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Sean
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Pat
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C
Makes me feel good is not going to the gym sometimes and sitting around and doing jack shit. Yeah, but going in the end makes me feel good. My definition of determination is remembering why you started in the first place.
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Sean
Dude, I'm motivated very little, man. I was motivated to start the show, but am I motivated every single day that I am executing conversations and recordings and the back end stuff, the Tuesday morning meetings. Not always motivated to do it, but I know where it's going to take me. And so that discipline kicks in to the point where, like, this is part of it. This is the price of admission. And too many people out there that are watching and listening, like they're thinking like, oh, gosh, I asked for this and I'm complaining about it. No, accept that because it's a gift. What up, everybody? Back for another episode of the Pulse with my boy, Pat Sickens. What's up, man?
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C
How we doing in studio in the new studio?
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Sean
New studio, man. Much more to come. We got some mic boxes coming, the icon going in the background. It's going to complete it. It's going to be like, you complete me.
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C
Just like it.
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Sean
Just like it. I'm excited, man.
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C
That's right.
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Sean
Little things, dude.
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C
Little things. We're here and we're gonna bring back the Pulse for another episode. Got to come into town last night, which was cool. Back first time, really, in about 15 years.
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Sean
That, man, you got to sleep in a bunk bed.
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C
Got to sleep in a bunk bed with some LG sheets.
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Sean
Do you feel like royalty today?
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C
I did. It was waking up in purple was a different experience for me. Green is. Green's different. Yeah.
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Sean
Purple and gold, color of royalty. And they're picked to win the national championship this year, from what I hear. I don't know, I don't.
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C
I don't see why they would.
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Sean
I'm going. I'm going with that person, that one person that picked them to. To be the favorite to win it to. I'm going off of them. That's gospel for me.
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C
So I like that. Well, this is actually a good segue because we got baseball season. Oh, yes. Okay. But we have football season coming up, and I know we've had some great guests on Current. Guys. We've had Saint Juice. We've had Matic, Adam Gotsis. Who else could grief.
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Sean
Oh, my gosh. Current. I think that's all Current. Current.
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C
We've had Gronk on.
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Sean
We've had Gronk on. We've had, you know, Eric Wood at one point. We've had a lot of NFL players.
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C
It's been nice with NFL coming back.
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Sean
Marcus. Marcus Ogden, too, man. That's my guy. I can't forget a Jag. Yep. Original, original, original.
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C
I guess we have to give Matica a shout out. I mean, we had him on last summer, and then he's a two, you know, now, now, two time.
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Sean
Yeah. Stud. And he just got married. Congrats, buddy. That's right, Buddy.
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C
Congrats.
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Sean
Happy wife, happy life.
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C
That's right. All right, so I wanted to talk about football.
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Sean
Okay.
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C
To segue back into baseball.
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Sean
Okay.
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C
Okay. So I want to talk about. Because we, you and I have had some conversation around. But you had your clip that went viral around baseball. You had a few of them.
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Sean
Yeah.
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C
Okay. So I want to touch on it first and I want to keep going. So why. Why exactly did you get hammered so much about talking about the greatest sport in the history of the world?
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Sean
Because most people don't understand the sport, and they want the sport to move faster, but what they don't realize is how fast it moves on the field. There's always something going on. So the people that. The casual fan sees it as a boring sport, and I have to wait for the player to hit the ball, and they just stand around, grab their nuts. This is really not what it is, man. I know. It's what it looks like. Yeah. It happens. Absolutely. Whether it's yours or someone else's, it happens. But it's like there's so much more going on inside the game. And my whole point to that reel was I hated the changes. I don't like a pitch clock. I don't like the extended basis for safety. I don't like certain things that they've implemented. And I think what it did is it really triggered the casual fan that's used to just watching the Savannah Bananas and thinking, that is fucking baseball. Because it's not. It's a nice act. It's like a circus on the baseball field. It's neat, it's cool, but it's not baseball. So if you need that to watch baseball, then you are not a baseball fan. You just need to be entertained because you're bored.
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C
So the reason I asked, because I wanted to set the premise here, because there's a conversation that happens in my family all the time. We were a house divided. My kids play soccer. My wife played soccer as well. And they think that soccer is the greatest sport. And I try to, you know, I try to state my case, right? Like, why baseball, right? Played D1, you played D1. So we. We obviously have a skewed view of the sport, but I think I finally figured out why it's the greatest game ever.
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Sean
Hit me with it.
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C
Okay? And we talk about it. You see the shenanigans that happen. Hot foots, you know, bubbles on people's heads, all the things that happen in baseball, and people look at that and they don't quite understand. Same way, right? Everything's moving on the field, the shenanigans and all the things that make baseball zesty. Jeff Leach, we saw you using it. We appreciate that.
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Sean
Copyrighted. We want to kick back a little tm.
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C
Just a little tm. But it's zesty in the way that the Dodgers do things that are fun. It's a game.
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Sean
Yeah.
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C
It's the only sport that I see that has that going on.
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Sean
Right or wrong. No, I. I agree. And the cool thing about those shenanigans or the pranks or the. The questionable behavior with the Dodgers and other baseball players, I don't call it questionable, but maybe Joe Public would. I. I understand it, and I think it's necessary, because here's the thing, man. That game is so mentally stressful that you have to take a. A small brain break in between all the shit that's happening, because if you don't, you'll. You'll start to, you know, just marinate in all the failure. And so baseball is structured with, you know, again, a lot of the F word, the failure. And if you can't have fun moments within the game and the downtime and when people are tense, you got to know when to fire up those little shenanigans to get people relax and to get people to perform and have fun. Because at the end of the day, man, baseball, it's A. It's a big business. Right. They make a lot of money, everything like that. But it is a child's game. And if you can stay childlike and have fun like that, then, man, you're doing it right. So Dodgers, man. Dave Roberts. You got it right, man. We love you guys.
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C
That's right. And you know what? I was just thinking? We left Marlon Jackson off that list, which we should.
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Sean
Oh, my God. Well, that's a.
