. So the Del Valle family will be haunting me forever.
Gilbert Cruz
Well, speaking of relatives, Emilia, she doesn't have a relationship with her birth father. She goes looking for him. I know you did not have a relationship with your birth father. I'm curious about how your mother, Panchita, talked about your father when you were young and how you thought about him, if at all.
Isabel Allende
She never spoke about him. All the photographs in which he appeared were destroyed, and there was never a mention of his name. And when we asked, she would always say he was a very intelligent man. That's it. She wouldn't say why he left, why we couldn't see him, no explanation. At some point when they were teenagers, my brothers wanted to meet him, and it was a big disappointment for. For them because my father had absolutely no connection with them. And no interest in them, but I never looked for them. And many years later, when I was working as a journalist, I was called to the morgue to identify a body of a man that had died in the street. And I couldn't identify him because I had never seen a picture of him. That was my father.
Gilbert Cruz
First of all, that sounds terrible.
Isabel Allende
No, it wasn't terrible because, I mean, it was terrible to see a corpse for the first time, but I didn't feel anything, any connection, any compassion, any longing of any kind.
Gilbert Cruz
Emilia also doesn't have a connection to her father for much of her life. However, the scenes in the book when Amelia does finally meet her father, not to give away too many details, I found quite moving, and I was wondering what it was like to write those scenes for you.
Isabel Allende
I could put myself in her place. I suppose that if I have met my father and he was an old man, sick, anxious, depressed, sad, fearing death, I would feel compassion and I would feel close to him, but I never had that chance. So I don't know. But it was easy for me to imagine that she would behave like that because also she was very open minded. Emilia. She was open to everything.
Gilbert Cruz
Emilia, not surprisingly, given who you are, she bucks a lot of convention for women of her time period. She goes on to become a war reporter. She writes gory dime novels about murder and vengeance. You have written, and you've said many times that you've been a feminist since you were a child because of the way that you saw your mother and women of your mother's generation treated when you were growing up in Chile. And I wonder, over the course of your career, has it been purposeful to write your female characters in this way, or is it just like this is the only way I know how to write women?
Isabel Allende
You know, it would be very hard for me to write a novel about a submissive y in the suburbs that waits for her husband to come back from the job. I mean, there's no story there. You really want your character. Look, you cannot have characters with common sense. You cannot have characters who are like everybody else, who don't suffer the stories in the tragedy, in the drama, in the struggle, in the hero's journey. That's where the story is. I write about women who are always challenging convention and get a lot of aggression for that, but they stand up and they are able to fend for themselves. Those are the characters I love, and I write about them because I know them so well. And in many ways I can connect to that because I was born in a Catholic, conservative, authoritarian, patriarchal family. In the 40s, in the middle of the Second World War, women of my generation and my social class, we're supposed to marry and have kids, and that's it. So to get out of that prison really of the mind was very challenging. I belong to the first generation of women who were able, some of us, to do it.
Gilbert Cruz
How old do you think you were when you realized it was a prison of sorts?
Isabel Allende
Teenager. When I was little, I didn't want to be dependent. My mother says that when I was 5 or 6, they would ask, what would you like to do when you grow up? And I would say, support myself. That was my answer, support myself. Because I realized that because my mother could not support herself, she depended on her father, her brother, other people, and that made her very vulnerable. I didn't want that. But then later, I sort of targeted male authority. I realized that authority was always in the hands of men. The priests, the police, my grandfather. It was always male. And then I rebelled against that. But it didn't have a name. I didn't know that there was something called feminism. I had never heard the word. And when I was in my late teens, then I heard about feminism and about the women's movement, and I started reading a few things that gave me a more articulate language to express the anger that I had been feeling all my life.
Gilbert Cruz
Did you have other female friends who you could sort of talk to about this? Like this?
Isabel Allende
Not about this.
Gilbert Cruz
This is not great. What's going on here? We gotta break free.
