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Joanna
Do people call him?
Michael Wolff
Yeah.
Joanna
And do they call him direct on the cell phone?
Michael Wolff
If you have the number, yeah.
Joanna
Right. Does he distribute his number sort of wildly?
Michael Wolff
I wouldn't say wildly, but somewhat. If you have the number, it's somewhat complicated because the number then changes. Like they changed the number so that Rudy Giuliani couldn't call him anym.
Joanna
They changed the number so Rudy Giuliani.
Michael Wolff
Couldn'T call them anymore?
Joanna
Yes.
Michael Wolff
And then. Oh, and then sometimes the staff will take his phone and take people out of the phone because they don't want him calling this person often. A reporter.
Joanna
Michael.
Michael Wolff
Joanna.
Joanna
Where are we going? Where are we going? Oh, God, we're going back there again. But we're doing a special issue inside Trump's head.
Michael Wolff
Inside Trump's telephone head.
Joanna
Yeah. We're doing a special episode today where we are focused on one of Trump's tools, which is the telephone. We've had so many comments from people wanting to know more about how he uses the phone, and we thought, why not? Let's do a special episode focusing on it now.
Michael Wolff
And let's set the context. He is always on the phone. If he is notif there are not people in the same room as he is, who he is talking to and literally talking to, since they don't talk to him.
Joanna
Right.
Michael Wolff
Talking out, he talks to them. If they are not there, he is on the phone, or often when they are there, he is on the phone with someone else. So part of the thing, part of the. Part of what's important to understand is that he always must be talking to somebody.
Joanna
Okay, so let's go back in time to when you first had your first calls with Donald Trump. You were at New York magazine.
Michael Wolff
So I was at New York magazine and I was the media columnist for New York magazine. And media is what? Donald Trump. That's a kind of catnip for him. Who's the. I know how this would have gone. Who's the media guy? Get me the media guy. Anyway, he found out I was the media guy and then he started to call me up.
Joanna
Okay, so I want you to set the scene, though. So your phone is ringing. And at this point, is this pre cell phone? Is this a landline?
Michael Wolff
This is pre cell phone, yeah.
Joanna
Because I worked in New York magazine and I can still remember my number, I think.
Michael Wolff
Yes.
Joanna
Okay. So the phone would ring and you didn't know who it was or would it come up with caller id? Donald Trump?
Michael Wolff
No, I don't think that there was. There was caller ID then.
Joanna
Okay.
Michael Wolff
I think I got a call and maybe I got a message first, I don't know. But it was then Michael Donald Trump or. Yeah, Michael Donald Trump. And then he would go into it.
Joanna
Did you get his John Barron name?
Michael Wolff
No, I never got that. It was always Donald Trump.
Joanna
And John Barron was the name that he would pretend to be when he was calling with stories about himself to the New York Post. He would pretend he was a publicist called John Barron who was really Donald Trump.
Michael Wolff
Right. And they. And they still within the. Within the White House. When there is a leak, when something appears in the New York Times or the Washington Post and where does that. That come from? They go, John Barron.
Joanna
Oh, that's so interesting. So he's still leaking stuff about himself.
Michael Wolff
Well, yes, but now he doesn't do it, that he doesn't call up the Washington Post and say, this is John Barron. But when he does do the leaking and he does leak himself, and then the staff knows that. Where did this come from? Well, it didn't come from us, so where must it have come from? It must have come from John Barron.
Joanna
So funny. All right, so set the scene. You're sitting there at New York Magazine at your desk. The phone rings and it's Donald Trump. And what is he usually ringing about?
Michael Wolff
He's ringing about some article, and almost always, as I recall, an article that he thought he should be in.
Joanna
Right.
Michael Wolff
So it's not, you wrote this about me and it's wrong. It's you didn't write this about me. And because you didn't write this about me and didn't include me in this article, the article is wrong. You don't understand anything. Who is that? And then it was.
Joanna
Would he be sort of abusive and critical?
Michael Wolff
Yes, but it would always be of someone else. Who is this? Who is this other writer saying these things? That's a. That's. That person is a moron. Obviously, it's me here. This happened because of me. And then this and that. And I would go, yeah, okay, okay, you know, I'll pass it on. Or, Right. Or so right you are. And I kind of. I mean, it was always amusing, semi amusing. And, you know, in thinking back, you think maybe he didn't mean it to be amusing, but it was. And then you could always go, you get off the phone and then you could go, some guess who I just heard from?