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C
And I was listening to that on the way down here, because I know we're going to have a call with him soon. And he talked about it, all the little things that are happening, like what's going to happen with this pitch if the ball comes to me. And so there is that stress. But I think that's, in my opinion, when I go into these arguments in my house with the soccer people.
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Sean
Yeah.
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C
Or football, as I guess we're bringing it back food. It's. It's still a game. And you see people still out there. You know, it's the necklaces, it's the. The butt slaps. Claire loves that. She has now learned that us in football are the only ones. So she will. Yeah, just give it to me.
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Sean
Yeah, that's. That's great, man.
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C
But it's that part of it that makes it still a childhood game.
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Sean
Agreed, man. It. It's fun, man. It's fun to see. I. I love when people have fun. I'm not big on the whole pimp jobs and, you know, the different, you know, throwing the bats, but that's another.
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C
Story plays and all that, but. But at the end of the day, they're still out there having fun. And to me, like, that's what I tell the kids all the time when they're going out there. I'm like, somewhere along the way, these parents who are running youth sports organizations forgot that's a game.
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Sean
Yeah, it's a game.
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C
So let's have fun.
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Sean
A lot of fun.
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C
That's right. Okay, so I want to. Baseball. One more. Thank you.
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Sean
Okay, one more. Okay.
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C
So I don't know if I sent you this, but Cal Raleigh, who won the Home Run Derby. Did I send you this or did you see it?
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Sean
I don't know, but I saw a lot about.
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C
There's a video of him when he's 8 years old.
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Sean
Oh, my God. So good.
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C
Okay. And what does he say? Says, I'm the Home Run Derby champ.
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Sean
And he celebrated and had like a trophy or something, like when he was 8.
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C
And then it happened.
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Sean
I got goosebumps, man. That's just manifesting your only. It's manifesting your reality, man.
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C
So there it is. Because we've talked. We talked about this in the last episode, and we talk about it a lot. I look at that and I go, okay, that's cool, right? We, you know, the, you know, game seven, blah, blah, blah. Bases loaded. That was playing. It was game. When I saw Cal, I went, that's. That's not belief. That's knowing.
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Sean
That's. Knowing that's an intrinsic feeling and knowing what's gonna happen.
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C
I thought that was, like, for us to take that all the way back and go, this is what we were talking about. He's like, I'm the home run champion.
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Sean
Yeah.
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C
And then here he was again. I'm the home run champion.
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Sean
So crazy, dude.
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C
Because playing around, right? Like, yeah, we won the World Series. That was believing. Like, believing one day I could go to the pros. He's like, I know.
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Sean
The one thing that I don't think enough people are talking about with the whole Cal rally thing is the fact that he did it as a catcher, you know, like, he broke that record prior to the All Star break for home runs. As a catcher, you're the biggest power source for a hitter is your. Is your trunk, man, Is your low, is your lower half. And as a catcher, you're constantly up and down and you're exhausted playing probably six out of seven days and still don't have enough legs to blow bottles out of the ballpark like that. Holy shit. That's a magnificent feat.
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C
That's more than adrenaline, dude. That's. That's. There's something bigger there, right? Yeah. It's like he just knew and he stepped into his moment. So that was really cool.
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Sean
That's pretty cool.
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C
All right, so let's talk about what's happened since, you know, I guess in the last three, four weeks, since the last Pulse has some really good episodes. So talk to me a little bit about the highlights that you think, you know, stand out for you.
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Sean
So I got an opportunity to do an interview with Earl Charles Spencer yesterday. It's. It's part of the, you know, the family out there that lived in all Thorpe house. Aristocrat family. His sister was Princess Diana. But the thing that really stuck out to me for him was just how gentle he was, how complimentary and humble that man is. He's wrote many books. The most recent one, a very private school about the abuse and I mean, physical and sexual abuse within the boarding school system out there in the uk that he experienced and it was a very vulnerable book, and it's helping so many people. I mean, you know, from him as an author and a store, a historian, to the fact that, you know, he's been on news outlets as a journalist. Like, this guy's extremely successful. I'm sitting there talking to him, and he's doing the interview in the historic Althorp house. Like, guys like that. To me, I'm, like, sitting there. I asked him like, are you there right now? And he's like, yes. I'm like, selfishly, this is massive for me. This is really cool. You're doing the interview there, and it's where he likes to work. And just having that conversation with him, it was one of those conversations that I just honestly did not want to end because he was just so kind, man. I was so alike. We were talking about ADHD and how his mind works. I'm like, holy shit, that's exactly how I feel.
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C
I thought you were going to talk about you being royalty.
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Sean
No, we're so alike.
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C
I could relate to him in so many.
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Sean
Yeah, no, man, but he. But he was amazing. We recently did one with Floyd Ragland from Super Car Saturdays, which is really great because he was a former athlete, then really got into cars. He's doing something so big with these luxury cars, sports cars. Did something with Lamborghini of Naples at the Revs, and then went to the Revs Institute, a museum here in Naples, Florida, to where we just cranked out this interview. And there's all these amazing cars. There's such an amazing event. But the thing that I loved about him was just, like, how soulful he was. And just, he was. Everything about him was centered around core values and how you treat people and how you give back to the community. And so when I continue to have conversations like that with people, it just really inspires me just to know that, hey, I'm on the right track. And there's a lot of people out there that are trying to cause that positive ripple in the ocean and really help society. Absolutely.
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C
One that I wanted to talk to you about. All right. Is we talked to Tiffany about the shark attack. Surviving.
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Sean
Yeah.
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C
First, I'll just let you tell the audience, because if they haven't seen that episode. So why don't you give them what that was about?