Isabel Allende
I didn't, because girls who are into, I don't know, into trying to catch a husband, I suppose. I don't know. I found a community of women who thought alike. When I started working as a journalist in a women's magazine called Paula, and it was a fascinating time because this was the first time in Chile there was a magazine that dared publish topics that had never been touched before. So we talked about abortion, divorce, infidelity, all those things, plus politics. So we got involved also in what was going on in the streets among people, you know. But we also had fashion and beauty and decoration. It was a glossy women's magazine, but with all this information that women had not had before, it caused quite a stir. It changed the culture. Now, many years later, 50 years later, that magazine is considered an icon in the culture in Chile. That's how important it was.
Gilbert Cruz
That must have been so exciting. I mean, how.
Isabel Allende
Oh, it was fascinating.
Gilbert Cruz
How was it to find a place that you felt finally.
Isabel Allende
Yeah, to find a place and this young, all these women were young. They were all beautiful. They were so daring. It was just great.
Gilbert Cruz
So early in your career, you were a journalist. You worked for this magazine, Paula, as well as several other places. And the story goes that you met one of the most famous Chilean writers of all time, the great Chilean poet, Pablo Neruda. And he said, isabel, maybe this isn't for you.
Isabel Allende
Well, he was living in the beach in Isla Negra. He was sick and he already had won the Nobel Prize. And he invited me to his house. And I thought he wanted me to interview him. This was such a huge honor. I mean, everybody was so jealous in the magazine because he had chosen me to go and interview him. It was winter and I drove Reigning all the way to that place. And he received me very kindly. He had lunch for me, a bottle of white wine. He showed me his collections. His collections now are considered art. Then it was junk. And then I said, okay, Don Paolo, I really need to do the interview because it's going to get dark soon and I need to get back. What interview? He said, well, I came to interview you. Oh, no, my dear, I would never be interviewed by you. You are the worst journalist in this country. You put yourself always in the middle of everything. You lie all the time. And I'm sure that if you don't have a story, you make it up. Why don't you switch to literature, where all these defects are virtues? I should have paid attention, but I didn't until many, many years later.
Gilbert Cruz
Let's just take a step back. You're in the home of this literary genius and he tells you something that to most people would be crushing.
Isabel Allende
I was crushed too, of course. Of course I was crushed. But he said it very kindly. And I asked him then why he had invited me if he didn't want me to interview. He said because he liked what I wrote. And sometimes he would make copies of my humorous articles and send them to his friends. And that's why he wanted to meet me.
Gilbert Cruz
But you did not listen to him at the time.
Isabel Allende
No, I didn't. And then two months later, we had the military coup. So forget about any plans for the future. Everything was disrupted forever. And it was one of those crossroads in your life in which you have to take a new direction that was completely not planned and not expected. And my career as a journalist ended there.
Gilbert Cruz
You had to go to Venezuela because there was a military coup. What was the moment you knew it's time for me to go.
Isabel Allende
It took months and months, because although in Chile the brutality started in 24 hours and the Congress was dismissed indefinitely. There was censorship for everything. All civil rights were suspended. There was no habeas corpus, which means that a person can be arrested and they don't have to give you any explanation. And there is no hearing, there is no court. You just go to jail or disappear. You can be tortured and nothing happens. No one is accountable. But although things happen very quickly in Chile, we got to know the consequences slowly, because they don't affect you personally immediately. Of course, there were people who were persecuted and those were affected immediately, but most of the population wasn't. So you think, well, I can live with this. Well, it can't be that bad. No, it's impossible. You are in denial for a long time because you don't want things to change so much. And then one day it hits you personally. And then it's the time when you say, okay, I'm done. For me, it was several things. At the beginning, I was hiding people in my house because we didn't know the consequences. We had no idea that if that person was arrested and forced to say where they had been, I would be arrested. Maybe my children would be tortured in front of me, but you learn that later. And then by the time I was directly threatened, then I said, okay, I'm leaving. And the idea was that I was going to leave for a couple of months and then come back. So I went alone to Venezuela. And then a month later, my husband realized that I shouldn't go back. And so he left. He just closed the door, locked the entrance door of the house with everything it contained, and left to reunite with me in Venezuela. We never saw that house again. And everything it contained was lost, which doesn't matter at all, because I don't remember what was in there. But I do remember the moment when I crossed the Andes in the plane. I cried in the plane because I knew somehow, instinctively, that this was a threshold, that everything had changed, definitely changed.
