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Here's something that people don't fully get about money. Money comes into your life instantly when your consciousness expands. Wealth is not something you have to build over time. It's something you become available for now because God is always giving. The supply is always here, the support is always here. So the question is not whether abundance exists. The question is whether you are open to receiving it. I wanna invite you to a special live call I'm doing this coming Tuesday, March 31st, all about wealth consciousness. And I'm gonna talk about how you can stop bracing and stop trying to push and force. Because the second you let yourself feel the expansion and perceive how supported you are, that's the second that you just decided there is more for you and things move very quickly. We're gonna also do some live coaching on the call. So come with your questions and an open heart. You can join us for free. Make sure that you save your spot@kathy heller.com wealthcall kathyheller.com wealthcall I'll see you there.

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Hey, it's Kathy.

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Today I want to share a piece of a workshop I just did about wealth consciousness. We got to the heart of what holds people back from making that quantum leap into wealth and abundance and how to shift into the version of you who naturally holds more, receives more, and sees money move in ways that feel fast, clean and aligned. This is where we stop making money about effort and start making it about identity, energy, and what you're actually available for. If you want to join me live in these types of calls, then check out my membership, this Abundant Life, because I go live in there twice a month. Our next call is on Tuesday, so I'd love to see you there. Just go to kathyheller.com life okay, here we go.

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Before I start teaching you some amazing mic drops that are going to completely change your your whole life, actually, when you really, really integrate this, this will change your. Before we go into that, you have to know with certainty that you can fully feel safe and full permission slips to be wealthy as possible. That has to fully land in every aspect in your cells. Okay, and let's look at it this way. Abundance creates more abundance. And each one of us is part of one collective. So if you look out, like now I'm looking out at my backyard, there's one ecosystem back here. So what happens if one plant actually starts to get some kind of a disease or there's some kind of insect? Is that going to eventually affect the garden? Why do people pull weeds? Why do people start to pull Something if it's affecting one area of the garden is because the entire garden is connected. And now what about the opposite? What if there's one area of the garden that's thriving, there's pollination, there's bees coming. Is that good for the rest of the garden? Of course it is, because we all affect each other. Let's talk about a school. Let's say that there's a class, there's a ninth grade class, and there's some bad stuff happening in that class. Could that potentially affect the rest of the grade? The rest of the kids in the grade? What about the opposite? What if there's a group of kids in that class who are just, like, really on it, they're doing good because they want to do good and they're feeling good, could that affect the rest of the class? Now? It really does. In fact, I asked James Clear, who wrote a book called Atomic Habits. I had him on my podcast. I said, what's the most important habit and what do you think? He said, the most important habit is who you spend time with. He said, because why? Because you become the people you spend time around. So what is the biggest indicator that people will grow up to be wealthy? Is it their iq? No. Does it have something to do with their zip code? No. What is it? It's growing up around wealthy people. Why? Because the consciousness transfers. We take on the consciousness of those around us. Okay, so what does that mean? That means that abundance creates abundance. So in the 17th century, there was a kabbalist, his name was the Maharal. And he said something really beautiful that helps you really visualize this. If you had one candle, from one candle, how many other candles can you light? 1087. How many candles can you light from one flame? It's infinite. Now here's the next question. How much of that initial flame is lost when you light the other flame? Zero. Why is that? Because the light just continues to be amplified. It doesn't get diminished. What about love? How many people can you love? Is there a limit? Is it like, well, I have seven close friends, and I'm officially full. If somebody cool comes in my life or I meet somebody at a wedding, or I sit next to someone on an airplane. I'm sorry, I'm full. No, there's no limit, because love just creates more love. And the more love you have in your life, you have those seven amazing friends. It makes you even more loving. It makes you even more available to love even more people. Now the group is nine people. Now you want to create More, More of that. And the love just creates more love. And it keeps growing. And it keeps growing. So let's talk about money. If you have money and you put the money in the bank, what happens to the money while the money is sitting in the bank? Before you write a check, before you spend it to support this local market, before you go to a mom and pop store and help support them, before you write a check to charity, before you give that money to your daughter for her college, what happens to the money in the bank? The money in the bank is already serving the collective. Why? What is the banking system about? It's circular. So it's being given. What is it being given to? People have mortgages, people have student loans. Oh, I get it. So you having money, is it taking from somebody else? No, it's completely the opposite. You just having money in your ecosystem creates more money for. For everyone else. So tell me again why you would feel resistant to saying you want to be the wealthiest version of you. So where does that come from if it's actually the opposite? When you create more in your ecosystem and you put