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Sean
So. So Tiffany Johnson, you know, we released that episode last week right. On the onset of Shark Week. And it was timely. Obviously, it was strategic. But, you know, her story was kind of amazing because she was, you know, on vacation with her. With her Family. And on the last day, they were on a cruise and they went to. They were in the Bah or Nassau. Yeah, they were in Nassau. And they went out open. They went out in the open water, and they were. You know, went to a reef and they were doing some scuba diving. And when they all got in, her husband decided that he wasn't. You know, he's not. Didn't decide, but he got seasick. He didn't feel good, so he came back on the boat saying that he didn't feel well, right? And he was up there. And when she went out in the water and she was, you know, diving, you know, looking at everything, looking how everything beautiful was, like, on the reef and all the fish, and he's on the boat throwing up. He doesn't even know what's about, you know, the impending events, right? And I mean, you never know, right? But he wasn't even present enough. The. The ability to be present, to see what was going on. Wasn't there because he was so sick. He had thrown up three times on the boat. And right when he got in the water to wash off and he came up, that's. That's exactly kind of when, to my understanding, Tiffany felt like she just ran into something. Just like, there was no pain, but there's like this mass. Like, man, I hit something like a. Like a reef. And it just was a jarring. She looked over and there was this shark, you know, all the way. Her arm was in a shark and, you know, all the way up, and she was like, eyes, eyes face to face with the shark. And, you know, she had her whole arm in the shark's mouth. And I asked her, I'm like, what kind of shark do you think it was? And she goes, well, it could have been a bull, but, you know, a tiger, but. Because I really think it was a tiger shark because it's beady eyes. It was just black, dark, and it was just scary. And so she started to kind of, you know, try to get away. And that's when the shark said, all right, game on, like, and started fighting her. And, you know, eventually she pulled hard enough to where, you know, kind of, you know, she got loose. But really what it was was her arm coming off in the shark's mouth. And it's like, oh, my God. So she gets up and she's like, swimming, and she realizes that nobody knows what's going on yet. And she's like, wow, I better, you know, take what's left of my limb and get it out of the Water, because, you know, I don't want the shark, you know, following it. That's the only thing she's thinking. Like, they follow the blood. I mean, in hindsight, you know, no matter what blood's going in that water, your arms off, right? But, like, when you're. When you're thinking of it, it's like this, Okay, I got to do whatever I can to get to the next checkpoint, which is the boat. Like, I got to get to the boat so I could survive or have any. Any chance to. The thing that was amazing to me is when she was doing that, she lifted her limb out of the water and just blood started squirting up, like, the fountain, like, just like she said, it's called, like. Like the fountain of you that starts spewing. And that's when her husband's. Like, she could see her husband, like, just freak out and just see the. The panic on his face. But, like, the thing that struck me during her actual attack that I want to touch on is when she was fighting, there was this moment where she just felt everything give up. Like, started getting all the visions of moments with her children, and all that stuff started playing in her mind. She could see this stuff, and then something inside of her, which she, you know, to her is. It was. Was Christ. Like, I. I got that. That power, that strength to fight the sharks. Like, I'm not. I ain't dying right here in this water. She got to the boat, and, you know, they ended up, you know, getting her to, you know, a hospital, and all they had was morphine. They didn't have the proper medication that we have here. So that woman spent a ton of time in pain, and luckily, she had a connection with somebody. She was able to get flighted, you know, bay flight out of the Bahamas earlier and into a port in North Carolina, where they were from. And typically, they go to the nearest one. They'll go to Miami. They took her all the way to North Carolina. So it just worked out. So that happened, like, on a Friday, and, like, Tuesday, Monday or Tuesday, I think she was home, like, in her house. Amazing, amazing, amazing interview.
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C
How did that hit you? Because I know you're not as big of a fan of the water as I am. Yeah, I mean, how did that hit you? Because I know it's. Can I call it a fear? Oh, yeah.
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Sean
Is it.
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C
Is it the ocean of fear? Is it sharks? Is it kind of just everything that's working?
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Sean
Sharks, man. I just don't, you know, I don't care for the shot. I Don't fuck with it, dude. Like, you know, just imagine, like. And everything is. All these sharks are coming so much closer, you know, to, to the shore. Now, I don't know what it is, but, like, you're seeing reports of a lot of different things happening. In fact, Val sent me a video today of this child waist deep in water and a shark circling it and the parents trying to go save the child. Like, guys, we are in their waters. Like, no, I don't care if you're far out or you're right there. That is their habitat. So for me, it just scares me, you know, because you can even see like, aerial views of even Fort Myers beach, and it shows people in the water and all the sharks just around swimming. It's scary.
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C
I mean, they're there. And I'm not saying this to scare people out of the water, certainly not, because, you know, I'm very, very much pro ocean nature, all that. You know, I think for me, it was a good awareness episode. Just to remind me that, yes, they are. And you know, summertime especially, like, once I see one or two shark attacks in Jack's Beach, I tend to stay out of the water until it cools down a little bit. But you're right, I mean, it's, it's calculated risk. And I think that's kind of where I want to go with it with you, is you look at these things and I've talked about, oh, you know, we were talking about wild boars, you know, before this.
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Sean
Yeah.
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C
You know, those are some nasty things. Let me tell you. They're nasty and they're on land, but, you know, between, oh, you could get hit by lightning, car crash, blah, blah, before a shark attack. Like, I know it doesn't make it any less scary for anyone. So talk to me and talk to the listeners about that choice when you have to decide, like, the reward is probably bigger than the risk. So, you know, Bethany Hamilton is a great example. Same thing happened. She decided that the reward of pursuing her passion, continuing to serve, competing and competing at a high level was worth it.
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Sean
I think that's a great question, but, you know, I think it's different for everybody, right? So for Bethany Hamilton and even for somebody like you, that your, your, you being grounded relies on that ocean. It's that big of a purpose for you. So I always say, like, hey, if it, if it's something that truly fulfills you, like Bethany's, you know, competing and being a surfer and, and overcoming that because the ocean was such a big part of her Life, then I say, yeah, the. The. The reward's much, much larger than the risk. Right. Because what are the odds of it happening again, if at all? Even though we see it a lot now, but, like, what are you, you know, if you extrapolate that or count that as, like, what are the odds of, you know, getting in a car accident versus getting, you know, attacked by a shark? It's largely skewed to car accident. Right. But we're. It's so normal for us to do every single day. So, like, I. I don't know if I'm rambling here, but for me, it's just more about, like, what. What's your life's purpose? If your life's purpose and in. In a fulfillment in that thing, then you have to continue to do it if you can, because otherwise you. You will decay.