Gilbert Cruz
How did you explain it to your children?
Isabel Allende
I didn't, and that's my crime. We tried to protect the children from fear. We were living in fear. And fear is a very pervasive thing that changes a society and changes the way people behave with each other and changes you inside. Something breaks inside you. And we didn't want our children to know about torture, about people disappearing about, but they were aware. Suddenly the teacher, two guys would come into the classroom and take the teacher away, so the children would see it, but there was no explanation. And so when we left, the idea was oh, we are going to Venezuela. That's what my husband said. We are going to Venezuela to see Mommy. So it took a while for them to understand that we were staying, that we were refugees, and that probably we would not go back. And they had to adapt. They had to get along with everybody else and just forget about what was behind.
Gilbert Cruz
After the break, Isabel tells me about the years she spent writing daily letters to her mother.
Isabel Allende
We were very intimate and open, absolutely open in the letters. And when I went to visit in a week, we would feel, like, uncomfortable with each other because in person, we didn't have the same openness that we had in writing.
Gilbert Cruz
So you wrote your first novel, House of the Spirits, at the age of 39 in Venezuela. And I think a lot of people have a feeling that at a certain point, maybe it's too late for doing the thing that they want to do they were meant to do, they've always dreamed of doing. When you got to that point where you started to write a letter to your grandfather that then turned into this incredible novel, did you think, what am I doing here? I'm 39 years old. I'm not going to become a novelist at this age?
Isabel Allende
I didn't think about age. I was. I was feeling that my life was going nowhere, that I had lived for 39 years, almost 40 years, and I had nothing to show for it except my two children. And I was very bored, administering a school in a country that was not my own country, feeling very alien in many ways, like a visitor and a visitor in life, in a way. And so this letter that eventually turned into the book was like opening a vein and bleed out all that I was holding. And I think it was an exercise in longing. I wanted to go back. I wanted to recover the country I had lost, my friends, my job, the life I had before. And in that attempt of recovering things that I had lost, I started bringing in the anecdotes of my grandfather, my country, the Del Valle family. And they started these people. It was a whole village that came to the kitchen counter where I was writing and populated the pages. I wasn't thinking. I didn't have a plan. I didn't have an outline of any kind. I didn't know how to edit anything to the point that when the book was finished and my husband, who was a civil engineer, read it, he said the only thing that he noticed was that the dates didn't match. And then you had a character in page 20 that was 18 years old and in page 300 was still 18 years old. What happened? This person didn't age, so he created a sort of map on the wall with the dates and the characters and what was happening. And then I could organize it a little bit. But I knew nothing about what I was. I didn't have an idea.
Gilbert Cruz
You say you had a feeling that your life was going nowhere. You had nothing to show for it other than your two children. I think if I felt that way, I would be overwhelmed. And I don't know that I would be able to start anything. I'm wondering if you could talk about that feeling a little bit more.
Isabel Allende
I was lost. I was bored. I think I was somehow depressed. Yeah, I didn't want that kind of life. But one thing has been always in my life, writing, writing as a journalist, writing letters to my mother, writing to my grandfather, always writing. I think that my way of getting over things, of understanding, of exploring my own soul, my past, and also, most important, of remembering is writing. When my daughter died, that was the worst time in my whole life. And it was a very long time. Also. It lasted more than a year. The only way that I could understand it and cope with it was writing. And I wrote a book.
Gilbert Cruz
It's been a little more than 30 years since you published that memoir that you just referred to, Paula, which is named after your daughter. It's about your life with her and the situation you found yourself in, where she was in a coma for quite a long time and then she eventually passed. I'm curious how your grief has changed after or evolved in the 30 years since you lost your daughter.
