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You can do whatever you want to do. It's your life. You run the show. This is your motherfucking program. And you can become the woman that you were always meant to be at any age. Hey, Cheese Mosas. I'm back. I'm back. Don't kill me. All right, I'm sorry. I did not have a new episode for y' all last week, and that was on me. That was on me. I take full accountability because A could take accountability. I know I up. Honestly, I had all my days up last week, and the day that I was planning on filming ended up being the day that the podcast was supposed to come out. And then I had, like, appointments after and, like, meetings and stuff that I really couldn't really reschedule. So, yeah, it was just some one of those things where I was like, I'm going to have to, like, I'm going to have to, like, take that. You know, I'm going have to, like, I'm going to have to bite that bullet. But I was like, you know what? I'll explain to them next week. But it was a crazy freaking week, too. Like, I just needed time to get my together. I don't know. Last week came at me really hard. But yeah, I feel like I have so many life updates for y'. All. Like, even just not recording for that week. So much has happened. Okay, so how. What am I. How am I gonna start? First of all, I have this hydro jug, and I've been obsessed with hydro jugs. Why didn't Anyone tell me that hydro jugs were so good, Like a Stanley, a Yeti, like, anything. Like, this is such a good cup. And they're so cute. The designs are so cute. Mine has, like, pink stripes on it with these little cherries, and it's got pink ribbons on it, like little pink bows. So adorable. And it doesn't spill. Like, look, she don't spill or nothing. She's locked and loaded. And I've been obsessing, actually, over dirty soda. So I started drinking the Dr. Pepper cherry, and then I mixed that with the chobani toasted coconut vanilla creamer. Just a little bit of creamer. Like, you really don't need that much. But I don't know, something in me, I was like, you know what? I'm gonna try this. Like, I really wanted cherry. And then I was like, I want, like, coconut. Like, something coconut in my drink. So I went in the fridge, and I saw my creamer, and I was like, it. Let me just see how this tastes. And banging. Like, I have not stopped drinking it yet. This is gonna be my new drink of choice, I think, for the summer, because it's so bomb. So bomb. If you guys have any other dirty soda mixes, like, flavors that you like, let me know, because I'm just starting on this wave. Like, I'm just starting my dirty soda experimenting, and I'm really excited about it, especially for the summertime. Yeah. So that was something. I got this at Dick's Dicks. I got it at Dicks, and they have a whole bunch of other cups and stuff, too, but I was like a Stanley. Like, I don't even like those things anymore. BB's been really into, like, the oalas. Like, I don't know if y' all kids like those, because I feel like that's been the newest thing, especially with Vivi and her friends. It's like, if you don't got an Aala, you ain't. You ain't it no more. Like, they be looking at you like you still got a Stanley. And I'm like, yo, the way these. These kids were on top of Stanley's, and, like, if you didn't have a Stanley, you wasn't cool or whatever. Whatever. Like, the way that it's flipped now, and it's the. It's all about the oala crazy. Like, I had. I went to Target, and BB was like, oh. She was like, I really want one of these, because she just likes. Bibi actually doesn't like the, like, straws. Like, she likes just those things that you can just drink out of, like, the, like, the tops. Like, I don't know how to. I don't know how to describe it. And that's why she likes it. So we went and got one at Target, and she loves it. Like, she uses it all the time. So I was like, good. Like it didn't go to waste. Like, she actually is using it all the time, but we have a whole collection of cups. Anyway, this is not. I don't want to get into this, but I also went to the dermatologist girl. I remember I told y' all that I was catching up on, like, all my doctor appointments and stuff like that. And I hope y' all are too. I hope you are, too. I hope you made your toto appointment. I hope you made your skin appointment. I hope you made your. What is it? Your physical. Like, I hope you're doing all the things. Because I'm not playing with y'. All. Like, we. We gotta be on top of our health this year. I'm not playing with any of y'. All. But, yeah, I went and he checked all my modes, literally from my scalp down to the itty bitty bitty bits of my toes. Like, I had this one birthmark, or mole, whatever you want to call it, on one of my toes. I had no idea because I don't be looking at the bottom of my feet. Like, even when I'm in the shower scrubbing the out of my feet and stuff, I'm not, like, looking dead at my feet. Like. Like, it's so tiny. I wouldn't have even noticed it. So I didn't even know it was there. But he was like, yeah, I just. She checked all of them. So what he. What they do is they'll just ask you, like, are there certain ones that you want checked out or do you want to do, like, a full body scan? Like, I'll just scan your whole body. And every mole, every birth mic we see, we check them. I was like, yes. Like, I want a full head to toe. Don't miss. Not one. We don't want to miss a thing. And then he was like, also, if there's any specific ones that you want to tell me about or, like, if they've, like, if they've changed or anything like that. So I told him all the ones that I have that. That I've seen grow bigger or, like, change in color or whatever it might be. And he did say that, you know, over time, especially, like, the hyperpigmentation will, like, get darker or, like, obviously the size Will grow bigger. But it doesn't necessarily mean anything bad. Like, sometimes that's just. That's just how it is. Yeah. Scans, like, went through all of my modes, was checking out everything, and he said everything looked fine, everything was fine. That there's nothing. Like, we don't need to. There's no point of, like, getting rid of any, because you don't really need to. But I had a skin tag that I've had since for a really, really, really long time. It's, like, right on the corner of my armpit and, like, my. Like, right above my breast. It's also right where, like, if you we. A strap or, like, a bra strap. I don't wear bras anymore. Y' all know I don't wear bras, but if I'm wearing something with, like, a little strap or even a bikini, it'll like, sometimes get caught or, you know, like, it's just. I. It's annoying. Overall. It's just annoying. So he was like, I can get rid of that for you right now if you want. And immediately, when