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C
Yeah, And I'm not talking just about shark attacks or, you know, surfing and the potential of a shark attack. I'm talking about leaving a job and starting podcasts. You know, it's. It's really. I think the point is, like, I obviously know your story, and it's well documented on the show, and we've talked to a lot of people that have taken that, you know, proverbial leap of faith and saying, okay, I know I don't know what's between here and there, but I've weighed all the options, and I think in order to get to this, it's worth that unknown.
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Sean
Yeah, I mean, for me specifically, like, we can touch on that. Like, I know it's been well documented, but new listeners, every freaking show, man, they may not know, you know, I left a great medical sales career to do this. And I didn't know the in between, but I knew the fucking outcome. I knew the outcome. And a lot of times you have to dive head first in whether it's an investment in something or in just an investment in yourself and acknowledging what your true gift is. I think, you know, going through this life and your life ending and getting to the pearly gates of heaven and not. And realizing you didn't pursue your passion, your gift, I see that as a waste of life. And so for me, when I made that risk or, you know, decided to take that risk, for me, it was calculated because I couldn't be told what to do, when to do it, how often to do it anymore. Like, I became very unemployable. And for me, like, there was a part of me that was. Was dying because of it. And so I decided this is the route I'm going. And, you know, it took a lot of conversation and a lot of moving things around with me and my wife, and we decided, all right, let's. Let's give this thing a whirl. And, you know, now we're kicking some serious ass, and we're just getting started, I believe so that's the exciting part about it.
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C
I know.
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Sean
Yeah.
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C
No belief. I know, exactly. But. But that's it, you know, so you look at this and you go, okay, the reward is worth getting our asses kicked on a daily basis. Some weeks.
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Sean
Oh, dude. And we were white knuckling it, man. I mean, there was. There was moments, like at the end of. The end of 2024, I was like, potentially going back to paychecks to be a leader and then record on the weekends.
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C
Right?
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Sean
I. I alerted our production. I. As a. Look, guys, like, can we record on the weekends? Because I got to go do this. Like, dude, we'll make it work. Just do what you need to do. And thankfully, you know, a few short months later, you know, our girl Marina came in and she's here. Hey, girl. And. And we have these amazing, amazing partners, you know, partner with her. And. And then, you know, we've had somebody else come in since then, and. And we're just now finally at a point where we're understanding what we need to do, understanding how the back end works and how this industry is in general. And I think we got a pretty good beat on it now. But there was moments, man, to your point, where I just don't know if I could pay this. And I think for the listeners and the people that are watching is like, you don't need to know the answer right away, but what you need to do is you need to not give up. And you need to figure out a way that. That you can, you know, give something back. If it's, you know, starting a new business and becoming an entrepreneur, what's the value you're going to give society? Because if you're at the forefront of it, it'll never fucking happen. And when you're struggling, that is the hardest thing to get out of. I need this, I need that, I need this, or I'm screwed. You're never going to get to where you want to be in that moment. What you have to find is that zone of genius where you can say, this is what I'm doing. This is how I'm going to impact people. This is the value I'm going to bring society or the demographic that. That I need to fulfill my Dream, which is in our case, the audience. Right. And in different brands and everything like that. And then you go execute that without fail, even though you don't have everything that it may take at the beginning as far as resources or even skill. But if you have that burning seated desire inside in you that says you got to go do something, like, you can't ignore it. And you have to make the sacrifices, whether they're financially or time wise, in order to do and make that happen.
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C
I love that dude. All right, so we are getting ready to go back to school. We're not going.
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Sean
I'm not going back to school. Kids are going back to school. I ain't doing that.
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C
We were talking about readiness or not, and we won't go there on air. But I wanted to talk about this because I've seen a few stories recently and because of your experience, who you are, you know, I want to see who answers this, which Sean answers this like we were talking about earlier.
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Sean
Okay, interesting.
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C
So when I look at these stories and I'll give you two examples, one is it's. It's a fabricated story. So I'll tell you because I had to, like, dig deep. But there is a story that was told by Thomas Edison here in Fort Myers, okay. That his teacher, when he was in school, sent his letter home to his mom and said, he is. I can't remember the word, but basically he is not bright enough to be in the school. You must homeschool him.
- [24:57]
Sean
Wow.
- [24:58]
C
And the mom said, you know, asked Thompson said, what does the letter say? She says, you're too gifted. He can't be taught.
- [25:05]
Sean
Here.
- [25:07]
C
The story is he was essentially kicked out of the school because he was underperforming and his mom homeschooled him. And there was that story of instilling that confidence. And so I look at people who have done incredible things, you know, the top level and whatever you want to talk. So the Thomas Edison's, you look at Gary Vee, right? He talks about the incredible amount of confidence that his mother and father instilled in him. So as you look at going back to school, what type of message would you send, not only to kids, but to parents in that light?
- [25:41]
Sean
That's a great question, man. I think what's important for parents, first and foremost, understand that education is very important, Right. But also the experience that your child has is. Is equally as important, if not greater of importance. Meaning let's work on creating those good habits with those children and not putting the pressure of the grade or what college they're going to go to. I mean, there's parents out there that are banging on their 10 year olds to get great grades so they can go to Harvard. Like that is a highly stressful situation. So what the child is hearing, not that my parent wants the best for me, it's if I don't go to Harvard, I'm going to fail my parents. And then there's a big undercurrent fear there. And I just think that for anybody, a parent or child going back to school, it's like, just be present and do the best you can because at the end of the day, that's all that matters. You know, it doesn't matter. If you work your ass off and you get a C plus on, on an exam, that should not make you upset because you did your best. Now you build on those skills and now your baseline's a C plus. But maybe in three weeks you take that test, another test again and you're at a B minus. So now we're moving, right? So it's about progression. I feel whether it's a school year or even in, in parenting is like, let's try to get better every second and support the children. And the children support the parents by doing what they're supposed to do, by respecting the school, respecting the te, and respecting their time in their studies.
