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Wake up, wake up, wake up. It's the flow show, no filter. Back for another crazy episode. Who we got in here? I see people coming in already. Before we get into this craziness, let me cover my thoughts. No Diddy. The thoughts, views and opinions shared on the flow show, no filter. For educational and entertainment purposes only. I am not a professional. I'm just good. Let's get this thing started.
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It's the flow show, baby.
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Giving you these thoughts, views and opinions. Making sure backsides covered. No Diddy. Shout out to the waking bakers and the coffee crew. From YouTube to Spotify. I love all my subscribers. Can't forget about the trolls in the comments. Comments. Thank you for putting extra eyes on the content. Yes, the flow show, no Filter. 8:30am Eastern Time, tap in. Yeah, it's the flow show, no Filter. 8:30am Eastern Time, tap in. Yes, the flow show, no Filter. 8:30am Eastern Time, tap in. Yes, the flow show, no Filter. 8:30am Eastern Time, tap in.
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Ah. What's going on, y'? All? Let's do a quick roll call before we get into all the craziness that been going on. What's up, Grandma Kathy? Enoch in the building. Much love. Who else we got here? Lazy baby. What up, Desi? What's going on? See Tuck, Elise. Renee. Who is it? Via linda. Oh, man. Oh, linda. I'm gonna just say linda. Linda. What's going on? Definitely a lot going on. Good morning, everybody. As we get going, Johnny Gonzalez, my boy. What's up, Johnny? Desi, what time is it where you are? If I'm not mistaken, it's night time where Desi is. Okay, thank you. Hold on for that. Renee. Thank you so much. Renee said she already sent a nice email to Kimberly Collins on your on my behalf. Thank you so much, Renee. Anybody else, if you put your. If you sent your email, let me know in the chat so I can thank you right now because I really, really, really, really appreciate it. Y' all got my back more than anybody, I'm telling y'.
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All.
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It's funny how something. Something could be so important to you and people who don't know you know it more than sometimes when people around you crazy. I really enjoyed those. Let I read somebody's letter. Who? Cc me. I can't remember who it was. Enoch sent the email. Thank you so much, Enoch. I didn't know. Enoch, I didn't know you were born in Africa. You know, I love Africa. Thank you so much, Enoch. Anybody else send a letter or anybody planning on doing it today? I seen a few of them were sent into my email. I guess I was cc'd on it. Good morning, Denise. Oh, shoot, it's halfway before. Oh, yeah, you at midnight. No, you don't have to forward it. I was just saying some people did. Renee. That's how. That's. That's how I know some people that sent it. But you don't have to or you can afford it if you want to. Because I may. I may take hard copies into court when I go. I may take hard copies in. Oh, Sherry. Okay, hold on. I'll tell you. Sherry, hold on one second. Let me get. See, Tuck up here, though. Wait a minute. See, Tuck you in here. Right? There you go.
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What up, Flow?
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What's going on?
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Not much.
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Take the hard copy, so. Yeah, I will. So everybody, if you can also just forward me a copy so I can take the hard copies into court with me. I appreciate it so much. Email Flow, Daddy. Flow at Gmail.
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Because I afford. I afford you over mine.
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Okay, Appreciate it. C. Tuck. Where Tracy at? Okay, so Sherry, I'm not gonna. I don't wanna. I'm gonna. I want to go too long into it. Sherry asked what the letter's about, basically. Let me go back. The letters are. I have guardians. I have a guardianship court hearing next week. And they basically are just like reference letters for me from people to the court or to the Kimberly lady who is the court investigator. Just speaking on my behalf about, you know, what type, what you think about me. You know, a situation with my son and just a letter of encouraging the court that, you know, for the really many reasons I will be a good guardian or just what I mean to you all. Or what you all mean to me. And just something. Any letter like that. Sherry, if anybody has the email where it can be sent to. Can they type it in the chat so I can show it on the stage? I. I can't get to it right now because I'm. I'm. I'm on my phone. I'm actually on the phone on this phone. So if anybody has the email to Kimberly, the one. The Kim, the one who we're sending the letters to, put it in the chat. And I Will. So I could put it up for everybody to see. Yeah, I emailed you back, Elise. I said that one was fine. Tracy needs to email also. Can somebody put the email in there? I wish I could. Wish I had it saved in here somehow. Let me see something. You got it, Sita.
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Yeah.
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See Tuck about to put it in the chat and then I'll put it on. On the big board. Good morning, Tracy. Okay, there you go. This is the email, guys. I appreciate all the letters and the more the merrier. So if you're listening to this show on Spotify, Apple or any of the other podcast platforms, the email where you can send a letter of. I don't know if it's letter of reference. Letter, character, reference. It is to the chorus regarding me getting guardianship of my son, Little Harold. Like I told you, both our names was Harold. He's Harold White. Tate. I'm Hero White. Just here a White. Okay. At least that's just in his. And you just send it to that email right here. And that's K. Collinskyahogacounty.gov K A C O L L I N S at C U Y a H O G A C O u n t y.gov thank you for the ones who already sent their letters. I greatly appreciate it. And the ones who still have are sending. I appreciate you guys too. Get those letters in there. We. We're gonna let them know that we're not playing around about little Harold.
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When here?
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It's April 2nd.
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April 2nd.
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Yep. April 2nd. So I think that's Thursday. Thursday. Okay. Yep. So Thursday. Everybody got it? Yep. So see, Tuck, man, what you. What you. What you've been saying what you would. What you. Yeah, that email address is something else. What? What you see what you've been seeing in the news, man? What you. Did you get any updates on that? On the shady gas?
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I mean, it was just the clear cut like that. They did the investigation and they said they found traces of water in the gas and, you know, water in your gas. That mess that could potentially mess. It ain't potentially. It's. It can mess up your engine.
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She texted ain't no potentially.
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Yeah. So that's. So they gonna. They definitely gonna have to answer about it though.
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Okay.
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There's definitely something in the works where they gonna have to ask about it.
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But you know what. What gas company that was. Or go with gas station.
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The Sunoco on 222nd.
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Damn.
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Yep.
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Wow. I never trusted that. So Noco either.
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Like, I ain't never really got gas. From there neither.
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Yeah. I never don't. It just don't.
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Right by the freeway.
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Yeah.
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But the only way. The only reason I skip past it, though, if I got that far and needed gas, because the free. The speedway right up underneath the bridge. Now I just use my fuel perks and get that little money off.
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Okay. Right past that water game.
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Yeah, for sure. So I wasn't even tripping about it. But that. That's crazy work because that gas station be smacking.
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Yeah.