I tell you. As soon as he said that, I thought of Vivi. Like, Vivi just came into my mind, and I can just picture her saying, do not do it. Like, don't do it. I don't know what it is about this thing, but she's been attached to it since she was a baby. Like, she would play with it, especially when she breastfed and everything. So I felt. I almost felt guilty. Like, it's like her little emotional support skin tag, as disgusting as that sounds. But let me tell y', all, when I had so many people in my DM saying the same. Like, they were like, oh, my. My child was really mad or upset when I got rid of it. Or, like, my husband was upset. Like, people really get attached to these things, like, on your body. So I was like, wow, this is you. There's not one experience, like, original experience that I've ever had in my life. Like, like, everyone just out here going through the same. Experiencing the same things. Like, it's so crazy. But yeah, Bibi, when she found out, like, oh, my gosh, she was so upset. But, yeah, I told him. I was like, yeah, like, let's just get rid of it. I was like, I just want to get rid of it, because sometimes even if the sun hits it too much, it'll, like, start to hurt or it'll, like, it's almost like it catches, like, a burn. So, well, he. So he just numbed it. Like, they just put. He put Like a needle. He was like, you're going to feel, like, a slight pinch and almost like a burn sensation, like, a little bit. So that's all it was. Like, it lasted no more than two seconds. And then I can hear the scissor. He just went snip and snipped to that bitch right off. And I was just like, oh, my God. Like, I can't. Like, I've had this thing on me for years, and it's finally gone. Like, I just felt so, like, relieved. Like, it really felt like, such a relief. So got that done, and I was just so happy that I. Because I. Girl, once you start chat GPT and shit and googling things, like, I had this one right here that's on my arm, and it grew, like, big. All of a sudden. I was like, what the hell? Even Bibi was like, wow, that one's gotten big. And I was like, yeah. Like, that's not good. But, yeah, I was scaring myself. I started, like, looking up pictures and everything and, like, comparing them. And, like, even though my pictures didn't look anything, like, cancerous or anything, I don't know, it was just still in my head because it was like, everything was saying, yeah, go get checked. Like, go get checked. You need to take this seriously. And I was like, oh, my God. So, yeah, took it seriously. Booked my appointment right away. Yeah. Just glad that I got that done. And he was like, everything's fine. Like, you're good. He was like, just come back. Do this yearly. Like, you know, next. Next year, you come back, we'll check you again, and if you have any concerns in between that time, just let me know. So I was just like, okay. So that was. That was, you know, one thing that I got out the way. And then we had cheer competition this past weekend. This was Vivi's last competition of the season in Delaware. They actually were able to get another competition in the books in Virginia in May. So we're going to be in Virginia beach in May, which I'm really excited about, because last time we went to Virginia, we had a blast. Like, it was so much fun. I. I love Virginia Beach. Like, I love it. And I was thinking about taking the kids there for, like, spring break or something, but now I'm like, okay, we don't even have to do it for spring break. Like, we'll just make it a weekend thing when we go in May, since we have to go anyway. So I have to think of other things to do with them. And during spring break. So if y' all have any little trips, and I'm not talking. I'm not trying to get on a plane or not things. So anything that's around my surrounding area, like, whether it be in New Jersey or Philly, whatever. Like, what do y' all do with your kids in the summer? I mean, in the. The spring break week that you have them? Because I feel like I always make sure that I do something with the girls. Like, I have to take them somewhere because they get bored. They get so bored. They don't like to be in the house, especially love to be out. She like me. Like, we love to go out and do things. See, I'm trying to see last year and nothing at the top last year because I took them to Puerto Rico. So I'm like, damn. Like, now they're gonna think every year I'm gon them, like, this extravagant thing. And I'm like, no, it's just. It's spring break. Like, the whole reason why last year I took them on, like, during spring break was because we were actually supposed to go there in the summer. But then that's when we all got ringworm because of SUU and, like, we had to cancel it and everything. So I was just. I was just trying to book that asap. Like, I was not trying to wait another few months for summer. I was like, nope, we're going during spring break. So I literally booked that in, like, randomly. Like, randomly one day. I just told you. I was like, I booked Puerto Rico. Like, we going to Puerto Rico. He was like, okay, but I. I just don't be playing when it comes to my vacations. Like, I really don't be playing. But, yeah, so we had the competition. And let me tell you guys something, okay? These girls have worked so hard. Y' all know the whole story about how her gym shut down, blah, blah, whatever. These girls had to change up their routine and, like, do different things. Like, they've changed up the routine, like, three times already at this point. So when, like, I think, like, probably like the last two or three competitions, they've gone up against this one team that's in their division, and they beat them every single time. First place. First place. Like, so there's this other team. I'm not naming teams because they're all great, you know? And I don't wanna. I don't want to put names out there. Like, all the cheerleaders are great. All the. All the teams are really good. But there's this one cheer team that's really, really good. They're like, probably like a half an hour away from where we live. They're still in Delaware. But that team is so good. Like, they be. They just always taking it home. Like, they're just such a good. A good gym. So there's three teams that we was going up against, including her team. So there was three of them in their division for the state champs, and one of them was the team that they already beat out. Like, so I feel like we were kind of worrying about them because we were like, all right. Like, we already beat them out. You know what I'm saying? But the other team we were worried about, we were like, oh, like, we're going up against this team. Like, y' all really gotta bring it. Like, when I told y'. All. When I tell y'. All. Like, y' all really gotta