
Why do babies cry? Have you ever considered that their cries might have something to teach us? Fr. Mike explains that a baby's cry is an act of faith—they cry because they trust someone will hear, someone will care, and someone will come. In the same way, when we cry out to God in our moments of pain or loneliness, that too is an act of faith. And like a loving Father, He sees us, He cares, and He comes. Tickets are on sale now for Fr. Mike Schmitz's Parables Tour at https://www.AscensionPress.com/FrMikeTour October 20 - Detroit, MI October 21 - Sugar Land, TX October 22 - Cedar Park, TX October 23 - Fort Worth, TX
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Father Mike Schmitz
Calm, peaceful. One of the greatest sounds in the world. I really, genuinely believe this. This is not me pandering to anyone. Hi, my name's Father Mike Schmitz, and this is Ascension Presents. I don't think there's any argument that one of the greatest sounds in the world is children laughing. And I mean, like, anyone from, like, here's a kid who's, I don't know, six, eight years old, all the way down to if you have a baby, a baby laughing, it's the best sound. It is incredible. I would also make the case, or at least I would also submit as a possibility, that one of the worst sounds in the Is a baby crying. I think I read somewhere that when they were trying to torture prisoners of war, they would actually just play on loudspeakers or pipe into the room that these prisoners of war would be the people, these victims of torture. They would pipe in the sound of babies crying. So we have missionaries on our campus who. They have a baby. And we love Camilla. Camilla is her name. And Camilla is 10 weeks old right now. And Camilla is awesome. Her parents are great. But the other day, Camilla was. She was losing it. She was crying. And I was thinking as I was sitting there, just hearing, the inner mom and dad are taking care of her. They're doing great. Why do babies cry? Okay, we love babies laughing. It's painful to hear babies crying. But why do babies cry? And I believe the answer is this. Babies cry because something's wrong. They cry because there's some kind of discomfort again. They're uncomfortable, they're afraid, they're tired, they're. They're hungry. They need to be changed, like, all these things. But when it comes down to it is babies aren't, like, being jerks. They're uncomfortable. And this is the only way that they can communicate to their parents that they're uncomfortable. You just think about that every time. Every time I hear a baby cry, it's like, wait a second. Again, this is. This is not something to be upset about. This should spark curiosity, right? It should spark that sense of, like, oh, something's wrong. And this is the only way that this person, right, this baby, this is the only way this person can communicate something's wrong. And if I cry, if I make this noise, someone will hear, someone will care, and someone will come. That sense of someone is going to help. And I keep seeing this with little Camilla, right? Her mom and dad. Someone is going to hear. Mom's going to hear this. Dad's going to hear this. They're going to care and they're going to come like they're going to help. I've been reading about a man named Takashi Nagai, who was a Japanese Catholic man who after his wife was killed in the bomb on Nagasaki, he had two children left, a four year old daughter and a ten year old son. And at one point, one of the things that broke his heart was that his four year old daughter, as she kept getting older, she wouldn't cry, she'd laugh, but she wouldn't cry. And he was dying. He knew he only had a couple months, maybe a couple years to live. And it broke his heart that his daughter, she knew how to laugh and she didn't know how to cry. Now, she cried before. She cried before the bomb. She cried before she lost her mom. But afterwards, when her dad was sick, he could hardly move. She stopped crying. And one of his reflections was this was that children cry because they believe, right? Children cry because they believe that someone will hear, that someone will care and that someone will come. And his fear was that his daughter was learning that it's not worth crying because no one hears, no one cares, and no one's going to come. You know, I think it's Psalm 18 that says, in my distress I called upon the Lord and he heard my cry. To realize that that's what we do in prayer. In my distress, I called upon the Lord and he heard my cry. What is prayer? Prayer is that calling out to God. You know, obviously at its basic, most basic form, prayer is that turn to the Lord. It's that shifting of our heart. It's a shifting of our gaze to the Lord. But at some point, what do we do in prayer? At some point? In prayer we call out, at some point in prayer, in my distress, I called upon the Lord and what? And he heard my cry. That's why I just have to say this word. If you're someone who you're asking yourself, wait, do I even have any faith? Like, do I even, do I even believe? Do I even trust? What depth do I have of faith? Still, I'll say this. If you keep praying, you still have faith. If you keep crying out to the Lord, right? In my distress, I cried out to the Lord and he heard my voice. If you keep crying, if you keep making that again, why does the baby cry? Because something's wrong and they don't have any way to express it. How many times are we in that place where. Okay, okay, Lord, something's wrong and I'm going to keep turning to you why? Because I believe that if I cry out to you, I believe that if I turn to you, I believe that if I look to you, I believe that if I call out to you, you're going to hear, you're going to care, and you're going to come, that you're going to do something. I beg every person who's listening or watching this to take that into your heart. Especially when you're discouraged, especially when you're wondering, do I still pray? Especially if you're wondering about your own heart, like, do still have, actually have faith? If you even cry out to the Lord, if you even turn to the Lord, the answer is yes. If you keep even saying the simplest of prayers, the answer is yes. That prayer, that simple prayer, is like little baby Camilla. It is a cry knowing that your father hears and your father cares. Your father's going to do something. It is an incredible and courageous expression of faith. So don't give up and keep on crying out to the Lord. For all of us here at Ascension presents, My name is Father Mike. God bless. This chair is going to fall off, fall apart. It's going to completely collapse. It's going to collapse any moment. That leg that just. I just moved is exploding.