Isabel Allende
I feel my daughter like a companion. I have her photograph on her wedding day and my mother in a wedding dress when she put it on when she was 80. I have these two photographs on the sink where I brush my teeth every morning and every night. So I good morning, good evening. They are always with me. And I'm constantly in touch with Paula. I don't believe in ghosts. I don't see her as an apparition. And I don't believe that after I die, I will go through a tunnel of light and I will find her at the other end. But she lives in me. And there's a continuation. The grandmother, the mother, the daughter, the granddaughter. We're all linked in a chain and we all live in each other in a way.
Gilbert Cruz
I get the impression, I think you've said this maybe before, that it's a book that still resonates greatly with people after all this time.
Isabel Allende
I have written 30 books, and this is the one that has had in time, the greatest response from the readers. Everybody has losses. It doesn't have to be a child. It can be divorced. You lose your job, you lose your health. Your parents and people connect to the. To the loss, no matter what loss it is. In this case, it's Paula and I get the most extraordinary letters. That's the kind of reward that very few writers get. I've been very, very lucky.
Gilbert Cruz
Speaking of letters, your first novel, of course, started as a letter. Your memoir was a letter to your daughter. And I'm wondering if you could talk about the exercise of writing letters. For you, it's just not something that. That people do anymore, unfortunately.
Isabel Allende
It's a lost art. Language has shrunk to nothing because of the email. And we write like a telegram. We communicate with very few words and very poor imagery. But I grew up writing to my mother every single day because my mother was married to a diplomat. And When I was 16, we separated and we never lived together again. So we got the habit of writing to each other every single day. I would go through the day noticing what I would write to my mother in the evening, So I was present in the day, taking mental notes of what I was living, I was seeing, I was thinking, I was dreaming of the conversations, the encounters of everything, so that I would have some material for the evening letter to my mother. Now, she died in 2018, and I tried for a while to keep on writing to her as if she was alive, but it didn't work. It was very artificial. But since then, I go through life like in a state of daydreaming. I don't notice anything anymore because I don't have to write about it. It's sad. I have collected my mother's letters and my letters since 1987. They are separated in boxes by year. Some of the boxes have 600, 800 letters. So in total, we have calculated that I have around 24,000 letters. Can you imagine the volume of that?
Gilbert Cruz
That's so many words to have exchanged with another person. What did you learn about her from these letters?
Isabel Allende
You know, it's very interesting because we were very intimate and open, absolutely open in the letters. And when I went to visit in a week, we would feel like uncomfortable with each other because in person, we didn't have the same openness that we had in writing. I don't know, things got in the way when we were together that didn't when we were writing. So I got to know my mother in ways that I don't know anybody else, not even my children. Everything about her. Her health, her dreams, her longings, her disappointments, her fights with my stepfather, the reconciliations, everything we talked about. Money, sex, religion, you name it. She had a sort of Chilean sarcasm that I loved, and we connected through that, too. But that works in a letter. And then in person can be offensive.
Gilbert Cruz
Do you feel like there's just something inherent in, as you say, the intimacy of letter writing? The access you have to someone's inner feelings that just cannot be replicated when you're with that person for the most part.
Isabel Allende
Well, maybe some people can. I cannot. You know what? I married Roger. I mean, we've been together for six years.
Gilbert Cruz
This is your third husband?
Isabel Allende
My third husband. Not the last one, but the third.
Gilbert Cruz
Got it.
Isabel Allende
And so when we are separated physically, he writes to me the most tender and beautiful texts. And I can do that, too. But when we are in person, I just can't say it. It feels awkward. It feels awkward. In Spanish, you say, for example, tu eres la luz de misojos. You are the light of my eyes. In English, it sounds awful. I can't say that in person to anybody, but I can write it.
Gilbert Cruz
Is it true that Roger reached out to, after hearing you on the radio, by writing you a letter?
Isabel Allende
Yeah. Well, an email.
Gilbert Cruz
An email, okay.
Isabel Allende
Yeah, he heard me on npr.
Gilbert Cruz
I was seeing him sitting down, taking out a piece of paper, writing a letter. Okay. An email.