Joanna
Right.
Michael Wolff
And remember, Donald Trump at this point. And this would have been the late 90s, early 2000s, was a kind of a joke figure. So, you know, why not? Well, you could. It was. I can hear the voice. I mean, I can hear the voice partly because in the years since, I've heard it so often, but he was, you know, and he didn't really, even then, want to hear from you. He didn't want to hear a justification. He didn't want to hear an explanation. He wanted just to tell you why he should have been in this article. And it wasn't brief.
Joanna
And were there any other people. I use the word important sort of loosely, but were there any other people who would do this?
Michael Wolff
You mean other people in New York.
Joanna
I mean, captains of industry or heads of media companies that would call you and say this piece? What are you thinking about? You missed this. It should have been about me.
Michael Wolff
No, all of the other calls were, why did you say this about me? How could you have said this? And it was usually by their PR people.
Joanna
Right.
Michael Wolff
So there was something kind of nice about the fact. I mean, transparent or honest or different about the fact that Donald Trump called you himself.
Joanna
Right.
Michael Wolff
He didn't have his PR people calling and There was a sense that he liked to speak to me. Does that make sense? I mean, kind of.
Joanna
Well, he liked speak to reporters.
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Michael Wolff
But even individually, when. And I think it's part of Donald Trump's charm in, let me use air quotes, that when he spoke to you, you thought that he was, you know, he was really focused on you and it was as though he wanted to speak to you, he liked speaking with you, which is the only reason, the only explanation for why he did it so often.
Joanna
Right. And so, of course, back in these days, he was a Democrat, he was a New York character. Bit of a joke.
Michael Wolff
And yeah, it was never very political, as I recall.
Joanna
Right.
Michael Wolff
There was no politics to this.
Joanna
So he's calling you on the landline.
Michael Wolff
And it was often about articles that he would have no reason to be in.
Joanna
Right. So he just wanted your attention. He wanted to talk to you, he wanted your attention. He wanted to speak to a reporter. He was laying down tracks for when you next wrote about him.
Michael Wolff
I suppose. Yes.
Joanna
And how little did you know at that point how much you would have written?
Michael Wolff
No, and there was also, and I think it's important that that moment in time, you didn't really want to write about Donald Trump. You didn't really want Donald Trump in any stories that were written because he was kind of a cliche.
Joanna
Right.
Michael Wolff
I mean, he was written out. He had. I mean, it was clear that anything, any story that Donald Trump was in, by that point, he had shoehorned himself into.
Joanna
So it's so interesting. At the time, I was wr for first the Guardian and then the Times of London, and the one person that the news desk would ask me to try and get all the time was Donald Trump. And I never once tried. I would think, oh, such a cliche. It's the only New Yorker they've ever heard of.
Michael Wolff
Yes. Yeah. Right. So that's a towner's figure. That's an out of towners.
Joanna
Totally. The news settings say, can you get an interview with Donald Trump? And I'd think, I would rather shoot myself and get Donald Trump.
Michael Wolff
You could have.
Joanna
I could have done. Well, who knew? But I had no interest in talking to him because I understood within the context of New York, he was thought to be a joke, but he was totally an out of towner's view of a New Yorker. So the cell phone comes out, I think the iPhone comes out in 2006. Right. Does Donald Trump move to the iPhone? Because what's so remarkable is how he really never seemed to have emails or.
Michael Wolff
Texts No, I don't think he does right away. Eventually moves to. To an iPhone. Yes. In 2016. He certainly. He certainly did. I mean, that would have been the first point at which I'm observing him during the campaign. And I remember, actually, so I'm sitting with him. This first interview that I do with him is Inis in his house in Beverly Hills.
Joanna
And this was for the Hollywood Reporter. When he was thinking of running.
Michael Wolff
No, he was running. And I mean, that would have been in maybe April 2016. So he's already. It's already clear that he will almost certainly get the nomination at this point. But anyway, I'm in the house and I remember he made a. He had to call someone, and Jared was there. Jared held the phone.
Joanna
Jared held the phone for him.
Michael Wolff
Meaning in other words, Jared, I need my phone. So. Whereas we all keep our phones.
Joanna
Oh, I see. So he didn't keep the phone on him. Jarrad was the phone holder.
Michael Wolff
Yes. Right.
Joanna
And did Jared have to press the buttons for him or.
Michael Wolff
I believe so. I believe Jared got the person on the phone and then handed the phone.
