Robby Hoffman Will Always Feel Poor, No Matter How Rich She Gets

Summary

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Podcast Summary: The Interview – "Robby Hoffman Will Always Feel Poor, No Matter How Rich She Gets"

Host: Lulu Garcia-Navarro (The New York Times)
Guest: Robby Hoffman (Comedian, Writer, Actor)
Date: June 27, 2026
Episode Theme:
A candid, irreverent exploration of comedian Robby Hoffman’s journey from poverty in an ultra-Orthodox Jewish family to fame and success in comedy—while never feeling fully “comfortable” no matter her achievements. The conversation centers on the impact of class, the complexities of identity, and the unvarnished authenticity that fuels Hoffman’s life and comedy.

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Main Themes and Purpose

• Examining how Robby Hoffman’s working-class, trauma-filled upbringing as one of ten children in a Hasidic family fundamentally shapes her worldview, comedy, and attitudes toward money, fame, and social belonging.
• A discussion of class as the “real” line dividing people, above other identities, and how it persists despite personal success.
• Reflections on navigating religious, sexual, and professional transitions—never entirely fitting into any “comfortable” category.
• The challenge and liberation of speaking unfiltered truths in life and comedy, even when it risks controversy.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Surreal Comfort/Discomfort of Success

• Being Interviewed at Home:

  • Hoffman jokes about the irony of interviewers claiming they want her to be comfortable in her own home, yet rearranging her furniture and disrupting normalcy (02:07).
  • Quote:

    “You come to the house and you totally rip apart... you want me to be comfortable, but the couch isn’t—where the couch... like the whole house is moved.” – Robby Hoffman (01:48)

• Never Feeling “Comfortable”:

  • Despite success, she says:

    “No. But I’m not comfortable a lot, so don’t worry. I’m comfortable being uncomfortable.” (02:34)

  • Being comfortable, to her, is a “rich thing.”

2. The Weirdness of Rich vs. Poor

• Comparisons Between Rich and Poor Social Behavior:

  • Hoffman notes that wealthy people often lack everyday generosity seen in poor households (03:52):

    “They have the biggest fridge, but nobody can go in the fridge... The poor have much less, but... it’s like: take, take, take.”

  • Generosity is a marker of humanity, more commonly witnessed in poorer communities.

• Class as Identity:

  • She and wife Gabby bond over shared experiences of scarcity; their relationship “speaks the same language” (05:17).

3. Trauma, Upbringing, and Humor

• Memories of Crown Heights:

  • Childhood described as “brutal,” with vivid imagery of oppressive heat, crowding, and domestic violence (07:54):

    “It was so hot... My parents had the ten kids on the floor, some in the bed... sleeping in their underwear... I was very afraid of my father.”

  • Father’s abuse toward her mother, and her avoidance of him, marked her formative years.

• Comedy as Coping:

  • Humor was survival:

    “It was always brutal and funny.” (10:47)

  • The family’s approach to humor meant “nothing off limits,” with laughter serving as both relief and resistance to hardship (11:14).

4. Navigating Adolescence & Social Identity

• Trying to Fit In at Private Jewish School:

  • Trying to mask poverty and androgyny by affecting more “feminine,” affluent behaviors—using different speech, clothing, and accessories (20:10–21:54).

    “I was always thinking how I look, how I sound, how I look, how I sound…”

• Outed as Gay at 17:

  • Traumatic experience of losing friendships and community overnight:

    “I lost all my friends overnight at 17... It was the worst time in my life.” (23:13–25:32)

  • Some friends offered support, but the event was isolating and pivotal.

5. The Professional Split: “Rivka” vs. “Robby”

• Balancing Two Lives:

  • Used “Rivka” at her accounting job, “Robby” in comedy to keep standup life separate from corporate expectations (26:41).

• Comedy as Vocation:

  • She describes finding home on stage:

    “When everything goes black in the room and the lights are on me, I feel like I’m in a womb... I feel at fucking home, really.” (27:49–28:45)

  • Comedy “chooses you”—she couldn’t escape its pull, even if it risked remaining poor.

6. Boundaries and Controversy in Comedy

• Nothing Off Limits:

  • Jokes about sensitive topics, from AIDS to abortion, come naturally:

    “Jokes come to you. It’s divine. I don’t choose ideas.” (31:23)

  • “Anyone can do anything, but you’re at your own risk” (30:26).

• Notable Communities Offended:

  • Most backlash came from unexpected groups:

    “The only two communities that have come after me... the pit bull community... and the celiac community.” (32:40)

  • Rich white women are, she jokes, “at the helm of both the pit bull and the celiac community.”

• Her Comedy’s Ethos:

  • Hoffman insists everyone—herself included—is fair game, and being offended is less dire than genuine hardship:

    “I don’t think being offended is the worst thing. I think being poor is.” (34:05)

7. Experiences with Fame

• Scrutiny as a Marker of Arrival:

  • Brush with Yiddish grammar controversy on “Hacks”:

    “We get Yiddish onto the show, and then this Jewish publication has an issue with the Yiddish... My mother got the word right. She doesn’t need to be indicted for this.” (38:26–39:13)

• Emmy Nomination:

  • “It changed my life. I’m Emmy-nominated now... Six lines and Emmy!” (37:35)

8. Relationship with Gabby Windey

• Marriage as “Choosing Family”:
  • Both grew up with instability; their relationship is healing, built on trust, frankness, and mutual understanding (46:49–48:21):

    “It’s not our job to heal each other, but through the relationship, we are healing each other.”