bring it. We have to beat them, you know? So when I tell you guys, these girls did phenomenally. Like, they were so in sync. Everything looked like so. They were. Everything was so cohesive. Like, the dance was great. The stunts were amazing. They hit everything. They hit zero. So they hit zero often, like they usually do. It was like, I. I personally was like, damn, this was the best that I've seen them compete. And, like, we all said the same thing. Like, even my niece was like, this is the best I've seen them. And, like, they've been so good all season. Awards come, and I'm nervous. I'm so nervous because I'm like, we won state champs last year, right? So we already. It's already kind of like a standard where Bibi's like, I have to win. You know? Like, and I tell her all the time, like, you don't. You know, there's a lot of new teams that come, and there's a lot of different people that you go up against. Like, it's not. Oh, you're not always gonna win it all the time. If you. Even. If you get second. Even if you get second, that's still good, you know? But, like, yes, we want to win all the time. We want to be first place, but if you get second or whatever, still great. But no, she wants to win. Like, that's my girl. Like, we're very. We're pretty competitive. Like, we want to be first place all the time. Like, I'm a Virgo, so that's just how I lead my life. Like, so she kind of gets that from me, too. Yeah. So they did their thing, and then awards come, and they're like, boom, third place. And it's the team that they never Beat out. Like, that always, constantly has been. Like, every. I'm telling you, the teams that she's been on, whenever she goes up against this team, they either get second or first, and then they leave her in, like, second or third. Like, they're always beating them out. So they beat them out. This time. They got third place. Like, they placed third. And I just remember looking at Vivi, I'm all the way sitting back there, and they're all the way on the floor, so she can't even see me, but I know where she's at. So I'm looking at her expressions, I'm looking at the team, and she just looks at everyone and she's like. Like, they immediately are like, oh. You know, like, they're like, oh, my God. Like, we won this. Like, we won because in our minds, we're like, we already beat out this other team. We were really worried about this team that always beats us. You know, when they said second place and then they said BB's cheer team, oh, my God. I was at a loss for words. Like, I literally. Even the girls, they started cheering and everything. Like, they were still happy. But you can see in Bibi's face, Bibi was like. And she was just like. Because it was like a hit to the gut. Like, it was so bittersweet because it's like, yes, we finally beat out this other team. Like, we worked so damn hard and beat out this other team, but then we let this team take it. Like, when we've been beating them all season. Like, how the hell did that happen? Like, we was just. Oh, my God, it was so crazy. But they did great. Everyone. Everyone did so good. But still, like, you want to be number one. Like, you want to beat everyone, you know, so you want to take that state champion home. But, yeah, so they got second. And I was just. Like, we were all in shock. Like, when I tell y', all, like, we were just all in shock. Like, we were just like, no. No way. Like, did we see the same competition? Because I just. I still don't get it. Like, I don't get it. Like, and I'm not saying that the team did bad or nothing. They, you know, they deserve first place, whatever, in their eyes. But to me, I was like, nah, like this. It was just so crazy. To me, it was really crazy. But overall, it was a. It was a crazy day. It was rough, it was long, and it was very. Like, there was a lot of anticipation, a lot of, like, butterflies, a lot of nerves. Like, but, yeah, we took second and Fifi was proud of herself. She's like, you know what? We got second place. Like, we've. We've been through so much this year. Like, we. Second is not bad. And I was like, babe, that is the best attitude that you can have. Like, that's the best way you can think about it. So, yeah, I don't gotta worry about cheer or anything until May, which is really good. She still has practices. She has practices every Friday, and then now they're adding Sundays, too, so that girl just be working out and doing all the time. But anyways, did you guys see the new Love is Blind? Did you guys see the Love is Blind? Because the. The reunion actually comes out today when this podcast launches. So we can probably talk a little bit about the. The reunion next week. But, girl, this season, I. I don't know what it is with Love is Blind, but I feel like the people, especially the men, like, just get worse and worse with each season. I don't know if it's the locations where they're picking these men at, where they're picking. It's just crazy. I don't feel like any of these men are ever really there to settle down and actually get married. Like, I don't think any of them actually know what commitment and marriage truly means. Like, what does that mean? Because the women are always, like, they're ready, you know? Like, they have. They're very open. They're very, like, communicative. Is that the word? They communicate really well. Like, they're very, like, vulnerable. They open up. They show their feelings. Like, I feel like the women are just. They. They know what they're signing up for, and the men walk into it, and it's almost like the show isn't even called Love is Blind. Like, they just think, like, I don't know. They. They. They don't feel like this is like a marriage show. Like, what the do you think you're actually signing up for? So only two couples actually got married this season. Last season, we had no couples get married. Remember, that was when that dude was over there making chicken slushies. So nobody said, I do last season. But this season we had. Who was it? Christine and Vic. So Christine and Vic were, like, one of the most genuine couples of the season, and they got the least screen time. I remember seeing something on Instagram, and it was like this. It was like a graph of all the screen time that each of the couples got this season. They only got, like, probably like, 15 minutes or some. Like, it was like something between 15, 20 minutes. Throughout, like, the whole season. Like, that's insane. So they got married in the finale, which I'm. I'm very happy for them. We all saw that coming. Like, they. It was almost like they had no problems. They had no issues. Like, what they did bring light to was when she asked him, like, how do you feel about a white woman, like, raising black children? You know, like. And he was just like, I. I