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That know about it. That's still just getting gas. Like, just. Man.
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So y' all just. Just so y' all know, they putting water. The gas price so high. These gas. These gas stations trying to. Trying to make a killing like they are. Like. Like everybody else. All these other big companies. So be careful. Could be water in your gas and.
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No. And then just recently over. I think it was like the other day, the. They had the funeral for the girls.
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Oh, did they?
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Yeah, they had the funeral for the girls. And then like I talked. Like I told you, like, everybody was talking about the community. I'm like, one thing. Whatever people try to say about Cleveland, one thing about Cleveland, they gonna come together for a good call. A whole bunch of motorcycle clubs came out. The Jeep Club came out, A couple car clubs came out. And they. They really sent them babies off. Right. They gave him a proper send off.
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Oh, that's good to hear, man. That's real good to hear.
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They had. They had news coverage in there. It was beautiful.
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No, that's good to hear. If y' all didn't know, that's. Tell them. Give them a little breakdown. For those who don't know the story
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about the girls, about that, man. That was national news, man. Two little girls found found in the suitcases. Bodies decomposed and mutilated. And then their mama being held accountable for it.
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And this took place in Cleveland, y'.
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All. Right. In Cleveland.
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Sad, sad story. So she already been. Is she out of jail yet or.
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No, she's still in jail. Okay. They. They haven't. They saying what they charging with, but, like, the verdict hasn't come down yet.
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Okay. Okay. Damn, man. The news been crazy. What else we got going on? Did you. Did you see all the controversy about the Drew Ski man?
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He didn't get. Drew Ski. Wow, man.
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Drew Ski. Wow. Drew Ski got him going crazy. And it's crazy because it's a lot of people who love it. It's just a pocket of people who offended this man. They.
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And they issue air. But. And then Erica Kirk, she even Popped back and she was like, yeah, she was like, that's crazy because if. If it was me doing it, I would have been called a racist and got canceled.
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Right, right, right, right.
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I'm like, yeah, she. She kind of got a point. For real.
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She got a point. But it's crazy. Cause. But that's like, I'm. I'm. I'm. I'm gonna attack it from this angle. Oh, as far as the Erica Kirk, now, she had two options. Now this. And this is what people. To me, this is the people who. Extra preachy, preachy, churchy, churchy. Now that wasn't an extra. That wasn't a churchy, churchy answer. You know what I mean? Like, you, You, You. That. That's a. Yeah, you know that don't go in line. So it's. It's like with people like, that is always. That's why I really, like, don't really like when people try to be extra extra because I feel like they somewhat even clout chasing on the church side. Because, I mean, you just use it when it's convenient. Because she could have easily. She would have got a lot of points had she said, or she been like, oh, that was funny or whatever, or just. Just was above it or just gave it some grace. You know what I mean? Cause it ain't like he, like, he didn't super, like, disrespect her or nothing or say nothing about her or even go too hard. Like he just kind of loosely said some stuff she said, but she. She took it, made it right political, like she poured gas on it. That's all I'm saying. Like, it's two ways she could have took it where it might have just kind of killed it, or she. She came with an answer that could get the people who don't like it even more enraged. And she took. She took. She. She. She chose to pour gas on it. So, yeah, you know, it is what it is. Juicy. A comedian. Like, I always say one thing about it.
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Comedians, oh, no, be funny. And they got it. But one thing about comedians, like, whatever, yo, you trying to be funny about it, you got to stand on whatever with it. That, yeah, the only thing about it you got. There's some comedians that'll just go out the way just to get a laugh, and they don't know no boundaries or no. No limits to it, and they can escalate to something different. So, I mean, but like, you know, Joe, like you said, he a comedian. He do jokes. Yeah, it was. It was funny.
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It's Just jokes. And I do want to touch on, because I, I do hear people and, and, and I think a lot of people need to hear this. The, the, the, the. The where she says, if I was to do blackface, I would get canceled this and that. It's true. But if we're being honest and we're all being adults, there's a reason for that. You know, the history matters. What this country, what has gone on in this country matters. You know what I mean? So it's a reason why if a white person does blackface, they get canceled. Because the history of blackface was made to literally. It wasn't just a joke. It was to degrade us even more than we were being degraded. And we coming from slavery, we coming from segregation, we coming from all of that. So it's a bit disingenuous when somebody just says. Or if I do, it is because it's not the same. First of all, we minorities. Minorities are who have been oppressed and all that are going to get the benefit of the doubt. You know, that's why we could make a movie about, say, white man can't jump or stuff like that. And it's no big outrage. It's like, at the end of the day, the, the white. White. White people in general have been in a position of power since we've been over this country, and they've been the majority. That's just like anywhere you go, you gonna cut the minorities who've been through some shit some slack. I ain't saying, you know, people don't have a right to be offended, but I just think that when people just try to make it like it's apples to apples, it's just not. It's just we just not being real. You know what I'm saying? Like, it's a reason why if another person, if a white person do blackface is a big thing, or if a white person say the N word, it's a big thing. But if a black person say the N word, it's a reason for all that and come up with this country. It just is what it is. And I only speaking on that because I think that. I just hate when people make that point because it's like, just be honest. You know, let's. Let's look at the history, this and that. It's not just as simple as saying, oh, if I do it, then I'm gonna get canceled. So that's wrong. No, it's just that the history matters and, and it's well established what we can do. And can't do. See it as where black people and Latino and all the other, other minorities have went through in this country. And it's so horrific. I don't even want to go into detail. We all know, you know what I'm saying? I don't even want to talk about it in detail. But we all know. So if you, if, if a certain group of people can't say or do blackface, I think that's a small price to pay compared to where what happened and why it's such a big deal. So that's my take, you know what I mean?
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The only thing I, only problem I got about it is I'm tired of having to put on wigs and dresses just to try to be funny. I'm with you on that, man.
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Like, I'm with you on that.
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I'm tired of that.
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I'm with you on that.
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Especially black men. Why the you got to put on a wig and a dress or anything feminine or women related just to try to get. No, that's.
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Come on man, I'm 100 with you on that. I, I don't like, I don't like it either.
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Being straightforward, putting on heels and like.
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No, bro, it's so much funny. There's so many funny things you can do.
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Yeah, just, just try to be for night. No offense to anybody who lives that lifestyle. If that's the lifestyle you live, embrace the life that you live and do what you do. I'm talking about the actual people who on a day to day basis don't portray themselves in that image. Those are that I'm referring to just to clear it up.