Joanna
To because perhaps his little fingers can't reach the buttons.
Michael Wolff
But at any rate. So there's a couple of interesting things. The fact that he does not. Did not then. And continues not to use email.
Joanna
Right.
Michael Wolff
So it is all a verbal thing. It's not. The phone is. This is not about exchanging information. This is about talking.
Joanna
And he doesn't use emails and texts because he has dyslexia. Because he can't read. Why? There's been so much suspicion around it.
Michael Wolff
I mean, I think all of that is probably true, but I think that the other thing is, and I've known this with other kind of disreputable people, they prefer the telephone.
Joanna
Right. Well, nobody wants to leave a trace.
Michael Wolff
Right. And I think it's very. It's very much inside his head. Don't email. I don't make that mistake.
Joanna
Do you think he is actually unable to read? I mean, there's been so much speculation about it, and he has that very sort of spidery signature. Do you actually think he can't read?
Michael Wolff
Well, I know. I mean, the people around him debate this all of the time.
Joanna
Do they?
Michael Wolff
Yeah. You know, what does he. You know, he can read something. He can read headlines.
Joanna
I mean, he seems to read speeches from teleprompters.
Michael Wolff
Headlines about him. But he seems also not to read speeches from teleprompters.
Joanna
But he reads enough of a speech from a teleprompter to think he must be Able to read unless he just remembers it. Because often people with dyslexia.
Michael Wolff
Yeah, no, I mean, I think, I think obviously there's something, something going on there. Obviously he does something. I mean, he does, he does posts on Truth Social and he writes the posts. They're often not incoherent. It's true.
Joanna
Right.
Michael Wolff
But he, but he does within the White House, I mean, he doesn't. He reads minimally. I mean, it is very important to treat him that way. If you give him something to read, he won't read it. That's a mistake on your part.
Joanna
So, so he likes information coming in orally and he likes to talk.
Michael Wolff
No, he doesn't really like it. Information, of course. You said, you mentioned coming in orally because he doesn't like information coming to him. He likes to dispense information or dispense whatever it is he dispenses, which is not necessarily information.
Joanna
So when does he.
Michael Wolff
Blah, blah, blah, blah.
Joanna
Where does he get his information from? From television.
Michael Wolff
From television.
Joanna
Right. Just. He basically watches television or he's on the phone.
Michael Wolff
Yes.
Joanna
Okay.
Michael Wolff
And the phone is always, you know, you never get a word in edgewise.
Joanna
So I remember Anthony Scaramucci, who, as we know, was his head of, you know, White house comms for 11 days, just saying that you were on a rota, that he would, you know, he would call you late at night, you would pick up the phone, he was already talking. He would be already talking when you hung up and you knew he was just calling through everybody he knew. Tell us what it's like to get the call.
Michael Wolff
You know, the interesting thing is that you don't have a second to kind of, kind of process that, that the President of the United States is calling you up.
Joanna
Right.
Michael Wolff
Because then he launches into whatever he's going to say. So he's irrelevant. He's going. And then you're trying to understand what the hell he's talking about. And then you think, you think, first thing, you're not sure it's him. Is it him? But then you think, yes, I know this voice.
Joanna
Does he call or do they say, Mr. Wolf, please hold for the President of the United States.
Michael Wolff
Yes, I've gotten both calls.
Joanna
Okay. So sometimes it's just directly him, and sometimes you get it goes via his. Natalie Harp or whoever.
Michael Wolff
Yes, exactly. Yes. And then it'. Sand. That's kind of an interesting moment. Can you hold for the President?
Joanna
What are you saying?
Michael Wolff
This is the White House. Can you hold for the President?
Joanna
Right. Not right. Not right now. Can you ask him to call me back in five.
Michael Wolff
But then he just launches in. And you don't know. You don't know the context. You don't know. You're not clear about what the subject is. You're not clear about the purpose. You're not even clear that he has called the right person. So you're kind of almost paralyzed.
Joanna
So you're sort of in the headlights.
Michael Wolff
Yes. And then you're thinking, I'm on the phone with the President of the United States, and shouldn't I get off of the phone? Shouldn't this call end? Because, you know, the world might need.
Joanna
The world is on fire, Donald.
Michael Wolff
And then he goes on, and then he keeps going on. So you're on the. You are on the phone with the President of the United States for. And then you're looking at the. It's 5 minutes, 10 minutes, 15 minutes, it's got to end. You're thinking, when is it going to end? How do I end it?