trust it. Like, you know, like, we're gonna. We're gonna communicate. We're gonna go about things the right way. Like, I don't have a doubt in my mind that we're not gonna. You know, they're gonna succeed in their marriage and live a great life and raise some good kids. That's basically what, you know, what he was alluding to. So, yeah, I feel like I couldn't form much of an opinion about them because it was just like, okay. Everything was so sweet and cute. It was just like, okay, like, they're sweet and cute. Like, that's it. I don't really know much about them, but everything seemed pretty good, you know? So congratulations to them. And then Amber and Jordan. Oh. Oh, my God. So they were one of the stronger couples throughout the season, and I actually really like them, like, compared to all the other couples. Like, it wasn't like a. Oh, I'm obsessed with them. Like, I want them to get married. It wasn't like that, but it was just like, I hope they make it. You know? Like, I was just like, I hope they make it work. But I will say, and maybe this is an unpopular opinion. I don't care at this point, and with all the seasons that I've watched and everything that I see that comes out of this show, I truly believe, and I feel in my heart of hearts, that if you have any kids, you should not be going on this show. And this is not to say that you're not deserving of love. This is not to say any of that. I'm not saying any of that. Any woman has any right as a single parent, a single mom, whatever it may be, one kid, two kids, three kids, you have the right to find love. Absolutely. But I do. I feel like this show is where you should be finding it, and this is where. No, absolutely not. Like, at the end of the day, you still. You don't know. You don't know this person. You don't know this person. You're gonna have to marry this person. You have to move in with this person. Like, after, like, how many weeks of knowing? Barely, like, three, four. Months, like, barely even. You haven't known this person for even six months yet. There's no reason why they need to be meeting your children or like, moving in with you, like, within a span of like four or six weeks. Like, that's. To me, that's really crazy. And let me know what your opinion is on this. I think I'm just. I know how works out there. There's a lot of predators out there. And when I tell you they're not even just men, there's women predators out there too. And they're not just looking at little girls either. People think that boys or anything in that case, like, can't be targets as well. Like, all children are targets to predators. It don't matter what gender you are. No matter your gender. It don't matter. It, like, nothing. I just know this world is so evil and disgusting. I don't trust the soul. I don't trust a soul. So I have like, a select handful of people that I let my daughter be around. But with that being said, Jordan had some hesitations throughout this because Amber has a daughter and her daughter was so cute. Like, they showed her more towards the end. I didn't understand why he met the dad, but he. They took so much time. Like, he didn't meet the daughter till like the day before the wedding. And I don't know if that was just editing, but I'm pretty sure that is what was said. Like, he said, like, he just met her yesterday and that was when they were filming the wedding day. So he had just met her the day before. So I was just like, what the fuck? Like, that is crazy to me. There's no way I would even let my daughter come out in that wedding or even look like, see that wedding, because, like, how do you just meet this? He's a stranger, you know, like, it's just you're a stranger to. To her and still to you. So I don't know, the whole thing is just crazy to me. I think if you want to find love, like, that's fine. Like, but to bring a child into it and, like, have them also kind. Like they're going through the experiment with you too. I don't know. It just doesn't. It just. It just doesn't feel right to me. Like, I just did not like that whole thing. Like, I didn't. I didn't like it at all. And he had. He was so, like, he had all his. All these reservations, and he was very hesitant. You can tell. And they weren't really agreeing much. On where they were going to live. They were in green, like, he was. You can tell he was very scared about becoming a stepfather. Like, as you should. It is not easy, and it is not for everybody at all. I was really surprised when at the altar, they both said yes. Like, I knew Amber was gonna say yes, but even she said. She said, I'm very. I'm gonna be very surprised if, like, he says yes. And then there were texts that were leaked that they both had told production that they were both going to say yes at the altar. So I don't know. It's just weird. So they got married, but I don't think they're together. There's been rumors allegedly going around that after, like, three months, three or four months, this couple got divorced. So I'm thinking it was them, which, again, sucks for the daughter. Like, it really sucks. And you could tell her face. Like, when they got married, she was crying. She was not happy. She. That girl was like, what the is going on? Why am I here? Like, I could have stayed with my dad. Like, it was just mad weird. The couples that didn't make it were Emma and Mike. And I have a lot to say about this. Like, I just feel like Mike, oh, my God. That disagreement about having kids. And, like, that was, like, the one thing that was talked about throughout. That's the only thing I can remember about Mike. Like, nothing else stood out to me about him other than him just constantly being like, well, do you want kids or. Nah. Because if we're. You don't want no kids, we can't get married. And it's like, wasn't this discussed in the pods? She told you exactly how you felt. So the fact. I hate when these men, like, still, like, they'll get you out. Out of the pod and then still make that a problem. Like, well, you don't agree with this, or do you still. You don't. You're not changing your mind about this. Like, I told you. I told you in the past, this is what it was. So I don't know. It's just. He was weird to me, and I don't feel like I saw, like, an actual physical connection, like, or even, like, chemistry between them. I don't know. It was a weird relationship. They were in my favorite. But I didn't, like, hate them. I didn't, like, completely dislike them, but I also. They weren't. I don't know. They just weren't it for me. So he ended up saying no at the altar because of the whole kid. Like, dude, it's just stupid. Just stupid to me. Real stupid. And then we have Brittany and Devonte. Is it Devonte? I think it's devonte, bruh. When I tell you this man done fumbled probably