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Right, right, right, right, right, right. Yeah, no, I'm with you on that. I don't like that. I don't like the dresses and all that either. And like I said now at the end of the day, anybody got a right to be offended. I mean, ain't. No, I ain't gonna take that right from nobody. Erica Kirk, she could feel offended. Like that's. You know what I'm saying. Just because it's comedy don't mean everybody gotta laugh, you know what I'm saying? So at the same time, I don't, I don't get mad or, or think she wrong for being offended or whatever I just said, you know, she had two options. She could have went with her, her reply to it if she, she would have won a lot of people over had she just laughed it off. Just period. Cause a lot of people have issues with her, just how she's Been acting ever since her husband is out of here. I'm not a big Charlie Kirk. Like I don't follow that. So I can't speak too much on that whole story. I didn't follow Charlie Kirk like that.
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He been moving shaky.
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Yeah. And a lot of people have been
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saying a lot of little back though behind the scenes type.
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Yeah.
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And then a lot of there's like legacy tarnishing for Dog and he. A lot of stuff he wouldn't even did if he was still here.
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Right, right. Okay. So you've been keeping up with it a little bit?
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Oh, yeah, yeah, for sure.
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Yeah. I just know I've been seeing people saying like just that dang, like how she been carrying herself ever since then and been real like performative and kind of clout chasing. Like I said, I ain't really followed it. So I'm just saying what I've been like, kind of seeing people say on social media and I've been seeing a lot of people say that. Like on my post I'll see comments saying like, well, she been selling, you know, just doing a lot like that. Like that just don't look good.
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Candace Owens did. She did like a whole series about it.
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Okay.
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Like, like I had listened to. I'm thinking, I think I'm either finished. No, I'm on the eighth episode of it.
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Okay.
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Yeah. She'd be doing just been doing like little deep dives and stuff like that. And just like different stuff that she been saying have been kind of contradicting the stuff that she had already been said.
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Okay.
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Like comparing notes and all types. She. She go deep about it.
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Okay. Okay. Yeah. Well, definitely. Well, one thing about it, every comedian we ever had basically has had moments where they offended people and they got. That's what they got to deal with. That's what come with their profession. You know what I'm saying? Like you said, you got to stand on it. Right or wrong. However, you know, even I forgot because I was thinking I was like, well, the one comedian I could think of that didn't offend anybody was Kevin Hart. But then I forgot about what it was. He hosted the Oscars or something. Somebody reminded me. I forgot when he hosted, I think it was the Oscars or one of those shows. He did offend a lot of people, like to the point where I don't even know if he was able to come back or if he just didn't want to go back. But even him. And he bought as cheesy as they come. He had moments where he Offended people. So I mean, that just kind of come with the territory. It's like when you're a comedian, you gotta toe that line. And sometimes you might go over that line cause you trying to toe the line, but if you don't get close to that line, you won't really be a big comedian. Let's look at him. Dave. Dave Chappelle. Has he offended people?
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Hell yeah.
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All right. Chris Rock has offended people.
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Yeah, he got the slapped out of him too.
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Even Jerry Seinfeld has offended people. I remember certain episodes of his shows would just get. Be controversial. Hell, and I wouldn't even know why. But you just never know how you, you know, how you going to offend somebody. Like I said, you could just name them every, every big Richard Pryor, Eddie Murphy, just all of them. It just comes with the territory. It's like, it's like, it's kind of like. To be honest, I wouldn't really want to be a comedian.
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Yeah.
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I wouldn't want to be one because it's too, it's too like, like you can't be really successful unless you really toe in that line. You know what I'm saying? And I mean, give it up to them.
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It's a difference between being a regular person. It's like, it's certain. It's a lot of stuff that used to say back in the day that you can't. You so so called restricted or censored from saying up. So it's like it's the same. Same thing. They just, it's just, they just more so on that plat. On the platform of that they center stage with this.
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Yeah. And that's literally how they make they living. Like, literally.
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Yeah.
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You know, you, you can't be. I mean, because I'm even. Like I said, I'm. I really was racking my brains trying to think of like comedians who, who didn't offend nobody. Even Bill Cosby at the end of the day. And he had the most cheesiest jello pudding pop comedian ever as far as his comedy. He even offended folks at times. He offended black folks. You know, he offended his own people plenty of times. So like I said, it just comes with the territory. But Drew Ski, like, and I, and, and I'm gonna just say this like you said about. How you said like the restrictions and the censorship get tighter. Tighter in so many words you said. Yeah, but everybody, I'm the, the thing that Drew Ski is because I've noticed because Drew Ski didn't. He didn't start Up. I mean, he. He was doing, like, kind of regular skits, and then he started diving into, like, the controversial ones.
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Yeah.
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And I just hope that he don't go too far on one of these. You know what I mean? Like, and I'm sure. I'm hope. I'm sure he's smart enough not to. But I'm starting to see, like, a pattern. Like, he, like. Oh, this is my thing, you know, he did the. He did the, like, hillbilly one. You remember that one? And that was real controversial. That was similar to this one where they were like. That's like white face or whatever, you know? But then he did the one about the church.
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Yeah.
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Which I ain't mad at none of them.
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Yeah. Tight about that.
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Yeah, he had the pastor's tight, and, like, I wasn't mad about that one. And then now he got this one, and I think he had another one that was kind of, like, controversial. And it's like, now it's like, it seemed like that's the only kind he making now. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. You notice that?
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Or so just skit comedy.
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Yeah. But in going super, like, racial or
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more so geared towards current events. I'll say that. More so geared towards that or not even just, like I say, current events and societal stigmas and stuff like that.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah. So, yeah, I'm hoping. I'm hoping he don't go too far. He probably won't. But I've been following Drew Ski for a while, so I've seen the transition of straight, like, controversy. You know what I'm saying? And he saw, like, many people see controversy sales.
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Yeah.
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So it's just a dangerous line because we live in a. In a. In a. In an era where you could do the wrong one, it really can be canceled kind of. You know what I mean? Kind of like the Baby a rapper. I don't know if y' all know who the baby is, but he told the story himself. He not a comedian. But this is an example of going too far and it costing you. Dababy was getting 3. $300,000 per show. He was making. He was making. Listen to your. Listen to this, guys and gals. The Baby A rapper was making $300,000 per show. One show. He went into some rant with, like, a homophobic rant or something. Something like that. Right, C. Tuck?
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Yeah.
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Yeah. He went into, like, a homophobic red. Talk about gays. And it dropped his price all the way down to 30,000 overnight. Imagine you getting paid 300000 per show and overnight because of a 2 minute rent you get dropped to 30 000. And not only that, not only did it drop to 30 000, but it was like a lot of people wouldn't even book them. A lot of people took shows he
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had got canceled just based off of his opinion on something.
