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Mike Pesca
It's Friday, April 5, 2025, from peach fish Productions, it's the Gist. I'm Mike Pesca and this episode of the Gist is specifically for Funny you should mention season two. We kick it off with Alex Edelman. So as you know, Funny, you should mention the idea behind it is to talk to comedians about not just the jokes they tell, but definitely that the ideas they're trying to get across. And there's a certain kind of comedian who will think a lot about this. There's a certain kind of comedian who will do this instinctively. Everyone does. Every good comedian does. But there are others who will chew it over, who have talked it over with friends, who have philosophies of their philosophy and epitomizing this strain of comic just really one of the most thoughtful and funny guys out there. And you'll hear this come across in my interview because I what's the word, Vel? I fell over Alex Edelman. I'll give his credits in the beginning of the show, but he's won Tony's, he's won Grammys, he's fantastic standup. And I saw him recently at the Comedy Cellar, the comedy seller who partners with us on this program. And he didn't have a good set and that actually provided great fodder for everything I love to talk about in Funny. You should mention what ideas you're getting across. How do you work out the jokes so that you get the most laughs for the best ideas? Is it the idea that's not connecting? Is it the joke that's not connecting to the idea? And Alex is great game to discuss all of this. So join us. Join us all year. We'll air these every other week in the Gist for the next couple of months. The easiest way to never miss an episode is to subscribe directly. We have a direct funny you should mention feed. You might ask yourself, well, if I'm getting it here, why would I get it there? There's some extra stuff in every episode. And this was great. We actually just started trading our favorite Jewish jokes and what they meant. So that is only available in the funny you should mention feed. You know, you could look at the video, too. The video is us talking pictures thereof, one being more youthful and vivacious than the next. So tell us what you think of the show. Please subscribe directly to the funny you should mention feed. Or just keep it here. Keep it tuned here. Alex Edelman, funny you should mention. Season two kicks off next. Alex Edelman is a fantastic comedian, and yet he's achieved so much in other realms that that is not even what we lead with. He won the outstanding writing for a variety special Emmy. He won a special Tony. They couldn't even name it. For his show. Just for us, he was named Time magazine's hundred most influential people. And I have to say, I don't know how that influence was spreading in the first show I saw you perform last night, but they didn't seem terribly influenced by all your accolades.
Alex Edelman
No, they didn't. But by the way, that's part. So Mike is referencing very fairly also. Thanks for that. Yeah, thanks for having me. But. But, yeah, look, some audiences don't want to buy what you're selling sometimes when you're working it out. And the truth is, especially at a club like the Commissella, which is my favorite club on the planet, you have to sometimes ask yourself, like, am I going to perform for this audience right now? Or am I going to develop this voice that I'm using for every audience in the future? Because the truth is, comedy is all about trial and error. And the truth is, like, a couple months ago, I came off stage. There are four rooms here at the Comedy Cellar. And I came off stage in the original one downstairs. And, like, there were two comics standing in the hallway. One of them was like, oh, man, great set. And the other one was like, you didn't have a very good one, did you? I was like, no. And the first comic was like, why? The other comic went, he tried a new joke early, and it kind of didn't work. So it went back to really safe stuff. For the rest of it, it was like, yep, exactly, Exactly. Because it was early on in the week. And, you know, you write over the weekend, you're all amped, and you fucking go up on Monday and you Try your first new joke and does you know 70% of what you thought it might get? And you're like, well, here's in 100. And so, like, it's tough. And the truth is, paradoxically, I think the reason this club has had staying power in a way that other clubs don't, is that they sort of encourage that from their comedians and sort of. And the truth is, I'm always really fascinated by the, like, liquid dynamics of an audience. Like, you know, like, I went right before. Not to show my cards too quickly, but right before my set last night, I came directly from a screening at moma of a documentary about the Mengele twins.
Mike Pesca
Oh, okay.
Alex Edelman
And I was like, there were twins?
Mike Pesca
Joseph had a twin?
Alex Edelman
No. Mengele did these macabre experiments on hundreds of twins and killed most of them. He was the camp commandant at Auschwitz. And so I spent an hour and a half watching this Auschwitz documentary. And I was like, oh, I gotta leave about 10 minutes early before the end of the documentary. Didn't know if there's a happy ending, you know, 10 minutes before the end of this documentary to go do standup comedy downtown. And, like, was very quiet on the F train from MOMA down to West 4th.
Mike Pesca
You have Jude taking a train.
Alex Edelman
And then. Yeah, then going, very nice. We'll never get what it deserves. That's a good time. And. And, yeah, I really. By the way, I thought of a joke while I was in the documentary. Documentary where it was like, I just saw someone in the 70s bragging at a table, going, you know, our family was very important before the war. Like, our train to Auschwitz, it had seats, you know, like, that would be.
Mike Pesca
We had waiter surface.
Alex Edelman
Yeah, yeah. Our train. When we took the train, Auschwitz, we went in first class, you know, like.
Mike Pesca
But just looking down.
Alex Edelman
Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. God, the cattle cars. But it was one of those things where I was like, okay, is the audience going to sense my foulness? Am I going to be a little more defensive with the audience?
Mike Pesca
That's not what was going on. Because people should know. You drop in and you are not watching the whole show. But Michelle and I were watching the whole show.
Alex Edelman
I didn't know that you saw the whole show.
Mike Pesca
So we saw Mike Yard, who's been on Funny you should mention, is great, always does great. And he didn't do great. He didn't do great with his broad range of material that appeals to everyone. He does a joke about shaking a piece of shit out of his ass. He does a decent trump impression. These are jokes that always get Big laughs. And they were getting titters. Then the next comedian who goes. He's talking a lot about relationships. A very. I forget the name. Very relatable guy. But it was getting nothing. I'm like, this is a dead crowd. Then you. Which happens, right? Which happens. Because if it's a small room and it's intimate, it can be great.
Alex Edelman
Yeah.
Mike Pesca
But if there are four tables and one's drunk and one's not so great.
Alex Edelman
At English, you can have four bad apples. To me, actually, I always say it's four. Four bad. Four bad spaces in the room negate the whole room. Doesn't matter how big the room is.
Mike Pesca
But.
