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Here's eight stoic tips to help you beat your procrastination. Number one, you take it step by step. Part of the reason we procrastinate is that we do the opposite of this. We extrapolate all the way out to the end, all the things that we have to do, how hard it's going to be. No, you can't let your imagination be crushed by life as a whole. Marcus Aurelius says in meditation, don't imagine everything that could possibly happen. He says, stick with what's in front of you. He says, stick with the utterance, stick with the idea, stick with the smallest thing. And Zeno, the founder of Stowe, is to this would add that well being is realized by small steps. But it is no small things. The little things add up. Number two, you gotta have a routine. The Stoics tell us that life without a design is erratic. We're winging it. There's, quite frankly, just too many choices. So limit those amount of choices. What time you wake up, what kinds of things you wear, what you don't do in the morning, what you do do in the morning. Create a routine which creates less opportunity for procrastination. Number three, and this is actually part of having a good routine, you have to eliminate the inessential. Mark Skrullis says so much of what we do and say is not essential, but when we eliminate the inessential, he says, we get the double benefit of doing the essential things better. If you have less on your to do list, there is less for you to procrastinate about, and the things that you do get done will be the things that matter. Number four, you need a sense of urgency. Part of the reason you procrastinate is because you think you have tomorrow. You think you have forever. But life is short. It is tick, tick, ticking away as you are putting things off. You are dying. The stoics say you are dying every minute. You are dying every day. Let this sense of urgency motivate you. Number five, you're procrastinating because you're spending

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whom procrastination is okay. Seek out better company. Seek company of people who are committed, people who are doers, people who don't put things off, and you will find that your own procrastination diminishes. Number Six, and this goes back to the idea of small steps. It's all about momentum. It's all about the small wins. One of the reasons I try to write just a couple crappy pages a day, as the writing rule goes, is because in doing so I feel like I'm making progress. I lower the stakes and then the wins that I get help motivate me to get over the harder things. Number seven, stop being a perfectionist. As they say, perfectionism is just another way to say paralysis. Basically, you're violating a cardinal stoic rule. You are thinking too much about outcomes. Focus on the process, focus on what's in your control, what you are doing. Leave the outcomes aside. Concentrates on what's in front of you. Concentrate on going on what's you control. Don't think about what other people are going to think, what other people are going to say, how perfect it's going to be. Just do it. And finally, number eight, you have to demand the best of and for yourself. Because if not now, when. Epictetus addresses this directly in his discourses, he says putting things off and deferring the day to which you will attend yourself, to which you will get serious about these things. What does this mean? He says it means you will live and die as someone quite ordinary. You don't want to do that, so stop deferring. Demand the best of and for yourself. That's why you have to beat your procrastination.

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Every product is independently certified by NSF for sport or Informed sport, which means they test it for contaminants, heavy metals, banned substances and verify for label accuracy. If you want to Start this year with supplements. I can't recommend them enough. You can try their protein or creatine or omega 3. Those are all ones that I have tried. I've been taking the creatine lately and right now Momentous is offering our listeners up to 35% off your first order with promo code DAILY STOIC. Head over to livemomentous.com and use promo code DAILY STOIC for up to 35 percent off your first order. Livemomentous.com promo code DAILY STOIC 2000 year old advice for when you're insulted, when your feelings are hurt, when you have been criticized. Number one, from Epictetus, it's not the remark that upsets us, it's our opinion about that remark. It's not things that upset us, it's our opinion about those things. The remark is just words. We decide that we've been offended. Number two, this is also from Epictetus. He says, you know when you are offended, when your feelings are hurt, when you let it get to you, you are complicit, you have chosen to take offense. Again, the remark is, someone wrote the article, someone posted the tweet, someone put up the comment, but then you decided that that hurt you, that that hurt your feelings. Number three, this is from the great Roman stoic, Cato. He was once punched in the bath. Someone bumped into him, that words were exchanged and someone threw a punch. And then afterwards, the person came to apologize and he said, what? I don't even remember being hit. You can just pretend not to have heard it. You can just pretend that it didn't happen. Number four comes to us from Seneca, and it has to do with our responses. He says, look, would you return a bite to a dog or a kick to a mule? No. You understand, this is what these things do and people do that. People behave this way. We know we don't return it back in kind. And that's actually number five. Marcus really says the best revenge is to not be like that. He says, it only harms you if it harms your character. So the unfair criticism, the slander, the insult, whatever it is, that hasn't hurt you. But if you degrade yourself in how you respond, if you sink down to their level, then it in fact has hurt you because it has made you worse. Let's come back to Epic. He says, look, whenever