Southern Cannibal’s Scary Stories

Episode 620: 4 TRUE Scary Dating Horror Stories

Release Date: September 26, 2025

Host: Southern Cannibal

Episode Overview

In this chilling episode, Southern Cannibal narrates four real-life dating horror stories submitted by listeners. Each tale delves into the dark side of online and offline dating, highlighting instances of stalking, catfishing, domestic violence, manipulation, assault, and even murder. The stories serve as harrowing warnings about the potential dangers hidden behind seemingly ordinary encounters in search of love, affection, and connection.

“The following stories are very dark and disturbing. They mention topics such as murder, domestic violence and sexual abuse. If you do not want to hear stories like that, please click off. You’ve officially been warned.” (00:01)

Story 1: Catfished and Stalked by “Nick”

(00:15 – 21:50)

Summary

A young woman home from college redownloads Tinder out of boredom and matches with “Nick,” an attractive college senior whose profile photos appear almost too good to be true. Despite red flags—defensiveness about video chatting and overly intense declarations—she proceeds, only to find herself catfished. After an incredibly uncomfortable meetup, Nick reacts with emotional volatility, ranging from profuse apology to angry, harassing messages. The situation escalates into stalking at her workplace, culminating in a terrifying incident where what looks like Nick is caught lurking around her car late at night.

Key Discussion Points & Memorable Moments

• Early Red Flags:

  • Nick refuses to FaceTime initially and becomes defensive.

    “He got mad saying he has girls always asking immediately to FaceTime.” (01:45)

  • He sends obsessive messages early on:

    “I’m so damn desperate for you, I need you. I feel so sick for you. I would be devastated if I lost you. If anyone ever tried to hurt you or put their hands on you, I swear I would rip them apart, just tear their limbs off.” (03:35)

• The Reveal & Catfishing:

  • Her anxiety increases as it becomes clear he used misleading photos.

    “FaceTime hadn’t been off. My heart was pounding as I realized I had been catfished.” (07:15)

• Escalating Tensions:

  • Nick confronts her directly, gets angry when she's honest:

    “‘So now it’s my fault. Have a good night.’ He stormed off and I was crying as I rounded the corner...” (09:00)

  • The next day, she receives a long, accusatory text.

    “I wish you never met you.” (11:12)

  • He begins to incessantly call and text her at work.

• Stalking Incident:

  • After she blocks him, handprints are found on her car at night.

    “That’s when I saw something that made my stomach drop… two distinct handprints on the driver’s window.” (18:20)

  • Security footage shows a figure peering into her car and lurking.

    “He was pressed against the glass, just staring inside. He started to loop around the car and crouched down at a view of the camera.” (20:40)

  • Consolation from a colleague provides a moment of safety and support.

Notable Quotes

• “I smiled politely and did say thank you, but I was panicking internally.” (08:14)
• “I just blocked him. I didn’t hear anything after that. No calls, no blocked voicemails. I was incredibly shaken...” (16:46)
• “Thank God I had gone back for my water bottle. If I hadn’t, who knows what would have happened instead.” (21:40)

[Story 2: Domestic Violence, Loss, and Survival — "Simon the Monster"](23:57 – 32:55)

Summary

After becoming a single mother, the storyteller falls into an abusive relationship with a man named Simon. Simon is charming at first, but quickly reveals a violent, jealous nature—isolating her, assaulting her physically, and threatening her with knives. Unable to secure police intervention due to lack of evidence, her nightmare continues for two years until Simon escalates to murder, killing her mother in a fit of rage before hunting down the narrator, leaving her hospitalized and traumatized.

Key Discussion Points & Memorable Moments

• Manipulation & Isolation:

  • Simon brings other women home, claiming they’re his sisters, restricts her contact with others, and physically assaults her.

    “Red flag one, he would bring random girls into the house and claim they were his sisters. They weren’t. He didn’t have any sisters.” (25:13)

• Extreme Jealousy and Violence:

  “Simon glared at my brother, grabbed my arm so hard I thought it was going to break, and then said in the scariest voice ever, ‘I think I warned you about not bringing other men into my house.’” (25:55) “He started throwing things like knives and plates. I would miss them by inches. He even threw me off the bed while I was sleeping.” (26:39)

• Escalation and Systemic Failure:

  • Police fail to help due to lack of evidence.

    “I tried reporting him to the police, but they didn’t have enough evidence. This went on for two years.” (27:18)

• Climax—Murder of Her Mother:

  • After she escapes and hides at a friend’s, Simon murders her mother to find her.