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Yep. And he never recovered. He doing his thing now, but it's, it's the numbers.
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He bounced back now, especially with this, this new album that he dropped. He, he ain't he back in the stadiums and so he, he, he didn't bounce back. It took him a minute though, a
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long time and he ain't getting 300.
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I wouldn't even say he, he, he had to just pivot a little bit. It didn't really, he wasn't really just main more so mainstream. That attention went away. He still was rocking and rolling and stuff. You just, he just was appealing more so to his core fan base for, for a long time instead of main, instead of the mainstream spotlight.
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Yeah, but I'll just. So yeah, y' all just using that example of. In this world in which, which I see one thing about it, he ain't. Drew Ski ain't offended. That, that, that crowd. And now that's where you, you know, that's what the baby learned you, that crowd, you get canceled quicker than anything. So that's what I'm saying. I hope Drew Ski don't get so far, don't get so caught up in just focusing on doing controversy. I think he should mix some regular stuff in there. Like even Dave Chappelle, he had controversial skits, but then he had just regular funny skits. That ain't, that ain't. That wasn't controversial. It just was good funny stuff. You know what I mean? And I hope like I said, it just lately it just seemed like Juice keeping focusing on that. So we'll see. Like I said, I've been following them for a long time, so.
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And I knew, I kind of knew that this type stuff was about to start happening with him. Once I seen Dog on like The T mobile, 2T mobile and Sprite commercials and I'm like, yeah, he about to eat. He trying. He about to make that jump.
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Once you seen them on what like
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on the little T Mobile commercials and stuff, I'm like, yeah, he about to, he about to make that jump.
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Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh you see? Yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure, for sure.
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But even like some interviews I'd have seen with him, he, he like, he just Said he wanted like more, he wanted more movie roles and stuff like that. Okay, so a lot of that, A lot of that probably gonna get him into the, to that little, that little Kevin Hart type plateau. For real.
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Yeah, he. He definitely blowing up. He definitely bought. He might be. He probably the hottest comedian right now.
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C
One of them for sure.
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A
Yeah. Yeah. Cause I don't know who hotter than him. Right, Right. Like at this very moment, the ones
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C
that the, all the, like the other, they all they, they just, they tour around the country. They get that, that tour money.
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A
Who you talking about?
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C
Like all, like Mojo and all them, they just, they go. They just hit the road a lot of the time. They had little specials and stuff, but they ain't. And they do like little social media skits and stuff like that. But they mostly get their money on them. Like Carlos Miller. All them, they get, they, they hit the road with.
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A
Somebody said, I watched Candace, so, so I have some kind of thoughts about her.
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C
Oh, you're talking about Erica Kirk. Yeah, yeah.
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A
And somebody said something I didn't know about. She made. Oh this. Tracy said she made a video one time where someone asked her how she feels about all the people talking bad about her and her husband and what they do. She told them and I quote, bring it on.
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C
Yeah, yeah.
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A
That's the kind of energy when you, when you, when you, when you put stuff like that out. I mean, get what you asked for sometime, man.
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C
One thing was funny, them facial expressions though, that, that because she do be making her face up like, man, why is he looking like that? Be changing this. Like what the. Like what you got going on?
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A
Right? Good morning, Siri. One of our long time members and subscribers and supporters, y' all is in the building. Everybody say good morning to Siri. Haven't seen her in a while. But it's always great when we do get to see you. Siri. Everybody been making letters of recommendation. I have, I have a guardianship court hearing next week. So everybody, I don't know if you saw if you caught the last episode, but everybody in the community community has been sending emails on my behalf. My son name is Harold. Of course my name is Harold. So you can dress it as Harold. If you want to send me an email to the court, I got the email address is at the beginning of this RC Tech. If you could put it in one more time because it won't let me go all the way back. You can put it in for Surrey. Oh, I'm sure. Sorry. I have a. Sorry to put a good one together. For your boy. Here it is sir, if you get a chance. That's the email. You know my. I'm sure from the episodes. You know my son. We've been. We've been. We've been battling this mental health thing and I need. I feel like I need and I know it is pretty. I know that I need guardianship to. To get him over the hump so I could kind of put a little. Have a little more control of. Of getting them. Getting them the help you need and stuff like that. So Siri, if you can tell the course to give me guardianship so they don't try to play me and let them know that we are a community. We standing behind my. Me and my son and everything like that. I appreciate it. What else we got? Steve Tuck. So did you hear anything about the power grid being knocked out?
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C
I ain't here.
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A
Well I. I mean for around my fault. I should have cleared up too Iran something about their powers, something.
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C
No. Trump said he was going to attack their power grid if they okay up the. The what's name was that okay Hormones. Even if he do that, that's still gonna up over here.
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A
Okay. For real?
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C
Yeah. So it's like I don't understand. I ran and released this little video man where they got like the. They shoot off this missile that flying through different countries. You got people like looking up at the sky and then they finally go through the clouds and come through New York and they hit the Statue of Liberty. But the Statue of Liberty ain't like Lady Liberty. It's like the little goat little figure or whatever for real. And it blow it up and then at the end of it it's a one vengeance for all.
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A
Damn man.
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C
Like that is wild
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A
man. I ran. It's like after all this they still talking like they they. They still going in, huh?
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C
They not playing. They. They is not playing. And I don't know why. Why Trump play. They raised the enlistment ages. Now you can be 40. What they they raised it up to 42 so you can be 42 and listen to the army. Damn,
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A
that's great. What they want with a 42 year
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C
old everybody y' all sending them over there for so we can have ten dollar gas prices right. Let pull puppet strings and then up the economy. That's. That was already up and flawed to begin with.
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A
That's crazy. Shout out to Black Rose has been a member for four months. We appreciate it. Morning fam. I'm late. We'll be part of Replay Crew. Been listening for a minute. On Spotify.
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C
But.
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A
But switch to live. Okay. Converted you. We converted you to a live. Live show member. I appreciate it. Black roses. Yeah. So that. Man, the war. The war is crazy. The war is crazy. Somebody lazy baby said you could also have a drug offense and. And be enlisted. Yeah, they.
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C
They took the weed out. They said, yeah, you can. You smoke them? You good. Come on with it. It's like, man, they. I don't know all them. Like I said, all the. That's riding around, plaguing and terrorizing their neighborhoods, wanting to shoot. Shoot people. Houses up and go ahead over there and shoot some up.
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A
What. Oh, you talking about over there?
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C
Yeah, yeah.
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A
Man, will you see this ending anytime soon? The war?