Alex Edelman
Yeah, go ahead.
Mike Pesca
Yeah, but this is what I was thinking. You use it to work out new jokes, but you also use it to tweak jokes, right? So you did this joke about you questioning your Jewish identity.
Alex Edelman
Oh, I go on stage and I go, I'm not Jewish. And then. And then usually that gets a laugh. And I go, I'm not Jewish. I'm a big fan of. And then I check my notebook and then I go back to the microphone and go, jesus Christ. And obviously the joke is that Jesus Christ is ubiquitous and does not require her writing down and that people who are fans of Jesus Christ don't typically need to be reminded. And I said it and got nothing. And I went, oh, wow. It's going to be one of those, I think.
Mike Pesca
I mean, how many times have you done that joke?
Alex Edelman
I mean, the funny thing is I've only been doing it for a couple of months, but I've been getting on stage a good amount, so probably like 50 times.
Mike Pesca
Does it work better than when I saw you in your next set? You put it second in the set, and I would think that that's a more natural place for it to work.
Alex Edelman
It's a bet, maybe. But I put it second because I have a little bit of a rapport with the guy who plays piano to bring people on stage, and I like him a lot. And Red and Lefty, the musician is here. We always sort of banter back and forth. And frankly, I love doing comedy here and developing my material, but this club is my home. And, like, I started coming here when I was like, 15, 16 years old to watch comedy. And I'm 35 now. So, like, to me, you know, getting the chance to perform here, like, I'm in my best mood. Even by the way I came off that, I would say that. That said that you watch was as bad a set for me. Laughs Wise as I've ever had. But like, if you buy a stock at $0.02 or something and you get it to $0.03, that's still an extra cent. You know, like, it's always money with you people. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well done. I mean, again, we'll never get what desserts from me, but because I don't traffic in stereotypes. Wow. There was a really great comic that I grew up with in Boston and he said, you know, I'm Latino, but I don't traffic in stereotypes. I'll steal any type of stereo.
Mike Pesca
That's great.
Alex Edelman
It was Tom E. Morello, I believe is his name. He's really funny.
Mike Pesca
So it wasn't, it wasn't the. It wasn't doing it first. Because my theory was that many people, many people in the audience know you, but if they don't, just to give them 15 seconds where you seem perhaps stereotypically Jewy and then you come out with, I'm not Jewish. Might be better.
Alex Edelman
Very dare you. I don't know. Look, it's. It's possible also, you know, some jokes go first, some jokes go second, some jokes are closer, some jokes, you know, fizzle around in the middle. Moving jokes around as I try things often yields. I notice that new jokes tend to spring out of segues. If there are any aspiring comedy writers listening to this, I noticed that you can actually start with probably four jokes and moving them around and tying different connections to each other often reveal your voice. Four or five jokes. The more jokes you have, the better. Looking at all your jokes on index cards and seeing what they all sort of have in common can sort of give your aesthetic a bit more of a, like, form. Yeah. You know what I mean? Like, you can actually sort of see what you tend to talk about. My jokes are largely like anecdote, social observation, self portraiture through recounting, which is a really fancy way of saying, like, I find out a lot about myself by talking about how. Talking about other things that happen and what I find worth talking about. So, like, I really love, I really love doing stand up comedy and I really love doing stand up here. But yeah, I mix my joke placement around to try to see what comes out of the middle of it. And I try to riff as much as I can and, oh yeah, record jokes and listen back to them the next day.
Mike Pesca
Yeah, the second set that I saw you do, which of course killed you could tell based on an interaction with an audience member, reminded you of a story that absolutely happened to you and I hope was embellished.
Alex Edelman
It is a little bit Embellished. Yeah, but it is.
Mike Pesca
It should be. I give no points off. I mean, I want to be as entertained as possible. It reminded you the circumstance of an audience member who was being a pain in the ass and wasn't giving you anything. You threw out the rest of the set. Like, I'm gonna tell an old story.
Alex Edelman
You should be present. Like, you should have your bag of tricks within reach and be present there with. When you're at your best, you're doing both. You're entertaining the audience, and you're fostering whatever future thing is going to come. And so, yeah, this audience member who didn't want to talk to me reminded me of a time I didn't want to talk to somebody else. And so I riffed a closing story off of that or remembered an old bit based off of that as a headphone. Sorry, it's for my friend. Rafi is sitting here. It's that bit, but it's a really. It's interesting. What. What are you saying? Yeah, you are.
Mike Pesca
She's arrived. Wait, let me turn the mic.
Alex Edelman
Yeah, you want to get in here, Ravi? No, no, no, but I.
Mike Pesca
That'll be the end credits scene. Rafi.
Alex Edelman
Yeah.
Mike Pesca
TikTok dance or something.
Alex Edelman
Oh, my God. Heaven. For fun. No offense, but, like, I. I had a really good chat last week with Eric Idle. You know Monty Python.
Mike Pesca
Yeah, I saw that online.
Alex Edelman
Sure. It was fantastic. He was so, so great. And he talked about the sort of Monty Python ethos, which was all a commentary on British pantomime, where the audience is like.
Mike Pesca
Pantomime means something very specific in Britain.
Alex Edelman
Very specific. The type of show.
Mike Pesca
Yes.
Alex Edelman
Where there's lots of drag and lots of men being like.
Mike Pesca
It's essentially vaudeville. Yeah, their version of vaudeville.
Alex Edelman
It's slaps, a lot of tropes, and when the villain comes on stage, everyone's like, boo. And the mom comes on stage, everyone's like. Like, it's a. It's a thing. And he talked about how Monty Python, who I never really considered through that lens, were just like, pantomime college kids, and now they're pantomime college kids in their 70s and 80s, which is really, really cool. I said to him, we were talking about Spamalot, which is a musical he did for Broadway. And I said, it's amazing that you managed to unite musical theater fans and Monty Python fans, because those are two very different types of virgin. But he is a doll. And we talked a lot about joke structure through, so. And, like, the way, you know, songs work within a show is Is really distinct, but they move the story forward. And I think really great jokes tend to move a story forward. So I'm a really big believer if they're good.
Mike Pesca
Right. There was a time Jerome Kern, Showboat, where the songs would stop the show and comment on what was happening. And then I guess Rodgers and Hammerstein with Oklahoma.
