The Chisme Corner with Vee Rivera

Episode: From Heartbreak to Hot Girl Era: Amber V Cruz Unfiltered
Release Date: October 29, 2025

Episode Overview

This lively and raw episode of The Chisme Corner dives into the journey of Amber V Cruz, a well-known lifestyle and beauty content creator, as she opens up about her devastating breakup and ensuing “hot girl era.” Host Vee Rivera and Amber keep it 100% real, discussing infidelity, the realities of divorce, healing from heartbreak, the power of community, and reclaiming confidence as single moms. It’s an honest look at resilience, self-worth, and starting anew.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Amber’s Backstory: From Beauty Creator to “Single Mom Era”

• Amber began her online journey on Instagram during the pandemic, after leaving Sephora and becoming a stay-at-home mom.
• Her content blended beauty and "mom life," which resonated with many.
• Relationship timeline: She met her now soon-to-be-ex-husband when her son (from a previous partner) was six, and together they had a daughter in 2019.
• Amber emphasized her resolve not to date men with kids in the future, highlighting experiences with “baby mama drama.”

  “I am not not doing that… First baby mama for both of them.” (05:09)

2. The Messy Divorce Process

• The divorce, though amicably approached via mediation, has been expensive and slow (approx. $5,000 so far).

• Both expressed frustration at how legal processes can trap women in unhappy marriages.

  “This costs us… This is costing more than the wedding. Like, get out.” — Amber (06:28)
  "I think this is like a huge reason why… people stay in situations because a lot of people don’t have the resources to get out.” — Vee (07:01)

3. Discovering Infidelity – The Breaking Point

• Amber’s relationship seemed “perfect” until the last six months, when her ex became consistently moody and distant. She attributes his irritability to the cheating already in progress.

• The first red flag: a follower DM’d Amber reporting that her husband was at a bar with other women (April 2024). Amber initially believed her husband over the follower.

• The final straw: After a suspicious, emotional birthday phone call from him, she resolved to go through his phone and found proof—graphic pictures and videos, which led to her immediately kicking him out (13:38—14:48).

• She subsequently found extensive evidence of cheating in his Instagram DMs.

  “I see the most disgusting videos, pictures from the girl in the phone, and I wake him up out of the sleep and tell him to get the fuck out of my house. Like, I blacked out.” — Amber (14:33)

4. Community Reactions and Betrayal

• Amber struggled with betrayal not only by her husband, but also by people around her who knew about his cheating.

• Moving from NYC to Jersey City brought needed distance from local drama and potential run-ins with “side pieces.”

  “Thank God I moved away… I can gladly walk outside and not see a single side piece…” (17:23)

5. Cultural & Online Pressures + The Power of Storytelling

• Amber candidly discusses the unique pressures for Latinas and content creators when it comes to relationship image and public perception.

• Sharing her story online connected her with a “community” she didn’t have in her personal life.

  “I don’t know anybody that’s ever gone through this. So when I first opened up and shared about it… it felt like a huge relief.” (33:47)

6. Healing: Therapy, Medication, and Daily Rituals

• The initial aftermath was deeply painful: anxiety, rapid weight loss, and depressive episodes.

• She sought therapy and started medication (Zoloft)—her “happy pills”—which she credits with helping her function.

• Support from family, especially her son, was crucial.

  “I lost a total of 25 pounds because I was sick to my stomach… There’s not signs when [he’s] good at it. Props to him. He’s good at lying and manipulating and faking his whole personality.” (20:24-21:10)

7. Red Flags & Gut Instincts

• Reflecting, Amber noticed small red flags: unexplained deodorant stains, odd dog behavior, and excuses.

• She and Vee discuss the tendency to distrust gut feelings or make excuses when you don’t want to believe the worst.

  “Our dog is barking… I’m like, imagine he smells like another dog… He did. Because this girl has a dog.” (22:36-23:04)

8. Parenting Through Heartbreak

• Amber was transparent with her 13-year-old son about the breakup, while her younger daughter remains unaware.

• She tries to provide emotional security and set examples about self-worth and not tolerating cheating.

  “I told him straight up. I said, I found out that Daddy was cheating on me and I kicked him out.” (23:57)

9. Both Healing and the “Hot Girl Era”

• Embracing content creation, gym time, and “romanticizing little things” helped Amber reclaim her identity.

• The importance of not comparing her healing journey to others—healing isn’t linear.

  “There’s a healed version of me and then there’s a non-healed version of me, and you’re never going to see one at just—just at once.” — Vee (30:56)

10. The Single Mom Glow Up

• Amber focused on career independence, becoming the main breadwinner, and enjoying her “hot girl” transformation.

• She’s determined to prioritize her kids, her passions, and her peace of mind.

  “This new version of me represents loving yourself, knowing your worth, that you do not need a man. I can do all this by myself.” (42:03) “I’m still gonna do that. And they’re going to realize, you know, that Mommy did that.” (43:16)

11. Advice for Other Women

• Healing is non-linear, and self-focus is crucial.

• Kids can be the ultimate motivator to push through.

• Community (IRL and online) makes a difference.

  “You can finally focus on yourself and the healing is a journey that is not linear.” (49:07)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Divorce Costs:
  “This is costing more than the wedding. Like, get out.” —Amber (06:28)

• On Cheating & Self-Respect:
  “I know my worth. I'm not gonna stay with a man who's cheating on me.” (18:33)

• On Community:
  “I'm inspiring to [other women], and I love [that] so much. Like, I get messages, the sweetest messages, all the time.” (33:47—34:38)

• On Mental Health:
  “I had to seek therapy and they ended up putting me on Zoloft because I was having anxiety.” (26:50)

• On Glow-Up:
  “Everyone’s like, oh my gosh, you look so good, but I’m just like, I’ve cried to get this back.” (41:29)

• On Single Motherhood as a Flex:
  “[My kids] are going to realize, you know, that Mommy did that.” (43:16)

• On Starting Over:
  “I never want to get into a relationship again,” but maybe one day, “just don’t sign those papers.” (58:08)

• On Happiness Now:
  “I try to romanticize, like, little things… waking up every morning, I love making my coffee… in this brand new apartment that I’ve only dreamed of.” (51:08)

Important Segments & Timestamps

• [03:26] – Amber’s background in content creation/postpartum life
• [06:13] – Navigating divorce logistics and costs
• [08:59] – The moment Amber checked her husband’s phone
• [13:38] – Discovering evidence and kicking husband out
• [20:18] – Immediate aftermath: severe weight loss and mental health
• [22:36] – Looking back at missed red flags
• [23:57] – Talking to her kids about the breakup
• [26:50] – Healing: therapy, medication, support systems
• [30:56] – The non-linear process of healing
• [33:47] – Role of the social media community
• [42:03] – Amber’s new outlook and self-definition
• [49:07] – Advice for women starting over

Tone & Vibe

• Candid, warm, and affirming—like a healing conversation with your homegirls
• Balances deep honesty with humor and sass (“pretty petty,” “hot girl era”)
• Empowering: Encourages self-love, self-respect, and breaking stigmas, especially for Latina women and single moms

Conclusion

Amber V Cruz’s story is one of heartbreak, resilience, and transformation. Her journey from betrayal to self-reclamation is a testament to the strength it takes to start over and the magic that happens when women share their truths—online and IRL. The episode ends with both Amber and Vee reflecting on the power of community, self-love, and the surprising gifts found in letting go.