that money, as long as it's not under your mattress in dollar bills and it's inside of a bank and you are now part of the market, you immediately help somebody else pay for their car, pay for their college, send their kid off on a trip. Do you get that now? So what happens is that throughout time, we've been told two lies. The number one lie we're ever told is that the more money we have, the richer we're going to feel. Is that true? Well, we're going to talk about that today. I can tell you with full certainty that you came to the world with way bigger dreams than piles of things. Your soul did not come into this lifetime just to have more stuff. You have a way bigger dream than that. You came into this world to actualize what's within you, not what's around you. You came into this world to feel connected to the world within yourself, to be connected to the divine, to be connected to the field of intelligence. There's a difference between force and power. Power is already on. You turn it on when you turn inward. So we didn't come to the world for stuff. So the first lie is the more money you have, the more you'll be, the more worthy you'll be, the more everything you'll be. That's a lie. But the second lie we're told at the same time is if you do have it, you'll be actually bad people. Will judge you now. Why? Because you'll have what they don't have. Now, every single person has access to their own heartbeat. Every single person has access to the idea of we are each a soul. What does that mean? We're each a masterpiece. We're a piece of the master. Every single one of us can tap in to the energy, the infinite amount of energy. And that is where all of our abundance is. When you're sitting in a room with someone is the most impressive thing. What they're wearing, where they went to college, what car they drive. No, the most impressive thing in a room is the energy inside of a person. And every single one of us has the capacity to have the most beautiful, expansive energy that actually expands other people. You ever been with someone? And when you're with them, you have better ideas just being with them, they tap you into the power within you. They connect you to something more expansive. So true. Abundance is not about stuff. It's about actualizing and being connected to the real abundance, which is where within you. So one of the things that we have to understand is that it's a lie. People have made movie after movie and they've written book after book. And very typically, the archetypes and the stereotypes are that the rich person is the nasty person. I just took my daughters to see that amazing Broadway show which is built around the movie and the book of the outsiders. And of course, like, it's the rich kids that are like the awful kids. Now, is it true that you could think. Now if I told you to make a list, you can make a list of 10 people, whether they're in the news or whether you know them. 10 people who are terrible people, who have money. I'm sure you can think of people. They come to mind. Now, if I asked you to make a list, could you think of 10 people in the world that have no money, that are terrible people? Of course you can. There are jails filled with both. Now, can you think of 10 people who have tons of money, who do so much good in the world, who make their neighborhoods better, who are great parents, who have invested in the most incredible philanthropies, who have shattered ceilings for other people in the way that they do work in the world, who created amazing things that we all benefit from every day? Of course. And can you think of amazing people who, you know, who you've sat in front of, who have so much love to give, but they don't have money? Sure. So it's not the money. The Talmud says that money is like rain in a garden. What does that mean? When rain falls in a garden, it's an expander. So if rain falls on weeds, weeds grow. If rain falls on roses, roses grow. Money is an expander. So if you are a person who doesn't have much integrity and money comes into your life, you might do more things without integrity. But if you're a person who has a lot of intention and you have a goodness in you, the more blessing you have, the more good you'll do with that blessing. So it's not the money. Intention creates effect. Intention creates effect. Money doesn't actually have value. We give value to money. Some people take the same amount of money and they spend it on drugs. Somebody spends the same amount of money and they decide to invest in their education. So we decide we don't need money. Money needs us. Because we're deciding what value to give it. We give it value so we can get rid of the feeling of we're not allowed to thrive, because every single one of us. When you do thrive, not only do you create it instantly, you create more of it that other people have access to, but what are you really doing? You become a reminder that that consciousness and that the capacity lives within them as well. So you're setting that model for other people. And that is amazing, because what happens whenever somebody is triggered or threatened, it's because they forgot how much power lives inside of them. But what are the best teachers, the best coaches, the best parents? Do they remind their student, they remind their kid of what's inside of them. And so anytime you look at somebody else, instead of throwing shade on that person, you. You're reminded of the levels of expansion within you that you haven't even touched yet. So when a person allows themselves to have the ability to be fully wealthy, fully healthy, fully thriving, fully creative, fully tapped in and turned on, we become a walking testament that that actually is available to every person, because it's always inside of you. Now, when it comes to the number of what you wrote on this check, let's look under the hood a little bit, because most of the time we wake up every day and we have this shitty committee playing in our head. Your mind doesn't have answers. We recently did a bunch of fmris. Not we, but the science that we have today shows that we did all these fmris on monks and. And they found that there's very little brain activity. Why is that? Because all the wisdom is in the heart. So if you wake up every day and you're just listening to the Barrage of noise in your head. It's coming from lack, it's coming from urgency and it's trying to play the worst case scenarios all day long. But if you tune into your heart, it's a different story, isn't it? I'm just curious if we could become conscious of what might have been unconscious. When you grew up, what did you learn about wealth? What did you learn about money? What was the culture in your home? Was money ease? Was money available? Or was money something that was always difficult, stressful? What did you equate with money? Okay, so there was lack, there's threat, there's too much money. Was difficult, it was check to check, lack. So I'm going to show you how we're going to change all of this and why so many people are in this struggle. But there's a reason that now you might be playing out something similar. Because I said at the very beginning of this conversation that everything is energy. 