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C
No, no, they had to stop it completely. And even then they were talking about. All right, Trump over there talking about Iran wasn't playing ball with negotiations. But the. That he offered them was up to where it was like, if I was the Iran, I would have walked away, too.
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A
Yeah.
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C
Because it was just gonna make us. Make us put them in the. In the foot on their neck type situation instead of really working with them.
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A
Yeah, I get that.
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C
You gotta. You gotta. You gotta give something to get something. You can't just take. Take that. Ain't no conducive relationship.
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A
Nah, not at all. Not at all. So we got some. So, so, so that ain't that. That's. We still in. In limbo or, I don't know, standstill or whatever when it comes to the war. 50 Cent donated. Kept his word and donated $500,000 from the Diddy documentary. Proceeds or profits to somewhere. Somebody in. Hold on, let me see what he did. Did y' all hear that?
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C
No, I ain't hear that.
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A
Okay, 50 cents. Makes good on his promise, donates $500,000 to Shriver for nonprofits. And one of the nonprofits was domestic violence survivors, so. So 50 Cent is just really just. Just killing it right now. Especially with it come to him. And Diddy, he done. He done made a documentary and then not donated hundreds of thousands of dollars to non profits in Shreveport. Like I said, including domestic violence survivors. That's pretty good cause.
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C
Yep.
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A
Go 50.
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C
No, no, that's dope. You can't. You can't. Can't do nothing but applaud that.
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A
And he said he was gonna do it, and he did it. What is his. Meanwhile. Did he. Trying to get his ass out. He know these state charges coming down the pike.
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C
Yeah.
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A
And he tried to get. He. He. That's what I said. He putting everything into this Appeal, then
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C
state charges coming down the pipe. Not. Not the way he liked neither.
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A
No. Diddy. Yeah, Diddy. Diddy getting dog walked by. 50. 50. 50 killing them. 50 killing them. Did you see little. Little Diddy house was broke, broken into or something? Did you see that? Oh, you ain't see that?
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C
No.
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A
Put a one in the chat. We're gonna talk about that. Put a 1 in the chat. I might have to go to my phone to. To discuss it. I didn't know. You ain't know that. Can you pull it up?
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C
Which Little Diddy. I don't even know where you see it at.
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A
Christian Combs. It's a. It's a major story. Either TMZ or if you just put it in Yahoo, it'll come up. Christian Combs. Home burglarized. Who broke into Diddy's home? They trying to. What was they looking for? What did they take? These are all the questions we have. Okay, Sir? I'm telling you, man, ain't nothing like having a good. A good. A good bunch of good people around you. A good community like we got, man. Cause it really make you be like, okay, this. How we supposed to be down for each other? Like, it's important to me. It's important to y'. All. If it's important to y', all, it's important to me. A lot of times people just make what. Like, what they feel is important. Like,
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C
and.
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And instead of focusing on what you feel is important when it come to you. And y' all ain't like that. Y'.
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C
All.
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A
Y'.
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C
All.
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Y' all know how I feel about my son. Y' all know how important it is to me. And y' all standing ten toes with me, sending in letters. I. Like, I told you I could never be. I could never be down. I could never be upset. I had a time period where the stuff of my son really had me in a funk for a while. Just. Just dealing with it, because I just never dealt with nothing like that before. Now, my. Not out of my child. Your child is different than anything, you know what I'm saying? I rather have stress and pressure on me. I could deal with that. But dealing with something, trying to help my child, it was. It really shook me. But I got over it. I got a plan, and I feel great.
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C
So what exactly would the guardianship do? Because he 18, right?
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A
Yeah. That's why I need guardianship.
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C
Yeah. So what, like, explain. What is that exactly?
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A
All right. Guardianship is just basically, you know, what you can do. How is your. How's your kid?
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C
My oldest about to be nine and my youngest about to be six.
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A
Okay, so your, your oldest nine. You know how you can do everything for your nine year old? You could go, you could call, you could get medication, you could do this, you could do that. If your 9 year old was to run away, they gonna make your nine year old come back home. All of that. That's what it do. Whereas if you 18, none of that apply. Like I, I can't even find out nothing about what he got going on medically or whatever without him, I can't make no appointments. If he do run away or have any issue and the police can't do nothing at all. You know what I'm saying?
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C
Technically grown.
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A
Exactly. So when you trying to help a child that's technically grown but still not ready for the world, you in a hard, it's a tight position because you don't have no power. Yeah, you don't have no power. Like I said, if you, if, if the child run away or want to run away. And even if you out there with the police, you, your child and the police, if you got a power of attorney, he gotta go home. You don't have a, if he grow, if you don't have a power of attorney, the police just say, I can't do nothing about it. And you just gotta go about your business and your child can go wherever they fuck they want to go. And so even down to making appointments for a therapist or a psychiatrist, you can't make it. You can't make the appointment. You can't get like evaluation sent up. You can't do nothing.
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C
Because by him being 18, they do, yeah, he grow.
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A
It's like by law you can't, you know, once you grow, okay, nobody get all in your medical records and do this and do that. So like I said, so the main things for me, what I, where I see it, it helps or where it's needed is because of like making appointments and stuff like that and following up and knowing what the hell going on, you know. Cause you, Even if, at 18, if he had appointments, if, even if he do go, you don't know what happened, what you know, you can't, you just an outsider looking in. And then sometimes when they have an episode, which it wasn't a huge problem with me, but sometimes with his mother it was more of a problem with him leaving or doing stuff like that more with her. Like I said, he could just do whatever you go and do whatever he want. Even if you get the police involved, it's like, if he grown, you have no control. Yeah. So that's where. That's basically the whole point of it. And once you know he's smart, you know, kids are smart. So you gonna move different when you know you got. When you can just do whatever versus when, you know the repercussions is like, they gonna make you come back home. You know what I'm saying? They're gonna make you do this or that because I, you know, somebody else has guardianship, so that. That will make you even move different.
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C
Well, he want to move out or something. Well, here, go get a spot.
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A
I don't know if you. Man, mental health, you ain't even to that point.
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C
No, I'm. I know. I'm knowing. I'm knowing about mental health, but, like, you can, like. I don't. I don't know.
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A
That's what I'm trying to tell you. Ain't even. You talking about get a spot, bro. You. When you're going through this mental health thing, you just trying to get into a routine in life, bro. You gotta break.
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C
I don't know the exact mental health that he dealing with. So I'm just speaking about, just in general.
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A
Yeah, yeah.
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C
No, this situation, I don't know the exact diagnosis, so.
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A
Right.
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C
Yeah. So I'm. Yeah, but.