Alex Edelman
Is that true? I didn't know that.
Mike Pesca
From what I understand, he. They. There are some of those. Poor Judd is dead. But there are other one, like the auction, which is just drama as presented through song. And if there's no step back, it's an amazing innovation.
Alex Edelman
I think the best. Those are really, really good. And so jokes should do the same thing. If, like, if you're really, really looking for ambition here, your joke should advance something about you. A complicated thought, a love of weirdness and aesthetic. I've got this new joke I've been doing about the Make a Wish foundation, about how weird it is that it exists and how beautiful a thing it is. Like, it is so. Which is like, they grant wishes for children who are very ill, which is great. It's just such a. Odd. It's a very odd thing to happen. And the number one wish, the number one granter of children's wishes is John Cena.
Mike Pesca
Yes.
Alex Edelman
I'm just like, how big is John Cena with this demographic of kids? And, like. And don't you even think that even, like, don't you think even John Cena's kids would be, like, the Rock?
Mike Pesca
Yeah. Don't you think the second best wrestler is really pissed off and wants to get in? Good.
Alex Edelman
What do you mean, the terminal best? Like, I love John Cena. He's not, like, the greatest living wrestler the Rock is. And then I have a line in there. I go, nothing beats a rock except for paper. But, like. But the end of it is, I go, if it was, they always send two guys in to a room for the Make a Wish Foundation? And so what I. What I always end the joke with is, I go, if it was me when they walked in, they'd be like, are there any celebrities you'd like to meet? I'm like, no. And they're like, well, you have a wish. And I'm like, you two kiss. And they're like, what? And I'm like, you two kiss? And they're like, I mean, you can meet, like, anyone except for Taylor Swift. She has a really healthy sense of boundaries. But, like, you mean, like, anyone? And I'm like, I'm collecting moments, not people like you do. And then One guy's like, we're both in relationships. And I'm like, it's my last wish. And the other guy's like, I guess it couldn't hurt. And he's like, Rory. And the other guy's like, what? So it's. It's the idea that you would take a joke about the Mega Wish foundation and turn into two guys and a kid who's dying, making them kiss. There's something, like, really specific about that. But, like, all of the best jokes have that really unique specificity baked in. And I also think that, like, you know, I had a sort of experience with death in 2023. My. My best. My. My. The director on my show, my solo show that got all those nice plaudits, and probably my closest friend, this guy Adam, died. And so I've noticed a lot of my jokes now are about sort of, like, people who are dying, people are running out of time people. And it's really silly, but when I write them all down on index cards and look at them, I'm like, oh, man, there are a lot of jokes here that are focused on, like, death and dying.
Mike Pesca
And, like, did you start doing that? The writing them down as. Because the. As a means to get insight or for some other reason?
Alex Edelman
Well, I noticed Birbiglia does it.
Mike Pesca
Yeah. And he consulted on your show, too.
Alex Edelman
He produced it. But to even say produced is like, God, I'm overdue to see Mike Rebegli. I haven't seen him in a couple of months, but there is no person besides Adam Brace and Alex Timbers, who directed the special.
Mike Pesca
And Adam was your friend who died at the age of 43. Yeah, yeah.
Alex Edelman
Besides Adam and Alex, no one's had a bigger impact on me these last couple years than Mike Birbiglia, who is like, who's so good at this art form that it might even be a problem for him. It's like, one of those things where, like, people don't measure. Like, Michael Phelps was such. Or Katie Ledecky. These dominant swimmers are so dominant at the specific thing that they do that, like, they. They are now competing against themselves to impress people.
Mike Pesca
Or I was thinking more like a Brian Eno. Some great, brilliant musicians.
Alex Edelman
Oh, I love Brian Eno as an.
Mike Pesca
Example, who gets pulled out to be a producer on everything. And then maybe Brian Eno's, like, wants to be in a band at some point. This uber producer who understands music from this level.
Alex Edelman
But, you know, it's really weird because, like, it is actually. That is a absolutely amazing analogy to be like, I got Brian Eno to produce my album, or I was lucky enough to have Brian Eno produce my album. But the truth is, like, no one that Mike is produced. Like, you could argue that Coldplay has more to offer than Brian Eno does, but at least in terms of their broadness of scope and ambition of scope and things like that. But the truth is, Mike Birbiglia has. I don't think I've got more to offer the world than Mike Birbiglia, but it is really interesting because if you look at the five.
Mike Pesca
Oh, I see what you're saying.
Alex Edelman
If you look at the five, you're.
Mike Pesca
Wrong, by the way. Both you guys are great and should exist.
Alex Edelman
That's really nice. But if you look at the nominees for best, for best writing in the category this year, one of them is Mike Birbiglia. And then there's me, whose show I produced. Jacqueline Novak, whose show he produced.
Mike Pesca
Was that a show or what?
Alex Edelman
It was fantastic.
Mike Pesca
Oh, my God.
Alex Edelman
And like, you know, and John early, who, you know is whose show he didn't produce, but who directed the Jacqueline Novak show that Mike produced. And you know, Jimmy Kimmel's Oscar writing.
Mike Pesca
Team, which is 45 people.
Alex Edelman
Which is 45 people. But a lot of them are brilliant, a lot of them are standups. And Jimmy, Mike are like really close. And I would say are influen, like a little bit influences on how, you know, each of them relate. I see a little bit of Jimmy Kimmel in the interview style that Mike has on his podcast. And it's just like, it's really interesting that this one sphere that Mike Brabiglia essentially presides over has had this, like, you know, essential influence. I have influences from many other places. Maria Bamford, Brian Regan, you know, mom is Mabley.
Mike Pesca
Really moms.
Alex Edelman
Bill Cosby, before he died, Right before bill Cosby died 20 years ago, he's. Rest in peace. Bill Cosby killed and killed in 2002.
Mike Pesca
Before you just ask yourself, post Cosby show, there was so much more there for him to have tapped into and he never got to.
Alex Edelman
Yeah. So struck down before his time.
Mike Pesca
Yeah.
Alex Edelman
I guess we'll never buckle as well.
Mike Pesca
Both two of the greats.