Isabel Allende
He sent me an email. Sent an email to my foundation saying that whatever, and very brief. And at the end, it said that he was willing to go anywhere, anytime to meet me. But I answered politely because I receive many emails daily and I don't keep a correspondence with everybody. I just answer the first one. But he kept writing every morning and every evening for six months. I mean, really stubborn, the guy. And he didn't sound like the normal stalker. He sounded like a very transparent guy, actually. So when I went to New York, I went to a conference for reproductive rights. I met him, and in two days he proposed and said that he would marry me eventually, no matter what. But he was living in New York and I was living here. So he at some point, sold his house, gave away everything he had, and moved to California with two bikes, his clothes, and some crystal glasses. For some reason, I don't know why, that's quite powerful.
Gilbert Cruz
You convinced a man to just get rid of his entire life and move across the country.
Isabel Allende
I didn't ask him to do it. He did it.
Gilbert Cruz
No, you didn't need to. Clearly.
Isabel Allende
But you know what is interesting, Gilberto, is that Shortly before that, a couple of years before, I divorced from my second husband, Willie Gordon, and I sold my house and gave away everything also, because I moved to a very small house with my dog and I didn't need anything. So we both, in a way, started from scratch together, which was a very good thing to do. No baggage, at least. Material baggage.
Gilbert Cruz
Yeah, no material baggage. I read an interview with you where you said that when you got a divorce in your early 70s, some people around you thought maybe this is a little crazy. How did that feel to you at that stage in your life?
Isabel Allende
Well, I was 74 years old. We had been together for 28 years. I had loved that man a lot. But, you know, you never know why. Love ends at some point, and it isn't sudden. It was a slow deterioration that took years and a lot of therapy to try to fix it until we realized we couldn't fix it. And so we divorced. And many people said, well, you've invested all these years. What's wrong? What has. What is so bad that you can't be together? Nothing was really very bad. But I thought that it takes more courage to stay in a bad relationship than to start anew alone. You really have to be very courageous to decide that you are going to spend the rest of your. Of the few years you have with a man that doesn't love you. And in a relationship that is not working, it's much better to just be alone. So that's what I did.
Gilbert Cruz
You grew up in Chile, lived your young adult life there, and then you've been in America for several decades. You said during a speech you gave in 2018, when you accepted an award from the National Book Foundation. I was in the audience that night. You said, although I am critical of many things about this country, I am proud to be an American citizen. I'm wondering how your thoughts about your citizenship have changed, if they have at all.
Isabel Allende
They have not changed over the past year. I am really critical. I am disgusted at a lot of stuff that is happening today, and I'm willing to stand and work to make this country what it should be. I want this country to be compassionate and open and generous and happy, as it has always been a beacon for the rest of the world.
Gilbert Cruz
Since 2016. I believe your foundation has worked with refugees, especially those along the southern border of the United States. Has the work that your foundation does, has it become more difficult in recent months?
Isabel Allende
Yes, very difficult. And there is a lot of really cruel things happening at the border that most of the American public doesn't know about, doesn't know the extent or the brutality. And my foundation works with that. We work with women mostly, and children, the most vulnerable people. And it's very sad. And I don't know for how long we will be able to do this.
Gilbert Cruz
What would stop you? What would get in your way?
Isabel Allende
Well, of course, if the work is forbidden, if the people whom we help are targeted and their safety in any way is at risk, then that's as much as you can do.
Gilbert Cruz
You have this humanitarian work that you're doing over here and then over here every day for 8, 10, however many hours you're in front of the keyboard and you're writing. Are those two things connected in your mind, or do they exist in separate worlds?
Isabel Allende
They exist separately because I don't do any social preaching, let's say, or political activity in my writing. I write fiction. If I write a nonfiction book, then I feel that I am allowed to say whatever I want to preach, to teach to whatever. But if it's fiction, I just want to tell a story. And I don't want the storytelling to be tinted by ideology. I try to separate activism from literature.
Gilbert Cruz
And that's a conscious decision. Yes, because I imagine, given what you care about, what you're passionate about, the types of stories that you tell, that even if you're writing historical fiction or fiction set in the past, something will make its way in. There will be parallels, even if that's not your intention.
Isabel Allende
Yeah, but I try to avoid it. Sometimes things filter between the lines. But the best way to ruin a good novel is by trying to deliver a message.