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A
Yeah, no, that ain't. That would be simple. It ain't. I wish I wouldn't be. If that was the case, I wouldn't
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C
even be getting cardiac stepping in like that. Right.
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A
Yeah, yeah. No, if we was to that point. But, yeah, so it's just basically that, man. And that's the whole reason. Those. Those reasons I showed you and dealing with it. Those. You know, the reason why I know is because if a certain issues would come up, that would be my hurdle. You know what I'm saying? And people was telling me. People who have dealt with this told me that. But I'm thinking like, you. I'm trying to go that route. And then I finally realized, no, we gotta break this thing down to the studs.
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C
He gonna get. He gonna get through it, though.
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A
Yeah, yeah. Cause he. Overall, he good. It's not like he. He very smart. He himself, he just had those moments, you know what I'm saying? Like. Like, if you was to meet him or both people meet him, you don't know nothing. You wouldn't think nothing.
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C
I mean, you wouldn't think everybody had them moments, but some people just go through it differently. And he's just going through it differently than everybody else. Yeah, he. As long as he got the support system that he got, he, he gonna be good.
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A
Yeah, I strongly believe that. Yeah, I'm not even worried. I just like I said this was a route, that this was the last resort route. Like I didn't want to have to go this route because he. Cuz he is 90% cool, you know what I'm saying? So I was, I didn't want to have to go this route, but it will be better because then it's also like it's certain benefits and a lot of stuff that, that can really help him that I could just get for him and get it. He ain't gonna do it himself, you know what I mean? So it's like, it's all of that, you know what I mean, where I could just get him in position if I got control to just do it. Versus like I said, once you grow, you can't do nothing that he gotta do it. And he 18, he don't know nothing about doing that type of stuff for real. So like I said no, but I, I appreciate the words and I do believe that like I know, like I said, I know he gonna be good. That's why I want to do it though, because I know how to.
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C
It's basically to help them navigate it.
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A
To help him navigate it. Yeah, yeah. It's like, it's like right now he need to be like 16, not 18 and I can get him back up to speed, you know what I mean? Like easily. So like I said, it's a good thing. He good, he's smart. Like I said, just like anybody else. Like I said, if you met him or you around, you won't know nothing at all wrong with him at all, you know what I'm saying? You would think he just cool, so he definitely straight and then it's like, I think it's a little tough on a woman, you know, his mother, you know, he grown ass man big as me, you know what I'm saying? So he's big dude, you know, you know how it is all of us, you know, once we get to that age where we. Because he still feel like he knows. So that's the thing, you know what I'm saying? So he ain't trying to listen to moms all like that. I wasn't either though at that age, you know, I love my mom. But once I became 18, 19, I kind of started doing my thing, you know.
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C
Yeah, I did.
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A
You did too. I can imagine a little sea tuck doing his thing.
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C
I moved out the house when I was 18.
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A
Okay.
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C
Yeah, I already. I had my own spot. I was working at Key Bank.
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A
All type, oh, hey, you got up through.
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C
I did a year year in Central State. Came home for the summer.
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A
Okay.
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C
He think job was seasonal. And then at the end to see today. Are you going back? I'm like, shoot. I'm like, if I ain't have a reason, if I got a reason not to, I. I won't. Well, we want to offer you the position. I'm like, well, you gave me a reason not to. I'm like, because. Because I was going to school for accounting and business management. I'm like, I'm working where I can learn this firsthand.
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A
Yeah, no, I. I could imagine. I already know. See Tech. That you. You was. You probably Dan. It was a manager, 18,
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C
man. Oh, yeah, I was. I was. Shoot. But yeah, I was moving, man. I was. I was staying out of Richmond. Had a Monte Carlo. All type.
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A
You were. Okay. So, yeah, man. My son the same way. That's the thing. He has on car. He want to have his own spot. He wanted to do that. He is on me, so he got a lot of me in him. He want to do his own thing. He just ain't ready right now. You know what I'm saying? And I want to get him ready, but that's like the conflict to him. Like, he's not mentally ready, but in him is me. So he'll take off and want to go get his own spot and everything. And his own. He already have his own car. When he was 16, you know what I mean? He saved up me and him, went half on his car. And so when he don't like what's going on at the home and, you know, it's different sometimes with the moms. Like, with me, he didn't take off because it's kind of like, you know, when you man a man, you kind of know how to handle. But when it's man and woman, sometimes, you know, especially you, you becoming a man and your head in your head and your mom trying to tell you X, Y, and Z, you just be like, I'm out of here, you know, Especially if you.
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C
That's kind of how it wasn't like that. Because, like, she Even now, like, I don't even cuss around my mama, like, she gonna pop me in my mouth, right? But he's had that level of respect for my mama where I wasn't really like that. The purpose of me moving out is because I knew I was. I'm in my early stages of adulthood. And I knew I was progressing into manhood, right? I'm about to be going out, enjoying my little taste of the nightlife and all that type stuff. I'm not about to disrespect this woman. And I know her. I didn't know since I was a kid, you better not come in this house late at night. So I'm. If I know I plan on being out 2, 3 o' clock in the morning. I'm not about to disrespect my mama and keep coming in and out of her house like that. And then my little brother's seeing that, thinking, that, that cool. No, I'm gonna move out, get my own where I can come in and out as I please and I ain't got to worry about it.
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A
Right, right, right, right.
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C
And then, like, I wouldn't. I ain't never been like, finances ain't really been like an area of trouble for. I knew how to balance the checkbook since I was seven years old.
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A
Okay, so who taught you?
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C
My mama.
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A
Okay.
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C
Like, my pops wasn't there for he. He was in jail for the majority. Like, see, he. When he got out, I was 27. Okay, so, like, he. So it was always my mama, like, she. It was a. They used to. I don't know what it is now, but in Buckeye Plaza, it was called Finest. The grocery store, she used to.
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A
Yeah, I remember Finest.
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C
Yeah, she worked there, Pig. She worked there in Cleveland State before she got the job at the post office.
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A
Okay.
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C
She asked. She actually about to retire next year from the post office.
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A
Okay. What she did at Cleveland State, she
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C
was in the admissions office.
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A
I might have seen your mom then. I don't know what years she was there, but I was at Cleveland state. Oh, early 90s. Yeah, I was there late 90s.
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C
Yeah, she was in the early 90s because she started. She was already working at the post office, I think, like 95, 96.
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A
Okay.
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C
Yeah, like 95, 96.
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A
Okay.