9. Class as the Defining Social Divide

• Class Over Everything:
  • Hoffman is wary of being slotted into elite media and insists class transcends other social divisions:

    “It’s enough partaking in petty squabbles when we have bigger shit going on... If you want the us versus them, at my core, it’s always been about the rich vs. the poor.” (43:09)
    “Classism affects everybody... It’s a big conversation, and it’s the conversation.” (49:46)

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Emotional Responses to Spending:

  “I’m not in a place emotionally to drop $7.99 USD [on raspberries].” – Robby Hoffman (05:17)

• On Comfort:

  “The idea of comfort generally... is a rich thing. Even if you ask somebody how they grew up, they won’t even tell you ‘rich.’ They’ll say, ‘We were comfortable.’ I’ve never heard the word growing up. Comfortable. What, we’re not comfortable? There’s roaches in the fucking sink!” (13:14)

• On Being a Comedian:

  “I just do, I guess. My existence... It's not that serious. I'm not a journalist. I'm not from the New York Times. I'm a comedian, you know what I mean? So I might not know everything, and I’m wrong a lot, and that’s fine too.” (36:47)

• On Healing Through Partnership:

  “It’s not our job to heal each other, but through the relationship, we are healing each other.” (48:21)

• On Choosing Her Family:

  “There’s a loophole. If I marry Gabby, I choose my family. That’s the one time you choose your family. Choose wisely.” (48:49)

• On Class as the Central Issue:

  “Classism affects everybody... It’s a big conversation, and it’s the conversation.” (49:46)

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Timestamps for Key Segments

• 00:39–02:50: Bumblings around comfort during the home interview; Robby’s philosophy of being comfortable with discomfort.
• 03:08–04:54: Robby on her experience of class, generosity, and contrasts between rich and poor.
• 07:54–11:26: Recollections of childhood poverty, family trauma, and the roots of family humor.
• 14:50–16:08: Hoffman contrasts the “comfort” of poor and rich house experiences; reflections on community.
• 20:10–23:07: Teenage efforts to fit in; the evolution from masking to authenticity.
• 23:13–25:31: Impact of being outed as a lesbian at 17 and the social fallout.
• 26:41–28:45: Dual professional identities; discovery of standup as calling.
• 30:21–34:05: Boundaries and ethics of comedy; backlash and perspectives on offense and outrage.
• 37:35–39:13: How “Hacks” and an Emmy nod changed her career; the Yiddish grammar debate.
• 42:31–44:34: Navigating increased fame, scrutiny, and the importance of focusing on class over divisive identity politics.
• 46:49–48:49: Building a nurturing relationship with Gabby Windey, overcoming insecurities from childhood.
• 49:46–50:47: Centrality of class as the enduring subject of her work.

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Conclusion

Robby Hoffman’s interview is a brisk, hilarious, and unguarded odyssey through class, trauma, identity, art, and resilience. She insists on keeping class at the center of the conversation and brings it, along with her brutal honesty, into both her comedy and her life. Whether joking about celiacs, synagogues, or Hollywood, she stakes her claim on discomfort—and on using comedy to open rather than close conversations.

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Transcript

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[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

from the new York Times, this is the interview. I'm Lulu Garcia Navarro. Comedian Robbie Hoffman seems to be everywhere these days. She's been praised for her scene stealing roles in Hacks as Randy, a former Hasidic Jew from Crown Heights who becomes a Hollywood assistant, and in Steve Carell's HBO comedy Rooster, in which she plays a blunt, protective roommate. Ho grew up poor in a Hasidic community herself, the seventh of 10 children with lots of trauma. Despite their religious roots, her family supported her when she was outed in her teens. That life is the source of a lot of her unfiltered comedy, including her Netflix special, Wake Up. There's so much I wanted to ask her about money, fame, marriage and what they mean in our celebrity and wealth obsessed culture. And boy, did she engage. Here's my conversation with the singular Robbie Hoff.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Okay. An action.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Robbie Hoffman.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Yeah. Can you imagine?

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

We're actually in your home.

[Robbie Hoffman]

It's weird because you guys said, and I was saying this a bit. You said, oh, they have to do it at your house because we want the the person to be comfortable. But what you do is you come to the house and you totally rip apart. Like, this is not like, do you know what I mean? It's like you want me to be comfortable, but the couch isn't. Where the couch, like the whole house is moved.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Yes.

[Robbie Hoffman]

So it's kind of counterintuitive. We want the subject to be comfortable. But then you come in the house and you move everything. That's right. And I did notice sometimes when you see an interview, you see them sitting in the middle of a room in their chair. And I go, that's their living room. How weird to walk in. But now I understand they move everything. I have these chairs. These are my chairs. But normally they're there.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

They're very nice chairs.

[Robbie Hoffman]

They're very Nice chairs.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

The house is beautiful.

[Robbie Hoffman]

They're beautiful.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Do you feel comfortable?

[Robbie Hoffman]

No

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

fair.

[Robbie Hoffman]

But I'm not comfortable a lot, so don't worry. I'm comfortable being uncomfortable.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Are you comfortable making people uncomfortable too?

[Robbie Hoffman]

Yeah. Oh, yeah.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Great. Then we're in for a fun conversation.

[Robbie Hoffman]

We're in for it.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

All right, so we're gonna talk about more of this later. But as you have often talked about, you grew up really poor. And I wanted to start, though, with what is the weirdest thing now about finding yourself with money and fame?

[Robbie Hoffman]

You know, I don't know if weird is the word. I think it's tremendous. It's amazing. It's everything I've ever wanted, was to make a living doing what I love doing. You know, life is weird everywhere.

[Commercial Narrator (Princess Cruises)]

I.

[Robbie Hoffman]

My weird doesn't, you know, me seeing stuff. It doesn't change necessarily based on my socioeconomic status, because I still see every. Now I just see rich people and their weirdness. I was poor. I saw us. I didn't. You know what I mean? And I saw that. Now I see new weird things. You know, it's like you go to a different level of a video game. There's other challenges and there's other weirdness.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

How would you compare the rich weird to the poor weird?

[Robbie Hoffman]

The rich weird is way weirder and worse because it. There's like a humanity that is missing. My favorite is a people like me who grew up poor and then, by the grace of God, got some money, and now we could be like, oh, my God, how weird are these rich people who've been like this since birth or whatever, right? Small things, like when you go into a rich person's house and nobody's allowed to go in the fridge. Right. The poor have much less, but it's like when you go to their house, it's like, take, take, take. You want a Coke? You want a Sprite? Like, we just. Everybody went in the fridge, but the rich, they have the biggest fridge, but nobody can go in the fridge, right? So it's a small thing like that that paints a bigger picture, a bigger problem of generosity, Right? Generosity seems like a small thing, but I've only. I've mostly seen generosity in poor households. It's not to say it doesn't exist, but it is notable. Whenever I meet a rich person and they actually were helpful or great, I mention it. It's worth mentioning, are there things that

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

have stayed with you about having really struggled because my mom came as a political refugee from Cuba with basically a suitcase, and no matter how comfortable she is.