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C
I like that. The reason I was asking, so I was trying to see if it was CEO Sean, dad, Sean husband.
- [27:18]
Sean
It's more dad, Coach. I think it's. I think it's like everything in between. Right. I think that that answer there is like all of me.
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C
Correct. And I know I was asking specifically about back to school and I guess where I looked at that is, you know, and Marina and I were actually talking about this on, you know, back and forth, you know, Instagram videos or whatever. But I don't want to say it this way because it sounds kind of negative, but there's another way to say it. I know that my kids don't listen to a lot of what I say that's not negative. I think they got to say, I know they listen to me and they do what they're told, but as far as they can't grasp a lot of what I'm saying because they haven't had 43 years on this earth. And so for me, it's about trying to not teach them and bump and steer and tell them where they're wrong. And I'm not saying I do a good job of this, but to me, I look at the Thomas S And the Gary Vee and say, if I can do something this year, it's not about, you know, making sure that they're on time and all that. Like, obviously that's important, but it's, how can I instill a crazy amount of confidence in them because they're amazing people. And so if I can be the one person that is just, that is my one and only job is just to say, I see you, I see what you're doing, and I'm going to instill so much freaking confidence in you.
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Sean
I like that. The answer to that is praise their hard work.
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C
Right.
- [28:32]
Sean
Don't praise their performance. It happens in school and happens in sports and everybody's praising performance. Now praise the work, Praise the effort. That right there, I think is a great learning tool for everybody involved.
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C
Thank you. Yeah, I want to talk about some of the segments that we've had because we talked about them last time. Some of the questions that we ask, you know, off air, you know, kind of getting some of the guests ready. Certainly determination is because of the name of the show. What I love about these questions. So the two questions I want to kind of hone in on for a second is, number one, there's two types of people in this world. What are they? And around the new, the upcoming book. And number two is what is their walk up song? And so I know we talked about it last time, but just for the people that didn't hear it, it was a conversation we were talking about. When you were at lsu, when I was at ju, what was your walk up song, your hype song. And what I love about this is a. We've got the playlist and the frequency. So please go subscribe and follow the playlist.
- [29:25]
Sean
Spotify.
- [29:26]
C
It's on Spotify. It's updated weekly with the bangers from high performers. Yeah, but I look at this and what I love about it is, and we've talked about this, is how much it tells about these guests when we have these questions. Two types of people, their walk up song, what does determination mean to them? Because the story is amazing. Obviously, that's why we're having them on. But you see the person that you're about to interview because of the way that they're answering those questions. And I've been a part of a few of them. But talk to me a little bit just about the whole project and how it's kind of opening them up a little bit more and gives you some insight into who this cat is sitting next to you.
- [30:03]
Sean
It's really cool. Because, like, those questions are asked pre interview, right? And I don't put them out there yet, but. Yet. But the cool thing about it is, like, to your point, you can see what makes them tick in those early questions, and you can start to. For me, what it does is it gives me a feel for not just who they are, but their speech pattern, how they like to speak. So it gives me the opportunity to not say dictate, but identify how I craft my conversation with this person. My wheels are always turning behind the scene, right? I'm like, okay, here she's talking like this. These are the types of words they're using. This is the energy. Or they're more, you know, or they're lower. So I need to make sure that I stay in this until I warm them up a little bit more. But the cool thing is, is, like, what lights people up is they start talking about music, and then it. What it ties in for me is like, man, we're all the same. We look for inspiration anywhere we can go. We always want that feel. And it just shows that humans are wired for energy, and music gives us that. And that's why we called it the frequency. Right? But that specific question kind of, you know, some of the song choices, I'm like, I don't get it. I don't. I don't get. I'm like, how does that pump you up?
- [31:18]
C
How does that get you going?
- [31:19]
Sean
Yeah, but like, Val's Vals is Stevie Wonder. As. I'm like, okay, I'll put it on. Like, that's Vals. Yes, Vals. Yeah, Val.
- [31:26]
C
I had a question about that. I didn't know who. And I'm like, who is this? But it's Stevie Wonder. So it's okay now that I know it's Vals.
- [31:33]
Sean
Yeah, Val. Val does. She's a secret weapon, man. She does what she wants. We let her. But. But the one, like, most recently, Shannon Watts, New York Times bestseller. We just interviewed her, I think, this week sometime, and she wrote a book called Fired up, about how for women to find and ignite their spark, no matter what age they are. Her song was Come On Eileen. And I'm like, oh, my God, that fires me up. I just forgot about the song. Love the song. Put on the playlist, and I was jamming to it, and I took a picture of it and sent it to her, and she laughed, you know, so it's cool because you get this person, like, what inspires them, what types of music inspire them? And that tells a lot about them as an individual. Right. That I can actually extract good conversation from. The other one, the two types of people, you know, who are. What are they? I love that because it gives people. You. You. You see a higher perspective of how people see the world at that point. Right. And these are the most common thoughts that they go through every day. Two types of people, you know, are you igniter or you're a distinguisher? Like, whatever it is, like, you get to see the two levels of playing field here that they're really evaluating daily. So it says a lot about them. Like, not in a bad way.
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C
No.
- [32:50]
Sean
But it just, it gives an insight of like, I know how your brain.
- [32:53]
C
Thinks now because it's always snap judgment.
- [32:56]
Sean
Right.
- [32:56]
C
There's no pre question, like, hey, we're gonna ask you this. It's just, what are they? And it's. And so to the point of which character of that person sitting across from you is going to answer?
- [33:06]
Sean
Yeah, right.
- [33:07]
C
We were talking about, like, is it going to be the athlete, the CEO, the dad, the father who's going to answer.
- [33:12]
Sean
So many different roles, man.