Joanna
So how can you end it? He's the President. He's the more powerful person on the phone. Don't you have to wait for him to end it?
Michael Wolff
Yes, I suppose, yes. But then you feel a kind of compulsion to help him end it, to get on and to, you know, attack Greenland, whatever. And now a word from our sponsors.
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Joanna
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Michael Wolff
I think he's using it for, you know, a human connection. I mean, I don't think he knows how to make a human connection. So without the actual connection, he has the phone and he is constantly, you know, and ISO, there's this other thing. When I report on this, when I'm reporting on Trump, I know a whole set of the people he calls and calls frequently, regularly. People on his call list. And the call list kind of, kind of morphs, but slowly. And so you can kind of track these people. I know these people. I can call this. Have you heard? Yes. And then they will tell you what he has told them because they're always so I think everybody in some way reacts the same way. What was that about? And so. And so it's to go over it with someone else.
Joanna
Right. But it's very interesting that you say he uses the phone for human connection because his daughter's not there, his wife's not there. He's lonely. Right. What I'm taking from this is he's lonely, and this is his way of reaching out and sort of dominating the person he's talking to.
Michael Wolff
Well, it's certainly dominating because you never get a word in edgewise.
Joanna
And is he trying stuff out on you because you say that?
Michael Wolff
Yeah. No, no, Totally. Totally. And he's dissing people all over the place. I mean, it's unfiltered, and you're just listening to it, but it jumps all over the place. So you don't really know. Was there a point here? Are we going somewhere? Is this. What's the takeaway? You don't know. And you're always kind of trying to sort of get a word in edgewise. Why? I don't know. Except that. That seems like what you do if you're a. You know, that thisif he's looking for a human connection, you want to kind of, you know, feel sorry for him. Let's have a little conversation here.
Joanna
You feel sorry for the President of.
Michael Wolff
The United States, or else just the novelty of saying, Mr. President, Mr. President, but it doesn't matter. It's all you get to say. And then he's over, and then he's onto something else.
Joanna
And how does he wrap up the call? So he's called you. You've put it on speakerphone because you can't believe is calling you. And it's a historic moment.
Michael Wolff
And I've sat in my house with everybody in my house, right.
Joanna
Listening.
Michael Wolff
Just. Just like.
Joanna
Well, it's the most famous voice in the world, Right. How does he wrap up a conversation? Is he like, gotta go, bye. Or does he even say bye? I have friends who have phone calls with me, and they don't even say bye.
Michael Wolff
Yeah, no, I got. I have those. Those people, too.
Joanna
They're probably the same people.
Michael Wolff
I mean, he does the thing. Let's get this. You. You let me know about this. I mean, it's a set of instructions. You let me know about this.
Joanna
A set of instructions.
Michael Wolff
And I want to see you. Let's get together. Let's sit down about this. And that, of course, doesn't particularly happen, but sometimes it happens.
Joanna
Well, less so. Now he's suing you?
Michael Wolff
Yes.
Joanna
Well, saying he's suing you.
Michael Wolff
Yes. At the moment, I seem not to be his friend, as he's noted.
Joanna
Yeah, that's not a friend. That was his comment when he said that you'd conspired with Epstein to do harm to his presidency. So he'll be suing you and Trevor Noah, who made a joke about him.
Michael Wolff
So that's not a friend.
Joanna
That's not a friend. No. So he still thinks of you as a friend. So he calls you and he's already in the conversation already. Right. And then he ends it with.
Michael Wolff
I mean, it's as though he could be having this with anybody. This is not. You are not. And you kind of realize this. You are. You don't occupy an individual space there. You're just a person on the end of the phone.
Joanna
You're a pair of ears.
Michael Wolff
And that can go on for literally anyone. And so as I often track this, you know, and I'll say, well, what did he say to you? And then it will be the same thing he said to me or the same thing he said to the last person I knew he is called.
Joanna
And how early in the morning does it begin and how late in the evening does it go on? Because I'm conscience.
Michael Wolff
Literally. First thing I think is.
Joanna
And what is first thing for him?
Michael Wolff
As soon as he gets up? You know, I don't. I think he's up at about, you know, 7ish. And then he's.
Joanna
He's lying in bed calling.
Michael Wolff
Yeah, he's lying in bed calling people.