Alex Edelman
Yeah.
Mike Pesca
Who died too far too young.
Alex Edelman
What a monster. It's so interesting. He's such a. Well, God, we don't have to talk about this, but like, by the way, like, it is really strange because when I was younger, I was so influenced by that laid back storytelling style. And then I went to see him after the allegations came out. I saw his last show in New York. It was at Carnegie hall, and some of the allegations had come out, and it was just ruined. Just, like, bad. No, you know, it's, like, hanging over it. Yeah, but, you know. And by the way, he's in a class by himself in terms of, like, ruined comedians, but, like.
Mike Pesca
Oh, I meant solitary confinement.
Alex Edelman
He actually got out.
Mike Pesca
He's out.
Alex Edelman
The cause is loose.
Mike Pesca
The. The justice system working.
Alex Edelman
Yeah, we were just talking about that. But it's not. It's not this. But, I mean, like, I don't be controversial here. I'm not a. I'm not crazy about it. Let's not get into this.
Mike Pesca
If you want to dig down on his appeal, there's a case that there should. Anyway, this is.
Alex Edelman
Here's a Team Cosby over here.
Mike Pesca
I'm just saying, the prosecutor offered a deal.
Alex Edelman
Snip, snip, snip. Sorry. Go ahead.
Mike Pesca
Okay, so you've raised a number of things I want to ask you.
Alex Edelman
Yeah, yeah, please.
Mike Pesca
One is. So we were talking about first placement in the show. Second placement. We were talking about your friend Alex and your.
Alex Edelman
And Adam.
Mike Pesca
Yep. Sorry. We're talking about your friend Adam and the Broadway show, it would seem to me. But tell me if I'm right. What you want is in a comedy set to wring the most laughs out of it and also, you know, have a cohesive point with the Broadway show, you definitely have to get the most laughs. But to me, it's a structure thing. It's so very much about structure that makes it a show. Am I right about that?
Alex Edelman
Yeah. But also, like, truth is, I think we're in different arms races now. Like. Like comedy. Like, jokes have to come first. But then there's narrative satisfaction, like how satisfied people are by the story that's being told. And the truth is, people are gonna always laugh in jokes, laugh harder at jokes that come out of character that they recognize. Like.
Mike Pesca
Yeah. Like, this is why Cheers is one of the most beloved shows of all time.
Alex Edelman
Well, people know the character. Like, Frasier is a. But Frasier is a. Frasier's probably an even clearer example. Right. Like, my favorite joke in Frasier is he's at. Niles is at a ball. The really uptight David Hyde Pierce character is at a baseball game, and he's got a Walkman, a radio Walkman. He's listening on his headphones at the ball game, and a sports fan next to him leans over and says, what's the score? And he goes, west side Story. And the joke is so Funny because you know that character so well, and he's acting in, like, a certain way. So anyway, in doing the Broadway show, creating a story and then putting jokes in that reflect on the characters within the story, whether it be me, who's the guy at the center of it, or the neo Nazis that are in. Oh, the show is about me going to this meeting of, like, white nationalists in Queens. And so, like, jokes that are based in narrative satisfaction give you a feeling of, like, wholeness, of, like, fulsomeness, but they also give you much. A much higher quality of laugh that really sticks with you. So, like, the truth is, there are different types of laughter. There are many. There are like, just. There are different types of silence and in different types of. You know, and different types of focus. And so, like, different types of love.
Mike Pesca
I mean, well, the Greeks had many different.
Alex Edelman
I was like. I was like, which gross. Which gross love is this gonna get? Yes, but the love to Make a Wish foundation members. Yeah, but there's Eros and logos and, like, all these different types of. All these different types of things that are. That are really, really complicated things to take into account. Once you have sat with your show for years, you start wondering not just about the laughs that you're getting, but how can you juice those laughs by giving a bit of information early on. Like, I recently went to see Just for Us. Like, someone's doing Just for Us.
Mike Pesca
Get the fuck out.
Alex Edelman
Yeah, Minnesota. There was this guy.
Mike Pesca
You have approval over who's cast.
Alex Edelman
Yeah, well, I don't have approval over who's cast. I can approve the theater company that does it.
Mike Pesca
Okay.
Alex Edelman
So I said yes to this guy doing it in Minnesota.
Mike Pesca
And people are a Lutheran woman, too.
Alex Edelman
I actually said that they don't need to be Jewish.
Mike Pesca
That's a good call.
Alex Edelman
I don't think they need to be Jewish, but that's a whole different thing. I think that interrogation of Judaism can. I think I said, I want to see a woman of color do the show. Like, I'd really love to see, like, Cynthia Erivo or someone like that do it. Cynthia is, like, a good friend of mine. I want to see her. Like, I don't think she. She would because she's busy being a huge, talented star, but it would be sick. And. But I went to go see this guy who's an actor, not a comedian, do the show. And by the way, he was doing a script from 2021. So some of the jokes in there were the same, but I hadn't buttressed the characters on the front End. So I was like, my God, I just wish the writing of this were better because someone. It might be. Rubiglia says there are invisible pillars that you put early on in the show, so different jokes in the show work better later.
Mike Pesca
He gets that from Ira Glass and his idea. His idea of signposts in this American lifestyle.
Alex Edelman
That's very possible.
Mike Pesca
Good friends.
Alex Edelman
Iris got a really. But by the way, Ira is a huge influence on the way that I tell stories. Yeah.
Mike Pesca
You've been on this American Life?
Alex Edelman
Oh, yeah. I mean, like, it's. It is the. And by the way, being in this American life's the most, like, special thing. It's fucking coolest thing in the world. But, like, how many times.
Mike Pesca
How many times were you on?
Alex Edelman
I think I've been on. I can't remember if I've only been on once or if I've been on twice.
Mike Pesca
Yeah, I've been on three times.
Alex Edelman
You've been on three times.
Mike Pesca
I'm just being.
Alex Edelman
Seriously, I don't know, but I just.
Mike Pesca
Did it to be a dick.
Alex Edelman
No, no, I mean, like, I literally.
Mike Pesca
Just did it to be a dad.
Alex Edelman
Well, I'm glad it's made you into the global superstar that David Sedaris is. Yes, but Sedaris does.