- [33:13]
C
And so it just allows you to see, like, okay, you see people in these two buckets. Not good, bad, just how you classify people. And I just, I love that we're doing them and we do need to start putting them out.
- [33:24]
Sean
Yeah.
- [33:24]
C
As far as the songs we do on a regular basis, we're going to keep putting them out so people can see, like, why is this song on the playlist now? I know Val's Stevie Wonder.
- [33:33]
Sean
There you go.
- [33:33]
C
But like, we talked about to know, like, oh, this is Elena's song. Or Jamie Kennedy or Jeff or whoever. Like, it's fun to know that, you know, if you enjoy these people, you can say, hey, this is their banger song. And now you can maybe you can feel like Gronk and get in the gym and, yeah. Hype up to his song.
- [33:46]
Sean
Pretty cool, man. It's pretty cool.
- [33:48]
C
One other one I want to talk about because we've had, you know, we're. We're leaning a little bit into more of the current events and trying to stay relevant. Just what's going on in the world with Camp Mystic.
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Sean
Oh, God, yeah.
- [34:00]
C
And I'm not going to go too far into it.
- [34:02]
Sean
I'm good, man.
- [34:04]
C
I think one. One thing that I want to hit on is because I. I know in the episode at the end off camera, you actually got to meet the girls that were there. So just talk to me about a. People who don't know what Camp mystic is quickly about the Episode and then getting to meet them.
- [34:19]
Sean
Yeah. So early July 4th, you know, in Houston. I'm not Houston, but sorry, Texas. You know, this church camp that's been there for over 100 years, it's kind of a rite of passage for these families in this community to send their children there. It's like something that they look forward to from a little kid. You have to put an application and like you want your child to go there when she's 10 or he's 10. Like you got to put the application in when they're like two. That's the demand for it is freaking wild. And so they drop their, their, their children off and you know, it's 4th of July and everybody's, you know, really focused on the festivities of their town. The parades, the food, the, the fellowship, the community, the fireworks. And they started getting reports that there was a massive flood where their children were at. And so for a small period of time, and thankfully for, thankfully for Amy Key and her husband, there was only like a two hour period where they really didn't know what was going on with their, with their daughters. They got an email stating, if you're getting this email, you haven't heard from us, otherwise we have located your child and they are safe. And so you know that right there, you know, as they're driving there to the reunification point to meet everybody, they, they were, they had the opportunity to have a sense of peace come over them, knowing that they didn't have to drive the full five hours wondering if their daughters were alive or not. This story hits me hard because there's children involved. Right. And you know, there was a lot of flooding going around that area. There was, there was a lot of other people that lost their lives too. But the focus was on Camp mystic because it was such a big story. And just to talk to Amy and for her to communicate to me that their daughters said, if we were in that other cabin, we would have drowned. There was a potential that they would have been in that other cabin because that was their age group and if they weren't, they were in the other one and they were spared. But for a child of like 10 and 8 or however old those girls were, now they know their own mortality. Like what the man. Like, that's so sad. So her, their story was happy because they were reunified with, with their children. And when she brought them in at the end, we didn't record it. We didn't put it out there because I didn't think it was right.
- [36:43]
C
Sure.
- [36:44]
Sean
But they brought it brought the, you know, two girls in, and I just. It was emotional for me, man. And, you know, I was, you know, puckering up a little bit. I had the lump of my throat, the tears welling up in my eyes. Just see, like, those girls are actually my daughter's age. And I started thinking, like, mia's not a great swimmer. You know, would Alina have survived? I mean, like, I started thinking, like, if that my child, like, I don't. I don't know what would have happened. And so it really connects, you know, current events or human interest pieces to the fact that, like, guys, if you look long enough, this is not just so far removed from you. This could happen anywhere. And are your children in a place where they could fight for their lives? Are they strong swimmers? Like, all these things I start thinking about, it's just like, damn it. Super heavy. But to see the girls, man, it was crazy because, like, hey, what are you guys doing? Like, nothing. And Amy's like, well, aren't you telling me you're gonna go to cheer? And like, oh, yeah, we're gonna go to cheer. But then I was like, yeah, you could see, like, they're not, like, totally excited, but also, they were going to their cheer school where they lost some other people. It's like, this is hitting them. In fact, the. The. The two sisters that they found holding each other was their friends. That. That. That to me, is something a kid should never have to go through. No, I mean, and let's be very clear, a parent going through losing their child is the most fucked up thing in. In my opinion, in this world. And for it to happen in an area that you've been right and, and you've been. You've gone to that camp yourself. You know, the tradition, it's part of the culture. For it to happen there, I mean, it's just. That's just debilitating, man.
- [38:39]
C
I. I know that was a hard one, but to be able to meet them. Yeah. All right, well, let's bring it back up then. Hey, hey, hey. All right, so I do want to bring one. One last thing, actually, two more things up. Number one, I gotta talk about Happy Gilmore, too. We watched it last night.
- [38:56]
Sean
What is everybody talking about?
- [38:57]
C
We got some work done.
- [38:58]
Sean
Yeah.
- [38:59]
C
And then we decided to watch this because we hadn't seen it. You, me, Jackie.
- [39:02]
Sean
Yeah.
- [39:02]
C
And I've seen reports that it's not as funny as the first one, but I've also seen the article as well. If you don't think it's as funny, maybe you just got old and grumpy. That's got to be it.
- [39:11]
Sean
That's got to be it. Well, I think it's also expectations too, right? You gotta understand Adam Sandler's like, what, how many years older was it? 29? 30 years. Right, 30 years. Right. Or something crazy like that. I don't know. It could be off. Don't judge me on my math.
- [39:23]
C
Fact check that one, guys.
- [39:25]
Sean
But, but I thought the movie was so funny and so genius. The amount of tie ins with all the cameos. Even Rob Schneider came in and dropped another line from Water Boy that wasn't even involved in Happy Gilmore. If you don't see the fucking genius in that, like, you're not paying attention. The other thing that I thought was really great that you and I were talking about was the marketing campaigns within that thing, like Dunkin Donut. Like, he was. He was funneling beer.