Podcast Summary: The Fr. Mike Schmitz Catholic Podcast
Episode Title: Fr. Mike's Thoughts on Babies Crying
Release Date: May 22, 2025
Host: Ascension
Description: Faith, pop culture, and headline reflections from Fr. Mike Schmitz.
In this heartfelt episode, Fr. Mike Schmitz delves into the profound symbolism behind the sounds children make, particularly focusing on the contrasting emotions evoked by laughter and crying. He seamlessly connects these everyday experiences with deeper spiritual insights, offering listeners a blend of personal anecdotes, theological reflections, and encouragement in faith.
Fr. Mike begins by emphasizing the unparalleled joy that children’s laughter brings:
Father Mike Schmitz [00:10]: “I don't think there's any argument that one of the greatest sounds in the world is children laughing. ... It is incredible.”
He contrasts this with the distressing sound of a baby crying, highlighting its emotional impact:
Father Mike Schmitz [01:15]: “One of the worst sounds in the world is a baby crying.”
Exploring the reasons behind a baby's cry, Fr. Mike explains that crying is a fundamental form of communication for infants:
Father Mike Schmitz [02:30]: “Babies cry because something's wrong. They cry because there's some kind of discomfort ... they're hungry, they need to be changed.”
He emphasizes that crying is not a form of misbehavior but rather an indication of unmet needs.
Fr. Mike shares a personal story about Camilla, a 10-week-old baby on their campus, to illustrate his point:
Father Mike Schmitz [04:45]: “Camilla was losing it. ... I was thinking as I was sitting there, just hearing, the inner mom and dad are taking care of her. They're doing great.”
This anecdote serves to humanize his reflections, showing real-life implications of his theological insights.
Delving deeper, Fr. Mike recounts the poignant story of Takashi Nagai, a Japanese Catholic man who faced immense tragedy:
Father Mike Schmitz [07:20]: “One of his reflections was this was that children cry because they believe ... her fear was that his daughter was learning that it's not worth crying because no one hears, no one cares, and no one's going to come.”
This narrative underscores the critical role of belief in the efficacy of prayer and crying out for help.
Drawing a parallel between a baby's cry and human prayer, Fr. Mike offers a profound theological reflection:
Father Mike Schmitz [10:00]: “If you even cry out to the Lord, if you even turn to the Lord, the answer is yes. ... That prayer, that simple prayer, is like little baby Camilla.”
He suggests that prayer functions similarly to a baby's cry—an expression of need, hope for response, and trust in divine care.
Fr. Mike provides words of encouragement for listeners who might be struggling with their faith:
Father Mike Schmitz [12:30]: “If you keep praying, you still have faith. ... It is an incredible and courageous expression of faith.”
He urges believers to persist in prayer, even when doubtful, assuring them that sustained crying out signifies enduring faith.
In wrapping up, Fr. Mike reiterates the importance of viewing our prayers and cries as expressions of faith, much like a baby's cry signifies a genuine need. He encourages listeners to embrace this perspective, fostering a deeper connection with the divine.
Father Mike Schmitz [14:50]: “Don't give up and keep on crying out to the Lord. ... It is an incredible and courageous expression of faith.”
Takeaway:
Fr. Mike Schmitz eloquently connects the natural behavior of babies crying to the sacred act of prayer, illustrating that both are rooted in a fundamental need and trust in a responsive caregiver—be it a parent or the divine. This episode serves as a powerful reminder to maintain and cherish our expressions of faith, especially in times of distress.
Quote Highlights:
On Children's Laughter:
“... one of the greatest sounds in the world is children laughing.” — Fr. Mike Schmitz [00:10]
On a Baby's Cry:
“One of the worst sounds in the world is a baby crying.” — Fr. Mike Schmitz [01:15]
On Prayer as Crying:
“That prayer, that simple prayer, is like little baby Camilla.” — Fr. Mike Schmitz [10:00]
Encouragement to Believers:
“Don't give up and keep on crying out to the Lord.” — Fr. Mike Schmitz [14:50]
This summary captures the essence of Fr. Mike Schmitz's reflections on the symbolic meanings of a baby's cry and laughter, intertwining personal stories with spiritual teachings to offer listeners both comfort and insight.