Joanna
I can't even imagine. Do you think, what do you think he sleeps in? Does he sleep in white pajamas? Does he sleep naked? Does he sleep in like boxes and a T shirt? When. I mean, you know, we had Jen Welch on the Daily Beast podcast and she said he's like a teenage girl. And then we got lots of comments in saying teenage girls are much more organized and much nicer and much more thoughtful than Donald Trump, which I thought was a fair point. But she meant that he's just obsessed with his phone. He's lying in bed on his phone. He's tracking things on his phone.
Michael Wolff
I don't know. I did have. I curiously have had a discussion with him about sleepwear because someone. I can't remember the story, but someone mentioned something about his robe, that he came down in his robe. And I don't know why this involved. Involved. Must have been a white towel involved me. But he said, of course there's robe. Can you see me in a robe? I'm not a robe kind of guy. You don't think that I'm a robe kind of guy?
Joanna
Of course he's a robe kind of guy. Don't you think he'd be in a white hotel robe with Mar A Lago?
Michael Wolff
I don't know. I was thinking, what is a Robe kind of guy. I wear a robe, but I don't know. No, I mean, he was incensed about the robe, the accusation or the characterization that he would be in a robe.
Joanna
I'm like, okay, I would totally think he's a robe guy. And I feel like I've seen photos of him in a big, thick, white hotel room.
Michael Wolff
I'm just telling you, it's. That's all I know.
Joanna
I still can't imagine. I wish I understood what he said. Yes.
Michael Wolff
No, no, I don't think you're a robe kind of guy.
Joanna
Right. So he's in his bed.
Michael Wolff
He's with the hamburger.
Joanna
No, the cold hamburger from the night before. I wonder. So I can't imagine what he's wearing. Is he wearing a gray T shirt and boxers? Is he. Is he wearing nice white piping pajamas?
Michael Wolff
I don't know. I can only tell you the robe.
Joanna
Okay. All I know, so he's not wearing a robe, but he's sitting in bed clutching his phone. The morning has begun and he's calling to see how it's playing. The televisions are on. He's obviously the lead story in almost every channel.
Michael Wolff
Right.
Joanna
Do you think he has the newspapers brought to him?
Michael Wolff
No, because he would have to read them.
Joanna
Right. But we know he used to read things because he used to cut them out and send them to the journalist with his squiggly thing on it. Right?
Michael Wolff
Yeah.
Joanna
All right. So breakfast comes. English muffin, bit of bacon, maybe a ham.
Michael Wolff
I don't know. This is out of my. I don't know these.
Joanna
These details, but does he start calling people? Does he start calling people immediately?
Michael Wolff
He does call me again, though. I will.
Joanna
Let me know. Okay. Please ask him. So does he.
Michael Wolff
Joanna wants to know.
Joanna
Please tell him. And he'll be like, joanna who? But I want you to. So he wakes up in the morning and immediately he's on the phone.
Michael Wolff
Yes.
Joanna
Okay. And then he comes downstairs and he's still on the phone. He's just never on his own is the point.
Michael Wolff
He's never on his own. He's always speaking to someone. His mouth is always running. There is. I don't think that there is. There must be, but I can't imagine it. A moment of silence in the middle of the night. What happens?
Joanna
Well, he. Truth socials in the middle of the night, right?
Michael Wolff
Yes.
Joanna
So he wakes up. That's the first thing he does.
Michael Wolff
So. Yes.
Joanna
So how come he's disciplined enough not to write emails or text, but he's figured out how to truth social Well.
Michael Wolff
I think the truth, social is a specific thing. It's a broadcasting to the world. This is what he knows. This is public. He wants it to be public. What he doesn't want is private statements.
Joanna
Right.
Michael Wolff
I mean, but it's interesting, this call list that he has, you know, so this is the real. These are the real advisors, you know, the people around him. The employees are not really advisors. I mean, they're minions. They're people in his wake. They're people fetching him things. They're people picking up the candy wrappers. They're not the people he is turning to for advice. Now we'll get to how he gets the advice he wants to. But there's this set of people and it changes, but it doesn't change by that much. You know, there's Fox people. Hannity has been consistently on this list. Sometimes Tucker gets on this list. There's a set of people in New York, real estate people, often real estate people who are consistently on the list and have been for. For many years. These are the people who he calls constantly and who he kind of feeds lines to. So they know what is expected of them, what they have to say. So he'll often lead with. I mean, a lot of his conversation is personal. I mean, like he was suing me the other day. But the people around him, Pam Bondi, you know, he'll diss her. He'll call up and say, you know, I think she's kind of. She's kind of. She's kind of a dummy, don't you think? And then somebody will say, yeah, I think she's a dummy.