[Robbie Hoffman]

No, no, no.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Yeah, she's a hoarder. She is a hoarder because she says it's because she lost everything so young. Yeah, she can't throw anything away. She's 87 now, and that has stayed with her. Is there anything like that for you?

[Robbie Hoffman]

Everything. Everything stays with you. The way that I am is entirely informed by how I grew up. Everything stays with me. I joke about it often times, but, you know, that's why I like being with Gab. We both kind of grew up. Meager beginnings. And we speak the same language. I equate it to literally dating outside of the faith. Gabby and I getting married, we dated inside our faith. No, she's not Jewish. Nothing to do with that. But she grew up meager. So did I. And that helps our day to day. We speak the same language. If we're grocery shopping. Raspberries are 7.99 for a little thing. And I'm not in the mood to spend that. I don't care if the money's in the account. I'm not in a place emotionally to drop $7.99 USD. A little thing of raspberries. We move on. She agrees. We move on.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

This thing that you just said is so interesting to me that you're not emotionally in the place to spend $7.99.

[Robbie Hoffman]

I think it's, I'm moving on. But what does that mean?

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

What does that mean for you? I just. I've never heard that explained that before.

[Robbie Hoffman]

This is crazy. I mean, I had a great uncle and I don't know the comparison, but, you know, gas right now in LA is $7 close to.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Yeah.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Okay. Now, when I was a kid, I think in Montreal, it goes by liter, not gallon. And I think like, it used to be like 70 cents or something. When it reached a dollar, he didn't leave the house. Like, he was like. Like, I'd be like, uncle Eddie, could you take me to my friend's house? He's like, are you kidding? Gas is a dollar. I'm gonna be downstairs. And he just didn't leave his room. I grew up like those, like. Like the day in and the day out. I don't know, it just affects me. It's how I, you know, even the way I purchase things, if I'm gonna buy something, I sold out a tour, I. I sold a show. I'm writing a book. Whatever it is, I take a little off the top. I make sure it's something I love. I have forever and I buy it. And then the Rest of it I try and be careful with.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

What's the last thing you bought that you loved?

[Robbie Hoffman]

Probably my backpack. Cool. I bought a designer backpack for tour. And, you know, as a dyke like me, I don't buy purses or anything like that, but a backpack is akin. I've had it almost a year and I don't see it slowing down.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

It's a good investment.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Yeah. Really good. Really good.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Yeah.

[Robbie Hoffman]

All right.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

You grew up the seventh of 10 kids in an ultra orthodox Hasidic family. You've described growing up in pretty brutal terms.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Brutal.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

What are your earliest memories of your life in Crown Heights?

[Robbie Hoffman]

Really bad. I don't speak too much to this, but I can a little bit. Crown Heights is beautiful now, but there were a lot of robberies when we were kids. And I do remember the summers are very hot in New York. For those, you know as the New York Times. I never get up, see the New York Times mug. Are you getting that on camera? Well, you asked me if I'm comfortable. The New York Times is in my house. No, I'm not comfortable. I'm always excited. The Times is the Times. So, no, I'm not comfortable, but I'm excited. I don't need to be so comfortable. Back to the question. We, in the summer didn't have air conditioning, but my parents had in their bedroom, one air conditioner in the window. And it was so hot, must have been over 100 degrees. Everybody was sleeping in their underwear. My parents had the 10 kids on the floor, some in the bed and others of us, like on couch pillows, like, you know, quasi made mattresses. And we would sleep on the floor in our underwear. I had, you know, memories. I was very afraid of my father. My mother was. My father was abusive to my mother. You know, I try speaking about this now. I try and give grace to. Not too much grace, but not, you know, my parents were very young when they had us. You know, My father was 35 with 10 kids. My mother was 30 with 10 kids. So they were under a lot of pressure and stress. I'm not excusing him, but I don't know that he had the proper resources to deal with anything. And I'm not sure how he was told to manage his family in the systems that he was a part of, the religious systems. So that said, he was very abusive and we kind of avoided him.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

What does that mean, if you don't mind my asking? And you don't have to say, he

[Robbie Hoffman]

was physically abusive to my mother for years. And so I kind of Always avoided him. Now, he would. He was not physically abusive to us. And in fact, I remember some bad fights. He would speak to us after and say, you know, but I would never hit you. But it's like, but you hit Ma. It's like you hit Ma. And my mother is the sweetest, you know, Unbelievable. Wouldn't hurt a fly. So it's like, well, you, you know, it's like, I don't know, we kind of. Like, I just. Like, I remember seeing my father. Like, I remember once walking to the kitchen. I wasn't five, six, I don't even know, young. I want an orange juice or a snack. And I saw him sitting there. I saw him and I go, oh, didn't see you there. And I, you know, and I would walk away. Like, we didn't have that sort of a relation. I saw him and I'm like, oh, sorry, I didn't see there. I'll come back. So that was kind of a tiptoe time, for sure.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

When did you realize you were funny?

[Robbie Hoffman]

Probably later.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Later.

[Robbie Hoffman]

But my whole family, everybody was funny. We just were all funny. My father was very funny, and my mother is hysterical. So everybody was funny. It was always brutal and funny. And, yeah, we laughed at each other, we laughed at ourselves. We laughed at everyone. And anything. There was nothing off limits. And if you saw something funny nowadays that, like, oh, you shouldn't laugh at that. Like, my brother would hate you. You see, look at this. Look. You know, like, we would always catch funny with each other. Like, oh, look what's going on there. Look what's going on there. So we were pointing, we were looking, we were laughing.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Was funny. A way to deal with the hard things, I'm sure.