more times in his life than we know. Because if you fumble Britney bruh, and you could tell he, he did not like her. He just did not like her. She was not his type. He was not ready for a brown queen. Like he, no, he was not ready. He wanted what he usually get. He wanted his, his, his normal order. That's what he, he, he was not ready for Britney. Okay? And we all know this. We all got eyes. We all saw the same. Even when she would tell him, you never compliment me. Like, I don't know how you feel about me. You don't compliment me. You don't tell me I'm pretty. You don't tell me I'm beautiful. This had the nerve to be like, I love your eyelashes. Like, got the nerve. Like, I, I couldn't believe it. I could not believe what I was hearing. And the fact that she thought that that was cute excuses for him. Or like making, trying to like basically make herself smaller. Like, well, maybe I shouldn't be. I need to basically get over the fact that you're not someone that's like all lovey dovey or like complimenting me. No. Why would you lower your standards for a motherfucker who's already showing you how he feel about you? Do not do that. Like you're putting yourself right here when you know you deserve to be right up here. This is your caliber and you're dragging yourself down here for who? But you could just tell, you can tell that he was not into her and it was very cringe. And I think she even wrote like she posted on Instagram and was saying like, damn, looking back, I could see how I look so delusional. Like she did. She looked so delusional. And she was like making up excuses to like stay to make this work. Like you can tell she wanted to make it work so bad. Like she really wanted to, to be with this man, but he did not like her. Like, he just did not like her at all. They broke and then right before the wedding, they showed them on the couch talking. They're saying how you know they're not going to get married. Whatever. He looking over, he over there looking so stressed out and she's like, you know, don't worry, like we're still gonna talk, we're still engaged. That you were. This is the man that I'M going to marry. We are still going to get married. And he literally looked at her and was like, well, I guess we'll be in touch. Like, what? What? These men have no chill. They have zero chill. Dragging these women down and like, why did you, why did you come on this experiment? Like, I don't, I just, I don't get it. I really don't get it. So that, that whole relationship really had me up. Cuz the minute they showed Britney, even when they were in Mexico or whatever, she was in her, her bikini. Like, she's so bomb. Like if I was a man, that would be my type. Like, this is like she is bad as. Like, are you kidding? Like, look at her, look at her. She's a brown skin baddie. Like, come on, get it the together. Devonte actually don't like stay where the you are because nobody likes you. Ashley and Alex. Oh my God. Oh, I have a million and one things I could say about these two, but they were not my favorite. Like, but like I don't. Not that I like, like totally dislike Ashley, but I just didn't really care for her. And then I really didn't care for Alex. Like, I just did not like them. Maybe it's just because I did not with them as a couple. I did not like them as a couple. I cannot stand that man. Oh my God. He gives the biggest ick. Like he just talks in circles. Like everything he says. Like, no, he's, he's just one of those people that he talks and talks and talks and it's like, what are you even talking about? Like, what is the point? Like land the plane. Like we don't even know where you're going with this. Like you're just. He talks in circles to make it sound and make it seem like he's so experienced at things or like he's lived this nomadic lifestyle and he does this and he does that and it's like, boy, just say that you can't commit. Like you can't commit to a job. You can't commit to women. Like you can't. You know what I mean? You're all over the place. That's what it boils down to. Just me making up stories and excuses and lies about everything. Like, it's just so weird. And you could tell that she was not his type either. You can tell that Alex was not into her, like physically either. I don't know. I don't know if it's like this aura, like this feeling that I get, but you can, I can Sense, even through a screen, when a man is not, like, physically attracted to a woman or, like, physically into her or, like, it's just signs. It's body language. Like, I once studied this book. I have a book about, like, body language and what it tells you. It tells you when people are lying. It tells you when they, like, how they feel about you. Like, in the situation. Like, it's really crazy. I literally recommend anyone to read a book about body language, whatever it is. Like, and then once you start know, being around people, having conversations with them or watching them have conversations with people, you start identifying so many of the signs of, like, if they're lying, if they're being genuine, it changes how you see life, honestly. Yeah. So they. You know, it was so funny, too, because even when he met her dad, her dad was grilling him. Her. He was grilling him. Like, grilling the. Out of him. He was not. He was not having it. He was not having it. Like, he was basically like, I see right through you. And I was like, yeah, we all see right through him. They got to the altar, and it was so funny because they. I think they asked Alex first. Like, they were about to ask him if he decides to, like, say no or yes. And Ashley straight up butted in, and she was like, oh, but before you say anything, like, I'm. I'm gonna have to say no. Like, she was like, you are not about to get one up on me. I am ending this marriage. I am ending this. Me ending this is a win for me. And let me tell you, Alex, he compares every single situation in his life to soccer. He's. He's one of those people that, like, you will never, ever, ever. He will never, ever make you forget that he could have played D1 soccer if he had not messed up his. Whatever the. In high school or college or whatever. Like, he's one of those, like, my God, it's like, get the. Over it. Like, how old are we already? We get it. But he literally was like, talking every. Every scenario that he was talking about on the wedding day had to do with soccer. And I'm like, are you. Like, are you trying. Ready to get married? Are you ready to go out on the field and kick a ball? Like, what are you doing? What are you talking about? He's just. He's all up. But, yeah, I was really happy that Ashley ended. That was like, nope, I'm. I'm done. Like, no, this was not. You're very. She was like, no. Like, I feel like you talk in circles. You I, like, feel