The Deck: Episode Summary – Tessie Tamorus (10 of Diamonds, Mississippi) Release Date: February 19, 2025
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Introduction

In this poignant episode of The Deck, host Ashley Flowers delves into the mysterious disappearance of Tessie Tamorus from Moss Point, Mississippi. Released on February 19, 2025, this episode aims to shed light on a cold case that has left a community grappling for answers for over five years.

Case Overview

Tessie Tamorus, a 37-year-old mother of six, vanished in December 2019. Tessie had been absent for more than a month without any communication, which was uncharacteristic given her history of staying in touch with her mother and children.

[02:18] Ashley Flowers: "But here they are, still in the same stagnant spot, still wondering what really happened and still waiting for Tessie to come home."

Family’s Perspective

Tessie’s mother, Carolyn Pardon, expressed deep concern and heartbreak over her daughter's disappearance. Tessie was known to move from place to place, battling a drug addiction that often kept her away from her family.

[03:58] Carolyn Pardon: "Well, she would go off for a week or two. She always came back. She was never gone."

Carolyn's last memorable interaction with Tessie was on December 27, 2019, when Tessie left her home with friends, departing in a pickup truck without any indication of trouble.

[05:18] Ashley Flowers: "The last time Carolyn saw Tessie wasn't super memorable, but thankfully she could somehow pinpoint the exact date."

Police Investigation

Lieutenant Shane Boseman of the Jackson County Sheriff's Department provided insights into the complexities of the investigation. Initially, law enforcement struggled due to Tessie's transient lifestyle and habit of using disposable phones, making it difficult to trace her movements.

[04:32] Lieutenant Shane Boseman: "She ran with pretty rough crowd… but as we dug further and further into it, that doesn't seem to be what happened."

The investigation faced significant hurdles, including delayed reporting and unreliable leads, which led detectives to consider foul play as a more likely scenario.

[07:27] Ashley Flowers: "The delayed reporting, the difficulty determining who she was with and the places she was going around the time she went missing…"

Suspects and Leads

A central figure in the investigation is Tessie’s estranged husband, John Tamorous, who has a history of domestic violence and connections to local gangs. Despite being a viable suspect, John maintains a facade of cooperation, making it challenging for detectives to extract meaningful information.

[12:18] Lieutenant Shane Boseman: "John is one of these very narcissistic type people. He thinks he's smarter than everybody."

Multiple theories have emerged regarding Tessie’s disappearance, including possible involvement in sex trafficking or gang-related activities. However, many of these leads have been hampered by unreliable sources and changed narratives due to Tessie's connections with the drug community.

[15:50] Lieutenant Shane Boseman: "We were told that she may be buried behind her mother's house…"

Investigative Challenges

The investigation has been likened to untangling a "spider web" due to the multitude of conflicting stories and unreliable testimonies, often influenced by drug use among Tessie’s acquaintances.

[19:33] Ashley Flowers: "That spider web Boseman referred to right there is what made searching for Tessie nearly impossible."

Despite numerous searches, including the properties suggested by tips, no substantial evidence has been found to locate Tessie’s remains.

[20:24] Ashley Flowers: "Police ran down another tip involving an ex-boyfriend of Tessie's who we'll call Robert…"

Current Status and Appeal for Information

The case remains open, with Lieutenant Boseman emphasizing the need for firsthand information to break the stalemate.

[28:02] Lieutenant Shane Boseman: "What we need is some firsthand information. Everything that we've gotten to this point has been hearsay…"

Carolyn Pardon continues to hold hope for her daughter’s safe return and urges anyone with information to come forward anonymously.

[30:17] Ashley Flowers: "If you know anything about her disappearance around December 27, 2019, in Jackson County, Mississippi, we urge you to contact the Mississippi Coast Crime Stoppers."

Impact on the Family

The disappearance has profoundly affected Tessie’s family, particularly her mother Carolyn, who is raising Tessie’s children. Despite the uncertainty, the family remains resilient and hopeful for closure.

[29:29] Carolyn Pardon: "We just wonder, you know, what happened. We don't know. I would do anything, anything to get to see my baby again."

One of Tessie’s daughters is excelling academically and showing remarkable maturity, embodying the spirit of her late mother.

[30:17] Ashley Flowers: "She is excelling in middle school on the honor roll and volunteers to help kids with special needs."

Conclusion

This episode of The Deck not only recounts the troubling case of Tessie Tamorus but also highlights the enduring pain and perseverance of her family. With the investigation still ongoing, The Deck serves as a crucial platform for raising awareness and soliciting public assistance to finally bring justice and closure to Tessie's loved ones.

Call to Action

If you have any information regarding Tessie Tamorus’s disappearance, please contact the Mississippi Coast Crime Stoppers at 877-787-5898 or reach out directly to Lieutenant Shane Boseman through the provided channels in the show notes.

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