    “He went to my mother’s house and beat her to death until he found out where I was.” (31:32)

  • She survives, but still struggles with trauma.

    “To this day, I’m still receiving therapy for the trauma, but I’m doing a little better now.” (32:35)

Notable Quotes

• “His breath was hot as hell. He started punching the shit out of me while saying, ‘you, you little bitch. How dare you cheat on me.’” (27:55)
• “‘My poor mother was one of his victims. To this day, I’m still receiving therapy for the trauma, but I’m doing a little better now. I just hope Simon gets what he deserves. And my mother, who helped me all throughout life. I hope you rest in peace.’” (32:35)

[Story 3: Workplace Affair Turns to Assault](34:53 – 42:32)

Summary

A 33-year-old woman, drawn to a 53-year-old colleague (“C”), begins a secret office romance. The relationship goes downhill—she discovers “C” is married after months of secrecy and ends things. He begins stalking her at work and sending threats. After she threatens to reveal the affair, she is attacked and sexually assaulted by “C” after their office Christmas party. She bravely reports him, leading to his arrest and imprisonment.

Key Discussion Points & Memorable Moments

• Secret Relationship Dynamics:

  “We were like this for about nine months when I found out by means that I can’t say that C was married. I knew that he had a kid, but not a wife.” (36:33)

• Stalking and Escalation:

  “He would show up on my floor and by my car. He kept trying to apologize and said that he would leave his wife to be with me.” (37:55)

• Sexual Assault and Survival:

  “Something that smelt of chemicals then covered my mouth. It was then that I was dragged into a dark room where I was pinned down over a desk…” (39:56) “When I woke up, my head was throbbing… there, leaning on one of the desks was C looking down at me. I went to scream, but my mouth was covered with duct tape…” (40:35) “‘You say anything about this and I’ll kill you,’ he said, slapping me before ripping the tape off.” (41:10)

• Aftermath and Justice:

  “C was charged, his wife left him and he’s now in jail. To those out there who are ever in a situation like that… please be careful out there.” (42:02)

Notable Quotes

• “There’s no reason for anyone to be treated and assaulted like that.” (42:15)

[Story 4: Scammed and Catfished on Grindr](44:42 – 47:12)

Summary

Leon, a 24-year-old gay man, ventures into online hookups for the first time via Grindr. He connects with an attractive “masseur” offering NSFW services for a fee, sends money, and, when asked for more, complies again. Sensing something off, he reverse image-searches the man’s photos and discovers he’s been scammed—his would-be hook-up is using stolen images from a Brazilian OnlyFans model.

Key Discussion Points & Memorable Moments

• Naïvety and Vulnerability:

  “I know, guys, I’m a moron for doing this and I sent the money. I was starting to have doubts on this… I just got scammed.” (46:10)

• Realization and Regret:

  “I then immediately blocked him on Grindr and on PayPal. I’m currently trying to get this resolved, but I honestly doubt I’ll get my money back.” (46:38)

• A Warning for Others:

  “Let this be a lesson to those who are desperate and don’t be me.” (47:07)

Notable Quotes

• “He said he was offering massages for hire, including more NSFW services. I decided to hire him and send him some money…” (44:58)
• “He ignored all of my messages just saying send it now…” (45:58)

Final Thoughts & Caution

Southern Cannibal concludes the episode by reminding listeners that while the search for love and connection is universal, caution is essential, especially when venturing into unfamiliar online territories or ignoring red flags in relationships. The stories serve as stark warnings of the real dangers lurking behind dating apps, secrecy, and manipulation.

“To those out there who are ever in a situation like that… don’t feel threatened. Don’t let yourself be gaslit or manipulated. There’s no reason for anyone to be treated and assaulted like that. Please be careful out there.” (42:12)

Episode Highlights by Timestamp

| Time | Segment / Story | |-----------|---------------------------------------------| | 00:01 | Content warning & start of Story 1 | | 07:15 | Catfishing reveal | | 18:20 | Handprints found on car | | 20:40 | Security footage—possible stalker | | 23:57 | Story 2: Simon the abuser begins | | 31:32 | Simon murders narrator’s mother | | 34:53 | Story 3: Office romance & escalation | | 39:56 | Assault during Christmas party | | 42:02 | Aftermath and warning to listeners | | 44:42 | Story 4: Grindr scam | | 46:38 | Realization and warning |

Tone and Language

Southern Cannibal’s narration is direct, empathetic, and unflinching, giving voice to the chilling experiences of listeners. The personal tone makes these stories especially impactful, emphasizing the urgency of awareness and self-protection in today’s dating world.

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