like I think you're a liar. Like, I don't trust you. Like, we have. There's a lot of dishonesty. There's lack of communication. Like, you're. The. The whole integrity thing, whatever. She ripped him a new one, and he was just standing there like, yeah, okay, okay. And then his mom's. His mom's reaction was like, girl, are you surprised? Are we surprised? Like, she just like him. Like mother, like son. For real. Like, they just Two peas in a pod. So I'm actually really glad that Ashley got the. Away from that, because what. What would her life have been like? We don't want to think about it. Ashley, thank God you did that. Like, you made the right decision. That was a win for you. For real. She. She tied up her cleats and was like, I'm out of here. And then we have Brie and Connor, which. This was, like, one of the most dramatic storylines throughout the season because Chris was originally one of Bri's choices. Chris and Bri were, like, dating in the pods as well. And then, you know, she ended up, like, ending up with Connor. But Chris. Yo. Chris was the worst. One of the worst males, I think, to come out of this franchise, along with some other ones. I don't remember their names, but there's been a lot of terrible men on this. On this franchise. But Chris is definitely top three. Like, so disrespectful. He was with. He ended up with Jessica, and the way he broke up with her was so. It was disgusting. It was like something I've never seen, especially on tv, before. Like, he just. Just completely, like, belittled her, like, basically saying he was not attracted to her body or her because she doesn't wake up and go and do Pilates or, you know, works out the way he does when this is something. Again, this was discussed in the past. Like, she was straight up with him. Like, I don't exercise. Like, I don't do. She was like, I'm a doctor. Like, you know, like, she's a doctor. Like, she doesn't have time. She's out. She's here saving lives and, like, doing some real. But that was discussed in the pods. Like, that's not her lifestyle. That might be his lifestyle, but that was never hers. You know, she be making that money. She get into the bag. Like, she's doing what she loves in her life. But he really broke up with her and was like, basically, like, I don't. I don't like your body. Like, that's what it Boiled down to it was so cold hearted and he was just, he had no empathy. No, like, and she's just looking at him like, you can tell she was just thinking like, this is a so fudgeing embarrassing that he's doing this to me on tv. And then to like unbelievable. Like, who are you? He's short as looking like Oompa Loompa. Like, you're one to talk about looks. I hate when people like be trying to talk about other people's looks. And it's like, you are not a 10. Like unless you attend, don't be out here talking about other people, please. Because like, you look just, you look terrible. People really got the nerve out here to be doing that. Be ugly inside and out, but be talking about other people. And that's how, is exactly how I felt about him. Like, he's ugly inside and out, honestly. And once you're ugly on the inside to me, you forever ugly on the outside. I don't care what kind of procedures you do, I don't care what you do to your face. I don't care what you're forever gonna be ugly. Like you're an ugly soul. That's it. So he basically broke up with Jess and then when they all, they all had like that reunion like in the bar or whatever with all the other couples and he's over here talking to Bri, being mad disrespectful, like saying how thinking that they were gonna be buddies and all this and that he's so attracted calling, telling everyone that he's so attracted to her. Like she's so hot. And honestly, Bri, she looked like she liked that. Like she was feeding into it. I was side eyeing her the whole time too. Because I honestly don't feel like she's any better. Like, I really don't. And that whole that she pulled in Mexico too. Like, I, I, she like about like kind of like needing closure or like you can tell she wanted to talk to Chris so bad. Like just say that she's like, we all made these connections and like none of us are talking about it. Like, just say you want to talk to him, you want him to. You want him. She wanted him to like be at her feet. That's what she wanted. And he wasn't really doing that in Mexico. Yeah, I don't know. I just found it so weird. They're both so weird to me. Like, I honestly, I think Connor and Jessica should have got together. They feel like, I feel like they would make more sense and I just respect Them more. I really don't have much respect for Brie or Chris, and Brie, like, basically broke up with Connor, too, and, ironically enough, was telling him the exact same in breaking up with him that Chris was telling her about him. Like, how he's not. You know, he's not an alpha. Like, he's not gonna step in and, like, you know, make decisions, and, like, he's not. He's not like that. Like, she needs someone like that, basically. I don't know. It was just so weird, and I feel like she took that moment and she really ran with it and was like, oh, you know what? He's right, this man. He ain't about, like. It's like, what. I feel like Connor has been. He's been so, like, genuine with her this whole time, and I really think she let Chris get to her head. I think that's what happened. So, yeah, this season was a freaking mess. It was an absolute mess. But as usual, I can't look away. So I'm really excited to watch the reunion, and we will talk a little bit about it later. I love how they have all of the couples from, like, the last seasons come to the reunions, too, and you can, like, see their reactions and everything. Like, it's just. Oh, it's so funny. I love it, but, yeah. Would you guys ever be able to go on a show like Love is Blind? I feel like I'd be able to do, like, a. Like, the Love island show. Like, I would like to do that, aside from all the kissing. Like, I would really hate that, but I think that would be more fun. Like, I think a Love island type situation would be fun, but Love is Blind. Like, would y' all be able to do that? Like, if you're single, like, think not married, whatever. Would you be able to go on a show like that? I don't. I really don't, because I know myself. I'm a Virgo. And, like, one little thing about you that gives me ick. I can never. Like, there's no way I'm marrying you. Like, there's just no way. I have to be. I had to be with Joe for the longest time to. To know if I actually wanted to marry his ass. Like, I. There's just so much that I just. Like, I'm. I'm very picky, and I'm very. Like, we have to mesh really well, and you have to get to actually know my personality, and vice versa. Like, I just really. I need to