[Robbie Hoffman]

I'm sure it's cultural, I'm sure. And you need to have rough. There's a roughness to comedy. It isn't polite all the time. It's not sensitive all the time. It's just funny. If you grow up that way, politeness and decorum is kind of to the side because you can't. You. You can't invest in those things necessarily. I had a joke early on in my career, which my friend Jess gives me a hard time about. My sister worked at Starbucks, and sometimes I would meet her after work and she would close up the shop. So sometimes at midnight, whenever. I don't know if it was 24 hours, but it was like, till midnight, and she was. She lived in an apartment four subway stops away, and she would walk home. She had two very long, scary blocks, dead of the winter snow, dark. That she would have to walk home. Not too far, but not a comfortable walk home. But she would walk home in a very unflattering. And I don't know how to say this, that wouldn't be disgusting, that wouldn't be rude, that wouldn't be offensive. But she would walk home in a way that mimics somebody with physical disability. Okay. She would limp or do something really crazy for the entire two walks to make herself, quote, unquote, less desirable for a sexual predator. And it's too bad that that's the way the world is. But these are the safety concerns she did. And I used to say that as a joke. And I used to do her walk. I don't do the walk anymore. But of course, comedy isn't always comfortable. It's like that was a protective defense mechanism. Okay. If sexual predators. Mostly men. Thank you. They're mostly into young, able bodied girls. She has to be. Not that. So it's not always polite and it's not always comfortable. I think the idea of comfort generally, even when you ask me if I'm comfortable, is a rich thing. These are concepts. Even if you ask somebody how they grew up, they won't even tell you rich. They'll say, we were comfortable. I've never heard the word growing up. Comfortable. What, we're not comfortable? Nobody is comfortable. There's roaches in the fucking sink. I'm not comfortable. The snow has come through the window. I gotta put cellophane on it. Nobody is comfortable. Right. And we're very comfortable being uncomfortable. But the rich are not. And they dictate what is comfortable and what isn't. They are uncomfortable. Often they don't talk about things. Things like money, they don't talk about. They don't talk about politics, money. Whether I wanted to talk about it or not. As a kid, we had one phone in the. In the main, when you walk into the house, it was a table with a phone on it. That was the phone. And my mother was screaming about money on that phone from the morning till she doesn't have it. What's gonna be. What's the. How much does the bus passes. We heard everything. It's not like if I didn't want to hear about it. It's like the rich have their own siloed rooms. It's not like I could go into the other room and not hear her. I heard her. It's basically one room and the walls are thin as hell.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

I want to stay with your upbringing because I do think it's the source of a lot of your comedy.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Nothing uncomfortable. Are you gonna kill me?

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

No. I think it's actually really insightful. Go on.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Okay, thank you. Poor people know how to chill once we are. Okay. The house is a shithole. It's a dump. But it's Friday night. People back from work, school's out, whatever it is. You get into a poor person's house, you got the chips on the table, everybody's got a Coke or a Sprite, whatever they want. Take, take, take, take, take. You're sitting outside, you're shooting the shit. It's a lot more comfortable to hang out in a poor house than when I go to the rich houses like, I hate. Somebody offered me, they said, oh, these people are going to Italy. You should come to the pool. Their house is going to be empty. They're going to Italy. It's like, I don't want to go to that pool. I don't want to be in somebody's house. They're not there. And then I gotta, like. I don't know if this, you know, it's just. It's. It's. It's just a little bit bizarre. I'll probably go to the pool, but it's not.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

You know what I mean?

[Robbie Hoffman]

It's not like the most.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

I don't know if I believe you that you're not going to the pool.

[Robbie Hoffman]

I might go to the pool, but I'm just saying it's not like I'm

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

like, ah,

[Robbie Hoffman]

if one day is my pool, I'll be like a little bit more, ah. But I don't know if I'll ever do a pool anyway. It's a whole other conversation. I think it's a lot of maintenance.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Probably. It is.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Probably.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

I want to ask you one more thing about this period. Eventually you leave Crown Heights, you move down to Florida. You're there for a little bit, and then your grandfather.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Wow. How did you hear the Florida piece? I always skipped the Florida piece. We were there for like a year, but okay, you did your research. She's not fucking around. She knows her shit. We're at the New York Times, baby. Okay, go ahead.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

So your grandfather then comes and rescues your mother from your abusive father, and you all move to Canada, you leave your dad behind.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Yes.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Did you become more secular at that moment? What was it like to sort of move from a religious community to a less religious environment?

[Commercial Narrator (Princess Cruises)]

What was the issue?

[Robbie Hoffman]

So it wasn't overnight? Yeah, exactly. Transition is the exact word. You said it good there. I was kosher till 19, right? So I was still. We were definitely kosher in the house. Like, you know, I got a mezuzah here. I mean, I'm not an animal. So there's still things, you know, I don't need to die. Like, there's still remnants. I don't know that I totally transitioned out. When we left, we weren't immediately not religious. We were still religious. We moved to Montreal. In fact, we moved to a Montreal neighborhood that was the same sect. You know, the biggest difference was not having the father in the home, which meant my mother took on all of the male religious commandments. She did the kiddush, which is Friday night blessing over the wine. And Saturday she did the habdala, which is the service at the end of the Sabbath. She did all the male things. And that is the law is if the father is not in the home, that the mother takes on a lot of the responsibilities.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Was it something that you wanted to break from the religious strictures, or was it something that you were battling against? Or did you.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Well, I didn't feel.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

This was just.

[Robbie Hoffman]

You're asking about my mother's battle. My mother is the one who took us out of that insular community. It's really her story, that part of it. I was born into it. So I don't know that it was such a battle. I just. This was life. This was the day in and the day out of life for my mother. She was starting to open up and say, is this what I want for my life? Is this what I want for my kids life? My brothers, for instance, were not learning English, they were learning Yiddish, and they were learning the Bible, Torah. And my mother is proficient in English. My mother is potentially the. The most well read person I've ever met in my whole life. So she had a big dissonance between her kids not being able to read the classics later on. Like, what am I doing to these boys that they're only learning Bible and they're not learning their own language? So there were things like that that my mother has shared later that led her to be like, I don't want my kids living like this. Beyond her own abuse and what she was facing, she was thinking about, what kind of people are we gonna be?

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

You end up going to a private Jewish school on scholarship. You said in an interview that you had to find your voice, that you had been sounding jappy, and those were your words in order to fit in at high school.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Okay, I wouldn't use such language. I would never use it. I'm quoting it. Shout yes, yes, yes. Go ahead, Japi. Shout out to my Japanese fans. Nothing to do with you. Jewish American princess.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Yes.

