Danielle D'Souza Gill (3:13)
According to research, Gen Z has been suffering from poor mental health compared to their older brothers and sisters, from self harm to suicidal ideation and just overall depression is much higher among Gen Zers than any previous generation. Another pattern that's evident is that Gen Zers are more likely to evaluate their life positively and feel optimistic about the future while they're in K through 12 school. But once they hit adulthood, the numbers of Gen Zers who report they're either struggling or suffering spread spikes by a significant margin. As far as mental health is concerned, those issues track along with the widespread adoption of smartphones and has worsened in tandem with related trends such as increased screen time and decreased sleep. Sleepless, phone entranced, self loathing. This is a recipe for unhappiness in many ways. Technology, especially smartphone technology, which can be very addictive, has done a real number on these young Gen Zers. They're more atomized than previous generations with ubiquitous access to the Internet. The geographical constraints on their associations have disappeared. Now people spend virtually, you know, very little time with people they actually know in real life and spend a lot more time with relative strangers across the planet. Not because they live in the same town or go to the same school, but most likely because they share the same online behavior. This self selective behavior means that younger people are less likely to encounter and therefore learn to tolerate ideas that might be different from their own. You would think, oh, they're talking to all these people who live in different places. But in reality, oftentimes those people hold the same views because they're attracted to the same platform or whatever it is that's bringing them together. So they choose to remain in their online communities, where perceptions about beliefs are increasingly skewed. There's no question that we live in a more ideologically driven world. Many of us have been subjected to the horrible reality, spurred mostly by rabid leftists whose unbending wills have spawned a succession of spirals over issues like race, gender, crime, immigration. For them to disagree meant you were asking to be targeted for being evil. And speaking of Charlie Kirk, as a heterosexual white Christian male, he represented the class that has been most heavily scapegoated by leftist Puritans. Oddly, however, among those Gen Zers who report they are thriving More identify as white males. This group also skews politically towards the Republican side or or independent more so than Democrat. This speaks to a growing sense of resilience among Gen zers, which is actually a good sign given what they have had to deal with in our modern age. While technology has ravaged their minds culture, Gen Z's prospects for thriving are also threatened by immigration, globalization and the rampant adoption of AI. Many feel locked out of the housing market and and that their employment prospects in the future can't be guaranteed because we are importing cheap labor. There are robots, there's AI, there's computers to threaten their contributions or make them obsolete. In many ways, however, these anxieties are typical of every age, especially when there are technological booms. But that doesn't mean that we should discount these anxieties and we should absolutely respond to them. Men in many generations have felt an intense pressure to succeed when faced with establishing and leading a family. The fear of failure is something that stalks all of us until the day we die, but especially men. That's completely normal and natural. And there are signs among this generation that many men are feeling that pressure, that it's easier to retaliate against the left and against the left's abusive victimhood mentality by embracing the same mindset in response. It is dysfunctional to want to become the scapegoater after necessarily being the scapegoated, for example. Dysfunctional, yet at the same time it completely makes sense. And it is a pattern that repeats itself throughout human experience at the personal as well as global level. The bullied one day seek to become bullies. And the story of communist failure is full of examples of the oppressed overturning their oppressors only to become even more bloody dictators. Think of the Jacobins and the French Revolution. They were all about equality, all about fraternity. But once they took over, what ended up happening? The terror. They ended up killing many innocent people and then they ended up with Emperor Napoleon. No matter how justified we feel, embracing a vengeance mindset and just becoming the exact thing you hate is not the solution to fixing this problem. And this damage isn't inflicted in a vacuum. If we look at the mental health struggles of Gen Z, just ask all of those who suffered in the Soviet Gulags if their life improved after the Romanovs were deposed and murdered. Clearly it makes sense that you can't solve the ravages of the victimhood mentality by spiraling one's own victimhood mentality. You're not solving the problem, but perpetuating the problem and actually making it worse. But we do have very hopeful signs that Gen Z is aware of the causes of their distress. One of those signs is that Gen Z is starting to ditch screens. The generation has decided that what's missing is a more intentional and purposeful lifestyle. So some people in Gen Z had started to collect, you know, records, use landlines, dumb phones, wired earbuds. We're seeing kind of a revival, some retro things like that, even writing on an old fashioned typewriter. It's an analog life that's more about living in the moment, dedicating one's time to the creation of lasting things like crafts, personal hobbies that are not technological. Gen Z has discovered the past and embraced it. If you're from one of the older generations, you might view this techno skepticism as a bit hardcore. But Gen Z doesn't call it that. They call it Grandma Core. More encouraging still is the reported increase in church attendance and conversions. According to a September article in Christianity Today, we have actually seen a huge increase in quote, churchgoers between the ages of 18 and 28 attend church more frequently than their older siblings, parents or grandparents. A new study, part of the State of the Church