know who you are to your core. Like, there's no way. Dating someone for six weeks or however long it is. I don't really remember how long they're together for. Since it six or eight weeks or whatever. There's no way in that span of time that I'm going to be sure that I want to marry y. There's just no way I'm going to pick up about 10x out of that time and give myself a reason to leave. Like, that is probably what is actually going to happen. What are your habits? Like, what is. Like, do you take care of yourself? You know, like, how many showers a day do you do? Like, what's your house looking like? Like, are you organized? Are you all over the place? Like, how is your relationship with your family? Like, do you get along with your. Your mom, your dad, like, your siblings? Like, I. It's just so much extra that comes with it that I'm looking into all of it. Like, I'm really just trying to see how good of a person you are to, to the depths of your soul. That's what I'm looking for. That's what I'm looking at. So I don't know. That would be very hard for me to commit. Commit to someone. I would not be able to commit that fast to anybody, like, at all. Oh, you guys. So I'm recording this episode the day before it comes out, and it's actually Bad Bunny's birthday, so I had to talk about this because I had this on my topics. But we are so back. We are so back. Bad Bunny and Gabriella are so back. They are so back and I'm so excited. They are. These two are together. They are together. You can't tell us nothing. She. They were spotted out. She's been traveling with him. Like, she's been with him. Like, with him with him. They were spotted in Sydney, Australia, on the beach. They were spotted in Argentina. They were spotted in Brazil. They were spotted. She's been at the Grammys with him. She was at the Super Bowl. Like, you can't tell me that these two are not back together. And my little heart is so happy. I love me some Gabriella and I love me Bad Bunny together. Like, they are so cute. If y' all remember, like when co happened and they were like in the house together and like, they would post like videos, like, fun. Do fun things together. Like, I fell so in love with them at that time. And you can tell they always had just like a genuine friendship. So I was hoping that the whole. When he started dating like Kendall Jenner or like, dating, quote Unquote. I immediately. I felt like that was, like, a whole PR thing. Like, you could tell that was a whole, like, PR move, because that's when he was, like, really going to, like, LA more. And, like, being in California, Like, I feel like that was more of him making connections and shit. And then he had, like, that Gucci photo. Was it like that photo shoot they did together for, like, Gucci or whatever it was he was getting in his bag. And I feel like that she was helping him, you know? Like. And I feel like it helped his image a little bit better. But Gabriella was still there. Like, she was still around. Like, they were still, like, besties. And now I'm just thinking, like, I'm like, I don't. I'm. I never ate that up and I never will. Like, they. That was a whole PR thing. That was for his career. And I think Gabby is always just gonna be the one that. That he's gonna be with. Like, I feel like they're honestly gonna get married and they're gonna have, like, little, cute little babies together. Like, they're just. I don't know. They're so perfect to me. I love them. Like, there was Carlis, remember? Like, she was the first. First Bunny. Like, she was the first girlfriend of Bad Bunny. Like, when he was not even. No one even knew who Bad Bunny was. But then after her, there was Gabriella. So she also has been with him through a lot, like, since the beginning, you know, I don't know y'. All. I just know that it makes my little heart so happy. And I have to talk to y' all about it and see how y. Because I love me some Gabby. There's also another rumor, allegedly, that they, like, secretly got married. And I'm just like, that's insane. Like, he didn't get married anytime soon. Like, not right now. Maybe in the future they'd get married, but I don't. I doubt that. That even that that's happened. I just think they're rekindling everything now. Like, and I think. I love that they don't ever announce anything to the public. Like, I fucking love that shit. Because I would do the same. Like, I. You don't need to explain what don't. Like, what don't need to be explained. Like, oh, you just gotta see it. And y'. All. We see it. Like, we see it with I Got Eyes. I can see y' all together all the time. I love it. And the last thing I want to talk to you guys about, because I actually touched on this on Instagram. And I was really surprised by the amount of DMS that I got of women telling me, like, I needed this. And like, thank you so much for talking about this, because nobody talks about this, and I needed to hear it. It. So I was basically talking about how I saw there was this post on Instagram. And I don't know about you guys, but, like, I. I always feel like I'm, Like, I feel like I'm where I. Where I should be at right now with my life and, like, what I've been experiencing and stuff. Like, obviously this is where I was meant to be right now in this moment, right? But I don't feel like I was meant to stay here. Like, I don't feel like this is it for me. Like, even just social media and, like, content creation, there's so much more that I'm working on doing with that because I want to evol. I want to do things. I want to help people. I want to, like, use what I know and, like, my creativity and, like, actually help people experience the things that I've experienced with content creation and how it's changed my life and how you can become really successful and how you can, you know, study the algorithm and study your audience and really know how to use it and, like, how to do it, you know? Like, I just. There's so much that I want to do, and I'm, like, always constantly thinking. The number one thing that I think is, like, Damn, I'm 34 years old. Old. Or like, I'm about to be 35 years old. Like, am I really gonna career pivot right now? Or am I gonna do something different? Or, like, what am I gonna be doing in five years? Like, what am I gonna be doing in 10 years? Like, is it gonna be this or is it gonna be, do I want to study something else? Do I want to go to school? Do I want to go back? Like, I'm always thinking, do I want to go back to school? Like, I never finished college. Like, I went to school for, like, a year, and it just. It wasn't for me. I ended up just going back to work because I needed to work. I needed to work, I needed to make money. And honestly, school and working was like, I had to choose one. And. And unfortunately, in the time