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C
So, yeah. So like, I remember, like when my granny would be picking her up from the job, she get in the back seat with me. Okay, look, this is how you do. This is how much I started with for the day. This is what I spent, blah, blah, blah. This is what I ended up with. Just breaking it down to where I got online bank. And I utilize that, but I still got a calculator or something and I just deduct what I didn't spent for the day. That way I know what should be in my account. And if there's any discrepancy I got to go look for that and compare notes.
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A
Got you, Got you. That's what's up, man. Well, shout out to your mom.
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C
Oh, yeah, that's. That's. That's my dog.
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A
Yeah, that's what's up. That's good. Good, good stuff. Creepy little beach kind of explained what I was kind of saying. She was like, you know, like, if I see my son sliding mentally, I'll be able to call the therapist and discuss the situation where I can make decisions in case to get him back on the right track on his mental path without God, without guardianship. I can't do that. Like, the therapist won't tell me nothing. They. Then they're not allowed to. You know what I'm saying? So that, that, that definitely comes into play a lot of times, but. Yeah, man.
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C
But one thing for sure, like, what I did, I even read this thing where you. When you. When you.
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A
You gotta.
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C
Can't. Like, the way we was raised, you can't, like, you can bring a lot of the morals and stuff until, like, the newer generation, you gotta appeal to that generation when you're doing it. Like, I can't raise my kids the same way I got raised.
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A
Exactly. That's true.
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C
They must dance and stuff. That's so true. Like, technological. Technological advances and things like that to where I got most stuff to worry about, where I got passwords and stuff. I have to become fluent in a lot more stuff to where a lot of shit was still being done on paper when I was a kid. They don't even teach cursive as a curriculum in school no more.
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A
They don't teach you that no more.
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C
They don't teach cursive.
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A
I ain't know that.
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C
I had to. We show, like, we had to show my babies about cursive and.
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A
Wow. So they just did it. Cursive.
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C
Yeah. So it's like. So then, like. And then they, like, It's a different generation.
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A
Yeah. Yep, it is.
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C
So you. So you don't want to. You don't like. And then at the same time, if it's somebody, like, you don't want to seem like it's overbearing to where, like, they feel like you don't trust them or like, you feel like, like, damn, like, I know how to do it. Like, why is you. You don't want that report because you still want them to. Like, even with my kids, even with them being nine, like eight and five, I still, like, let them know, like, okay, look, I got you if you need. I'm gonna let you do such. But if you need me, I'm here just to get that comfortability where it ain't like I'm just hovering over their shoulder, oh, what you doing? Like, just like. Just like, still, like. Like being that parent, but still respecting them as a person because they are growing into their own sales as an individual.
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A
Yeah. Yeah.
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C
And that do. That do mean a lot, because I know it had been periods of time when I was a kid where it was them just do some shit. Cause I said so type moment when I really had an opinion about something. If you would have heard me out, that might have swayed your decision.
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A
True. Definitely. Definitely a different generation. You definitely can't raise them the way we was raised. It definitely is very different. I noticed that. I noticed that things that. Like my uncles and my dad did to me.
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C
You feel me.
- [62:08]
A
That don't resonate with this new. With the. You got to do a different approach for sure. I definitely noticed that. Elise said, how does King feel about this? I'm gonna be honest. King don't think he need. King think he all right. Like, he don't think he need no help.
- [62:24]
C
No.
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A
That's how he feels.
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C
Yo, y', all. I'm pretty sure y' all to sat him down and explained to why he need.
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A
Oh, hell yeah. But, you know, see that. That's part of it. That's what's so tricky about it, because you not You. You. You not your. Your ability to make sound decisions is kind of taken away from you when you got that mental health going on. So it's like. So it's like you can't make. You. You. You think you don't need help because you. You ain't even making sound decisions where, like, it's obvious like you do, but it's telling you you don't.
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C
Yeah.
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A
You know what I'm saying? And that's with the whole. That's really why it's so tricky, because the pro. The whole problem stems or what it causes is it affects your decision making.
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C
Yeah.
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A
So how you gonna help yourself when your decision making is
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C
the help that you need?
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A
You feel what I'm saying? That's the whole trickiness about it. It's like you can't help yourself. You got. You need. That's why. Even if you watch one good thing is when Gucci Mane his. When his. Because a lot of people could relate to him. He a rapper went through mental health. But if he had an interview, I think it was on Breakfast Club or one of those. And his wife she was explaining everything like it was.
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C
He had had to kidnap him and like that.
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A
Yeah, just all type of stuff and because like I told you, it's like the own. And it's sad because most, most of people, families or people don't do all what I'm doing or what his mom is doing, you know, I ain't gonna take like I'm the only one doing his whole support system. You know, you see a lot of people who just, they family just cast them off. Anybody, you know, dealing with all that because your only hope for help is other people. Like I said, your decision making is affected. That's the whole point. You know what I mean? So you, even if you want to, in your mind, it's going to be hard for you to do what you need to do. So you do need like you need people around you to take it serious and do what you need to be done. Because if that don't happen, you through?
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C
Yeah.
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A
You know what I'm saying? Like I said, it's so crazy, you know, if your ankle broke your mind, good, you just know, okay, let me go to the doctor, let me get my ankle fixed, you know what I'm saying? But when your brain hurt, that's the central computer system, like to your car, you know what I'm saying? Or whatever. That's where it started. So if you, if you not right, right there all the way, you can't even help yourself for real. It's a tricky thing, but you know, it's, it's when you got people around you love, you can get through. I know some, plenty of people who have went through that, his age or even older and have come out of it and, and doing successful things and living a regular life, you know what I'm saying? Plenty of people like his, one of the, one of the job he worked at. The lady been knowing his mom and the family forever. She had the exact same kind of situation. And she's told me her family made her get help and her friends and she said she hated everybody at that time for them doing that and. But it got her through and like now she got successful businesses. She own all type of businesses and everything. And I would have never knew that about her. I learned this after dealing with going on with my son because she loved my son. My son worked at her place. But I knew her from just passing and she was always. We were living in four seasons. She was always, you know, had money, had success, had a business. Unless she, until she told me that, I would have never knew she went through that. So, you know, it just. It just. It just show, you know, you can come out of it if you got people around you, you know what I'm saying? That love and support you and, you know, gonna be there and know what you got, you know, Know what you need.
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C
He don't still work there?
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A
No, he ain't been working there. He. He's. He.
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C
He.
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A
He was there for a while. But the thing about it is when stuff got kind of. Kind of really bad mentally, he kind of checked out a little bit from. From working there, but it's like it's. He didn't do nothing wrong, so he been there for a while. That's the kind of job he could always go back to.
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C
Like, that's what I'm saying. Then especially by her, if she. If y' all made her aware of what he going through.
