A (5:16)

Okay, this question is from David. I'm 32, single, a CPA, MBA, and I feel like I've wasted the last decade.

B (5:23)

32 or 42?

A (5:24)

32.

B (5:25)

Oh, here we go. Go ahead.

A (5:27)

I've wasted the last decade addicted to weed and just surviving. I'm finally ready to change and build something meaningful. I've said it before, but I have no choice. What's your number one advice to someone trying to reinvent their. Their life from scratch, for real this.

B (5:40)

Time, by realizing that 32 is 22. I'm pumped for this guy. What's his name? David. I'm so proud of you, bro. Here's what I would say. Like, when you're 90, you'll be like, yo, 22 to 32 was fucking epic. I smoked weed every second. Like, you're going to be fine. Like, yes. You haven't, you know, like, you. You over. You know, you misplayed certain parts of your life. I'm sure there's certain parts of your life that you've done well with. And good news, you're 32. You're a fucking kid. Like, you know, you're. You're a child. And by the way, when I was answering that question about 32, somebody in the chat on whatnot said, what about 47? Same thing. Here's my thing. If you're 47, 57, 67, and you're like, what about me? I've blown my whole life. Here's my point. There's never a bad time to start doing good shit. Like, if you're 67 and you're like, well, it's too late. I fucked up everything, and you're destined to live to 92. You're telling me. You're like, you know that you can make the next 25 years a hell of a lot better and enjoy it. Do you know how many teams are losing in the fourth quarter? Do you guys know sports? Do you know me? Teams are down 287 going into the fourth quarter and win. We're all a sport. We're all a team. Life is. Life is sports. And you as a human, are a team. And there are many fucking teams. Do you know what those pieces of shit in Indiana Pacers did? The Knicks were fucking winning by 12 with 1 second left and lost. I'm literally going to Oklahoma City tonight to sit courtside to boo the Pacers. You'll all see me tonight. If you watch the game. I will be courtside tonight booing the Pacers. Those motherfuckers were dead and pulled it out in the last second. You could be 90 and a piece of shit and a fucking loser your whole life and pull it out in the last three years and reconcile all your relationships. Have some fun. And what is this? What about 47? What is this? What about 32? And you motherfuckers under 30 you? I'm gonna kill all of you. What are you worried about? Nothing is bad. You've got unlimited time to make everything awesome. What are you crying about? And you know what you're all crying about. But I'm a 29 year old girl and my friend Heather is already married and just had her first. What the fuck does Heather's life have to do with you? Next question.

A (8:13)

Okay, this question came through your text. It's from Samantha, who's 25 years old. She says, I'm an actor and my life is not going in the direction I want it to. The reason for me reaching out is to ask if you offer life coaching sessions. Listening to your videos has been giving me so much inspiration and motivation and sometimes I even feel like you're speaking directly to me. I started disconnecting from friends I grew up with lately because I no longer feel connected to them. I've realized I want to hang around people with big ideas and who see me and my ideas as a possibility. I don't know. I thought I'd reach out and see if I could get even like five minutes with you. I guess I feel like I am directionless. It has been feeling. Feeling like no one gets me in my dreams. Not even my family.

B (8:51)

Samantha, I'm so pumped. I'm so proud of you. You said as a 25 year old. As a 25 year old you have realized one of the great lessons of the human life. I'm about to change thousands of people's lives in this moment and millions of over the next three decades that. Watch this clip. If you are unhappy, you must do the following. You must audit and limit and replace the people and the content you are consuming. Who you spend time with and what you listen to is the fundamental reality of your emotions. My friends. If you were unhappy, you must break up, quit. Or if you love your mom but she's a negative Nelly and you guys talk twice a day. You need to move to Twice a week. You must cut out or limit. I'm not saying you gotta, like, never talk to your dad again. But if your dad, every time you call him is like, dad, how are you doing? My back. My boss, I think I have cancer. Like, how's your idiot boyfriend? If that's the convo, you need to get the fuck out of there. You need to go surface level. You need to start thinking about therapy. You need to start consuming positive content. My friends, you are only unhappy because of who you spend time with. Let me give you an example. When my homies tell me they're unhappy with their job. Yo, bro, like, this is real life. When a friend of mine's like, yo, I hate my job, I go positive. I don't. I'm not that friend. Like, all. All of you are the same kind of friends. Most of you are not me. Most of you are enablers. Your buddy's like, yo, I hate my job. They're like, yeah, that boss a dick. No, no, no. I go to like, let's take a step back. What can you do about it? And then I remind them, you got a beautiful fucking daughter who's an Olympian. You've got a fucking, like, great wife. You're going on vacation for two weeks next week. You love your softball team. I just go positive and then I go accountable. I'm like, you can quit, but we're just in this culture of fucking enabling everybody here. I actually, what I'm feeling right now is something I don't say often. I'm asking if everybody's ready to be a better friend, please put in the chat, better friend. If you're ready to stop enabling your dwelling, unhappy loser friends and are willing to do what I'm doing on this show for you every morning to your friends, I get that you're homies, but you can't just be like, yeah, you're right. When your girl's like, oh, Rick's such a dick. He, like, went bowling too late last night. You need to be like, karen, shut the fuck up. Rick's a good dude. Rick's better looking than you. Rick's providing. Let the fucker bowl. Not like, yeah, Rick's a dick. Do you understand? Enough enabling. Next question.

A (12:09)

Okay, this is from a comment on one of your YouTube videos. Does passion really build billion dollar brands? Or do you need to be a little obsessed like vee friends to pull it off? What's your take? Heart or hustle?

B (12:20)

Both. Passion is often the reason people go out of business because they just think, I'm passionate about this golf business. It'll do great. And it fails. Passion is fuel. But your business is the car, and you have to know how to drive it. Ooh. Shit. Yeah. Whoa. Clip that. Whoa. Yeah, that was. That was it. That was it, y'. All. I got that one. Passion is the fuel, right? The business is the car. You have to be a great driver. So passion is just one of the elements. But I do believe that passion allows you to get crazy. Like, I think a lot of people build very nice businesses because they just want the money. Oh, I know I can sound. I'm good at math. I can start an accounting firm. I'm not passionate about it, but I'm gonna build a $10 million business, and I'm gonna make 800,000 a year, and I'm gonna have this good life. And that's fine. But I think that blows for me. For me, I think it's wonderful for others. But not having passion, not waking up and being pumped, that's what leads to unhappiness. I'd rather make. In fact, I do make so much less money than I could because I choose happiness, and I do that now. And people are going to be like, well, you can now. That's what my number one passion and happiness from 22 to 30 was building a company for my parents. You guys know how I feel about my parents. It makes more sense to you the more you get to know me. Like, I love my parents different. I got lucky. And I think everybody else who has remarkable parents loves them like that, too. But we were also immigrants, and we went through it together. You know what I mean? I was born in the old country and all those dynamics. So that was my passion. That was financially horrible for me. I started this company at 34 in another company's conference room because I had no Money. I was 34. I had no money. I'm gonna say it again. I was 34. I had no money. Cause I was living my passion. I was happy as shit doing it, and then I wasn't. Then I wanted to build some more monetary gain for me, and I changed my mind and I started my own company instead of building my dad's for him. So, you know, to answer, no, passion is not the only thing. Like, I'm passionate about. I'm passionate about being a professional athlete. I. Gary, I'm passionate to be the quarterback of the New York Jets. I am more passionate to be the quarterback of the New York jets and win a Super bowl than I am in anything I do in my life. I cannot pull that off. I do not have the talent or capability to do that. Nor did I ever have that talent or capability. I have the talent, capability to potentially buy them one day. That I believe.