of my life that I was, I had to choose work. I always had to choose work. I always had to have a job no matter what. So I didn't get to finish college the way I would have loved, loved to. I just feel like, as women we're given like a timeline, like, when you have to follow all the time. And it's like by a certain age, you're supposed to be here, you're supposed to be there, you're supposed to have this done. You're supposed to, you know, be successful and have your business, and your business should be successful by X, by this point in time. And it's like you're supposed to have. You're supposed to have your career, your purpose, your life, everything all figured out. Like, you would think, okay, if I told someone my age, okay, I'm 35. Well, about to be 35, I'm about to be 35, I'm still 34. But they'd be like, oh, you've got it all figured out. Like, you got your whole life together, right? And it's like, no. Like, I'm literally sitting here. Like, what? Still? I'm still like, what do I want to do? Like, this is an end game for me. This is not. Like, I, I'm just getting started. Like, I know I'm getting started. So the post back to like the Instagram post, it was basically saying how, like, the average woman makes career pivot at 39, and then the average female entrepreneur doesn't start her business until 42, and the average female millionaire 49. So it's like, and then women's creativity peaks between 45 and 55. I'm excited for that. But basically, like, if you're sitting here and you're thinking that you're behind, you're not. Like, don't let life and its timeline, like, kind of tell you that you have an expiration date on when you should be doing things or what your life is supposed to look like. So your 30s. And I feel like this is very true, even for me, just speaking in my about myself. Like, your 30s are for like rediscovering yourself. Like, I feel like I'm finally getting to know who the I am in my 30s and what I, what I. I truly want out of my life and like, making those, those changes and making those next steps steps so that I can go to my 40s. Because your 40s is like, you have. You finally have all the confidence to go after what you want. Like, I feel like when you're in your 40s, you don't been through it. Like, you already planted the seeds in your 20s, you went through the discovering and inventing yourself in your 30s, but in your 40s, you're so confident and you're so comfortable in who you are that's when you have the balls to just go after what you want and do what the you really want. So I. I truly admire women in their 40s and 50s. Like, I really look at y', all, and I'm like, y' all are queens. Because I get the best, like, life advice and, like, all this, like, love and. And knowledge poured into me by women who are in their 40s and 50s, women who have been through it, and it makes me feel good. Like, it really makes me feel good, because they'll be like, girl, you're just getting started. And I'm like, really? Cuz sometimes I feel like I'm. I'm. I'm past it, you know? Like, sometimes I really do feel like this is it. And it's like, no, this is not it. This is not it. Like, the best thing about. About life is, like, you have free will. We have free will. You can change whatever you want. You can change your career. You can build something new. You can start a business, start your own. Like, you can do whatever you want to do. It's your life. You run the show. This is your program. And you can become the woman that you were always meant to be at any age. And I was just like, yeah, like, this is your life. You can do whatever the hell you want with it. And so many of you, like, loved that. That, like, you loved the sentiment behind it, and you loved that it was being talked about. And I just feel like so many of us are in that. That state of mind, and we're in that phase of life right now. We're in that season. Like, this is it right now. I just want every single one of y' all that are listening. My mamacitas, my cheese mosas. Like, I want you all to know it is never too late. You're evolving. You're learning. You're becoming like, you're becoming who you were truly meant to be. And that takes time. Think of it as, like, we're little caterpillars, right? We're like these little baby caterpillars, and we're about to be, like, we're about to just evolve into little baby butterflies. But it takes time, you know, it takes a little bit of time, and you can start over and you can pivot and you can build a life from scratch, literally. Like, you can literally today be like, I'm. I don't. I don't like this life that I'm. That I'm leading right now. I don't like this. I'm gonna make changes and start from Scratch. Like, you could make a whole. Will make a whole different life for yourself, truly. And I know people probably like, you sound crazy. Like, I can't do that. That sounds hard. Like, who's really gonna do that? There's people out there that do that. You don't like the life that you're living. You don't like the. The season that you're in? Change it. You can change it. You have the power to change your life, and you build from there. You build from there, and you build a life that you actually love and crave and desire. Because we only have one life, bro. Like, we have one life to live. Like, I'll be damned if I'm not living my best life, if I'm not the happiest I've ever been in my life. I just want to live my life like it's golden. Like, I just. I want to be out here living my life like it's golden. Like, that is my only goal right now is true happiness. And in order to obtain that, that no matter what I have to do, no matter what changes I need to make, like, I'm gonna do that. I don't want to live a life where I have to look back at and be like, damn, like, I feel bad for her, you know? Like, she wasn't happy. She wasn't doing the things she loves. Like, I don't want that. Like, I really don't. And I don't want that for you guys either. So, yeah, I just wanted to talk about that and hit that on here on. On the podcast where y' all can actually listen, because, I don't know, I was just astounded by how many women, like, we're like, wow, I think about this all the time, or this is always on my mind. And this just made me feel so much better. So just know y' all are not alone, but just know there is no. There's the. A timeline. Like, you can reinvent yourself. You can restart. You could do whatever it is that you want, and it's okay. So if you ever feel like you're quote, unquote behind in life, you're really not. Like, you're really not. But I just wanted to say I love you guys. I'm so happy to be back and. And catching up with you guys. This was very, very happy, very happy for me. And, yeah, I will talk to you guys next week, and I love you. Bye, Chees.