Mike Pesca
But then I could spend my time cleaning up garbage in the English countryside.
Alex Edelman
Sedaris really establishes his character really early. So you laugh so much at the stuff that he leaves.
Mike Pesca
Just like, Niles. Just like. Yes.
Alex Edelman
So he's so, like, setting that. Doing that invisible character work is huge. And you can do that in a big, long set. But I try to do that in short sets, too. Like, I, like. I'll try to, like, softly call back to things that happen and, you know, like what I like. There's a phrase that I love recently where I'm like, if I say something really boring, I'll go, like, not to brag.
Mike Pesca
Yes.
Alex Edelman
And so if I do it multiple times in a set, I'll be like, sorry about all the bragging. And you don't have to make a big deal out of it because it's not really a bit. But it's a joke on the way to the joke. You can do it a bunch and I don't know what it is, but it's just, like, really appealing to, like, create a sense of, like, oh, who's this weirdo on stage?
Mike Pesca
And when you do it, you gesture, like, towards the audience. It's very inviting. Not to brag.
Alex Edelman
Yeah, Sorry. To brag. Oh. What was one was about taking a flight from Burbank to Seattle. And the other was about taking a crosstown bus. Not to brag. I'm like, sorry about brag. Or going to Graceland. And it's like, yeah, yeah, sorry not to brag. It's just the King's house.
Mike Pesca
And we'll be back more with Alex settlement right after this. We're back with Alex Edelman. I do want to ask you. This relates to. Just for us. And you have adhd, yes?
Alex Edelman
What? Yeah, sorry. Yeah, yeah, I have. I have adhd.
Mike Pesca
So I think that. I know you have a very fast mind, and sometimes your mind goes a little quicker than the audience. But also, you might not know if the audience is with you, and some of the audience might not be with you. And this shows up in a couple of jokes, like when you talk about, is it Prince William's coke habit?
Alex Edelman
Yeah. And the Queen, Harry's coca.
Mike Pesca
Prince Harry's coke. Sorry.
Alex Edelman
Besmirch the good name of Prince William.
Mike Pesca
Right, because he's doing.
Alex Edelman
As opposed to. As opposed to the. To the powder addicted lush of the younger brother. Right.
Mike Pesca
Opposed to the giant Bolivian nose candy fiend Harry. But you say you have to realize his grandmother's on the currency.
Alex Edelman
Real quick, I have a connection to Prince Harry, which is that my friend Jack once did cocaine with him in a London nightclub bathroom. All right, that did not get the reaction that I wanted from you. I will sidebar for this. Prince Harry had a cocaine problem. It's the best thing. We don't talk about it enough as a culture. It's in the new book. It's fantastic. I don't approve of cocaine, but I love that Prince Harry had a cocaine problem. Because in America, we forget this, but in England, the Queen is on all of the money. So that means at some point, Prince Harry rolls him a picture of his.
Mike Pesca
Grandmother to do drugs that he bought with other pictures of his grandmother.
Alex Edelman
That will never happen to any of you. None of you can walk in a Times Square after this. And the drug dealer's like, excuse me, that'll be $300. And you're like, excuse me. Here's a picture of my grandma at her 50th Jubilee parade. And he's like, what? They're like, here's a picture of my grandma with Winston Churchill. And he's like, how'd you get this? You know, like, here's a picture of my grandma planning the death of my mom.
Mike Pesca
Now some of the audience gets it and some of the audience does it.
Alex Edelman
Those are great. And then you.
Mike Pesca
And then there's another joke like that that you do now about the Holocaust survivors and your mother's family.
Alex Edelman
And that's like a less than a week old, though. So I don't really know it yet.
Mike Pesca
But the only reason I bring it up, it's the same thing where you say, she's 59. And sometimes the audience laughs immediately. Like, that's too young for a Holocaust survivor. And sometimes they need to be led there. And so my question for so is that one of the things when you go in front of an audience, you don't know when they're gonna get the joke. And then you have to make a decision about how much to fill.
Alex Edelman
Then sometimes I can't backfill. Sometimes the step is too big for an audience. Sometimes it doesn't work, or sometimes they get it and they're like, all right, keep building.
Mike Pesca
Yeah. And you need the audience to tell you that.
Alex Edelman
Every comedian. I believe this. Someone who's overexposed to comedy by doing it or watching so much of it as you wait to go do it yourself. Comedians brains work different from audience brains, and critics brains work different from audience and comedians brains, but slightly so comedians and critics are closer together. Awards brains work different from audience brains. And the truth is, I do think that I've always written. Tried to write for all four audiences. I try to write for audience members, peers, critics, and folks who look at things in a really jeweler's loop way and measure them against other stuff, because why not? And also, I'm insecure, and I want everyone to think a joke has merit. But sometimes a joke only works with one or two of those constituencies. And there's a fifth constituency, which is me.
Mike Pesca
Yeah.
Alex Edelman
Which is, what do I find to be funny? And if I. There are some jokes, and some of them are in just for us. To be fair. I know there's funny, like, still in just for us after years. I know there's something funny there, but I haven't quite figured out a way to translate it or, like, you know how, like, a big part of getting maple syrup out of a tree is like driving a spigot in. In the right place. Like, I've never been able to, like, drive a spigot into the joke in the right place and, like, get that sweet, sweet laugh out.
Mike Pesca
But it's there when we see it on hbo, we'll see.