[Robbie Hoffman]

It's a derogatory term for Jewish girls, which I can use. Go ahead. Does anyone give you a hard time back in the interview?

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Oh, friend.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Oh, really?

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Oh, yeah.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Name names.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Not by the way.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Okay.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

After.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Okay, well, I can't wait for the tea.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

I was curious about when you gave up that sort of pretense of trying to fit in with that crowd and that you had kind of adopted this Persona.

[Robbie Hoffman]

It was another transition, Right. It's also a teenage thing. It is. I think many teenagers want to fit in. I was already poor. I was the outside. I was going to this nice school, which still was a huge opportunity in the end, was a net positive and really did teach me a lot. It was hard socioeconomically to not fit in and feel looked down upon, but it also created a fire in me. But it was a transition. I remember I really tried. I got so lucky. So I'm going to the school. I'm pretty. I had a great figure. So I tried to really. There was two things. Not only was I hiding where I came from and the classism of it all, but I was also hiding the boyishness of it all. I want it to be feminine and girly and don't. I was always a loud kid. I was always annoying. I hated these things about me. I still hate being annoying, and I'm working on it, but it is what it is. But it wasn't for girls to be like. If you were, like, if you were outspoken as a girl or you. It was just, like, unladylike and still, like, not hot, not cool. So I was kind of pushing that, too. And I kind of went the other way also. One of my good friends sat me down probably in ninth grade and said, like, I'm bringing down the group that, like, I can't wear a backpack anymore. I gotta have a purse, a tote. We're putting all our shit in a tote. We're not doing school bags anymore. And I was like, but these books are so heavy. I can't do one shoulder. I need both shoulders. I almost need the clip here. You know what I mean? Like, these math books. Are you kidding me? So I remember she was like, no, we got. You got to get a purse.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Like, you're bringing down the group.

[Robbie Hoffman]

You're bringing down the group. And there were signs early on, because the purse I got was from Levi's. It was a used Levi's. It was a Green quarterized Levi's with a Levi's pocket. And I would try and do things I wanted to, you know, I tried like looking better or more feminine or whatever and leaning into my, my looks and you know, and also talking different, you know, because when I moved I would say words like orange. But you say orange. So I remember doing that. I'm going to say orange. I'm going to say orange. Anymore. Orange is for losers, right? They know you're poor. If you say orange, they know you're poor. Orange is oat, right? So stuff like that. I was always thinking how I look, how I sound, how I look, how I sound, how I look, how I sound. And over time, as I came out, as I started stand up, it was all about like leaning back in. It was all about like, we're just going a hundred percent. I'm still. When you're on stage, it gives you an excuse to be a thousand percent you.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Another big transition for you. You were actually outed when you were 17. In a way that sounds like something out of Mean Girls.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Mm, Bro, this was brutal. So I had a girlfriend, Italian, and this girl wanted to be out of the closet with me. And I was like, I'm not being fucking gay. Are you out of your mind? There's no way I didn't look, I'm not doing that. I'm doing well in school, getting a great job and that's gonna be the end of that. I'm not gonna be doing all this gay shit in my head. And so she would say fine. And I just like wouldn't talk to her in public.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

You didn't wanna come out at this point because you just didn't feel like it was anyone's business or you were.

[Robbie Hoffman]

I don't even think, I don't know how long this is gonna go. As soon as I found out I was gay, I was already living on my own. I was already having to make rent. I was in school full time. I was working basically full time too. I was living a really grown up life and I just could not have another thing, you know. And I was a very good kid by this point. I was taking school very seriously. So I didn't go out too much, but I went out. This is where it gets sloppy. So we went to the student bar and I was with all my friends and she was with hers. So then at some point I think she texted me to her in the bathroom. So I went to meet her in the bathroom. Soon we went into the stall together. There's a Line, you know, the bathroom. So finally we got a stall. We get on the stall together, and we're making out in the stall. There's 17. Who cares? And the door sprung open and. And so we were left, like, we pulled our embrace apart. And a girl that I had gone to school with, part of the Jewish community, saw me. This popular girl, didn't see me kissing, but something was what was going on. And, yeah, by the next day, it felt like everybody knew. It felt like the scene from a walk to remember. I was just walking through the cafeteria and everybody was like. Like, she's gay. So it's really. I really thought I'm, like, lucky to be here. I really thought. I, I. It was the worst time in my life. I lost all my friends overnight at 17.

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Wow.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Yeah. All but two. My friends told me they thought it was just weird

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and.

[Robbie Hoffman]

I don't know. It was. Yeah, they just thought it was weird. And again, it wasn't a time where nobody was gay. Just we were in still a pretty conservative environment. And then I had a couple friends. My friend Malay, shout out to Malay. She messaged me, yo, dog. Like, I don't care what's going on here to talk if you want. And then my friend Ally, whose mother was always nice, she was like, I don't give a shit. Whatever. I hear stuff's going on. You can talk to me. You don't have to talk to me. There was a couple people who were a bit of a lifeline.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

That's terrible.

[Robbie Hoffman]

It was really bad.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

All right, you eventually go to McGill, you study accounting, you started doing standup.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Yeah.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

And you were getting your first study paychecks as an accountant after you graduated, but you continued doing standup, going by Rivka, your given name, at work, and Robbie in the comedy clubs. Can you talk me through that? Was that like an alter ego? You saw them as two different people or.

[Robbie Hoffman]

No, no, it wasn't like a Beyonce, Sasha Fierce. It was literally a pract. Um, my name was Rifka, but I didn't want the accounting firm to think that I did stand up or I wasn't living for the firm because it was a very big culture at these professional jobs that, like, you live and die for this firm. Like, so when I started standup, I didn't want really, people knowing that I was leaving to do standup, like, leaving at 7pm to go do standup shows. So I just didn't want my name on any flyers or anything. So that's why I went with Robbie. It was my Uncle's name. It was an R initial.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

I watched a TedX talk you gave in 2014.

[Robbie Hoffman]

I hate that that's still up there. It's, It's. It makes me cringe beyond. But go ahead. I don't know why. I kind of, as someone who researched

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

you, I found this to be very private.