99% of an atom is energy. And the world is made of what? Atoms. It's an atomic world, it's molecular, it's energetic. And so there's a difference between force and power. When we are not connected to our energy, when we're not plugged in, tapped in, turned on, but we're operating from fight or flight, we're operating from stress and pressure. Are we going to accomplish much? No. Imagine if you brought a huge lamp into the room, you try to turn it on, you move it in different locations, it's not turning on. Why? It's not plugged into the electricity. So it doesn't matter whether you got the lamp at Target or Pottery Barn, the electricity does the heavy lifting and you have to plug it in. And then it's a power greater than the lamp that flows through the lamp. So it's not the lamp, it's the light. The light. It's the light. So when we're operating from a very restricted consciousness, we think we have to use a lot of force, we have to sit down, we have to figure it out, we have to say, what am I going to do? What am I going to do? And the real question is not what am I going to do? The real question is who am I going to be? Because it's the being, it's the energy that actually creates it. Because when we're tapped in, when we feel whole, we vibrate, we broadcast a different electromagnetic signal. When we're connected to God, when we're plugged into our soul, we walk into a room, we don't need anything. From the room. We're there to give something to the room. And that abundance creates abundance. We don't get what we want, we get what we are. The universe is not a vending machine. It's a mirror. And when we connect to our soul, our soul is abundant. What's within us is infinite upon infinite upon infinite. Every billion dollars ever created comes from somebody's consciousness, comes from a download, comes from an idea. This person has an idea for an app, for a movie, for a song, for an investment. Whatever it is, it comes from perceiving and from being connected to what's already here. So the consciousness. So we're going to dive into this a little bit deeper. So imagine that you could tap in to the idea, to the knowing, to the reality that you are connected to the electricity. How much of it can you perceive is already funded? It's already funded. The way that God creates this world is that the light is always flowing. When now. It's not a slow customer service line, it's somewhere in the future, it's now. And our job is to perceive it. Our job is to become a bigger vessel for the light that wants to flow through us, for the capacity to allow it in. The miracles in our life are not things that shift around us. It's when something shifts within us that allows us to perceive it. If two people are sitting on the same park bench, are they looking at the same reality? Are they in the same world? No, because how they perceive the world determines the world that they live in, the choices that they make, and mostly how they perceive themselves as connected to what's within themselves. And most of the time, people are walking around in a lot of lack. We have been taught that things are so hard, that we are so married to how hard it should feel that what I'm saying almost feels. It's almost something that you repel because you've been taught that the way things work has to be hard, has to be a struggle, when that is not the way the universe was created. The reason that on my book, she asked me, like, what do you want the subtitle? And I said, prosperity and ease. Because when we're in flow with the spiritual grid, with the power that's actually here, you just plug the lamp in, the light flows. Why is it we talk about the moon? In fact, this month, we talk about specifically in this month, this month of Aries. The first commandment the Israelites were ever given was to look at the moon in this month and to create a calendar. Why? Because the moon doesn't have to exert effort. Why? What's the difference between moonlight and sunlight? The sun is bringing all this light. The moon just reflects the light of the sun. It's effortless, it's ease. It's just reflecting what's already there. That is an amazing metaphor for you when it comes to how much wealth is already here. But how much are you able to perceive it and receive it? How much are you able to perceive and receive that wealth versus thinking that you are separate from it and you have to force or figure out so much to get to even tiny pieces of it. There's so much lack in your consciousness. So let me tell you this. Of all the wealth in the world, how much of it do you think is actual? How much of the trillions of dollars that we believe is in the market? How much of that could you actually hold and put in your hand? If you went to the bank and you asked the bank how much wealth do you guys manage, they'd give you a number. And then if you said great, I want you to bring it out, the bars of gold, the dollar bills, could they do it? No, because it's not printed. I want you to really get this for a second. The Federal Reserve can't print the amount of money because we don't have even physical space that could hold that much money. So it's not actual. There's only about 4% of all the wealth in the world that you could actually touch that's actually real. 4%. So where's the other 96%? It's just consciousness. It's just the leverage. It's just what somebody believes that they have. And other people agree to it because they agree to it. So I want you to get this, this