Research Initiative from Barna Group and Glue, found a post pandemic surge among Gen Z churchgoers over the age of 18. Today, when people born between 1997 and 2007 go to church, they attend on average about 23 services per year. Churchgoing Gen Xers, in contrast, make it to about 19, while boomer and elder churchgoers average under 17. Millennial churchgoers born between 1981 and 1996 attend 22 services annually on average, up from previously 19 in 2012. The Barna study calls this a historical and a generational reversal. That Barna Group study not only shows an increase in church attendance, it shows a rather remarkable change in the demographics of those attending churches. Beginning in 2020, there was a shift in church attendees. In the years prior, women out attended men by margins of 2 to 12%. Since 2020, that trend has been that men are now out attending women in church, such that in 2025 the margin is almost 10%. A study by the Orthodox Institute also showed a similar change. According to an article covering the topic, a survey of Orthodox churches around the country found that parishes saw a 78% increase in converts in 2022 compared with pre pandemic levels in 2019. And while historically men and women converted in equal numbers, vastly more men have joined the church since. Since when? Well, since 2020. The Orthodox Studies Institute also pointed out that since 2013, fully 66% of their converts were under the age of 40. Not to be outdone, Catholic diocese are also reporting influx of millennials and Gen Z. According to Terrine Global, a market and research company, young adults in their 20s and 30s are becoming Catholic at incredible rates. Dioceses all over the US are reporting a dramatic increase in adult conversions, some experiencing year to year growth of 50 to 70%. This counterintuitive renewal is not the result of cultural heritage, but a quest for depth or order and truth and actually a response to the growing depression amongst Gen Z. Many are finding that the antidote to that depression, to that anxiety, to that stressfulness about place in the world, is actually order. And so they are turning to a much more stable, deep religious conviction. It's not true for all of them because we are seeing quite a few Gen Z's are radical leftists, but quite a few of them are turning to the right. Here again, the conversions examined in the research mostly happened post 2020, which is significant because that means for Gen Z, Covid, the lockdowns, all of that was very transformational for them. It came about at a time when they were adolescent and were really supposed to be around. People were meant to be around their peers, but were locked down and prevented from socializing. And so that produced a lot of their depression. And we all know that 2020 was hard for everybody, but especially those young people in school. That was the year of the fraudulent Biden campaign. That was the year that churches were shut down. Many Christians were prevented from going to church or they were publicly maligned by Democrats for disturbing someone's personal space. In other words, it was the year that the stakes for going to church became real. You had to really go out of your way to attend, find one that is open, put yourself in a situation where you might be socially even more ostracized. And in the churches where pastors refuse to bend to government overreach, people responded by putting their faith first. As GK Chesterton says, in a fallen age, virtue has all the thrill of vice. So instead of being intimidated, people responded with courage and fortitude. And the country noticed that alcohol stores were deemed essential, while churches were put under government padlock. It seems in trying to insulate young men from faith to prevent them from going to faith, we've seen others try to encourage them to go down a road of destruction. But we know that the only answer to any kind of deep issues, deep just feeling unmoored in society is to return to Tradition and the bureaucrats actually have revealed how much they fear Christianity. We've seen this in history. We've seen that Christianity oftentimes is a force that stabilizes and leads a country down a better path. And so people rose to the challenge. Gen Z rose the challenge, especially Gen Z men. And this is significant. Though maligned by the system for being both Christian and male, Gen Z didn't try to appease, you know, any criticisms of them. They said, we are actually going to choose the, the better road. We're not going to just play Fortnite any chicken nuggets. We're gonna rise up and be, you know, real responsible young men. So they responded by seeking refuge in the very Christ the left heaps scorn and ridicule on every day. And it shows a really important lesson which is that you don't just write off Gen Z. You don't just, you know, say, oh, you know, they're all a certain way. No, we don't do that. We actually see, wow, this is something that they're doing that's really good. And so we should praise them for that. We should focus on the fact that that is really good news. You don't opt for the path of least resistance just because the person blocking your Path is a 300 pound non binary troll in a pink and baby blue face mask. Though treated unfairly throughout their lives, Gen C men did not wallow in self pity and simply complain about the trans. They met the challenge head on and said, we are going to change our life and do something about it. And honestly, life has not been fair to many white men because there's DEI and there's so much horrible stuff that the left has done to them to prevent them from getting good jobs and being rewarded for merit. They've been stopped by DEI in many ways. And so it's been wildly more difficult to be a white male than it is to be another group. And I mean it's horrible, it's horrible that they're dealing with this, but honestly, the fact that they have risen to the occasion shows just how much they actually deserve the success that I hope that they enjoy. Because they've had to overcome so much. Life is not fair to them. And that's why we need to dismantle every DEI program across the country. Whether that's affirmative action, whether that's in corporate workspace. And fortunately, I think Woke is dying. Woke is dying. And the left is realizing that they can't continue DEI like this. But I don't know, I think after this kind of Republican