[Robbie Hoffman]

First of all, it was poignant. It was good. Good job, younger Rob. I don't know why I'm salty about shit I shouldn't even be salty about. I look for problems. This is what I do. To complain is to enjoy for me. And so I can't even look at something good and say, you know what? That was a good thing. Fine.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

So one thing you said is comedy chooses you.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Oh, yeah.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

And you also said the stage understands me and it's where I'd like to live.

[Robbie Hoffman]

It's crazy because I'm like, the most uncomfortable to bring it back to comfort. Like, probably one on one, probably like little small talks or kind of little dinner parties or something like that where I can be a little bit socially. But on stage, when everything goes black in the room and the lights are on me, I feel like I'm in a womb. I feel like. Like I'm free. And I always worked small and then bigger, bigger, bigger. And now I'm working in large. I feel like, you know, like, there's some artists who paint still lifes on. On 8 by 10 canvases and small works. And then there's like the Jackson Pollocks that need, like a bucket of paint splashing from here to the other room onto a canvas the size of this rug. And I feel like I'm like, these stages are those. I'm working in massive scale now, much bigger sale. And I feel at fucking home, really. I'm like, these theaters are my shit.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Why do you think that is?

[Robbie Hoffman]

I don't know. It's amazing. I don't know how to explain it better than that. But I do think that comedy chooses you. I think you can choose it. And the people who choose it, you know, some of them, you can tell they chose it and it didn't choose them. And, you know, it's. Everybody's on their own journey. But I also, you know, it's very difficult because as soon as I started standup, I was like, I gotta do this now. Like, this is really throwing a wrench into my plans. I was gonna marry good, get a good job, and just live, like middle class, like, whatever. Like, you know, just consistently live, maybe have a condo, have a husband that now I'M gay now the job's gone. Now I gotta. I have to really consider pursuing art, which seemed like the poorest thing you could do. And I'm trying not to be poor anymore. And now I'm like, I could be really poor. Like, this is no joke, Rob. But I just. I felt like it was a calling because, yeah, I don't want to. I wanted not to be, but. But it was like, well, I do have this shot and I do have it, so I can't believe it, but I have to do this.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

You said earlier that growing up nothing was too taboo to joke about. And you know, in your comedy it is true. Nothing is off limits in your material. You said in a recent interview that anyone can do anything. I just want to explore a little bit about, like, how you think about your comedy.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Okay. Yeah.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

You know, do you mean you don't have to be part of a group to make fun of it?

[Robbie Hoffman]

I think anyone could do anything, but you're at your own risk. So, for instance, Chappelle can joke about trans people. He's not trans. He's not on the trans spectrum, but he can do it. But people can clap back. I think you can do whatever the hell you want, but also know that it could be perceived by people however the hell they want.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

How do you think about what you would or wouldn't do? Because you've joked about aids, pedophilia, late term abortions. Is there something that. Yeah, I know that. That's quite a list.

[Robbie Hoffman]

You gotta go listen to the jokes. You can't just.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

No, exactly. I wanna make that clear. Gotta go listen to the jokes.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Okay.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

It's hard to talk about comedy actually out of context.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Thank you. Please.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

I wanna say, but is there something that you won't joke about or haven't found the right way to joke about?

[Robbie Hoffman]

I'm sure I don't know how to answer that. I really joke about jokes come to you. It's divine. I don't choose ideas. Where do ideas. It gets philosophical. Where does an idea come from? Yes. You're informed by your life and all of the experiences. And then one day you're walking, you're like, oh, that would be funny. Ooh, can I do that? Can I not? Well, I'll have to try.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Is there like a Robbie Hoffman joke? Like, is there? Because you have a very distinctive style. All the great comics do.

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[Robbie Hoffman]

Like, I'm just trying to get her. I'd be. You'd be better able to describe what Robbie Hoffman comedy is like than me. It's very hard for me to objectively see myself.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

That's fair.

[Robbie Hoffman]

You know, it's like whatever I talk about, it's because it came to me. It wasn't that deep. It can go deep as I explore the topic. And oftentimes probably I've been told that it's like not what you expect.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

How do you feel about being controversial? Because you said that people can be make jokes and people also have a right to clap back. I mean, you know, there is this continuum where the more famous you get, the more scrutiny you get, the more backlash you get. I can see that through line in your career already when you just had the celiacs come after you.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Yeah, the only two communities that have come after me hysterically enough have been the pit bull community. After the special in which I said some of the. I talked about some of the topics you listed so elegantly a couple minutes ago. Of all the things I said in that special, raising the age of abortion till 10 years old, the pit bull people came after me. Turns out they're as scary as the dog. I did not know this. Okay. The only other people to come after me is the celiac community. I mean, you can't make this stuff up, right? And celiac is a real disease that affects mostly white women who are privileged to have health care to get the diagnosis. Right. People of color tend to be less aware or not diagnosed with these things as much because they lack health care, unfortunately, in this country. So it was a funny, you know, I was asked a silly question about it. I was asked a. About gluten in a hard hitting interview with Call Her Daddy. And I responded jokingly, as I always do, but nothing more serious than that. But of course rich white women came after me. As you know, they're at the helm of both the pit bull and the celiac community. So that made sense for me. But of all the things that I've

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

ever said, rich white women are at the head of the pit bull community.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Yeah, they like to rescue dogs, which is great. I'm just joking, right? Just like I joked about those other things, you know, they're not upset. It's amazing that more people from other communities haven't. It's always like the people who are like, I don't know, I have a problem too. It's like, yeah, we all have problems, bitches. It's fine. You know, it's kind of like, I shouldn't get in trouble. I will get in trouble for this. But it's kind of like how I feel about Anti Semitism, like, anti Semitism is bad. I don't want antisemitism. I get that. But is it the worst thing? No. To me right now it's not. Especially living in a country where there's massive anti Mexican sentiment and Mexican people are currently being rounded up or made to fear that they're gonna be rounded up. So sorry if I'm not screaming as much about antisemitism as you want me to. Right now, I have bigger focuses on some of my neighbors that are going through horrendous anti Mexican sentiment. So, yes, it's bad, but I'm not such a person that thinks, oh, I'm gonna live a life free of any problems. You asked me about being offended with my comedy and all this stuff. Okay? I don't think being offended is the worst thing. I think being poor is, for me, offended. Some people expect to go through a life of not being offended, I guess. Not me. I was born offended. My whole circumstance was fucking offensive. Again, like I said, if I hit your community, I'm also hitting my community. They're hitting me. You're hitting me. It's all fair game. It doesn't mean anything more than that, but that it's a more inclusive approach. I'm including everybody. Nobody is above. I was asked a question. Would I go out of my way to talk about Celiacs? Never in a million years. I don't even want to know about it. Okay? That said, did I happen to bring more awareness to celiac than anybody else has? Look what that did. In the end, how many people are more aware of it? So look at God. He sends us gifts in ways we don't understand. But, yeah, everything is fair game. And I don't expect to live a life not being offended. And I don't think. I think it's okay for something to bristle you and to make you think something or feel something or react somehow.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Well, you're articulating a Robbie Hoffman joke. I mean, in a real way. You're articulating something that you like to make people.