Joanna
So he's saying things because he wants to hear back his own opinion.
Michael Wolff
Exactly.
Joanna
So he's never realist what he's trying to put together as a policy or.
Michael Wolff
He'S trying to figure out. I'm not even sure that. That it goes that far. It's just he needs the. He's looking for confirmation for what he already thinks. There's never a conversation. What do you think about her? What do you think I should be doing in this? He doesn't want that. He wants to tell you what he thinks and then for you to confirm that.
Joanna
Exhausting.
Michael Wolff
Yeah.
Joanna
Exhausted. I mean, he must dread his friends around him, I think. Must dread him calling, don't they?
Michael Wolff
Yeah, I mean, I don't. I mean, I dread him calling, but, you know, on the same time, he's the President of the United States. Right. So it's a weird kind of thing. Now he doesn't call, hasn't called me that many times, but some of these people hear from him all of the.
Joanna
Time now and define all of the time. Like every day.
Michael Wolff
Every day. If you're on the. If you.
Joanna
If you're on the inner circle.
Michael Wolff
Yes. You could be an everyday caller. No, I think you get things from that. So you're on the inner circle and you're getting. I don't know, you then become part of a crypto deal. I haven't become part of a crypto deal, though. If I were a friend.
Joanna
Well, you're not a friend anymore because that's why he's suing you. It's not a thing a friend would do to conspire with Jeffrey Epstein against his presidency.
Michael Wolff
Actually, there's a Jeffrey Epstein point here, too, because Jeffrey Epstein was not speaking to Trump, certainly during the period that I was talking to Jeffrey Epstein, but Jeffrey Epstein was talking to many of the people who were speaking to Donald Trump. And Epstein knew the pattern here, knew who was on the call list.
Joanna
Right.
Michael Wolff
And then those people on the call list would call Epstein and then Epstein would call me.
Joanna
That's just brilliant. Brilliant for all those people who thought you were making stuff up in your books. In fact, you were.
Michael Wolff
Yes.
Joanna
Right. So interesting. So is there something about the fact that a conversation you have on the phone is once removed from sitting with the actual person that Donald Trump likes?
Michael Wolff
I don't know. Because actually, when you sit with him, it's the same thing. It's just a monologue.
Joanna
So the phone is merely a device to carry on.
Michael Wolff
Exactly right.
Joanna
Carry on talking and carry on not being on his own.
Michael Wolff
Right. I mean, I think the phone is transparent. It just is. You know, get me so and so I am just continuing this conversation. I am just talking. And this is the way I talk now because I don't have anyone in front of me to talk to. So I use the phone and then I talk and then I talk to this person, that person.
Joanna
In the Melania movie, there is a wonderful bit which actually they put in the trailer because she clearly wants us to know that she's not really with this man and they have a transactional marriage. Or she turns up when she needs to, but he calls her to see if she's understood that the vote certification has happened, he's now officially president, and she's like, no, I will watch on news. So she has no interest in hearing him. But it was interesting that the information was conveyed on the telephone. They weren't together, and she was putting that in the trailer because she wants you to know that at the most important time of his life, when he's about to be ratified as president for the second time, against all odds, she is not with him. But again, you're mindful of the fact the phone is the vehicle. He's having to call his own wife, who is not looking on the television, which gives you real insight into their relationship. And she puts it in the trailer. She is signaling as loudly as she can as if she's got a huge mirror on the top of the.
Michael Wolff
Well, it's as mirror as possible. And the phone is. I mean, he doesn't really have a marriage. He doesn't really have. I mean, there is no one around.
Joanna
He doesn't really have friends. Yeah. How did he end up as our president?
Michael Wolff
Yeah. And the curious thing, I don't know of any women who are on his regular call list.
Joanna
Well, he's surrounded by women who look like younger versions of his wife.
Michael Wolff
But the call list are men, rich.
Joanna
Men, important men, golfing buddies, real estate buddies, and the odd journalist. And he does call journalists. I mean, one of the things he does do, which is unusual, certainly for a president, is he calls journalists directly.
Michael Wolff
Yeah. I mean, in a way, he's much more accessible and transparent than most politicians, but in another way, he's not, because it's just. You don't. There's no interaction there.