revival, we were. We're still going to have to keep fighting it. We can't just take for granted that woke is dead. We're going to have to really be aware because the Democrats aren't just going away, they're not just disappearing. I mean, all of these disturbed trans activists, they're still out there and they're still going to try to spread their message to the American people. So the fight is definitely not over. Every generation has its challenges and has to find their own solutions. So the fact that Gen Z men are choosing Christ, choosing to be more conservative, this is great. And frankly, Gen Xers, boomers, they are from a different time, from a different period where they had different challenges. And so they may not understand exactly what these young Gen Z men are dealing with. As we look ahead, we see that young women now who are Gen Z are struggling. And unfortunately they are not shifting as much to the Christian solution. They are increasingly more leftist. We're seeing a lot of. A lot of them are choosing the feminist road. And we know that the feminist road is the road of ultimate destruction. Because feminism really tries to dismantle the actual nature of womanhood. Feminism operates off of the starting assumption that men are actually better than women. The things men do are better than women. Working outside the home is better than working inside the home. And so these lies, these horrible, twisted lies that are told to young women, which is what feminism is, teaches them to, in a way, hate themselves, to hate being feminine, to hate being a woman, being a mother, any of those things. And so they're left deeply unhappy. They're left very anxious. And they think that the solution is by being a CEO or being, you know, any of these things. And it really isn't. It really just leaves them extremely stressed, extremely anxious, feeling like they then have to manage, you know, work and their families as well, or daycare, whatever it is. And so a lot of women are turning to the left because the left gives them kind of the. The ability to, to feel like that's their solution to their problems. It's just leaning in even more into feminism, when in reality the solution is really the opposite. It's to turn to tradition, to turn away from feminism and to celebrate the beauty of femininity and the complementarian view of marriage and the complementarian view of men and women. It's not that men and women should be at war with each other. It's not that women are inferior to men. It's that women have a different set of skills and different nature that is actually really beneficial to men and to society and to children. And so I think that the fact that women tell women, tell other women, especially on the left, these lies about feminism really just leads to these Gen Z women being totally lost. And so I think that's why then if you fast forward and we look at the dating culture for Gen Z, it's really just wildly challenging for them because they have these young men who are trying to turn to tradition, who are trying to go to church and to just kind of rise up against DEI craziness to, you know, succeed in this world. And then you have these crazy feminist young women who are leftists and they just complain about how they can't meet a good guy. But the reality is actually the young, younger guys are the better catches, oftentimes we're seeing. And so these women, if they turn towards more classic femininity, if they turn towards just away from feminism, honestly, anything you find away from feminism, then there will be many guys who are available for you to date, most likely. So this dating culture we're seeing amongst these young people, though, we do have to remember that they spend so much time online on their phones, and so even just the way that they meet each other is through apps and all of this stuff. And so I actually think it would be great for people to unplug from that, to meet people in person. And I know that's a lot harder to do today because it requires a lot more effort. In the past, it was a lot more normal for people to just meet up and meet through mutual friends or through church. And today it really takes kind of some, like, fortitude and focus in order to meet people and even just to meet friends. Honestly, a lot of young people are very lonely and feel like they don't even have friends, friends. And so you have to go out of your way to kind of, like, maintain friendships, meet people. And so I think just this world that a lot of boomers and Gen X lived in, that was much more. Much more wholesome, I would even just say, but much more natural, much more normal. Like, you go to college, you hang out with friends, you can get a job. I'm not saying their life is easy. There's absolutely no reason for anyone to say that their life is easy. But just society was a little bit more set up, I think, for. For dating, for family life and all of that. And today society is just going to attack you and come after you if you try to go the traditional road. So you have to really stand against the grain if you want those things in life, you have to like really be different from the culture. And that is because the left has completely co opted our cultural institutions and has completely taken over a lot of these megaphones which honestly young women listen to. Young women listen to Hollywood celebrities who have been abused, who are deranged and think that those people are cool. A lot of young women, I don't know, I mean, see all kinds of things on Instagram and think this is what life is. They hear a lot of girl boss culture and think that that's good. They spend so much time, I think, just kind of just inculcated by leftist culture. And so I think just unplugging from leftist culture sometimes is what's needed. I don't mean to be unrealistic, but honestly, if that means that you have to like delete an app from your phone, you have to delete it. If you have to make new friends, you need to meet new people. And so anyways, these young men are taking that upon themselves and doing that. They're doing those hard things, going to church. And so young women need to stand up and they need to do the same thing. So as we look towards Gen Z, look towards the future, I think we see there's a lot of hope, there's a lot of good things that can be coming. Also some not good things, but I think that those things can be turned around.