[Robbie Hoffman]

I don't like. I just do, I guess. My existence. It's not like I. Like. I didn't set out to do anything. I'm acting in the moment, reacting to stuff that, you know. It's not that serious. I'm not a journalist. I'm not from the New York Times. I'm a comedian, you know what I mean? So I might not know everything, and I'm wrong a lot, and that's fine, too. I'm not expecting to be right all the time. Not expecting to live an offensive free life. I just don't have expectations like this.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

So I guess just to bring it back.

[Robbie Hoffman]

So I'm not trying to do anything but just be me, and when I get an idea, bring it to you.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

All right. We only have a few minutes left.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Love you. I'm having a good time, actually.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Good. Me too. You're in the TV show Hacks, which just ended. What's the experience meant for you?

[Robbie Hoffman]

Oh, amazing. It changed my life. I mean, it changed my life. I'm Emmy nominated actor now. Congratulations. Thank you. Six lines in Emmy. By the grace of God. And yeah, it's just. It's been an amazing experience. I don't know, it's just. It's everything. You would want a part written for you and gets you an Emmy nom. It's amazing. I have no complaints there.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

I was really entertained by a recent article.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Oh, good.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Where I saw the headline, how hacks botched its Yiddish line. It was in response to a cutaway gag from one of the last episodes of Hacks. The scenes, just a few seconds, and you say this line in Yiddish. And the author wrote that the line was grammatically incorrect and then said very archly, quote, as any fluent Yiddish speaker will confirm.

[Robbie Hoffman]

I asked my mother how to say, what was it? Free. I was using the word fry, and my mother said, machinam. So I add the first part of the line, which maybe was grammatically incorrect. Who cares? A commedia. It's not a very used word in Yiddish to say a comedy show. It's kind of an English schism in Yiddish. So it's like, this is what annoys me about Jews. It's like they want me to speak about anti Semitism. We get Yiddish onto the show, and then this Jewish publication has an issue with the Yiddish. So, yeah, I may have gotten the grammar wrong on there, but my mother got the word right. And it's like, which any Yiddish speaker would know. My mother is fluent in Yiddish. I asked her one word on the phone. She doesn't need to be indicted for this.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Feels like it hurts you.

[Robbie Hoffman]

No. Bothered me. Annoyed. You see, it goes to your thing of, like, with more fame. You know, you have, like, the scrutiny and, you know, my little sister gets excited about all these things because she's like, we're going up, up, up, up, up. You know, when you have the hater, she's like, you have to start having. So she gets excited with all these. Listen. Because it means they care, right? Like, if they if I'm being scrutinized. Well, I'm not a nobody to be scrutinized anymore. They wouldn't scrutinize me if I was a nobody. But I'm somebody now. Everything I say is, did she? Did she? Come on, we have other fish to fry.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

All right, we are going to talk again Thursday for now.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Yeah. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. Thank you guys.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

After the break, I talk to Robbie again and ask if the pressure of being famous is getting to her.

[Robbie Hoffman]

The whole point is I'm new to this. I think people are curious about that. I'm new to this and you know, I don't want anyone or I don't need anyone coming for.

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[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Hi. Nice to see you again.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Nice to see you again.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

You're stretching because you're on the. You're on the east coast now.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Yes, I wore up last night.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

What does that mean? Were you doing stand up?

[Robbie Hoffman]

Yeah.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Oh, how fun. How was it?

[Robbie Hoffman]

Really good, actually. Yeah, it's been good. It was a late night, but it Was a good night. Ooh, this is pulling. But I'm good. I'm good, I'm good.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Okay. You know, one of the reasons I wanted to talk to you is not only because I've admired your work, but I'm also really interested in transition periods in people's lives. And we spoke about sort of many of yours in our first conversation and about how this moment, you've become a lot more famous and there's a real big period of transition for you now.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Yeah, that's true.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

You know, and I just sort of wondered because of that, you know, we did talk about in our first conversation some of the criticism that you might have received, and I wonder if. It just feels hard to deal with.

[Robbie Hoffman]

I would say, you know, I'm so used to so many changes. My career has, again, been very slow and steady. I think that by the time you're ready for a promotion, it might be too late. So I think I'm ready. But it is interesting. You know, the whole point is I'm new to this. I think people are curious about that. I'm new to this, and, you know, I don't want anyone or I don't need anyone coming for me. But I think the big thing for me as I navigate this next level is like, what? Why am I successful? Why are my shows successful? Why does everybody come together? And I think it's because I don't need to be a part of, like, this big machine of dividing us by having us squabble about this and that, the red and the blue of it all. You know what I mean? I'm like, it's enough partaking in petty squabbles when we have bigger shit going on. You know what I mean? And if you want the us versus them, at my core, it's always been about the rich versus the poor. And that's what we, you know, I think we need to focus on. I always bring it back to that. You know, I think struggle brings us together. And I've just been screaming about this since growing up the way I grew up. And whenever somebody tries to, like, grab me into their thing, it's no problem. Happy to be a part of a billion communities, but I don't need to get lost in the tit for tat.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Part of your fame is also compounded by your relationship with Gabby Windy, who you married last year.

[Robbie Hoffman]

She's unbelievable. Thank God for her.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Yeah, she was on the Bachelor and Bachelorette, and she was also breakout on the Traitors, which I love.