- [39:53]
C
Coffee bonging.
- [39:54]
Sean
Yeah, coffee bonging. But at the same time, the thing that I really enjoyed about that movie was obviously, because it's nostalgic, right? To see another Happy Gilmore and to see him fight through adversity. And I think that's what people really love to see is fighting through adversity. He was fighting through alcoholism. How many people, you know, in this age group are fighting through alcoholism? And. And just to, you know, see it on a movie of the struggle, the, the progression, the backslide and the finally overcoming it and, and winning. I. I just thought was. Was pretty damn genius in my book.
- [40:31]
C
It was. I. We talked about. I know Jackie was saying it's so hard to do, you know, sequel after this long and all that, but I think they did a fantastic job.
- [40:38]
Sean
They killed it. I don't know what people are talking about.
- [40:40]
C
We just had to give it five stars from us too. You know, like, I tell you what's the movie.
- [40:44]
Sean
I tell you what I didn't like. I thought it was so up in the opening scene. They killed his wife.
- [40:49]
C
I did not.
- [40:50]
Sean
By his own golf ball, by the way. Spoiler alert.
- [40:53]
C
If you've not seen it, whatever.
- [40:55]
Sean
If you haven't seen it, you.
- [40:57]
C
Yeah, we're a few weeks in.
- [40:58]
Sean
Come on, figure your life out.
- [41:00]
C
I had to talk about it because it was just part of the trip today. All right, this time. All right, coming up. What are some things that we've recorded? I know we've talked about one, but anything that you want to let people know, you got to reward them for watching the Pulse, right? So.
- [41:11]
Sean
Yeah.
- [41:12]
C
What. What have we recorded that either that we've Recorded that's coming up. Or stuff that we have. I'm not going to go out to November. We're. We're.
- [41:21]
Sean
So. No, we. We. Like I said, you know, Earl Charles Spencer was a pretty cool episode. Floyd Ragland's dropping by the time this is out, so that'll already be out. But we've had some really cool authors this week that we've spoken to. Andrea Bartz, who wrote the Last Ferry out, psychological thriller on an island. Investigative. Like, it's really freaking cool. And she was just an amazing, amazing interview. Good human being. Like, absolutely enjoyed my time with her. Another one is Shannon Watts. It's Fired Up. I briefly spoke about it. Like, it's a really good book. She's a really great person. She's an activist, and she's built, you know, such an amazing platform for herself and. And for. And for mothers. And I just really enjoyed her. You know what else? We got some more authors coming. We've got my boy Mick Hunt coming on next week. That's going to be. It's gonna be a lot of fun. And we're building out, like you said. I want to give up too much. But we're building out another California trip as we speak for September. It's like, dude, there's just so much fun going on.
- [42:26]
C
I got a lot going on.
- [42:27]
Sean
Yeah, we sure do.
- [42:28]
C
Well, that's all I got for us, man. This is. This has been a good one.
- [42:31]
Sean
No amas. No amas, nothing.
- [42:34]
C
There were some weird ones. I'll give you one.
- [42:36]
Sean
Okay.
- [42:36]
C
You want to end before, as you say, we land the plane.
- [42:39]
Sean
That is, whatever.
- [42:40]
C
So actually, this is. It's a good one from Andrew. Okay, so, you know, talking about burnout. Okay. And it's. It the way. All right, let me rephrase this, because he did ask about burnout, but everyone that I'm close with is dealing with something huge right now. Like, huge. And it could be good stuff, bad stuff, But I just feel like everyone I know is struggling in some way, either struggling to get to the finish line on a project or really struggling in their personal life with some big stuff. So as you think through everyone that we've talked to recently, all the interviews, all the stuff that's going on in your personal life right now. Like, what can you. What can you say that someone that's really struggling with burnout, specifically and dealing with just kind of a barrage of.
- [43:29]
Sean
Yeah, burnout's real. Right? And I think it's when you try to do too much too fast and think that you can do it for an extended period of time. Finding things that are sustainable is super important, man. Like in. In doing what feels good in that moment. I'm not talking about it feels good to go to a bar and, you know, drink a 12, you know, 12 beers from the tap. Like, that felt good. Well, that's not going to get you any closer to not being burned out. In fact, it's gonna extrapolate that feeling even more. The next day, you're gonna wake up feeling even more burned out, even more stressed and anxious because you had all that alcohol. But really, where I'm going with this is man, is doing what feels good. Like, if you're stuck at work, let's just say, and you hate your job, you hate your boss, you hate your co workers, everything about it is so screwed up. You just want to get out of that situation, then take care of what's in front of you. Do one small task that feels good and then take a break and then build on that. And then soon what people will realize is whether it's in fitness, mental health, or, you know, entrepreneurship, or even working in a, you know, Fortune 500 company, is you will start to gain some momentum and you have some real results. And that burnout tends to start to fade away because you realize that you don't have to conquer everything that moment. You can do it in stages. I think people try to get everything done at one time, and it just, it, it's. It's not sustainable.
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C
I, I would agree. And I think one thing I want to really hone in on there is if it makes you feel good, there is a big difference between instant gratification and something that's going to make you feel good.
- [45:16]
Sean
Yeah, Absolutely. Yeah.
- [45:18]
C
Hammering 12 beers in the moment, out with your boys, whatever feels good.
- [45:22]
Sean
Yeah.
- [45:24]
C
But wait, no, it's instant gratification. There it is. Instant gratification. I lost seat.
- [45:28]
Sean
See? It's okay. I'm tracking you, baby.
- [45:30]
C
Hey, I was ready like five minutes.
- [45:32]
Sean
Yeah, I mean, we got time, man.
- [45:33]
C
Let's just keep it cracking. It's instant gratification, but it's not going to make you feel good. So when you think about the things that you're doing on a daily basis, and we've talked about this before, of the things that, you know you should stop doing.
- [45:43]
Sean
Right.