Alex Edelman
It's maybe. But, like, there are some things. But, like, you also have to trust that, like, eventually you can make one brain into another. Right. Like, you can make. You can Invite an audience member to be a critic or a critic to be an audience member or a comedian to. I don't know. Actually, I don't know how much a comedian's brain change. I think it has to do with the time you're watching a thing. And by the way, the reason I write for. I say awards, but people who judge things against other things, because it's a good way to look after the evergreenness of. It's a good way to look after the evergreenness of your offering. It's a good way to, like, think about whether or not your show is going to be considered good. And, you know, two years, three years. And you want shows to withstand the test of time in case you ever revisit them or in case not all shows do. My first solo show, I don't think stands up that well. It changed my life in a really significant way. I did a show called Millennial. I spent the last year writing on a television show. At the end of this television show, I checked my bank balance, and I had $5,421 in my bank account. And this is how little I know about being an adult. I saw the bank balance on the ATM screen, and I thought to myself, with no irony, I should buy a house. Not a big house, one of those small $5,000 houses. How is any Millennial ever gonna buy a home? How is any young person ever gonna own a home? It's maybe hate old people. I see a few of you in here tonight. I hate you. Cause every old person in a cool city like this, or New York or la, or Boston or Seattle are the same. Every old person's like, my house is worth a million dollars, but when I bought it in 1968, I paid 11 raspberries for. And every young person's like, I have nine roommates. One of them's a raccoon with rabies. We'd love to get him out, but his name is on the lease. And every old person's like, I'm a librarian with a lake house. Up yours. And then my second show is called Everything Handed to youo. And that show stands up pretty well. And I think just for us. I don't. I don't know how it will stand up in five years, but I think, okay, because we tried to take stuff out that would date it.
Mike Pesca
But, yeah, this is exactly one thing I was thinking of. Because as you were telling jokes about, you have brothers Israeli, and your family's Jewish. And as you were telling jokes around the Gaza, Israel conflict, I Could tell that the audience, beyond not being ready to go there, doesn't even know to laugh, where to laugh. So you were doing jokes about certain reactions to it, but it seems just about. And I want to bring it back to just for us, but it seems just about the hardest topic that I could think of in comedy. Like, I'm after 9, 11. Supposedly you couldn't make jokes about whatever, but no one was making jokes about America having deserved it for real.
Alex Edelman
Right.
Mike Pesca
You could make jokes about certain phrases like, this is why the terrorists hate us. There's a great bit there. You can make jokes about American overreach. But at least in America, since we weren't playing comedians, weren't playing shows for Kandahar audiences, at least in America, everyone's more or less on the same side. And with the Gaza conflict, it is so hard to figure out exactly where the audience is gonna wanna go.
Alex Edelman
There's another problem too, which is there's not a lot of comedy in being right.
Mike Pesca
Yeah, yeah.
Alex Edelman
There's not a lot of comedy in being bang on, as like British people say. And the truth is, to be wrong feels immoral, even if you're pro Israel. To be wrong in the other respect feels immoral. And if you're pro Palestinian. I would go out on a limb here, given that they've suffered many, many, many, many, much, much, much more loss and for a much longer period, even though the hostages are indeed really a sustained wound, it feels immoral to be making jokes in the face of it on ongoing conflict that ranges in opinion from humanitarian crisis to outright genocide. Right. So people are. I'm not. I'm not labeling either of those things. Things I'm saying that's how people feel.
Mike Pesca
And so being descriptive, not normative.
Alex Edelman
Yeah. In a way that, by the way, part of that is preservation. But also part of that is, like, there have been moments in this conflict where I'm like, okay, this is a humanitarian crisis. And there are moments in this conflict where I go, maybe it's a genocide. Like, it's truly, in my opinion, wavers based on the information that I'm fed and based on the things that I've seen. And it's impossible to get an impartial media diet, and I don't know who to listen to. And I think it's the trickiest topic you could possibly take on.
Mike Pesca
I think so too.
Alex Edelman
But in that doubt, that's where there's comedy, in not being sure. That's where there's comedy, in not being able to talk about it. That's where there's comedy and to be like, I'm clown. Like, there's a joke that I'm working on now that I've never, like, discussed before because it's still, like, sort of under, like. But it's about a, a person who is black, Jewish and trans who's, you know, arrested for putting up pro Hamas posters. And I talk about that, but, like, I also try to be like, well, what's the other side of that? So there, so there's that there's a joke about that, but then there's a joke then like, okay, what's the other perspective on it? And the truth is, I think most people. I'm answering your question. I prom. I think most people actually think that things aren't, like, black and white and like, the right thing to the right opinion on the opinion that someone might have about one of these, like, queers for Palestine people is that they would not be welcome in Gaza. They would be, you know, in harm's way for many different reasons. And the thing that I think is, like, interesting about that is that these people know that. And so the idea that they're naive about that is probably not real. And in that, there's great fodder for a joke.
Mike Pesca
Right?
Alex Edelman
Because that's something that most people would recognize but isn't acknowledged. And something that's recognized but isn't acknowledged is greatly like Just For Us is about the Jewish relationship to whiteness being more complex than what you would see in the media. Because on one hand, I'm white enough to get into that room of white nationalists, but not white enough to be considered white by any of the people in that room. So that paradox is, like, a really great way to. So, like the paradox. I'm putting this together in real time. So I'm sorry if it's like, a little messy because I've never talked about this joke, but the paradox of someone who is a queer for Palestine and, you know, in air quotes, sticking up for Palestinians and that person having some bravery.
Mike Pesca
Yes. This is a word you use in the joke.
Alex Edelman
In the joke, like, that is like, there is comedy in that paradox. And the truth is, this is stuff we want to talk about, like, in some ways, in the days after 9, 11, how could you go on stage and talk about your shoe size or chicken restaurants or those bars that were popping up around the turn of the century where it was cold on the inside and you would go in and sit there in a coat and drink a cold martini? Like, those things existed, but they all existed then in relation to 9 11.
Mike Pesca
Yes.
Alex Edelman
And so if I'm a Jew, grappling with the situation in the Middle east, wondering if, like, the Israelite grew up with is, you know, means something different now, wondering if the relationship that my family and my friends, you know, have to. It is splintering. Like, how can I talk about anything else besides, like, this big current thing that's filling my aperture?
Mike Pesca
But do you think, just for us, it will stand the test of time and be performed by different regional theater groups and maybe a black woman at some day because it's quality? But do you think its conception and questioning of antisemitism is a bit of a time capsule in that it took place before October 7th? And I don't even know if the word Zionism appears in the show at all.
Alex Edelman
I mean, it does. Or even the concept it does one time as a sort of sarcastic remark. And I decided not to change it after October 7th because also, words and context change all the time. Who knows? God forbid somebody, you know, you do a joke about Casamigos Tequila and then somebody walks into an alcohol, you know, an alcohol shop in Tulsa holding a machine gun, steals five bottles of Casamigos and, you know, you know, kills everybody in the shop, and there's a Casamigos killer. And now you're holding the bag on camera for alcohol. I'm not besmirching the good name of Casamigos Chiquila.