you've been criticized, whenever someone exposes something about you, whenever someone says something about you in public, say, actually, if this person really knew me, they'd say something worse, right? Tell yourself you Actually got off easy. They don't know your real secret. They don't know what you're actually embarrassed about. They don't know what really went on behind the scenes. So you should say, hey, I'm actually lucky that I'm being criticized for this and not for that. Marcus Aurelius talks about this. He says, look, you're going to meet annoying people in the course of the day. You're going to meet people who disagree with you, people who criticize you, people who stand in your way. You're going to meet with all that. He says, the main thing is you cannot let them implicate you in ugliness. You have to understand what they don't understand, which is the difference between right and wrong, good and bad. They don't understand how the world actually works. If they knew better, they wouldn't be criticizing you the way that they are. At the same time, the Stoics remind us that when someone corrects us, like when the criticism is correct, they're actually doing us a favor. You wouldn't interrupt your enemy when they were wrong, when they were making a mistake, when they were looking silly. No, you would let them do that, right? You would let them continue in error. So when someone points out something that you're not right about, when someone corrects you, you should accept that correction. So actually, the key is not necessarily ignoring all criticism, but knowing which criticism criticism to listen to and which not to. Marcus really says, you got to think about the people whose approval you want. Think about the critic at the newspaper, and you go, they would actually like to be doing what I'm doing. You think about the nasty commenter on the bottom of this video, and you go, how many of these people would actually like to be doing this? How many of these people, if they met you in person, would be acting very differently, Right? Marx says when you look at these people, when you look at them up close, you find you won't be straining for their approval so much. These are five things that fools do, according to the ancient Stoics. Number one, they care about what other people think, even though they don't actually respect those people, even though in private those people show you that they're not worthy of you caring about what they think. It is the craziest thing in the world. Marx Aurelius says that we all love ourselves more than other people, but for some reason, we. We care about their opinion more than our own. The second thing fools do, and in fact, Seneca said, this is the one thing all fools have in Common. They're always getting ready to start. Fools wait until tomorrow, they say. I'll get to it later. I'll get to it after this. I'll get to it when things calm down. No, you won't. No, fools don't. If you're gonna do it, do it now. You could be good today, Marks Ruler says, but instead you choose tomorrow. Fools make that choice. Number six. Three. Fools act like they can afford to procrastinate like they have, forever. Again, it's crazy. The Stoics say, we protect our property, we protect our money, and then we waste our time as if it is not the most precious resource we have. The only thing they're not making more of. Number four. What we do is we suffer unnecessarily. And we do this by extrapolating, by being anxious, by worrying about things that are not in our control. He who suffers before it is necessary, Seneca says, suffers more than is necessary. When you're torturing yourself about what may or may not happen, what you're doing is adding to the pain and anguish. We suffer more in imagination, Seneca says, than we'd have to in reality. Number five. A fool is a know it all. And in this sense, they're right. Right when you think you know everything, it's true. You can't know anything else. Epictetus, one of the Stoic philosophers, says that we have to remember we cannot learn that which we think we already know. Wise people are humble, they are open. Fools are know it alls. Eight things that will make today a successful day. Prepare for what you're planning to face. Mark Aurelius says, tell yourself in the morning you're going to meet frustrating people, difficult people, traffic, whatever. Don't be surprised. Prepare for it. Take a walk. I start every morning with a long walk or long run outside. Being active that day is a win. From that point forward, do deep work. Focus. Don't get sucked into your email. Don't let your inbox be your to do list. Focus intensely. Get lost in it. Go into a flow state. Always wonderful. Do a kindness. Do something nice for someone today. Mark Cirillo says, if you want to feel good, do good. That's a great way to have a great day. Read. You should always be reading. Reading is the most wonderful thing that was ever invented. It's how we. We learn from other people's painful trial and error. You should always be reading. Get lost in a book again. It's also a form of deep work. Make time for strenuous exercise. I know I already said going for a walk, but go for a run, go for a swim, go for a bike ride, do a CrossFit session, whatever it is. But get active. Get your heart rate moving. Push yourself every single day. Think about death. Memento Mori Life is short. You cannot take it for granted. We can. You could go at any moment. As Seneca says, it's not that life is short, it's that we waste a lot of it. And we waste it because we think we have unlimited amounts of it. And then finally, at the end of the day, before you go to bed, take a few minutes and review the day in a journal in your mind with your spouse, whatever. But think about what went well. Think about what you could do better. And think about how, if you're lucky enough to wake up tomorrow, you're going to have an even better day because you're going to follow all eight of these practices. Thanks so much for listening. 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