whole idea of what I said, that everything's energy, everything is energy for real. And the more wealth you actually perceive, the the more funded you actually feel. How do you think that changes your relationship with the actual money? Well, it completely changes it because you start to act differently when you know that that much funding is already there. You make different choices, you make different investments. You start to feel so whole, so full. You start operating from the identity of a person who has so much of that compensation. It's already done, it's already here and it already is. And so wealthy people are operating from place. So most of the time everybody's looking outside of themsel. But what did we say? The universe works like a mirror. Cuz what are you really looking for anyway? The feeling within yourself. What did we just say? That that money is for to give you that feeling. So the way the universe works is, if you felt that way, if you were tapped in, what would you perceive? If money is actually only 4% even printed, and most of it, 96% of it, is consciousness, how much of it already exists in your ecosystem that you just don't even perceive? Now here's the thing we talked about. Permission to be wealthy, permission to have abundance. Most of the time when people have blocks to money, it's not money, it's not a money block. It's a block to your own power. Why? Because all day long people are given a choice every single second of the day between belonging and authenticity. Authenticity is you being connected to your soul, you being connected to the power within you, you being connected to the divine, to the way you were designed to live. Fully alive, fully tapped in, fully turned on. What do you think most people choose when they're given the choice between belonging and authenticity? They choose belonging. Why am I saying that? Because the resistance to wealth is not about money blocks. It's the resistance to being powerful. It's the feeling of growing up and having the experience, whether it was in your own living room or whether it was in middle school where you felt like in order to belong, I got to shrink. And I don't want to be misunderstood. So I would rather fit in. I'd rather belong to this group than actualize my potential. Now, every single person that you look up to, every single person that you could quote, every person who's actually made an impact in your life, whether it was your grandmother, I mean, mine for me for sure, or whether it was Thoreau or Picasso. Any person who's ever impacted you, what they have in common is in order to stand out in this world, you can't fit in. In order for you to do this thing called stand out, you actually have to stop trying to fit in. What that means is each one of us was actually meant to stand out because we're not meant to be a copy paste of each other. We were each given a God given capacity to do something that is our greatness. For some people, it's being loving. They do it better than other people. For some people, it's listening. They listen in a way where somebody says, I don't know what it is about you. I sit down next to you, I just share all these things that I just needed to share. For some people it's science. For some people it's poetry. For some people it's math. Every one of us was not born to fit in, born, to stand out. And wealthy people, because of everything that you all said at the beginning of this conversation, know that they will rather choose to be misunderstood and to be decisive and to be powerful and to be authentic and to be a steward. That is something they would choose rather than to shrink. And most of the time, the reason you're feeling that feeling of stress and lack and urgency is because you are answering to the mind and not to the soul. And the mind says, you better fit in because you gotta survive. This is why all of this is connected. Do you even feel permission to have this? So when we start to change the way that we feel within ourself, we don't answer to the people around us, we just answer to God. We were put in this world, we were called, we were assigned. And our job, we're not chasing success, we're not chasing other people's validation. We are here to do the job that our soul was created to do. We just answer to the king of the universe. Which means you're going to have to be powerful. And when you learn how much power is inside of you, that amount of wholeness, you're not walking into rooms needing anything. Like I said, you're walking in to bring something, to give something. And if you were to walk around all day long saying, I'm not after piles of things, I'm after having a divine conversation all day long. I'm after being able to be a channel for light, for love, for possibility, for inspiration. How many books are you going to write? How many amazing conversations are you going to have? How many ideas are going to show up in your lap? How many people are going to say, you know what you should invest in? This is where it starts to happen. Do you see how these are connected? When we are tapped in, when we are connected, we're not wired into the mind, which is all ego. It's self centered, it's all about the small self. When we are connected to the heart, it's not the self, it's the soul. And the soul is what? It's oneness. We're all one. And that's the part of us that knows. The more powerful I am, the more I remind you of your power. Because that's a power that comes from what's within us, that's moving through us. And that's what flow state is. It's a feeling of something bigger than you is just moving through you. Every time you hear someone like Elton John or Tom Petty talk about their hit song, they're like I don't know where it came from. It was just a download. It's just moonlight. You're here to be the moon and if all day long you've got the light turned off because you're not plugged into the electricity and you're sitting there just feeling so much lack of so much doubt, so much urgency, so much scarcity do you think you're going to be available to perceive the download? Do you think you're going to be the kind of person who walks in a room and you're just a magnet for opportunities and possibility because you are generating so much for everyone around you from energy alone? So that's what we're after. That's what we're after. Okay.