The Drop the Needle Podcast
Ep. 35 — Kat Jaibur | The Art of Intuitive Soul Whispering
Host: Jim Alstott | Guest: Kat Jaibur
Release Date: April 24, 2025

Episode Overview

This episode of The Drop the Needle Podcast explores the world of intuition, spiritual channeling, and personal transformation with Kat Jaibur, an intuitive coach, channel, and former advertising copywriter. Kat draws from over 35 years of metaphysical study to weave topics of soul guidance, the power of the authentic self, overcoming skepticism, and how music can shape our journeys. The conversation balances spiritual wisdom with relatable life stories and practical advice, inviting listeners to reevaluate their own intuitive gifts and the soundtrack of their lives.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

Kat’s Professional Journey & Awakening Intuitive Gifts

• Advertising Roots: Kat began her career in advertising and TV production (04:01), working as a copywriter and freelancer, guided by what she later realized was intuition.
  • “I sold them six concepts... That was probably my guides talking even then.” — Kat (04:43)
• On Intuition in Creative Professions: Despite being in a “snarky, skeptical” industry (16:45), Kat acknowledges her intuitive skills often solved problems instantly, even when others asked her to “make it look harder.”
• Near Death Experience (NDE): A pivotal event at 17, after being run over by a car twice, left Kat with zero broken bones and a changed perspective on life and spirit (08:50–11:01).
  • “I left my body… and it was beautiful… I heard myself say, ‘then you don’t get to finish.’” — Kat (09:29)
• Integrating Intuitive Gifts: While coaching started informally, Kat eventually trained as a professional coach, finally stepping away from advertising to trust her calling fully (14:43–16:23).
• Visibility and Vulnerability: It took years for Kat to feel safe and willing to be visible about her spiritual work (34:30).

Handling Skepticism and Embracing Authenticity

• Social Conditioning: Both host and guest highlight how unusual abilities are often dismissed due to fear or conditioning (12:23–13:23).
  • “They dismiss it if they're afraid of it. And it could be wonderful, and they don't understand it.” — Kat (13:34)
• Not Needing to Convince Skeptics: Kat asserts her mission is not to “bring skeptics across the bridge,” but to serve “open hearts, old souls” (18:04).
  • “If you don’t believe me, that’s okay. Run along.” — Kat (17:42)
• The Power in Relatability: Both host and guest stress the importance of being relatable, especially for those still skeptical but curious (31:23).
  • “If I just go get up there and go, ‘oh, life is wonderful without drinking,’ they're not going to believe me.” — Kat (33:19)

Intuition, Channeling, and Soul Purpose

• How the Channeling Works: Kat describes receiving pushy but soft messages from guides—“soul whispering”—which, when voiced, often deeply resonate with clients (22:49–23:45).
  • “I tell them stuff that they knew but didn’t know they knew.” — Kat (23:32)
• Soul’s Adventure Analogy: Kat uses white-water rafting as a metaphor for the soul’s desire for adventure, growth, and experiencing both challenge and joy (24:04).
• Why These Gifts?: On her “why,” Kat identifies as an old soul, eager to help others see their lives as destined for joy (25:53).
• Learning from Experience: Welcoming her intuitive gifts wasn’t instant; it took repeated hindsight and a willingness to delight in “magic and miracles” (21:04).

Recovery, Service, and Impact

• Alcoholism & Transformation: Kat shares her story as a recovering alcoholic of 38 years, emphasizing the power of honest testimony and speaking to those who need hope (33:07–34:16).
  • "When I speak from the podium, I am talking to my wise ass self sitting in the back of the room… but has like a tiny bit of hope that maybe I’m wrong.” — Kat (33:19)
• Vision for the Future: Kat envisions increased visibility—speaking, possibly starting her own podcast, and touching more lives (35:02–35:33).
• Encouragement to Others: Her mantra: “Be more you, have more joy.” Kat encourages others to trust their inner guidance and embrace their unique spirit (36:35).

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “The rules are different for you than they are for me? I always had that spirit that said, ‘you know, I am who I am.’” — Kat (08:23)
• “If you don’t like the song, change the channel.” — Joe McQuillen, cited by Jim (18:30)
• “I am not here to bring skeptics across the bridge…There are enough people who have open hearts.” — Kat (18:04)
• “It’s exhilarating to make—not make, to help—turn the lights on for somebody else.” — Kat (36:01)
• “I want people to feel safe, to be themselves, and to know that your spirit is big enough to protect you from the people that don’t want you to be yourself.” — Kat (36:58)
• “We're not supposed to be joyful every minute of every day, because that would be exhausting… But I do think we are meant for joy.” — Kat (37:49)

Music & the Soundtrack of Life (Pillar Three)

Segment Begins: 38:08

Musical Memories: Favorites, Soundtracks, and Healing

• First Song Kat Fell in Love With:
  • “My Cherie Amour” by Stevie Wonder (38:47)
• Family Roadtrip Songs:
  • No particular family song; their trips were timed for kids to sleep (39:13)
• Hype Songs:
  • “Brand New Day” by Sting (“Turn the clock to zero, honey… we're starting up a brand new day.”) (39:48)
  • “Beautiful Day” by U2 (referenced, though she meant the Sting song)
• Spiritual Uplift:
  • “Genesis” by Ricky Byers (“I’m here for my God to reveal what was said in the beginning.”) (40:31)
• High School/Survivor Anthem:
  • “Haven’t Got Time for the Pain” by Carly Simon, played by a DJ friend after Kat survived her accident (41:12–41:37)
• Current Song That Represents Her:
  • “Happy” by Pharrell Williams (41:52)
• Guilty Pleasure Song:
  • “Angel from Montgomery” by Bonnie Raitt—her “drunk and cry” song—“I go dark, too.” (42:31–42:38)
• Songs for Grief/Healing:
  • “Love Has No Pride” by Bonnie Raitt, played after loss of her dog (43:00)
• Music's Transformational Power:
  • “I Rest in Thee” by Ricky Byers (“My destiny has been fulfilled by you, oh God.”) — the song Kat believes could impact how people see the world (45:19)
• Song That Feels Written For Her:
  • Again, “Haven’t Got Time for the Pain” by Carly Simon (47:12–47:32)

Musical Reflections

• Kat expresses a holistic appreciation for music—“I don’t really have a lot of shame around music. I love all kinds of music.” (42:24)
• Music is characterized as both a mirror for personal struggle and a tool for healing.

Resources & Contact Info

• Website: KatJaibur.com (anticipated launch at episode air) (48:49)
• Social Media: Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn (49:12)
• Email: To be posted in show notes for those wishing to connect (49:17)

Timestamps for Key Segments

• 04:01 — Kat’s professional history & early intuition
• 08:50 — Near Death Experience: story & impact
• 14:43 — Embracing and validating intuition through coaching
• 18:04 — On skepticism & choosing her audience
• 22:49 — The process of channeling and “soul whispering”
• 33:07 — Recovery from alcoholism and using her journey for service
• 34:30 — Wanting greater visibility for her work
• 36:35 — Mantra: “Be more you, have more joy.”
• 38:08 — Music questions segment begins

Tone & Language

The episode blends warmth, humor, and earnest self-reflection, with Kat’s forthright yet compassionate approach balanced by Jim’s open-minded curiosity. Both share personal vulnerabilities that ground the conversation and invite listeners into deep self-exploration without judgment.

This summary captures the enriching dialogue and practical wisdom of Kat Jaibur’s journey and message, providing both spiritual seekers and the simply curious with resonant stories and actionable insights.