Transcript
A (0:00)
Hey everyone. Welcome back to the Boss Bay podcast. So today we thought we would do something fun. We actually hosted a Q and A for our membership community, the society, which by the way, every single one of you need to be members of if you're not already. It is the best place on the Internet for female entrepreneurs to grow freedom based businesses. But we specifically did a Q and A all around content audience growth. Really being able to build an audience of buyers to create. Create content that people really connect with. I feel like it was so relevant to every single one of you that we wanted to bring it onto the podcast. Well, for one, give you a little sneak peek as to what happens inside society. But second, just bring the answers to the questions. So the way that we did it. Lindsay's here. Lindsay was moderating, the audience was submitting questions, and we were kind of just answering on the spot. Before we dive in, Lindsay, I'm really curious for you, what was your biggest kind of takeaway on that? And as you're thinking about it, I'll share. For me, one insight that I had on this call was I really wish people would just trust their expertise and their uniqueness a little bit more. And I do this myself too. So it's like good advice for me too. But I just notice so much that people get in their own way because they just think I'm not good enough, I'll never be good enough. Or like, I've been doing it for a few months and it's just not resonating. I should give up. And like, I want to jump through my screen and shake them and be like, do you know how good you are? Like, do you know if you just freaking stuck with it for a little bit longer, like, it would work. And I feel like that's what I needed to hear and sometimes still need to hear. But that one just, like, really got me today.
B (1:31)
I mean, I mentioned it on the call, but it's. I'm glad I listened to this podcast this morning with Mr. Beast. Cause I. I'm not like, I've never watched any of his YouTube videos or anything, but I obviously am aware of him. And the whole podcast was about how many times he. He quit and started and quit and started and then finally was, you know, figured out, oh, if I'm just consistent. I just do it every day. Like this day, there's one comment, but like two weeks later I had 20 comments. And then two months later I had a hundred comments on every video. And they were interacting with me and I was getting ideas and all of a sudden I was making videos that people wanted from me because I, you know, I was getting engagement and then I was learning about my audience. And then like, boom, here we are, and I'm a billionaire, you know, whatever. And, and I'm like, yeah, you know, fast forward 10 years. But there's a certain mindset that can overcome the crickets, right, because you. The first hundred. And he said something about the rule of a hundred. Like you have to do it a hundred times and, and commit to yourself that every single one for a hundred. So whether it's a hundred Instagram posts, 100 YouTube videos, 100 podcasts, every single one, you're gonna, you will write down one thing you learned that you are going to apply to the next one. And if you can approach that level of like, beginner mindset and also consistency, you'll win at anything. And I think there's just some people for whom that comes naturally and a lot of people for whom that's really hard because we get in our own way around self doubt. We get in our own way around comparison. We get in our own way around making a million excuses about why our life is not conducive to that much work, you know, and, and I think we hear all of those things and that's why, yeah, we want to like come through the screen and be like, you got this, like, just like, I promise you in three months it's going to be so different if you stick with it. But that's, that's a really like human existential thing to, to feel self doubt, to feel comparison, to feel overwhelm and, and like you don't have enough time. And I think what's cool to see all these questions and then in a live Q and A, you can, you know, you, the listener won't necessarily see it, but we can see the chat moving and people's response to it. And it's like so much of it comes down to like, the tools are there. And we teach you a lot of the tools and society has a ton of the tools. And that's what these calls are about, is reminding you that all the tools are right here in this curriculum that you're a member of. And applying the tools is a personal game. It is an inner game. Like you have got to show up for yourself every day and apply the tools. The tools are not easy buttons. The tools are a roadmap and you've got to get on the road and do the steps. And I think that's overall my takeaway from Every one of these calls is like, a lot of people just need somebody to. To give them permission or. Or give them a little kick in the booty of like, hey, get out on the road. The steps are there. You just gotta go do it. And even if you fail the first a hundred times, nobody's gonna think you're bad at it. Like, be in the beginner mindset and accept that we're all learning and that everybody you look up to and that you learn from started at the same place. So I love these calls because it's. It's both, like, cool for us to get the questions and be able to kind of have to think through how the tools work to solve different people's problems, but also, I think it's amazing for the community to see each other ask a question, get an answer, and it resonate for hundreds of people in the chat. You know, you're just seeing the chat fly by and they're like, oh, my God, I so much I needed to hear this today about sticking with my email list or starting the podcast or not being worried about a hundred views on my reel. So, yeah, I loved that. That was. These are always so fun.