Mike Pesca
And we should thank our sponsor, Don Julio, as always.
Alex Edelman
And I love all the founders of Casamigos. They're fantastic. I think Clooney's one of them. So, like, I mean, I don't want.
Mike Pesca
To get wrong with Clooney.
Alex Edelman
I don't want to get. Yeah, I'm just saying that, like, not like Prince Harry, who we thrown under the bus multiple times in this podcast. But the point is, words and cultural context shift all the time, and it's up to the person performing it in that moment to I, here's my hard and fast rule for this, which is a, A show and a joke should be conversant with the moment that it's in and not beholden to it. So, right. Like, you know, people after October 7th were like, you should address, you know, the situation in Israel or the situation in Gaza. And they were doing it from different perspectives. Like, certain people called me and were like, you need to stand up for Israel right now in your show. And there are people call me was like, you need to speak out about. About what's happening to the Palestinians. And I Was like, that's not the show. But I put a line in at the beginning that didn't make it into the special. But I really love the line. I said, I come out, go, hi, thanks so much for coming. One quick thing before we start. I said, this show is about. There's a bit in the show about Jewish identity and a bit about anti Semitism, a bit about Israel and. And I want it. And to that I just want to say, when I was in high school, I saw John Updike give a talk. He's like a novelist. So John Updike give a talk. And I know you know who John Updike is. It's for the listenership. You saw John.
Mike Pesca
Not that bright.
Alex Edelman
Good, thank you. I said, john Updike gave a talk. And Updike said that if you're lucky enough at some point in your life, the work that you create might find itself conversing with the times in which you live. And then it would pause and go, well, call me Mr. Lucky. That's great. And it just let you know that I knew what was going on, that these things are relevant. And that part of it, I think the thing that people underestimate is part of the work of a comedy show or a comedian is to put something out there for an audience to examine themselves and converse with themselves. To go, here is a little nugget of how people are talking about Israel and Palestine. Discuss amongst yourself. Here is a thing, Here's a thing that I've observed. It's not a thing that I necessarily believe to the exclusion of other things. The hardest part in terms of talking about Israel and Palestine that I have found is that it's impossible to address. It's gone for so long and has been discussed so much. The context is all knotted together. So you can't talk about, you can't talk about the situation in Gaza without considering everything that's come before it, right? And that's pretty hard to do in a joke. And you can't talk about, you know, college students protesting, like the situation in Gaza without the discussion of how Americans view things through a post colonialist lens. Again, hard thing to talk about in a joke, not just because of the topic matter, but because of, of the way you do a joke. Doesn't always like, you know, if you only saw one bit of the joke about the kid protesting in Pal, you know, protesting on behalf of the Palestinians, you'd be like, well, that's offensive from a pro Palestinian lens. But if you didn't, if you only Saw the second half of the joke about how that kid is brave. You'd be like, well, that joke is offensive from a pro Israel lens.
Mike Pesca
Right.
Alex Edelman
And so like.
Mike Pesca
And also, not every joke has to be equally balanced. You can even have one joke. Or do you think it does think?
Alex Edelman
I think that jokes. I think jokes that ask questions and pose questions are better than jokes that propose answers.
Mike Pesca
And you think those jokes, those questions should be fair?
Alex Edelman
I think you can't.
Mike Pesca
You can't put your finger on it.
Alex Edelman
I think it's hard for me personally not to wonder about the paradox of somebody protesting on behalf of. Of a trans, Jewish, black person protesting on behalf of Palestinians without considering the risk to that person.
Mike Pesca
So you're engaged in a very ethical project here. Does that hold you back?
Alex Edelman
Yes and no. In the sense one, if you can walk that tightrope for a long time, then you have something really interesting. On the other hand, it's really hard to walk that tightrope. I was going to do a show about Israel and Palestine long before October 7th and talked about it as my next project for the three and a half years. Just For Us existed before that, but it's much harder now. Also, I want people to enjoy themselves. I'm not out there to fuck with people. I don't want. People are going to get a babysitter. They should have fun.
Mike Pesca
Yeah. Are you ready to get bummed out by the geopolitical musings of Alex Adams?
Alex Edelman
But the truth is, like, you know, Adam, before he died, was a really big fan of this quote that he attributed to the coach of the Tampa Bay Buccaneers, Bruce Arians.
Mike Pesca
Okay.
Alex Edelman
Which is no risk. It no biscuit. So, like, you gotta go out there and like, bomb on a Tuesday or bomb on a Wednesday, wherever you saw me in front of a dead audience to, like, get at something. Cause by the way, if a joke works in that room, then that joke is working anywhere else.
Mike Pesca
Yeah.
Alex Edelman
And like, one or two jokes worked in that room last night. I was like, okay, those jokes are keepers. I say one or two jokes in the span of 15 minutes. Not exactly a great batting average, but that. But like, your swings are pretty good. So, yeah, it holds you back. And also the truth is, my opinion changes. My opinion about Israel is different than it was on October 7, 2023. And my opinion about the ways people speak about Israel is different than how it was, you know, when we last spoke. And also, I find huge bad faith discour that's influenced by how people feel about Kamala Harris or Donald Trump or You know, their own position within, you know, within anything. So like it's, it's tough.
Mike Pesca
Yeah. And to paraphrase what Bruce Arians was saying, there's this other saying, you miss every shot you don't take. And that was of course said by Yaha Cinmore.
Alex Edelman
Yeah. Oh my God.
Mike Pesca
Cut, cut, cut.
Alex Edelman
No, no, no. Like these. Also, here's the other thing.
Mike Pesca
I could, I could change it to the IDF to make it balanced.
Alex Edelman
Sure, sure. I'm not digging myself, but you. The truth is these jokes are like the other thing that's tough from a craft perspective on Israel and Palestine, there aren't that many words you feel like comfortable laughing at. The reason Nazis are so great to laugh at is you can laugh at almost like it's so far in the past. Also, people have a little more. And by the way, there's a perception now doing jokes about Israel and Palestine is easier now than it was three months ago, which actually troubles me a little bit. Cause it's still like, you know, it's still like a problem that's in our face. But yeah, a lot of like.