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A
Oh, yeah, she know. She check on me. She check on them all the time. Text me, how your son doing?
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C
Because she.
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A
That's a good place for him, ain't it?
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C
Yeah, she might.
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A
Yeah.
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C
Working that might be in addition to her to his community, to his village, to where now he can go to work. He can still get that sense of independency.
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A
Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. But it's a blessing to have a job like that at your disposal. Yeah, no, she. She check on them every. Periodically. Every few weeks, she'll text me, how's Harold doing? And I love Harold and because he be. He. Like I said, it just really be the moments. Cause in between the moments, he regular do well good, you know, real personable at the job. You know what I mean? Everybody like him. Ain't no. You know what I'm saying? It's not like a daily thing. It's just every now and then, you know what I'm saying? It just get overwhelmed. And that's why you need that in between therapy, you know what I'm saying? Maybe even those meds. Whatever. Whatever they say, you know what I'm saying? To get you over the hump until you don't need nothing, you know?
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C
Yeah. So you heal up in addition to the meds. Look for like some natural.
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A
Oh, you know, I do. You know that I. I'm only. I'm only saying that because initially you kind of do, you know, I'm against all that, but. No, I'm with you. That's that. I've already been looking it up.
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C
Like, he might go outside, grab a dandelion and snap back to her, you know what I'm saying?
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A
No, what I planned on doing. I'm glad you brought that up. What I planned on doing was when they do prescribe on something, I'm gonna do my research on what does that naturally. You know how we do.
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C
Yeah.
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A
And then. And then transition to that. You know what I'm saying? So you right on point. That's exactly what I'm on. I, I, I, I don't believe, like, I believe in meds to a certain extent, like, if you have to. But I. It's always something natural out there that does the same thing. I believe that.
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C
Yeah.
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A
Yep. So that's my plan. So you definitely on point with that. That. That's definitely what my plan was. Whatever it is prescribed, however that go, I'm gonna definitely find a natural substance that can take the place of that.
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C
Yeah.
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A
Until we just don't need nothing at all. So, yeah, y', all, we. We about to close. This is a good show. This is. This was a good, good, good way to end the show. Who is this? Appreciate your. Let's see. Always got you. Flow letter is coming. Thank you, Siri. Grandma Kathy says let King know that it's okay to find a good counselor. It may take a few to try out. Let him know he is just trying them out till he finds a good one. Yep. Good way to put it. Grandma Kathy. Anybody else got anything that I missed when I was out here? 18 is just a suggested age. Some people do not mature mentally until well after. That's true. And in the interim, you want to make sure that you're helping them help make healthy decisions. For sure, y'. All. I appreciate all the comments. Lazy Baby says sound like a plan. Flow definitely sounds like a plan.
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C
And then at least we're talking about that durable power of attorney, too.
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A
It's important for him to sign is so you can protect him from getting railroaded by Purple. They see the problem is he not. That's why I'm going through the court. He ain't gonna sign it. Like, that's the. That's where he at with it. And he not like, like real, like, mean or aggressive about it. He just ain't gonna do it. You know what I'm saying? Like, he ain't. He don't throw tantrums, but he'd just be like. You'd be like, you don't sign this and be like, nah, I want to stay in control of my own whatever. You know, he got that, you know, shoot. I mean, we all. I had the same mentality, you know what I'm saying? When I Was that age. So I get it. But. But that's why. And I appreciate that, Elise, because you did. You absolutely right. But that is why I have to go through the court. Because he ain't. Because if. If he was willing to sign something, I could get this power of attorney in custody just from him signing. You know what I'm saying? I ain't even really got to go through all this, but he ain't gonna do that.
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C
Yep.
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A
So that's why we. We here. But I appreciate the advice, y'. All. I want everybody to have a great Kevin. Kevin Trudeau book is a great one. What pharmaceuticals company don't want you to know. Thank you for that, Grandma Kathy. Grandma Kathy said there's some natural cures out there for sure. So I want everybody to have an amazing weekend. Keep the letters pouring, pouring in. What you say, C. Tuck?
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C
No, I said please do.
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A
Yeah, keep the letters pouring in. Like I said. Again, I am so appreciative and happy for that. All of y' all got my back. See Tux. Appreciate you and everybody. Like I said, have a good weekend. I will. See everybody Monday. You got any last words? See Tuck.
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C
Same old, same old. Have a safe and wonderful, wonderful weekend. See y' all the same time, same place. Bright and early on Monday. Manic Monday.
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A
Manic Monday. Let me.
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C
And we got. Like I said, we got the four game series this weekend with the Guardians. We won in. We. We won up with you, Grandma Kathy. Hopefully we best friends come Monday. The Cavs play the Heat against. Oh, yeah, yeah, we lost last time. They dropped the ball. Hopefully they pick it back up and bounce back this game. But yeah, like I said, everybody have a safe and wonderful weekend. Try to stay warm. The temperature didn't dipped a little bit. They playing with them clouds again, I guess.
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A
Oh, yeah, yeah. Be careful. Be. Be safe. Stay warm, especially if you're in Cleveland. And listen. And let's dance. Let's dance to our favorite song, Swine.
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B
Yes, the flow show no filter. 8:30am Eastern Time. Tap in. Yes, the flow show no filter. 8:30am Eastern Time. Tap in. Yes, the flow show no filter. 8:30am Eastern Time. Tap in. Yes, the flow show no filter. 8:30am Eastern Time. Tap in. Wake up. Wake up. Wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up. Giving you these thoughts, views and opinions. Making sure backsides covered. No diddy shout out to the waking bakers and the coffee crew. From YouTube to Spotify. I love all my subscribers. Can't forget about the trolls in the comments. Thank you for putting extra eyes on the content. Yes the flow show no Filter 8:30am Eastern Time. Tap in yeah it's the flow show no Filter 8:30am Eastern Time Tap in yes, the flow show no Filter 8:30am Eastern Time Tap in yes, the flow show no Filter 8:30am Eastern Time Tap in.
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A
Wait a minute, wait a minute. Tracy came through at the last second like Jordan the last second five. The shot clock was down to 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 and she come through with the 9.99 10$. Holla. Tracy White coming through with the LA at the last second.
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C
Oh yeah. Appreciate you Tracy.
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A
Appreciate you Tracy. Tracy say what she say she said what she Mr. Message. Hold up, hold up let me get it back. Have a great day, my friend and see you soon see see you See you soon see tuck I think she meant yeah.
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C
Yeah.
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A
Okay. See you soon, Tuck. Definitely, y'. All and as always, I love y'. All but I am we are.
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C
Oh.