Joanna
Right. And also, he's frequently telling lies.
Michael Wolff
Yeah. It's just broadcast and it's frequently incoherent.
Joanna
I remember someone telling me that he used to call, and perhaps he still does, reporters at the New York Times. And one time he called a number that was usually the number of a journalist, but an intern happened to be sitting there and picked it up. And he went, oh, it's Donald Trump, you know, and he said, well, I'm just the intern. And Donald Trump started giving him advice as an intern, which was actually a rather sort of endearing moment, I think. And I think the intern was sort of eyes on sticks and then probably couldn't get rid of the president either. But it is fascinating that it is a device for connection, as you say. And also, he's constantly on broadcast. He's always on.
Michael Wolff
But it's a weird connection, which, I mean, it's not a real connection, or he doesn't know how to make the connection or doesn't really want to complete the connection because it's all broadcast 100%.
Joanna
Right. He's always on transmit. He's never on receive.
Michael Wolff
Yeah. And it is incoherent, which is the other thing to appreciate about this, I mean, it goes on. You think, my God, where are we going with this? This is like a pinball. We're there, we're there. And what is he talking about? Who is he talking about? You don't know what's going on?
Joanna
Do you think he's watching television while he's on the phone?
Michael Wolff
In my experience, I don't hear a television in the background. But then again, when he's on the phone, I'm kind of transfixed.
Joanna
I can't even imagine him doing things, though, like plugging his phone in and charging it at night. I mean, does he do what Arianna Huffington always says we must do, which is have a little bed for our phones and put it outside our room? Does he have more than one phone? Does he have them all lined up? Does he have one that he truth socials on and then the other that he talks on?
Michael Wolff
I don't know. And it's interesting also that other. And I just flashing on instances that someone is carrying the phone for him.
Joanna
Right. And do people call, you know, like.
Michael Wolff
Natalie Harp, the, you know, the human printer? The human printer is often the phone. Where's my phone?
Joanna
Snaps his finger, does it. He goes, where's my phone?
Michael Wolff
And once more, a commercial message.
Joanna
And Trump author Michael Wolf and I are back inside Trump's head. And do people call him?
Michael Wolff
Yeah.
Joanna
And do they call him direct on the cell phone?
Michael Wolff
If you have the number, yeah.
Joanna
Right. And does he distribute his number sort of wildly?
Michael Wolff
I wouldn't say wildly, but somewhat. If you have the number. And there was a moment when they. And it's somewhat complicated because the number then changes. Like they changed the number so that Rudy Giuliani couldn't call him anymore.
Joanna
They changed the number so Rudy Giuliani.
Michael Wolff
Couldn'T call him anymore. Oh, and then sometimes the staff will take his phone and take people out of the phone because they don't want him calling this person often a reporter, so. Because he can't. Oh, that's the other thing. He can't dial the phone. The number has to be in the phone.
Joanna
So how does he dial? Does he just speak into the phone and say, hey, Siri, call?
Michael Wolff
Well, he doesn't. He can just push the thing, somebody.
Joanna
So he's got a speed dial, and then he just presses the number.
Michael Wolff
So if they take you out of that, he won't call you. You've been disappeared.
Joanna
Right. And, well, I guess they. Who has the pass number to his phone? Who has the passcode? I wonder if it's facial that.
Michael Wolff
I don't know. You're in the weeds here that I have not been in.
Joanna
I'm just trying to imagine it all because the details are what make it such a fascinating story. And precisely because he seems so isolated, the phone is his sort of grappling hook to real life.
Michael Wolff
And then the other thing is, and it's interesting, anyone who has that number, he'll talk to. So, I mean, it is kind of instant access. You have that number, you call him up, and he will talk to you. Now, you might. You might not be able to transact the business that you wanted to transact, because he's just talking, but there you are. Your name will come up on the screen, he'll take it, and then off he goes. Delighted to talk to you.
Joanna
It's just. Well, well, well, well. If you have been. Thank you for joining us. If we get Donald Trump's number, we'll flash it up on the screen so we can all call him. We should actually have a conference call with him and our. And our B Beast members.
Michael Wolff
You know, I'm sure he'd be open to that possibility. Just set it up.
Joanna
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Michael Wolff
That's not the right question. It's, what would he say to you?