Gilbert Cruz
You've said that you write sometimes as an act of nostalgia, clearly, as an act of remembering. What? As you look to the future, what do you think you want to remember now?
Isabel Allende
Right now, I'm trying to be very present in the process of aging because I think it's a fascinating time and sort of taboo in this society where we live. People don't want to hear about aging. It's, like, ugly. And it can be, of course, but it can also be very liberating and a very wonderful journey. So I am trying to keep a record of this right now, But I'm very interested in what's happening in the world also. So I assume. I think that political events, like what we are living today in the United States cannot be analyzed or explained or understood in the moment. You have to look at it with the distance of time. That gives you some perspective. And I know this because I remember that I could not write about the military coup in Chile. When it happened, I had all the information, but I couldn't write about it. I wrote the House of the Spirits many years later. So I think that I hope to have enough time to be able to see what we are living today with some perspective.
Gilbert Cruz
That's Isabel Allende. My name is Emilia Del Valle. We'll be out on May 6th and you can find me every week over at the Book Review Podcast, where we talk about books new and old, and I speak with authors all the time. This conversation was produced by Wyatt Orme and Seth Kelly. It was edited by Annabelle Bacon. Original music and mixing by Sophia Landman. Photography by Devin Yauchin. Our senior booker is Priya Matthew. Our executive producer is Alison Benedict. Special thanks to Roy Walsh, Renan Borelli, Jeffrey Miranda, Matty Mazziello, Jake Silverstein, Paula Schumann, and Sam if you like what you're hearing, follow or subscribe to the Interview wherever you get your podcasts. To read or listen to any of our conversations, you can always go to nytimes.com theinterview and you can email us anytime@the interviewytimes.com Next week, David talks with writer Ocean Vaum.
Isabel Allende
What I've been really interested in is this idea of kindness without hope, and what I saw working in the Fastwood growing up in Hartford county was that people are kind even when they know it won't matter.
Gilbert Cruz
Like, what is that?
Isabel Allende
Where does that come from?
Gilbert Cruz
I'm Gilbert Cruz and this is the interview from the New York Times that was my conversation with Isabel Allende, whose new novel My Name Is Emilia Del Valle is out soon. I did that interview as part of our show called the Interview, which you can find on all your podcast platforms. I'm Gilbert Cruz, editor of the New York Times Book Review. Thanks for listening.
Podcast Summary: "The Interview": Isabel Allende Understands How Fear Changes a Society
The Book Review hosted by Gilbert Cruz features a profound conversation with esteemed author Isabel Allende in the episode titled "Isabel Allende Understands How Fear Changes a Society." Released on May 2, 2025, this episode delves deep into Allende's latest novel, her personal history, writing philosophy, and her humanitarian efforts. The following summary encapsulates the key discussions, insights, and conclusions drawn from their engaging dialogue.
Gilbert Cruz opens the conversation by introducing Isabel Allende, highlighting her status as one of the world's most beloved Spanish-language authors. He provides context about her latest work, "My Name is Emilia Del Valle," which is set against the backdrop of the 1891 Chilean Civil War—a period marked by brutality and societal upheaval.
[00:07] Gilbert Cruz: "Allende's newest book is called My Name is Emilia Del Valle and it's about a dark period in Chilean history... It's a story about women in tough spots who figure out a way through."
Allende discusses her fascination with history and how the 1891 civil war mirrors the 1973 military coup in Chile that led to her exile. She draws parallels between the two events, emphasizing the recurring themes of political turmoil and personal loss.
[03:25] Isabel Allende: "There are some parallels between what happened in 1891... and what happened in 1973 in Chile with Salvador Allende... it was fascinating to explore."
The conversation shifts to the significance of the Del Valle surname, which appears across multiple novels. Allende attributes this to her rich familial history and the vibrant characters inspired by her relatives.
[04:57] Isabel Allende: "With relatives like mine, you don't need to invent anything. So the Del Valle family will be haunting me forever."
Allende shares her personal experiences regarding her estranged father, revealing the emotional void and the profound impact his absence had on her life. This segment provides a poignant backdrop to her character development in her novels.