Mike Pesca
And a crazy ass plan for Gaza resettlement, I don't even know that helps a comedian there is so stupid.
Alex Edelman
I mean, but by the way, that actually the more things that happen besides like, you know, my actual opinion on Israel and Palestine changes a lot. But I'm broadly in the camp of there's gotta be a way to figure this out without innocent people getting killed. There has to be a way in the 21st century for us to figure this out without teenagers getting taken hostage and moabs being dropped on toddlers. Like, I don't think that's. And by the way, I think almost all reasonable people believe that. And if you, if you, if you don't believe it, I think you are largely traumatized by having skin in the game, which I respect, or are arguing in bad faith, which I don't.
Mike Pesca
Yeah.
Alex Edelman
And so like, you know, my opinion roughly, like centers on that, but I do think there's lots of like, like there's lots of reasonablenesses in those, you know, in those like, vicissitudes.
Mike Pesca
Well, Alex, let me tell you a, I enjoy talking you to today, but I enjoyed watching you last night. And obviously after the second show where you killed and the crowd went wild, it's easy for me to say, oh, I love Alex Edelman. After the first show, I turned to my wife and said, that guy is talking about everything I'm thinking about. So maybe it was me. Congratulating, myself liking. Liking what you called the worst set in 50 years. But this is why. This is why I think so highly of you.
Alex Edelman
This is a, like, this club. It's a credit to. I think this club has. Look, think about the last thing I'll. Obviously we're winding down, but like, comedy institutions, they don't. Like a ton of them don't really exist anymore. Like, you know, not a ton of us worked comic strip, which was been around a real long time and. And Caroline's is closed and Caroline herself is still around, which is amazing. But like, you know, the comedy seller, I think because of its, like, commitment to, like, progress and like, because no, I'm kind of as a lodestar, which, by the way, I don't always agree with. Yeah, like, this place per. This place makes it like. This place is an environment where you actually can go and like, talk about all this shit and like, you can. You're expected to entertain people, but like. But also, like, do something with your time on stage. It's like, pretty good litmus test for, you know, comics are doing stuff other than like, just talking about, like, cunnilingus. Not that there aren't great, like, cunnilingus comedians. I can think of two. But like, yeah, I think that there's like a real. There's a lot of really great stuff at this club and so makes it all possible.
Mike Pesca
Thanks, Alex.
Alex Edelman
Thanks, buddy.
Mike Pesca
That's it for today's show that just is produced by Corey Wara and Michelle Pesca as our far flung cbso. Un Peru G Peru du Peru. Thanks for listening.
Podcast Summary: The Gist Episode - "Funny You Should Mention Season 2 - Alex Edelman"
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Timestamp: [00:51]
Mike Pesca kicks off the episode by introducing the theme of Season 2 of Funny You Should Mention, focusing on the interplay between comedians' ideas and their comedic delivery. He highlights Alex Edelman’s multifaceted career, noting his accolades such as Tony Awards and Grammys, and sets the stage for an in-depth discussion about Edelman's approach to comedy, particularly his recent less-than-stellar set at the Comedy Cellar which serves as a springboard for their conversation.
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Timestamp: [04:00] - [08:27]
Alex Edelman delves into the challenges of performing for different audiences, emphasizing the importance of developing a consistent comedic voice versus tailoring performances to each venue. He shares experiences from the Comedy Cellar, highlighting the trial-and-error nature of stand-up and the influence of club culture on a comedian's growth.
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Timestamp: [08:28] - [12:33]
Edelman discusses his process for writing and refining jokes, including the use of index cards to organize and evaluate material. He emphasizes the significance of specific, anecdotal humor and how subtle shifts in joke placement can impact audience reception.
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Timestamp: [14:05] - [21:50]
The conversation shifts to Edelman’s influences, including Mike Birbiglia, Brian Eno, and historical figures like Monty Python and John Updike. He reflects on how these influences shape his storytelling and comedic style, blending narrative satisfaction with humor to create a cohesive performance.
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Timestamp: [29:47] - [43:28]
Edelman addresses the complexities of incorporating sensitive topics, particularly the Israel-Palestine conflict, into his comedy. He elaborates on the ethical considerations and the fine line between humor and offense, emphasizing the difficulty in addressing such subjects without alienating segments of the audience.
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Timestamp: [43:28] - [52:23]
The discussion deepens into the ethical responsibilities of comedians when tackling heavy subjects. Edelman contemplates the moral implications of making jokes about tragic events and the importance of fostering self-reflection within the audience through humor.
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Timestamp: [12:33] - [22:19]
Edelman shares how personal experiences, including the loss of a close friend, have influenced his comedic material, leading to a focus on themes like death and mortality. He discusses the therapeutic aspect of comedy in processing grief and the integration of these themes into his performances.
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Timestamp: [29:50] - [34:09]
Edelman emphasizes the importance of being attuned to the audience's reactions and adapting his performance accordingly. He discusses the necessity of taking risks and the understanding that not every joke will resonate, reflecting on the dynamic interaction between performer and audience.
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Timestamp: [42:39] - [54:13]
Edelman reflects on the future of comedy within shifting cultural and political landscapes. He discusses the importance of creating timeless material that can endure through changing contexts and the challenges of ensuring his work remains relevant and respectful amidst evolving societal norms.
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Timestamp: [54:07] - [54:13]
Mike Pesca wraps up the episode by expressing admiration for Alex Edelman's ability to tackle complex and sensitive topics with humor and insight. He acknowledges the challenges Edelman faces in his craft and commends his commitment to thoughtful comedy.
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Overall Insights: This episode of The Gist offers a comprehensive look into Alex Edelman’s multifaceted approach to comedy, highlighting his commitment to meaningful humor that navigates sensitive topics with care. Through personal anecdotes and philosophical discussions, Edelman articulates the delicate balance between entertaining audiences and provoking thoughtful reflection. The conversation underscores the evolving nature of comedy in addressing complex societal issues while maintaining comedic integrity and relevance.
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This detailed exploration provides listeners and non-listeners alike with an enriching understanding of the intricate processes and ethical considerations that underpin effective and impactful comedy.