- [45:44]
C
When you look at all the things really, you know, what you should be doing, what you shouldn't be doing, and there are some things like eating a pound, you know, carton of ice cream at night, instant gratification. And you may say, well, this makes me feel good and it's comfort and this is how I unwind. But if you're trying to lose weight and not be inflamed and feel good tomorrow, then that's not actually making you feel good. So I think there's a big distinction there of something that's gonna make you feel good. Could be washing your car because it's been dirty for a week.
- [46:10]
Sean
Yeah. Or cleaning it. Cleaning the inside out. So your environment's clean. Right. You don't want a cluttered environment because it clutters your environment in your dome right in between your ears. So it's just doing the things that are going to help you. Right. And do them small and celebrate that. Be proud of yourself and do it over and over again. And eventually you'll realize that you don't have to do everything. At one time.
- [46:33]
C
Patrick. Patrick Young and I talked about this, and he was my first episode of Two Types of People. And he was telling me this story. So I don't know if you got there or not, but when he was at University of Florida, they were number one team in the nation. They went to the Final Four and ended up losing. But when they were number one team in the nation, he was talking. He was telling me this story about this shell drill that they did. So it's just routine basics for those who don't know what a shell drill is. He said at some point in the season, they're like, dude, we're number one in the nation. We've been running this stinking thing for months and months and months, like, enough. And the coaches kept hammering about the little things about repetition. He said, in the SEC Championship, they were. It was basically a tie game or they were up by one against Kentucky. Kentucky ran the same set that Florida had been practicing against the entire year in that shell drill. And so he talked about the little things that you have to do. And so what he and I talked about was the little things, like, they sound fluffy and just like they're not going to work.
- [47:32]
Sean
Right.
- [47:32]
C
Like, oh, journaling, gratitude, prayer, whatever your thing is. But it's those little things that when you do them, going to the gym on a regular basis, it's really doing those things that in the end will make you feel good, but they may not feel good right away.
- [47:47]
Sean
Right.
- [47:47]
C
Like, getting back into it, going to the gym, it's hard. Sucks. Doing some of the stuff that we have to do on a regular basis sucks. But when it goes well, yeah, it feels good.
- [47:57]
Sean
Well, that's the thing about preparation, right? That's really what it's about, is, is being prepared. And so when you prepare, then those moments that you don't think that you're ever going to see, you get lucky and they're there. And then you can win the ball game, right? Or when the win the competition or the game of life or whatever it is for you, right? I just think that not judging the moment and trust, if you're on a team, whether it's on the court, on a field, corporate, you know, podcast, you have to trust. There's a moment where, okay, this may not be my way. And I don't know why we're doing this. I didn't know why we were doing the Pulse. I didn't know why we were doing the frequency of the. I'm like, what the fuck? Like another thing. But, like, now I trusted it, now it makes sense. And we've gotten great feedback from it because it gives people a peek of something different in, in the show, in me and the whole brand, so to speak, right? So it's about trusting. And you don't need to know when that moment's going to come. Like, why are we practicing this? It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter because eventually you practice enough, practice it enough, you summon that shit at some point in your life and down the road, that's your moment. And if you didn't do the work here, you're not going to excel and win here. So do the work excel here?
- [49:19]
C
People always talk about the price of admission, right? You got to get a seat at the table. And that right there is the part that's missing because it takes a lot to get to the table, to get your proverbial seat and all that, but once you get there, you still have to perform. And if you haven't done those basics, if you haven't done the little things, and it could be a gratitude list, it could be doing, you know, choosing X over Y, whatever that is. But I think it's the determination. Because it ain't motivation.
- [49:47]
Sean
No, dude, I'm motivated very little, man. It's the initial spark. It has to be there, and it usually is. I was motivated to start the show, but am I motivated every single day that I'm executing conversations and recordings and the back end stuff, the Tuesday morning meetings, the. The, you know, the collaborations that I have every single day on the phone. Not always motivated to do it, but I know where it's going to take me. And so that discipline kicks in to a point. Where, like, this is part of it. This is the price of admission. This is what I asked for. And too many people out there that are watching and listening, like, they're thinking, like, oh, gosh, I asked for this and I'm complaining about it. No, I accept that shit because it's a gift.
- [50:35]
C
I mean, that's my definition of determination, is remembering why you started in the first place.
- [50:39]
Sean
Yeah, right.
- [50:40]
C
Because there are seasons, not just days, moments. I mean, there are seasons where it is just not. It doesn't feel good. Like, I'm not telling other people. Like, it just doesn't feel good to keep doing some of these things. But it's not necessarily. Again, what makes me feel good. What makes me feel good is not going to the gym sometimes and sitting around and doing Jack.
- [51:00]
Sean
Yeah.
- [51:01]
C
But going in the end makes me feel good.
- [51:05]
Sean
Because we're. We're put here to work, man. Like, you're if. If you skimp out on work and then you look yourself in the eye every night when you brush your teeth, what are you staring at? What do you stand for? But if you do all the good, bad, or indifferent, you do it with a positive mind and with intention. You're gonna sleep a lot better at night, man. That's the thing that I've learned.
- [51:29]
C
There you go. That was the only AMA I wanted to bring to you.
- [51:32]
Sean
That's a good one.
- [51:33]
C
That was a good one.
- [51:33]
Sean
Kind of interesting. The other ones, though, like, I'm not.
- [51:35]
C
Gonna lie, we're gonna keep doing it. So next month, we'll. We'll get out. We just did one quick post on this one just because we were running a little short on time. But, yeah, we'll. We'll figure out a way. So for the next one, we'll make sure that people that have been listening, fans of the show, can. Can ask Sean or me anything they want. And yeah, we'll either directly just Q A it or heck, we may go down a tangent. Y' all didn't want us to go down, but, yeah, might. We'll save that for next time. So, man, good to be back in for Myers.
- [52:00]
Sean
Thank you, dude, that was awesome. So the audience listening. Thank you so much. Share the Pulse episode with someone you know, love and trust. You know, hey, just keep following along. We're going to give a lot of peaks behind the curtain here. And as always, until next time, stay determined.
- [52:17]
C
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