[06:03] Isabel Allende: "She never spoke about him... All the photographs in which he appeared were destroyed."
A significant portion of the discussion centers on Allende's commitment to creating strong, unconventional female protagonists. She attributes this to her own experiences growing up in a patriarchal society and her unwavering feminist beliefs.
[08:46] Isabel Allende: "I write about women who are always challenging convention... those are the characters I love, and I write about them because I know them so well."
Allende reminisces about her early days as a journalist, including a memorable encounter with the revered Chilean poet Pablo Neruda. This interaction, though initially discouraging, was a pivotal moment that eventually led her to pivot from journalism to literature.
[13:35] Isabel Allende: "He said... you are the worst journalist in this country... I should have paid attention, but I didn't until many, many years later."
Following the 1973 coup, Allende's exile to Venezuela marks a turning point in her life and career. She discusses the emotional and creative impetus behind writing her acclaimed novel The House of the Spirits, which began as a series of letters to her dying grandfather.
[21:30] Isabel Allende: "This letter that eventually turned into the book was like opening a vein and bleed out all that I was holding."
Allende reflects on the profound grief following her daughter Paula's passing and how writing served as a therapeutic outlet. She emphasizes the enduring connection she feels with Paula, keeping her memory alive through daily rituals and photographs.
[25:27] Isabel Allende: "I have written 30 books, and this is the one that has had in time, the greatest response from the readers... I feel my daughter like a companion."
Highlighting the intimacy of letter writing, Allende shares her extensive correspondence with her mother, comprising approximately 24,000 letters. She contrasts this with the impersonal nature of modern digital communication, underscoring the depth of connection achievable through handwritten letters.
[27:29] Isabel Allende: "It's a lost art. Language has shrunk to nothing because of the email... I grew up writing to my mother every single day."
The discussion transitions to Allende's personal life, including her marriage to Roger, whom she met after he persistently reached out to her via email. She candidly talks about her decision to divorce her second husband at the age of 74, prioritizing personal happiness over societal expectations.
[33:03] Isabel Allende: "It takes more courage to stay in a bad relationship than to start anew alone. So that's what I did."
Allende expresses her complex feelings about American citizenship, remaining critical yet hopeful about the nation's potential for compassion and generosity. She also sheds light on her foundation's work with refugees, particularly women and children at the U.S. southern border, highlighting the increasing challenges faced in recent times.
[35:38] Isabel Allende: "I am really critical... I want this country to be compassionate and open and generous and happy."
Addressing the interplay between her literary pursuits and activism, Allende delineates a clear boundary. While her fiction remains devoid of overt political messaging, her non-fiction works serve as platforms for advocacy and social commentary.
[37:21] Isabel Allende: "I try to separate activism from literature. The best way to ruin a good novel is by trying to deliver a message."
In the concluding sections, Allende reflects on aging as a liberating journey rather than a societal taboo. She discusses her intent to document this phase of her life and contemplates how future generations will interpret current political events with the benefit of hindsight.
[38:44] Isabel Allende: "I am trying to keep a record of this right now... I hope to have enough time to be able to see what we are living today with some perspective."
On Writing Strong Female Characters:
"Those are the characters I love, and I write about them because I know them so well."
[08:46] Isabel Allende
On the Impact of Fear on Society:
"Fear is a very pervasive thing that changes a society and changes the way people behave with each other and changes you inside."
[18:50] Isabel Allende
On the Art of Letter Writing:
"It's a lost art. Language has shrunk to nothing because of the email."
[27:29] Isabel Allende
On Embracing Aging:
"People don't want to hear about aging. It's, like, ugly... but it can also be very liberating and a very wonderful journey."
[38:44] Isabel Allende
The interview offers a comprehensive glimpse into Isabel Allende's life, her motivations as a writer, and her enduring commitment to humanitarian causes. Through her narratives, Allende not only recounts personal and historical events but also provides insightful commentary on societal changes, the resilience of women, and the transformative power of storytelling. Her reflections on grief, love, and aging add depth to her persona, making this conversation a treasure for both literary enthusiasts and those interested in the human condition.