Joanna
Yeah, because you wouldn't get a word in edgeways. Okay. What would he say to you? That's better. All right, Garfried, if you can't make a limerick out of that, I don't know what you can. I guess for people who've just joined the podcast for the first time and perhaps got to the end of it, should we just give them a line of why we do inside Trump's head and why we think, why we hope it's different to the way other people cover Donald Trump, which is. I'm obsessed by the details of his life, but also, we think of him as a character. Character is destiny.
Michael Wolff
Well, also, we think that in a government of one, it is most vital to understand who this person is, why he's doing what he's doing, what he's thinking, that we are all under this idiosyncratic rule, and we're the people trying to understand it. This is not about politics. This is about Donald Trump.
Joanna
Yeah. It's about character. It's about what is inside Trump's head.
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Podcast: The Daily Beast Podcast
Host: Joanna Coles
Guest: Michael Wolff
Date: February 10, 2026
In this engrossing episode, Joanna Coles is joined by journalist and author Michael Wolff for a deep dive into an oddly fascinating topic: the central role of the telephone in Donald Trump’s personal and political life. Drawing from years of direct experience, Wolff shares candid insights about Trump’s phone habits, how—and why—he calls people, the unique ways he engages (or dominates) conversations, and what his approach to communication reveals about the man himself. The episode serves as both a character study and a look behind the scenes at how power, personality, and loneliness are intertwined via the ever-present phone.
“If there are not people in the same room as he is, who he is talking to...he is on the phone, or often when they are there, he is on the phone with someone else.” — Michael Wolff (02:52)
“It's not, you wrote this about me and it's wrong. It's you didn't write this about me. And because you didn't write this about me ... the article is wrong.” — Michael Wolff (05:52)
“There was something kind of nice ... honest ... about the fact that Donald Trump called you himself.” — Michael Wolff (08:04)
“Within the White House … if something appears … where does that come from? They go, John Barron.” — Michael Wolff (04:54)
“The call list kind of morphs, but slowly...people on his call list...I know these people.” — Michael Wolff (18:07)
“There's never a conversation. What do you think about her? What do you think I should be doing...He doesn’t want that. He wants to tell you what he thinks and then for you to confirm that.” — Michael Wolff (28:50)
“He’s lonely, and this is his way of reaching out and sort of dominating the person he’s talking to.” — Joanna (19:11)
“He’s lying in bed calling people.” — Michael Wolff (22:51)
“He does not...and continues not to use email...It's all a verbal thing.” — Michael Wolff (12:13)
“They changed the number so Rudy Giuliani couldn't call him anymore...Sometimes the staff will take his phone and take people out of the phone.” — Michael Wolff (01:50 / 36:58)
“I believe Jared got the person on the phone and then handed the phone.” — Michael Wolff (12:09)
“It's just broadcast and it's frequently incoherent.” — Michael Wolff (33:59)
“You are...just a person on the end of the phone...That can go on for literally anyone.” — Michael Wolff (21:54)
On Being Called by Trump:
“You don't have a second to kind of process that the President of the United States is calling you up ... then he launches into whatever he's going to say.” — Michael Wolff (15:23)
On the End of a Trump Call:
“He does the thing...It's a set of instructions: 'You let me know about this,' 'Let's get together' ... but sometimes it happens.” — Michael Wolff (20:58)
On Technology Avoidance:
“It's very much inside his head—don't email; I don't make that mistake.” — Michael Wolff (13:05)
On Connection and Isolation:
“He doesn't really have a marriage. He doesn't really have...friends.” — Michael Wolff (33:08)
On Each Phone Call’s Purpose:
“What he's looking for is confirmation for what he already thinks.” — Michael Wolff (28:50)
The conversation is candid, breezy, and sprinkled with humor—equal parts anthropological study and darkly comic social commentary. Joanna’s wry observations spar with Michael Wolff’s world-weary familiarity, creating a sense of exasperated fascination with their subject. The episode delivers both rich storytelling and incisive psychological reading: Trump’s relentless need to be heard, his inability to connect, and the absurdity—and danger—of leadership conducted by monologue.
This episode offers a rare, detailed look not just at Trump’s idiosyncrasies, but at how personal quirks can shape power in modern politics. The phone isn’t just a tool—it’s a lifeline, a broadcast channel, and a window into the isolation and compulsions of Trump as a figurehead. For those wanting to understand the man beneath the constant media coverage, this is essential listening.
“In a government of one, it is most vital to understand who this person is, why he's doing what he's doing, what he's thinking...This is not about politics. This is about Donald Trump.”
— Michael Wolff (39:52)