[Robbie Hoffman]

The Bambi's oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Okay, I've got a question first. Did you think she was traitor material or did you always see her as a faithful?

[Robbie Hoffman]

I thought she was a faithful. She doesn't need all the stress of lying. The problem is we can't really lie. That's probably why we get in trouble sometimes. We say this, we say that. Some people ask me like, oh, you would be on the show. I'd be out first. Like I would literally be out first. First of all, I'd be like, I'm a traitor, you gotta get rid of me. Like I would be too nervous. Like I would need to go home. I don't have the temperament for it. You know, I'm simultaneously again, the most nervous and confident person. I don't know how that happened either, but I'm always this dichotomous. I'm always non binary, not just in the gender sense. I'm Canadian, I'm American, I'm nervous, I'm confident. The whole thing is a disaster. So I don't think I have the temperament for that show. That said, she is a fighter. She did amazing. And I said when she would call, I got one, one call a week with her and I would just say, just take the money and come home. Fuck em, just, this is a game. And that's that. I don't know if you can swear.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Yeah, yeah.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Really? Oh, I'm. I'm stuck again. Seth, my hair is stuck.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Seth will come and save you.

[Robbie Hoffman]

He keep. I have a man in my hotel room. It's been a minute, I gotta say, since I've had a man in my hotel room. I lost my virginity, actually, with a man in a New York City hotel room.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

I think the bobby pin's doing the

[Robbie Hoffman]

job, so I'm just gonna remove this clip altogether. Okay, fantastic. You got it? Okay. Sorry about that.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Thank you for sharing that.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Yeah, it was fine. Three thrusts maybe.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Okay, so. So back to Gabby, your wife. I've seen you talk about her with so much love and so much respect. It's actually incredibly beautiful.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Thank you.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Have you had to figure out what a good relationship looks like because of the chaos of your upbringing? The chaos of her upbringing?

[Robbie Hoffman]

Yeah, of course. I mean, I'm, you know, we met in our 30s because of the ways we grew up. Like I grew up, yes, Single mom, household poor. But I did have, in a way, a pretty stable. I know I moved from New York to Montreal and there was that stint of Miami which you caught. Lulu doesn't miss anything.

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But

[Robbie Hoffman]

my mother was home every day this woman was cooking and cleaning, cooking and cleaning, cooking and cleaning. I knew every day where my mother was. To this day, if I gotta go find my mother, I know exactly where she is. Gab didn't have that. Gab didn't have that. Gab had, you know, maybe, you know, a parent who was not there oftentimes didn't know where the parent was, you know, then went to live with her dad. But I'm just saying she didn't have that consistency. So Gab used to think that bringing up something with me would be. That I would leave if she had. If she thought I was annoying, which we've established. I've long been annoying, and I apologize. So she used to like, if. If something hurt her feelings or if, I don't know, she didn't like the way that I did something. If I left the cabinet open so it could be tiny, she just wouldn't say because she wouldn't want me to go away. But I was like, I'm not, babe. I'll close the cabinets. It's just insane. We can't live like this. Try me. Try me. So she had to get comfortable trusting that, and I had to get comfortable that she was tepid about everything. So it just worked. It's kind of like it's not our job to heal each other, but through the relationship, we are healing each other. It's not the job, but it's the cherry. And it's just really nice to, like, design kind of the life of you want to. It's like I've said with Gab, when I was a kid and I hated my brothers, I would just come home and complain about my brothers all the time. And my mother would say, you don't choose your family. They're your brothers. And then I realized there's a loophole. If I marry Gabby, I choose my family. That's the one time you choose your family. Choose wisely.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Last question. The theme.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Last question.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Yeah, we're just.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Okay.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

So the thing that you've made clear, I think, throughout our entire conversation, is that class is at the center of how you want to communicate your comedy, your work. And, you know, it made me really reflect about, in many ways, how America always wants to present itself as so aspirational and to hide the ugliness, the trauma, the poverty that underlies it all. And I think what makes you so provocative is that you are really trying to put that front and center in a way that I don't think many people are. Have you felt that dissonance have you. Do you feel.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Yes, I do feel it. Especially doing more oats or Elites publications. That's why I'm nervous, like, with the times or things like this, you know, I'm always. You asked me if I was comfortable in my own house last time. No, I'm not comfortable. So I just think that, like, I'm cognizant to just always be me, stand what I stand for, no matter what. And we can start really changing the focus to not be distracted and to focus on us, not you versus me or this or that. It's just classism affects everybody. The conversation, basically, to answer your question, simply, it shouldn't be a new conversation. It's. It's a big conversation, and it's the conversation. I don't know if that's even more succinct. What do you think, Seth? He nodded. Do you think that's succinct? Pithy. What's pithy and succinct? Pithy is short. Succinct is also short.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

I'm glad. Seth, our producer, Seth, Shout out to

[Robbie Hoffman]

Seth, who's literally sitting on the floor in my hotel room. I wish. Can we pull the camera here?

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

All right. Robbie Hoffman, thank you so much. I've really appreciated your time. That's it.

[Robbie Hoffman]

Okay. Oh, my God. We're finally done. Okay. Thank you, Lulu. Thank you to everyone. Thank you.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

Thank you. I appreciate you.

[Robbie Hoffman]

I appreciate you. Thanks, guys.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

That's Robbie Hoffman. To watch this interview and many others, you can subscribe to our YouTube channel at YouTube.com@. The interview podcast this conversation was produced by Seth Kelly. It was edited by John Woo, mixing by Afim Shapiro, original music by Dan Powell and Marion Lozano, photography by Devin Yelkin. The rest of the team is Priya, Matthew Wyatt, Orem, Paola Neudorf, Joe, Bill Munoz, Eddie Costas, Kathleen o' Brien and Brooke Minters. Our executive producer is Allison Benedict. Next week, but the week after, we'll share David's interview with Mick Jagger. You have to have a huge ego to do this.

[Robbie Hoffman]

If you don't, lots of people that do this, that don't have huge egos have huge problems.

[Lulu Garcia Navarro]

I'm Lulu Garcia Navarro, and this is the interview from the New York Times.

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